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housing lender. Welcome
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to another greatest hits episode of the
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Stacking Benjamin Show. Hey everyone,
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I'm Griff the Intern. How are you
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liking our special five days of podcasts?
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It's been fun reaching back into the
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archives, especially yesterday with Suzy Orman. So,
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what are we doing today? We'll pivot
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Deeds, where we talk real estate with
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budding investor Crystal Hammond and Joe Selcehi.
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On this episode, originally recorded in November
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of 2023, we
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talk about what you can learn from an auctioneer
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about negotiation. It's a fun discussion with a dynamic
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from the back of Ruth
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the Realtor's car, it's the
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Ruth's neighbor and part-time mechanic,
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Dia Bondi? In
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two people who are the
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A big headline first Crystal. so those
7:22
get into that. Less
7:27
or headline comes to us from
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the Morning Brew. A Keep Living
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says that loud Doug founded Physicists.
7:34
Bugs great if if. Read
7:37
it is exactly as you said, better
7:39
assess As a few things, we were
7:41
never here again. you're about to talk
7:43
similar assist Major changes coming. The home
7:45
buying process and acts of this was
7:47
all over the place. Crystals are you
7:49
Now is as us real estate industry
7:51
may never be the same. David Loza
7:54
wrote this piece of the starts off
7:56
a federal judge Missouri couple weeks ago
7:58
found the National Association of Realtors. Enlarge
8:00
brokerages conspired to keep
8:02
commissions artificially high, finding
8:04
them liable for wait
8:06
to this number. One.
8:09
Point eight billion with
8:11
a be in damages
8:13
as crazy. They
8:15
must have done somehow very very
8:17
wrong for one billion in. And
8:19
another thing too, I hate that
8:21
sometimes they do wrong and sometimes
8:24
to see his pennies compared to
8:26
how much they scammed people are.
8:28
So you're like oh, will happily
8:30
pay the fee and nothing changes.
8:34
Rife. With a credit card companies. I
8:36
remember talking to Nyc Clemens formerly of
8:38
Magnified Money about this and when he
8:40
worked for Barkley they had a line
8:42
item crystal that were for fees when
8:44
they got caught like it was a
8:46
budget item they knew they were cheating
8:49
of and they put it right in
8:51
the budget that once we get caught
8:53
we're just gonna pay it out of
8:55
this money we set aside was a
8:57
joke with this one. This when you
8:59
know Chris this is a thing. I
9:01
host also the second Edmunds podcast and
9:03
over. There people talk all the time
9:06
about oh you don't want to buy
9:08
this fun because as a half percent
9:10
fee read or by the sponsors get
9:13
three course percent v h and commissions.
9:15
Have been five to six percent
9:18
for forever. In real
9:20
estate. And nobody complains.
9:23
Everybody's I was like real states
9:25
awesome Alchemy says are bitching about
9:27
the seas here like you are
9:30
raised a second methods site. It's
9:32
crazy how high these fees can
9:34
be. So what it says happened
9:36
is because the seller pays. Would.
9:39
Pay the commission the buyer could
9:41
get him without a see the
9:44
settlers motivated. To get rid
9:46
of the houses seller frankly doesn't care what
9:48
the fee is. Well, they care, but not
9:50
as much as the buyer who might make
9:52
it so they buy less house. While and
9:54
when you're the cell I feel like everybody hops on
9:56
you with all the seas because you pay so many
9:58
feel. Like when you look at that. The statement at the
10:01
closing. It's like oh man, the
10:03
seller pays for both commissions for the
10:05
Realtor, so they pay the other buyers
10:07
filter and there's sellers realtor. Will
10:10
Those days are now over. There's.
10:13
Gonna be the new sheriff in town
10:15
and as he gets they talked about
10:17
what else might change is more flexibility
10:19
for buyers because under the current system
10:21
sellers pay their commissions. And. That shared
10:24
with the buyer's agent. Sellers know if they're
10:26
banned from paying buyer's agent. Some buyers will have
10:28
to pay their own age and if they choose
10:30
to use one a flat for your hourly rate.
10:33
That. Crystal could drop these fees even
10:35
more. That. Puts I think
10:37
a lot of people also don't realize
10:39
that the seas are negotiable. eyes negotiate.
10:42
It does to say as that's why
10:44
this is such a great Hitler. Had
10:46
to talk to the upon the later
10:48
about negotiating but you can say hey
10:51
I knew what house I wanted and
10:53
you know your job was easy or
10:55
you can negotiate with white. Like the
10:57
how many homes you've seen you can
10:59
negotiate. you know how easy like look.
11:02
I've already come with my financing or
11:04
this is a cast sale or this.
11:06
Is no inspection like you can have
11:08
different things in your tool belt to
11:11
negotiate. A lower commission.
11:14
Is. Something that few people do and
11:16
it's been right there forever. Now now,
11:18
there's a good chance that we might
11:20
see it even more. First time homebuyers
11:22
they say could feel the crunch because
11:24
now Crystal. Those agencies are going to
11:27
come out your pocket. Could cost you
11:29
more money. On the other side if you decide
11:31
to use nobody and go it alone is the
11:33
first time homebuyer which people are going to do.
11:36
We're. Going of headlines forever, Crystals people
11:38
just continually f this f. Word
11:42
that too because and know when I
11:44
bought a place that was new construction
11:46
and I didn't have a realtor as
11:48
is knew I wanted to live there
11:50
in that community. The A's and the
11:52
sellers is it actually got a dual
11:54
agency so even though she did nothing
11:57
for me to help me find this
11:59
place see got both commission as a
12:01
buyer and seller in so lot of
12:03
you bit of know that's when there's
12:05
a dual agent when you're working alone
12:07
than that sellers agent collects both commissions
12:09
and this would actually be amazing bet.
12:11
So the buyer, since we're coming in
12:14
with no commission that lowers the price
12:16
by three percent and that can be
12:18
pretty. The. Myths for kids.
12:21
Sega. Sniff! A good fit for.
12:24
A guys have a little bit of a
12:26
question on this. Here's what I've always understood
12:28
about the way the commission's gets distributed under
12:31
what is now to be the old system
12:33
is that if it were six percent. Total.
12:36
So five hundred thousand dollar house? What
12:38
is that? Like Thirty grand or something
12:40
like that? in that range I twenties
12:42
Anyway, so three percent of that goes
12:44
to the sellers agent and their brokerage,
12:46
three percent goes to the buyer's agent
12:49
and their brokerage. and then they typically
12:51
split it up so that each agents
12:53
getting one and a half percent and
12:55
each agents brokerages who they work for
12:57
weather was whatever saw the bees or
12:59
century twenty one or remarks their get
13:01
one point. Five percent is that. In
13:04
fact, true and still the case. Yes,
13:06
Technically the Realtors commissioned goes had their broker,
13:08
some Realtors or their own brokers so they
13:10
don't have to split what a broker, but
13:13
a lot of testing. go with the big
13:15
guys. Like if I'm a Realtor with three
13:17
max and I'm just starting. Remixes
13:19
gonna keep eighty percent of my commission
13:22
and I'll get like twenty percent likes.
13:24
Not that those numbers but that's usually
13:26
the split but as the seller. And
13:28
buyer, you don't care about any of that. You
13:30
know what a mountains going to the program. But
13:33
as a real thera. That's. Something that.
13:35
You need to know because now you know what
13:37
percentage are getting so you are doing the work.
13:39
But. You. Are splitting that commission
13:41
with your broker? Was.
13:44
Yeah. So then I just sort of
13:46
think about play him the shutters game
13:48
here to and are smart enough to
13:50
play chess. So either going to be
13:52
that many buyers agents because if there's
13:54
a good chance at the buyer's agent
13:56
may not get that much money because
13:58
you don't have to pay that side
14:00
it will we be mostly just looking
14:02
at listings. And going straight to the
14:04
sellers agents. I think
14:06
we're definitely going to see the game change a
14:09
bunch there. I think. Your point? doug? What?
14:11
You know cynical me thinks is gonna happen.
14:13
I don't know your thoughts on this crystal.
14:16
But. I think a lot of people. Are. Gonna go.
14:18
Without. Agents because it can see how high the sea
14:20
is. For the first time ever they know they have to
14:23
pay it. They. Won't pay it.
14:25
They'll step in it hard. They
14:27
will attempt to sue everybody for
14:29
their own negligence because they didn't
14:31
get the proper help right? It'll
14:34
become headlines and they'll be this new industry
14:36
the comes out of. This is I think
14:38
might be it a little bit lower fee
14:40
but will be a you know it's almost
14:42
like how many times have we are ready
14:44
in the course of less than a year.
14:46
Talked about people not getting an inspection. People.
14:50
Go! Yeah, I'm going to cut a corner. I'm actually
14:52
get inspection on the biggest thing you've ever bought. You're
14:54
not gonna have it. I think the same stuff going
14:56
to happen here. I don't know. What do you think?
14:58
Crystal. Definitely self, the real
15:01
terrorists has a huge value in
15:03
their value is negotiating the real
15:05
to nosed of the neighborhood. Better
15:07
than you do probably Isaac. It's also the
15:09
contracts to yeah that I think that I
15:11
don't have room to know cert in and
15:14
out of that contract and knows when there's
15:16
some fishy stuff going on. I remember looking
15:18
at some of these contracts back when I
15:20
was a financial planner just because I told
15:22
people mike I'm not a real estate agent,
15:24
but if you want one more set of
15:26
eyes and I would read through it and
15:28
I would bring up these clauses that my
15:30
client had never seen and sometimes the real
15:32
estate pro had never seen. Yeah, the evidence.
15:35
That didn't I'm they're just different things that
15:37
they add that's outside. Of the every
15:39
contract and those can get fishy and
15:41
tricky to so you're realtor speak that
15:43
language or you know the lawyer. To
15:46
they speak that language so I
15:48
would definitely. See a difference or
15:50
his roaches, the a different
15:52
than how that buyer's realtors
15:54
paid for, because for me
15:56
as a landlord, I happily.
15:59
A. Realtor to. Help me find renters.
16:01
That's an expense that comes out of my
16:03
pocket as the buyer, as the landlord and
16:05
a lot of people don't do that, They
16:07
go it alone. But then that. Makes her
16:10
job harder. Just like if you're try to
16:12
buy a home without a realtor. That.
16:14
Is is gonna make your job harder
16:16
and so. It'll. Come
16:18
out a your pocket possibly. but. That.
16:20
Happens at the closing tables and you'll get
16:23
that. Three percent back in the power
16:25
of the realtor and then negotiating n
16:27
what? you're thinking. There's a your sees
16:29
bring into the table for you. Or.
16:31
That's further down. The species has
16:33
trouble for real estate agents, with
16:35
thirty billion dollars, thirty billion potentially
16:38
leading the industry. One. From estimates
16:40
one point six million agents could lose their
16:42
jobs. If you're listen to Sneer will say
16:44
probes. People. Are really crystal gonna
16:46
begin demanding that your worst said yes that
16:48
you actually are worth the money that we're
16:51
paying You are we're not gonna pay you
16:53
any money. I'll tell if you know dog.
16:55
When I lived in Michigan for a while,
16:57
it was weird. how would I moved back
16:59
to Michigan? By the way, Doug decided to
17:01
move way far away from for I was
17:04
a synthesis. sit sit sit sit sit. I
17:06
felt like there was something like that restraining
17:08
order was gonna get a physicists was gonna
17:10
get to that months afterwards. The third: The
17:12
timing was weird for Doug when we sold
17:14
their house. I don't have
17:17
you remember hundred but they were said. I know
17:19
you're reviewing the roads in that subdivision that I
17:21
lived in. And. We were
17:23
going to be on the hook for
17:25
Crystal. About twelve thousand dollars worth of
17:27
work right away as well. Thousand bucks
17:30
was the first times wrote have been
17:32
redone and thirty years because it was
17:34
a subdivision in the way that this
17:37
community was where I lived. That wasn't
17:39
part of our tax load. So. We.
17:42
Were just gonna eat it. I had lived there for
17:44
a bus okay for less than two years. And.
17:46
I'm going to get hit with the first time
17:48
in thirty years happening. I am. by the way,
17:51
a movie, right? So it's gonna be twelve grand.
17:53
Well, we put it right in my disclosure. and
17:56
my realtor who was really
17:58
really super easy He completely
18:00
disclosed it. He said, hey, new
18:03
person, whoever buys his house is on
18:05
the hook for 12 grand of road
18:07
construction. If you live here for a
18:09
long time, that's fantastic. We
18:12
thought it was going to be a negotiating point. When
18:15
the person signed all the stuff, saying
18:17
that they had read all of it, we
18:20
were just surprised. I remember calling
18:22
Brian, my realtor, and going, they
18:25
didn't do one peep about this, and
18:27
all those disclosures of all the stuff. I don't
18:30
know about you guys. I read those crazy, every
18:32
single one of those, oh, there's
18:34
a problem with, historically been a
18:36
problem with the water heater, or there's been an issue with
18:38
this other stuff, whatever it might be. Man,
18:41
it was all in bold, nothing. Brian goes,
18:43
I can't believe it. They must really want
18:45
that house. It was very competitive. People
18:48
wanted to live there. We just thought it
18:50
was competitive. The woman came back, Doug, two
18:52
weeks later. After everything
18:54
was signed, everything is
18:56
done. What
18:58
is this I'm hearing about the road construction? Brian
19:01
goes, it was right in the
19:03
disclosure. You
19:05
read it. Imagine
19:07
having her as your agent, if you're buying it.
19:12
That phone call, hey, Crystal, guess what?
19:15
It's going to be $12,000 more than I told you it was going to
19:17
be. We
19:19
signed everything saying we read it. By
19:23
the way, shame on the people buying it too.
19:25
Clearly, yeah. They didn't read it. They were guilty
19:27
of not reading every single line, but this
19:30
is a lesson for that, reading everything.
19:34
Down here later, it says startups get new life.
19:36
I think this is also going to change, Doug.
19:38
Previously, companies like Purple Bricks and REX
19:40
offered lower or flat fees to sellers
19:42
and did not promise to pay the
19:44
buyer's agent's commission. They were forced
19:47
to close their doors. REX founder Jack Ryan told
19:49
the Wall Street Journal, this is going to be
19:51
a catalyst because nobody could break the cartel before.
19:54
I love the cartel. The question that I
19:57
want to dig into that and I should have
19:59
maybe before. But it's that
20:01
word cartel and the fact that they couldn't
20:04
break in that really makes me well I
20:06
mean, that's essentially what what that organization is.
20:08
I mean, there's a nefarious kind
20:10
of Ingenuation around
20:13
that word, but I want
20:15
to know why they couldn't break in like why
20:17
didn't those business you think if it's just straight
20:19
up Hey We've got a better mousetrap
20:21
here and buyers won't have to pay at least part
20:23
of that fee Because our agents
20:26
are flat fee or whatever hourly
20:28
you'd think that would take off that that would
20:30
be a very appealing product So I want to
20:32
know why they couldn't break in what was it
20:35
about what the National Association of Realtors or any
20:37
other group? Had that prevented
20:39
those other companies from succeeding. I Think
20:42
it's the big name and the protection that
20:44
you feel I remember years ago. I did
20:46
a focus group I was a focus groupie
20:49
focus group groupie like they
20:51
used to feed you back in the day You
20:53
would get cash for your opinion One
20:56
time I caught a bus and two
20:58
trains out to this one place to
21:00
do the focus group Oh, yeah, no,
21:02
where's my time? You know now looking
21:04
back was not But
21:09
this was when This
21:16
was back when redfin was trying to get into
21:18
the market and they were one of the first
21:20
people with the flat rate Commissions and
21:22
all of us were skeptical in that focus
21:25
group I think whatever NDA is
21:27
probably invalid by now But a lot of
21:29
us were really skeptical about it and it's like, you
21:31
know, this is a home purchase This is one of
21:33
the biggest purges in my life I
21:35
want to go with you know a realtor and they
21:38
are like one of the big names I
21:40
don't know you from a can of paint. It
21:42
just seems fishy I don't want
21:44
to just do this all over the internet
21:46
thing, you know, this was the internet was
21:48
all new and everything So they did the
21:50
focus group They did the research and we
21:52
were just like I Don't know
21:54
about a flat rate because am I gonna get
21:57
the same level of service? If I'm an investor
21:59
trying to buy a. Fifty thousand dollar
22:01
home, then me or my after
22:03
repair value. Of maybe this two hundred
22:05
thousand or even if I'm in the million
22:07
area. Do you really? Expect the same level
22:09
of service for a flat fee. I think
22:12
that's why a lot of the flat. Fees
22:14
are like on on know about that?
22:16
You saw this over though happen with
22:19
airlines, right? I mean the Discount Airlines.
22:21
And then what happened? You didn't get
22:23
better service from Delta and American. Next
22:25
thing you know, you get nothing from
22:27
anybody. But. You also saw this
22:29
the opposite way in the world of
22:31
certified financial planners back in the nineties.
22:33
I mean, it was all big businesses.
22:35
You were gonna use a big name
22:37
in these wings that we're off work
22:39
and on their own were. Very.
22:42
Few there weren't that many of them. And
22:44
now of course, I think a lot of
22:46
people now. Crystal final look, look at this
22:48
a different way. So babies, just a matter
22:50
of time. Dogs? Maybe it's now people get
22:52
to get used to the fact that you
22:54
know, maybe work him as a smaller firmer
22:57
Affirm that works differently is actually good thing.
23:00
Is my intimate. To. Maybe they they're
23:02
thinking that to of. Coming
23:04
up next See is a woman
23:06
who works of people on communications
23:09
and See also spent a just
23:11
for fun as an auctioneer. She
23:13
talked about it in a Ted
23:15
talk. See has a new book
23:17
out about the topic but d
23:19
a body is a force of
23:21
nature and we're about to talk
23:23
to her now about negotiating because
23:25
Crystal, you know. We. It
23:27
turns out solar cells short. so
23:29
so so often India's gonna help
23:32
us there. I. Know I
23:34
do. I sell myself short like to. I'm
23:36
looking for it To this talk. I
23:38
didn't realize how much as so by so
23:40
short little I heard about the speak for
23:42
the finance. Yeah, so strap in everybody because
23:45
we're about to pull over and pick up
23:47
the a body. and while we do that
23:49
dog I think you've got today's partners. Sort
23:57
so you're a tremendous loud. Later
24:00
of I burns red wielding repaired or
24:02
a neighbor died and since we've got
24:04
a renowned auctioneer about off into the
24:06
back seat of a town car, the
24:08
thought I'd lean into learn more about
24:10
that fascinating profession since I'm already three
24:13
salesmen, right? So else. Could have sold
24:15
some Fleury painting of water lilies have
24:17
picked up at a garage sale, some
24:19
soccer on E Bay for two hundred
24:21
bucks. Clever that mon it dude was
24:23
inside it must have just learned how
24:25
to pay because you could see every
24:27
for us for wow. I mean it's
24:29
a handrail. Women's or and we all know I can
24:32
talk that sort this out to the good point about what
24:34
if I beat him on be been sorted thought but I'm
24:36
I'm thirty thirty thirty. Four
24:38
Thought about Fifty Soul to the woman.
24:40
drive in the Chevy Malibu. Do it
24:43
or make up in the stoplight. The
24:45
stuff she just bought. The triplets I
24:47
got my front pocket didn't even know
24:50
it today. Trivia question is, who reads
24:52
the most expensive thing ever sold at
24:54
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24:56
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their data resigned Sale: Samurai n
27:24
Double soccer roofs Mechanic neighbor died
27:26
of a dig in and of
27:28
his auctioneer. Thanks. Really sick. I've
27:30
stumbled into minor side hustle that
27:32
the least of which is because
27:35
people call auctioneers criminals supporters. That?
27:37
That's because during the American Civil
27:39
War, the winners of a battle
27:41
with loot the bodies on the
27:43
battlefield and then the Colonel would
27:45
auction off all the stuff to
27:47
the soldiers. Or. I
27:49
mean the ones still alive. Or
27:52
these clarify this before the break
27:54
or as your who painted the
27:56
most expensive thing ever sold at
27:58
auction. While there are less than
28:00
twenty node surviving paintings by the
28:02
artist who made the depiction of
28:04
Christ called Salvatore Monday or Savior
28:07
of the World. Or
28:09
something else Again, common with is
28:11
trivial. Well etti who a thing
28:13
with his John Hancock on it's
28:15
gonna pull down Beaucoup bucks. That.
28:18
Was John Hancock so it's heated signatures
28:20
it was actually Leonardo da Vinci to
28:22
Salvador Moon. the commanded more than four
28:24
hundred and fifty million dollars to get
28:26
This is a bunch of people think
28:28
it's a fake see that's more proof
28:30
that as you can talk really really
28:33
fast people to buy anything. Now that
28:35
I've talked to all I know about
28:37
becoming an awesome new and see if
28:39
the a bond he has anything to
28:41
an. Amber
28:46
Super happy to have her here with us
28:48
to your body. I'm a lot of hours
28:50
in. A I'm mad as well. Thousand a year
28:52
of law to be here with you. Were.
28:54
Going to tell you you know you say to
28:57
this whole project to it is about auctioneers. It
28:59
turns out like when open your book it's really
29:01
about take this is all about hey would you
29:03
haven't matter as as as. Yeah, me too I
29:05
now. Know. How but for has less in
29:08
L but opens with a story that might feel
29:10
familiar to folks who are listening. were Lunar kids
29:12
it was so easy for us he is or
29:14
ingenuity to sort of figure out who he needed
29:16
to to get what we needed and our plans
29:18
might change of what we ask more might. Change.
29:21
But the goal is still sort of strong
29:23
in our hearts and minds. and this whole
29:25
book or this project as like an auctioneer
29:27
easily designed to sort of pop into your
29:30
tiny genius, an attendee geniuses that knew we
29:32
wanted take a you know and would end
29:34
up with candy but still happy that we
29:36
got something that felt sweet. I
29:39
remember these days though I'm saying mail open up
29:41
at like the i don't have to family reunion
29:43
or the big family picnic and I remember these
29:46
days and mom doesn't want you to have any
29:48
more take. You've had enough sugar and so you
29:50
and what your cousins, you guys all starts inspiring.
29:52
But what's cool is and I think this is
29:54
just a great thing to go through. like we're
29:56
going to talk about asking for the first you
29:59
can the have the right people on your team.
30:01
You gotta know who the gatekeepers are like a
30:03
sounds like uncle, what was name uncle Jim or
30:05
something like he's your body dia. Hundred
30:08
percent. I mean it is a lot
30:10
about understanding that in a okay. So
30:12
as I got here isn't necessarily about
30:14
negotiation. we talk about negotiation their little
30:16
bit, but it is really exactly what
30:18
you said. It's about using asking as
30:20
a success strategy and. Yes,
30:22
We do open the book in that year. These
30:24
were like common pool parties we had in our
30:26
household and with all of our husbands coming together
30:29
and we would use asking as an excess fat
30:31
as everybody knows that feeling you got a mom
30:33
or you got a daughter you go to or
30:35
onto your you got your grandma new ass or
30:37
something and they say now and he doesn't stop
30:39
you. You. Wonder like okay, Google
30:41
has snacks and in that way you know
30:43
we can use asking of a way to
30:45
forge our way forward, even when we hit
30:47
roadblocks. But. What Do you draw?
30:49
The line that this isn't negotiation because I think that
30:51
there's a lot of negotiation there as you to negotiate
30:54
with your uncle used to negotiate where the whole your
30:56
mom is you can slip around or that scored on
30:58
because he would grammarly get the candy. That's.
31:00
Fair but I'm all I wanna. Focus is
31:02
so off inside the in I lost projects
31:05
as like an auctioneer with a gold help
31:07
a million women asked for more and get
31:09
it as a keynote and workshop. Like five
31:11
years ago and we've been I googled X
31:13
team. We've been at Drop Occident Women of
31:15
Color advancing Peace and Security. These are black
31:18
and brown women in that department, offense and
31:20
the White House working on peace policy. It's
31:22
all about helping these women use Ask Me
31:24
have Success strategy, in their careers and in
31:26
their business as. A lot and
31:28
entrepreneurship as well. And it's very easy for
31:31
us to think. About was
31:33
I say next? instead of focusing on
31:35
what are you seeing first, What?
31:37
Are you asking for? and how are
31:39
you designing and ask? Such as that
31:41
is the most fruitful high yield maximized
31:43
asked you can possibly make for yourself.
31:45
And then let's talk about how to
31:47
negotiate your way forward. Ask you to
31:49
find that ask. I just feel like
31:51
there are plenty of books, plenty of
31:53
projects out there focusing on the negotiation
31:55
parts I want to really drill and
31:57
on which is it's your ass for.
32:00
And how are you not preemptively lowballing
32:02
yourself And that very first moment where
32:04
we get to be truthful with ourselves,
32:06
about where we see what are limits
32:08
are, and how we can challenge them
32:10
by shaping and ask that has bigger,
32:12
bolder, more courageous, and more aligned to
32:14
what we actually need than we've ever
32:16
experienced before. I want to talk
32:18
in a minute about how this whole thing began,
32:20
because it was. Awesome watching. So
32:22
much easier to talk about this topic is
32:25
how this came to be. asking like an
32:27
auctioneer but before that a you know everybody
32:29
thinks they got to be something more via
32:31
I got to be more I got a
32:33
slimmed down i got a beat you like
32:36
no no you be exactly you right at
32:38
the beginning Before we even start out this
32:40
is not about you changing a ton. Yeah.
32:43
I mean so. What? You're planning to
32:45
is this nurse and that you will be too
32:47
much for some people. those are not your people
32:49
and it's not about being too much in terms
32:51
of your big personality. other could be it could
32:53
be about how charismatic you are at could be
32:55
about you know that sort of your outward. How
32:58
people perceive you outwardly, it could be about how
33:00
you think about shaping up the things that you
33:02
ask for and who you. Collaborate. With
33:05
that if you feel. Like.
33:08
What you are moving toward
33:10
isn't being received. This. Is
33:12
Not. An. Invitation for us
33:14
to krauts into an uncomfortably small position.
33:16
It's an invitation to recognize that they're
33:19
just is miss Alignment. That what
33:21
matters you doesn't matter to them. Miss. Alignment
33:23
doesn't need to be internalized, so as
33:26
a think about asking for more and
33:28
getting it's holding onto the stance gives
33:30
us permission and space. We need to
33:33
go ahead and move forward of what
33:35
we want without powering in the face
33:37
of possible rejection. One
33:39
chrysalis or. Deters. You're building
33:41
the real sea teams. These advice right there
33:43
is hugely important is how often do we
33:45
think it's us, right? Oh, this contractors a
33:47
bear to work with so it must be
33:49
me. too often and then another
33:52
thing about cowering like a lot
33:54
of us to don't recognize when
33:56
we've outgrown a space we've outgrown
33:58
a job we've outgrown friends outgrown
34:00
family. How many times have we cowered
34:02
down to that instead of, you know,
34:05
those people aren't for you anymore or aren't for
34:07
you. And like you said, like, we got to
34:09
grow out of it and stretch out of it.
34:13
So often we're kind of problem solving for the
34:15
wrong thing. Now I recognize we don't all operate
34:17
in a vacuum like women
34:19
specifically are punished for advocating for themselves,
34:22
particularly black women are punished for advocating
34:24
for themselves. But the answer can't be
34:26
play small. I can't have that be
34:29
the thing. So we do
34:31
need to, as we go to make big,
34:33
powerful strategic asks, build a community of mentors
34:35
and champions around us. We need to let
34:37
our dreams be known to the communities that
34:39
we're collaborating with so that when we go
34:42
to do that big ask, people can see
34:44
it in the context of what you're trying
34:46
to do in the world and they can
34:48
help you get there. It's not about what
34:51
you're getting. It's about what you're making happen.
34:53
I remember very early, the very first time,
34:55
you know, when I wrote this book, which
34:57
is published day before yesterday was our pub
34:59
day, you know, I kind of open sourced this
35:02
stuff. This is how I'll always write books. I
35:04
recognize, you know, we did it as workshops and
35:06
keynotes for four years before it turned into a
35:08
book proposal before it turned into a book so
35:10
that I could see what was resonant, what mattered
35:12
with audiences. The very first time I tested it
35:14
was 65 women in Silicon Valley. I said, I
35:16
got 20 minutes to share with you what it
35:19
means to ask an auctioneer and your job is
35:21
to tell me if it works or if it's
35:23
crap. Of course, everyone in the
35:25
room raised their hand and said, it works, keep going and here
35:27
we are. But there was a woman in
35:29
the room that raised her hand and said, okay, but
35:31
this is all great. I want to do this,
35:33
but how do I ask so that I'm not
35:36
seen as and then fill in the blank? Like
35:38
anybody listening can fill in the blank. Yeah, whatever.
35:40
Pushy, you know, bossy, greedy, you
35:42
know, self-centering, self-ish, like fill it all
35:44
in. I knew at that moment I
35:46
had a choice to say I could
35:48
help this woman pretzel herself into a
35:51
dorked, uncomfortable, one-footed position such that she
35:53
can get what she wants and not
35:55
possibly run up against any disapproval anywhere
35:58
and spend a lot of time. of
36:00
energy worrying about what other people think or
36:02
I can decide not to. And
36:05
I've just decided not to. I'm
36:07
like, look, if we are asking the right
36:09
audience at the right time tied to a
36:12
dream that everyone knows you have
36:14
for yourself and for the impact that you want to
36:16
have on the people around you, you
36:18
are deploying a big powerful ask
36:20
into a context that has sense,
36:22
the math works. Okay? Number
36:24
one. Number two, you will be too much for
36:26
some people. Those are not your
36:28
people. And it
36:31
is okay to be misunderstood by the wrong
36:33
people. I've got a one
36:36
more thing to set this up,
36:39
which is I've always, Dias,
36:41
since the late 1980s, I heard
36:43
a phrase which was feel the
36:45
fear, but do it anyway. And I'm afraid
36:47
of everything. I'm afraid of everything. And
36:50
I have to continually remind myself that you have a
36:52
different phrase, which I actually frankly like better than mine.
36:54
I've just had mine for so long. And
36:57
you call it Zofo and life is really finally moving
36:59
for you. And this is where we're going to get
37:01
into the guys asking like an auctioneer. What
37:03
is Zofo? Zofo
37:05
stands for the zone of freaking
37:08
out, which is where all the
37:10
asks we make in our life
37:12
business career live because
37:14
they are bigger than what we
37:16
think we can get a guaranteed
37:19
yes to. If it's
37:21
above what you're pretty sure you're going to get
37:23
a yes to that ask lives in your zone
37:25
of freaking out. And here's the thing. The
37:27
Zofo never goes away. You can think of it
37:29
like this. If I'm not in my comfort zone,
37:31
where am I? I'm in
37:34
my Zofo. And it has that familiar feeling.
37:36
I'm sure everyone listening can recognize for me.
37:39
The Zofo feels like I swallowed a cold penny
37:41
and it's just stuck right below my sternum. For
37:43
other people, it could be that hot feeling you get
37:45
in your neck when you go make a big ask
37:47
or you advocate for yourself in a way that you're
37:49
not used to. And we can
37:52
reread that feeling we get not as
37:54
a sign that we're really trespassing or
37:56
breaking anything. How dare you? Who
37:58
do you think you are story? But we
38:00
can take that combination of
38:02
thrill and fright and
38:05
reread that feeling as a sign you're actually
38:07
standing up for yourself and that
38:09
you're being courageous and that you're challenging your
38:11
own assumptions about what's possible. I
38:14
think of the Zofo, the zone of
38:16
freaking out is also the zone of
38:18
potential because we don't know what could
38:20
happen. We might be making an ask
38:22
that can surprise us.
38:26
Well and that's the thing too that I loved about your
38:28
book is it comes with worksheets
38:31
and prompts to really reflect on
38:33
a lot of different things. When I was
38:36
going through my Zofo, a lot of times
38:38
you notice after even if you get a
38:40
no from your Zofo moment, it wasn't that
38:42
scary. It wasn't the end of the world
38:45
and it got you closer to what
38:48
you really wanted in the first place.
38:50
So that's another realization I liked about
38:52
it. It's like that wasn't as scary
38:54
as I made it out to be.
38:57
Yeah, it goes from a negative scary
38:59
to kind of a thrilling scary. Our
39:02
Zofos grow with us. Look, when I first
39:05
was starting out in my communications practice, I've
39:07
been a long time leadership communications coach, I
39:09
never would have thought that I'd be working
39:12
on contracts that have as many zeros
39:14
as they have on them now. But
39:17
I still have a Zofo. When I write a proposal
39:19
or I go for that big client, I'm going to
39:21
launch a few things this year that feel Zofo-ish for
39:23
me. But I know it's a
39:25
sign, again, I'm rereading that feeling that it's a sign, I'm
39:27
kind of standing up for my dreams for myself. And
39:29
it grows with us. Our Zofos are like
39:32
the horizon. You run toward them and they
39:34
just move away from you and that's okay.
39:37
Crystal is funny. I'm going to talk
39:39
to Crystal here for a second. But what amazes me about
39:42
this conversation is you hear one expert that
39:44
you talk to who says something and it might be
39:46
their quirky thing, it might be their deal. But
39:48
then you start hearing these people that
39:50
are geniuses who have this same, same,
39:52
same and you start to kind of
39:54
get the Milky Way, right? This
39:56
is where things are really lining up, the stars are
39:58
lining up. This sounds crazy. The like Our interview
40:01
with Vicky Baron who dia is one of
40:03
the top real estate people in the
40:05
United States see consistently is living and so
40:07
full Lance He would ask questions of
40:09
people all the time. She would put deals
40:12
on the table. remember that one deal
40:14
Crystal? She had no business asking for that
40:16
deal and she told the guy she
40:18
goes. Here's what I'd like to have happen.
40:21
And. The A C just threw it out there seekers. What
40:23
I'd like to have happened is I can't afford this house.
40:25
but I love this house the I think I would be
40:27
so good to this property. I think it be great but
40:29
I can't afford it. What can you do. To. Help me
40:31
make this happen. Guess what happened to us? The.
40:33
Deal Happen. Don't.
40:36
Have to tell me the house at my As
40:38
or I live in right now which is sort
40:40
of our dream space in the bay Area happen
40:42
because my has reminded me that because I made
40:45
as else i'll ask before even had the language
40:47
of what the sofa was We made an offer
40:49
that was all the money we had and they
40:51
said you know are you kidding me and we
40:53
said no we're not the smell the money we
40:56
have They said ticket pack and lady like twenty
40:58
five thirty days later they came back and said.
41:00
Okay, renew your offer of of all contingencies. accept
41:03
the long contents as he would. We were comfortable
41:05
doing his because our fourth home we're not afraid
41:07
of a little bit of in a run of
41:09
millennials. We. Know how to take. She broke down and put it
41:11
back in our. And. We landed that homes
41:13
and this is a big when I want a
41:15
point you're not as like yes. Like
41:17
they also asked are the kinds of asks
41:20
that can change everything for us is not
41:22
every ask you make in your life, career
41:24
business is is also ask some of them
41:26
are just please pass the salt he can
41:28
I get you know a few more hours
41:31
of your times like they're not all adrenalin
41:33
filled you know so full asks but the
41:35
ones that have the potential to change everything
41:37
are now. One thing that's really critical is
41:40
it does Oval asked means that you to
41:42
get a Now and K Euclid. That's what
41:44
makes it so far west and you could
41:46
incentive to set. Of, I feel like my
41:49
husband and I didn't that example fifteen years
41:51
ago, but there is something called the boomerang
41:53
effect. Which. Is to say these
41:55
people can say no and they
41:57
may come back. In. A month.
42:00
Twelve months, eighteen months collaborators
42:02
in our lives, customers. We
42:04
work with clients that we
42:06
might engage with and we
42:08
want to make sure that
42:10
we're coming at these asked
42:12
moments with integrity and empathy
42:14
and generosity with out making
42:16
ourselves small because you'd just.
42:18
Never. Now. Wolinsky.
42:22
To the heart of this with the a crystal which
42:24
is. Sit tuck uploads of
42:26
them have. When the
42:28
hell did you decide become an auctioneer like Where
42:30
did? Hey, I'm going to go ahead and do
42:32
auction club after. That would be a my Zola.
42:34
That would totally be. Though thousand.
42:38
Dollars. Go and zodiac sign on
42:40
know much do that. Since I've
42:42
been leaders have clinic is is that for many many
42:44
years I went on. Sort. Of a
42:46
working sabbatical and that eighteen months I did
42:49
the artist's way and to n folks are
42:51
listening might be interested in what that is
42:53
Beautiful way to sort of move your way
42:55
back towards your creativity and sort of what
42:58
life you up even if you're not an
43:00
artist or a writer. I got the best
43:02
shape of my life and in that time
43:05
I was like while I was doing pull
43:07
ups and doing journal entries. For.
43:09
The artist's way. I was like i want
43:11
to do something weird and interesting. I'd like
43:13
learning stuff spits out side of my domain.
43:16
you know I like taking it. Took a
43:18
class and spiritual will writing which is very
43:20
interesting and wonderful and I will find a
43:23
way to draw these things back into my
43:25
communications work. Or my husband said during that
43:27
sabbatical hate member that saying that you said
43:29
you do which was auctioneering school sixteen years
43:32
before, twelve years before my kids were and
43:34
a preschool co op and we had an
43:36
annual fundraiser and all those mommies and daddies
43:38
and caregivers. That were
43:40
involved, the running that fundraiser and the school were
43:43
like a might on the might Do you get
43:45
on the might come on. I've been facilitating workshops
43:47
and speaking for he is comfortable place for me
43:49
to be. I didn't know so they said be
43:52
a Bb auctioneer and I was like. This
43:54
is a time where even your now you the learn anything
43:56
on you tube and it wasn't so robust at that time
43:58
so i just kind of sake said. Get it!
44:00
And had so much fun! And a couple
44:02
of weeks later I'm at dinner and. We
44:05
were talking about bucket list staff fright than of the story's
44:07
going on, a promise of any get. To and know
44:10
this news desk. We. Had gone around the
44:12
table. You know what I would do. You know
44:14
what I would? You wanna travel here? Want to
44:16
travel there when alertness? I want to learn that
44:18
and I said I would do so. He's had
44:20
auctioneer for real wealth. Fast forward to my you
44:23
know, eight years later to my sabbatical. My has
44:25
reminded me of that sort of threat I'd made
44:27
in i would like. To. Him.
44:29
So I googled around and like there's a thing
44:31
called auctioneering school as I got an airplane and
44:33
me and a hunter cowboys learn how to auctioneer
44:36
just about everything. And. These
44:38
guys were there for you know we'll see
44:40
dachshunds for sure but also like catalogs and
44:43
send you know people are we learned everything
44:45
like garage sale och sense you're selling think
44:47
starting in a dollar you know and when
44:50
I got home I was like doing with
44:52
it. Then. I could easily the career but
44:54
I was like oh I node. I'm
44:56
really into said an active in the World
44:58
of Advancing Women in Careers in entrepreneurship and
45:01
I was like I will do it as
45:03
an impact hobby in the semi Cisco Bay
45:05
Area for women lead nonprofits a non profit
45:07
benefiting women and girls it makes sense to
45:10
me again the math worked for me and
45:12
so I connected with a local auctioneering agency
45:14
here actually that had gigs went past them
45:16
to me I me I we charge the
45:19
tiniest bit from my cervix a me i
45:21
am care about making the money was just
45:23
an opportunity that to start auctioneering quickly and
45:25
and twenty auctions. Later I realized oh my
45:27
gosh, everybody I work with you know around my
45:29
communications work could really benefit from what I was
45:32
learning and I was not gonna start. And auctioneering
45:34
school for girls. In. Step I
45:36
lost project as like an see or share what I learned in
45:38
part of the room. Wow.
45:41
You never know if you have a
45:43
curiosity about something you want to learn.
45:46
Or experience. And.
45:48
You can afford it in terms of
45:50
time and attention and spirit. Do.
45:53
Even if it doesn't have a
45:55
obvious upside to since never know
45:57
what it'll spark for you. And
46:00
I think that's the key. One of my long-time
46:03
beliefs, and I never put this together as brilliantly
46:05
as the guy I'm going to quote did, when
46:07
I read Austin Kleon's Steal Like an Artist idea,
46:10
it just resonated with me. Because stealing like an
46:12
artist, taking things from over here, and moving it
46:14
over here, and taking that, like
46:16
my favorite thing is to go to podcasts.
46:18
There's a podcast conference called Podcast Movement. And
46:21
I'm learning from comedians, and I'm learning
46:23
from NPR people, I'm learning from sports
46:25
people, stuff about financial shows,
46:27
you know, because financial shows generally
46:29
aren't good storytellers. And you learn
46:32
that from storytelling people, and just
46:34
that synapse of what you learned
46:36
at auctioneer school being so big.
46:39
Give us though it very,
46:41
very, very bluntly, what
46:43
can real estate investors learn
46:45
most from auctioneers? Well,
46:48
I don't
46:50
know how a real estate investor might deploy
46:52
this into the asks that they make, but
46:55
the core idea of what it means to
46:57
ask like an auctioneer is to
46:59
ask in order to get a no. Because
47:01
if you get the no and negotiate down, you
47:03
know, you will be sure you've left no
47:05
money or opportunity on the table. That's the number
47:07
one lesson. If you want to
47:10
know that you have not accidentally lowballed
47:12
yourself, you are going to aim for
47:14
a no intentionally. Well,
47:17
that makes sense. Yeah. And I
47:19
like just because it's almost cheating
47:21
yourself too, because I know
47:23
going back to what we were talking
47:26
about earlier, I had an interview, I
47:28
thought I wowed them because you do
47:30
say I like that you say arm
47:32
your asks what they need, so they
47:34
become the most powerful version possible. So
47:36
you're telling them how your ask is
47:38
actually helping them. So you
47:41
know, or you're explaining, you know, why
47:43
you arrived at your ask in the
47:45
first place. Yeah. And actually that
47:47
quote you're pointing to, there's two ideas. One
47:49
is, I don't want
47:52
women to feel like they
47:54
should ask or that there's something
47:56
wrong with them if they don't. I want
47:58
to say if you want to use Acting
48:00
as obsessed strategy, I want you
48:02
to arm your little asks like
48:04
they were. Your children are your
48:06
favorite. Movies with.
48:08
The best possible tools as if they can be their
48:11
biggest and best thing in the world. Said think about
48:13
you and powering your own Asked not yourself, you are
48:15
already in power Your sit right here you that all
48:17
the things in it. But. There's a
48:19
second idea in their which is that there
48:22
is an offer inside every asked you make.
48:24
One of the things I learned: auctioneering, Was.
48:26
It sometimes I had to sit in front
48:28
of the room and ask for direct pledges.
48:30
We were even selling anything and I'm like
48:33
what's the story here Like what is it
48:35
that these people want? If they're just going
48:37
to raise or paddling, give me twenty grand.
48:39
Ten grand, Five grand. Are you know I
48:41
say every dollar as a hero Dollar Like
48:43
if they're gonna give you twenty bucks tonight
48:45
to support you know women going through breast
48:47
cancer and low income level so that they
48:49
don't get the lights set off, other and
48:51
treatments. Or you know, funding counts for autistic
48:53
kids, have low income families apparent can get
48:55
a respite like on. And on rights. So
48:57
I get really clear what's the offer?
48:59
Insight of this: Ask Amnesty for Five
49:01
Grand. What Are you gay? You're getting
49:04
an opportunity to live and pledged in
49:06
alignment with your values. You're getting an
49:08
opportunity to participate in a collective act
49:10
of generosity with people in your very
49:12
own community and built connections around that.
49:14
Tonight if you buy a piece of
49:16
art, you are going to officially be
49:18
able to call yourself a Collector Feldstein
49:20
So understanding the offer inside of your
49:22
app and I wanna answer. To.
49:24
Your question a little bit more directly. You
49:26
don't. We think about real estate investing. As
49:28
an outsider, I think about like buying and
49:30
selling properties. Buying. And Renting
49:32
Properties Leasing paper saying. But
49:35
I want people to apply this idea
49:37
to send. It's more than just money,
49:39
asks. You. Know we are not
49:41
successful in our lives and businesses alone.
49:44
So if you need to
49:46
find deals that are off
49:48
market. how might you grow
49:50
your network of influential voices who have
49:52
their ear to the ground such that
49:54
you are a trusted partner and i
49:56
want to fiji deals so those are
49:58
the kinds of as that elevate your
50:01
own visibility and influence in a
50:03
particular market. Maybe it's
50:05
about authority. How do you become a
50:07
trusted authority in your community such that
50:09
when you put a deal forward, they're
50:11
more likely to say yes to you even if
50:14
you're making the big ask, which could be a
50:16
big dollar amount or a small dollar amount. And
50:19
balance. How do you
50:21
act and make the asks that you need in
50:23
your own business and career that let you bring
50:25
into balance who you are and the kind of
50:27
work, the kind of investment, the kind of projects
50:29
you want to be working on every single day.
50:31
So I don't want this to be just focused
50:33
on the kinds of strategic asks we make that
50:35
are tied to money. But
50:37
it all leads to just a better
50:39
life, Dea, I think, because, man, if you can
50:41
ask for that mentorship help, which I
50:43
think is part of what you're alluding to for
50:45
all of our deaters. Turns into dollars. Yeah. Not
50:48
just dollars, but wonderful experiences. I mean, my son
50:50
gets a lot of help. He invests in real
50:53
estate in Detroit. He wants to be a part
50:55
of the rebirth of Detroit. So he owns 14
50:57
rental houses there. And he's excited
50:59
about being in these communities, being a force
51:01
for good. It's just that, yeah. I've
51:04
seen as a trend around, and tell
51:06
me if I'm wrong, just around
51:08
folks buying abandoned small family owned
51:10
motels and turning them into single
51:12
room, you know, low income rental
51:15
properties for folks and communities that would otherwise
51:17
not have access to that housing. Like what
51:19
an asset you are to your community when
51:21
you engage in that way. And
51:23
then how do you... I wonder if that was inspired
51:25
by Schitt's Creek. I'm just, no, I'm kidding. That's
51:28
a good one. I wonder. Well, and then
51:30
this also goes back to something you... A
51:32
phrase you said earlier, Dia, and something in
51:34
the book that asks that changes everything. Will
51:37
you teach me? And then what you said earlier was,
51:39
hey, can I get a little bit more of your
51:42
time? That's how you change
51:44
communities is you're in the community and
51:46
you have a mentor or you have like
51:49
the local, you know, alderman politicians. Like, you
51:51
need to build relationships with all these people.
51:53
And how do you do it? You ask.
51:56
And This is, Crystal, actually a great place
51:58
to use our last question because... A.
52:00
D I had the same question this
52:02
is personal for you Crystal what you're
52:04
alluding to like this isn't just all
52:06
whatever you had a big asks in
52:08
year or so for moment for you
52:11
that really change your life. I.
52:13
Did and again this is stuff that
52:15
you know we can all at backwards
52:18
and notice the asks we've made in
52:20
our lives. that teens everything and we
52:22
can reproduce this experience we can every
52:24
day. I mean I have reminded me
52:26
like the a you think you launch
52:28
this is a new idea. You been
52:30
doing this your whole life and I
52:32
was like what do you mean any
52:34
reminded me yes I made one after
52:36
that changed everything. I has a nice
52:38
were married pretty young. I was really
52:40
floundering about what I wanted to do
52:42
with my career. And I found somebody who
52:44
is doing work that once I saw him doing
52:47
that work it was around facilitating learning in a
52:49
corporate environment, around communications and helping leader speak powerfully.
52:51
And I was so socks and compelled by the
52:53
work when he let me sit in the back
52:56
of the classroom and watch him work for me.
52:58
I say classroom but it's You know it's a
53:00
professional development context and I would never wanted some
53:02
things about of a life. I mean I saw
53:04
it and I was like if I don't get
53:07
to do this work I'm and die. Like
53:09
I have. To find a way. And
53:12
I was so. and I was qualified
53:14
in that I had the dry as
53:16
I had the desire to be a
53:18
strong and powerful facilitator. I'd grown up
53:20
in the world of my early working
53:22
days. Were you as a fitness instructor
53:24
says, use being in front of the
53:26
room with a might on my head
53:28
tech and fifty sixties you know people
53:30
at a time when I saw that
53:32
work. I knew I was gonna make
53:34
and ask as Ham and I had to spend
53:36
some time figuring out what that was. But.
53:39
At this point Dia at this point in
53:41
just to be clear for our deters, you're
53:43
about to make the asks. This is where
53:45
most of us suffer from that where they
53:47
called the imposter syndrome rights and were like
53:49
i'm a qualified a can't do it You
53:51
know what? That's a dream. I'm gonna let
53:53
it go. Well, What I recognize that
53:55
I wasn't asking him for a job.
53:57
I wasn't asking him for a job.
54:00
What I really understood in that moment
54:02
and this was the ask. Everybody was
54:04
not about money, it was about his
54:06
time and attention and investment in me.
54:08
And I knew that the ask was.
54:10
Will you teach me? And
54:13
the offer insight as that ask was
54:15
an opportunity for him to mentor somebody
54:17
meaningfully for him to have an apprentice
54:20
to pass on his ideas and practices
54:22
through to the next generation for him
54:24
to expand his own impacts. The brew
54:26
me as if he taught me I
54:28
could be out in the world teaching
54:31
his work you know on his behalf
54:33
all over the globe at the end
54:35
up getting travel all over the world
54:37
so there was something in it for
54:39
him so to speak and of I
54:42
could demonstrate simultaneous. To me, asking for
54:44
having the felt way bigger than my
54:46
britches worth being able to articulate what
54:48
mattered to him in the same brass:
54:50
my chances of getting. A. Yes, even
54:52
though I was sore, he was gonna say no
54:54
and I aim for that now. I was willing
54:56
to be rejected with a pretty good bat an
54:59
eye and that know I ended up getting a
55:01
yes in the next thing I knew. as an
55:03
airplane in your. Life
55:05
changing. Life changing. The.
55:08
Book is called. Ask like an auctioneer how
55:10
to ask for more and get it in
55:12
his you just said earlier. The as available
55:14
everywhere. It is an an audio
55:17
book. I read the book and I hope
55:19
that as you read at Crystal and Out.
55:21
You had some son was set in I recognize
55:24
and as so many folks in that nonfiction sex
55:26
and really can read like a Wikipedia page I
55:28
hope this on did not. I really tried to
55:30
make sure they will not fun for everyone to
55:33
leave and have an alliance nest in it that
55:35
I hope you can experience and you go use
55:37
these ideas out in your own world in your
55:39
own life and your own career yet helped me
55:42
he I'm getting rid of the you know them
55:44
to pry. gonna say know like we all need
55:46
to remove that thinking in the first place. The.
55:49
I said that today inside of our second
55:51
Edmunds team we are having a discussion about
55:53
something that will help our leaders in our
55:55
starters do better stuff and it's a big
55:57
thing and stay the on. Our team was
55:59
like maybe we should try to get this
56:01
done by the end of year. And
56:04
I said oh man, I don't know and that
56:06
I thought of you. Add.
56:08
I thought about so funny and I went. You
56:10
know maybe we should I this it but then
56:12
I also said i'm like hey if we miss
56:14
you know I did want to put too much
56:16
pressure on my team. If we miss we must
56:18
be a while at the bar. Hide let's do
56:20
it. Stacey goes Yet, let's do it like or
56:22
teams by you're not because you see a so
56:24
thank you so much for mentoring all of us.
56:28
So. Happy to hear how this can
56:30
get ideas. We can twist them into what
56:32
works in our own contexts and make them
56:34
as I in I say in the book
56:36
and I think it's true that these ideas
56:38
work best when you make them work for
56:40
you. That's. A great last words were going
56:42
to and on that oh my god was that fun!
56:45
Big. Thanks to D S for joining
56:47
us and crystals! How many times have
56:49
you thought to yourself, oh, that's a
56:51
good enough deal for me as you
56:53
would just ask again until you got
56:55
to know it would. Have been in different
56:58
turn us listeners and so many has a might
57:00
ah soccer he said yes to my. Place
57:02
as a society. That and
57:04
all. and at I was totally screwed.
57:06
So this tens of the game
57:08
the same does everything. And. Is
57:10
gonna keep Dig and dig and dig and. Does.
57:12
You think you're being like a jerk,
57:15
especially like the bodega. Like why travel
57:17
internationally? I'd pay rise they say. Oh
57:19
he didn't know you can haggle. So
57:22
you think people are pussy that hagel
57:24
but know they get what they want
57:26
or they get the best deal. For.
57:29
It does add to be confrontational as we
57:31
think it's You know when you say being
57:33
a jerk it's because you think you're creating
57:36
confrontation butter points and with an auctioneer. Yeah.
57:38
total everybody says no specific
57:40
ah you're right you are
57:42
right about that for a
57:44
of us are midwest nice
57:46
though if one of those
57:48
with forget worth it was
57:50
this are normally associate amount
57:52
of recursive bruce rotary phone
57:54
however and we have a
57:56
know here from listener jewel
57:59
she will Crystal has
58:01
some discrepancies with something I said about an
58:03
insurance company a couple weeks ago. All
58:06
right. I can read that.
58:08
Let's see. So this is from Jewel Robinson. First of
58:10
all, thank you, Jewel, for writing into us.
58:13
We love hearing from our listeners. Okay. So
58:15
and we've been on the windshield like nice
58:18
parking jerk. That's what you thought the note was
58:20
going to be. And then you... Oh yeah. I
58:23
lightened up now. Lightened up. Totally different
58:25
attitude now. This is an
58:27
FYI for Joe as I heard him talking
58:29
about Allstate insurance. I just want
58:31
him to know we were with Allstate for
58:34
auto and homeowners for 35 years. And
58:38
there was a missed payment because my credit
58:40
card expired and I didn't realize the payment
58:42
was tied to this card. So
58:44
the broker never sent me an email,
58:46
never called and no notice at all
58:49
from Allstate. We were hit
58:51
by another driver. No injuries, fortunately. Glad
58:53
there were no injuries. But there
58:55
was damage to the vehicle. And
58:57
since the payment had been missed
58:59
and I discovered it the day
59:01
before the reinstatement date and
59:03
I made a payment online because no
59:05
one was answering the phone at the
59:08
broker's office. Since this was late on
59:10
a Friday afternoon and of course they
59:12
were closed till Monday, they
59:14
refused to accept the payment for
59:16
reinstatement. And I just couldn't believe that
59:18
they would treat us like that after being
59:20
loyal customers for over 35 years. So
59:23
I'm definitely not recommending Allstate
59:25
to anyone. Oh, that's
59:28
quite the conundrum. Well,
59:31
I'm glad you brought that up because
59:33
when you get to the level of
59:35
an Allstate, the problem is it's so
59:38
agent dependent. Allstate
59:40
is less of a Allstate's good or
59:42
bad crystal as it is. We have
59:44
all these agents. You hope they would
59:46
all be uniform and they are not
59:48
all uniform. Allstate's
59:51
part as a company like their home
59:53
office, if the home office hours are
59:55
already closed and the
59:57
agent hasn't done their job. I
1:00:00
think your big issue is with the
1:00:02
neglect of your agent. That's the first
1:00:04
place I would start, is
1:00:06
with agent neglected this, agent
1:00:09
caused this problem. I mean, if
1:00:11
you're thinking about keeping that relationship
1:00:13
alive, I think the thing I'm here
1:00:15
loud and clear here before I get to really
1:00:17
why there's
1:00:19
a lesson here that might be different than
1:00:21
the one that Jewel got, is
1:00:24
that if you're gonna go with a company that has agents,
1:00:27
you really need to do a good job of interviewing that
1:00:29
agent and making sure that it's, because
1:00:31
I think too often when it comes to a
1:00:33
company like State Farm as an example, which is
1:00:35
very agent based, Allstate, which is very agent based,
1:00:38
your whole experience of that company's gonna be based
1:00:40
on that agent. And so, I mean,
1:00:42
State Farm and their commercials, right, to switch companies here
1:00:44
for a minute, what do they do? They
1:00:46
talk about how great the Jake from State Farm. And
1:00:49
the reason is, is they say their agents are
1:00:51
strong. If you get a State to Farm agent
1:00:53
who isn't strong, who isn't actually helping you with
1:00:55
anything, you're overpaying. State Farm doesn't
1:00:57
want me to tell you that, but I'll tell
1:00:59
you that you can easily beat State Farm's premiums
1:01:02
with a company that doesn't have agents.
1:01:04
So, that's number one. The issue
1:01:06
here is, so because Allstate is beholden
1:01:09
to their agents, that's how they've decided
1:01:11
to set up their work, this is
1:01:13
where Allstate created the frustration. They
1:01:16
cannot violate their contract. This
1:01:19
is literally an insurance contract.
1:01:22
And because of that, if State
1:01:24
Farm's corporate office closes
1:01:27
at five, and you want to
1:01:29
submit your payment at six, the
1:01:32
contract is, it's gonna be during the working
1:01:34
hours. And Crystal, and this is where it's
1:01:36
a bummer for Jewel, they
1:01:38
can't violate that contract. If they do violate
1:01:41
that contract for Jewel, then
1:01:43
they're on the hook for everybody else. And they're
1:01:45
regulated by the individual states
1:01:47
who hold them accountable to keep up
1:01:49
the contract. So, does Allstate
1:01:51
have a problem here? Yeah, they've got
1:01:54
agents who suck. It isn't
1:01:56
the thing that Jewel wants to hear, that they're
1:01:58
not training their agents, she wants. them to
1:02:00
give them reinstatement after the
1:02:02
close of the contract, agents should
1:02:04
have noticed but Allstate really, their hands are
1:02:07
tied in terms of, so the only piece
1:02:09
of this that I get frustrated with that
1:02:11
I wish there was something Allstate could do
1:02:13
but they can't, she goes, we've
1:02:15
been with them for 35 years and they treat us this way.
1:02:19
Allstate's treating your contract exactly like they treat
1:02:21
every other contract. Your
1:02:23
agent screwed this up. Yeah.
1:02:26
I mean, the agents all get paid on commission
1:02:28
for the premiums that get paid. So you'd think if
1:02:30
they had a good process and system set up in
1:02:32
their office to figure out what's our revenue and is
1:02:35
everybody paying their stuff because I want part of that,
1:02:37
then they would have noticed that somebody didn't
1:02:40
pay like that's a great service that your
1:02:42
agent should be doing on your behalf but
1:02:44
mostly there's some self-interest there because they want
1:02:46
whatever small percentages of your premium that you
1:02:49
should be paying. Absolutely.
1:02:51
Yeah, but your agent systems are, and
1:02:53
now does that ultimately fall in Allstate?
1:02:56
Sure, because Jewel doesn't think that it's
1:02:58
just the agent. It's
1:03:00
Allstate not training their people as
1:03:02
well to be better or letting them still
1:03:04
exist, right? And maybe she
1:03:06
needs to put pressure on Allstate, but it should
1:03:09
all be directed to the agent and how the
1:03:11
agent messes up. Sorry to hear about that,
1:03:13
Jewel, and I hear that loud
1:03:15
and clear. Very luckily, I have
1:03:17
a very good agent who they
1:03:19
contact me, not an annoying amount,
1:03:22
but about three times a year. And here's
1:03:24
what's cool, Crystal. My agent, a
1:03:26
guy named Scott, has such great systems. I
1:03:29
don't even talk to Scott. Jackie
1:03:32
is the person that works for the agent.
1:03:34
She knows so much about homeowners and
1:03:36
insurances that Jackie and I have had
1:03:39
these phenomenal conversations a few times
1:03:41
a year about, well, what about this going
1:03:43
on? What about this going on? And make sure that,
1:03:45
and you know what's cool? They're not long conversations, but
1:03:48
I also know that Jackie and Scott are
1:03:50
not going to drop the ball for me.
1:03:52
Again, agent dependent with Allstate. I'd
1:03:54
say just generally, guys, that's been my
1:03:56
feeling about Allstate for the last 30
1:03:58
years. In the all
1:04:00
state is hugely agent depended state farm,
1:04:03
much less self state farm. I feel
1:04:05
like as much more of a you
1:04:07
go state farm their bedding so much
1:04:09
that their agents are gonna rock. That.
1:04:12
State Farm agents more often than
1:04:14
not, are just absolutely phenomenal. However,
1:04:16
you're investigating a premium, you know?
1:04:18
Yeah, so am I Know they
1:04:20
talk about low price and they
1:04:23
ever have Never cease it. Less
1:04:26
than yes knock on State
1:04:28
Farm to door if anybody
1:04:30
knows. This reflects. The
1:04:33
Circuit white oh great thing for so they
1:04:35
could have you and I for a lot
1:04:37
less money. We should. Maybe exactly. Let's
1:04:39
do it less be this celebrity honor. Talent
1:04:41
We could be there on. Are they gonna pay
1:04:44
for Patrick the home? Somehow I know exam and
1:04:46
crystal. We haven't gotten the know yet with them
1:04:48
so. We. Don't cost a
1:04:50
few million dollars to man. Yeah,
1:04:53
Thanks. To the note: Duel If people
1:04:55
want to though, please call Bruce Rotary.
1:04:57
What's the number? Hundred people get their
1:04:59
crystal. Your. Head on over to
1:05:01
Stalking deeds.net/voicemail We can hear your
1:05:03
lovely voice on camera or will
1:05:06
not on camera but on radio
1:05:08
or you can just leave us
1:05:10
a know, decides your did and
1:05:12
then we will answer your question
1:05:15
on air. Or
1:05:17
a crystal. What do we do to wrap
1:05:19
this up? Oh so notes. You've got to
1:05:21
show. notes. Ah ah yes,
1:05:23
so has has slept. That
1:05:26
we have we have no idea being a
1:05:28
success of squeezes the man have you done
1:05:30
this before? So has his
1:05:33
sacking deeds.net/so knows he will
1:05:35
get an awesome synopsis written
1:05:37
by yours truly with some
1:05:39
great points. Take a ways.
1:05:42
Sometimes. The ad funny little notes in there,
1:05:44
At the refer to myself in a
1:05:47
third person some time. so join. Us
1:05:49
to get this so notes and it's gone
1:05:51
back to does trivia. You guys don't put
1:05:53
makeup on when you're at the stop lights
1:05:56
in the car at that. Everybody does that.
1:05:59
Now. No, nothing.
1:06:01
Well, it's funny. Not
1:06:03
as much as I used to. Not as much as you used
1:06:05
to. Because I remember our driver's ed teacher was like,
1:06:07
why do people dig in their noses in cars? And
1:06:09
I was like, oh, I know this because they think
1:06:11
we can't see them. And he's like, no, you have
1:06:13
the best mirrors in your car. You can
1:06:16
see everything. So you can see clear up
1:06:18
your nose in the car.
1:06:20
And all that stuff. Hey, hey,
1:06:23
this is an awkward term that I wasn't
1:06:25
expecting. And that's why Crystal picks her nose
1:06:27
in the car. No,
1:06:31
there are no bookers under my seat. Did
1:06:38
you feel any even Ruth sped up
1:06:40
on that one? Holy cow. Well, let's
1:06:42
bring this thing home. She's
1:06:45
Crystal. I'm Joe. We'll see you next time
1:06:48
back here on Stacking Deeds. Doug, well, based
1:06:50
on what we did today, let's
1:06:52
do this. Instead of what should we have learned,
1:06:54
what's our to-do list? Okay.
1:07:04
Well, Joe, first, use this from Dia
1:07:07
Bondi. Keep negotiating until you reach no.
1:07:09
Only then are you at the actual
1:07:11
price of the thing or service you're
1:07:14
after. Second,
1:07:17
ask this question based on our
1:07:19
headline. How much is the commission
1:07:21
you're being asked for? And how
1:07:23
is it covered in our agreement?
1:07:25
It's one little question that could
1:07:27
save you huge money. That's
1:07:30
a big lesson. The true Da Vinci
1:07:32
in this room is probably me. I'm
1:07:35
the one setting the tone for this whole podcast.
1:07:37
I mean, check out that
1:07:39
open I did today. It was incredible.
1:07:41
Reflection, mood creation, just
1:07:44
really fine. All right.
1:07:47
Credit. Can I do it really
1:07:49
fast? She's
1:07:53
really not a sock of fun out of
1:07:55
this room. Thanks to Dia Bondi for joining
1:07:57
us today. You can find her new book
1:07:59
as well. Like an auctioneer, how to ask
1:08:01
for more and get it wherever books are
1:08:03
sold. We'll also include links in our show
1:08:05
notes at stackingbenjams.net. See, I can do
1:08:07
it with that. It was stackingfeeds.net. You
1:08:09
couldn't do it. F***. Ha
1:08:12
ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha
1:08:14
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