Coming off the heels of that horrid video of the young man crying after being stood up for a date, we thought we'd bring in our correspondent, LP to help us share our thoughts about the matter.

While seeing that was sad, what makes us more sad is that this brother seemingly looked for a woman to validate him. We seek validation in a variety of ways, but our talking point for this discussion hinges on why men should NEVER seek validation from women.

This is not to diss women at all. This conversation is more about uplifting and encouraging men. Seeing that most men are inclined to put women on a pedestal, we speculate what it might be like if that man validated himself first.