School holidays can be difficult to juggle for any parents, but for those separated and co-parenting, it can bring a whole host of additional issues. 

In this episode, hosts Matt & Liza were joined by The Divorce & Separation Coach, Chloe O. to look at the best way to plan the holidays as a separated parent. 

Take a listen as they explore the challenges of planning holidays, the importance of communication, flexibility, and child-focused decision-making.  How to address objections, your legal options and the use of mediation to resolve any issues, along with practical advice for navigating the complexities of summer holidays when at home. 

02:16 Why are holidays sometimes a contentious issue?
03:05 When should you discuss holidays, and what is the best way to do this? 
04:14 What are the common objections about holidays? 
06:20 The importance of flexibility and planning 
07:30 How to minimise the impact on your children
08:25 How to manage the emotional impact of being apart from your children 
14:29 What you definitely shouldn’t do when holiday planning with your ex
16:45 What should you do when holiday planning? 
17:20 What are the potential legal issues?
17:54 What are your legal options if you cannot agree on holidays?
19:50 Resolving differences through mediation. 
21:45 The role of a parenting plan or Child Arrangements Order (CAO)
22:08 How to handle a new partner going on holiday with your kids 
23:11 Planning holidays when you are not going away 
28:20 Chloe's top tips for summer holiday planning for separated parents

Additional resources

Supporting children through divorce: https://youtu.be/tMbi1vqkg4E
How to co-parent calmly and the challenges of blended families - https://youtu.be/7OGpehg2cws
How to get a child arrangements order? https://youtu.be/YRnaUVqn95c
Do I need my ex’s permission to take the kids on holiday https://youtu.be/Qi-Wg4mqjno 

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