YO!

I don't know who needs to hear this but YOU DO NOT have to spend the holidays with your family IF it doesn't serve or support you.

No IS a full sentence.

You matter most.

Your wellbeing is most important.

Yes you will feel sad, mourning, guilt and all that.

Yes that is expected and:

Yes it means you can still choose YOURSELF and NOT GO or NOT INVITE them.

I WISH someone said this to me, so if thats you - I hope it serves you .

🎄 x