Pretty self-explanatory. A re-hash of self-care and an added perspective. Gone till December at least so be well and take care of yourselves while I’m away.

Episode 45: WAP and the Fun Police

Aug 14th, 2020 45m 5s

I’ll keep it short and sweet. This week, I discuss the awesomeness that is WAP (aka Wet Ass Pussy) and the stealers of joy called the Fun Police who had all their think pieces about it. ENJOY! DROWN IN IT!!!!!!

Episode 44: Don't Come In Here With That Bullshit!

Aug 7th, 2020 42m 31s

In different ways and instances, people will come to you or to a group of people (friends, family, lovers) with some pure tomfoolery. Some foolishness they know they shouldn't be walking in with. In this week's episode, we talk about some of th

Episode 43: Settling and Worthiness

Jul 24th, 2020 58m 32s

Should everyone have a fair opportunity at romantic happiness? Is there a such thing as being worthy of love? Is it too damn hot outside? Should your raggedy ass be wearing a mask if outside? These questions and more all answered, next time on

Episode 42: Randomness and Phone Sex

Jul 17th, 2020 43m 15s

Yeah I wasn't really sure what I wanted to discuss this week so the first half is a mix of different things that were on my mind at the moment and the second half is about the joys of phone sex. Enjoy!

Episode 41: So You've Decided To Invoke The Opt Out Option to Clappin' Cheeks: What Now?

Jul 10th, 2020 1h 2m

As much as people as a whole discuss sex and sexuality, we don't often discuss when people decide they do not want to have sex. If we do, it's usually more so in a shaming way. The truth is sometimes for one reason or another, sex just may not

Episode 40: Dating & Sex Vocabulary and the Art of Thirst Trapping

Jul 3rd, 2020 1h 23m

With all the new ways we have to communicate in this day and age that our parents and grandparents may not have access to, it's surprising how people more often use it to avoid direct communication altogether. This week we discuss the newly coi

Episode 39: Gender Roles Stuff, Boosie and It's All Good

Jun 26th, 2020 1h 4m

This week, we over some more gender roles material, some new and some possibly a rehash, how Boosie is a raggedy (which is nothing new) and how it's OK to live and let live. Everything is not for everybody and it doesn't have to be. Hope yall a

Episode 38: The Big Horny & Life Lessons From A Raggedy Ass Job

May 29th, 2020 1h 10m

Rona has folks (predominantly heterosexual men) acting UP so we go over some basic engagement rules for connecting with the opposite sex. Also, I have a new job after years at the same company and ironically enough, many of the positive life le

Episode 37: Is Love Blind?

Mar 27th, 2020 1h 26m

So in all the craziness going on in the world, I somehow ended up watching Love is Blind, the Netflix series, and BOY do I have an opinion about this living train wreck. Listen as I sound off about these wild ass folk and just everything I felt

Episode 36: Bisexuality and Upholding the Patriarchy

Mar 13th, 2020 55m 47s

This week, we talk about the many nuances of bisexuality. When I say nuances, I am referring to the misinformation out there, the societal double standard, and the commotion in the news in regards to it. I also discuss how men are not the only

Episode 35: Where Dem Dollars at? & Pet Peeves of Sex

Mar 6th, 2020 1h 1m

Just as often as sex comes up in the conversation of dating, money will also be a never ending conversation. This week's episode has me relating to the different aspects and opinions regarding money's role in dating and even a bit in sex. I end

Episode 34: Fuck Dem Kids

Feb 28th, 2020 1h

This week's episode is in regards to the tiniest of terrors: children. Not so much them directly as more so in regards to the experience of dating through the scope of those who have children from previous relationships and encounters. My expe

Episode 33: Approaching Women

Feb 21st, 2020 58m 46s

I was asked how I approach women. After taking a good chuckle, I said honestly I don't necessarily have a go to per se. I think that depending on the environment, your approach is going to be different per the situation. After all, Not every av

Episode 32: Estelle Angelique

Feb 14th, 2020 1h 6m

This week, we have our first guest from the field of sex work: Miss Estelle Angelique! She is an escort who currently lives right here in Austin who has had many life experiences. Listen in as I interview her and we converse on a number of inte

Episode 31: Learning Foreign Languages (We as well as óui) & The Year of No

Feb 7th, 2020 1h 7m

Welcome back to a new season of Tossed Salads and Scrambled Eggs! Did you miss me? If not, I'm still here anyways. I start off this season with how one may go about transitioning from a mindset of a single person to an individual sharing a rela

Episode 30: Hobosexuals and Other Phenomena I Learned as an Adult

Dec 20th, 2019 57m 3s

As a child, you speak and think like a child. However, when you become an adult, they don't give you a manual or anything. You're just kinda thrust into the world as if you know everything in existence and that you will figure it all out. So ma

Episode 29: National Geographic: Clubs, Parties, and Kickbacks

Nov 29th, 2019 1h 26m

I hope you all had a great Turkey Day with family and/or friends!!!! I decided to have a fun episode this week. I have mostly retired from going out as fa as clubs go. I might attend a party or kickback under the right circumstances but I haven

Episode 28: Lost Arts

Nov 22nd, 2019 1h 1m

Here for you listening pleasure, we discuss some treasures in this world that are free to use, yet heavily underutilized. This week, we will examine aspects of life that are in my eyes "lost arts", or those keys to making life so much better t

Episode 27: Infidelity, Sexual Coercion, and Proper Condom Usage

Nov 15th, 2019 1h 11m

There are more than a few topics in the world that fall under the umbrella of awkward conversations. As a an aspiring therapist, I am big on approaching the elephants in the room. After all, it's not like not discussing them make them disappear

Episode 26: Sex Myths

Nov 8th, 2019 1h 22m

People love making up shit and spreading misinformation. Remember that episode of Moesha when Myles thought he got ol girl pregnant because they slow danced? As we all know, unless they was doin the slow horizontal mambo naked, she's 100% not p

Episode 25: Body Image/Body Shaming

Nov 1st, 2019 1h 43m

Body image is something I believe most of us struggle with at some point in life. How you feel about the body you have and the individual parts you were given to work with is not always pleasant and happy in a world that constantly has opinions

Episode 24: STDs/STIs

Oct 25th, 2019 1h 26m

It would not be responsible to have open and frank discussions about sexuality if we are not going to talk about the importance of safe sex. In this episode, we discuss the basic facts of STDs/STIs as well the stigma behind this topic and preve

Episode 23: Top 5 & How Important Is Sex?

Oct 18th, 2019 1h 9m

Everybody has those things that ,above all others that may be on the list, are most important when out in these dating streets. That list is also malleable. It changes, shifts around, and evolves depending on your life circumstances, your cultu

Episode 22: Working Out The Kinks

Oct 11th, 2019 1h 12m

In this episode, I explore one of my favorite discoveries since embarking on this journey to becoming a couples counselor and sex therapist: an actual created map of human sexuality! I run down as much of the poster as I can, discussing all the