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a new routines. It's hard, changes
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hard even if it's detains and
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today's guess would love my suggestions
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as to too big and exciting
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changes. The railed his previous strategy
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of. Choosing his neck stream. Caleb.
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Wilson Johnson used to love planning
3:44
his entire reading year in advance.
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As a oriented person, he took
3:48
great joy and discovering the perfect
3:50
books for each season. Sometimes right
3:53
down to identifying the perfect book
3:55
is fit for the specific month
3:57
or even day as a Panzer
3:59
disclosed. Nine. But. He
4:01
would recently got married and moved across the
4:04
state to live with his new husband. Both
4:06
of these joyful offense and really impacted his
4:08
previous reading routine and instead of trying to
4:10
get back to the way things were before
4:13
his curious about exploring the a new path
4:15
forward could look like today came up and
4:17
I are going to think through how he
4:20
can bring a fresh outlook, the planning his
4:22
upcoming mates while keeping in mind his desire
4:24
for engaging and Pleiade books that will
4:26
hold his attention and keep him reading simply
4:28
because he cannot wait to pick the. Book
4:31
back up and find out what happens next.
4:33
Today's episode is all about reading for the
4:35
season you're in. I'm excited to share with
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you. Let's get to it. Caleb.
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Welcome to the So. Thanks. For having
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me I'm so excited to be or. Oh
4:45
it's my father. It's so good to talk
4:47
to you and catch up. We're so excited
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to see that you answered are called to
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our patrons. I thought behind on recording was
4:53
just a lot of personal stuff this winter
4:55
and we ask our patron community as we
4:58
do sometimes to help us record on short
5:00
notice and thank you for answering the call.
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Oh. I couldn't have responded. That's enough
5:04
successor. I appreciate that. See So game
5:07
of I want to introduce you to our
5:09
readers. Tell us a little bit about your
5:11
life, your life in in Detroit these days.
5:14
Yeah. So I live in Detroit,
5:16
Michigan and it just recently moved
5:18
here of this past december of
5:20
two thousand and twenty three after
5:22
living in Lansing for several years.
5:25
So. I got married or.
5:27
Not. To the plot but I got married
5:30
and. Possibly foil
5:32
anything by talking about getting married.
5:34
Yeah, that's what prompted the movie.
5:36
I've lived in Michigan for combined
5:38
total of about ten years now,
5:40
and had been primarily based in
5:43
Lansing. Our which is where
5:45
my job as and then met wonderful
5:47
guy Miles from my goal and. We
5:50
were married this past February
5:52
so we after going you
5:54
know back and forth trying
5:56
to decide where we wanted
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to. Live. He
6:00
owns a home here so we decided it
6:02
would make the most sense for me to
6:05
move to Detroit. Not something that was them
6:07
the the books for me but I am
6:09
enjoying learning about. This.
6:12
Place with so much history and culture
6:14
and it says something that wasn't expected
6:16
a my life but it's been wonderful.
6:19
Or a tough to traits hit
6:21
find. Spot. When. She got.
6:24
Oh. My goodness I'm saying this is someone has only
6:26
been to the airport. Came. In. This.
6:29
Is it? So. Far me too Actually
6:31
before now I'd been in to
6:33
the suburbs of Detroit bite as
6:35
far as the actual city. I
6:38
just didn't know that much about
6:40
it and I will say it's
6:42
probably the best saying it is
6:44
a festival called Dally and the
6:46
Alley and it was where we
6:48
went for i think our second
6:51
like official date actually. So I
6:53
think it's a one day festival
6:55
and they closed down several different.
6:57
Blocks. And a neighborhood
7:00
and. There's. Art
7:02
and music, and all
7:05
sorts of performances happening.
7:08
In. The streets and in the alleyways
7:10
and between the streets. And of
7:12
course you know all of the
7:14
historic homes in Detroit. and everywhere
7:16
you turn. It's really a
7:19
spectacle. I I never been there anything
7:21
quite like it. And for instance, we
7:23
were walking through one little alley going
7:25
from. One. Area to another
7:27
and a marching band just popped up
7:29
and started plane and I don't remember
7:32
the song but I think it was
7:34
like a Britney Spears song played by
7:36
marching band and it was. The.
7:39
Most bizarre but delightful thing that I've
7:41
ever experienced. And so not to mention
7:43
the back that I was there. Be
7:46
no on a day with, you know,
7:48
the person who would eventually had become
7:50
my husband Butts. But yeah, I'd never
7:52
heard of this festival at all and
7:55
it was such a unique experience. There's
7:57
house music, there's rock, there's. Or
7:59
in. The their pop like all
8:01
over. These. Neighborhoods. So many
8:04
one things. And as is
8:06
Amazing. okay coming the soil. Everybody has
8:08
time to plan. Congratulations.
8:11
On your marriage. Thank. You so much.
8:13
And. Also, you mentioned your submission that
8:15
the same. Routine. Well.
8:17
You know what? Caleb, Unless it was it worth in your mouth, tell me
8:20
about it. I will
8:22
say that I'm very introverted, I'm
8:24
a homebody and so yeah was
8:26
pretty settled I would say and
8:29
into my life which was made
8:31
meeting my husband such a. Like.
8:33
Surprising and wonderful thing. but yeah,
8:36
I stay humble. I'm a reader.
8:38
I liked Cut Out, you know,
8:40
just kind of like had my
8:42
routine very much established. I liked
8:44
my neighborhood, I liked my commute
8:46
and all of it. And. You.
8:48
Know never imagine moving to a new
8:50
city. I work remotely so it wasn't
8:52
a huge deal and that regard by
8:54
I do commute to the office one
8:56
day a week so I have about
8:58
an hour and a half drive one
9:00
way. So. All the sudden
9:02
you know there's less time that
9:04
I have for reading. But but
9:07
not only bad, just kind of.
9:09
You know when your life merges
9:11
with another person's as you know
9:13
I'm you know, having been married
9:15
for quite awhile yourself, everything just
9:17
sort of changes. and it's It's
9:19
such a wonderful time of discovery
9:21
about yourself and who you are
9:23
as a person, but also the
9:25
person that you're marrying and and
9:27
combining your life with. And so
9:29
for me, just for instance, I
9:31
would read. Nonfiction. And
9:33
morning for about half an hour to
9:35
get my day started and the quiet.
9:38
and then in the evening I would
9:40
spend several hours. often times staying up
9:42
way too late. I would make a
9:44
cocktail I read for like you know,
9:47
two hours, maybe three and that says
9:49
that was my everyday routine. And so
9:51
now you know we have dogs in
9:54
the house of the mornings are quiet,
9:56
as silent as I'm used to. but
9:58
again all good thing. All very.
10:01
Joyful! Things and then in the
10:03
evening. It. We spend time together. We
10:05
watch Tv, And I do
10:07
have times where I husband is
10:09
working on it, his degree and
10:11
interior design. So there are times
10:13
when he's working on assassin project
10:16
or school project. And so I
10:18
do have those extended hours of
10:20
readings. but again, it's just a
10:22
big change and routine. And then
10:24
you know, the commute on Wednesday
10:26
that that definitely adds another. Element.
10:29
Of change to the make.
10:31
So it's just all been
10:33
delightful and crazy and wonderful
10:36
and different. And. You. Know
10:38
I've been in a bit of a tailspin, but I'm
10:40
I'm settling in. By
10:42
my reading, life has definitely taken a turn
10:44
for sure. Now I think a
10:47
lot of. Readers. Will be in see
10:49
by and maybe to are increasing some
10:51
the. Incident: Systems. Are
10:53
planning the you had your Tbr prior
10:56
to getting married. Like he said, he
10:58
has the missing that sometimes you plan your
11:00
reading right down to the months and it's.
11:03
Getting. Very specific but definitely like being a seasonal
11:05
reader and wanting to read around the season and
11:07
with. The bucks take place
11:09
and. We. Need to hear more about
11:11
that human. Is. It's very
11:13
and circuit add a little bit
11:16
mad depending on who you ask.
11:18
probably bites. I am a very
11:20
seasonal reader. A strong sense of
11:22
place is something bad is really
11:24
important to me and any book
11:26
that I read. so my system.
11:29
Up until now and this is just
11:31
my tendency. altogether. I just want the
11:33
experience to be totally immersive and so
11:36
I live here in Michigan. We do
11:38
have four Seasons decide most people thinking
11:40
it's just went all the time, but
11:42
we do get a nice sampling of
11:45
all four seasons and so I kind
11:47
of want to experience and my actual
11:49
life, what's going on and the book
11:51
that I'm reading so. I. Will
11:54
often. When. I am choosing a book
11:56
or when I saw you know out of bugs
11:58
my tbr. Usually. Are. Either
12:00
purchase the book or sometimes I'll
12:02
go to the little preview on
12:04
Google and I'll just read the
12:06
first few pages. And interesting
12:08
thing as most of the time like the
12:11
beginning of a paragraph or the beginning of
12:13
a chapter will say something that is an
12:15
allusion to. The. Season.
12:18
Or. The minds are the days, especially
12:20
with like epistolary novels or something where
12:22
it they give you the actual day
12:24
I live for those moments because he
12:26
makes it so easy for me to
12:28
the slot it right exactly where I
12:30
won it. But I think more than
12:32
that it's just. you know if I'm
12:35
reading a book that is about the
12:37
holidays and it says Christmas is approaching
12:39
I like that feeling been mirrored in
12:41
my reading. lies. The. I
12:43
will plan. Often times
12:46
my entire Tbr based
12:48
on the minds. The. Year,
12:50
the date. Sometimes I'll even pay
12:52
attention to details like you know
12:54
it. It was a very rainy
12:56
spring and so I know. Kind
12:58
of like where that would fit
13:00
in my Tbr schedule. so it's
13:02
very intricate. It's it's. a little
13:04
bit obsessive, but. It. Really
13:06
enhances the reading experience for me and
13:09
I remember reading the book st acts
13:11
of as like a thriller. And
13:14
even though. That.
13:16
Book took place in a tropical setting.
13:18
It was January and I remember that
13:20
because I was thinking okay, even though
13:22
it's cold here, but they're at a
13:25
tropical. Okay, so like they're escaping to
13:27
a vacation destinations I could still read
13:29
and January because I can feel like
13:31
I was escaping out of the cold
13:33
of Michigan. And some
13:35
interesting you know. I really like the strong
13:37
sense of place my work since I could not
13:40
have passed the puck. Where's the much to
13:42
ask me what month Cynics takes place? It
13:44
was during the school year i think so
13:47
and from school the idea night another. And
13:49
I guess to I can look back on books
13:51
that way and remember kind of the setting. And
13:54
you know the time that I read it and the
13:56
time that it took place based on that approach. And.
13:58
His, It's interesting and that's when the hopper
14:01
Now as we think about what you want
14:03
and you're reading life right now. Okay so
14:05
Caleb, you are finding yourself at a time
14:07
of. Great. Chains and upheaval in your
14:10
reading life. I don't know distress you have to
14:12
say it like that is something that I think
14:14
about all the time as that change the stressful
14:16
it can be good change it can be and
14:18
welcome change. but no matter what, like adapting. To
14:20
change is tough and. Lots of ways.
14:22
And for readers, of course, it's tough
14:24
in the specific way when that happens.
14:27
I. Would have said that before or guy
14:30
I've always been sort of. Not.
14:32
Resistant to change, but because
14:34
I'm such a routine. Oriented.
14:37
Person that probably would have described
14:39
the way that I fell. But.
14:42
This time and and this
14:44
particular situation. The. Way
14:46
that by now has a night. Mad
14:49
like it was a such a.
14:51
Unexpected and wonderful thing that happened to
14:54
my life. It just cause me to
14:56
really lean and to her and it's
14:58
it's felt more like an adventurer. In.
15:01
This situation. But I would have said that
15:03
for sure before because I've. Always
15:05
been such a routine oriented person. Like
15:08
added censor. I love that some Caleb
15:10
I'm gathering the you're not looking to
15:13
replicate we've had in Lansing. In Detroit
15:15
when it comes to your reading life, the goal is
15:17
not to carve out three hours a night for a
15:19
cocktail and many, many chapters of the That Bucks. right?
15:22
I think it's more of an
15:24
invitation for something new and a
15:26
different approach, which I do think
15:28
is refreshing and will kind of
15:30
reinvigorate my reading life. I
15:33
love believe that and also we're
15:35
definitely going to keep in mind
15:37
have you described reading has been
15:39
both enjoyment and centering practice Or
15:41
you. Just. It's both of those things.
15:44
Can we? Were you enjoy eating. He. Said he had
15:46
a pretty good idea of the textbooks. And work for you. Yes,
15:49
Like I mentioned before or something
15:51
with a strong sense of place
15:53
especially books were the place almost
15:55
becomes a character in itself. I
15:58
love books that are. Centered
16:00
around like a house or
16:03
a city or. Something.
16:05
Of that nature. Something. That
16:07
is driven by. An. Exciting
16:10
plot that kind of moves forward.
16:12
I know there are folks out
16:14
there who really enjoyed character driven
16:16
books that are very like interior
16:19
and lots of character development. But.
16:21
I find those books drive me
16:23
crazy a little bit, be heard
16:26
and I need something to happen.
16:28
And I think I remember. Maybe.
16:30
It was you on and podcast episode referencing
16:32
a book in Japan. If you're expecting something
16:34
to happen in this book, this is not
16:37
the book for you. But it was a
16:39
lot of internal monologue with with characters That
16:41
is not a book for me. I really
16:43
need to have a guy just not going
16:45
to me and. This. Which
16:48
was great because I knew that that was
16:50
not for me. but yeah I would say
16:52
strong sense of place and. Saw.
16:54
It would be the top to. Distinguish.
16:57
Months for me and what I'm looking for? A book.
17:00
And yet you like to be surprised. I
17:02
do. Yes, I love a twist even
17:05
if it's not like us thriller kind
17:07
of twist but just something unexpected. I
17:09
do enjoy that I do. I'm surprised.
17:13
I'm excited! To. Hear more. Kill
17:16
a prima disaster Megabucks. Yeah.
17:18
Let's do it. You.
17:20
Know how this works. You're going to tell me three
17:22
books you last one but you don't and what you've
17:25
been reading lately and will talk about what books may
17:27
be right for you in this next test as he
17:29
reading lists and he sees these her today. I.
17:33
Debated. How was going to approach this?
17:36
Whether I was going to choose my like
17:38
all time favorites to like? I keep a
17:40
running list of those because you know sometimes
17:43
that will change throughout. Throughout. Your
17:45
life. You might have said you had
17:47
a book that was like your favorite
17:49
of all time but. With. This
17:51
one I I went back and a couple
17:53
of these are all time favorites for me
17:55
by I tried to think recently I went
17:58
back through my good Reads to see. What?
18:00
I had enjoyed most. Recently.
18:02
And I think I would say like in the past. Two.
18:05
Years probably so this is a more recent
18:07
list. And he lime excited
18:09
to hear about what you can't Caleb, What
18:11
is the first? The que les. The.
18:14
First book I chose was my government means
18:16
to kill me by recede Newson. This.
18:18
Is a book that takes
18:21
place in the eighties and
18:23
it primarily centers around the.
18:26
Aids. Crisis, The Act Up
18:28
Movement, and the story is
18:30
told from the perspective of
18:33
a teenager or young adults
18:35
and he's. Sort. Of
18:37
coming into his own. And
18:40
you see the journey that he's
18:42
on the it's told and from
18:44
the perspective of of this person.
18:47
so it almost reads like a
18:49
memoir. And I would call the
18:51
speculative fiction because while it's based
18:53
on true events. You
18:55
know, this person obviously did not exist
18:57
in our allies, but there are footnotes
19:00
throughout the book that tell you you
19:02
know this might have been the way
19:04
it happened. Or. This
19:06
is the true part of you. know
19:08
this statement and this is. The. Historical.
19:11
Facts about it. but then there are other
19:14
parts of said well this is said to
19:16
have happened or this might have been how
19:18
this took place or this person might have
19:20
been here at this time. So I really
19:22
liked the fact that was based in fact
19:25
and it was told from the perspective of
19:27
this boy. but it was also. Kind
19:29
of. His own experience of how
19:31
he was navigating the world during that time
19:34
and how he became involved an. Act
19:36
Up and also discovering his own
19:38
sexuality. And so there's so many
19:40
components that spoke to me from
19:43
the setting been in New York
19:45
City with very vivid and it.
19:47
I. Also, just I found my own
19:49
self in that story a little bit too.
19:51
And so I'd really love this book and
19:54
I read it so fast because I just
19:56
was so rebutted by what was happening in
19:58
the story. That's a lovely
20:00
to stepson and it has me wondering about a couple
20:02
bucks. You may enjoy it later. Caleb.
20:05
Lists the second book He Loves. My.
20:07
Second book is congratulations The best
20:09
is over by our Eric Thomas.
20:11
I really love Eric's writing so
20:14
my it's his first book is
20:16
still one of my favorites of
20:18
all time and I was curious
20:20
to how the follow up would
20:23
be. since this was the second
20:25
memoir and essays he's written a
20:27
couple of or war One young
20:29
adult section and another book about
20:31
the life of Maxine Waters Bites
20:34
this Berg sort of. I don't
20:36
want to say. It picked up where
20:38
here for at his first book left
20:40
off. But. It it have is
20:42
distinctly different tone. And.
20:45
I had the privilege of getting to
20:47
know Eric through. A work
20:49
event that we hosted him for
20:51
a book club events and it
20:53
was interesting. Hearing him
20:56
talk about the writing process, You.
20:58
Know while bespoke was being written and kind of
21:00
what he was going through in his own
21:02
mice bite. I will say overall. Eric
21:05
has this way of calf
21:07
strain. Real. Life.
21:10
And. Motion and experience, but
21:12
also. Being. So really the
21:14
bull and humorous. And. Not
21:17
being afraid to say the things
21:19
that are hard are difficult but
21:21
also approaching it with. A.
21:23
Sense of Humor And you know that
21:25
both. Joy. And sadness
21:27
can coexist in your life at
21:30
the same time. And I honestly
21:32
really loves his voice. When he
21:34
writes, it's almost identical to his
21:36
actual real life personality. if it's
21:39
a very delightful. I
21:41
related to the book so much because of
21:43
some things I was going through a my
21:45
own life, but it just gave me permission
21:48
to see all those feelings to say them
21:50
out loud. But. Also to allow
21:52
joy to exists in my life at
21:54
the same time. So. This. Book
21:56
Is. I think he describes it as
21:58
sort of a midlife crisis. This kind
22:00
of moments by his writing is just
22:02
got about finding you where you are
22:04
an it's so relate of all. It's.
22:07
So funny and so enjoyable. And that's
22:09
what I love the most about bespoke.
22:12
And then we have let everybody know
22:14
that are Eric. Thomas appeared unless I
22:16
read next back in August. Twenty Twenty
22:18
Three That's episode Three Ninety Two. It's
22:20
called insightful and entertaining memoirs and you
22:22
can hear Eric talk about his own
22:24
work while we sarah hosting recommendations for
22:26
memoirs. The also had a lot the
22:29
same notes that you describe kill Them
22:31
like when the me where you are
22:33
that say the hard things but are
22:35
still really double and sunny. and yeah
22:37
we talked a lot about life and
22:39
as you mentioned Iraqs why a work
22:41
is that a. Like section of the bookstore
22:43
that you've explored are interested in exploring. I.
22:47
Have and I've read a couple of
22:49
Why a book that I will say
22:51
I really loved Kings of Be More
22:54
His why a six and book. For.
22:57
All the reasons I just described earlier about what
22:59
I look for in about strong sense of place.
23:01
A fast moving plight. I
23:04
I I don't wanna be rude or
23:06
insensitive saying that's what I do not
23:08
enjoy. Books about teenagers are children and
23:10
I don't know why that is my
23:12
government needs to kill. We may have
23:14
been an exception, but he was approaching
23:16
adulthood. I was also a children's faster
23:18
for a long time, so perhaps I
23:21
just. I just served my
23:23
time with. all things kids and youth
23:25
are teenagers? I don't know, but if
23:27
kids are children are are like the
23:29
main characters and a book. I don't
23:31
tend to enjoy it. I did really
23:33
love Kings of Be More so maybe
23:35
I'm open to that. Maybe it's something
23:37
I should explore more because that definitely
23:39
took me by surprise, but I have
23:41
not explored a ton of way. I
23:44
like your theory that perhaps he may
23:46
take years to restore some equilibrium the
23:49
your lives in that way. I.
23:51
Think you're Isis A. System Scale
23:53
of what is the third Vacuum of. The.
23:56
Third book I love and I will
23:58
say this one has been. My.
24:01
Favorites: Of all time
24:03
For many, many years I don't remember
24:05
the exact your was published, but it's
24:07
bread and wine. My Santa Nyquist. This.
24:10
Book. Check. So many
24:12
boxes for me. Ivory Reddit. I.
24:14
Don't know. Countless times, probably five or
24:16
six times at this point by the
24:19
combines a lot of things. I love
24:21
our food. I love food riding. Sign.
24:24
Up for a long time lived in Chicago
24:26
so she has a Midwestern sensibility and her
24:28
life and in her writing and that sort
24:30
of defined her. which is a lot of
24:33
what a book is about. And if you've
24:35
read any of her books at all, you
24:37
know that the Midwest and Chicago was just
24:39
a big part of her life and her
24:41
story and something she identified with by the
24:44
she writes with a very strong sense of
24:46
place and all of her books I feel
24:48
and. When. I read this book.
24:50
I just moved to Michigan. She lived
24:52
in Grand Rapids for a time as
24:55
well. so lot of the things that
24:57
she was writing about I was able
24:59
to experience restaurants, but also it's sort
25:01
of tommy how to approach cooking. I
25:04
was living on my own for the
25:06
first time and so it was a
25:08
companion to me. It was. An.
25:11
Interesting. I don't
25:13
say lot because it's a it's a
25:15
memoirs it's true story. Told. In
25:17
essays by there's a so many things
25:19
about Pittsburgh Bad: Just checked all the
25:21
right boxes for me. I love the
25:24
way this on a talks about food,
25:26
I love the way she talks about
25:28
books and reading and I just liked
25:30
the way this he describes. A.
25:32
Setting or a place or a time in
25:34
her life and I don't know for me
25:36
it just it. It hit all the right
25:39
marks. Know. I love status of since
25:41
I can. Tell. Me my has his
25:43
writing. And says notice that nets come
25:45
up and suddenly a couple a times. Yes,
25:47
Food. I am very very passionate about
25:50
food. I don't know that the term
25:52
food he is still a culturally relevant
25:54
bites. I love cooking. I love food
25:57
experiences. I love trying out new restaurants.
25:59
It's system. The in that. It's
26:01
a big part of my lies and.
26:04
On a personal know I will say that. It's
26:07
good. To be in that place
26:09
because I struggled for a long time with
26:11
disordered eating and so for a long time,
26:13
food for me was nigh. A.
26:15
Pleasure. or it wasn't something that I found
26:18
Joy Enema something I found a lot of.
26:20
Same man. And that's another reason why this
26:22
book, bread and wine spoke to me. Because
26:24
seats you sort of talks about that. Journey.
26:26
For herself to and you know
26:29
now that I think about it
26:31
may be. That was a moment
26:33
where I stopped apologizing for loving
26:35
food and eating and the way
26:37
that it gathers people in the
26:39
way that food connects people and
26:41
cultures and and all these different
26:44
things that I just love reading
26:46
about food at. Roof Rifles
26:48
or my favorite Authors who writes almost exclusively
26:50
about food. So yeah, it's a big it's
26:53
a big part of my life and I
26:55
just live experience as damn ball food like
26:57
it's something that I'm very passionate about and
26:59
that I enjoy on. I.
27:01
Hit the skids now and definitely something that we will
27:03
keep in mind. Candid. With
27:06
heard about Lila is now tell us about about
27:08
that was not. At. It since the yes. Yes,
27:11
And I was so disappointed by the Us
27:13
because I saw it was going to be
27:15
hit the mark. so much for me that's
27:17
the book. Devil House by John Darn Yell
27:20
and I first heard about this book from
27:22
Samantha Herb. He says here's the most humorous
27:24
reviews of things that sees, read em and
27:26
the way she describes than I just I
27:29
think it's so funny. bite. Many.
27:31
Of the looks is recommended have really worked
27:33
for me this one though. When
27:36
I'm choosing a book, I. Again
27:38
with my systems I will. I will always
27:40
say like of I'm reading a description and
27:42
if it checks three boxes for me but
27:44
I know I will read it and I'll
27:46
give it my time. So. I
27:49
have very i think nice
27:51
and dress one of those
27:53
his eighties and early nineties
27:56
nostalgia. Another thing is. Like.
27:59
A haunted house Or a manor house
28:01
or something like that. And so this
28:03
book. Is. About a. House
28:06
that had been all of these different
28:08
things. Can be Neat
28:10
store at one point and there was
28:12
a gruesome murder that took place at
28:15
his house. And. So the cover of
28:17
the both very much looks like of. Kind.
28:19
Of Pulp Fiction book from the
28:21
eighties that she would see like
28:23
an old Stephen King paperback of
28:25
So so many Things About is
28:27
what drew me and the main
28:29
character and the story. Moves into
28:31
the home to have a house
28:33
for this gruesome murder took place
28:35
to investigate it and I just
28:37
kept waiting for something to happen.
28:39
something that was going to like
28:42
move the plot forward. There were
28:44
three sections of the book and
28:46
not a giveaway any spoilers here,
28:48
but it just never. Really went anywhere
28:50
and instead so I stopped reading and about
28:52
i don't know seventy five percent the way
28:54
through and then Ice and I went back
28:56
to finish it because it is bugging me
28:58
and when I realized was the whole thing
29:01
was just. An. Exploration of.
29:04
Truth and how a story is told.
29:06
and the perception and ice. I suppose
29:08
it's interesting to think about that, but
29:11
it was not what I was looking
29:13
for. In terms of I
29:15
felt like the description was very off. Okay,
29:18
so you love the book he thought it was going
29:20
to be. In you didn't love to book
29:22
it was. Yes, And
29:24
instill when I look back on it like when
29:26
I see the cover, him and I read the
29:28
plot summary. I still. I'm like
29:31
oh I I really want to loved as
29:33
to what I wanted to be something different.
29:35
but it's it's was it. And and I
29:37
do love books that kind of. You.
29:39
Know take a broader look like they're
29:41
saying something bigger and and using the
29:44
story as more of a vehicle you
29:46
know for a larger narrative to come
29:48
through. Or. A deeper narratives to come
29:50
through. But yeah, didn't take any box for me
29:52
and I'm still sad about it. He
29:55
would. I was really interesting is how unhappy
29:57
has there's a lot of Jon Daniels nuisance
29:59
and. Really like before he was a
30:01
novelist, he was and is a lyricist
30:03
for The Mountain Goats By it is
30:06
you know there's some reading experiences. Where
30:08
because of a relationship you have with the person
30:10
or persons work. The feel like I have
30:12
to love this. There is no her absence
30:14
and. The I've been afraid to pick it
30:16
up. Okay, but I will at least
30:18
know what I'm getting into his past when I
30:21
do. Yes, All right,
30:23
I'm just gonna leave. Sat there for the time
30:25
being. Caleb: When have you been reading lately? The.
30:28
Most recent book that I've read I just
30:30
finished as a couple days ago as I
30:32
have some questions for you by Rebecca Mci.
30:35
I. Will say her previous book, The
30:37
Great Believers is still probably my
30:40
very favorite fiction books of all
30:42
time. Favorite novel. So many things
30:44
about that. Book. Just
30:46
spoke to me because I was really excited
30:48
about this. Book. By her I know
30:50
it was really anticipated and I've heard. Varying.
30:54
Opinions on the approach. I really
30:56
loved it for all the reasons
30:58
I just talked about earlier. Strong
31:00
sense of place, the plot move
31:02
forward. It was very surprising. it
31:04
had a few twists that I
31:06
was not expecting. I enjoyed it
31:08
so much and would highly recommend
31:10
it. It really reinvigorated my
31:12
reading life for sure. I'm.
31:14
Really glad to hear that was a winner for you. Another
31:17
bug that I've really enjoyed recently,
31:19
and this was something I was
31:21
I read in the morning during
31:23
my non fiction reading time was
31:25
one hundred Things We've Lost To
31:27
the Internet by Pamela Paul. I
31:30
heard an interview with her on
31:32
Npr and. Again, going
31:34
back to the nostalgia factor see
31:36
list or hundred different things that.
31:38
We. Do not have any more because
31:40
of the internet and I think this
31:43
and even say it sometimes half joking,
31:45
half serious but of I wish we
31:47
didn't have cell phones anymore. or sometimes
31:49
I wish there was no internet because
31:51
I feel that. There. Is a
31:54
connection that's been lost between people.
31:57
Maybe I'm just an assault a person, but I
31:59
I do have. Vivid memories of you
32:01
know, using a phone without long
32:03
cord or. I do
32:06
find joy and doing a
32:08
lot of things in an
32:10
analog manner and. I just
32:12
found this book to be interesting,
32:14
a kind of the delved into
32:16
like what we've lost but also
32:18
what we gained by the internet.
32:21
It was a quick read. the chapters are
32:23
very sore indigestible which made it perfect for
32:25
morning reading. but I thought it was very
32:27
insightful and it just kind of check that
32:30
nostalgia box for me as well. That's.
32:33
Really? Interesting. I'm glad you enjoyed it. I remember
32:35
to connect with him a library when it came
32:37
out and. And was just talking
32:39
with my fourteen your the Bennett morning. Because we
32:42
were wondering about the weather. And.
32:44
We both agree Sir I phones and one thing
32:46
that Pamela passes loss. To the internet is
32:48
wondering about the weather along with well
32:50
as a window and boredom and will
32:52
toss us and about really missing the
32:54
land line like the kitchen sewn in
32:57
a house. Yeah. I think about that
32:59
when all the time. A nursery isn't finished
33:01
it when I saturday. But. I think about
33:03
it all the time and even the weather channel of
33:05
the see talk about the. She.
33:07
Does Yeah and I I guess the
33:09
Weather channel may be came along a
33:11
little bit later but there are videos
33:14
on Instagram of the music from the
33:16
Weather Channel and it just evoke such
33:18
strong emotions. Front of a day waiting
33:20
you know for the scream slides on
33:22
the screen to scroll. Third, see what
33:24
the weather was going to be? An
33:26
even better when the little announcement ticker
33:28
with sprawled across the bottom saying of
33:30
schools are closed or open on snow
33:32
days. Or when you had to
33:35
call the school number and wait for the voicemail.
33:37
Okay, that's supposed to Sicily thinking of I. Imagine
33:39
my brother's baseball games getting cancelled and you
33:42
had to be. One of like
33:44
three hundred families to call and hear
33:46
the recording. That with say. Games are
33:48
on her games or us and getting free
33:50
with nightmare my mom but set a timer
33:52
goes every minutes to seek across that they
33:55
don't miss. Been. A lot of
33:57
it. Yeah. Unless there really isn't the
33:59
starts descent. For. Sure, Visit
34:01
them with your eighties nineties nostalgia. Absolutely.
34:04
Okay Caleb, we thoughts about and around this
34:06
for much of our time together. but what
34:08
would you say you are looking for and
34:11
you're reading life right now. My
34:13
routine is just completely changed and
34:16
I've looked at it as an
34:18
invitation for my my reading life
34:20
to change, but I think what
34:22
I'm looking for most is just
34:25
some strategy both in terms of
34:27
getting some reading momentum back at
34:29
some in a very busy season,
34:31
are planning a wedding, getting married,
34:33
moving to a new city, all
34:36
of these things but just firstly
34:38
getting my really moments and back.
34:41
I think this might be an opportunity to
34:43
may be step out of the hustle of
34:45
like being disappointed if I don't worry four
34:47
bucks a month which is what I averaged
34:49
before by. Just. Been okay with
34:51
the pace and I'm going in terms
34:53
of reading and also choosing books that
34:56
will help me accomplish that goal. So
34:58
I'm very open. I'm excited to try
35:00
something new as as new fresh outlook.
35:03
As I think to go of
35:05
of further just managing my own
35:08
expectations. And. Prioritizing books
35:10
that will. Keep.
35:12
The momentum going and instead of
35:14
feeling disappointed that I am not
35:16
finishing a certain amount of bugs,
35:18
just enjoying what I am reading
35:20
but also choosing bugs that will
35:23
help me feel like com plus.
35:26
Muggy. Accomplished as the wrong word. Because
35:28
it's not a competition. I'm
35:30
really glad you had the opportunity here
35:33
yourself because there's nothing then when instill
35:35
accomplished. Unless. You
35:37
hear yourself and think, actually, that's not what
35:39
I want. It. Might be what you
35:41
wanted for a really long time. Kill.
35:44
Do something about a fresh outlook for
35:46
right now and. I'm interested
35:48
in how it feels to channel like
35:50
your past self. The
35:52
one he was very. Diligence
35:56
and tactical and
35:58
specific about. Planning
36:00
your to be reading lists. Around
36:02
the season you are an and
36:04
the seasons and which the books
36:07
take. Place. And so.
36:10
Not. He gets him at on you but like
36:12
Caleb you are in a season. And.
36:14
I wonder if instead of thinking
36:16
like oh well, it's April? oh,
36:18
it's still Iowa's January Like I
36:20
wonder if you think like okay,
36:23
Here's a man. In this
36:25
season. And what book
36:27
might said This readers. This reader,
36:29
who is you? right? Now. Like
36:32
what would be right? For for a brief
36:34
moment. That you are
36:36
in. If anything, they're. Yeah.
36:39
That's so unfair for and I feel like I'm in therapy
36:41
right now. Ethic
36:44
Therapy Yes, that's exactly what I
36:46
am trying to say. realizing.
36:49
That says the season of my life. And
36:51
one of the things I've been
36:54
thinking a lot about just personally,
36:56
is being present for today. Being
36:58
grateful for today, being grateful for
37:00
the moment that I man and
37:02
I think so many times. Not.
37:05
To get too deep here bite, you know
37:07
in terms of reading or anything else we
37:09
can be so focused on. Getting.
37:11
Something accomplish that we just don't enjoy
37:13
the moment that were libyan. Or
37:15
the book there were reading as it were. Yes, I
37:17
like that Call back to the pump list. Also
37:20
I feel like I was asked me to diagnose
37:22
just and like okay here is a man that
37:24
man is in a place. where does that mean
37:26
nice But also maybe you don't have those answers
37:28
right now or maybe just have the glimmers and
37:30
I think that like one of the seasons are
37:33
in is really a season of discovery and like
37:35
that's a wonderful thing. This can be a season
37:37
of discovery in your reading life as well. He.
37:40
Has of I love that. Yeah.
37:42
Yeah, okay so. I
37:44
can hear the you already have giving
37:46
yourself a great deal of permission to
37:48
dislike. Kinda like get the lay of
37:50
the land. For. Where you are now. New.
37:53
Place practically metaphorically and I would just
37:55
like to affirm like yes, that that
37:58
is it that place for you right
38:00
now. And. Some
38:02
readers who really like to see oh grounded
38:04
in who want to know what's happening next
38:07
might even want to get themselves from us
38:09
in the like. Okay, for like, we don't
38:11
need a thing about the site Year for
38:13
a year, just kinda see where the tide
38:15
takes you. You might be really
38:17
uncomfortable with that. He. Seems to see where
38:19
this I'd say see you might feel a he won a little
38:21
more stocks or. But Caleb, He's also a
38:23
you really wanted to manage. Your own
38:26
expectations to. I
38:28
would really like to encourage you just to
38:30
be cognizant of the timing. I. Don't
38:32
want to tell you what you said are
38:34
shouldn't do, but I'm playing with the concept
38:37
of like rushing things. Are encouraging yourself
38:39
to hurry. Like whether or not even
38:41
realize you're doing it of thinking like there's a
38:43
ticking clock of thinking you ought to have it
38:45
figured out by x dates. I don't know how
38:48
you feel about sign. And getting on
38:50
with things. Were. You thinking now.
38:53
That. Sounds Just write a I
38:55
think it all goes back to
38:58
just enjoying the moment, enjoying the
39:00
place that I man and being
39:02
open to. What? The future
39:04
holds. I love what you just
39:06
said about being and a season
39:08
but just like taking the whole
39:11
time component out of the equation,
39:13
I'm here and the summer I'm
39:15
enjoying bespoke. I'm enjoying this experience
39:17
and I'm not gonna discounted by
39:20
being. Upset that I am
39:22
not further along on my Tbr or whatever
39:24
the case may be. The
39:26
here reader you'll be a leader and you
39:28
can figure out what kinda readers you're going
39:30
to be now and in the near future.
39:33
On. Your own timeline. I
39:35
think there's a lot to be sad about. Enjoying
39:38
the place that were am but also being
39:40
excited and curious about the person that we
39:42
will become. Very. Excited and curious
39:44
where you entered the same time. You're talking
39:46
about how you want to prioritize certain kinds
39:49
of books that would keep the momentum going.
39:51
And like, I don't want to seem too
39:53
much, but I'm I'm thinking that books that
39:55
help you keep the momentum going. And.
39:58
The ones that your side it's read that the. That
40:00
you want to pick up. The
40:02
ones that make you think like ah, you
40:04
know, like this with time well spent with
40:07
that book. Does. That ring
40:09
true. Yes, Absolutely.
40:11
I think. The. Best
40:13
reading experiences that I've had have
40:15
always been those were. I'm
40:17
thinking about it throughout the day. You know I'm
40:19
I'm looking forward to when I can dive back
40:21
and and see what. Waits. For
40:24
me with them both pages and I've
40:26
I think I have some questions for
40:28
you. Really did that for me most
40:30
recently. So that is definitely what I'm
40:32
looking for. I'm. Really
40:34
excited about what you can be reading. You
40:36
have a good idea of what you love in some ways
40:38
and also I just want to see late for you that
40:40
you sad and your. Submission and out
40:43
loud The you really enjoy
40:45
being surprised and perhaps. And
40:48
we used to stick with us but
40:50
I'm wondering what it might be like
40:52
for you to really embrace idea that
40:54
this is a season of discovery and
40:56
that may mean like this, giving yourself
40:58
like an extra grace like our a
41:00
preferential option for the. The weird
41:02
stuff. The Stuff: Maybe a little further
41:05
off your beaten path, but by all means, if
41:07
you're really excited about something that sounds right up
41:09
your alley and what you've left in the bath
41:11
like, do that. That sounds great as the kind
41:13
of thing we can get excited about as readers,
41:15
but also like them. maybe. Oh Sarah title issue.
41:17
This is like kind of like ah, I
41:20
don't know if you're intrigued, you could try it.
41:22
Without. Feeling like he would be
41:25
a loss to discover that you
41:27
didn't have it? Oh
41:29
yeah, that's such a great way of framing of
41:31
and I will love this approach of surprise. Ready
41:34
for it. I haven't yet. And.
41:36
I am. I'm just really excited about where
41:38
you are in your life and you realize
41:41
guessing great questions. I'm excited for you.
41:43
Can I keep them excited for you and really excited for
41:45
the. I can feel
41:47
the excitement and I appreciate it. Let's talk
41:49
about what are we next, What he thinks. Let's do it. You.
41:53
Loved! My government means to kill me
41:56
by receiving isn't. Congratulations.
41:58
The best is over by our. Eric com Esse
42:00
and Bread and Wine by Sun and Equal As
42:02
although I did notice that you said perhaps the
42:05
great, The Leavers by Rebecca Mci is your favorite
42:07
six in of all time. Yes,
42:09
And that's that still stands. In Also,
42:11
I'm seeing least not in there. I got it
42:13
noted that's going into the pot. Not
42:16
for you. With Devil House by Giant are now you
42:18
thought you would love the book you thought it was
42:20
in. It was not that book. right?
42:23
And then lately Rebecca Mci they have some
42:25
questions for you was really works Also you
42:27
pick up a good amount of oxygen like
42:29
past your books we talked about had been
42:31
nonfiction so you mentioned Pamela. Paul's one hundred things
42:33
with loss to the innocent. Yes, And
42:36
now we're going to think about what you
42:38
might read next. Okay, off the beaten path
42:40
to surprising, but I'm definitely critically. Acclaimed
42:43
so far. As you yet encountered.
42:45
Martyr by copper Akhbar. I.
42:48
Haven't haven't even heard of that. I.
42:50
Think this could be a surprising book
42:52
for you, but also it has. So
42:54
much in common with books that you have
42:56
read. His you pull
42:58
up. The. Cover you will
43:01
see right off the bat by
43:03
the little speech bubble. That
43:05
it's presence on a series. Cover That
43:07
this book has a sense of
43:10
humor. Which is something the
43:12
like the for. As and
43:14
elements in books that are really talking
43:16
about serious like, sometimes hard in heavy.
43:18
Things. That are
43:20
shared. A in a voice that and I
43:22
would really encourage you to just like pick
43:25
this up in the bookstore, the library, or
43:27
just like read a sample on the internet.
43:29
The voice is something. The grabs lot of
43:31
readers like right from the be getting like oh this
43:33
is a character I could settle in and spend some
43:36
time with. spends. Three hundred pages with think
43:38
it's a little bit on the server. Side
43:40
but this is.
43:42
A story by a man who
43:45
is a poet's. He's. In
43:47
A because of his over dependence
43:49
on alcohol and he's an addict
43:51
to a whole lotta stuff that
43:53
he says isn't especially like scary
43:55
on it's own. he just does
43:57
the drugs and combinations that always.
44:00
Wonder think that living in the
44:02
real world but arbor Dragon is
44:04
is an Iranian American poet. His
44:06
name is Cyrus. he's in Indiana
44:08
see got some mid western ground.
44:10
In essence, sensibility, there are like
44:12
that I thought you might. So
44:14
both his parents have already died.
44:16
his father died of a stroke
44:18
and his mother died because she
44:20
was on an Iranian passenger airline
44:22
that the Us Navy. Sat down in
44:24
Nineteen Eighty Eight and he does circle back
44:26
in recess. at that time late eighties
44:29
reference but it is there. He
44:31
is not entirely sure it's not
44:33
because the drugs but he has
44:35
enough or they would he interprets
44:37
to be a sign from God
44:39
that it sets him off on
44:41
a. Quest. So.
44:44
At the very beginning of the book he
44:46
has a sign from God and. It's.
44:48
Like like a label flickers. It's a
44:50
real little thing, but it's enough for
44:52
him to like. Conceive of this like
44:54
big. Poetry. Project. He's
44:57
going to create this thing called the
44:59
book of Martyrs because his mother his
45:01
of really interested in the concept of
45:03
martyrdom and you can decide. How you
45:05
think he sees himself? In. That
45:07
context that just like he happens to discover
45:09
that there is a terminally ill Iranian American
45:11
artists who is living out the end of
45:14
her life in the Brooklyn Museum. As he
45:16
said talking the visitors who were like coming
45:18
i'm pilgrimages to see her and Cyrus is
45:20
like you know what I'm going to do
45:23
I gotta go talk to the terminally ill
45:25
artists and so it becomes a quest story.
45:27
They're going to go to Brooklyn, Gonna journey,
45:29
They're gonna learn some things Along the way
45:32
it feels like there's a dark. Tone to
45:34
the story and you wonder what he really
45:36
intense as he hints. At what his
45:38
life will be like during and then
45:40
after he completes this project. So
45:43
serious that is happening here,
45:45
but also the tone throughout. Like
45:48
it's funny and there are some books that deal
45:50
in dark and have a things. But.
45:53
Have like such a strong
45:55
sense of humor alongside it's.
45:57
Just. You consider that Million said.
45:59
You. That would I react how mr
46:01
This is the six know version of
46:04
that. This book does that dark humor
46:06
really well and I also think that
46:08
you may enjoy like the philosophical exploration
46:10
in hand them with. This.
46:12
Guy it's like thunder hangouts and timeless. I think
46:14
easy get home and be like what do we
46:17
do and next Iris son does that sound the
46:19
use. Of Gray. I pulled
46:21
up the cover and I'm very intrigued and I
46:23
love the little illustration of on the cover. the
46:25
skills Like something that I would enjoy. I'm.
46:28
Glad to hear that going in a different
46:30
direction. I'm in a plot a book at
46:32
some Germ. Good Reads was we asked readers
46:34
for on on their submissions if they would
46:36
like to share and maybe you've already read
46:39
this season? Tell me what you think but
46:41
the ones that I want to recommend is
46:43
The Supper of the Lamb A Colin Their
46:45
It Reflects and by Robert Sarah Capon. Have
46:48
you picked this up yet? You put on your list A looks
46:50
like and twenty twenty two. I
46:52
have not picked us up and I funny
46:54
enough, I first heard about this book from
46:57
Santa Nyquist and then I think gender mentioned
46:59
at a little more recently on an episode
47:01
of the podcast and so it sounds like
47:03
it would be just right for me and
47:05
I sort of like put it on and
47:07
then taken it off my Tbr list based
47:09
on the new that I man. but I
47:11
think this might be the time. I
47:14
really relate to what you're saying about this
47:17
book because I follow Sauna forever. But Caleb
47:19
Ginger on our team as the ones who
47:21
like I remember being the one who put
47:23
it on my radar and the way she
47:25
described it made me think elastic a reader
47:28
immediately and look, I don't want to be
47:30
heavy handed with you, but before we hit
47:32
record on our conversation that we're having right
47:34
now, we're talking about recycle and so much
47:36
You love her, right? And how I
47:38
didn't realize this is such that I should
47:40
be subscribed to because I feel like I
47:42
read everything she writes. but now I've been
47:45
missing out. But you can pick up the
47:47
addition of the Supper of the Lamb, which
47:49
was written decades ago, but there's a new
47:51
were addition is in the Modern Library Said
47:53
series. The has an introduction by Deborah Madison
47:55
to I imagine you've encountered as someone who
47:57
lost his writing. Of course that.
48:00
Of the theories editor it is Ruth
48:02
myself and she writes the first introduction
48:04
in this back and talks about her
48:06
experience growing up and how is she
48:08
became a cooker of vegetables for reasons
48:10
even though she didn't feel at home
48:12
and that role and how seeking to
48:15
cooking and how she felt misunderstood with
48:17
her left for food we both know
48:19
that he can really write descriptions of
48:21
your her reminisce about. Meal Seasons White
48:23
or write about what she's eating now or
48:25
what she wants to eat Split. See
48:27
things: the praises of the suppress,
48:29
the lamb beer and those pages.
48:31
Before you even have the opportunity to
48:33
get started with the book, Itself.
48:36
But then. The.
48:38
Author: Takes the stage
48:40
and he like get you started
48:43
by laying out a recipe for
48:45
a dinner party and kind of
48:47
like rise. Gently. Snarky.
48:50
Tone: He tells you how to do it right.
48:52
What's gonna happen if you do it wrong? Make
48:54
sure that the butcher doesn't cut the lamb into
48:57
the poor sense and selves. Or you'll lose half
48:59
the fun and also half the portions. He
49:02
like has is as it's whale comments about the
49:04
recipe for the lamb and he's like well okay
49:06
so I told you how to do that Now
49:08
let's get started and. This is
49:10
another one where I think you could pick
49:12
it up. Read the sample. Reversed
49:14
myself whereas if you want. But also see
49:16
a little bit about this man whose
49:19
first person narrative you'll be spending some
49:21
time with in these pages and I
49:23
think you'll find that really want to
49:25
like he's on like wins a cool
49:27
and Funny and rye as such a
49:30
good sense of humor but as also
49:32
deeply related li talking about food. And.
49:35
How we can enjoy it but also by
49:37
it means. So whether he's talking about the
49:39
gift as gathering or what it means says
49:41
it's really like live in the moment and
49:43
cut. Your. Onion I think he tells you
49:45
the been to set aside in our you don't have any
49:47
with thing us to do you like this is important stuff
49:50
let's just do it right. That sounds delightful.
49:52
It is. Okay so there's one review
49:54
from Returning Dominica on Good Reads. I
49:56
just had to share this. Is the review
49:58
in it's entirety. An explosion of
50:00
joy over the goodness of being like this.
50:02
Talking about this book address, you can hear
50:05
me smiling as a Sig smile on my
50:07
days. You could sit down and read this
50:09
in one sitting because you wouldn't wanna get
50:11
up, but you can also. Read it
50:13
and smaller parts and just find yourself looking
50:15
forward to seeing what Mr. Capon is gonna
50:17
tell you about next. How
50:19
that sounds exactly like what I needed
50:22
that combines so many elements from the
50:24
food and then you mentioned for a
50:26
by reprisal Santa Nyquist one point talked
50:28
about this I think. Yeah, I
50:30
think this is right up my alley. Attempt
50:33
adherents look while we were in Indiana. Maybe
50:35
I should have mentioned Ross Gay. But.
50:38
I. Think you could really like has bite size on
50:40
six in his to most recent the book enjoy the
50:42
book of more joy. If those are
50:45
not yet on your radar on yourself, please. To
50:47
think, Think about those. I think you can enjoy those.
50:50
Have not read them, but I did gift
50:52
them to a friend recently. They. Make
50:55
excellent if bucks I mean you know there
50:57
is beautiful and by his size and I
50:59
don't know what makes him such good. Gift
51:01
box I know they are but can they
51:03
are situated. She. Was going through a difficult
51:05
time. I felt like she needed some joy so
51:07
I. Just felt like the book
51:10
of Delights or something that she might
51:12
find useful. I can appreciate
51:14
that. So he also I'm the one from lieu
51:16
of will not you but a local coffee shop
51:18
does a cameo. Something important happens to the local
51:21
coffee shop. I thought I lost a son. Caleb.
51:25
When. You were talking about my government needs
51:27
to kill me. It really put me
51:29
in mind of a lie. A novel
51:31
which is why I asked you hey.
51:33
How do you feel about why a novel
51:36
as he answers Snow Grape? Or maybe so
51:38
because you did really loved Kings of the
51:40
More. I do. We're
51:42
both aware that this may or may not
51:44
be a great set, but I do want
51:46
you to know about it. This is a
51:48
favorite. as team member least she's the one
51:50
who put it on my radar and I
51:52
ya thought bucks she said this looks utterly
51:54
wrecked her. And. Also, of course, for
51:56
those reasons, it might be her all time
51:58
favorite way. Novel. Now that. The came to
52:00
Reddit and Twenty twenty but you did
52:03
speak highly of it and with Iran
52:05
for myself, I could topple the get
52:07
it. So this is about an Iranian
52:09
seen his name is rather and he
52:12
is gay, deeply closeted, newly arrived in
52:14
New York City where he makes a
52:16
friend who's in the spring fashion designer
52:18
and then he meets another friend who's
52:21
a photographer and he's out at school
52:23
and actually president which. Is
52:25
not the place where Reza is when
52:27
the story begins. So this is one
52:29
of those stories that we've I mean
52:31
we've been talking about a lot of
52:34
books that are both like about important
52:36
in hard things. And
52:38
also like abs elements of grace
52:41
and is a little bit a
52:43
humor that lightens the heavy. So
52:45
this is a story that explores.
52:47
The ups and downs of friendship. And for
52:50
slugs, there's a love triangle here. It's
52:52
all set against the backdrop of Aids
52:54
and activism in nineteen eighties New York,
52:56
and it's one that doesn't shy away
52:58
from Greece a lot of that era,
53:00
but also really, Celebrates the community that
53:02
read the signs in New York. And.
53:04
Nineteen. Think mostly. Nineteen Eighty Nine.
53:06
So. I think this has some of
53:09
the same elements of stories you enjoy. Yes,
53:11
it definitely has that eighties nostalgia. I ones
53:13
either know about it. I'm afraid to ask. I
53:15
feel like of this is a maybe than
53:17
like we're winning But if it's not that
53:19
I at least learn something. We can move on. Yes,
53:22
I think diver definitely give it
53:24
a try. I think similar to my
53:26
governments to Kill Me on the
53:28
Great Believers that period of time and
53:31
Aids activism or something that's really interesting
53:33
to me and so I think
53:35
kind of hearing stories about the same
53:38
period of time through the lens of
53:40
other people's experiences because everyone's viewpoint
53:42
is so different. perspective are so different.
53:44
I think this is my really work
53:47
for me. I'm definitely going to
53:49
try. I'm glad to hear that.
53:52
I. Want to throw on a mystery the morning? Go back
53:54
to New York City. I know if you've read Simone same
53:56
chains, I love some on St. James.
53:58
Have you read this and them As. Yeah.
54:01
It checked all the boxes for me and it was
54:03
a five star free. Okay, perfect so
54:05
I'm glad to hear that was the
54:07
winner. Readers: If you did not understand
54:09
the subtext, this fix it was. Zinaida
54:11
succeeds. This takes place in Upstate New
54:13
York at a run down motel nineteen
54:15
eighty. Who with those eighty sides and
54:17
it's got a one hundred motel. This
54:19
as much a character is the women
54:21
at the front of the story and
54:23
like I thought this is one with
54:26
the pages practically turn themselves like why
54:28
is there always the lingering sent a
54:30
cigarette smoke when nobody's been smoking. I
54:32
guess why do these mysterious things keep happening for
54:34
reasons that you do get to find out by
54:37
the and that the book. Yes,
54:39
It's so a moody, an evocative like
54:41
you really can picture yourself. fair like.
54:44
I found myself cold multiple times when
54:46
I was reading here and really have
54:48
it checked out like that for me.
54:51
I'm glad to hear. How. Has this
54:53
one is a stretch but I want you
54:55
to know about it and especially We've been
54:57
talking about how you are really enjoying like
54:59
watching some adaptations on screen. The says this
55:02
is Garth Risk, Hallberg City on Fire and
55:04
Caleb that is a big all bucks the
55:06
thing like nine hundred pages and. I think
55:08
this was first introduced to me. By.
55:12
Or guess that hands on like episodes for
55:14
that We talked. About it is for
55:16
wealthy just like very. Very.
55:18
Early in our history. Of.
55:21
Wasn't one of the zebra. But.
55:24
This is another book of that era,
55:26
although I believe the action. Actually, it's
55:28
said around the very real New York
55:30
City Blackout. Oh gosh, Caleb, you updates
55:32
the Blackout. The takes place on my
55:34
birthday. In New York City they had me
55:36
googling. Likely, I know. this book is awesome and
55:39
a historical blackout. But. Like is is
55:41
for real. Does it will happen
55:43
Then And the Ss? Yes. And
55:45
absolutely so. This is nine hundred
55:47
and forty four pages. Long.
55:49
But really, it's New York City of that
55:52
era. Is. Very much a
55:54
character in this book that
55:56
revolves around a punk rock
55:58
band, a wealthy. And different.
56:00
like super wealthy and dysfunctional York City
56:03
family unit. bunch of different family members.
56:05
There's a pyrotechnics expert and his daughter.
56:07
and then they are invisible threads that
56:10
become apparent to the reader. Way. Before
56:12
the characters themselves understand that
56:14
all. Connect them together. Oh I
56:16
love when that happens. I. Know it's like
56:18
you get to like looked down from
56:21
above an idea. I see what's happening
56:23
but they are all connected like it
56:25
comes to get into big way around
56:27
this historical blackouts. This be investments. I'm
56:29
trying to think where the. Salts. And
56:32
the Pleiade scale. Slow.
56:34
Careful book real is far as
56:36
that of swatting is concerned ah
56:38
intricately pot it would be oh
56:40
a book review it as gifts
56:42
note this. Does that sound like something you
56:45
might. Investigate. Further, It
56:47
does. And and fact, I believe I
56:49
had added that to my Tbr at
56:51
one point just because of the time
56:54
period, the setting being a New York,
56:56
I really love books that a New
56:58
York period so I'll definitely others to
57:00
my list. Okay, we've
57:02
been places today. Caleb.
57:04
Of the books we talked about today
57:06
and a Worm Martyr by Kappa Akhbar.
57:09
The. Supper of the Lamb by
57:11
Robert, Sarah, Caitlin Although we. Can't
57:13
forget the introductions. I differ Madison and Ruth
57:15
pricing. Like a love
57:17
story by a D, not a mean.
57:20
We. Hit on the Sunday my tell by some
57:22
on St. James Woods you love. And then
57:24
we ended with City On Fire by Garth
57:26
Risk Hallberg of those lox. What do you
57:28
think? He may be taxed? I'm.
57:30
Thinking supper of the lamb, I might
57:33
run down to the local bookstore to
57:35
see if a have today. I'm. Very.
57:38
Excited about that one! I. Hope
57:40
it's the book the you want it to be.
57:42
Well, I've heard good things from new
57:45
from Refresh. Your friends are never ever
57:47
had to enter act like it sounds
57:49
like everything's. Pointing to this book for
57:52
me sign say as all and limit.
57:54
Caleb This is been a pleasure! Thank you so much for
57:56
attacking books with. Me today. Oh thanks for
57:58
having mates and a pleasure. Hey
58:05
readers, I hope you enjoy my discuss
58:07
them with Caleb and I'd love to
58:09
hear what you think He sipri Max
58:11
son Caleb on Instagram at Caleb Johnson
58:13
lives We've got that link and the
58:15
fullest the title without About Today at
58:17
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58:20
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58:24
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58:32
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58:47
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58:49
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58:52
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58:54
will vogel Hollywood protest he and studio the
58:56
podcast production readers. That's it for this episode.
58:58
Thanks so much for with thing and is
59:01
my memory of Roka said ah how good
59:03
it is to be among people. Who
59:05
are beating Happy reading of him.
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