0:03

I have turned the slow of this

0:05

beauty for you , but

0:07

that beauty for me . I'm

0:10

a rich man's world , a

0:13

rich man's world , a rich man's

0:16

world , but

0:20

you are a rich man's world

0:22

.

0:23

I have turned the slow

0:25

of this beauty for you Supremely

0:27

, full of it .

0:30

Ah , it's peanut butter jelly

0:32

time . No , it's not . Oh

0:34

, you know that song . Yeah , oh , really

0:36

, next time , yeah .

0:37

Say goodnight man .

0:43

Supremely full of it podcast . We

0:45

hear it , man . You know what I'm saying . We hear it . They call

0:47

me Dyer and I be a boy now . Hey

0:49

, man , you know when you be like Looking

0:52

for clothes to wear On

0:54

the podcast I

0:56

didn't try this stuff on before , for

0:58

like I

1:01

wore it out here , you know what I'm saying . I

1:03

don't like the way this hoodie shaped

1:05

on me , bro , what ?

1:06

you mean what's wrong with it ?

1:08

Bro , look , you see that bro .

1:09

But guess what , though ? Just

1:12

pull the sleeves up .

1:13

But I'm just saying like Just pull the sleeves up

1:15

it don't .

1:16

You know what I'm saying .

1:17

I ain't , I ain't , I ain't

1:19

feeling myself you ain't comfortable with it ?

1:20

No , I am not , bro .

1:21

I feel like this hoodie was made for like a 5'9

1:24

person . Ah you

1:26

, how tall 6'2 Me too . You know

1:28

what I'm saying 6'2 style yeah

1:30

, me too .

1:32

I wasn't going that far , but yeah , for sure

1:34

, 6'2 .

1:35

But now , funny story , man Like

1:40

I put out a short A

1:43

while ago About

1:45

people who use cheap toilet paper

1:47

, that you shouldn't

1:49

date them Because they don't care about

1:51

the material that they use , the white they butt . They

1:54

not gonna care about the relationship , right ? So

1:56

my dude , he

1:59

called me one night and

2:01

he was like man , I

2:04

was at this girl's house and

2:06

I had to use the bathroom and

2:09

, like her toilet paper was so

2:11

cheap that

2:14

as I was wiping , the

2:16

finger went through and

2:23

I said yo , you cool

2:25

or no , but

2:27

I'm telling this story . Dang

2:30

and I was like

2:32

the brown finger I

2:35

was like , so you was filming yourself .

2:38

Oh man .

2:39

Okay , let me ask you this , bro he

2:41

was dating her , or they

2:44

was ?

2:44

together . I

2:47

would just say they was working towards something

2:49

, so I guess they was getting

2:51

to know each other .

2:52

Okay .

2:53

So he went back for a nightcap , or

2:55

I don't know how women roll

2:57

these days .

2:59

Yeah .

3:00

So I was like so what

3:02

did you do ?

3:05

Yeah , that's

3:07

crazy .

3:08

He said he washed his hands and he went back to kick

3:11

it .

3:11

Yeah .

3:12

But here's a funny thing though they

3:14

was eating popcorn , hahaha

3:17

.

3:21

The show over . The

3:24

show is over . That's

3:27

it . That's all we need , bro . Oh my god

3:29

. He said he washed his hands , though

3:31

I don't care the visual .

3:34

You know what I'm saying ? The visual , bro . But

3:36

that's why I said you don't

3:38

mess with people who use toilet paper

3:41

, man , because it ain't cool

3:43

, but all I see is

3:45

yeah . Just

3:49

the fact that you knew what that hand is being

3:51

you still , oh

3:55

man .

3:59

How's your day today , man ? I'm

4:01

tripping out right now , bro . They

4:06

was eating popcorn .

4:07

Shout out to the homie .

4:09

I hope he didn't lick the butter off his fingertips

4:11

.

4:12

It was finger licking , good , hahaha

4:15

, oh

4:17

man , oh man , anyway . So

4:20

I started a organic

4:25

, plant-based diet this

4:28

week , and that's what they do . I'm

4:30

struggling , man .

4:31

For sure you will . I'm struggling .

4:33

Yeah , it's horrible . Everything tastes nasty

4:35

. But salad Right

4:38

. They got

4:40

these . Animal-free . Chicken

4:42

Can't do it . Chicken patties

4:44

and steak patties I can't do

4:46

it . They feel like clay . Yeah

4:49

.

4:49

I can't do it bro .

4:50

But when you put them in an air fryer I'm

4:53

like how do I know that they're done

4:55

?

4:56

Because they look the same as when you put it in there

4:58

.

4:58

Exactly , yeah . So I'm pulling

5:01

it out , paul's , putting

5:05

forks in , spreading it

5:07

apart Paul's , and I'm like is

5:09

it done ? So

5:12

I called my little brother and I was like hey , man

5:14

, check on me tomorrow bro . Because

5:17

, I don't know if these

5:19

joints is done , so

5:22

I don't know how long

5:24

I'm going to do this .

5:27

I can't , I

5:29

don't want to eat anything that's supposed to

5:31

be something else .

5:34

Well , if somebody heard you say that

5:36

they believe in the whole organe plant thing

5:38

, they would be like well , you've been doing that

5:41

your whole life , wow

5:43

, okay

5:45

, let me ask you this when

5:48

you see an animal on a side of a road dead

5:50

, if you come

5:52

back three days later , does it look the same ?

5:56

No , well , no

5:58

, no . What I'm saying is I don't want to eat

6:01

something that they are trying to say

6:03

is like something else , like

6:05

I don't want to eat a chicken patty . That

6:08

I know is not a chicken patty , though , but

6:10

on the package it'll say

6:12

chicken nuggets , and I know it's

6:14

not chicken nuggets , plant based

6:17

or animal free . I

6:19

just really eat the fruits and vegetables bro

6:21

.

6:21

Oh yeah , the fruit . Yeah Well

6:24

, I did taste a difference when I had

6:26

applesauce . If

6:28

you look at the ingredients on just

6:31

regular applesauce it looks like a

6:33

wish list of stuff . Yeah for sure . But

6:35

if you go to the organic applesauce , you

6:38

go to the ingredients . All you're going to see is organic

6:40

apples .

6:41

That's it .

6:43

And you taste the difference . I mean it still tastes

6:45

good , but you know the difference .

6:47

But you know what you do Take that applesauce

6:49

, you take you some cinnamon and

6:51

throw it in there and stir it up . I don't like cinnamon .

6:53

You don't like cinnamon .

6:55

I'm not

6:57

. You're going to struggle .

6:59

Hey , I'm already struggling .

7:00

Because , like I said , I've done it before

7:02

, but I've only . I don't

7:04

want nothing that's been processed

7:07

, said organic , made to look

7:09

like something else . Just give me the fruits and vegetables

7:11

and I'm cool with that .

7:14

But there's . I

7:17

like meat pause , so

7:20

I need some type of but

7:23

man struggling

7:26

.

7:26

I mean you still got a lot of options , but like veggies

7:30

and rice you know what I mean .

7:31

Like , I think what I'm going to do is I'm going

7:34

to find a plant-based

7:36

meal prep company , because

7:39

I don't have a lot of time to cook , so

7:42

I think it's best if I just do that .

7:46

Yeah , I'm cool . All right , I

7:49

know who not coming over for Thanksgiving .

7:52

Hey , you meant when I was on steroids . Hey

7:57

, yeah , tell this story , bro , all

8:00

right . So I

8:02

was in the car accident at work and

8:05

the doctor had me on steroids .

8:08

Yeah .

8:08

Because I was in pain and I was like inflamed

8:11

a lot and stuff . Is

8:13

that a pause ? No , I'm inflamed

8:15

. No , man , now

8:17

you're good , I'm just trying to be safe .

8:19

Yeah , I know .

8:20

Anyway , so I already have a habitabilism

8:23

, so I you know

8:25

what I'm saying . I like to eat a lot , but

8:28

these steroids though they oh , my

8:30

phone is still up , but

8:32

the steroids had me on 1000

8:35

. So Nye and

8:37

his church had what Thanksgiving

8:39

. And they had a whole lot of

8:41

cakes and pies . Yeah , yeah , a

8:44

whole lot of cakes and pies and

8:47

I just went there to say what's up there . Everybody

8:50

, you know what I'm saying . What's good ?

8:51

Mm-hmm .

8:53

But when I saw the cakes and pies , I

8:55

remembered that I was on steroids .

8:57

Yeah , so I'm

8:59

going to change your story . After you get done , go ahead .

9:02

So I was looking

9:04

real pitiful while

9:07

I was going around the going

9:09

around the table getting all the

9:11

cakes and pies and not

9:13

waiting until I

9:16

left . So

9:18

, yeah , yeah , yeah .

9:21

Yeah , most of that happened , yeah .

9:22

What was most of it .

9:24

I want to change it just a little bit . Go ahead , go

9:26

ahead . When I saw my brother Dyer show up

9:28

, you know what I'm saying . We

9:30

had a bunch of stuff . I said , hey , man , you want a piece

9:33

of cake . You remember that

9:35

? And he was like , yeah , sure , yeah , I'm hungry

9:37

anyway too . Yeah , okay . So

9:39

what the dessert was ? He said can

9:43

I get one of all of them ? Can I

9:46

get one of all of them ? I

9:48

said , yeah , go ahead . He was like man .

9:54

No , it was like slouched over , you

9:57

didn't much .

9:58

You was hurt though .

9:59

You was hurt , I was a home . Yeah

10:02

, you was hurt man , oh

10:05

, and them cakes and pies did not make it home .

10:07

I ate them in the car on the way home

10:10

. Got it in bruh , it's cool .

10:11

Oh , man Speaking

10:14

of that ? Well , not cakes and pies but , that transitions

10:16

into what we're going to talk about today

10:18

. They

10:21

say that the male ego is very

10:23

fragile , but

10:26

if you listen to Beyonce , it is too

10:28

big , it's too wide

10:30

, it won't fit .

10:33

Yeah .

10:35

I've got how to rest the song . Yeah , something like that

10:37

. Yeah , but

10:40

is there any truth ? First

10:43

of all , to you , what is the male

10:46

ego ?

10:55

To me , man , it's

11:02

all about self . Okay

11:04

, you know what I mean . I

11:07

was raised . When it's all

11:09

about self , you edge out

11:11

everything else that's important . They

11:14

use the letters edge and guide out . Okay

11:17

, a

11:22

lot of things is coupled into that your

11:25

pride , things

11:28

of that nature . If

11:31

I think about that

11:34

ego being fragile or ego being

11:36

too big , yeah

11:38

, I all love it .

11:40

Okay , I think ego is basically

11:43

how you carry yourself . It's

11:46

just another word for what self-esteem

11:49

or whatever . But

11:52

I think when people use ego , that

11:54

goes , that adds a little bit more

11:56

flavor to it , that

11:59

adds a little bit more status , more weight to

12:01

it . Like

12:04

, okay , let me ask you this Do you think

12:06

a man who's , let's

12:09

say , 35 , and

12:12

he lives at home with his parents

12:14

and

12:17

he goes from job to

12:19

job because he can't keep one , do

12:24

you think he should have an

12:26

ego ?

12:34

I mean , everybody's going to have one . See

12:36

, I don't think you should . Everybody's

12:39

going to have one .

12:40

I think an ego is something that you earn .

12:44

Okay , Like

12:48

save

12:50

me .

12:50

for example , I

12:53

can't say

12:55

that

12:57

I'm the realest nigga

13:00

in the world or that you

13:02

know and

13:05

my actions don't show it . Everything

13:07

has to back up what I'm saying . Everything

13:10

has to back up what I'm living .

13:11

Yeah , I mean , but whether you earn one or not , you

13:13

got one .

13:16

But it's an ego based off

13:18

of nothing , though you

13:20

have nothing to stand on .

13:24

But that just shows , how- .

13:25

Well , your ego don't have nothing to stand on .

13:26

Yeah , that just shows , how

13:29

fragile or big it is Okay

13:31

.

13:32

Well , is it a fragile ego ? Only

13:35

when a person doesn't

13:38

live up to what their

13:40

ego supposedly means .

13:46

No , not necessarily . I think

13:49

people may view

13:51

it as being fragile if you

13:56

may be living up to it , but it may not be

13:59

enough for them .

13:59

You know what ?

14:00

I mean Okay , and that could damage your ego

14:02

. Well , things are going to be fine , okay .

14:06

Do you have an ego ?

14:08

We all do .

14:09

I didn't ask you that . Do you have an ego

14:11

?

14:12

I did answer it .

14:13

You just can't say yes or no we all do bro

14:15

. Okay .

14:17

Yes , Do you have one

14:19

? Of course I do . I know because your

14:21

hat barely fit right now .

14:23

Yeah , it is time to choose . Yeah

14:26

, of course I do .

14:27

Can you look up the clinical definition ?

14:31

Yeah , but somebody got to keep talking , though . You just

14:33

don't want dead air . We already

14:35

born . I know that's what they have .

14:36

So they should be used to it . They

14:39

should be used to it , okay , yeah

14:42

.

14:45

A person's sense of self-esteem

14:48

or self-importance . So

14:53

I mean that

14:55

kind of defeats what

14:57

I said about a person having

14:59

a little bit more sauce to it , because

15:02

this is just self-esteem . But you said that though

15:04

. Yeah , but I said that

15:06

an ego is

15:08

something that you earn . You

15:12

should already have self-esteem .

15:15

Well , read the rest of the definitions though . That's

15:17

it , but

15:22

it says something else though .

15:23

A person's sense of self-esteem

15:25

or self-importance .

15:26

Yeah .

15:31

Nick , what are you saying ?

15:33

I'm still saying Everybody

15:35

wants to feel self-importance

15:38

bro .

15:38

Okay , but it does say a boost

15:41

in my ego .

15:42

That's why I was saying self-importance and self-esteem

15:44

can still be exclusive

15:46

. You know they're not . You know what I mean . They

15:48

can be separated as well . You

15:51

can have self-esteem and still not feel important

15:53

.

15:54

I mean true . But

15:56

all right . When you hear this

16:00

person has a big ego , that

16:02

means that they think very highly of

16:04

themselves or they fool of themselves . It's

16:07

a pretty big fool of it . But

16:10

, you

16:15

have to do something to feel that way

16:17

. You just can't be a bum

16:20

and

16:22

feel like you , the ish

16:24

.

16:25

Yeah , but you can have an ego and not

16:27

really care about anybody else's well-being

16:29

though , because it's all about you

16:31

. It's all about yourself , true , and

16:34

I think that's where the term ego comes

16:36

in , in a negative way , because

16:39

you know you

16:41

were more important than anything else

16:43

.

16:45

You think you're the center of the universe

16:47

?

16:47

Yeah , Let me ask you this

16:49

Do you think more

16:51

men have large egos , or women ? You

16:55

didn't even take the time to even think

16:57

about that . You

17:01

don't want to take that back . You

17:05

want to bring the Modi in . That was

17:07

a quick answer . Why ?

17:12

Because it sounds good .

17:14

No , it's fine .

17:20

I think in

17:22

today's world , women

17:26

will say that they're a boss bee

17:28

, but

17:30

they're not the boss of anything . I

17:41

mean , men could probably be guilty of

17:43

this one too . But

17:45

they will put on makeup

17:48

, weave and all

17:50

this other stuff , steve Harvey

17:53

, and

17:55

then their expectations grow

17:58

. But if they took all that off

18:01

, they still have the

18:03

same expectations . But

18:10

another reason why I think it's women is because

18:12

it's hard for women

18:16

to apologize . Go ahead . And

18:22

then that's all I want to say

18:24

.

18:24

That's it , you done right there .

18:25

Yeah , I think we should

18:27

go in this show kind of early Amen

18:30

.

18:30

You know what do you think Nye ? I

18:33

agree with you .

18:34

Okay . Why , though ? Answer me ? Nah , you need

18:36

to get on the shirt . Answer

18:38

me , hey don't do it .

18:50

Copy written by Supreme . Be Full of it podcast .

18:53

Yes , sir .

18:58

For anybody to

19:01

never believe that

19:04

they don't do anything wrong . They

19:07

have the biggest egos I've ever seen .

19:10

Or every time they do do

19:12

something wrong . If somebody else is fault , yeah

19:15

.

19:16

Or know that they done something

19:18

wrong and won't apologize

19:21

for it .

19:23

Or they know that they did something

19:25

wrong , but you're so sensitive

19:28

that's why you

19:30

think it's something wrong .

19:33

Blame shift .

19:34

Yeah , yeah . It's like maybe you stop

19:36

acting like a bi , Then

19:41

I wouldn't have to apologize . We

19:44

just spit ball in here , you know what ?

19:45

I'm saying yeah , I mean I agree , though I think

19:48

women have the biggest egos . Do I think men got egos

19:50

? Yes , some of them do . Yes , they do . Yeah , I

19:53

don't know if you don't cut the men out of there , but

19:55

since

20:01

you brought up Beyonce , okay , All

20:04

right . Do you

20:06

think she's coming from a place of

20:09

having a big ego when she , when

20:13

her song , says that you're replaceable

20:15

?

20:16

Of course . Why

20:18

is that ? Because

20:25

she says in the song I can have another you in

20:29

a minute . Yes , I know Beyonce songs nigga

20:31

, so what , so

20:33

yeah .

20:34

But if you had another me , if

20:37

you could go get another me , then what's wrong

20:39

with me ? Though you

20:42

ain't got that new shoestment . That don't

20:44

make sense to me . The

20:47

problem is , you do want another me

20:49

because I'm the

20:51

best thing you ever had .

20:54

Or like what

20:56

I've started to say lately

20:59

people don't want better

21:01

, they just want what they used to .

21:06

But why do you think that just

21:09

because you can get another me means you're better

21:11

than I am ?

21:12

I don't know , I

21:15

don't know .

21:18

I don't know , we

21:23

all . Yes , a

21:25

person can be replaced mm-hmm

21:27

but the

21:30

intangibles that that person brought can't

21:32

be replaced mm-hmm . So

21:35

Okay , let

21:38

me ask you this I'm trying to get away from Beyonce

21:40

cuz I mean maybe wait

21:42

, should we want to be have to come after us ? That's

21:44

more views in it Sure is man

21:47

. No , we

21:50

love Beyonce . I

21:52

mean she

21:55

got song called rocket mm-hmm listen

21:57

to that , say no , you heard it bro

22:00

.

22:00

Cool is the .

22:02

The first words that come of her mouth is let me sit

22:04

this oh , I do remember

22:06

that song .

22:08

Yeah , I remember that song .

22:10

It's our car living that life , boy anyway

22:13

. Back back

22:15

to ego , back to you . Do you

22:17

think Women

22:19

like men with big

22:22

egos ?

22:24

To some degree . Okay

22:27

long as that ego benefits

22:29

her , she is just fine with it . It's

22:32

the moment that the ego Affects

22:36

. If that ego affects

22:38

her feelings or what she wants and yet

22:40

now you the problem .

22:43

Is it ? Well , and part

22:45

of the song she said is too

22:47

loud . What is your definition of a loud

22:49

ego ?

22:54

Somebody that's so into themselves , that

22:56

is visually seeing and

22:58

and it don't even have to be , it

23:02

don't even have to be spoken of .

23:04

Okay , have you ever

23:06

seen the movie American gangster ? I

23:09

have . Do you remember the movie

23:11

American it ?

23:11

depends man . You know , I'm 40 , brown

23:14

, remember nothing . I 40 .

23:15

Okay , there's a scene in the movie

23:18

where Frank

23:20

Lucas is talking to , I think , his brother

23:22

mm-hmm , his brother had that

23:25

, had this loud pseudo mm-hmm and

23:27

. And His

23:30

brother was making money . That's why he wore

23:32

that loud suit . Mm-hmm and

23:34

you

23:36

okay .

23:37

I not , I swallow wrong . I told you I'm 40

23:39

, but Bruh

23:42

, I don't know . But

23:46

you ain't never had that happen before , bro , like

23:48

no , you

23:50

ain't never been so old . You forgot to breathe . Bra

23:53

, yeah , I'm saying pause .

23:55

Do you not hear what you be saying ? Pause

23:58

, I'm looking at you like yo say

24:01

it .

24:03

Say you

24:10

ain't never had issues while I win , bro you know

24:12

. Say hey , bro

24:14

, it's

24:17

just one of them deals , man , like you

24:20

know , I

24:22

be like that .

24:27

No , I've never , I

24:29

don't swear . Oh

24:31

my god , I forgot what you're talking

24:33

about Okay , here we go

24:35

. He had the loud

24:38

seal .

24:39

Mm-hmm .

24:40

Frank was like will you doing ? You're too

24:42

loud .

24:42

Mm-hmm .

24:43

You're drawing attention to yourself . Yes , the

24:45

loudest person in the room is

24:48

usually the weakest person in the room

24:50

, mm-hmm , so can you still have

24:52

a huge ego ? But

24:54

wait , did you answer this already ? But

24:56

have low self-esteem .

24:58

Mm-hmm .

25:00

But the the definition said that you got

25:02

self-esteem .

25:04

It does .

25:05

So how can you have a big ego but low self-esteem

25:08

?

25:08

because you can have one of what the definition

25:10

actually calls for . I .

25:14

Just think , if your ego is as

25:16

loud as you you pretend it

25:18

, pretended to pretend

25:20

it to be then you , then

25:23

your low self-esteem , can't be

25:25

. Show

25:27

them to the public , I guess .

25:28

Well , I guess I should say it like this . In

25:30

that case it wouldn't be a large

25:33

ego , it

25:35

would be a fragile ego . Okay , it's

25:38

still an ego nonetheless , but

25:40

if you are trying to appear

25:42

to be something that you're not because your self-esteem

25:45

is low , still an ego , just a weak one .

25:47

Okay , do

25:49

. Can

25:52

a man tear down his own ego ?

25:56

Mm-hmm .

25:57

How Get

26:00

to the point to where you feel like you're worthless

26:02

. Okay , and

26:05

that affects your self-esteem

26:07

and your willing , how

26:10

you feel about how important you are .

26:14

See , man , the reason

26:16

why I think ego is something

26:18

that you earn is

26:20

because your

26:23

ego is how you carry yourself , because

26:26

of the accomplishments that you have .

26:29

Mm-hmm .

26:30

Your self-esteem is how you feel about

26:32

yourself .

26:33

Right , but I think where you're going with it is

26:35

a byproduct of ego . It's

26:39

a byproduct of having self-esteem

26:41

and having a sense of

26:43

self-importance .

26:46

Right , like you have accomplishments

26:49

. That's why

26:51

you have it ?

26:53

Yeah , but you don't have to accomplish anything to have

26:55

self-esteem .

26:58

Yeah , I mean you could have high self-esteem

27:00

, but , like

27:02

I said , when I say ego is something that you

27:05

earn , like something that you did

27:07

, Like when I graduated

27:09

oh , I said graduated when

27:11

I finished trucking school that

27:14

gave me a boost to my ego because

27:17

I accomplished something and I know

27:19

what this is going to allow me to do .

27:22

Mm-hmm .

27:23

But I already had high self-esteem because I

27:25

love myself .

27:26

Mm-hmm .

27:27

But the ego is something that I work

27:29

to get . That's

27:31

what I'm saying . Ego

27:34

is your accomplishments .

27:36

But it's only important to you .

27:39

Yeah .

27:40

That's it .

27:42

Ain't that who it should be important to .

27:43

That's it , though . That's what I'm saying . So

27:46

your ego doesn't affect anybody else but you , right

27:48

?

27:48

but you see my ego

27:50

.

27:51

Mm-hmm .

27:52

And some people want to benefit off of the

27:54

say ego .

27:56

Or see you and say that your

27:58

ego is fragile . Okay

28:03

, if you go . He talks about his accolades , because he got

28:05

a self-esteem issue .

28:06

That's all I'm about to say . If you go around flexing , yeah

28:08

. And could

28:11

that come across to

28:13

some people as you have a fragile ego , Mm-hmm

28:16

. Okay , so if somebody say , man , they'll

28:19

make 20s them tens .

28:20

Mm-hmm .

28:21

But you keep them clean though .

28:22

Mm-hmm .

28:24

Did you catch that reference ?

28:25

Yeah , I did .

28:25

Okay , I did .

28:29

Can I get a chuckle or something Like this

28:33

is going to let me keep talking . Yeah , I caught

28:35

it , though . Yeah , I did , I caught it , but

28:38

somebody saying that they're like no , these

28:40

are all 20s , and then they be like nope .

28:44

Mm-hmm .

28:45

These tens G , that could hurt your ego

28:47

, couldn't it ? Well , because you

28:49

flexing , but the flexing isn't real . Yeah

28:51

, that's your fault .

28:52

Okay , that's your fault . Okay

28:55

, yeah , so . But , like

28:57

I said , man , in

29:00

my opinion , when you have an ego , that's

29:02

seen , then you are not an

29:04

individual who exercises being

29:06

humble .

29:10

I mean true , like

29:13

I said something about Frank Lucas

29:15

, because the

29:17

way he lived his life that's

29:21

how I would want to live my life . Well , mine's the

29:23

whole snitching and selling drugs and killing

29:25

people in broad daylight . Basically , y'all love it

29:27

yeah that's cool Now , but like he

29:29

was low-key .

29:30

Yeah , yeah , because he was selling drugs

29:32

.

29:33

Yeah , well , I mean , I

29:36

just like this swag bro . Yeah okay , that's

29:38

one of my favorite movies .

29:39

You like this self-esteem .

29:41

No , I like this ego . You like all of

29:43

it . Pause , I like this

29:45

ego . He

29:47

was very low-key , but he

29:50

knew that he was the man , though

29:52

.

29:52

Mm-hmm .

29:54

And he didn't mind showing that when he wanted

29:56

to .

29:59

But that's where I say , that's where your ego

30:01

is fragile , because you should never have to

30:03

show anything .

30:04

No , he wanted to show it Like when

30:06

he wore that coat

30:09

to boxing . That

30:12

was him flexing , got him in trouble .

30:14

but that was him flexing , but that's what I'm saying . Like

30:16

not on his case , but I'm just saying

30:19

in most cases , like , anytime

30:21

you want to flex , anytime

30:24

. You're

30:26

not humble , huh , yeah

30:28

, that's how I see that .

30:30

So every time you be at the shop

30:32

? No , no Matter of fact

30:34

, every time we in the studio and

30:36

I hear you say I am him . What

30:39

are you doing ?

30:40

What you mean .

30:41

What it sound like .

30:42

What you mean . It sound like .

30:44

You know , I got you .

30:47

No , you talking about the music and

30:49

stuff that I let you hear . I just be messing with you . Oh , now

30:51

you just messing with me . I be messing with you

30:53

, man . I'm

30:55

going to keep it 100 with you , bro , when I say

30:57

you know

30:59

, I'm a barber . I didn't have other barbers

31:02

come to me and say I think I

31:04

can cut better hair than you .

31:05

You know what I say .

31:07

You probably can . Even

31:10

when it come down to music , I do X

31:12

, Y , Z better than you . You probably do

31:14

.

31:16

That's how I look at everything . See me , I'm totally different

31:18

. See me , I'm going to call you bluff

31:21

.

31:21

No , I don't even take it that far , because my

31:24

actions and

31:26

when people come to me later on , it

31:29

lets me know that I'm actually

31:32

better than you , because it

31:34

always come back around full circle .

31:37

I ain't got time to wait for that . Let's just do this

31:39

right now .

31:40

You say you cut better hair than me , then

31:43

why is some of your clients sitting

31:45

in my chair ? They

31:47

left you Because you're chareless . No

31:50

, I'm charged more actually .

31:58

Well so .

32:00

I'll be messing with you , though , when I do that , you know what

32:02

I'm saying I'm him and all that , because

32:04

you do it , so I just do it back .

32:07

Because my ego , I've

32:09

earned my ego .

32:11

Glory to you .

32:16

Name me one person . I

32:18

was only to you .

32:19

That's all that matters Because you

32:22

getting out of trucking right

32:25

. And you start driving . That's

32:27

a major accomplishment to you and it is

32:29

an accomplishment . But say

32:31

you want to flex that accomplishment in

32:33

the same room with a guy who

32:35

also got out of trucking but

32:37

also owned 10 trucks . Hey

32:41

, is it hey ? But

32:43

to him he may be looking at you as

32:46

if your ego fragile .

32:48

Well , okay , I

32:51

get what you're saying , but I'm just not going to

32:53

be out here . Y'all trucking school

32:55

. All that now was kiss the

32:57

ring bitch .

32:59

That's exactly why I'm telling you , I'll be like I'm

33:01

him , I'll just be messing with you , bro .

33:03

But well , first of all , if I'm

33:05

a flex , I

33:08

would never flex in trucking . Because , this

33:10

nigga's out here cashing out . But

33:15

if I flex on something or

33:17

if I boost my ego or whatever

33:19

chances are you

33:23

know what I'm saying I

33:25

can hold my all you already know you in a room

33:27

full of people is worse off

33:29

than you . No , I mean that too

33:31

.

33:34

See , I never flex in barber , okay

33:37

, because I don't want to do it anyway . I

33:39

feel you . You know what I'm saying . I really

33:41

don't even want to do it for real . You know what I

33:43

mean . I don't have that same energy or fire

33:45

or drive as a young barber coming in and trying

33:47

to cut hair , but I'll let them have it .

33:49

I cut better than you , congratulations

33:52

, nah nah , nah

33:54

, I'm sorry , nah , like

33:57

if I was a mean kickball player and

33:59

a new person on the block said that

34:01

they was better than me .

34:03

Let's go About

34:06

to see who can kick the further .

34:07

Exactly . That's how I feel about it .

34:09

I mean , I feel it , man , but you know , I

34:11

me personally , bro , I just rather not even have a

34:15

size and competition , bro .

34:17

So okay , I'm not , I'm not so

34:20

you already know , bro , I'm cool . So

34:22

you shouldn't defend your ego

34:24

For what I

34:27

don't , for what Pride ? Saying pride

34:29

.

34:30

Nah , you doing all . I'm showing you right now

34:33

who the real man is in this conversation , because

34:36

me arguing with you about things that I know I accomplished

34:38

in my life , bro , I'm not doing that with you . You

34:40

don't have to , you can have it . All

34:45

right , bro , that's for real . That's how I am

34:47

, bro . When you get to a certain

34:49

age , like 40 , you

34:52

don't say

34:54

it like you really don't care about stuff . No

34:56

more , bro .

34:57

I fit Okay . The

35:00

reason why I say the stuff I

35:02

say about what my ego

35:04

is because I know that I worked hard to

35:06

get it .

35:07

Yeah , yeah , for sure , for sure , and you

35:09

should feel good about what you accomplished , right

35:11

? But if somebody wanted to challenge

35:13

you about what it is you did , you already know

35:15

what type of person you're talking to See

35:18

, he think his ego's

35:21

big because of what he's doing , but all he's

35:23

showing you is that his is actually fragile . That

35:26

lets you know what he think about himself .

35:29

I guess I mean I'm never going to go

35:31

up to somebody and like challenge them on who's

35:34

better .

35:35

But I get challenged all the time bro .

35:37

I'm not going to do that because

35:40

you coming to me actually

35:43

gives me the leverage . So I'm like

35:45

, okay , like

35:47

on the movie Last Dragon . You

35:51

remember that old movie ?

35:53

But not every single thing about it , though that's

35:55

what I say . I told you business pieces . Bruce Lee

35:57

Roy Right , that's

35:59

what people used to call me because of my middle name . Go ahead

36:01

.

36:03

He didn't want to fight , but

36:06

he knew . You

36:08

know what I'm saying . Come on , man , don't

36:11

make me kiss your converse B . But

36:15

at the end of it he

36:17

had to show do his ego Like all right

36:19

.

36:20

He had to Okay .

36:24

You know what I'm saying ?

36:26

Okay , Sometimes you got to defend your ego . I

36:28

don't because I feel like , because you came

36:30

to challenge me , I feel like

36:32

I'm a . You

36:35

now reach the boss level . Now

36:38

you feel like you got to surpass something I'm doing

36:40

or it makes me . It don't do nothing but boost

36:42

my ego for me to even feel

36:44

like you , even considering me as

36:46

being somebody that you think you better ask

36:48

Like

36:50

, was I the hurdle bro ? Do

36:56

I think I'm the greatest barber or musician

36:58

or all of that type ? Nah

37:01

, I don't think like that . Do I think I'm

37:03

good at what I do ?

37:04

Yeah , I'm him . Do

37:07

you believe in faking it

37:09

until you make it ? Yeah .

37:12

Mm-hmm .

37:12

To yourself , though , okay .

37:14

Don't go running around saying nothing .

37:16

goofy bro , if you

37:18

a kid growing up trying to play basketball

37:20

, then you run around to

37:23

yourself I'm better than Michael Jordan , then

37:25

you better than Michael Jordan . But

37:28

don't go tell nobody

37:30

that you're better

37:32

than Michael Jordan .

37:33

But shouldn't everything that you do ? You

37:35

should go

37:38

into it trying to be the best ever

37:41

at it .

37:42

If that's what you really want to do , yeah .

37:44

Okay .

37:45

I mean , at one point I wanted to be the best I

37:47

could be at bar room bro .

37:51

Can the male ego , can

37:55

a person's ego , get them in

37:57

trouble ? Yeah , in

38:01

a relationship .

38:04

Yeah , how ? Because

38:07

when you got too much of it , you only

38:10

thinking about you and you only .

38:13

Do you think if a person has too much ego

38:15

, that they think the person would never leave them

38:17

?

38:20

Yeah , that could be the case

38:22

too . That could be the

38:24

case too .

38:27

What I mean ? Well

38:29

, I'm saying that

38:31

the ego is something that you earn . What

38:36

could you earn in a relationship

38:38

to make you have an ego ?

38:40

I don't know , you just might have one of them , nice pieces

38:42

on your arm right and

38:44

you might want to flex it , and

38:46

the issue with flexing is that it could

38:48

become somebody else's Somebody

38:51

with a bigger flex than you . Boy

38:54

bigger ego than yours .

38:57

Okay , yeah , yeah . So in

39:00

closing , manager

39:03

ego . In

39:06

the words of Frank Lucas , the

39:08

loudest one in the room is

39:10

the weakest one in the room . Be

39:13

humble , talk

39:16

your ish to yourself .

39:18

Hold on . What I need you to

39:20

do is say that again . Which

39:23

part ? Frank Lucas .

39:25

Okay . Frank Lucas once

39:27

said the loudest

39:29

one in the room is the

39:31

weakest one in the room .

39:34

Don't look weak by having a big ego .

39:36

So talk your ish to

39:39

yourself .

39:43

Yeah , that was it .

39:43

Yeah , okay , that was nice .

39:47

So we keep knocking

39:49

these episodes out . Yeah , man , getting

39:52

more exciting by the episode . They

39:57

call me dire man .

39:58

And I be your boy 9 .

39:59

Supremely full of it podcast . Supremely full

40:01

of it podcast . We alive man

40:04

. I got a big ego . It's too big

40:06

, it's

40:13

too wide , it's too strong

40:15

, it

40:17

won't fit . I talk like this . I know

40:20

it , I know the song . I got a big ego

40:22

, paul . Something wrong with you , paul something

40:24

wrong with you .

40:26

Yeah , glenn

40:29

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