This podcast episode features Certified Professional Coach Mary Ann Palmer who shares her struggles with denial about the severity of her son’s addiction and how she overcame it. She addresses misconceptions about addiction and stresses the imp

The Close Up Look At What To Do With A Loved One’s Addiction Intervention

Oct 5th, 2023 1h 16m

Chris and Danny provide a walkthrough of what to expect during a professionally led family intervention process. Episode Highlights Danny shares a recent case of a concerned mother and father whose adult son is facing alcoholism The need to ha

Recovery is a Long-term Commitment with Brinn Flagg

Sep 21st, 2023 56m 56s

Chris had guest Brinn Flagg to discuss her personal and professional experience with handling other people's addictions. She shares her knowledge on addiction and codependency. She suggests clear communication and boundary setting and stresses

How Separation, Empathy & Compassion Can Help Your Addicted Loved One

Sep 7th, 2023 56m 47s

Chris and Danny talk about the mindset and perspective shift families gain by applying separation, empathy and compassion to their loved one's addiction. Episode Highlights The concept of separating loved ones from their addiction Seeking info

How To Help Your Loved One Who's New To A 12 Step Program

Jul 27th, 2023 1h 13m

Chris and Danny discuss the action steps you can expect to see your loved one taking when starting out in a 12-step program and what you can do to be helpful in their recovery journey. Episode Highlights The importance of helping families unde

How To Beat Your Own Resistance To Helping An Addicted Loved One

Jul 13th, 2023 1h 3m

Chris and Danny discuss personal experiences, parenthood, combating addiction, and interventions. They use the story of Chris’ recent trip to a gun range to relate to the process of addressing addiction, emphasizing the need for expert guidance

6 Ways Addiction Is Like A Fire (it doesn’t stop on it’s own)

Jun 23rd, 2023 1h 20m

Chris and Danny discuss the various similarities between fighting addiction and fighting a fire since Chris recently retired from the FDNY. They also discuss the importance of leverage, how intervention makes the once seemingly impossible now r

How Group Coaching Can Help You Get Your Loved One Sober

Jun 8th, 2023 57m 46s

Chris and Danny discuss the crucial role of effective communication and support for families dealing with a loved one's addiction. They emphasize building resilience through facing adversity and failures. A new six-week closed group intensive i

How To Bring People In Who Can Support Your Loved One's Addiction Recovery

May 25th, 2023 1h 3m

Chris and Danny discuss the value of having supportive people in your corner while dealing with a loved one's addiction. They cover the concept of "bring someone in" from the "DEBBIE Method" in multiple ways. They also discuss the crucial roles

How To Unlearn Feeling Helpless About Your Loved One's Addiction

May 11th, 2023 56m 45s

Chris and Danny discuss overcoming the feeling of helplessness when dealing with addiction, for both addicts and their family members. They emphasize the importance of separating the addiction from the person and recognizing it as an illness ra

8 Mistakes You Make When Your Loved One Has An Addiction

Apr 6th, 2023 1h 8m

Chris and Danny discuss the Stop D.R.E.A.M.I.N.G. Framework, an essential tool designed specifically for families who are courageously grappling with the complex challenges of a loved one's addiction. This transformative approach not only promi

So Your Loved One Says "The 12 Steps Don't Work For Everyone"

Mar 23rd, 2023 57m 3s

In this episode, Chris and Danny discuss some of the benefits of 12-step recovery, including their effectiveness and common resistance to them. They emphasize the importance of having an open mind and committing to the program, even in the face

The 4 Part Connection Formula To Beat Your Loved One's Addiction

Mar 9th, 2023 1h 9m

In this episode, Chris and Danny discuss a few case studies that highlight some simple things families can do that they wouldn’t necessarily think to do on their own. Connection makes the difference. They discuss the 4-part connection formula

One Thing You Can Do To Gain A "Leg Up" On Your Loved One's Addiction

Feb 23rd, 2023 54m 7s

If you are a family member with a loved one who needs help, it is important to get support before you offer support. In this episode, Chris and Danny discuss the importance and benefits that come when you Model Recovery, both for your addicted

How Euphoria And Physical Craving Explains Why Your Loved One Can't Stop

Feb 9th, 2023 1h 2m

According to the 2021 National Home Survey on Drug Use and Health, 44 million American adults ages 18+ have a substance use disorder. This means the possibility of having a family member or a loved one needing help is high. If you are seeking t

The Mindset Shift You Need To Get Your Loved One Into Treatment

Jan 26th, 2023 54m 8s

It is challenging to help a loved one struggling with any type of addiction. Sometimes, a direct conversation can spearhead the road to recovery. However, when it comes to addiction, the person struggling with the problem won’t be able to see i

Throwing Out Misconceptions That Keep Your Loved One Sick In Active Addiction

Jan 12th, 2023 56m 17s

A good number of people with active addiction are unfortunately in a lot of pain during the months of January and February. As a loved one, should you just watch them succumb to their addictions? Is there something that you can do to solve the

How To Master Healthy Boundaries Vs. Consequences & Ultimatums

Dec 15th, 2022 1h 4m

Substance and alcohol use can ruin not only your addicted loved one’s lives.. but also yours. If you’ve reached the end of your rope and you can’t take it anymore, should you deliver an ultimatum? Can ultimatums really solve the problem? For to

What Are Some Surprisingly Honest Benefits Of A Substance Abuse Intervention?

Dec 8th, 2022 1h 15m

How often do family members deal with a drunk relative during the holidays? Amidst the glitter, the glamor, and the fun of the holidays, it can be frustrating to deal with family members who drink or misuse substances. These situations can be f

4 Horrible Obstacles That Can Ruin a Substance Abuse Intervention

Dec 1st, 2022 48m 1s

January is often a time when people realize they need help with their addicted loved ones, and we encourage anyone in need of assistance to reach out for help. For today’s episode, Chris and Danny discuss the importance of raising awareness abo

27 Sayings That People Who Get Sober Are Astonished By (Part 2)

Nov 25th, 2022 59m 24s

Words are powerful, especially during early recovery. Building connections with someone struggling with recovery can either make or break their progress. For today’s episode, Chris and Danny discuss how behaviors like gambling can lead to other

27 Sayings That People Who Get Sober Are Astonished By (Part 1)

Nov 17th, 2022 46m 19s

In the recovery world, it is often said that the first drink gets you drunk. This means that once someone with trouble dealing with alcohol or drugs takes that first one, they are unable to stop. This is because addiction is an illness, and the

5 Case Studies To Give You Hope That You Can Help Your Addicted Loved One

Nov 11th, 2022 1h 15m

Chris and Danny discuss multiple ways families can get help for their loved ones, some of which are outside traditional norms and expectations. They talk about how the podcast is the best way to get information out to families and how it is hel

Families Have More Power Than What They’re Led To Believe with Amanda E. White

Nov 11th, 2021 55m 49s

If a family member is dealing with addiction, what should the other family members do? Should they immediately take them to rehab or should they start a family conversation? Christopher welcomes Amanda E. White, Licensed Therapist and creator o

How and When to Talk with the SuperEgo, Anti-Hero or the Survivor

Nov 4th, 2021 56m 36s

Many people don’t really understand why other people become addicted to alcohol, substances, or drugs. But if a loved one is suffering from it, what’s the best thing to do in this situation? Christopher and Danny talk about the very definition