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I'm 36

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and about to start family therapy

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with my mom and dad in hopes of finding some

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healing and doing some repair work

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on a relationship. My question

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is, what does one do

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when harm has been caused in a relationship?

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And you know you're most likely not going

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to get the apologies you need or the

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repair that's needed to feel

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fully okay in that relationship. My

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dad kept a strong

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authoritarian parenting style, lots

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of lectures, lots of tone policing,

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and my mom was a bit more passive. The

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result was that I rarely felt in