It's holy week, we are reminiscing on fasting and riding with King Jesus, and we are getting into the mess of DL discourse. Robert talks about his time on clubhouse which prompted the long-awaited conversation on downlow men. Khadieme and Robert take on, put up and put down a politic that expands the definition of DL beyond media, discusses how we can hold a care politic in accountability for harm, and examines how we shift language to make room for some nuance. We put up, we put down, we look, we examine the messiness that is the downlow.