0:01

And you laughing and talking about something that happened

0:03

2,000 years ago, and you ain't even made it

0:05

to your promised land yet. Because

0:07

you don't even have a clue where it is you're going.

0:10

It's certain things in your life that you

0:12

should have been there over 15 years ago.

0:14

But because you was not disciplined, committed, and

0:17

you did not identify where you want to

0:19

go, you've been in the wilderness, on

0:22

your job, in your marriage, in your health for

0:24

the last 40 years. You

0:28

ready? All right. And it's

0:32

crazy because, and this is the

0:34

conversation we had when I was like,

0:37

yo, I told my thing to you

0:39

was, dog, think.

0:42

Literally. And

0:45

I was like, I'm going to tell you what's going on.

0:47

I'm going to tell you what's going on.

0:49

I'm going to tell you what's going

0:51

on. I'm going to tell you what's going on.

0:53

I'm going to tell you what's going on. I

0:56

was like, thinking is so underrated,

0:58

bro. Like what

1:01

you're doing when you write all your thinking. Think, yeah.

1:04

Like I want to say this so it

1:07

don't sound too complex, but also understand what

1:09

I'm. When

1:12

you take time to think, bro. So

1:15

there's things I pointed out to Carl

1:17

where I was like, yo, we can make

1:20

this slight adjustment, and

1:22

you can actually make X amount more

1:25

with this slight adjustment. And Carl would be like,

1:28

yo. And I'd be like, dog,

1:32

I think. And not

1:34

that Carl doesn't think. Like, but to your

1:36

point, as a grounds crew, you're

1:39

wired for tasks. Literally. So Carl

1:41

is like, yo, as long as

1:43

I'm busy all day, then

1:46

something should come out of that. And it does.

1:49

But what happens when you're doing that all the time is

1:51

you're not doing what you're doing, which is thinking and

1:54

going, all right, cool. At 50, I want

1:56

to have X amount in the bank. I want to

1:58

have this. I want to have that. Okay, what

2:00

equals that? All right, cool,

2:02

I got to, so you're thinking, and a lot of people

2:04

just get up and you just move into life. And

2:07

you think being busy is going

2:09

to, we talked about that

2:11

before, me and Lee had that conversation, it was

2:13

just like, bro, busy don't equal money. It

2:16

don't. Matter of fact, it

2:19

might be the opposite. I'm just saying. Because

2:21

you're not taking time to think like, and

2:23

so that's really what has elevated me as

2:25

an entrepreneur, as a husband, as a father,

2:27

because all those times is I take the

2:29

time to think. And I always, my

2:31

wife always be like, they are like, you

2:33

know, she says, you know, we

2:36

had some things that, you know, on the other

2:38

side of the family was dealing with, she was

2:40

like, yo, how you move

2:42

like, you don't get frustrated, you don't

2:44

get irritated. Like, how you moving like that? And I

2:46

was like, yo, I take time to think. Like,

2:49

I think everything all the way through. Like,

2:52

so I

2:54

don't have knee jerk reactions like that. I

2:57

think my friendships, I think, like

2:59

I want to be a good friend. I

3:01

think about being a good friend. I think

3:03

about being a good dad. Think about being

3:05

a good husband. These are things that I

3:07

practically look and go like, I sit down

3:09

and be like, yo, man,

3:11

I spent a lot of time with Trey the last few weeks. I'm

3:14

thinking about like, does that make sense?

3:16

And it's like, yo, when you move like that, you're

3:19

intentional in your thought process, you're

3:22

intentional, the things that come back to you, now your

3:24

life starts to look the way you want it to

3:26

look. Because I'm moving with

3:28

intention in my relationships. So I go, man, let

3:30

me spend some more time with my daughter. So

3:32

me and her, daddy, daughter, they, I just like,

3:35

again, to your point, might

3:37

not mean nothing now, right? I don't know

3:39

what it would have been. Oh, my dad is the greatest. I

3:42

can't do no wrong in her eyes. What does that do for her

3:44

at 15? You know what I'm saying?

3:46

Like, I'm thinking about, yeah. Right,

3:48

right. My point exactly. And

3:51

so how much better

3:53

could the things in your life be if

3:56

you thought through the decisions you make? Cool.

3:59

Think through. drinking a two

4:01

liter mountain dude. Just think it through. You

4:03

don't even think. I'm like, yo, some people

4:05

on autopilot. I'm like, I'm not trying to

4:07

be funny. Bro, we was on

4:10

the plane with buddy. Like I said, I'm not

4:12

mad. Buddy had a

4:14

big old dude. I remember we was going to

4:16

Columbia and it

4:19

was a dope, bro. My man pretty

4:21

much had had two seats. Ah, I

4:24

do remember. Yeah. And she was coming

4:26

through Lee. My man was like, yeah,

4:28

I'm like, bro.

4:31

And again, I'm not judging nobody. Everybody

4:33

got their own situation, whatever. But I'm

4:35

just like, he was, I'm

4:38

talking about all the snacks, all

4:40

the cook. I'm like, bro, you already, but

4:42

I'm like, you, you, you got there. Not, not

4:45

thinking this all the way through. Cause there's no

4:47

way if you thought it through 10 years ago.

4:49

Now you might be thinking it's too late or something.

4:51

Like, I don't know what my man going through, but

4:53

whatever. And this ain't too dog, nobody who

4:55

obese or dealing with that. Cause everybody deal with

4:57

their own stuff. But I'm like,

5:00

you didn't think this through. There was

5:02

a time period when you was eating where

5:05

you, you didn't think through I'm going to be

5:07

needing the joint and I'm going to be on

5:09

here uncomfortable. Can't hardly get up. You know what

5:11

I'm saying? Like, and so that's what

5:13

you're doing now is slowing, slowing it

5:15

down and thinking, and

5:17

he said, and he's setting his self

5:20

up and then I want you to go even

5:22

further. And this is what we were talking about

5:24

before. When you really get good at setting up,

5:26

right? The future you, you start

5:28

setting up your, your children also. And you

5:30

start, you're able to see the things that

5:32

they're going to, it's almost like being that

5:34

guy or like, I'll always go back to

5:37

football. It's being a blocker, knowing

5:39

that, Hey, my kid going to have the ball

5:41

in their hands one day and they

5:43

come and they got to go here. So you are

5:45

now blocking for them to clear the path for

5:48

them. That's what, and if you miss it

5:50

right now, then a lot of people miss

5:52

it because you so focused on today or

5:55

the past that you're not even helping positioning

5:57

your children. So for their success in a

5:59

few. The,

6:01

the, the piece I was going to

6:03

say, I see is that for many years,

6:05

and this is why environment is so huge

6:08

for many years. I was trying to make the, I

6:10

said this on Patreon the other day. I think I

6:13

was trying to make the world fit my preferences.

6:15

So I thought by the analogy that we

6:17

use is using a hammer. Like you, you

6:20

will carpenter and use a hammer to fix

6:22

everything. Like I thought the work

6:24

I did fixed our relationship because I'm

6:26

working with you, even though we ain't

6:28

talking, you get what I'm saying? That's

6:30

my lens. Literally man, Molly, Tom, bro,

6:32

whatever. I'm dropping it to do it.

6:34

We didn't talk, but whatever I'm

6:36

doing it, that's I'm hitting literally that's

6:39

going through life. You're making that a

6:41

substitute for actual, for actual communication and

6:43

I'm using relationship, but everything else that's

6:46

a little bit, I'm going through life.

6:48

So I'm working hard, assuming that that's

6:50

fixing everything else. And now slowing down,

6:52

I'm realized that's actually killing everything else.

6:55

Cause if you don't put time into it, it's not going to

6:57

work to your point. If I'm not spending time with Tamisha, I

6:59

don't care how much I love her. If

7:02

I don't spend time with her, it's not

7:04

going to grow. So with everything I'm talking

7:06

about with my spirituality, with all each one

7:08

of the pillars, I have to put that

7:10

kind of time into it now. And again,

7:12

now I'm, I'm slowing all the way

7:14

down. I'm still doing a whole bunch to be out

7:16

there. I'm still in the process. I got to talk

7:19

about that. That's why, how you sending me? I made

7:22

cross. No, no, I'm going to

7:24

send me like everything

7:26

you do today. Bro, when I looked

7:29

at the list, I was like Negro,

7:31

you're not even in the weeds. You're

7:34

fertilizer. Oh, I'm not kidding.

7:36

I looked at the list. I'm saying, and I told

7:38

you like, yo, I'm saying that you're not, don't even

7:40

say none. It's not. You ain't got to say none.

7:42

I want to see it. Cause I'm so busy doing

7:45

stuff all day that I don't even know what I'm

7:47

doing at the end of the half time. I just

7:49

know I got a bunch of crap. Yo, Carl is

7:51

the epitome of what happens

7:53

when you can do everything I

7:55

looked at. No, seriously. So for those of y'all,

7:57

let me slow it down. Carl literally sent

7:59

me. sends me

8:01

his daily routine. So

8:04

whatever he's doing, like workout, this,

8:07

that, and then all the tasks he does for

8:09

the day. Bro, I'm like,

8:12

he got tasks from the church, and

8:14

each person. Really? Oh, bro, from...

8:16

You gotta send me a... Bro, I

8:18

sent it. But I was looking at it going, oh

8:21

my God, thank God I ain't really good at that much.

8:23

Ain't nobody asking me, because I can't do it. Like,

8:26

they could be like, oh, Carl, I need you to

8:28

edit this. Oh, the church needs

8:30

this. Oh, I got

8:33

a conference later on, Zoom. Hey,

8:35

Mark got a XY, you might've been on...

8:37

You know what I'm saying? But just

8:40

like, I looked, I was like, oh, Carl's the catch-all. So

8:43

like, he'll catch everything, and because he

8:46

knows how to do everything, and then he

8:48

also really don't like saying no. That's

8:51

a dangerous combination. It's called the whammy. So

8:54

here I am, I can't really do nothing,

8:56

and love telling people no. I

8:59

be free as a bird at the crib. With

9:02

stuff, I do what I wanna do. And what

9:04

I wanna do is think. Yeah. Bro,

9:07

I promise you. Carl will tell you, bro,

9:12

have we not, I ain't trying to brag, helped

9:15

you make more money doing

9:17

less than you've ever done in your life? Literally,

9:21

I'm talking about, like I've seen a

9:23

six-figure business happen in about a month.

9:26

Yeah. In a month. Consecutive months.

9:29

We gonna do a little bit like this, and then we're

9:31

gonna think. And now we do, okay,

9:35

you ever see those really big

9:39

chess boards, and you see the people, and

9:41

they not moving. They'll

9:43

leave and come back the next day,

9:45

and be like, bam.

9:48

That's the, when you say this is chess,

9:50

not checkers, that's what I think of in my head,

9:52

is like, all right,

9:54

cool, I'ma study this board, and

9:57

before I move, I'm

9:59

going to. to be very intentional with it. And I'm going

10:01

to think because I don't

10:04

play chess. You do. I

10:06

think you got

10:08

it. Everything is impacted by one move.

10:12

Very much so. So you can't just and

10:14

so that's what I'm telling you. People just

10:16

be and you just do it. And then you

10:18

like, whoa, that fell that now. Whoa, you took

10:20

my what? Yeah. And it's like, bro,

10:23

you didn't think that through. But they are not

10:25

to cut you, but they are. They're strategic openings

10:27

in chess. Oh, bright. Please break it down. Like

10:29

I'm talking about. And I'm not no check them

10:32

out. No, no, no, no. But I'm saying they're

10:34

strategic. They're strategic openings. You open this way. If

10:36

you're planning to go this way, you open this

10:38

way. If you're planning to do that, it's like,

10:40

it's war to our depending on what you want

10:43

to do in the future. There's a sad

10:45

move. It's going to

10:47

dictate that. You know what I'm saying? So that's what I'm telling

10:49

you. Like for those of you out there, if

10:52

your health don't look the way you want

10:54

it to look, there's a chance that when

10:56

you were before you were unhealthy, you

10:59

didn't think through what health would

11:01

look or the moves that would it would

11:03

take if your marriage, like,

11:05

yo, we all have great

11:07

marriages by the grace of God. Like I said, I

11:09

don't think it's a coincidence that, you know, we doing

11:11

this pod and everybody holds each other accountable. But like,

11:14

yo, I have to think through

11:16

like we talk all the time. Like brother,

11:18

other day, Mark been married for how long?

11:20

And he almost, he FaceTime, he told my,

11:22

my girl coming home, he make a salmon.

11:25

He got the asparagus. He got

11:27

what he call it the Turkey

11:29

bacon or back and whatever. Got

11:32

the, the Rose wine on Chilco

11:34

wife coming home and it's like,

11:36

absolutely. But he thinking that through,

11:38

you think like, like that's intentional.

11:40

And it's like, bro, you like

11:43

some people get on autopilot. You wake up, you

11:45

ain't doing nothing for your girl. Like

11:47

you wake up, you, you ain't need that. Like this, the person

11:49

that you told you love more than anything in the world, you

11:52

ain't texting her. You ain't, you know what

11:54

I'm saying? So what happens is it starts to get stale and

11:56

it, you didn't meet, you never, what is,

11:59

uh, man, come on, help

12:01

me out. What's the famous line? Uh,

12:04

if you're not intentionally, uh, um,

12:07

if you're not intentionally trying to get rich, you're going

12:09

to end up broke or someone accidentally poor accidentally. Yeah.

12:11

Shout out to Rob Wilson. And we messed up the

12:14

quote. Rob, you could tell us later. Rob

12:17

said, if you, if you're not intentionally trying

12:19

to get rich, you might

12:21

end up accidentally poor.

12:24

And that, but, but that's so

12:27

it's intentionality in that, you know what I'm saying?

12:29

And so, um, no, bro, that's,

12:31

that's big. Anything else y'all want to share from

12:33

y'all? Uh, conversation. So

12:35

no, no, we good. I actually found out

12:37

I need lead back. I need lead back.

12:39

So pay it. Tran, we talked about the

12:41

scenario with email wasn't here, but

12:44

I got a little more insight. I asked

12:46

the question about that. So Lee, come on

12:48

over here. Come on real quick. Yeah. If

12:50

you're a listen, our Patreon

12:52

fam understands the full, yeah. Y'all about

12:55

to get a piece. But for those

12:57

of y'all, this is a Lee lamb,

12:59

Lee Lizzo, uh, ET long time, long

13:01

time, new E when he was 19,

13:04

20, 21 Lee, was

13:07

you at the whole conference? Not the

13:09

whole conference. What you did when I was, when

13:11

I was speaking at the end, I got that.

13:13

My flight landed later. I tried to get in

13:15

there. You know, I am when I, that long

13:18

line was over there and everybody was talking to

13:20

me and saying, yeah, I said this, I said,

13:22

I saw, I saw a dude look just like

13:24

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13:26

literally said that. And then all the sudden he

13:28

came up to me and was like, what's up,

13:31

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hilarious store. And I'm not just

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saying that. Right, no, no, legit.

17:26

The funniest moment in podcast history.

17:28

We can't say it all. No, no,

17:31

no, no. And I want him to

17:33

tell me the what happened after cause

17:35

I got some insight. Yes. I

17:38

asked him for the question afterwards. So I

17:40

found, well, I want you to tell it.

17:42

Okay. But from my understanding, it

17:44

didn't end there. Hmm.

17:47

It turned into some other people coming together

17:49

and it turned into something. That's what I

17:51

heard. Some guys, I think

17:53

if I'm remember, correct, a group of

17:56

guys, I think tried to roll up

17:58

on E and they were. It

18:00

was a fret that I joined later

18:02

the gammas Because the

18:04

guy that got whoop went and told some

18:06

of my big brother No,

18:10

no, it turned into like the

18:13

gammas and then you know when it finally got

18:15

down to these gang called From

18:22

a and m right right he did

18:24

yeah not hear that whole part, but

18:26

I know bar let me call Down

18:30

and then yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah,

18:33

yeah, yeah, I just that's what I'm saying I

18:35

was like whoa whoa But

18:37

it turned into like a little thing

18:39

man if y'all miss that They

18:42

got it. They got to go back and check it out. I

18:44

tell you the absolute

18:46

funniest ever, bro Yeah,

18:49

yeah, no, it got squash though it these guys

18:51

squash cuz he was like hold on

18:54

now We cool with this guy we cool, but

18:56

the guy that got whoop really Fed

18:59

a lot of that stuff. You know what I mean?

19:01

Yeah cool my man now Professor

19:04

it at Oakwood now. Oh

19:07

is he a profession that oh we got a ride down

19:21

Y'all finna get blessed oh God

19:23

this is Legitimately

19:26

and I've been with II listen. I've been

19:28

II right hand coming up on

19:31

20 years Oh, I never

19:33

heard this story And

19:35

I've heard all the stories and I never

19:38

heard this story so y'all go check

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it out on patreon man Appreciate y'all listening

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man as always Y'all go

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check out make real estate real calm Go

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check out Carl for those of y'all

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interested in starting the podcast man. Go

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check out Carla not my

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seven figure pod calm Carla

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not created a podcast course And

20:00

one of the number one questions we always get asked is how

20:02

do you do a podcast? I want to do a podcast. You

20:04

want to get it going. Um, it's

20:06

called my seven figure podcast. Is it

20:08

my seven figure podcast.com? Yes, sir. My

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seven figure podcast.com. Uh, go

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check that out. And um, yeah,

20:15

we'll see you over there. All right. Uh,

20:17

anything else anybody got anything Lee?

20:19

This is, I told y'all this E long time

20:22

best friend, man. So it's good to have Lee

20:24

come in, pop in there, nine men, man. Tell

20:26

us some funny ET stories. Let

20:28

me tell you something. He hit one out of the

20:30

park. Uh, listen, Carl,

20:32

I don't, I need a reenactment. I

20:35

need some type of cartoon. Yeah.

20:38

Yeah. Did you get the thumbnail? You

20:40

did. Oh, bro. We

20:42

don't, this, yeah, this moment will be

20:44

shared because y'all talked about a slowdown.

20:46

You got to slow everything down and

20:49

bill for the future. How

20:53

do you start that slowdown?

20:56

What do you, what do you go?

20:58

Like if you've always just done, done,

21:00

done, and you haven't prepared for your

21:02

10 years. Yeah. You told

21:04

me the other side, the future side, but like

21:06

if you, if you're living

21:09

in my past decisions today,

21:13

where do you start that slowdown? Do

21:15

you say, okay, today I'm

21:17

just cutting everything. What do you, what do you, how

21:19

do you, how do you get out the fertilizer? How

21:21

do you get out the fertilizer? That's, yeah, I would

21:23

say for me, I would say you have to like

21:26

first write the vision so

21:29

the vision is the blueprint. It's like,

21:31

you're not going to start doing

21:33

renovation on a property that you haven't first

21:35

created the blueprints for. The

21:38

blueprints tell you what the structure

21:40

is going to be. So what's

21:42

the structure? What are you building? Where are we trying to

21:44

go in the next 10 years? So

21:46

I think while you're still maintaining

21:49

and doing all that other stuff that you're

21:51

doing, you got to now create the

21:53

blueprints. Any development, when I ask people all the

21:55

time, what's the first thing you do? They always

21:57

talk about we do the foundation. foundation

22:00

do blueprints because the foundation

22:02

is nothing more than is the structure is

22:04

the it holds the weight of the structure

22:06

that you're gonna build mm-hmm but if you

22:08

don't know the structure you're gonna build your

22:10

foundation might be too small mmm so

22:14

that's the first thing you need to know what

22:16

am I building what do I want my life

22:18

to look like and then now we go into

22:20

once we know how high up the structure is

22:22

gonna be right it's gonna cut it's

22:24

of course it's a price that you got to pay

22:26

mm-hmm if the higher you want and it's the crazy

22:28

thing about development leave the

22:31

higher structure you build mm-hmm the

22:33

lower in the ground you got to go go

22:36

so when you talking about my you want

22:38

to be a multi-millionaire you talking about you

22:40

want a successful marriage you talking about I

22:42

want health you talking about I want to

22:45

weigh 222 pounds I want to have

22:47

a certain body figure and I want this to last

22:49

for years to come I want to be a great

22:51

father I want to be a man of God mm-hmm

22:53

bro get ready to go deep mmm

22:57

and that's what Sam most people ain't ready for that

22:59

type of commit yeah yeah so therefore that's cool if

23:01

you just want you know man Jay

23:04

I ain't trying to be on that that take a lot

23:06

all right cool and maybe you just want

23:08

to build a house on a concrete slab hmm

23:11

that's the type of foundation you want yeah it

23:13

don't take much my house on

23:15

a concrete slab that concrete slab might be eight inches Wow

23:18

for a whole house for a whole house to sit no

23:21

basement just house sitting on a concrete slab hmm

23:23

but when you want to build a skyscraper mm-hmm

23:26

every single level and remember this every level

23:29

that you go up they call them stories

23:31

every story this building is you

23:34

got to go down a few hundred

23:36

feet in the ground hmm

23:38

you got to go deep and

23:40

so in your own life rough you got to ask yourself

23:42

once you create the vision this is what I want my

23:44

life to look like you got to go too far deep

23:46

you can go next 10 years five years are

23:49

you willing now to pay the price to

23:52

build that structure and

23:55

I think that's where you start you

23:57

can still continue ain't got to change none of this stuff but

23:59

then Now, once you say, okay, this is what

24:01

I want to do. Now, let's start right now.

24:03

How deep you got to go. What does that look like?

24:06

So you're talking about some, hey, man, I want to be in

24:08

the best shape of my life. I want to be in the

24:10

best shape in my, you know, I don't know how old you

24:12

are, but in my fifties, I want my fifties to look better

24:15

than my forties, my thirties. All right, dawg,

24:17

what would that take? And

24:19

you can't do it yourself. You

24:21

got yourself into this position. That's what I was just

24:23

saying. And so you have to step outside. That's where

24:25

the trainer come in. I was going to tell you.

24:27

Like you got to get a trainer. You're going to

24:29

have to have people. So in every single area of

24:31

your life, you might have to have a coach or

24:33

a trainer now to help get you out of the

24:36

position. You got yourself into. Hey,

24:38

and Lee, I'll say this for

24:40

real because man, super

24:42

transparent. When I

24:44

got to the part of the book where it asked me what I

24:46

wanted, I had no

24:48

idea. Yeah. Yeah. I

24:51

had no idea. Don't feel bad. Most people that, and that's what

24:53

I'm saying that I want people to hear that. Like, and that

24:55

comes from not thinking. I

24:57

just spent 20 years just working.

25:01

I had no idea, mall. So

25:03

I'm sitting there looking at the pages like, yo, write down three

25:05

goals that you want. Literally the book

25:07

says three goals that you want in the short

25:09

term. And it said like next couple weeks to

25:11

months, long-term one to two years, and

25:14

then longer term five years plus. And I'm sitting there like,

25:18

I pause mall. I stopped reading the book at

25:20

that moment. You don't know how you ever going

25:22

to get there. But I'm saying that that's to

25:24

the point of see like, yo, I have to

25:26

know. So to your answer, bro, until you stop

25:28

and spend time thinking about like, what the heck

25:30

do I even want? I'm

25:33

like, cause you're going to end up

25:35

building blueprints for some that you don't want. If you just try

25:37

to just, you see them. You're

25:39

going to spend the rest of your

25:41

life working on somebody else's. Somebody else.

25:43

Right. Right. 100, especially with

25:45

my personality. You know what I'm saying? That's what's

25:48

going to happen. Everybody going to be giving you

25:50

their blueprints and you're going to be the main

25:52

contract on another. Everybody else's structure.

25:54

Like you're not even building your own family

25:56

sitting here like, yo, when we, how come

25:58

we not going up store? How come we

26:00

not elevating legit? He'll be

26:02

over here working on us all because you

26:05

don't know what you don't know. And that, that

26:07

was the root of where I was. I didn't

26:09

know. Y'all should have one.

26:11

I was coming for the reason why I'm able to reason why I'm able

26:13

to have 18,

26:19

20, 30 stories in my structures. Cause I've

26:21

identified and I've been working on my structure

26:24

for the last 20 years. I've

26:26

been literally working on my structure for the last 20

26:28

years. Why everybody else still don't know what they want.

26:30

That's why every time I speak, every time I do

26:32

anything, I start off man.

26:35

Like, what do you want? Nobody know bro.

26:37

I'm working with kids right now. Um,

26:39

I'm about to, you know, creating something for kids in

26:41

the Chicago public school system. And it's

26:43

like, yo, I talked to them and I'm like, look, y'all, I'm

26:46

like the first hour,

26:49

the first week or whatever we working on just

26:51

what they want. They like to look like. I

26:53

just got them imagining. And it is so easy.

26:55

It's easier for me to talk to kids one,

26:57

then it is for me to talk to it.

26:59

100 crazy kids can tell you

27:01

what they want or they can think

27:03

about it. And no matter what they say,

27:05

see, it don't sound too far. That don't

27:07

sound crazy to them. But if I

27:09

asked an adult clueless, they

27:12

just like, and every time I asked an adult

27:14

what they want, what they want, it goes back

27:16

to the job, something in a job.

27:19

And I'm like, bruh, it's so much stuff outside of

27:21

your little job, bro. Like what do you

27:23

want? Like what? Like, so I don't even ask create kids

27:25

no more. What do you want to be when you grow

27:27

up? I took that out because

27:30

just because you tell me what you want to be

27:32

when you grow up does not mean that that job

27:34

is going to get you to lifestyle. You've imagined, right?

27:38

What you want to be, I want to

27:40

be a doctor. Cool. But what you want

27:43

your life to look like, nobody can tell

27:45

you. Nobody. So I tell kids

27:47

nowadays, look, let's not worry about what

27:49

you want. You like to look like let's start with the

27:51

end because your job is not the

27:53

end. Your job is the beginning. Your job is the

27:55

vehicle to get you to the end. So what do

27:58

you want your life to look like? And

28:00

kids don't know why, because they haven't been

28:02

exposed to anything. So then I exposed them

28:04

to what life looks like on the other

28:06

side. What that left side of the menu

28:08

mentality really is. I exposed them to that.

28:10

Now they're saying, man, I want my life

28:12

to look like this. I want my life

28:14

to look like that. All right, cool. Now

28:16

let's reverse engineer and let's choose several vehicles

28:18

to get you to that. But

28:21

the reason why people get depressed, disgruntled

28:25

is because they have made what

28:27

their life should look like.

28:30

They made that their career, their job, and

28:33

that job was not meant to be what

28:35

you want you like to look like. That's

28:37

just what vehicle you want to use to

28:39

get to that. Yeah, but adults can't tell

28:41

you, bruh. I think people die,

28:45

pass away with still not knowing what

28:47

they want. What they like to look

28:49

like. Transparently speaking.

28:51

No, no, they didn't die. Die? Yeah,

28:54

yeah. And never figured out. Go ahead. I'm

28:57

in Michigan right now for the reason that

28:59

you're speaking about. I

29:01

said I have to put on the brakes. I

29:03

got to press pause, stop, put a stop sign

29:05

up. I got to get out

29:07

what I've been doing and I got to

29:09

do something totally different because I hit 50

29:12

and start reflecting on things. And I'm

29:14

like, this ain't the way to go. I'm

29:16

not getting what I'm looking for. I'm

29:19

making everybody else's life. You

29:22

know, I mean, they can say, man, Lee's the guy.

29:25

He's in our corner. But

29:27

my life doesn't reflect what I'm building for

29:29

something else. So, so to

29:31

your point, I'm listening. I'm like, I

29:34

didn't know I was coming for this. Y'all said before I came

29:36

down. Yeah,

29:38

let me say that. You know what you

29:40

want, like what you want. And that's

29:42

why, and I, it's so many other pillars, but I just got

29:44

my five. Do you know what you

29:47

want your, your, your, your, your health life to

29:49

look like? Just hit the

29:51

space where yes, I do. I

29:53

want my, my,

29:56

this may sound crazy to you, mom, answer your question, but

29:58

I'm gonna make this statement first. Dude,

30:01

just eating meals a day. I got

30:03

to the point where I used to

30:05

just eat whatever. Now, when it's time

30:07

to eat something, it's like, man,

30:09

I can't eat that because

30:11

if I eat that, dude, I'm just blood

30:13

pressure through the roof, isn't it? But to

30:16

answer your question now, dude,

30:18

I got grandkids. I want to be

30:20

able to physically run with them. My

30:22

father's 80, had a stroke. He's

30:25

able to do a little, not as much, but I

30:27

can see it in his heart when we have conversations.

30:30

Man, I just want to get up and go out in

30:32

the yard and just do something in the yard. At

30:35

80, Jamal, I want to

30:37

physically be able to go do in my yard.

30:39

Okay, so now that you're president, you know, we

30:41

building the foundation, what would it take? What

30:45

I'm putting in, to your point,

30:47

it sounds like I'm gonna need a coach because

30:50

I built the structure that I don't like.

30:53

So to your point, it sounds like

30:55

I'm gonna need a dietician or something. You don't need

30:57

a dietician. You don't need a trainer. You don't need

30:59

an accountability partner. You don't need a trainer where the

31:01

trainer is working you out, showing you, and

31:03

you able to tell him, like,

31:06

this is what I want. And

31:08

it's gonna take time. It might take a year. It

31:11

might take two years, but you're working every

31:13

day. You're making a deposit into your health.

31:16

So imagine if you wrote that out, health, this is what,

31:18

and you wrote, this is what I want my life to

31:20

look like. Now you're working towards it

31:22

and you got a plan and your trainer is

31:24

giving you this plan and you're working that plan

31:26

every single day. No days off

31:28

with it. And then now

31:30

that's the culture you're building that we just talked

31:32

about. And then now that health, you're making a

31:34

health deposit and guaranteed when you turn 60, you

31:37

turn seven, you're gonna see the results of that.

31:39

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we got this job, and we're going to pay you

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$20 an hour. Oh,

33:36

man, $20 sounds good. The last company is only

33:38

going to pay me $18. So

33:41

you settle for that. But that's not really, that

33:43

ain't going to help me. Well, also,

33:45

y'all are talking, this is good. But here's

33:47

what happens when you don't think you

33:50

also settle to what's

33:52

comfortable. Yeah. Right? Yeah.

33:54

Working out is uncomfortable. Like, really

33:57

hitting them weights, if

33:59

you haven't done it. It's going

34:01

to hurt. Nobody defaults to the add

34:04

pressure. You default to comfort,

34:06

right? So if I'm not thinking

34:08

and I'm just not using my brain, right?

34:11

I go where's the nearest burger

34:13

joint and eat a burger every day. If

34:15

I'm not thinking I'm going to default to

34:17

comfort and that's way good when I want

34:19

to wake up. If I'm not

34:22

thinking I'm a default to my

34:24

wife good. We've been married for 15 years. She

34:27

only none. She's like, if I'm not

34:29

thinking, that's what I'm saying. Not

34:31

thinking doesn't, you

34:34

never make the harder decision. You never

34:36

apply to pressure. You never say, Oh,

34:38

I'm not, I'm not, I didn't think

34:40

my way into having abs. You

34:43

just, you not think your way to chunky.

34:46

I never seen nobody not think they way into like

34:48

shred. So are your natural wiring when you don't think

34:50

is to just let things

34:55

go and just let things be as they

34:57

are and be as they are. Like

34:59

I tell you, if you left to your own

35:01

devices and you just go, like I said,

35:03

even for me, I don't, I'm not

35:05

more. I don't like working out. I work out every single

35:07

day. I don't like working out. I've taken the choice out

35:10

of my hands. I don't even, I don't, that part, I

35:12

don't even have to think about anymore because I said it

35:14

as an intention is over as a culture now, but

35:17

you have to start thinking in order to

35:19

set that culture so that you can get

35:21

the desired results. So again, shout

35:24

out to Rob. I want to make sure I give him his credit

35:26

for the quote, but if you're not intentionally trying

35:28

to get rich, you might end up accidentally broke.

35:30

The other thing he says, you

35:32

can apply that to anything in the area. You're

35:35

not intentionally trying to get healthy. You

35:37

might end up accidentally sick. If

35:40

you're not intentionally trying to live in

35:42

bliss, you might accidentally end up divorced.

35:44

So what I'm saying for those things,

35:46

that's what I'm trying to tell you.

35:48

So there's an intentionality about life that

35:51

you have to have. And if you

35:53

see an area and I

35:55

guarantee you, anybody at home

35:57

listening to this, whatever, Go

35:59

look at an area. your life. Will. You not

36:01

happy? yup and it's not were going out you

36:03

know and then go back. To

36:05

Moss Point five eat a meal. I'm years.

36:08

You want to go back and about you

36:10

go by five years, go back. Five years

36:12

in in that area. And ask

36:14

yourself what you were doing the. And

36:17

I geared see the while you're upset

36:19

lists about it right now. One. You.

36:22

Can trace back the? Yeah.

36:24

I remember like. If you

36:26

if you big. Up you can remember when

36:28

you when big like that, when you was like

36:30

I was kind of like out on a softball

36:32

team working on I was in the volleyball league

36:34

I was gonna say like you can think back

36:36

to when. And then he stopped or

36:38

something happen or you want intentional anymore. It's

36:41

good that then it goes for across

36:43

the board. So that was a everyday.

36:45

Been. Able to sell for says the up. In.

36:47

Think. Is so critical. Because.

36:50

It I know if I think about it. I.

36:52

Can make an adjustment. So

36:54

if I think about as of my wife seem like,

36:56

"See happy with me like, is he good like is

36:59

he been and the me them with a like it?"

37:02

Middle. Of this are we good? Like. Of

37:04

I'm thinking about that on the constant basis. I

37:06

can make the adjustment and as well we're talking

37:08

about and again as were More does better than

37:10

any human food is being able to literally go

37:12

live in the future and see what he wanted

37:15

to look like. Li I'm just telling my first.

37:17

So much at all. like. Frau.

37:19

Know this is not at a summit

37:21

of stuff about I'm okay good life

37:23

inserted into that area. He saw my

37:25

put money away but when you ninety

37:27

seven and you can apply there is

37:29

a that's a long ways away right?

37:32

Yeah I'm saying like market in a

37:34

Mac is still an elementary school you

37:36

talking about. You. know that leaving

37:38

them an inheritance of our x amount of

37:40

all isn't with more more the only parts

37:42

are your order positive like yo when i

37:44

die like he'll say or that lose more

37:47

were had his lot of time i've done

37:49

a lot of them like burke know the

37:51

exact number of as we the kids go

37:53

have well done then you tell you a

37:55

look at his peers libya degrees bar look

37:58

at his policy right you're lucky I said

38:00

this one up. Yeah. When I die, if

38:03

I die at 85, this how much they

38:06

gonna have. If I live to 90,

38:08

this how much they gonna have. Bro,

38:10

you see what I'm saying? Like, it's, it's,

38:12

it's, it's, it's, it's, it's, it's, you

38:15

gotta set it up. Like to me, that's

38:17

normal talk. Like it's really

38:19

like, it's normal talk. Like that's exactly how

38:21

I, it's not normal. It's normal for you.

38:24

That's normal for

38:27

me. It's normal for God. If

38:29

you read the Bible, it's all

38:32

talking about like, I feel like

38:34

we in like a military strategy

38:37

operation. Like we, this, okay,

38:40

man, we, everything talks

38:43

about the future. It talks

38:45

about becoming this. Yeah. And, and

38:47

that's what we supposed to do.

38:50

Getting those things which are behind us, press forward

38:52

to the thing which are ahead. What's

38:56

ahead Lee? I don't know.

38:59

Never planned it out. I never write

39:01

the vision to make it plain. You

39:04

never did this thing. So therefore nobody

39:06

can help you. Nobody can, bruh, this

39:08

everything the Bible teaches us talks about

39:10

the future and how to set it

39:12

up. So,

39:15

so that's, I think that's what people

39:17

go wrong. So that's all a blessed

39:19

man leaves an inheritance to children's children's

39:21

children. That's two generations. So

39:24

in order to do that, you have to be

39:26

thinking, be a forward thinker with, and you gotta

39:28

forget those things which are behind you. And that's

39:30

the problem. Too many of us are still focusing

39:32

on things which are behind us and you can't

39:34

change nothing in your life, man. We're doing, they're

39:36

trying to fix things in the past or even

39:39

if you're trying to fix the things for today, you still

39:43

in that case more, you know, certain

39:45

things you say, and it's like, it's tangible, right?

39:48

Like health, Right?

39:50

Your Marriage, Like those are things that you're going to reap

39:52

the benefits of and that you can have those benefits now,

39:54

right?? You Can go home and see your wife and y'all

39:56

have a great relationship. You Can go home and you can

39:58

look at yourself and go, Okay I'm happy with

40:01

the way I look. you're not a me. where

40:03

would you talk about will leave eat money for

40:05

you gave line is that I'm say that that's

40:07

why I'm telling you that the next love reddit

40:09

of thinking because gotta started to date Correct But

40:11

I'm saying. Most. People like our want

40:13

to put that up. right? Now

40:15

because I read the spin that now right?

40:17

because often see it is tangible. You know

40:19

to me any black noticeable below. oh of

40:22

I have more money like more know you

40:24

in. At. Night when I but

40:26

as with I'm an artist Back with that

40:28

what was announced today years in college right

40:30

now because of what I thought it was.

40:32

it was two years old. Let me take

40:35

them as or is. But it's so funny

40:37

though because this the brain. the way to

40:39

Bury works. Is funny because.

40:41

Back. In a day I used to be

40:44

like have a issues mack it like opposite

40:46

okay amp or know I'm the the the

40:48

heathen on a par get a liaison lose

40:50

you advise. Yeah. Yeah. Yeah.

40:53

Determined through the. Eyes of

40:55

be like. Might. Take

40:57

eight birds who bring. Money

41:00

is to sue her. I gotta give up

41:03

to hunt it. Up

41:05

Burrow only got oh thirty

41:08

after pay my bills. Got.

41:12

A. You know abu the first time I made

41:15

a hundred thousand. I

41:17

say Gods Hairstyles. Is

41:20

a job? Say. Dot.

41:24

We often a good. Idea

41:27

is yeah. Yeah.

41:30

I I want to speak beyond that. But.

41:32

My wife and I. When. I looked at

41:34

our contribution at the motorway i'm over that

41:36

that release me because that was like not

41:39

stupid can you be first of all which

41:41

is also as was outcome of that like

41:43

got brought up. Listening. I

41:45

thought. Make and I

41:47

promise you. That. Met.

41:50

My. Love language. Is.

41:53

Gratitude. Right and

41:55

up. My wife knows the of our color right

41:57

now are asked to leave of my was my

41:59

love. I am when the colleges are

42:01

ya can hear live on a pie, your norm,

42:03

not just talking Susan My love languages gratitude so

42:06

that I express love as well. And that's the

42:08

type of love I want back some. I brought

42:10

a good. Quality. Tire Album

42:12

like I'm Pretty. I'd.

42:14

Sell my wife. I just want to know that.

42:17

You're. Grateful for the sacrifices. I'm like that

42:19

the you know my keys to what? Like

42:21

Brett I will give you our world. Don't.

42:23

Four minutes. Act. Like, but that's

42:26

the levant you've got. Yes, Yeah, right. Like

42:28

that is that up. Like: So that's how.

42:30

Because the Up: Because I feel like that

42:32

if I'm not grateful and. I'm.

42:34

Like sought saw we got. Like brought

42:37

a promise You. If.

42:39

Is some go No specific people I pray

42:41

for me. Stuff like that operate like that

42:43

the most of my praises. Thanks the gun.

42:45

That's my love language regards to say are

42:47

we gonna be like yo? thank you Look

42:49

at my hands as a glimmer of brown.

42:51

Feel good My family's good Like thank you.

42:53

I'm so appreciative and so. To.

42:55

See your point with the ties? When.

42:58

I like I say when I was a make

43:00

a bid see hundred and misc as they as

43:02

a graduate assistant and i to give a hundred

43:05

fifty dollars. On. My bra. Hundred

43:07

fifty? That's precisely yes and I'm like

43:09

assists the your I finally met One

43:11

hundred thousand. And. I gave him thousand

43:13

and almost fix my lips to go. Sit.

43:18

In Emma Emir my wife my wife was making

43:20

money selected size or five more like. Twenty.

43:22

Five thousand. Isn't.

43:25

A guy was like. Where. We are

43:27

we so sick. So you what you what

43:29

you will be so you would increase Do

43:31

you? if you want me, take your time

43:33

right now. Yeah yeah that's what got. Me:

43:37

take a ties back that layer. I could. I

43:39

could go back to you. You only. The. Give

43:41

me to what it isn't. And. From

43:43

that moment on blog like okay, like

43:45

I'm applying to see three. Yeah, I'm

43:47

trying to. Get. It started three

43:49

hundred thousand. You know what I'm saying like

43:52

that's my mentality memory of the what what?

43:54

So my point. Earlier. The.

43:57

waiter or hundred fifty seem like a lot

44:00

The 10,000 seemed like a lot. The

44:03

100,000 seemed like a lot, but it's the perspective.

44:05

You know what I'm saying? And it's the perspective of,

44:07

like I was saying tomorrow, like people

44:10

saying, Oh, well, if I had this, like,

44:13

Oh, if I was a millionaire, it'd be easy to,

44:15

I pay a hundred thousand in ties too. Well,

44:18

you don't pay 2000 now offer

44:20

your, you don't pay a thousand now offer your

44:22

check. So what make you think

44:24

went, it's the same percentage. It's the exact

44:26

same percentage. So

44:30

that's what I'm saying in life. Sometimes we'll get

44:32

confused and be like, Oh, okay. Well, of course

44:35

tomorrow could do that and put up this money

44:37

for his family and do this. Okay, cool. More

44:39

might be able to put up 20,000 for his kids a

44:41

month. Can you put up a

44:44

thousand? Do you put up 500? A

44:46

hundred, a hundred. You put up a hundred. Right.

44:49

You don't put up. So, so more get to do

44:51

it because he rich, but you do nothing. Let's just do it

44:53

on percentage. Let's just do

44:55

it off the percentage because guess what?

44:58

Whatever your bills are, more got the same bills. They

45:01

just 20 times what yours are. It's

45:04

no different in terms of lifestyle and

45:06

how you, your mentality approaching it. So

45:08

now let's start now. Let's start

45:10

now with saying, all right, cool. And that's why mall

45:12

is critical that you get, you know, not only the,

45:14

you got us with the real estate course and shout

45:16

out to everybody who went through make real estate real

45:18

and learn how to, you know, have income for their

45:20

family and things like that, but also just

45:22

a financial course overall, because there's so much

45:24

stuff that mall has taught me as

45:27

a grown man. Who

45:29

thought I understood investing? Who thought I

45:32

understood money? Who thought I understood life

45:35

insurance and policies and all it's

45:37

right. The trust. Right.

45:40

Exactly. Yeah. And

45:42

so now I have these things implemented because of you, but

45:44

I'm like, yo, people out there, if you listening and you

45:46

feel like I'm not where I want to be, this ain't

45:49

where I would like, you really do have to start living

45:51

in the future And that dictates

45:53

your today. And if you could. but, but

45:55

like I said, man, like, like we were

45:57

saying before, it's so hard when it. The

46:00

theme is tangible now because we

46:02

are addicted. To. Is the radical

46:04

for I wear it may be too if

46:06

I do something right now and I want

46:08

to say I made it I wanted I

46:10

brought if I to digit are promising. Fargo.

46:13

Hit. Quite. A bit of those three,

46:15

right? Not. Ah. So. I wanted

46:18

to broaden foreigner to diet soda. still

46:20

look at seed sort. Of

46:22

like Brahma still. Hasn't

46:24

worked out if you do so again

46:26

when you don't see the results like

46:29

that more you have the what people

46:31

do. I. Don't see it new.

46:33

I know seasons, weeks. It may be a

46:35

year from now. It may be five years

46:37

from now. That's. A different

46:39

mindset to be able to live my brought a words

46:41

in a works and I got to the point where.

46:44

Ah, Where. I can do

46:46

this not only for myself right up

46:48

adorn fo myself for years and live

46:50

in an economic salary but when we

46:52

gotta give on throw on a podcast

46:54

one more you are weaker of really

46:57

really not so people. How was even

46:59

able to do this in my son

47:01

of all your gallegos me a son

47:03

that's your youngest son. So we had

47:05

adopted my. Cousin Element Italian

47:07

thirteen thousand and fourteen years old and his

47:09

i'll get my name and everything and as

47:12

name is months rail and he played college

47:14

football on a high high as lobbies want

47:16

to top recruits in the nation and in

47:18

all of a sudden he arm football was

47:20

over for me to make it said in

47:22

a fail. And. He

47:25

always said you know want to be an Nfl I

47:27

want to do to someone do that and he and

47:29

he end up of. Do. A

47:31

security in on for bother when he didn't

47:33

know what you want to do no more

47:35

you gonna do you know I am just

47:38

got to skewed. I'm a big town six

47:40

three three hundred square miles so him a

47:42

some of the expo ballplayer start doors curative

47:44

in a start you know the car big,

47:46

heavy heavy duty yet have you know deserves

47:48

every do I do made it look at

47:50

I'll prob big not a big big boobs

47:53

vigour like Africa Earth and on A and

47:55

I remember like you know a thing if

47:57

you pitches we I'm here like of even

47:59

San Antonio. He has some of those,

48:01

you know, he had some of the San Antonio Spurs. Um,

48:04

got some of these. You're

48:07

good. That was good. All right. Bet. He had some

48:09

of the San Antonio Spurs and other people, NFL players,

48:11

and he would be taking pictures when they come through

48:14

the club, they had a little nightclub that they were

48:16

doing security for, and I've seen some

48:18

of these pictures, man, and I just went ahead and I

48:20

had to call them up and say, man, this

48:22

was, this was what we had now. He said, what you talking about? And

48:25

I'm like, all the social media, you just got you

48:27

with all of these different, um,

48:29

quote unquote star, and you looking like

48:32

you happy and you satisfied just with

48:34

taking a picture with them. I

48:36

said, at one point, your dream, your vision was to be

48:38

them. And now

48:40

you settle just for standing next

48:43

to them, taking a picture of them. And then saying,

48:45

Hey, look who I was at with the club at

48:47

the club. And I said, it's giving you this, this

48:49

adrenaline rush. Like, is you doing it like you got

48:51

the success because you were able to get them in

48:53

VIP and do all this other stuff. And you know,

48:55

they popping bottles. You taking a picture with them. I

48:58

said, this is what we had, huh? And

49:01

then he was just like, like, man, I, you know,

49:03

I said, what happened? I thought you went to make

49:05

it to the NFL. He said, I'm not playing ball

49:07

no more. How can I, he said, it's over with.

49:09

I said, just because you're not planning in the

49:11

field, don't mean that you can't be coaching in

49:13

it. And

49:16

I remember when you were

49:18

saying like, man, where do I start? So

49:20

I told him, I said, cause then it like two

49:22

weeks later, he needed some money. Right.

49:24

He wasn't making a lot of money. He needed money. And he came at me

49:26

and was like, Hey dad, can I get some money? And I told him, no,

49:29

first time ever telling him, no. And then

49:31

he was like, why not? I said, cause you're not living your dreams.

49:33

You're not living your purpose. So I

49:35

said, I can't be invested in you just

49:37

doing this. I can't support that.

49:39

Yeah. And then he came back to Chicago and then

49:41

we had a long talk and

49:43

he said, um, he was like, man, y'all

49:46

not supporting me. This and that. And I said,

49:48

what is it that you want trail? He said, I

49:50

was like, what did you want your life to look at? He said, I wanted to make

49:52

it to the NFL. I said, okay.

49:54

I said, why? Because you love playing

49:56

football. You love football or is because

49:58

of the money. you could still get

50:00

money that the NFL you could do that in real

50:02

estate and other things. He said, I just love the

50:05

sport. I said, so if you love the

50:07

sport, then how come you can't coach the sport? And

50:10

I said, I said, I said, man, look as intimate

50:12

as you could get with it. Right. And that's, that's

50:14

longevity. And then, so when I told

50:16

him that man, real talk leave, he

50:19

went here and he started thinking about it. And then he said,

50:21

now this is what a seed park come in. And she talked

50:23

about instant gratification. He said, yeah, man, like

50:26

nobody, like nobody, nobody hired me as

50:29

a coach. I don't have any experience.

50:31

I'm not doing anything. I said,

50:33

give away your talent for free. I said,

50:36

this is what you love to do. Give away your

50:38

talent for free. And I support you. I said, me

50:40

and your mother, we will support you and we'll cover

50:42

all your stuff. Just go to whatever school. Yeah. You

50:45

want to support heavy duty though. I'm not supporting heavy

50:47

duty. Heavy duty. Heavy duty. It's not the

50:49

life you want to live. It's

50:51

not, you're not, you can't scale that. That's not a,

50:54

at the end. So I was like, bro, let your passion, your,

50:56

your purpose, your goal. Like this is what you want your drink.

50:59

So we went ahead. Um, he went, went

51:01

to his coaches and said, Hey coach, I'd like to help

51:04

out coach said, Oh, absolutely. They said, we don't have no

51:06

money, but they said, we, we

51:08

can let you just, you know, volunteer. Boom.

51:11

He did that. One of the coaches then got

51:13

hired by Eastern Michigan and the coach

51:15

left say, Hey, Bontrell, you did a

51:17

great job, man. I love you to come over to Eastern

51:19

Michigan with me. And as a grad assistant,

51:21

we can't pay you, but you can get a master's

51:23

degree and we'll pay for that. He said,

51:26

okay, cool. He hit me up

51:28

though. Say, Hey pops, they want me to go to

51:30

Eastern Michigan, but they're not going to pay me. I

51:32

said, man, we still got you. We're going to still

51:34

cover you. Don't worry about it. Go ahead and do

51:36

it. He went there. I said, make sure you

51:38

give him more than what they paying you

51:40

for or whatever. He went there, that's you

51:42

coached out. And then the

51:44

next year, one of the coaches,

51:46

a Liberty said, man, we see you over there. Eastern

51:48

Michigan doing a great job. We'd love you to come

51:50

in. We ain't got no money, but

51:52

we'll let you come in and finish up your

51:54

master's degree. He called me up pops, man. It's

51:57

been two years. I'm still in getting paid, but

52:00

They want me to come and finish my master's grill. I said,

52:02

go do it. I was like, go do it. We

52:04

got you. Boom. He

52:06

go there and then he ball out.

52:10

Liberty plays Eastern Michigan in the bowl game.

52:12

Liberty whooped Eastern Michigan. The D-line balled out.

52:15

Eastern Michigan fired the defensive line coach

52:18

and then they went

52:20

ahead and called up Vontrell and said, hey,

52:22

Vontrell, we'd love for you to come back

52:24

to Eastern Michigan and be the defensive line coach. We

52:26

ain't got much money here, but we

52:29

will pay you $70,000 to

52:31

come be the defensive line coach. He

52:34

said, pops, man, the coach is getting paid way more money than this.

52:36

I said, son, take

52:39

that job. We got you. If

52:41

you need extra. Matter of fact, here's a QX80

52:44

Infinity truck. Can you go so you don't

52:46

need to worry about a car? No transportation.

52:48

So then he went there, boom, seven. I

52:50

said, but make sure that you're offering more

52:53

than what they paying you for. He went

52:55

there with the head defensive line coach, Eastern Michigan. He

52:59

ended up killing it. They ended up giving him all.

53:01

He got named one of the top 50 coaches in

53:03

the nation and then

53:06

Liberty, um,

53:08

coach ends up leaving, getting

53:10

the head coach at Auburn and

53:13

then he calls back Vontrell. Vontrell.

53:15

Eastern Michigan. He was like,

53:17

he was like Vontrell. He

53:19

was like Vontrell. I

53:22

know you to head defensive line coach in

53:24

Eastern Michigan, but we'll love for you to

53:27

come to Auburn and be an assistant. So

53:29

he was like, dad, this is a job

53:31

promotion. I'm in a job motion. He's

53:33

like, I was the head defensive line coach in Michigan. Now they

53:36

want me to come over here, but he

53:38

said they're going to pay me like 20, 30,000 more,

53:41

but I'm the head over here. I

53:43

was like, son, I

53:45

was like, take it. And I was like, I was

53:48

like, don't worry about the money. He's

53:51

still got you. He's

53:53

like, man, it got me backing up a coach And

53:56

this guy, man, I was named one top fit. I said,

53:58

who is this guy? I Said, man, he's coming from. Mom

54:00

in a fail. You. know he as it

54:02

may don't see to a lot of they go hit.

54:04

Say. Go ahead and take it. He. Went. With.

54:07

Assistant now and air but was talking about

54:09

a wide youth leader's was got hit deep

54:12

as wackos not you'd assistant coach over here

54:14

man of god and he any end of

54:16

have wanted some business of was is no

54:18

such as by been offset more mentally be

54:20

a one year and all bar in the

54:23

board said in a pill going to pick

54:25

up the in a failed and outside of

54:27

a mere February eight two thousand twenty four

54:29

you mine did not have to search long

54:31

or you far to find his neck. Defensive

54:34

line Coach former defensive line coach Jim Gear

54:36

was named defensive coach for the Jaguars. Or

54:38

Jacksonville Jaguars a his replacement was in

54:40

the house. Ah according to

54:42

a report by brains those the of

54:45

arrival analysts vog True King has been

54:47

promoted to defensive Line coach. King join

54:49

Freeze their last January as an analyst

54:52

work and primarily will offer as deep

54:54

as long as onside gear. Ah Kings

54:56

of the dealer line cause for teeth

54:59

or Michigan for the two thousand Twenty

55:01

two season was a graduate assistant for

55:03

him. two thousand eighty ninety previously worked

55:06

are you free staff at Liberties As

55:08

a difference who graduate assistant in the

55:10

twenty twenty one season gears. Pogo King

55:12

last year and interview with Auburn undercover

55:14

Saying that he knows how to build

55:16

relationships with players. He's a really good

55:18

coaches. Marcos is a good teacher, knows

55:20

the players and get to know guys.

55:22

Will I just think what is going

55:24

to be able to bring to the

55:27

table is going to be dynamic. And.

55:29

Recruiting in teaching these gotten I'd say

55:31

ah check this out he wait for

55:33

the but they put a roof Forty

55:35

four years of four years of planting

55:38

seeds for well I'm is but we

55:40

was on a future the mindset and

55:42

boy yeah and we sacrifice and whom

55:44

he went from did they won't even

55:46

pay me. I never got enough money

55:48

so it's a buffoon. But. I

55:51

said I got some In four years

55:53

he went from a scholarship. To.

55:55

Now making five hundred thousand dollars a

55:58

year, he signed a Million Dollars. Contract

56:00

doing that when you really million

56:02

when you doing what he loves

56:06

Two years a million Two

56:08

years one million two years one million dollars and

56:11

I told him after that said it's the least

56:13

amount of money You ever gonna make it a

56:15

moment, but he did it because he sacrificed We

56:18

we was future mindset. Everything

56:20

we were doing was about the future.

56:23

What's the past? Yeah, it wasn't even

56:25

about the present because it was

56:27

about the present. Oh, man Say it is

56:29

your Michigan man. You the head coach. It's

56:31

a title. It feels good. It was about

56:33

opportunity It was about setting yourself up and

56:36

the opportunity was so great and every time

56:38

every time Opportunity

56:40

came up. I would get on the phone. We get on

56:42

three-way with CJ. I want him to hear this I want

56:44

him to see it. He was there the

56:46

whole time He was on the

56:48

phone when he was man. What do y'all think

56:50

man? I got they want me to my line

56:53

and you see was that a whole time and

56:55

being CNC would at this point Give advice and

56:57

we were just like brother. That ain't a good

56:59

move. Stay with your purpose. Stay on your path

57:02

Don't worry about it. Now. He

57:04

he can't even Four

57:13

years ago, why he wasn't making nothing and

57:15

some of y'all been at this for the

57:17

last 10-15 years Yeah, yeah, and

57:19

you were why you can't even get a 3%

57:21

raise On

57:23

your job. It's because you're in

57:25

the past It's because you're

57:28

stuck in the present. Everything we did

57:30

was future talk We went in for

57:32

four years and that is boy in

57:34

his 20s found a million dollar contract

57:37

In the NFL now is like yo, they

57:39

calling them like crazy and we just ain't

57:41

time. Yes, huh? Say

57:45

we that's coming coach culture with you ball

57:50

That's what you said when you when you do

57:52

this we talking about going back to the book

57:54

What do you want? Yeah boy knew what he

57:56

wanted. He was able to explain it to me.

57:58

He Wrote the vision. The plane sober

58:01

who the runway. Great

58:04

for you to run. We'd be so that

58:06

others can room to run. So

58:09

when week to week because he knew what he

58:11

wanted. I was able to help

58:13

him guy him I was able to both

58:15

but sees it was able to help the

58:17

of guy your we will all able to

58:19

help guy he may he said apart and

58:21

it's worth He normally wouldn't go speak of

58:23

certain places but you don't speak of the

58:26

places much for a was it was a

58:28

roma go for free zone and places that

58:30

he would not go to cause of those

58:32

facets a sinner and the liberty I was

58:34

reduce them worse beginner Liberty Yeah just because

58:36

a been through. And because he

58:38

did that because he was like joe I

58:40

want to add value to him and he

58:42

do that now went on sale go to

58:45

places his ama he'd so that my job

58:47

med is is this is I'm here because

58:49

else and that adds what does that do

58:51

for the other coast to they noted could

58:53

normally get edicom were that hoopla the player,

58:55

the abilities yeah I'll you may you wanna

58:57

do some I am selling with such devices

58:59

managed to keynesian even imagine you know opposes

59:02

was used as you talking I was thinking

59:04

of all like home you know I think.

59:07

People. Would think to a point where more

59:09

the sorghum of thinking beyond with the. When

59:11

to? Begin gets you to replace right? like the

59:14

for sure. I want a job and

59:16

mostly would be to that point that are common to

59:18

go to college and graduate them going to get a

59:20

job and in. thinking. Like

59:23

more. Not. Of the reason the whole

59:25

the nine the by millionaire. Most. People

59:27

think. Are. Cool. I want to be

59:29

a cop so of either due to be that be

59:31

due to both be a and then boom you thought

59:34

process com it ends there right now you all. Somebody.

59:37

Tells you what to do right? Like I

59:39

got a mythic their my family to get

59:41

up, go to work everyday and we think

59:43

that's where the thinking stops more. I'm.

59:45

A Be a cat. With. To his point.

59:48

This. Is the lifestyle I want though. So now the

59:50

other things are going to be set up around that

59:52

and that's how you can think to. Starting.

59:55

businesses dates you can think this data

59:57

security comes you can think this open

59:59

take years things of that nature because

1:00:01

your thought process doesn't stop. And I

1:00:03

think a lot of us, our thought

1:00:05

process stops when we get to what

1:00:07

we thought was the desired place. Does that

1:00:09

make, does it make, I got, man, I had showed

1:00:11

y'all. I remember when I showed you, I got to

1:00:13

find it and maybe we can put it up. Remember

1:00:16

when I had, uh, uh, here it

1:00:18

go right here. I sent it to you, Carl. Well,

1:00:22

I showed you the text messages from Vontre.

1:00:25

Yeah, that blew my mind. Listen, dog. This

1:00:28

is from. This

1:00:31

is from small, don't keep a receipt, but I got

1:00:33

a receipt. It's

1:00:36

ridiculous. So look at this here. This

1:00:38

is from like 2000. And

1:00:40

I want to say probably like 17. I'm

1:00:45

over here right here. This is Vontre. This is me

1:00:47

asking him Lee. What is it

1:00:49

that you are trying to do? Create

1:00:51

a blueprints. What do you

1:00:53

want to become? Where

1:00:56

do you want to go? How much

1:00:58

money do you want to make? What

1:01:01

is it that you see for yourself? What

1:01:03

kind of life do you want to create? These

1:01:06

are the most important questions of your life

1:01:08

right now. Look

1:01:10

what he say. I want to

1:01:12

coach eventually in an NFL, but

1:01:15

I know that I have to start somewhere. I

1:01:17

said, start by volunteering in the NFL if you

1:01:19

have to. But if you get a

1:01:21

job, cause this is the point where the security company,

1:01:23

the anytime I want to become a school teacher, I

1:01:26

said, but if you go get a job, you're going

1:01:28

to start accumulating debt. And then you

1:01:30

will get stuck in the rat race and you'll never get

1:01:32

out. I said, live your dreams

1:01:34

while you still can. I

1:01:37

said, Vontrell people grown man. Now

1:01:40

pay me to do what I offer freely

1:01:42

to you. And that is advice on

1:01:45

how not to fail advice on becoming

1:01:47

rich and advice on living your dreams

1:01:49

while you still can. I

1:01:51

said, one wrong choice can set you back

1:01:53

10 years. I said, trust what

1:01:55

I'm telling you trail. You'll thank me

1:01:57

later in life. they

1:02:00

signed him when the coach called me when the

1:02:02

coach when the coach called him and said I'm

1:02:04

not sure you got the job. First

1:02:07

person to do FaceTiming. He was

1:02:09

on a crime. I wish I could have recorded it. I started

1:02:12

crying. We start crying till

1:02:14

he got the salary number. That's when

1:02:17

I did my joke. And

1:02:19

then he was just like

1:02:21

pops. He's

1:02:24

crying. He said, man, you told me I was going to

1:02:26

thank you later. He's like, thank you.

1:02:28

He's like, bro, I got it. He's like, man,

1:02:31

I am. He said everything happened just

1:02:33

the way you said. And

1:02:36

I said, because you did exactly what you were

1:02:38

supposed to do. That's the fast

1:02:40

track. It's people that never get to this level. Yeah. Yeah.

1:02:43

But you got there quick because we went

1:02:45

in quick and

1:02:47

that's what happens in your life. But if

1:02:49

you tip toe, you might take you. It's

1:02:51

the children of Israel. You might

1:02:53

eat tea right now. The children of Israel was

1:02:55

in the wilderness for how long? 40 dog gone

1:02:58

years. How long was that journey supposed to take?

1:03:00

It's supposed to take 11 11. No, no, no.

1:03:02

It was like the 11 day journey. Okay. So

1:03:04

11 day journey

1:03:09

to 44 years. And some of

1:03:11

y'all reading the Bible like, Oh

1:03:14

man, that's crazy. They do.

1:03:16

That's great. But you've been

1:03:18

on your job for the

1:03:20

last 30 years. Say that.

1:03:22

All right. You still your

1:03:24

job. You still, and

1:03:27

you laugh and talking about something happened 2000 years

1:03:29

ago and you ain't even made it to your

1:03:31

promise land yet because you don't

1:03:33

even have a clue where it is. You're

1:03:35

going in certain things in your life that

1:03:37

you should have been there over 15 years

1:03:39

ago, but because you was not

1:03:41

disciplined, committed, and you did not identify

1:03:43

where you want to go. You've been in

1:03:46

the wilderness on your job,

1:03:48

in your marriage, in your health for the

1:03:50

last 40 years. You know

1:03:52

how long I've been barber more 40 years, 40

1:03:58

years. And I got to an impasse. It's

1:04:00

like this ain't working no more. It's

1:04:02

exciting. It's cool. But to your point

1:04:05

No, no liver in the outcome you want right, right

1:04:08

But yet this young man was able to get

1:04:10

to his promised land for you and we

1:04:12

got the text message in four years He's able to get

1:04:14

to his promised land Because

1:04:17

when you know where you going and you

1:04:19

put everything to it and you don't tip to

1:04:21

around You

1:04:23

plunge into it, but you can get there

1:04:25

But the problem is everybody treat how you

1:04:28

cross it before how you do anything is

1:04:30

how you do everything, right? And

1:04:32

that's why you ain't got success that you've been

1:04:34

looking for in your marriage That's why you ain't

1:04:36

got to success you've been looking for in your

1:04:38

health Mm-hmm. That's why you ain't got that success

1:04:40

in your finances. Mmm, because how you do anything

1:04:43

is how you do everything Mm-hmm, and that's why

1:04:45

everything seems like you just can't get over. Mm-hmm

1:04:47

And your life in every area your life and

1:04:50

so you gotta eventually say yo, this is where

1:04:52

I start I'm gonna write down

1:04:54

when I want my life to look like then I'm

1:04:56

aggressive get up every day and work towards it I

1:04:59

don't care how much money I got. I don't care

1:05:01

what it looks like. I don't care how many pills

1:05:03

I take for blood pressure. I don't care what my

1:05:05

marriage is right now today We're gonna start building the

1:05:07

blueprint and then we're gonna put everything into that foundation.

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shout out to All the

1:05:42

pot we doubt that was definitely gonna get broke up in

1:05:44

the two because now we got two hours. So For

1:05:47

the regular podcast listeners we out of here. We

1:05:49

love you. We'll see you next week for the

1:05:51

patreon Let's take a couple questions. I

1:05:53

know y'all got some questions from all after that Kitchen,

1:05:56

we're gonna get my trail on here. Absolutely Pop

1:06:00

your hands up if you got patreon couple questions

1:06:02

before we get out of here I gotta feed

1:06:04

these Negroes apparently cuz they over there trail

1:06:07

mix like You

1:06:16

gotta you gotta feed it Wow,

1:06:21

they ready Wow, I know

1:06:24

I was here for that but I promise I didn't know

1:06:26

was here for that What's

1:06:30

up, man Okay,

1:06:37

come on what's up man, what's your question? I get

1:06:39

us for three weeks Is

1:07:00

Yeah, how do you counteract yeah, yeah

1:07:13

In gratification. Yeah, how do you

1:07:15

count the counteract that? Yeah, he's saying like

1:07:17

how do you the patients needed for it?

1:07:19

What do you use for patients? Yeah, so

1:07:22

the future gratification got to be larger than

1:07:24

the instant gratification Like you

1:07:26

got it the reason why the instant gratification is

1:07:28

so enticing to you is because you haven't seen

1:07:30

what the future Gratification is going to bring to

1:07:32

you think Now

1:07:35

I'm gonna say real quick again the book

1:07:37

is telling me to write it out you

1:07:39

just over and over every day I think

1:07:41

a total of probably like 10 15 times

1:07:44

So it forces you to start thinking there more

1:07:46

than you think in the present So

1:07:49

it's a mindset shift like I'm starting to

1:07:51

be envisioned so much of that thing that

1:07:53

whatever is happening now Irrelevant. I'm gonna keep

1:07:55

working because I see that thing is that

1:07:58

thing has become real to me. So That's

1:08:00

the shift man. It's a mindset shift, but

1:08:02

it takes thinking it takes work. Yes,

1:08:05

sir. Appreciate you Jonathan. Let's go to the next We

1:08:09

got we got hands popping up now. Let's get

1:08:11

it. Yes, sir All

1:08:13

right, who we got next Julie what's

1:08:15

up, Julie? Oh

1:08:28

Go let's go And

1:09:02

And again if you understand

1:09:04

you hear me okay On

1:09:08

a mix you can okay. Yeah, if

1:09:11

you understand that you are Created in

1:09:13

God's image and I'm telling you like

1:09:16

the same work that it takes with everything

1:09:18

else You got to start

1:09:20

there first before anything else to be honest.

1:09:22

You got to believe that you are worth

1:09:24

it and The

1:09:28

simple process for that is understanding that

1:09:30

God took time to make sure that

1:09:32

you were on this planet CJ

1:09:36

your dad used to always he knew the

1:09:38

numbers like how many sperm egg the odds

1:09:40

of being here It's like not it's not

1:09:42

possible And it's

1:09:44

not what I'm saying. It's not possible for

1:09:46

you to be here except for

1:09:48

God himself saying I need

1:09:50

you here at this time In 2024.

1:09:53

Hmm. You don't sound I'm saying so

1:09:55

it's not optional It's not and this has nothing to

1:09:57

do with what happened in the past. Whatever he put

1:10:00

you here, he wanted you here for a

1:10:02

reason. He gave you certain gifts. He gave

1:10:04

you certain things. So that's your starting point

1:10:07

of understanding this. And now you

1:10:09

start, when

1:10:11

I start understanding like, yo, there's a God

1:10:14

that created, like we looked at the eclipse

1:10:16

a couple of weeks ago and it's just

1:10:18

like, yo, God controlling all of that stuff

1:10:21

and thought a little me, like you ever looked at ants?

1:10:23

Like my kids play with ants and

1:10:25

it's like, I don't care nothing about no ant. You get

1:10:27

what I'm saying? Like you look at and just like it's

1:10:29

ends running around. Like just get them out of here, but

1:10:32

no, no, no, no. To

1:10:34

God, you're not an ant. Like

1:10:37

you are something that he specially created

1:10:39

and designed. So all your worth is

1:10:41

there. Point blank.

1:10:43

I don't care who he was. She was. Doesn't

1:10:46

matter. And let me say this to Julie. Let

1:10:48

me say this to you because

1:10:51

you asked him that question. How do

1:10:53

you find yourself worth at

1:10:55

some point? You feel like you lost it

1:10:57

and somebody took it from there. So find

1:10:59

out why you feel the need to ask

1:11:02

that question in the first place and go

1:11:04

get it back. Cause that comes built in

1:11:06

certain things. Like if

1:11:08

you ever bought a car, it's like, you

1:11:10

know, you can get a new sunroof on it.

1:11:12

You can choose the running boards or the lights

1:11:14

or whatever. You can choose those features. So

1:11:17

worth comes built in that

1:11:19

that should have already been in. So if

1:11:21

you're asking that question, it's cause you lost it and I'm asking

1:11:24

you to go find out where you lost it and don't take

1:11:26

it back. All

1:11:28

right. All right. Thank you, Julie. Next question. Appreciate

1:11:31

you rocking with us, Julie. We'll see you next week

1:11:33

and make real estate real. Let's go. Let's go. Yeah.

1:11:38

Deshaun. What's

1:11:41

up, Deshaun? Hey y'all. What's

1:11:44

up, lady? How you feeling? I

1:11:52

don't know. like

1:12:00

what you said, he had you

1:12:02

to kind of walk down the

1:12:04

street. So

1:12:07

my question is, what if you have like the

1:12:09

mentality of like, yeah, I'll walk on to him,

1:12:11

I thought, yeah, I will, whatever it takes, you

1:12:13

know, to get to my future, you know, point

1:12:17

of sight, but you don't have that

1:12:19

person in your life to help you

1:12:21

with that game thing. And

1:12:23

then, if the answer is

1:12:25

illegal, excuse me, if you're doing well, if

1:12:28

you're a working team, you can't afford to

1:12:30

take it away. And

1:12:33

so how do you feel about getting someone to help you

1:12:35

with the game? Yeah,

1:12:37

so I've always found that in anything

1:12:39

you're doing, yeah, Bancho hit

1:12:42

me, but you got to remember everything

1:12:44

he went through in life to get

1:12:46

in front of me. Like

1:12:48

the boy lost his mother, she had

1:12:50

a massive heart attack, who was my first cousin. He

1:12:53

lost his father, his father had a massive heart

1:12:55

attack. He was living with his great

1:12:57

grandma. She ended up passing

1:13:00

away right before I took him

1:13:02

with cancer. He

1:13:04

went through so much just to get to the

1:13:06

point where he was able to be with me

1:13:08

beforehand. And I'm saying that there's

1:13:10

things that you can do beforehand, but

1:13:12

he was already becoming, he was

1:13:15

already in a position where I

1:13:17

saw a young man trying. So

1:13:19

therefore I went to him. It goes

1:13:22

back to the thing that CJ talks about where

1:13:24

you got that one person that's on the side of the highway

1:13:26

and they got their thumb out. Everybody's

1:13:28

going to drive by them. They're not going to pick

1:13:30

up a hitchhiker. But if you

1:13:32

have that person who got the family

1:13:35

in a car, they car stopped at

1:13:37

a red light and that guy's

1:13:39

holding on to the steering wheel, got the door to

1:13:41

the car open and he's pushing his car. I

1:13:44

will get out my car, even if my family's in a

1:13:46

car, nine out of 10, 10 out of 10 times to

1:13:49

go help that man out because he's

1:13:52

doing something. And

1:13:54

So you have to be doing something already

1:13:56

working towards it and God is going to

1:13:58

put them other people. One place to

1:14:00

look into that know barbarian person, know.

1:14:03

Like. Amazon. Is there some same person with

1:14:06

a bomb up? There are dangers. Yeah, they

1:14:08

might try to. Kim? Yeah. But. If

1:14:10

a person just the mentality of what we

1:14:12

think about you when we see you work

1:14:14

with yes didn't make the unsafe as I

1:14:16

don't you let us know right here he

1:14:18

might be axe murderer. did it? Do I

1:14:21

hear just a good do car broke down

1:14:23

He planned ahead of me that the unaware

1:14:25

him exists immersive vr. The way we view

1:14:27

that person sees is based on their acts

1:14:29

me out a way we have do you

1:14:31

move as what you are a little was

1:14:33

working as to your work? Yeah. And

1:14:36

you're doing it without pay up do people

1:14:38

to as work and without pay. And.

1:14:40

It in their work without pay, abuse, film

1:14:42

or thousand times different than are you a

1:14:45

person as working there were we pay. The.

1:14:47

Reason was because you done this.

1:14:50

Without. Getting paid. This is what's really want to

1:14:52

do. So therefore people from all over

1:14:54

com help their people invest in that. Has

1:14:57

a doing it and you don't have to be done It. But.

1:15:00

For. The person didn't pay. You could be doing it

1:15:02

because you didn't pay. So. I

1:15:04

would say like go work your work, go

1:15:06

do it Go bomb and said this is

1:15:08

what you really want to do. Stupid.

1:15:11

Where did you give away for free? Any

1:15:13

a watch how doors open up and people come

1:15:15

from all over the help you up to. Ah,

1:15:19

we'll see next week who got next. Done.

1:15:24

Mister. Mack. Now

1:15:28

was a. Plausible.

1:15:32

Was more than a big that. The

1:15:34

deceive. Yeah. Mortgage

1:15:36

is our survival during a lot.

1:15:40

Of the spotless. Further,

1:15:44

Censor. Well, I did all about a little

1:15:46

that. Is

1:15:48

a Would album. Coming

1:15:53

back up on that. Wasn't

1:15:57

me out what? I'll get? the bottom.

1:16:03

Look at my. Own

1:16:08

business? Well, because of how this is. Yeah.

1:16:11

Yeah, in Sf Philly energy, you know,

1:16:13

Santa? definitely. And as you do that

1:16:15

as a half hour like that, Ah,

1:16:17

let me say it is. Ah

1:16:20

is are you for Are you say you're forced

1:16:22

to still be around them Or. Something

1:16:30

along those. Lines.

1:16:33

Of. The

1:16:37

my says. Professor

1:16:39

Lot I got to so check this

1:16:41

out. Met. De. Limits Eight is.

1:16:44

Are you a know? You're. In a victim burn. Victim.

1:16:48

Saying. I'm not a merger Uk do

1:16:50

nothing semi. That. Like are

1:16:52

really be moving like Deborah like. God.

1:16:55

That me brought us. I'm. Not trying

1:16:57

to be funny, It's. Not a man

1:16:59

in his world who could do some some

1:17:01

submit me a bit of surrounding the got

1:17:03

the only had to had a kind of

1:17:05

energy would you do that in charge and

1:17:07

that the know that more? No no way.

1:17:09

So whether you clap for me. Or.

1:17:11

Whether you hate on me or whether you

1:17:13

love me or you case damn him that

1:17:15

know make me know so i can't retire

1:17:17

net energy know that makes his i gotta

1:17:19

be on what I'm also be really stand

1:17:22

on business fennel businesses thin and would you

1:17:24

stand on. Not. Stand and or something

1:17:26

because the somebody else. Or think that

1:17:28

ah promise you as mad as you can be a

1:17:30

them a best a few you need is gone but

1:17:32

well. Not. so you need

1:17:34

to have your own view is them are

1:17:36

your own business and realized you give some

1:17:38

some i did some was power when you

1:17:40

when you mad at somebody who's gonna do

1:17:42

understand that it's a energy to be mad

1:17:44

somebody they say energy to be frustrated with

1:17:47

somebody so every single time to too worried

1:17:49

about would they think of what they did

1:17:51

back then that's another time where you're not

1:17:53

doing would sue supposed to be doing a

1:17:55

seminal would supposed to say no of them

1:17:57

exists so you have to say would you

1:17:59

say on and don't give them that energy

1:18:01

period. Because if you give them that energy,

1:18:03

then they won. I tell people

1:18:05

all the time, a hater is only a

1:18:07

hater. If it works, if

1:18:11

it works, they're

1:18:16

hating. If it don't work,

1:18:18

then what are we even talking about? You're

1:18:20

just talking. You're not hating. Like

1:18:23

it, but for some of us, somebody

1:18:26

hating on you and it worked. You

1:18:28

stopped doing what you were doing because they told you, oh, that

1:18:30

was, they hate. It's like not

1:18:32

a strategist. You

1:18:34

turn to your haters and the strategist. You

1:18:37

could do all the talking you want. It don't make me,

1:18:39

it don't make me no difference. I got time to sit

1:18:41

up there and wonder what a grown man think or what

1:18:43

he said about me or I, whatever. Keep

1:18:45

the pushing. All right. Next. Hey,

1:18:53

what's up tech? Hey,

1:18:56

good morning everybody. I was just

1:18:58

trying to figure out, like, so

1:19:00

my partnership is coaching and besting

1:19:03

my own, but I

1:19:05

know like, I'm with my family dynamic. So

1:19:07

what I have going on right now, I

1:19:09

was, you know, being a wife, being a

1:19:11

mom, took three kids all

1:19:13

aided under and the last thing I

1:19:15

did, I apologize for my time at

1:19:17

my old high school and I did

1:19:19

back in the group. So I'm trying

1:19:22

to figure out how I feel doing

1:19:25

my passion of coaching

1:19:27

or should I kind of go

1:19:29

a alternative route right now of

1:19:32

training little school

1:19:34

girls and then

1:19:36

your office and coach. Yeah,

1:19:39

I mean, and we always

1:19:41

talk about this, you know, balance,

1:19:49

right? Trying to find that balance of

1:19:51

what does your family need? So that's what, when

1:19:53

we talk, we just talked about thinking for a

1:19:55

long time. What does your

1:19:58

family need from you? You Need like. We

1:20:00

got any them I do some like that. I just

1:20:02

write up. The. Order Of Operations Member:

1:20:04

Be back in school. Please excuse my

1:20:06

dear I'm Sally. Ago. I

1:20:09

got. My. Wife. Mikey.

1:20:11

It's like business and I go to all

1:20:13

those figure out what it takes to check

1:20:15

out all of those boxes and figure out

1:20:17

where coaching stands in that order. Educated

1:20:20

Uk coast think holds interview

1:20:22

Gay. And is not the type

1:20:25

who are you looking at your order of

1:20:27

operations and you can get the that until

1:20:29

another season Then fine but handled. I order

1:20:31

of operations because I think a lot of

1:20:33

people because you don't think you're operating gets

1:20:35

out alive and guess what you coaching. He

1:20:37

has been fixed up betty. But.

1:20:40

If I ask you which one you love more

1:20:42

of course a spouse you roy say oh my

1:20:45

spouse of course. But. Why? Why

1:20:47

you out of order then and your a

1:20:49

rubber racism? Okay say. Ah

1:20:51

may I'm I'm doing this for my

1:20:53

family. And I'll see. My family and

1:20:55

my family don't fool with me. What's. This

1:20:57

does that make so back at the come off the

1:20:59

road. Enemy. Less money

1:21:02

for the family, but it means more time.

1:21:04

That's why I would say right now your

1:21:06

order of operations and when you have all

1:21:08

those ones in front of coaching crossed off.

1:21:11

Then. You can get the coaching. Listen.

1:21:13

Epitaph and we truly truly

1:21:15

appreciate All your Second Azov

1:21:17

meds have any. A game

1:21:19

and you know hopefully I'll enjoy the live

1:21:21

look at the pod and you know to

1:21:23

execute. Nice to have met with. Will keep.

1:21:26

Pumping that thankful a card, saying and doing what

1:21:28

we do. Ah, We love ya

1:21:30

man we outta here we better go he

1:21:33

some breakfast receiver you find the hip hop

1:21:35

preserve run in his mean streets. And

1:21:37

I yeah we'll see ya next time for he says

1:21:39

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1:22:00

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