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And I'm Frances Fry. And
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This is a new segment we like to call Anne and
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Frances' Favorite Icebreakers. We
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do a lot of work with teams, and we try to get
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them to start communicating honestly very quickly. So
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we think a lot about what are the questions
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at the beginning of meetings that's
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really creating an environment where people can have an honest
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dialogue.
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A low-stakes one I often
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use is, tell us about a piece
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of art that means something to you.
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Oh, good. I'll tell you the one that moves me the
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most. And it's a photograph that
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our dear friend, Emmy, took when she was visiting
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us. And our oldest son was two
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or three. On the weekend, we took him
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to the classrooms at the Harvard Business School.
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Not break into the classroom. Not break in. I mean,
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it's really an overstatement. But find our way into the classrooms,
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which have just magnificent layers and layers
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of boards. And we would rearrange
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the furniture a little bit so that he could stand on it
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and draw. Such a light footprint. No
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one ever knew we were there. No.
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But there's this one particular picture where
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he's standing on the desk that's pushed up against it. And
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he's drawing. And his head is tilted
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as if he is an experienced artist
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looking up at the work. He's appraising it.
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But we can only see him from behind. But we can see
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you and I from the side, and we're also
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joining him in the gaze.
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And so all three of us are sharing a
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gaze.
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And I don't know why it's so powerful
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to me, but it is my favorite
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piece of art. So thank
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you, Emmy, for that. And thanks for
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letting me think about that. I love it. I
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love it too. All
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right, I'm Anne Morris. I'm a company builder
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and leadership coach and I'm here with my wife. And
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that would be me. I'm Frances Fry and
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I'm a professor at the Harvard Business School. And
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you're listening to Fixable. This is a podcast
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where we work very hard to fix
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work problems fast. And
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minutes. That's the goal. Many
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of our listeners know that this
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has been a dream of ours for years to
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each other. It's a date.
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Once a week. I'm
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so excited to dive in with our first Fixable
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caller.
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Who is she? Her name is Kelly. She's
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a nurse in a cardiovascular
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acute care unit at a teaching hospital.
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We won't say which one, but it's a very
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high stakes job. It's a lot of work
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and a tremendous amount of commitment
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and generosity. Oh my goodness. Such important
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work. Do we know what Kelly's
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calling about? Yeah, so Kelly
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says patient care. It takes a
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ton of coordination, as you can
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imagine, between lots of different people
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and teams.
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And she's really feeling like the communication
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among all of these people and teams is
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really suffering right now.
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I work in a place where
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you've got doctors, you've got nurses, you've got a whole
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bunch of people, and sometimes there's
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really poor communication
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and it leads
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to resentment and animosity
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and ultimately it comes down
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to quality of patient care.
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If the people who are making life
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altering decisions for these people are not
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all on the same
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page, these people aren't going to receive
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good care and it's going to be extremely frustrating.
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And I just, I want to know how to help foster
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an environment that
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can be overcome. industry
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on the planet. And so I
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look forward to diving in and finding
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out how do we fix communication
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Yeah, I mean, communication is it's
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a universal problem in organizations made
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more difficult by hierarchies, which
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Kelly, thank you so much for doing this with
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us. Of course. Thank you for reaching
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out to me. Yeah, we're really thrilled. We're really
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thrilled.
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And let me start there with what
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would make this conversation most useful to
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you? So I work
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in a unit where lots
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of the patient population that I have, they
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are cardiac specific patients in
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the hospital I work at. They are
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the sickest people I can work with without
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being in the ICU. So
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the issue that I really have is that you've
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got doctors, nurses, you got nursing
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assistants, and then like x-ray
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techs and phlebotomists, just all
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these different teams and everyone needs to
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work together to be this cohesive group.
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But a lot
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of the time, the.
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to
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figuring out this problem and how we can make progress.
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If you were gonna do a summary of what you're hearing as the
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problem, where does your
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beautiful operations mind go? That
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I do think that the diagnosis that it's a communication
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problem is right. I would say
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that part of the communication is transparency.
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So why are we doing it? And I think if the
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patients knew why, if you knew why. So
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that's one part of it. And
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then the other part of it is the, let's
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make sure when one person says
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it, we all hear it. So
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I think there's a breakdown in the number of people that are
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hearing. And I think there's a breakdown on
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transparency. And so the question is, how
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to foster communication in a very
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complicated system where you're not at the
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top of the hierarchy, but how do you do it from the middle?
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And I think many more
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of us face that situation than being
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at the top of the hierarchy. With
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all the decision rights. How
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common, when you think about the problem
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with that framing, how common
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is this challenge? Oh, so
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a phrase that our colleague and friend,
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Amy Edmondson, who studies teams, she
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uses a word teaming. And teaming
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is when a group of people comes together
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around a patient, but it could be a different
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group of people around another patient and another.
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So it's not like there's an intact team that
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all covers each one. That's
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inherently more complicated. I think anytime
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there's that level of complexity,
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this is gonna be at the center of it.
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It makes me think in fast
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moving environments, in tech, for
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example, when there's fast moving and we're coming together
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for this or we're coming together for that. Anytime there's
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a temporary coming together, I think this
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applies. And I also find
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myself thinking about hierarchy here
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because hierarchy gives us
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a lot of comfort in
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the complexity, because there's, who
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outranks who is super
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clear.
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There are very material trade-offs in
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one of them as communication, unless the
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systems are impeccable. Yeah, and I'll be stunned
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if hierarchy is part of our solution. All
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right, Kelly, back to you. So
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first of all, before we jump in, does that summary of the
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problem resonate to
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you? Yes. OK.
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There were moments of light
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and truth and beauty in some
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of the relationships between doctors and nurses
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in this system. Yes. And
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what's happening with those
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that are distinct from what's happening with the relationships
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that aren't working? You
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know, I work with my older brother. My older
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brother and I work on the same unit. We went to
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nursing school a few years apart. And
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there's one physician assistant
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who I work with who got wind
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of that my brother and I work together. And
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whenever I work a weekend shift with this provider,
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he's always like, are you going to Sunday dinner at your
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mom's with your brother? He
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wants to get to know
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who I am as a person, not just sees
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me as one of the nurses.
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He knows me. And whenever
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I take anything to him and I say, hey,
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I've got this problem with this patient.
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Their heart rhythm is showing this. We
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need to get on top of this. We need to give them this medication
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to get ahead of this before things deteriorate.
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He immediately is like, yep, I hear what you're saying.
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Let me go check on the patient. Make sure they're OK. And
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then we're going to do X, Y, and Z to
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make sure that they're OK. And I think
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that that has so much
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strengthened our ability to work
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together for these patients
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is that we know each
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other as people and not just another
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member of the group. Yeah. Why
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did this particular relationship have the oxygen
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for you guys to get to know each other? Or
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the space? Or what happened differently here? I
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think that it's partially
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a personality thing. also
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that a lot of the doctors, a lot
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of the teams, when it comes to
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sitting down and doing their charting and
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their computer work, they go back
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and hide in an office. And
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he's one tool kind of hanging out at the nurses
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station and do a lot of his stuff at the nurses
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station. And there's a lot of chitchat
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at the nurses station. That's where we all kind of
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talk about our days and see
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how the others are doing and talk about our lives
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outside of the hospital. And
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that's where you can learn that, oh, these two random nurses
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who work together and are always hanging out are actually
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siblings. Like, I think it's just important
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to
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have environments where we're able to get
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to know each other outside of our
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jobs as healthcare workers.
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So I wanna start there in
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the fixable portion of this conversation.
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I wanna start in that sandbox, Francis, if
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that works for you. So
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one place my head is going is, is there a possibility
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in this system to
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not rely wholly
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on the personality and social competence
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of the physicians for that
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moment to happen? Right. One
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thing we learned from Agademy, if I can channel like
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your freshman year and
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the awkward ice cream social moment,
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like would it be even structurally
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possible to introduce some
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kind of formality for new
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doctors, like new providers
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coming on, new nurses to say, okay, here's
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what you do in your first week
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to get to know your colleagues
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in this system. We're
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gonna make the implicit explicit. Instead of
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going back to your room, we're gonna tell you what to do.
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We want you to do this work out here in the open
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air where this kind of informal and
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organic get to know you can happen.
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So let me just get your reaction to that. Is that it?
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Okay, and cause I'm gonna push on it. I'm gonna push a lot harder
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if there's any traction there. I
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think absolutely that can make a difference
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for people to get to know you. to know each other that way. That
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makes much less of a divide. Because
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here's what we see happen all the time. And I'm gonna use
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my wife who's an introvert. Total
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introvert. I'd be back in, with no disrespect,
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I would be back in the office with the lights
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low. With the lights low. If
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no one told you, you have to come
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interact with the humans, your default
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reaction would be to wander away. Yes.
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So now for
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you, for me, right? I
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would be super energized by, like who are my
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new colleagues? I'm super curious, I wanna get to know them.
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I'm gonna say I'm more likely to be in option
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A. You are definitely. Of the
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doctor who finds out sooner or later that you are working
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with your brother and thinks that's the coolest thing
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in the world. I'll work with you for 30 years and not know
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it. Right. And I'm also
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more likely to be the human in the system that
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watches you go to your enclosed
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little office space, which I don't have, and
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sit there and do your important work, which you're
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deciding is more important than mine. I'm not deciding,
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right?
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I'm more likely to make a negative attribution to
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that behavior. You're totally gonna make a negative attribution. In fact,
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we haven't even done it, and you're making a negative attribution
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to me right now. I'm already mad at you. I
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haven't even done anything. I'm not even a physician. So
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there is this category of can we shake
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up this entry moment and
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say, okay, this is just what we do
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on this floor. We're gonna lower the stakes.
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We're not gonna require approval from the higher ups.
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We're just gonna say, this is how things operate
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on this floor or in this unit, is
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that the first week you're on the job,
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you do the following five things.
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You do your work out here in this open space. You
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have one-on-one rapid dating meetings with
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all of the nurses on the team. We're gonna use a different metaphor.
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You go to lunch over the first three
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months, you go have a cup of coffee
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with everyone you're working with. Pick
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the five things, lower the stakes,
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don't look for anyone's approval. Stay within
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the zone of the...
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things you can control, but really
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go after this variable that you identified
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that I think is so important, and we see happen all the
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time, of the humans, the flawed
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multidimensional human beings having
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a chance to get to know each other
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as fellow flawed multidimensional
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human beings.
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Right, I would so love to see that happen.
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I feel like the pushback would be
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that we don't have time for an ice cream social.
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But I think that if it's going
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to make communication better
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between the nurses and
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the doctors, then I don't think
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it's that big of a price to pay. Yeah.
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Where I would suggest starting is pick one idea
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that you think is within the realm of possibility
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in the system, and
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brainstorm with two other people who are as
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frustrated as you are about, what
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could we do proactively to
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introduce one element
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that creates the space and structure
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where this thing that's so important that we're relying
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on organically, spontaneously,
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relying on the personalities of the physicians,
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which is random and out of our control,
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can we introduce a little bit of
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structure and control into
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this scenario? And if you
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don't have the power to introduce
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such an idea, figure
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out who do you think would be your most likely
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ally in the system, and could
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you use their power to do something
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like this? Right.
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Hold that thought. We'll be right
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back after this quick break.
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I
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love the diagnosis that when
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you're given a great personality and somebody with great
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social competence, this isn't an issue. So
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the issue is when the physicians
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don't have it.
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either the personality and
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or the social competence. So I love
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the narrowing down there and what do you do? So
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what we just heard is something you can do by
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giving a secret memo to the doctors, like telling
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the doctors what to do. I want to look
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at it from what can you do? So it
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doesn't require telling someone else,
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but what might you do? And
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here's what comes to mind to me. How
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might you welcome them? So,
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you know, I mean,
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a sign, like welcome
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Francis, welcome Francis on
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your, you know, first day on the floor. We're
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thrilled to have you like. So instead
18:39
of relying on their noticing our humanity,
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we're going to notice their humanity.
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I love the whole structure,
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but my mind, and you can say
18:49
which one is better. My mind is what can
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you do with superior
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personality and social competence? And
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this is talking from someone who's on
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the inferior personality and social
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competence side. And so that
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would be the only thing I would add to it. And my wife loves
19:06
a good competition. So she's going to. I'm
19:08
going to want to know which one you like. She's going to frame this as
19:10
an either or, but I think there's actually
19:13
quite a beautiful blend where
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you're still accomplishing this
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goal of creating a space for
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our shared humanity. You're just
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doing it in this beautiful form where
19:24
you have total control. This is a nurse driven
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initiative, and it's really centering
19:28
and celebrating the physicians.
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And I loved your example, Francis, and these
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are small things that I'm hearing you propose.
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Totally small, just small bits
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of welcoming. Bits of welcoming. Let
19:41
me show you around the floor, like,
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you know, making that a meaningful moment,
19:46
adding a little bit of time and space and
19:48
joy to that moment. I love
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that. Yeah.
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What's your reaction to that? So
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one interesting thing is we've been thinking about this in
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a teaching hospital, other. and
20:00
like the attendings and some
20:02
of the doctors who were just like a little bit below them,
20:04
the residents and the interns, the ones
20:07
who I'm really interacting with, they
20:09
switch out every couple of weeks, if
20:12
not every week. Like they'll all get to know
20:14
them and it's like, peace out, I'll probably never see you again.
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And I have one coworker who I
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watch her every couple
20:23
of weeks. There's a new resident on the service
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and she goes up and she says, hey, this is my name. What's
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your name? Where'd you go to medical school? Where are you from?
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And I have noticed that she does tend
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to have better
20:34
relationships with
20:36
the doctors because of it. And
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I think that incorporating that
20:41
into my own practice personally
20:45
would make a big difference for
20:48
me. And I think the informality
20:52
of your suggestions, Francis, I feel like that's something
20:54
I can manage with my social-
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expertise. Energy.
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I love that, Kelly. And I just went for
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the record. I want to say that Francis has won this round.
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She's gonna want to hear that on
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the recording. So let's please not edit this
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out. And what I so
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love about this as a focus of your energy
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is you're back in the zone of things that you have
21:18
total control over,
21:20
which is your own behavior.
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Now, I am gonna push
21:25
you to experiment
21:28
with one or two things that
21:31
are a little bit outside of
21:33
your zone of control, because
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I want to start firing up the muscles
21:38
of how do I start to influence
21:41
this larger system around me.
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That could be as simple as
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talking to this colleague of yours
21:50
and saying, first, I want to learn from what you're
21:52
doing, I notice it, I want
21:54
to do it. The other opening
21:56
that gives you is also, can you have a
21:58
conversation with this one other-
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I
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love it. I love it. Thank
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you so much. Thank you. And please
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keep us posted, Kelly, and say
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hello to your brother. I will. All
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right,
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Frances, what do you think
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about this larger issue of
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communication breakdowns in
24:24
organizations? So if we use
24:26
this as an example, part of a communication
24:28
breakdown is that we didn't give the why, right?
24:31
So we just didn't give enough transparency. That
24:33
is, we just gave you the
24:35
tip of do this. But
24:38
we didn't tell you do this because
24:40
of so-and-so and if this changes, do that. So
24:42
the do this, putting people into
24:45
order-taking role is actually
24:47
going to require your effort all day,
24:49
every day. It's an exhausting
24:51
way to do it, but it feels like
24:54
less time in any given moment. And
24:56
then the second thing is process was just
24:59
shouting to me throughout this whole conversation. How
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do we make sure in a teeming context
25:05
that when
25:05
one person says something, everyone
25:07
hears it? Well, word of mouth
25:09
is okay, but we are really
25:12
advanced species now. Let's
25:14
figure out a way, and perhaps even a technologically
25:16
enabled way, to
25:17
do it. So transparency
25:21
and that everyone gets to hear it seem
25:23
to me to be the two ways there. And
25:26
a lot of the transparency is the why. Yeah,
25:29
I was thinking about where you started your academic
25:31
career in operations, and
25:34
that the outcomes here where there is
25:36
reliable miscommunication, there's a reliable
25:39
breakdown in communication is entirely 100% predictable
25:42
based on the way the system has been designed.
25:45
But because of the way it's designed, where there's such
25:47
a scarcity of time
25:48
and space for the operators within
25:51
it to actually reflect, this problem is not
25:53
being surfaced and it's not being dealt with. And
25:56
the system is relying on the Kelly's of
25:58
the world to make incremental progress.
25:59
when it's begging for really
26:02
a top-down solution to meet the
26:05
warriors in the middle who are working
26:07
bottom up. Yeah, and
26:09
so if this were the person with a different perspective
26:12
on this calling in, giving them the
26:14
fix to that would actually be straightforward.
26:18
Organizations that surface problems at a faster rate
26:20
improve at a faster rate, full stop.
26:23
And what's happening here is that problems are
26:25
getting sublimated. And what
26:27
I mean by that is that
26:29
when problems aren't surfaced, when we
26:31
push them down, we have no chance of
26:33
improving. And so we want to
26:36
elevate problems and enjoy
26:38
the experience of elevating problems because those
26:40
problems, when surfaced, are precisely
26:43
our improvement opportunities. And
26:45
the more problems that are surfaced, the faster
26:47
we
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improve. Amen. And
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so it would be super fun to talk to
26:51
that person, hopefully, if you're listening, call. All
27:00
right, that's it. That's our show. Thank
27:02
you all for listening and
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for being part of this. We want to hear
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