During last week’s episode, we discussed what our girlfriend Joan Clayton taught us. This week we’re shifting the conversation to Joan’s BFF, the one and only Toni Child’s. Let’s jump into the episode.

Toni is a bougie, outspoken, results-driven fashionista. Her childhood trauma is her underlying motivation to desperately live the life she always wanted but never had, and she finds emotional safety in the material world that she’s created for herself. We all know that Toni can be shallow, but she’s also realistic. Superficial but classy. Boastful but successful. Ambitious but inexperienced. And demanding but consistently herself. This makes me ponder; perhaps Toni is extra confident and self-absorbed because she’s diligently had to learn how to love and value herself. She’s very protective of her heart and often masks her true emotions with a tough exterior. 

Here’s what we can learn from Toni Childs.