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What's. The biggest lesson to learned

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from researching and during this work

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on this topic last few years.

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One I to for a

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long time told affairs only

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happen. In trouble

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relationships if. You have everything

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you want to should be. No, I know

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I'll go looking elsewhere. Then I began to

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hear more and more people come into my

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office and say I love my. Partner.

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I'm having an affair. You

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know, In the same way that when I wrote

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meeting in captivity people would say i love

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my partner. I We have no

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sex. And I

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was like, you know, I thought, if you love

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you desire. And now I thought, if

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you love you fateful. Saw

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this idea that not all affairs

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as symptoms of relationships gone awry,

1:16

that people in happy relationships also

1:18

stray. And it isn't because of

1:20

their partner or because of something

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in the relationship that. there's another

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theme here that affairs and this

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led me to the second day,

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which is that you always have

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to look at infidelity from adorned

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perspective at the heart of affairs,

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his betrayal and hurts. But there

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is also longing. Longing

1:42

for an emotional connection.

1:44

Longing for intensity, longing for different

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sexuality. longing to reconnect with last

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parts of ourselves. Longing

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to suddenly feel alive because people

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have allowed themselves to feel that

1:55

on the inside that what it

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did to you and what it

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meant. That you have to be

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able to figure out thoughts is a

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much more useful way to help people.

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Even if we love our partner for when I

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was in awesome com a sua like I love

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my partner and it's like I'm missing these other.

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Thank them! How do we

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not miss those things Or create those

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in our relationship? To know

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how many times as sit me something.

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That is the sheer in

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this other relationship. Is

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that the one who comes home? I

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mean the one that you partner. Moist

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and does and have not is dealing

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with is not nearly as timing and

2:38

as authentic. You know

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when you prepare your suitcase and you say

2:42

and you'd choose you carefully chosen clothes and

2:44

you pretend he says it's and he know

2:46

you don't bring work with you when you

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go to you know that when you go

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home you on your phone the whole time

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usually bring the leftovers you know nearly dead

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attentive you will as charming you humor is

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gone you know and if the then you

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tell me that you if your wife is

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boring or your husband is boring and you.

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Who are you here first? As

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who Are you there? Those Who

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Are They. Are.

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You. So

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that's a first thing. He said, what happened, To

3:16

you. Since. You left his thing seek

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out and what makes it difficult for you

3:21

to bring this back into your own. Relationship

3:23

and one White Plaza. Why

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is it that there you can be

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such a free woman? Spins use this

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boy sense of us who think you

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hit sexy, have no interest, you are

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utterly you know, frozen and this one

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is a full. It's the same woman.

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What Have. You. Know a

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number but that's the bigger. Like the bigger

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lies. Not only that you having enough of the

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big realize that you and and you both and

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has no idea what's the truth about. So. Why

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and then different story. Sometimes

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so he sometimes with you know I had no

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idea how to bring the food and mean of

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the. I need because family was

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the place was sick sweaty she was the

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most dangerous smart so I have never known

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how to experience pleasure at home. Home was

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a place where I made sure to be

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safe. Pleasure. I took some

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well as then you start to see

4:14

the way that people have carved out

4:16

and compartmentalized and says and the reasons

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behind it. Now you therapy that the

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didn't You know? That's when you start

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to really try to listen. Why? Why?

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Why hotter in subways as if and

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parts of you. Visit our the

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idea of always dating in a relationship the

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site always trying to be your child. Myself

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enough for giving up. Or you got

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into a ship don't like forget that as I

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can they are trying. To

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was dating the for but for

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sure the cutlass the very red

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of attention on each other made

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the they don't think it's a

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the for granted japanese listeners the

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as physical they continue to play

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with each other. We do not

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it's is an amazing thing to see.

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How are things you speak for large

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a creative projects to their passwords to

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them. And.

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How often rather neglect even

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a date night? It's nice

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that. You bring to the.

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Door to the Motions or as. with

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your first necessary and it

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creates a zero sense of

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comfort of fact situation. Was.

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So relationship you need you

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experience. You. Need to

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have this relationship for the. One

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in which the city says out of your

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comfort zone in which to discover succeed which.

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be just by going abroad. Met

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her house risk. We. Know

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it in business and it is

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no difference in the relationship. In

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