“The question ‘what if’ isn’t bad on its own… it's the fact that we stick with the negative side that makes us feel stuck.”  ~Tami Imlay

We all do it…we ask the question,” what if…?” and the thing is we typically stay on the negative side- what if something bad happens? What if we fail? What if we fall? What if I can’t? We don’t give equal importance to “what if I soar?” What if I succeed? What if I am able to do …? 

Friend- I want to empower you today to stretch a bit. Challenge your normal, familiar questions and think about the opposite. We can work to protect ourselves everyday…we can pull out the evidence that we can’t…or we don’t know…but can you pull out the evidence that you can and that you may not know exactly what is going to happen- but you know enough to trust that you can figure it out?

In today’s episode, I discuss giving equal opportunity: “What if it’s possible?” Let’s do this! 

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Key Takeaways:

1. **Personal Challenges and Decision-Making:**

   - The host shares insights from her week, including personal challenges and the decision-making processes she navigated.

2. **Addressing "What If" Questions:**

   - She discusses the common fears that prevent people from pursuing their dreams and emphasizes the importance of considering both positive and negative outcomes.

3. **Overcoming Fear of Failure:**

   - Through her own experiences, the host illustrates how taking action can help overcome the fear of failure and build confidence.

4. **Impact on Children:**

   - Tami highlights the importance of demonstrating resilience to her children and the value of showing them how to face obstacles.

5. **Encouragement to Take Risks:**

   - Listeners are encouraged to weigh the potential rewards of taking risks and not to be paralyzed by fear.

6. **Invitation to Join Facebook Group:**

   - Tami invites women to join her Facebook group to engage in conversations on leading a purpose-driven life and upcoming self-improvement challenges. Divine Destiny Living a Purpose-Aligned Life 

7. **Transformative Power of Evolution:**

   - Emphasizing the importance of granting oneself permission to evolve, she prompts listeners to share their inquiries or personal stories.

8. **Choosing Joy:**

   - The episode concludes with a message about the importance of choosing joy and the host's eagerness to connect with her audience in future episodes.

Take a moment and consider what has been on your heart and mind. What has been holding you back from taking action (clarity,  Information,  Too much information, Too many options)? What would you do right now…if you KNEW in your heart of hearts…DEEP in your Knower that you couldn’t choose wrong? 

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Final Thoughts:

Our thoughts become our beliefs. When we focus on what is possible rather than what “might” go wrong, we allow ourselves to grow and expand. We allow ourselves to soar. 

Keywords:

Personal Challenges, decision-making, “what if” questions, positive outcomes, negative possibilities, fear of failure, confidence, motivation, resilience, obstacles, taking risks, pursuing dreams, purpose-driven life, self-improvement, embracing growth, transformative power, permission to evolve, inquiries, personal narratives, choosing joy

JOURNAL Question:

Spend time today asking yourself, “What if I can?” Allow yourself to get creative…and stretch beyond what is right in front of you. Stretch to see what would become possible for your family, friends, and community if you said, “What if I soar?”

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I challenge you to look at this new year with new eyes and take power in your words, your decisions, AND your actions! 

Here is to an amazing 2024 🥂 let's rock this year! Who's with me??

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Make 2023 your year! Heck, today is the day things change!  Do not let another moment go by, feeling like you are stuck, overwhelmed, and anxious. Send me a DM and simply say "unstuck," and let's talk!  If you really want to get moving- get on zoom with me! My gift to you is 20 mins to see what is possible! 20 mins will be all it takes to see what is possible and get a next step!  Try it! 

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