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gonna jump into as so

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as save our salutes questions

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That you guys right And

3:06

one of these questions was

3:08

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3:10

i thought colds. You.

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3:15

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3:17

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3:19

down in the studio. I'm

3:22

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3:24

you guys know for the

3:26

menus is just my bedroom.

3:29

By let's jump into as

3:31

so was my favorite people

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us wrote in some great

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sir and this. Slew.

3:41

We need to help her and

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we need to help her a

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sob because or situation is dire

3:48

or right. Question. number one

3:50

do you think it's normal to be

3:52

in a long term relationship and at

3:55

some point feel like you fell out

3:57

of love with the person but still

3:59

want the relationship to work? Would

4:02

I basically have to meet the person

4:04

all over again and do things to

4:06

reignite the spark or do

4:08

you think the relationship is over? So

4:13

great question by the way, great

4:15

great question. I think every single

4:17

person that's married asks themselves

4:21

this on a

4:23

regular basis. So just

4:26

like with everything in life,

4:29

nothing is stagnant. Everything

4:32

ebbs and flows and I've learned

4:34

a lot about this in meditation.

4:36

Your feelings are there now and

4:39

they will

4:42

be gone later. Everything in your life

4:44

and it can be a depressing thing

4:46

or it can be an extremely

4:51

empowering thing. This scary horrible

4:53

feeling will go. This incredible

4:56

amazing moment will also go so

4:58

I need to savor it. But

5:02

when it comes to love, this

5:04

same rule applies. Okay

5:06

and I like to

5:09

call what this loo is going through

5:11

a love shift because

5:13

you're not gonna stay in the

5:15

honeymoon phase forever. And I mean

5:18

damn I will be obsessed and

5:20

love with someone and two days

5:22

later be like I

5:24

can't stand you. Like get

5:27

out of my house. So

5:29

I feel you baby

5:31

girl and you're in this long term

5:34

which is I want

5:36

to say like the expected thing to

5:38

happen. Your love. Let

5:42

me clarify. You love this man.

5:45

Are you in lust? Do

5:47

you have butterflies? Do you

5:49

want to jump him and

5:51

fuck his brains out? Maybe

5:54

not so much. But you

5:56

love him. You're just

5:58

not feeling that like Honeymoon.

6:00

Oh my god. I want to be with

6:03

you for the rest of my life Like

6:05

you're just not feeling that right now but

6:09

you Want to

6:11

stay in the relationship? I

6:14

think there's a really good chance that You

6:16

didn't fall out of love with this person

6:20

you are just not feeling him right

6:22

now and the

6:24

great news is That

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shit can switch and

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flip in Anytime

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and you can find yourself re

6:36

Invigored and re-sparked

6:39

and re all the wreaths

6:42

Back head over heels in love with

6:44

him now the same

6:46

is true for homeboy. I think

6:49

within a relationship The

6:51

love for one another it kind

6:54

of it's like a seesaw You

6:57

might be super into him one second

7:00

He might be into you one second and

7:02

then the same is true for the opposite

7:05

you might be feeling obsessed with him and

7:07

he's not feeling it as much or

7:09

vice versa and so

7:12

all I want to say I'm gonna wrap this

7:14

up is Stick

7:16

it out a couple to

7:18

a few months and see if

7:21

something changes and if you find

7:23

yourself after trying

7:26

new things and going on dates

7:28

again and having a lone time

7:30

again and Maybe go

7:32

on vacation somewhere or just doing

7:35

something to reignite that spark

7:38

giving him a Viagra and You

7:41

make sure that you are horny as fuck you had

7:43

porn on for an hour and now you guys are

7:46

gonna have sex Just

7:48

do some things To

7:50

reignite that spark. There's a million things

7:53

I could do an episode about it

7:55

and If

7:58

months go by and nothing is changed changed

8:01

then maybe you

8:03

really need to end the relationship.

8:06

Your question about would

8:08

I basically have to meet the person all over

8:10

again? Okay, well I

8:12

don't know like if there's some kind of

8:14

like breakthrough science that happened. I don't know

8:16

how you're like meet him again. I don't

8:18

really know how that would work but

8:21

I don't

8:24

think the relationship is necessarily over and

8:28

just don't jump ship, give

8:30

it a little and then jump

8:32

ship. Also ask him about

8:34

it. Ask him how he

8:37

feels. I think that's always really

8:39

important because usually if one person

8:41

isn't happy then maybe the

8:43

other person isn't happy either. Just

8:45

get a pulse on how he's

8:47

feeling because he might come at you

8:50

with the same thing. He might

8:52

be like I am so bored of your

8:54

ass. You never know so

8:57

that's my advice. Alright moving on.

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Question number two. I just moved

9:02

to NYC. Congrats

9:05

girl and I'm looking for a

9:07

career change. How do

9:09

you recommend I network myself

9:12

to become a personal assistant?

9:15

Hmm interesting.

9:20

Did I or did I not

9:22

just post a looking

9:24

to hire a personal assistant

9:26

on my Instagram story the

9:28

other day? Yeah

9:31

I think I did. You are

9:33

slick my friend. You are

9:36

a slick sloot. I'm

9:39

not hiring anymore. I

9:42

love how this girl's like wait I'm

9:44

like I'm talking about I don't

9:46

know a CEO of a fortune

9:49

500 company not you Sophia but I

9:51

think this was like her way of

9:53

saying like I'm trying to be your

9:55

personal assistant for sure no question about it.

10:00

upfront next time and just

10:02

say I'm a huge fan I would like to

10:04

be your personal assistant. That

10:06

was a joke I gotta add an

10:08

lol to things these days. Okay I

10:12

have the best advice for this

10:14

question. I've

10:16

learned that when trying

10:18

to land your dream job

10:21

it's the unconventional

10:23

way that's gonna get you

10:25

there. I

10:27

wish so badly that

10:30

when I was fresh out of

10:33

college spending countless hours applying to

10:36

random job postings

10:39

that I would

10:41

have known this because you know what none

10:43

of those materialized none. The college

10:47

HR department or whatever

10:49

help you find a career after you

10:51

graduate shit they

10:53

didn't help it's the

10:55

unconventional shit and

10:58

let me explain okay the

11:00

cold call is really where it's

11:02

at. Step one find

11:06

someone you admire say you're

11:08

into interior design and you're scrolling

11:12

and you come across a page that

11:15

really really speaks to you and

11:18

this particular designer is like who you want

11:20

to be when you grow up. Okay

11:25

step two is to reach

11:27

out to this person

11:29

directly and when I say directly

11:32

you don't ask

11:34

them if they're hiring you

11:36

don't go and look at the

11:38

establishment they work at or the

11:41

brand and see if there's any

11:43

job postings. No you absolutely

11:45

don't do that you

11:47

let them know that whether

11:49

they're hiring or not you

11:52

are ready to work because you

11:54

admire what they do so much

11:58

and if you can't work and

12:00

get paid then you

12:02

are ready to just

12:05

show up and learn from

12:07

them. I know people are

12:09

gonna say okay well I need to make fucking

12:11

money and I understand that totally

12:13

you can still do

12:16

this and you will

12:18

intern after your job and next thing

12:20

you know you're working for them full-time

12:22

as their personal assistant. Step

12:25

three how to reach

12:27

out how do you reach out to

12:29

this person you're not

12:31

hitting them up on LinkedIn that's that's

12:33

where everyone's trying to do this shit

12:35

okay I had a professor

12:38

who wrote my thesis on the

12:40

whiteboard for a class of a

12:42

hundred people to teach them

12:44

what a thesis was and I hit

12:46

that bitch up after the

12:48

fact and no

12:51

response so that was cool

12:54

anyways how to reach

12:56

out unconventionally you

12:59

message them on all

13:01

social platforms you

13:03

Google search the fuck out of

13:05

them until you find a

13:08

direct contact of some kind you

13:11

show up to their headquarters unannounced

13:13

like you do whatever it takes

13:15

because you are there to show

13:17

them how serious you are about

13:19

working for them and just

13:22

a little side note make

13:24

sure you've done your research you

13:27

know what I'm saying like don't

13:29

just show up and be like I'm obsessed

13:31

with you like a stalker show up

13:35

and show that you

13:37

have done extensive research on the

13:39

person you know what they're about you

13:42

speak to what you know

13:45

will resonate with them and then

13:48

you give them some ideas of your own

13:50

maybe not so much how to like

13:52

make the business better unless it is

13:55

set in a very diplomatic tied up

13:57

wrapped up in a bow kind of

13:59

way But you guys

14:01

get what I'm saying. Make

14:03

it known to them that it

14:05

makes sense for them to have

14:07

you around. And

14:10

that sounds like too crazy. Like if you think

14:12

like, I'm not

14:14

fucking doing that, that sounds insane. That

14:16

was my reaction when I was younger

14:18

and my mom was telling me to

14:20

like do these unconventional

14:23

out-of-the-box things to get a

14:25

job. If

14:27

you are feeling that way or if

14:29

you are feeling like, okay well

14:32

maybe I've done that already and it hasn't

14:34

worked out for me. Let me tell you

14:36

this. The

14:38

majority of people

14:40

that I've had work

14:42

for me, I have

14:45

hired because they DM'd me

14:48

not when I had a job posting up, just

14:52

DM'd me out of the

14:54

blue. Let me know

14:57

how badly they want to

14:59

work for me. Let me know

15:01

how fucking incredible

15:03

and talented I am

15:06

and let me know that they were hungry for

15:08

it. And that coming in

15:10

when I'm not even looking for someone

15:14

just makes it 10 times more likely

15:16

that you do get hired. That's

15:18

a crazy kind of concept right there

15:21

and you know sometimes

15:24

several DMs is what it took.

15:27

But that is how a lot

15:29

of my team has manifested.

15:32

So there you go sweetheart.

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number three, is being a

18:02

virgin in your late 20s really

18:05

unattractive to men? I

18:07

grew up kind of ugly and was

18:10

ugly well into my adult life, so

18:13

I never had the confidence to have

18:15

sex and now that I'm 26 and

18:18

decent looking, is it too late?

18:22

Okay. Girly pop. It

18:25

is never too late unless

18:27

you're trying to date Leonardo DiCaprio,

18:30

but the fact that

18:33

you are a virgin, no

18:35

matter how old you are,

18:37

is fortunately, unfortunately,

18:39

a big green flag,

18:46

boner alert, and

18:48

this girl is marriage material

18:50

for guys. That is how

18:53

they interpret it. You're

18:55

still living in your ugly girl

18:57

phase and even you saying like

19:00

now that I'm decent looking, you

19:02

got to stop operating from that headspace.

19:06

You are stunning. You are gorgeous.

19:09

Say it. Positive affirmations. Write it

19:11

in lipstick on your mirror and say

19:13

it out loud every morning. You

19:16

ought to stop operating from that headspace

19:18

and operate from the headspace of

19:21

I am hot. I

19:24

have way more to offer than my looks,

19:27

which is my virgin ass

19:29

pussy. That

19:33

was a really funny joke, but

19:36

excuse me. You guys love

19:38

it. Guys

19:40

love it and just to prove it

19:42

to you, I called

19:45

this guy who, you know, we have

19:47

an interesting dynamic,

19:49

like I kind of have a crush

19:52

on him, but like

19:54

he's unavailable, but then whatever.

19:57

I asked him how he feels about it.

20:01

a girl being a virgin and he

20:03

said there is

20:05

nothing more attractive than

20:08

knowing that your girl has

20:10

been touched by no one.

20:14

Let that sink in. So

20:16

baby girl your worries

20:18

about being a virgin are

20:20

just they're not right

20:22

they're just wrong and my

20:25

only concern for you is

20:28

that you may find

20:31

yourself in

20:33

a situation with guys that

20:36

they like fetishize that and

20:39

that's like you know

20:41

their big reason as

20:43

to why they are

20:45

pursuing you don't let that be the reason

20:48

why I would actually hold that

20:50

information back until you guys

20:52

get to know each other a little bit but no

20:56

baby you're a prize and it's not

20:58

just your pussy your virgin

21:01

pussy that's a prize it's

21:03

you baby girl hopefully you

21:05

hear this in time and

21:08

with that sloots I love you so much and

21:10

I will talk to you next week. Bye!