Fab said it best, but was he right? Does a side piece really make the real relationship that much sweeter? In this episode, we explored a few aspects of living in the shadows. What would you accept in exchange for being an appetizer? Money, clo

Episode 40: There's Levels To This Toxicity!

Jan 28th, 2021 55m 25s

"Hi, I'm Toxic" @ Tre_Thongz voice! In this episode, Steph, Tre, Calvin, and Josh dive a bit deeper into the levels of toxicity we pass through on a normal basis. The ladies ban together in an attempt to convince Calvin and Josh, we have toxici

Episode 39: I've Got Concerns

Jan 21st, 2021 56m 39s

I’ve got concerns! In this episode the squad introduces a few variables to a fairly new situation that could end it ASAP. Tre checks the temp in room for how much patience we really have, while Ms. Thongz is ready for all the smoke! Steph tries

Episode 38: That's Not What We Doing

Jan 14th, 2021 53m 49s

General consensus ... F**k them kids ! Lol. J/k. In this weeks episode, Tre & Josh w. the help of special guest Tré Thongz break down the possible boundaries in having relationships w. an ex partners child(ren) while in a new relationship. It s

Rules of Engagement!

Nov 21st, 2020 1h 1m

Steph, Tre, and Josh return this week to provide some insight, for those of us who are unaware if we're crossing the line or not. Is it ever ok to embrace your friends significant other so warmly that onlookers are confused? Are little white li

GM Amazing!

Nov 7th, 2020 54m 53s

The gang returns this week to drop some gems for the people in the back. Is routine always good or do you prefer to spice it up? Are you a victim of generic or personalized good morning texts & can you tell the difference? Steph takes the peopl

Pressure Bursts Pipes II: Too Hot To Handle

Oct 31st, 2020 56m 48s

PT.2 Can you handle it ?The squad is back to pick up the pieces in this week’s episode. Samira is back to give insight on her renditions of monogamy & polygamy. Her and Steph dive deep into the realities and expectations of a romantic partner,

Pressure Bursts Pipes, but also Makes Diamonds

Oct 24th, 2020 59m 6s

This weeks episode was nothing short of #UnHinged as the OGs dove into the ever popular topic of “What Are We?” in relation to the pressures of millennial dating. While Tre did not take his dating lightly (when he was eligible), Steph believed

How Did We Get Here?

Oct 10th, 2020 51m 33s

The squad is back with the shenanigans as we enter the October season. Tre causes an uproar this episode with thought provoking questions about societal acceptance. What is really happening in 2020 & is it too late to turn back ?? Between male

Then VS. Now

Oct 3rd, 2020 56m 55s

As September leaves the building, so does the squad with the September Stereotype series. In this final episode, everyone shares their rite passage journeys into adulthood with ageism. While it all feels like yesterday, it’s clear that life has

Colorism!

Sep 19th, 2020 59m 59s

The squad is back this week to tackle one of the most controversial ethnic topics amongst the black community: colorism.While some may think separation within one’s own group of people is nonexistent , Tre & Steph welcomes us into their world

September Stereotype Series (Part 2): Black vs. White

Sep 14th, 2020 1h 2m

In the second part of the series, Steph, Tre, and Josh address some stereotypes associated with being black vs. being white. Are there some stereotypes that were instilled in us as children, that still hold true today? Steph takes to IG Live to

September Stereotype Series (Part 1): Gender Roles

Sep 5th, 2020 55m 20s

The series kicks off with the infamous gender stereotypes. Are some duties ingrained from birth or are we tainted with expectation ? Samira & Steph hem up Josh with gender-sensitive reversals while Tre learns something about women and masculine

Growing Up Black pt.2

Aug 29th, 2020 56m 3s

This part 2 episode brings the gang back to revisit their childhood and life lessons. Steph and Samira shed light on life as little black girls while Tre turns up the heat with his “house rule.” Josh speaks on his not- so -average upbringing th

"90-Day Rule"

Aug 22nd, 2020 55m 30s

In this episode, Samira, Steph, and Josh tackle the in's and outs of the ever famous "90-day Rule referenced in Steve Harvey’s “Think like a Man” novel. 90 days of dating without sex, Could you do It???Since Tre couldn't be with the squad this

Growing up Black! (pt. 1)

Aug 15th, 2020 58m 55s

In this episode, Samira, Steph, Tre, and Josh dive into the topic of growing up black. After we came to a general consensus that our parents were unapologetic in our adolescent years, the convos of today have a different tone. Steph recalls her

Mo’ Money, Mo’ Problems!

Aug 2nd, 2020 55m 19s

This episode is “All about the Benjamins!” Samira, Tre, Steph, and Josh discuss a few different scenarios in which money can make or break a relationship. Sharing a raise with a significant other, weighing in on purchasing an engagement ring an

I'll be Damned!

Jul 25th, 2020 54m 51s

In this episode, Samira, Steph, Tre, and Josh touch the surface of a few trialing social topics. We react to the Mayor of Atlanta being sued by its very own Governor, Nick Cannon’s "break up" with Viacom, and Kanye’s latest campaign shenanigans

En•Tangle•Ment

Jul 16th, 2020 59m 37s

In this episode, Tre, Samira, Steph, and Josh give their opinion on the buzz worthy topic of a seemingly private situationship amongst two very public figures that has since been given the title of “Entanglement”. Needless to say, the squad had

That’s Not Your Family!

Jul 4th, 2020 48m 53s

In this episode, Samira, Tre, Steph, and Josh explore options for lingering ex’s after a breakup. Do they break up with friends and family too? Tre and Steph don’t seem to think so, while Samira and Josh want them gone!--- This episode is s

Iced out ex

Jun 20th, 2020 1h

In this episode, Samira, Steph, Tre, and Josh tried to figure out what the guidelines were for keeping jewelry from past relationships. Steph, Samira, and Josh seemed unbothered, while Tre and our special guest Jonny, had a major issue with it.

Mental health check

Jun 13th, 2020 1h 2m

In this episode Samira, Steph, Tre, and Josh give a little insight to their mental states in today’s trialing times; We stand together! We love you all. BLM!--- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. htt

Heaux phase loading?!

May 30th, 2020 1h 20m

In this episode, Samira and Josh spearhead the hoe phase revolution, while Tre and Steph doubt its necessity. Samira and Tre are adamant about keeping sex on the table, while Steph and Josh don’t mind conforming a bit for the greater good. --

Who’s out of bounds? 🤔

May 25th, 2020 57m 57s

In this episode, we take a Game Show approach and contestants Tre, Steph, and Josh play “Who’s Outta Bounds?” where we tiptoe the fine lines between a partner being controlling and/or concerned. Tre isn’t going for any of Josh’s foolishness, an

Knuck if you Buck 🥊

May 19th, 2020 52m 57s

In this episode the squad tackles the topic of physicality between the opposite sexes. We try to decide when/if it’s ever ok to put your hands on a woman, as a man. Steph, Tre, Samira, and Josh carefully navigate the waters of this murky topic.