Healthy self-esteem occurs when you can express your true identity. John Voris and Solarzar talk about self-esteem; how people generate meaning in their lives based on their values and how that is tied to the Life Theme and Authentic Identity.
There is something that is deeper than our personality at work that is running the show. Our personality is merely the way we appear in social situations. It is not what drives us. What drives us are ancient archetypal forces based on moral and