Christmas has the reputation of being the most wonderful time of the year. But is it? In this episode Paul and Niki talk about why Christmas is their favorite time of year while exploring why many may not feel that way. Unfortunately, Christmas

[PODCAST #25] How To Be Free - Part 1

Jun 1st, 2022 29m 56s

In this podcast, Paul & Niki share a previously recorded interview that Paul gave on Savage Marriage Ministries podcast show with Phil Fretwell. Paul and Phil talk about what real freedom looks like and how to get and maintain it in your life.

[PODCAST #24] New Book! Interview with Phil & Priscilla Fretwell

May 18th, 2022 25m 21s

In this podcast, Paul & Niki interview Phil & Priscilla Fretwell about their brand new book Savage Marriage. This book is the true, raw, gut-wrenching journey of betrayal and healing of Phil and Priscilla’s marriage. Each, from their own persp

[PODCAST #23] A Major Roadblock to Healthy Communication

May 11th, 2022 24m 53s

Fear Is A Major Roadblock To Healthy CommunicationIn this podcast, Paul & Niki share how fear can derail a couple from experiencing healthy communication.

Healthy Communication

Apr 18th, 2022 28m 58s

In this podcast, Paul & Niki share foundational keys to healthy communication that they have practiced in their marriage.

Niki's Story - Overcoming Fear and Shame

Jan 15th, 2022 28m 40s

In this podcast, Niki shares her story of how she found hope, healing, and freedom.

Grief - A Recap Since Jenny's Passing

Jan 4th, 2022 27m 1s

In this podcast, Paul & Niki share what the last 2.5 years have been like since Jenny's death. Paul shares his experience personally and with the ministry.

Resolving Conflict - Part 5, Identify The Root

Mar 7th, 2018 29m 46s

In this podcast, Paul & Jenny explain why it is important to identify the root of what is driving you in a conflict.

Resolving Conflict...Choosing To Believe The Best

Feb 20th, 2018 28m 6s

In this podcast, Paul and Jenny welcome their special guest, Laurie Bekken, to discuss how believing the best in someone can help you resolve a conflict, or better yet, avoid one completely.

Resolving Conflict...Understanding How You Process

Feb 6th, 2018 34m 56s

In this podcast, Paul and Jenny discuss how to determine if you are an internal or external processor. Once you discover this, it will help you see how the way you are wired is contributing to the conflicts in your life.

Resolving Conflict...Don't be a Fool

Jan 9th, 2018 32m 28s

In this podcast, Paul and Jenny discuss the importance of not being caught up in foolish debates. Proverbs 9:10 says, "rebuke a fool and he will despise you, rebuke a wise man and he will love you." Before we start looking for fools in our liv

A New Look At Conflict

Jan 8th, 2018 29m 40s

Everyone encounters conflicts from time to time, and everyone handles them differently. What is behind your thoughts about how you handle conflict in you life? Listen as Paul & Jenny discuss how discovering what we believed about conflict has t

Five Steps To True Forgiveness - Part 2

Apr 26th, 2017 35m 42s

Forgiveness is choosing to not demand payment for a wrong done toward you by releasing the one who has wounded you into God's hands. What does this kind of forgiveness look like on a practical level? In this episode, you will learn five steps t

Five Steps To True Forgiveness - Part 1

Apr 26th, 2017 30m 38s

What True Forgiveness Looks Like - Part 2

Apr 12th, 2017 29m 56s

How do you know when you have really forgiven someone? Can you really forgive and forget? Does forgiving mean reconciling? These are a few of the questions Paul & Jenny seek to answer in this two part series on True Forgiveness. There are many

What True Forgiveness Looks Like - Part 1

Mar 27th, 2017 28m 51s

How Bitterness Destroys

Mar 15th, 2017 31m 43s

Do you think bitterness doesn’t impact you? Can you be bitter and it not influence your life? We know in Hebrews 12 it talks about a “root of bitterness” defiling many. In this episode, you’ll discover what bitterness does to you. Bitternes

Overcoming Fear - Part 2

Feb 28th, 2017 31m 14s

Fear often hides behind other issues like anger, addiction, and so forth. Because of this, we usually try to deal with the surface issue while not recognizing the deeper problem. To overcome, we must first identify the fear and then face it h

Humility, the Key to Resolving Marital Conflicts

Feb 15th, 2017 38m 24s

In this episode, Paul & Jenny share a memorable Valentine’s Day experience. Their story shows how to practically use humility to walk through an issue instead of letting the issue ruin the relationship.

Can a young man keep his way pure?

Jan 31st, 2017 26m 10s

MEN’S SERIES – Psalm 119:9 says, "How can a young man keep his way pure? By keeping it according to Your word." As a single, what does that look? Listen as Paul and his guest, Mark Hinrichsen, talk about how young men can walk pure and what t

Having The Right Motivation For Change

Jan 18th, 2017 21m 53s

MEN'S SERIES - Paul along with his guest, Antoine Wright, share why change often eludes us. In this podcast, they explain why having the right motivation for change is paramount in creating lasting change.

Happily Married or Miserably Married?

Jan 4th, 2017 23m 22s

MEN'S SERIES - Paul along with his guest Mark Hinrichsen explain what it takes to go from being miserably married to happily married.

Overcoming Fear - Part 1

Sep 8th, 2016 31m 2s

How Pornography Destroys Oneness In Marriage

Jan 27th, 2016 40m 4s

It is said that over 50% of all divorces in the US involve one party with "an obsessive interest in pornographic websites." In this podcast, Paul & Jenny discuss three vital areas of oneness in marriage and how pornographic use (lust) will dest