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We begin. Just a warning: There's a bit
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of bad language in this episode. Mean.
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What? Do you do when you're a
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high profile American man? He suffered a
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career setback or in desperate need of
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love. Why? You run into the
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open arms of a despot as as marine
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I'd. Read. My colleagues
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p. B.
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Hold the current must have
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accessory for all the most
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grimly murderous dictators. A
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pet American Idiot. Not.
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Just any American idiot obviously.
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You. Need a male mid fifties the
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early sixties ideally fire damaged by a
3:54
recent career set back to just wants
3:56
to see the best in use a
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coins. In. short, you
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need someone of the...calibre,
4:03
would you call it, of Tucker
4:06
Carlson or Johnny Depp. The
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past week or two have seen
4:11
the formal reveal of two of
4:13
these new dictator pet acquisitions. Vladimir
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Putin's kind offer to re-home the
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stray former Fox News host and
4:20
Saudi Crown Prince Mohammed bin Salman's
4:22
generous response to the question, how
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much is that deppy in the
4:27
window? Answer? A
4:29
rumoured seven-figure tourism promo deal and
4:32
forking out for one somewhat indifferent
4:34
period French film. I
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know, pets are very reasonably priced,
4:39
not to say embarrassingly cheap. So
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let's start with Johnny Depp, the
4:45
joint subject of a most
4:47
eye-catching Vanity Fair article headlined,
4:50
Inside Johnny Depp's Epic Bromance
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with Saudi Crown Prince MBS.
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Yes, yes, please take us
4:57
inside it. Although we reserve
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the right to leave at any time without
5:01
being dismembered. The safe word
5:03
is Raytheon. According
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to the article, Depp first came into
5:08
contact with the Saudi ruler while working
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on a precariously financed French film, last
5:13
year's Jean de Barry. Having
5:16
secured Saudi funding, the movie's producers
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required their star to meet MBS's
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cousin, a guy called Prince Bader,
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who also serves as some kind
5:25
of cultural bag man. I'm
5:27
getting huge ribbon-drop energy, but perhaps
5:30
he's adorable. Anyway, one
5:32
thing led to another and within
5:34
months Depp was revelling in all
5:36
expenses paid trips and face-to-face time
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with MBS. Listening to
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his excuses about the murder of
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Jamal Khashoggi and making a
5:45
genuine connection. Hey, the
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heart wants what it wants. Likewise
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the wallet. According to Vanity
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Fair, both men knew how
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it felt to suddenly go from Golden Boy
5:56
to Outcast. And certainly
5:58
the fates can be. very cruel.
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As can movie financing. Seriously,
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why spend years waiting for your
6:08
producer to patchwork together some shaky
6:10
funding from the French Film Foundation,
6:12
plus a lottery grant, plus an
6:14
endowment from the Trudy Styler cinema
6:17
in Perilfund, plus 50 quid from
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UNESCO, plus some crappy Belgian tax
6:21
credits? You have something
6:23
really important to get made in
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which you get to crossly overturn
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a small occasional table in Versailles,
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all while wearing a feathered tricorn
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hat. How dare the
6:33
market deny the culture this future
6:36
gem? How dare people think your
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god-given right to pretend to be
6:40
someone else for money should depend
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on such shifting sands? Why
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not just go to Daddy Bonesaw and get
6:47
his chump change in five seconds? And
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listen, MBS's Red Sea Film Fund wants
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nothing more than to finance a film
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about a French courtesan. Given
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that the finished movie contravenes about
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437 of his country's decency and
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modesty laws, I guess
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something about Dubarry's life just spoke to
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MBS. Maybe the fact a woman
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gets her head cut off. For
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his part, Depp responded to Vanity
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Fair's request for comment on his
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new alliance with a lengthy statement
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claiming to have experienced
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first-hand the cultural revolution that
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is happening in Foudy
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from emerging young storytellers radiating
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fresh ideas and works of
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art to a blossoming film
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infrastructure and a newfound
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curiosity for innovation. Attaboy!
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In terms of the old quid pro quo,
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do remember that Depp has in
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recent years been saddled with what
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euphemism forces us to style expensive
7:48
legal setbacks followed by
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expensive legal victories. He
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reportedly has an endless array of
7:55
luxury properties to maintain including a
7:57
French village he was trying to
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sell and a private Caribbean
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island. A private island?
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Of course! Have anything good
8:06
ever come of a white man owning
8:08
a private Caribbean island? Don't
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write in Branson, even though
8:13
I'm using your letters to make a paper mache
8:15
sculpture of you carrying a woman in the course
8:17
of a promotional stunt. I call
8:19
it the ally. But
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let's move on to Tucker Carlson, who
8:24
recently went all the way to Moscow
8:26
to interview the Russian president in hardcore
8:28
lap-doggy style. There
8:31
is a grim sort of
8:33
poetic justice to the fact
8:35
this televised fauna-thon took place
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just days before Putin's likely
8:39
murder of Alexei Navalny, which
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itself seems to have occurred around
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the time Tucker was filming imbecilically
8:46
approving videos in a Russian supermarket.
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Did you see the one where he seems
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to think he has discovered a cutting-edge Russian
8:53
invention in the form of supermarket trolleys you
8:55
need to release with a coin? I
8:58
love that it reveals how much Tucker's
9:00
producer hates him, willingly allowing
9:03
his super rich boss to
9:05
stray into elite self-parody by
9:07
lording something freely available to
9:09
US citizens in Aldi's and
9:11
airports for quite, quite some
9:13
time now. In
9:16
related news then, a word on pet
9:18
cruelty. At this stage,
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Depp has yet to feel the sharp
9:23
end of an emerging young storyteller radiating
9:25
fresh ideas. But Tucker's
9:27
claim to have been in
9:29
Moscow doing hard journalism was
9:32
excruciatingly fact-checked by Putin himself,
9:34
who shortly after the interview aired,
9:36
appeared on TV with a smirk
9:38
to lament the fact Tucker didn't
9:40
ask any tough questions. How
9:43
mean! A Tucker should be for
9:45
life, not just for propaganda Christmas. Finally,
9:49
a bizarrely blame-free social media post
9:51
about Navalny by Donald Trump suggests
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the Russian president still has old
9:55
dogs who pee on the rug
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slash Moscow Hotel Mall. In
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fact, speaking of going to the
10:03
mattresses, the prospect of that
10:05
particular dictator hound throwing down for Putin
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is more grotesque by the day, and
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the very strongest of arguments for a
10:12
no pets rule in the White House.
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That was, from Top of Dawson to
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Johnny Depp, a celebrity bromance is the
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must have accessory for the modern dictator.
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I'm Arima Hyde, read by
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Carlees Pear. Next.
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It's twenty years since the Libertines
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topped the charts, then fought, stagnated
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and then hoarded.
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But now Pete Doherty and Karl Barrett are
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back. Was it easy recording together
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again, asked Simon Hasselstoun? Depends
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who you are. Read
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by Sam Swainsbury. I
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have done battle with the Libertines three times
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over the past nineteen years. Only
10:57
I haven't. Not really. Two
11:00
of the interviews were with Pete Doherty for
11:02
projects away from the band that made him
11:04
famous, Baby Shambles and the Puta Madres. The
11:07
first was in a mangy London hotel bedroom in
11:10
2005. He
11:12
was sitting on a motorbike, revving it up when
11:14
he was awake. Much of the time he was
11:17
asleep. He was twenty-six,
11:19
surrounded by drugs paraphernalia and had
11:21
daubed rough trade on the wall
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in his own blood. Last
11:27
time he met, four years ago, he was
11:29
in Betternich and more sociable. That
11:32
said, he was still smoking crack, threw a punch
11:34
that just missed me, kissed my forehead by way
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of apology and took me to his wreck of
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a house where he tried to flog me his
11:40
possessions. He
11:42
still had something about him, a wasted
11:45
brilliance and surprising charm that he
11:47
failed to hide, despite his
11:49
best efforts. As
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for his soul brother and sparring partner, Karl Barrett,
11:54
I met him in 2006 when he was also
11:58
recovering from the Libertines. Barrett
12:00
had just formed Dirty Pretty Things and the
12:03
band was releasing its first album. He
12:06
was quiet, likeable and
12:08
profoundly depressed. Barrett
12:10
talked a lot about Evil Karl, the self-destructive
12:12
side of him that had a downer in
12:14
life. In a different way,
12:17
you worried as much for the future of Barrett as
12:19
for Doherty. Now
12:22
they are back together for their fourth album
12:24
in 22 years. In 2015, 11 years after
12:29
their second album, they released Anthems
12:31
for Doomed Youth. The
12:33
Wilfred Owen-inspired title was Classic Libertines,
12:35
even if the album wasn't, poignant,
12:38
poetic and fuelled by war of
12:40
one kind or another. All
12:43
quiet on the eastern Esplanade,
12:45
their new record is another
12:47
Classic Libertines title, again referencing
12:49
war, literature and trauma. The
12:52
difference is that this is a Classic
12:54
Libertines album. There is the
12:56
rollicking boisterousness of old in tracks such
12:59
as Run Run Run, writerly songs
13:01
that allude to 20th Century Hollywood, Night
13:03
of the Hunter and ballads of
13:05
shimmering beauty, songs they never play
13:08
on the radio. Was
13:10
it easy recording together again? No,
13:14
Barrett says quickly. Karl
13:16
insisted on there being no alcohol even,
13:18
Doherty says. He wanted it to be
13:20
pure. It's not like I want to
13:22
get pissed but I like a glass of cider and
13:24
he's like no. It was pressure.
13:27
We'd never done it before. The studio had
13:29
always been a time of merriment and celebration. Was
13:33
Doherty surprised he could create while sober
13:35
and clean of drugs? I
13:37
was relieved and proud. To
13:39
be able to say to my wife, I'm not drinking, I
13:42
was proud. What's it like to
13:44
be back together? Doherty gives me a
13:46
scornful look. I don't know if
13:48
that question makes any sense. Barrett.
13:51
We've been back together since 2010. Doherty. He didn't
13:54
know what he was talking about. They're ganging
13:56
up on me. What I mean, I
13:58
say, is it's almost a decade since the
14:01
last album. They give each other
14:03
a conspiratorial look. It's a
14:05
better story actually to say we haven't been together, Barrett
14:07
says. They decide they quite like this version
14:09
of history. I like it when someone
14:11
comes who doesn't know anything about us, Doherty
14:13
says sweetly. His moods change
14:16
today as rapidly as they ever did. What
14:20
is different, they say, is that
14:22
this is the first time they've taken pleasure in the
14:24
product of their toils. Today we
14:26
were coming up the M23 and we actually
14:28
listened to the new album from start to
14:30
finish, Doherty says. We had
14:32
a sing-along, a bit of a laugh, a bit
14:34
of a cry. That's something we've never done before.
14:37
Put on our own record and listen to it on a
14:39
car journey. Barrett, and
14:41
definitely not laughing and crying. Doherty,
14:44
that must say something powerful. There
14:47
have been many times in his life when he
14:49
thought he'd had it with music, he says, but
14:51
he always finds himself returning to his guitar. It's
14:54
a calling like the priesthood. It
14:56
will always call certain types of men or women. Barrett,
14:59
it's like a call to arms. Doherty
15:01
tuts. Why do you always
15:03
see the dark side? What
15:06
made them cry when listening to the album? We were
15:08
coming up the Westway and at that moment
15:10
songs they never play on the radio came
15:12
on and a flood of memories related to
15:14
the A40 in London in general. The
15:17
song fades out into a chaotic blur of
15:19
jitter and laughter. Even that bit
15:22
Barrett says, I thought, God, we
15:24
do like each other. We had friends together and
15:26
it was real. I don't like the
15:28
word fun, Doherty says grouchily. They
15:32
still go at each other like squabbling lovers.
15:36
We meet at a photographic studio in London.
15:39
They're wearing stylish suits for the shoot.
15:42
Barrett is little changed. Lice, fit,
15:44
glossy brown pop star hair. Doherty
15:47
couldn't look more different. 20
15:49
years ago, he was skinny, boyish with
15:52
a fragile beauty. Today, his
15:54
hair is gray and he's a huge
15:56
wardrobe of a man. When
15:58
Doherty piles on the pounds. It usually
16:00
means he's not taking drugs. It's
16:02
when he's at his skinniest we need to worry. Today
16:06
he lives in northern France with his
16:08
wife Katja and their baby Billy May.
16:11
He has two other children but admits this
16:13
is the first time he's been a present father.
16:16
That's largely down to being clean. I
16:19
gave up the main poisons and my health
16:21
improved. Then he gets old alcohol and cheese
16:23
and sugar are just as bad and you
16:25
were healthier when you were on heroin. Barret
16:28
gluttony. Doherty. Yeah
16:30
I am a bit of a glutton. It's not
16:32
a joke. I've been diagnosed with type
16:34
2 diabetes and at the moment I'm
16:36
lacking a discipline to tackle cholesterol. Is
16:39
Barret surprised that Doherty's still here? Am
16:42
I surprised Peter's still alive? No he's
16:45
too smart to die. He never intended to die.
16:48
Doherty. I always wanted to see the
16:50
result of things. I don't switch your
16:52
telly off halfway through election night. I
16:54
want to see what happens. Is Doherty
16:56
surprised that Barret's still here? Yes.
16:59
There were times I worried about him so much particularly
17:01
in the early days. He wasn't
17:04
very stable. It's interesting that people
17:06
have tended to worry more for Doherty I say
17:08
whereas in fact he may have been the stronger
17:10
one. Now it's Barret's
17:12
turn to take offense. Hang on. I
17:14
had to pull myself up from the wreckage mate. That
17:17
takes some strength. He's right. Both
17:19
have shown extreme vulnerability and resilience.
17:23
Their relationship is one of pop's great
17:26
roller coaster romances. They met
17:28
when at different London universities. Barret
17:30
a year older was studying drama
17:32
at Brunel. Doherty was reading English
17:34
at Queen Mary. Both dropped
17:37
out. Doherty's sister Amy
17:39
Jo became close friends with Barret. Her
17:41
sister came home and said she'd met this guy
17:43
who was really fit with a ponytail and a
17:46
six-pack and he was a really good guitarist. Doherty
17:48
fell for him as soon as they met. I
17:51
thought he was a cross between Raskolnikov and Johnny
17:54
Marr. It just seemed like a man on
17:56
a mission. You couldn't pin him down. If
17:58
you tried to have a conversation with him you end
18:00
up in a heated debate very quickly.
18:03
It'd start destroying things and I thought
18:05
what the fuck is this? How
18:07
did he destroy things? He was
18:09
angry but there was also
18:11
a creative beautiful side. I tried
18:13
to befriend him but there was no way in. I thought
18:16
oh I'm not good enough to be your mate. So
18:19
I just hounded him really. That's the truth
18:21
isn't it? He looks at Barrett.
18:23
Barrett. Yeah that's 27
18:25
years ago. Doherty says it wasn't
18:28
like him to do the chasing. It
18:30
was usually the other way around but he
18:32
wanted to start a band and Barrett was
18:34
perfect for it. I knew
18:36
that I needed a good looking guitarist but
18:38
also Karl wasn't your average sort of lad.
18:40
He was an impenetrable fortress. Raskolnikov
18:43
crossed with Johnny Marr. I
18:45
quite like that. He chuckles pleased with himself.
18:48
Barrett I don't know who the first one
18:50
is. Doherty. Raskolnikov from
18:52
Crime and Punishment. Barrett.
18:55
Oh yeah I've got you now. Why
18:58
was Barrett so angry at the time? Stuff
19:00
I don't want to talk about but I had a lot of unhappiness
19:02
in my childhood. Maybe I was born angry
19:05
but my battle has been with that and depression in
19:07
the wake of the anger. How's his depression eased?
19:10
Yeah. I'm here aren't I? He's
19:13
been in therapy for nine years and says it
19:15
is heaped. It makes it more
19:17
manageable. I'm certainly not as angry as I
19:19
was and I'm not a loose guy.
19:22
He talks so quickly with a nasal twang
19:24
that sometimes it's hard to catch his words.
19:27
Your speech hasn't slowed down over the years I
19:29
say. No. There's a lot going on there. I
19:32
think they call it ADHD these days. Doherty
19:34
drags on his fag dismissively.
19:36
Bloody hell. This
19:38
interview. Barrett ignores him.
19:41
I did a screening recently that said it's likely. He
19:44
grins. My wife keeps leaving books out
19:46
with titles like How to Deal with ADHD in a
19:48
marriage. Doherty. They
19:51
used to just call it personality. Now they've got all
19:53
sorts of names for it. I
19:56
tell Doherty he seems much more self-conscious now
19:58
he's sober. I know. I must
20:00
have been so mangled the last time we met that I got
20:02
really into it and now I'm just being defensive imagining
20:05
what all this is going to lead to. So
20:07
there's two ways to do this. Try
20:09
to seduce you and establish a great relationship
20:12
with you so you don't betray me. Or
20:15
just don't read the fucking article, which is what
20:17
I've tended to do for the last 21 years. Suddenly
20:21
he perks up and asks what he was like
20:23
when we first met. Was a hotel
20:25
in Brick Lane? I was happy as
20:27
a sandboy at that time, but now there
20:29
wouldn't be the blood or the needles. They
20:31
were my tools in a well. Now I'm
20:34
happy with Gladys, his fabulous Mastiff
20:36
cross, who's here today. Walking
20:38
in the woods and changing the baby. And
20:41
I have a glass of cider and a cigarette. But
20:43
I'm quite curious. I wouldn't mind
20:45
being a fly on the wall back then. It would
20:47
probably break my heart. Barret. It
20:50
broke our fucking hearts mate. We were flies
20:52
on the fucking wall. He sounds upset.
20:55
Almost angry. Doherty. I
20:58
don't particularly want to go over all this. Normally
21:00
I enjoy reminiscing about this kind of thing, but
21:02
I don't think it's healthy to do that today.
21:05
I mean, what are you trying to do by asking these questions? I'm
21:08
trying to find out about your lives and how
21:10
you've changed, I say. He's got
21:13
you there, Bas, Barret says in a broad
21:15
Bronx accent. Eventually,
21:18
Barret succumbed to the young Doherty's charms. They
21:21
formed the Libertines, united by a
21:23
love of poetry, punk and chaos.
21:26
Doherty and Barret came from very different
21:28
backgrounds. Barret had grown up
21:30
on a council estate in Basingstoke. His
21:32
mother was a CND activist, his father an
21:35
artist, until he found a job at an
21:37
arms factory. Not surprisingly,
21:39
his parents split up. Doherty's
21:41
father was a major in the royal signals
21:44
and the family moved around the country with
21:46
his job. Until he was
21:48
15, Doherty was convinced that he would
21:50
also join the forces and serve his country.
21:53
Both were clever boys who gave up
21:55
on university. Barret discovered drugs at
21:57
the age of 10. Doherty
21:59
much later. In the early
22:01
days, he says, he only took them to
22:03
impress Barrett. Barrett
22:06
was by far the better musician. He
22:09
dreamed of killing it on stage, but he'd
22:11
not reckoned with nerves. I was
22:13
so shy. When I finally got to
22:15
where I'd been pushing myself my entire life, I'd
22:18
be crippled by self-doubt and terror. I
22:20
wasn't able to commit in the way Peter wanted. I
22:23
was going, oh my god, this is
22:25
terrifying. Was Do-Hitty shy? Was
22:28
he shy? He was
22:31
not shy, no. He doesn't know
22:33
what shyness is. He says the only
22:35
time he's ever seen a hint of it is
22:37
if the conversation turns dirty in front of Katya.
22:40
Do-Hitty nods. There's something
22:42
from my childhood that's been instilled in me.
22:45
It's like a knee-jerk reaction. She
22:47
swears like a trooper. She doesn't get offended,
22:49
but yeah, for some reason I still have
22:51
those Victorian standards. Perhaps
22:54
that's the influence of your father. Yeah,
22:56
he's the same. It's strange,
22:58
Do-Hitty says. Barrett, it's
23:01
a prudish thing, really, isn't it? Do-Hitty.
23:04
Yeah, prudishness. Do-Hitty
23:06
has had a difficult relationship with his father. How
23:09
do they get on there? Why do you ask that? I'm
23:12
an interviewer, I tell him. I'm here to
23:14
ask questions, and I'm nosy. Barrett
23:16
grins. He's got you there, boss, he
23:18
says again in the Bronx accent. I
23:21
seem to talk about that a lot, Do-Hitty says.
23:24
When Robert Carle and I talked about fathers in the
23:26
early days, we really bonded. How fucked up
23:28
we were about them. I'd love to be
23:30
able to ask him, but I don't think I
23:33
could ever say to him, how do we get on, Dad? Then
23:36
he comes to a stop. Whose business
23:38
is it anyway? What does it matter? Do
23:41
you really care? Yes, I
23:43
say. I want to find out what makes you
23:45
tick. What makes you the person you are?
23:48
He softens. I love him so
23:50
much, and I feel that a big part of
23:53
me changing the way I'm living my life, particularly
23:55
since I got married and stopped taking heroin, is
23:57
to be accepted by him. And now... Doherty's
24:00
tearful. I've never seen him like this before.
24:03
I think it's too much for him to see
24:05
past. You don't have to go that far,
24:08
Barrett says gently. Doherty.
24:11
I think I've done things that have made
24:13
our relationship better but in my heart I still feel
24:15
I can't... I don't know. I'd
24:18
have to score a hat-trick in the World Cup Final
24:20
for my dad to say all is forgiven or make
24:22
a million from selling this album. When
24:24
I go up there with Billy May and my wife he
24:26
says to me, are you still trying with the music? If
24:29
I picked him up on a limo with a chauffeur
24:31
or had a helicopter landing he'd be like, oh yeah,
24:34
but for me I've always been happy to write songs
24:36
that I'm fucking proud of. Maybe
24:38
I'm still really seeking it. He's
24:41
weeping silently, thinking about how much
24:43
his father's approval would mean to him. Does
24:45
he appreciate you being successful or did he
24:47
just see the negative stuff? Seconds
24:50
pass in silence. I
24:52
think he thinks I had potential and
24:54
throw it away. Barrett puts his
24:56
arm around Doherty. I've got
24:58
to tell you now mate, I think he's really
25:00
proud of you for just doing normal things he'd
25:02
never have expected. He struggles
25:04
to communicate it like you do. Doherty
25:08
smiles and says, we're doing
25:10
a therapy session for Pete. Life's
25:12
hard, I say. Doing normal
25:14
things, getting by, looking after family
25:16
is an achievement. Life is
25:18
hard, isn't it, Doherty says. I used to
25:20
think I could run on air but now I
25:23
feel the need for community and somebody who knows
25:25
how to fix pipes. Barrett laughs.
25:28
Can you do DIY Pete? Doherty
25:30
is recovered. Basic plumbing, yeah.
25:32
When things are clogged up. What
25:34
can you do? Barrett asks disbelievingly.
25:37
I can clear clogs, Doherty shouts
25:39
defiantly. I can clear clogs in the
25:42
u-bend under the sink. Barrett, how'd
25:44
you do that then? Doherty. Well,
25:47
you get down there with a bucket, you take it
25:49
apart so all the shit goes in the bucket and
25:51
then you're alright for a bit. Barrett. Remember
25:53
when you pissed at the sink at that party in Halston
25:55
and it was full of washing up. Then
25:57
somebody nicked my guitar, that Gibson. Ah,
26:00
happy days. Maybe.
26:06
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back to weekend. Now
27:16
back to Pete Doherty and Karl Barrett.
27:26
There was nothing safe about the Libertines. They
27:29
were raw, primal, and unpredictable. The
27:32
band were a four piece, Barrett
27:34
and Doherty, accompanied by John Hassell
27:36
on bass and Gary Powell on
27:38
drums, as they are today. Both
27:40
Doherty and Barrett were front men, playing guitar
27:43
and singing. Barrett, Rockier, Doherty,
27:45
more soulful, from the same mic like
27:47
a punk Lennon and McCartney. But
27:50
there the comparison ends. The
27:52
Beatles enjoyed global success, evolved,
27:55
and left an astonishing back catalogue.
27:58
The Libertines, they fought. fought,
28:00
stagnated and imploded. They
28:03
had one chart-topping album, the self-titled Second, and
28:05
the four top 20 singles between 2003 and
28:07
2004. Their best songs, Time
28:12
for Heroes, What a Waster, had
28:14
the stern and drang intensity of
28:17
a young girder. Self-destruction went hand-in-hand
28:19
with hedonism. Meanwhile, their
28:21
biggest hits, Can't Stand Me Now and
28:23
What Became of the Likely Lads, documented
28:26
a relationship that had already fallen
28:28
apart. A success story already
28:30
in the past tense. The
28:33
Libertines were done and dusted by 2004, yet there was
28:35
something special
28:37
about them. Their blakey envision
28:40
of an England rich in culture
28:42
without being jingoistic, their
28:44
desire to break down barriers between fans
28:46
and band playing gigs in basement
28:48
suites, and a life-affirming
28:51
raucousness alongside their reckless nihilism.
28:54
They provided endless front-page news for
28:56
the tabloids, usually courtesy
28:58
of Doherty. Whether it was
29:00
about his tumultuous relationship with supermodel
29:02
Kate Moss, his drug habit or
29:04
bizarre behavior on stage, he
29:07
ran away from a gig mid-song in 2004. After
29:11
Doherty was temporarily thrown out of the
29:13
band in 2003, the headlines
29:16
came thicker and faster. He
29:18
was jailed that year for breaking
29:20
into Barrett's flat and stealing items
29:22
including an antique guitar, a laptop,
29:24
a video recorder, a CD player
29:26
and books. In 2006 he was caught
29:30
on CCTV running past 30-year-old
29:32
actor Mark Blanco as he
29:34
lay dying on the pavement.
29:37
It is still unknown whether Blanco jumped or
29:39
was pushed off a balcony at the flat
29:41
where they were partying and had been involved
29:43
in a confrontation. In
29:46
2011 the Crown Prosecution Service said
29:48
there was insufficient evidence to charge
29:50
anybody over the death. In
29:53
the same year Doherty was jailed
29:55
for six months after pleading guilty
29:57
to possession of cocaine. Soon
30:00
after we last met in 2019, he turned his life around. At
30:05
the time, he was having a break from Katya. They
30:08
got back together and he did the one thing
30:10
he could to prove he loved her. He
30:12
gave up drugs and started to
30:14
take opiate blocker injections, which prevent
30:17
opioids producing rewarding effects such as
30:19
euphoria. In 2006, he
30:22
had an opiate blocker implant, but he
30:24
dug it out with a combination of hands and
30:26
knife. Has it
30:28
been transformative? Yes. With
30:30
all the will in the world, I don't think I'm ready to
30:32
lose it. People around me definitely
30:34
prefer me to have it. Good lad,
30:37
Barrett says, patting him on the knee
30:39
approvingly. Keep that up. How
30:42
does Barrett think Doherty has changed over the
30:44
years? Well, Barrett
30:46
starts. Doherty. Be honest.
30:49
Barrett. I was about to say
30:51
before I was interrupted. He's grown stronger in so
30:53
many ways. He can let himself be
30:55
loved in ways he couldn't before, if
30:57
you want to go to the kernel of it. And
30:59
as a friend, it's been easier on me, which is
31:01
a fucking bonus because it means I get to lower
31:03
my defenses. It's not just a big
31:05
happy, happy loving. It's still hard
31:07
and prickly and spiky, and there's a darkness
31:09
there to navigate. The
31:12
darkness is by no means confined to
31:14
Doherty. When I met
31:16
Barrett, I remember thinking he seemed incredibly
31:18
troubled. And by then, he was
31:21
in a far better place than he had been. I
31:23
still struggle now, Barrett says. Yes,
31:26
I've had my moments. I've
31:28
still got the scars. Doherty. It's
31:31
a strange crossing point, because you've got
31:33
this one fella who is from a disciplined
31:35
and ordinary background who had this romantic vision.
31:38
He's talking about himself. And
31:40
you had someone from a really chaotic
31:42
background who was maybe longing for normality.
31:45
I was going the other way, and we met right
31:47
there. We tried to hold on to
31:49
each other in the storm. What
31:52
does Doherty think has changed most about Barrett?
31:56
On a purely basic level, he's
31:58
got bricks and water around him. He's got
32:00
home. Is a huge thing. I
32:03
quite enjoyed the vagrancy and so for surf
32:05
and score in. A. Don't think,
32:07
how did. Bar.
32:09
It says his dream was always to feel
32:12
normal on his own terms. To
32:14
for like I can make it into society. I
32:16
can exist on this planet and I don't have
32:18
to just throw myself into the canal. Paris
32:21
as becoming a father, his two children
32:23
aged nine and thirteen with his pollinate
32:25
eighty langley. Finally gave him a sense
32:27
of belonging. The. Something about
32:29
having kids. He can't switch off
32:31
and let the depression overcome you. This.
32:34
No longer an option. Then. It makes
32:36
you realize that if that's not an option now. What?
32:38
Was about in the first place. And.
32:40
On a. Little bit paranoid. For.
32:44
A long time though. it's he was homeless, relying
32:46
on the goodwill of friends and lovers for a
32:48
roof over his head. In
32:50
Twenty seventeen Bar invested in a
32:52
seaside hotel in Margate. partly so
32:55
dirty, had somewhere to live, He.
32:57
Called it the Albion Rooms after the
32:59
first flat they lived in together had
33:01
it refurbished and go a studio in
33:03
the site. This. Is where the
33:05
new album was recorded. Could.
33:08
This record finally make them wealthy.
33:11
Yes, in theory. Though.
33:13
It he says. But. For me,
33:15
there were taxpayers for fifteen years ago.
33:18
Was every time I think I've made a
33:20
pair of pants is given immediately. In.
33:24
He's I've always treated to say
33:26
it's complicated though. Now. Living
33:28
in France and my child support. Is. Like
33:30
sissy first with the money thing. I've.
33:33
Always said one day we'll make a record that was so
33:35
so many. Be one of the worry about money. But.
33:37
He hasn't happened yet. Barrett.
33:40
The thing is, and as you want your money,
33:43
If you can live in a house and not have to do jobs
33:45
you don't like. That. As good as any
33:47
to be, right? The.
33:49
Bones publicists Tony puts into say we're running
33:51
out of time. Turn. His work with
33:53
Bar and Dirty since way back. I.
33:56
Asked if there's anything he'd like to ask. He.
33:58
Has a think. It's. anything you
34:00
would have done differently." DoT
34:03
exhales loudly. Wow
34:05
this is hypothetical. Like
34:08
science fiction. I wouldn't
34:10
have run down Brixton High Street halfway through Can't Stand
34:12
Me Now. I love playing that
34:14
song but I was so mangled and my
34:16
head was so far up in the rafters
34:18
I couldn't hold it. Sometimes
34:20
when I was lashing out I thought it
34:23
was a start of some movement like loads
34:25
of people were gonna join in and smash
34:27
everything together and it was gonna mean something
34:29
and in the end it's just me and
34:32
maybe a couple of others hurt themselves end
34:34
up in prison or dead
34:36
I say. Yeah
34:39
too many dead. I
34:42
asked DoT if he regrets running away from the
34:44
scene of Blanco's death in 2006. Oh
34:48
mate! he replies as if he's
34:50
just been hit. What are you
34:52
asking about that for? He
34:55
says it's unfair because it's come so late in
34:57
the day. If he'd started on that, Barrett
34:59
finishes the sentences for him, you would
35:01
have left the room. No no no no
35:03
no no no No DoT he says. He
35:05
comes to a stop and says he doesn't want
35:08
to sound flippant about such a serious matter. He
35:11
knows he will always be dogged
35:13
by the CCTV footage of himself,
35:15
then girlfriend Kate Russell, Pavier and
35:17
minder Jonathan Johnvall walking past the
35:19
body on the ground then running
35:21
away. Three weeks
35:24
after Blanco's death, Johnvall walked into
35:26
Bethnal Green police station and confessed
35:28
to his murder. Hours
35:30
later he retracted his statement citing
35:32
stress as the reason for making
35:34
a false confession. Of
35:36
course I wish I hadn't run away. Of course
35:38
I wish I hadn't. DoT he says. I
35:41
should have just stood there and waited for the police
35:43
and just thrown everything down the drain. He
35:46
means his drugs. Of course I
35:48
mean yeah basic stuff isn't
35:50
it. Legging it down the street barefoot.
35:53
He's still haunted by the night. We
35:57
return to the new album. Sure. It's
36:00
taken a long time, but it really does
36:02
sound like a band that has finally matured. Do
36:05
they have a renewed trust in each other? I
36:08
never trusted him in the first place, Barrett says.
36:10
These questions, Doherty protests.
36:13
These are deep and personal questions. We
36:16
probably don't know the answers to them ourselves and don't want
36:18
to know. We made a good go of
36:20
our music, which we both believe in and I think we
36:22
both trust each other with. We didn't
36:24
go into the studio with these songs written. We
36:26
spent a lot of time sat there with a
36:28
typewriter hammering these songs out so we believe in
36:30
the album and trust the album. Maybe
36:33
in 10 years we'll go into a serious group
36:35
therapy session and get these things hammered out,
36:37
but there's no time for that now. We've
36:40
got to spend 9 days on a tour bus with each other.
36:43
This is a type of in-depth analysis of
36:45
friendship that might make things uncomfortable and I
36:47
don't want to make Carl uncomfortable. I
36:49
want him to be happy and comfortable that he's doing
36:51
this. The more we delve into these
36:53
things the more I'm likely to say something stupid to
36:55
trust to get a cheap joke and it won't be
36:57
a cheap joke to Carl that will be something hurtful
36:59
so I don't want to do this. There
37:02
is a painful sincerity to Doherty's words. Barrett
37:07
once said he'd never find another songwriting
37:09
partner like Doherty. Would
37:11
he write? I think it'd still be true
37:13
now. He says. Umm…
37:16
Doherty says. Another loud exhalation.
37:21
You want the honest answer? Yes
37:23
please. Maybe I'm not thinking it
37:25
when I write the song, but the first thing I
37:27
think afterwards is I wonder what Carl will think of
37:29
that, whoever I'm writing the song with. The
37:32
honest answer is… Everything
37:35
I write is for Carl. That
37:40
was… Am I surprised Pete
37:42
Doherty is still alive? No, he's
37:45
too smart to die. The Libertines on
37:47
Fudes? Inship and their Talk to Reunion
37:49
by Simon Hadfestone. Red
37:51
on Sam Swainsbury. If
37:54
you've been affected by any of the issues raised in
37:57
this case, we've included details of helplines
37:59
you can contact. on the episode
38:01
page at theguardian.com. Finally,
38:04
habituation. The diminishing
38:06
returns of something stimulating is a
38:08
key component of human nature and
38:10
knowing how to manipulate it to
38:13
our advantage can produce some powerful
38:15
effect. According to Harvard professor Cass
38:17
Sunstein, I'm cognitive neuroscientist
38:19
Tali Sharat, read by
38:21
Kylee Spare. Imagine
38:26
you're out for dinner at your favorite restaurant
38:29
and the way to seat you at the best table.
38:32
It's nice and quiet, so you can have a
38:34
pleasant conversation with your partner. The
38:36
table is also right next to a window with
38:38
great views. You
38:40
drink your wine and enjoy some delicious
38:43
food. The dinner lasts a couple
38:45
of hours. Do you think
38:47
you'd enjoy the evening more if you sat at
38:49
the nice table the whole time or
38:51
if you were occasionally sent to the back of
38:53
the restaurant where it was crowded and noisy? Well,
38:57
that's a stupid question, you're probably thinking. Who
38:59
would want to go somewhere rowdy if they had
39:01
a lovely spot exactly where they were? That's
39:05
certainly what intuition suggests, but
39:07
it's wrong. Studies show
39:09
that people enjoy good things in life,
39:12
like listening to music or getting a
39:14
relaxing massage, more if they
39:16
break them up into smaller pieces. A
39:19
nice table is pleasant, but the joy
39:22
experienced during the first hour fades over
39:24
time. The reason? Herbituation.
39:28
That's our brain's tendency to respond less
39:30
and less to things that are constant
39:32
that don't change. As
39:34
we get used to the pleasant aspects
39:36
of our life, both big, a loving
39:38
spouse, a comfortable home, a good job,
39:41
and small, a great view, a tasty
39:43
dish, we notice and appreciate
39:45
them less. Unless, that
39:47
is, you break up the experience. Moving
39:50
to the more cramped bit of the restaurant for a
39:52
while, perhaps to visit the
39:54
bathroom, will trigger dishabituation, making
39:57
the luxury of your window seat more salient.
40:01
For another example, consider
40:03
vacations. A few years ago,
40:05
one of us, Pally, went on a work
40:07
trip to a sunny resort in the Dominican
40:09
Republic. Her mission was to find
40:11
out what made holidaymakers happy and why.
40:14
She interviewed people about their experiences and
40:16
asked them to fill out surveys. When
40:19
the data was in, she noticed one
40:21
word that appeared again and again. Vacationers
40:25
spoke of the joy of seeing the
40:27
ocean for the first time. The
40:29
first swim in the pool, the
40:32
first sip of a holiday cocktail.
40:34
Firsts seemed hugely important.
40:37
You cannot habituate to a first. As
40:41
firsts usually happen earlier in a vacation, Pally
40:43
wondered if people had a better time at
40:45
the start of their trips. Luckily,
40:47
the large travel company with which she
40:50
was working had asked customers from around
40:52
the world to rate their feelings throughout
40:54
their holidays. Crunching those numbers
40:56
revealed that joy peaked 43 hours in.
40:58
At the end of day
41:01
two, after people had got their bearings
41:03
was when they were happiest. Thereafter,
41:05
it was all downhill. Which
41:08
is not to say that they found themselves miserable
41:10
by the end. Even when
41:12
they returned home, many still benefited from
41:15
a warm holiday afterglow. Still,
41:17
less than a week passed by before
41:19
they quickly adjusted to home life. Work,
41:22
school runs, bills. Within seven
41:24
days, it was difficult to detect any effect
41:26
of the time away on their mood.
41:29
This evidence suggests that you might benefit
41:32
most from several small trips spread throughout
41:34
the year rather than one long escape.
41:37
That way, you will maximise firsts
41:39
and afterglows. Not to mention
41:41
the pleasure of anticipation, which you will experience
41:43
more often. This
41:45
applies much more generally than holidays, of
41:48
course. For example, people who
41:50
were given massages with breaks in between
41:52
were found to have enjoyed it more
41:54
than those who weren't interrupted. Anything
41:57
that is wonderful will become at least a bit
41:59
of a deal. bit less wonderful over time.
42:02
Why not take a break and enjoy it all
42:04
over again? What
42:06
about unpleasant experiences? Should
42:09
you divide those up too? Imagine
42:11
you had to clean a toilet. Would you
42:13
rather do it in one go or take little
42:15
breaks every ten minutes? Or
42:17
suppose that your upstairs neighbour, Marvin,
42:19
is practicing the drums, and
42:21
that you can hear the annoying noise loud and
42:23
clear. Should you make Marvin a cup
42:25
of coffee so that you both get a break from
42:28
the bang bang bang of his drumsticks? Most
42:31
people want to endure the unpleasantness
42:33
in chunks. When researchers asked people
42:35
whether they would like a break from smelling
42:38
a nasty odour, or just have the whole
42:40
thing over and done within one go, 90
42:43
people said, breaks please. The
42:46
vast majority, 82 out of 119, also
42:49
said they wanted a break from an irritating
42:52
noise. They did so because they
42:54
believed the experience would be less upsetting with
42:56
a breather. It
42:58
seems like a reasonable prediction, but
43:00
it isn't correct. When people were
43:02
actually exposed to the noise, those who
43:05
took time out suffered more overall. The
43:07
break interrupted their natural habituation
43:09
to the unwelcome stimulus. The
43:12
lesson? If you need to complete
43:14
an unpleasant task, it would probably be wise
43:16
not to chop it up. Once you
43:18
come back, the smell will be worse,
43:21
the noise louder, and the experience grimmer
43:23
overall. There's some
43:25
folk wisdom embodied here, perhaps. Exortations
43:28
to get it over and done
43:30
with, or rip off the
43:32
band-aid, are familiar. And in Absence
43:35
Makes the Heart Grow Fonder, we
43:37
have perhaps some age-old advice that
43:39
recognises the influence of habituation in
43:41
relationships. But although they're
43:43
there in our language, it seems we
43:46
have a hard time overcoming our intuitions
43:48
to the contrary. The results
43:50
of psychological experiments are clear, however,
43:52
and being mindful of habituation's powerful
43:54
effect could help us all experience
43:56
a bit less pain and a
43:58
little more pain. pleasure. That
44:04
was The Big Idea. This simple behavioral
44:06
trick can help you get more out
44:08
of life by Cass Sunstein and Tally
44:10
Sharrett. Read by Carlis
44:12
Pear. That's
44:16
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