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hello i'm a human's i'm wildly and you
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listening to sex stories a podcast
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that reminds us that our desires
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are not only valid but perhaps
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necessary for us to achieve our
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maximum levels of joy in life allowing
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us to spread a largest ripples
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of love a
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always, please keep your sexy thoughts
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about me and our guests to yourself. And
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enjoy our i guest today is a 47
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year old white cisgender male, who has been
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monogamous Lee married for 15 years. He
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is pansexual and is into being dominated,
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taking come, swapping
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spitting, fluids mfm's
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MMS, fix a
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post production engineer from Canada. Welcome
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to give
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me start off by telling our beautiful listeners.
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If you had to rate yourself on a sexual. Shame a Meter
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scale with one being totally Shameless and
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10 digs. So full of shame or tefal
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today. I i say
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probably at 5.
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i'm not used to talking about this gonna thing and
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only have a few people i can talk to like this
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maybe that's what's causing the feelings
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of shame i don't think i've shame about
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things have done or experiences of
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had it's more the talking
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about it there's something i need to do more
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of a think oh okay or
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we are very honored to have you here today
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the you feel the same way when you're talking to
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partners about sex is up murder
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are easier for you it's hard to started
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them once it starts to it's like
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a train of information
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i think my version of it is it's like i'm looking
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for the greenlight have permission and then once i have
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it and like all the things and then i have to some
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that to sing song them again so
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in the name of practicing
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talking about sex can you give us a little overview
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of what your sex life is like right now and favorite parts
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of you haven't
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what is kind of slow with my
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partner it's not as often as i'd
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like a do go
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to like massage places
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Let's see, a lot of fun depending
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on who is massaging me or
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who I'm massaging. I really enjoy
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that cuz it's not like intercourse so
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much about it. That's a lot of touching and experiencing,
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and it's going to where being dominated comes
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from. I don't know, like to be kind of pampered
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Is that the right word? Or I'd like to
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be kind of follow
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along. I
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like when my boundaries get pushed
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into scenarios. So if it's
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like bill finger in the but you know
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what i mean like that kind of thing is exciting to
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me the boundary being pushed
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in our way of explicit communication
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or are you saying that you like
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it when someone just go for something
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they haven't discussed ahead
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like it when i don't know that it's gonna happen
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while that happens and i like to be
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surprised by it completely surprised
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you ever worry that that might lead you into kind
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of a rapist situation
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it's not being forced it's more
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being experimented on
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that are hot way to say if i'm
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reading your body language correctly it sounds
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like the assumption is a
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situation where you feel safe
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and comfortable and you could probably protect yourself
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against whoever is experimenting on
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yeah course like not like walking down the
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street or or
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something and somebody grabbed the in the wrong
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way or the most forceful that's
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different any consent for that of course but
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i don't know like the hands go somewhere
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but it's kind of like a slow
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progression to intervene that hands go
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to a place where you've never had them go or
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mouth go somewhere where you've never had it that
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connotes one area i'm
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right there with you i love my boundaries been pushed
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and i am the type of person where
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it's so important for me
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to have like a general overview
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of what could happen with a given person
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for me to relax enough to
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like like a tongue in my awful the not a mean
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like because what if i didn't pay attention to wiping
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that day i'm just saying that's
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always a thing where it we the thing
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and like i have my the day but if i'm out in about
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i don't know or it so can you
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know what's your personal definition sexy
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and didn't mean to
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closest intimacy sexy
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you know you can go to the what because
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you're wearing obviously they're sexy visually
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but to me it's more you know closeness
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as way some be touches you are looking
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your eyes i kind of thing is that's
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sexy to me okay the
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remember ever learning about consent growing i
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think it was implied more than anything
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like i grew up in a house where i was
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taught to respect other
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people that goes for raise
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said the way people look it's kind
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of a wide range of tanks and consent
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kind of is implied in that were who
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taught and respect and you
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know if somebody says no the stop
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right away
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the newcomers if you have had an experience
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of explicit consent where
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there was like mutual permission
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that was very sexy to you as you can recall
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they can talk about the woman i was
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dating before i got married because we had
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lots of different experiences and try
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new things and lots of sex so there
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was one time where she had her
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killed over whatever is a vibrating
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one and she decided to kind of put
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it to my legs and on
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my taint and then asked if she
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could try to insert it know it didn't
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go in yeah that was me giving consent
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to experience it until i couldn't do it
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ah
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that experience if you had known
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in general that with on the table would you have
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preferred if she had just gone for it
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or is that the type of place where you like
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warning
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i think what for in the moment i think
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i think that's kind of like what you like yeah
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yeah i like my boundaries to be pushed a little
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there and is sort of like an endorphin
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rush
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literally dopa mean is released when
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we are surprised when there is a novel
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thing especially when we like it you know
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the mean like whoa whoa whoa whoa whoa whoa
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a surprise ya think if she has
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before it would have been fine but
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the fact that it was kind of like
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a spur the moment thing was exciting
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you're a little different types of exciting different
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types of the prices and so i like to kind of like
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think about that all of the ways that consent
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can be sexy it can happen ahead of time
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but also in the moment we can reopen
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you know who knows even if it was beforehand
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i think that would still be excited they
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could still have that endorphin rush but maybe not
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as intense me
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but also maybe she would wait a week and then
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sobriety of you just never have another
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that's the whole thing and of course the other side
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of that coin discuss i do the make more of an effort to
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talk about consent in general is that the
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can also revoke it at any time when but that anything
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would want to be
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Okay.
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Can you tell us what happened to Shaila
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M when it's time to to a new partner
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about safer sex. And
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what would your ideal version of this conversation? Be
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good
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i to go? Have Shame of the safer sex. It's
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important, especially with a new partner to
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be safe. And you don't know you have something
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or she doesn't know. She has something or
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transfer and then you put
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a lot more people than you just yourself in Jeopardy.
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So talking about I don't have
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any Shame about saying, you know, we should
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use protection or you don't
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have you been tested or you know before
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using your partners or a monogamous
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social mostly I get
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blood work, done every tree months or deputies
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saw it before that. And i
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know they'd run tests on everything so
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the hear that
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like he is in canada when it comes
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to testing and free clinics at least my friends
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and b c report such or
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there's tons of the a good any clinical be
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as anonymous as he can be set free
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amazing okay now
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petersburg the year earlier
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when do you first remember hearing
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about sex what do you remember thinking and
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feeling about what is your first memory
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around i am older
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sisters a bunch of them
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oh there was always boyfriend and
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stuff so i always wondered what they were doing
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something that was kind of my first introduction
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, introduction but like wondering what
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what's going on right right then
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a funny story but for some kind
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of saw it or some shit
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on film or whatever was at a friend's
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place and the cubs and like or sixth grade seven
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maybe critics were at his house
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you know after school is like takes
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it as and he brings out like an old vhs
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tape i'm dating myself dating we
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didn't have the didn't fame so
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he puts on this movie in it's like ten
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people in a ten going nuts like
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a horse join
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member watching it and then it came to the my
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shot or whatever the one that i saw was they
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were having sex doggy style came
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inside of her and he pulled it out
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and i thought that come
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came from the female because i am
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has an orgasm around here
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i didn't know what it was had no idea
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you remember when you figure it out for
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real i think somebody mention
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that stuff comes out like one of my friends
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the next year a great seven i was to
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see my bed doing what boys do
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when you're experimenting scavenge
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think the votes emery's to do this
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thing where i would like lick my hand or spit
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him a hand and than run my hand
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across kind of like pull the side
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of the head of my cock and of down
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of them and and along the edge of the head
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and it was like super sensitive cool so
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i would do that like on your left side
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yeah i don't have like something to
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do than what exactly that i
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love knowing that where's
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that people like to be stroke and touched specifically
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and like the specific spot that's really cool
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for you figure that out i figured that a
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bullet i was doing that for a long time
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like for probably year nothing was gonna happening
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i dislike okay i'm done a to go to sleep or
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done i remember specifically one
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nights have in this kind of like something
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else is happening in or something something
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something inside yeah and
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i remember it happening was like hot
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fluid i
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was like what happened i was little first little
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scared and i was like i'm never going to do that again
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and then like the next day i was like i'm gonna do
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that against yet
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so that was my first kind
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of understanding of how your body
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works and unless things to try to
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find somebody else to do that
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before we get there i would love
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to know i heard you mention friends
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who expose you to this chs
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working i'm curious
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did you get more information from friends
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or family growing up or school like
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where did your knowledge come from and what was the vibe
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of your household
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the time having a bunch of since sister's sister
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would then have really talked about it was never kind
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of like spoke about in her house i
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never got to talk or anything like that play
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i was mostly discovering it from friends
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over few years older than me would talk
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about it and in school we
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just had like health costs which
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was just the anatomy stuff
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right you know this is a penis that this is the
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vagina and this is how you make a baby kind of thing
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but it wasn't like sexual health
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and what about your parents to
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david the thing with your family religious at all no
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they're probably just too embarrassed is awkward which
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is funny with the amount of people in my family
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a think that they would
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no no sometimes my friends who have
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the most siblings have who
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will not talk about sex just again
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my personal experience the
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or know who i never honestly never honestly never
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to talk about it was more learning about
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it from other people are reading
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stuff for for finding magazines
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the when it came time to look for partners
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what did you do what were your exploration
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just asking girls out and
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it took me a while i was kind of a late bloomer like
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suarez you know sexuality like having
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sex with other people with your definition
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of late great nine maybe fourteen
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fifteen i remember that specific
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experience was me and a cousin
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i lived in a town the head that of a main
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river that went through it so we went down
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the river fishing and we went
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down to this area where the recent
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cottages and we saw
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some girls that went to school with my
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cousin and they were just at their cottage by
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themselves like us of stem and there was
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like our neighbors friends are met
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and we're hanging out and a kind
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of turned into all of us in the bedroom
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and that four of us on a bed i
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didn't have sex with day but it was like a lot
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of groping and kissing
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, touching and i remember wanting to go down on when
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girls you wouldn't see
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thought that was gross that so gross was kind
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of my first experience or
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house initiative anyone or anything before
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that not like noticing
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like a kissing like like a pet
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the had done packs by the time i was that
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eight but it was this was still a
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very different you learn about
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going down on people from porn
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how did you like know it with a thing he have
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probably fair
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i don't know why wanted to do is like one of my favorite things
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to do for sure
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okay this is a good time to talk about it because
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my next question is like when did you get
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to finally do it and if you love it please
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tell us specifics about what you
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i was probably closer to
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end of high school i had a bit of a
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law in my sex life after that
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it was at a time where nobody shaved so
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it was a big bush i remember that i
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remember being really wet and
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not sure if i liked the taste
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but that's nothing he groped her
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like is a bit musky bit
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mean every person in a different deal immediate
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just been because it was like after school
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clever
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different people respond differently to different
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people physiology like we have different
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micro biomes and some people do you respond
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do some research that says that we are more
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attracted to people with pheromones that different
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immunity profiles from our own literally
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are just a different presences
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and different experiences so i mean
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i don't think i knew what occurred
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or as was at that time looking thought it
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was just kind of like my face around
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in there but really really loving and
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as i think more what i like about doing
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that is the reaction or the
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fact that you make somebody else feel good
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in our bring joy to somebody elses super
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hot and just caught me more excited the
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guy actually came just going down
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on her at that i don't think i actually there
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was any like reciprocation that's why
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ah that's super
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high is exciting
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what about now her as you reflect
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on going down on partners over the years
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has anything changed that you love your the moves
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that you are try this or what
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just like any secret now just like looking
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back over the
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i think it's not doing the same thing over and over
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and over again changing it up and i think every
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woman is different in i mean like everybody
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reacts differently so trying to find what
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they like but i find like a flat
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tongue on clarissa
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like on of whole sort of upper area
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works well they'll forget the inside
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and or like as far as you can go can think
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i find a hand on
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the pelvic region kind of put
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some pressure there while you're doing it and on and
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off it's cause you're holding somebody down from
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moving if that's what is enjoyable
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or if it's pushing on the d spotter
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what exactly you're doing but doing like to do that
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move an awesome all of that i'm just
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like if i'm having sex having a person in just want
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them to grab me
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you said you identify as pan sexual have
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you gone down on partners who are penis own
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the have become attracted to men
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but in a situation where there
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is female and male that to
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me is super hot and
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not being forced to do it but like it's
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kind of the taboo taboo
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is on a taboo anymore but you
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know it's something that was is exciting into
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a good on a guy with email at the same
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time that's pretty hot amazing
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and have happened to me as was his
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preferred
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yeah on that know what do you remember
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about your for the blow job experience
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and the evolution of the blow jobs
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in your life that you have receipts
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i mean sometimes you get teeth which
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is some , women flower
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i've been with dude partners little excited
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site a little bit scrape kidney little scrape and then
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other ones that are like he said i'm like i'm so
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sorry as they are at my mouth i don't
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have have little bits okay
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but not like jumping i'm fairly
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well by them have a really thick
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thick so sometimes harder i
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don't know if it's cause i'm not become a super
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tall soils fuck because it's come
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up a lot in my password my partners
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have been like a have was not expecting
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that they don't think kind of thing
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but i'm of is because i'm short and i just have a regular
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sized penis it just looks disagree
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with attribute that's probably not sure that's
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probably because you wouldn't get the same
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kind of and every partner of them with it's
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been kind of like for some it's an issue
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because it's too much most people
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no one and some people just need
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the right kind of warm up and some people just
17:00
need the right kind of little didn't you know bigger consistently
17:02
hearing back like ah let's take the thought that
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fills me probably good indicator
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that's a fitness affects your partner's
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abilities like distorting or anything or
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yeah it's harder to find somebody can my
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partner tenth my ex
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girlfriend before i got married she was
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really good at it and she loved it
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like she would sometimes just wanted getting a blow
17:23
job and not do anything else he'll
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be a bit of a long distance thing so she
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would come and see me soon as we got in
17:29
the house it was like pants down the
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thing yeah and which was awesome
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she was a little bit jealous so that kind of ended
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up jealous of things that weren't happening pinocchio
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said so and it was we had a really good time
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sex license get that's
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never sell
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hello john do anything else to say
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about blow jobs or do have any formative experiences
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that stand out the
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maybe have had a lot of them so it's hard to
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see your experience that
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yeah yeah for sure i like a sloppy
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wants to spit the way to intermix
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kissing with borders oh that
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on that some the first
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time a partner game he blows
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up to completion and then kiss me
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with a form of that was kind of
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way locking but at the same time
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exciting with one of those things where is pushing
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your boundaries and not expecting it and
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i know it's kind of one of my own say my
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favorite things to do but it's super fun
18:23
when that happens
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yeah easy related to all of your
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fluid exchange things i can you think
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take us through like each we would be
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and like what you love so we have come flopping
18:33
spitting fluids like just can
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you talk a little bit about when did you the notice
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it with a thing
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probably my mid twenties eight it kind of
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started happening and i don't know why
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i have no idea why it's hot to me but
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it is i , know maybe it's disturb
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see a bonded with some you feel like closer
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to somebody somebody your experience
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that same it's like i'm not like a huge
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fan of like golden showers but like it's
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happened before where it was
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like was little bit in my mouth is okay but
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not too much can handle it much
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then there you know this about me
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i've been there of drunk the golden shower and i'm sort
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of like oh that was really hot and also
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i don't know if i'm sexually aroused by the
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whole thing of it and i don't wanna do it everyday
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it's the thought is the idea that right yeah
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yeah the closeness like effect i
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didn't we call it but like sometimes i like
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it from having sex have want that i want to
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have come in my mouth after but
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then as soon as i'm done in
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a wanted to happen to my mind almost
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immediately when you do logistically
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like as stop it from happening okay
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interesting okay so like in the actual
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with a partner cool so there's a psychological
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element that
19:44
totally something him i had
19:46
this this gets me excited but
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when it happens when it's like immediate
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it's okay but if it's like a common
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than there's like a few thirty seconds
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then or do it poll
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the way i can really relate to
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that
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yeah like if someone like come over
20:02
me and i'm like laughing up the edges that's cool
20:04
especially also like wants to sit for a minute
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i'm like no i'm not into the lake at can
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be fresh i don't know maybe those pressures of
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what about for you any part of it like a sensory
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oriented like is it the feeling
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of witnesses at related to the like blow
20:18
job sloppiness like
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yeah i think so i think it's the sensation
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don't like i love kissing kissing is like one
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of my favorite thing see one but really were that's
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probably the fluid thing that will get
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me going like immediately one
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, the things i did with a couple that i used
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to see before i was married me and her were
20:36
having sex miss hairstyle
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and he was like ten a singer she was
20:41
given him a blow job and then he came like
20:43
on both of us that was
20:45
kind of shocking and like
20:47
super hot and super hot immediately like came
20:50
as yeah i would experience that as extremely
20:52
hot and i get some vegetative
20:56
the question for you in terms of
20:59
sloppiness and witness and
21:01
spit do you like it everywhere
21:03
like are you an inside of the ears lick
21:05
my ear person
21:07
oh my god yes ear lobe and in
21:09
your can help that will almost make me finish
21:12
if it's very intense that and my nipples
21:14
getting like actually my ex and i
21:16
she used to like to lay beside me and
21:19
took me off then lick my nipple
21:22
and i'd have probably some of the most intense
21:24
orgasm from that
21:25
is it like slow flat legs
21:28
are like more tongues
21:29
urge you to like a variety heard
21:32
of it is right of it's because i've been like
21:34
licking some man nipples lately and i'm
21:36
just like is like this like of their you don't like
21:39
some people have various capacities
21:41
for giving feedback incredibly like sensitive
21:44
see experience the okay cool ah
21:47
some for some i can't hold
21:49
it back very emotive during
21:51
sex wow do
21:53
you feel like you're more emotive during sex
21:56
and and regularly
21:57
probably a clear he like go to
21:59
it the is currently playing music it's the same
22:02
kind of feeling no it's
22:04
just letting go is what it is
22:06
that's so freeing about it because
22:09
you know day to day life it's hard to let
22:11
go of your
22:13
facade that you put up for people
22:15
i see like after all things back can
22:17
always share i mean you're able
22:19
to which is awesome a mv
22:21
you well
22:23
i learned recently
22:26
after reading brene brown's latest book
22:28
atlas of the heart that i just
22:30
am a wired differently in historically
22:33
i'm learning like this past week
22:35
that there are so many more moments
22:37
where i am not clocking other
22:39
people's discomfort and shame and i'm pretty
22:42
sure that that's why i'm able to like here's my
22:44
thing because i think i've been missing some social
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cue literally of reading
22:48
atlas of the heart and be back oh your emotions
22:51
and they have categories and you know and of course
22:53
it's just one researcher who compiling
22:56
out in the people of research though you know
22:58
i hear the envy and also i
23:00
think the reason that people exponent me accidentally
23:03
a lot where i'm like why did that happen
23:06
are you know even take on all sides i think
23:08
it's awesome i have some friends that are like that
23:10
they're just open books a boom everything
23:13
friedman i'm envious because i wish i
23:15
could be more like that your plan the thing
23:17
right now exactly
23:19
the experience a difference of turn on
23:21
between say
23:23
come on that
23:26
and all wet nurse and spit
23:28
like do they have a different texture or that like ones
23:30
were wet and messy everything is a hot
23:32
summer
23:34
i would say it's always different i think
23:36
it goes and stages of how crazy
23:38
was gonna get with fluid i've had
23:41
experience with a woman squirting on mirrored
23:43
in my face and with that was super
23:46
intense and i can get enough of it
23:48
of is like going down on i see stop me she's
23:50
a i wait we we were and i'm like what
23:53
what's happening she's like something's about to
23:55
happen and like lot smarter happen
23:57
and a dead and i was like how many more times
23:59
can we do super i
24:02
would like amazing and it wasn't
24:04
from like in a see those videos worked
24:06
as like an action you gotta do with your fingers
24:08
the gonna get your fingers your fingers red spot but
24:11
with her it was dislike eating or out and
24:13
then she just like exploded i
24:15
wanted to see her more more more more more
24:17
this is probably and as like twenty five
24:20
or something like that
24:22
have you had other partners that are scored for
24:24
developing that you're into making happen
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24:44
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24:46
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super duper in is active service i've
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been steadily increasing as as
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a priority over the past six years i
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prioritize investing my time
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and energy and good food and moving
25:01
my body and surrounded myself with friends and
25:03
loved ones where there is a moonie is slow
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25:07
energetically but also sometimes with actual guess
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i especially love to nurture people with food but
25:11
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26:21
had other partners that are scored the developing
26:23
that you're into making happen
26:25
i like to try but some people can't
26:27
do it right or don't let it happen
26:30
it's a whole thing in there is definitely a let go
26:32
and it's a whole thing here or
26:34
have been with one partner that i had to
26:36
it was the singer action for
26:38
i guess that made a happen and like
26:41
a toy than home it
26:43
was different it was like was different fluid
26:45
different was more like a loop wasn't your and
26:47
but it was kind of like on that side
26:49
like side bit salty kind of well
26:51
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if they're interested in these details it
26:57
seems like the schemes gland
26:59
really only give that a little bit of fluid it probably
27:02
is like your and related stuff
27:04
a lot it's coming through different places at the whole
27:06
filtration system so i
27:08
don't know they've like study that some but it's
27:11
just like yes sometimes it might be
27:13
every
27:13
make the court different but
27:17
i do remember that first time it happened maybe
27:19
strike maybe lot of water and it was dislike
27:22
clear fluids or i don't know for yeah
27:24
i mean doesn't happen very often it's hard to find
27:26
that in a partner my partner doesn't do
27:29
it now i don't really notice
27:31
that for me hydration as hydration key
27:33
the actor and i also noticed that like it's
27:35
like when company different like what did you eat helmet
27:37
to be
27:38
and whenever that earth it's the first second
27:41
have you ever the new one
27:43
be like lie down and i'm imagining
27:45
this under
27:46
although i kind of feel like you on your back
27:48
would be hot and then someone
27:51
like a partner just slowly
27:53
it
27:56
on you everywhere maybe
27:58
you're tied down you're not alone the move and so
28:00
it's just the season that
28:02
makes it to pin down your body
28:05
and then like at the very end
28:07
there's like spit on one
28:09
ball spit i mean assuming we're in a
28:12
location where all of that and then spit
28:14
on the other and spit on the clock
28:16
and minute than to go to the that something
28:18
you'd be anything
28:21
the court and , boy
28:24
a dream come true i'm sure well yeah course
28:27
the you have fantasies about like groups
28:29
of people standing around like would
28:32
you be like in the middle of have a cocker a squirt
28:34
book cocky or just like people spitting i don't
28:36
like would that be fun for you though you have any
28:38
other specific fantasies around or
28:41
are fluid or spitting
28:42
no but i have this thing for wanting
28:45
to experience more of the group dynamic
28:48
to like i think i've been in a room with for
28:50
people like when i was younger like italy
28:53
and then with a couple but i would
28:55
like to experience like a
28:58
room full of people get
29:00
even with
29:00
group like we actually do have to be careful about certain
29:03
orifices like mostly getting stuff outside of
29:05
the i actually like guy would work out
29:07
of food about in your
29:09
mouth like what would that be like dangerous
29:12
the i word i mean i'd in group
29:14
stuff i try to avoid flute exchange personally
29:16
big fan of female condoms for threesomes
29:19
and more some so that people can go
29:21
back and forth into the flopping thing and not with
29:23
no no it's not wasting condoms but
29:25
you'd have one female condom they're too
29:27
hard to get all of here early what why
29:30
was it's taken a fucking prescription
29:32
or at least i do you can't just walk into the store and
29:34
buy 'em my friend we tried to re
29:36
up the prescription and this year the things have
29:38
changed we both have medi-cal and they
29:40
are not covered this year so twelve of them was
29:42
going to cost two hundred and some
29:44
don't like with an insane work yeah so
29:46
one of my future missions i think this year
29:48
is gonna be trying to make
29:49
no kind of the thing because they are great
29:52
for group sex and i think that if we
29:54
just knew about then you'll have to make
29:56
sure that
29:56
if you are with a penis partner that they come
29:58
in them that they come on way inside
30:01
and not dribbling out the edges to
30:04
get into the vagina
30:04
though there are things to be cautious about
30:07
but in terms of having safer
30:10
more seamless streatham experience especially
30:12
in a situation where you're not extensively involved
30:14
in each other's sexual history like i'm thinking of play
30:16
party or something that's i'm a big fan
30:18
that but that for fantasies
30:21
about you and come everywhere
30:23
to watch porn that have a lot of
30:25
fluids specific stuff to watch
30:27
weren't even born i do enjoy watching it
30:29
i just haven't been in the last
30:31
little while oh what a different kind
30:33
of porn and koenig gets
30:35
more extreme the more like
30:39
i really enjoy watching them down porn
30:41
i lay group porn the
30:44
way transgender porn i'd like
30:46
to come swapping porn or
30:48
female to male mouth or
30:50
like even cuckold porn sometimes it's
30:52
fun to watch but the thing about cuckold is
30:54
that i don't think i could be that guy that
30:57
is watching who have no names i
30:59
mean i yeah i always want someone to touch me i
31:02
have experienced a lot of fun being
31:04
nick cage and getting forced
31:06
with air quotes to watch my master
31:08
suck another submissive you know that
31:10
that really fun for me but if that had been the
31:12
whole session i would be like know that makes
31:15
his twin same thing about like being
31:17
dominated i don't like being humiliated
31:20
or like it to be kind of central
31:22
like carrying like your cared about
31:25
as the sub tell me more the
31:27
submission side and when did you discover
31:29
him and
31:30
the man how has that been for you i
31:32
only talked to a handful of submissive men
31:36
well on
31:37
i hear from them a lot in the shadows of
31:40
a remote i've experienced it before like have gotten
31:43
to a professional a few times and
31:46
oh my god you find them just
31:48
on a website there was like
31:50
back page or something like that back in the day
31:52
it started off with actually he
31:54
wasn't really a dorm she would like seller pennies
31:57
and she would like masturbate
32:00
while i'm like you know i mean like yeah of mutual
32:02
masturbation i guess so that was hot and
32:04
wet suits and videos and stuff in one night
32:06
i was like having fun as was
32:09
playing guitar and a video taped
32:11
it and i sent her video saying hey
32:13
here's a video of me waking off by was
32:15
with me to stand on guitar to
32:17
let turn into mean giving her guitar lessons
32:20
in exchange for like sessions
32:22
for whatever so topless
32:24
if that was pretty fun to
32:27
see where the list of the hottest
32:29
that
32:30
the lessons like with their tension like
32:32
that's the stuff of fantasy for me
32:36
i remember specifically at the end of one of
32:38
the lessons so we would do like a thirty minute
32:40
lesson and and she would you like a thirty minute that
32:46
how much would be
32:49
a group like are dominating
32:51
fuck me latest did she fuck you with
32:53
a successor nippon no no no
32:55
but didn't want to be an escort most of the gums
32:57
or not most like a lot of people do
33:00
not realise but places you go dungeons
33:02
you go they're not there to fuck you they might
33:04
some of them to pick you not all of them definitely
33:07
not a given
33:08
it like it initially asserted no touching
33:10
but when she was she like my dad
33:12
so she every once in awhile with gimme
33:14
a little help was hot when a member
33:16
a one time after one of the lessons she
33:19
got up because of this petty cash as
33:21
for me
33:24
got ready we're getting ready to do session
33:26
and she like reached into her vagina
33:28
and pulls out a curb underwear for me
33:30
to have to take hope that was pretty
33:33
exciting funds amazing
33:36
you could squirt that was fun
33:38
thing rumor doing back and forth mutual
33:40
masturbation she with a squirt amir
33:43
wherever while i was jerking off which is pretty
33:45
super hot oh my god that is pretty easy
33:47
where i fucking love that
33:50
yeah what about panties when did you discover you
33:52
liked them do you get from lovers
33:54
to the given to you you buy him for people
33:56
it was only with her that i would exchange
33:58
and i don't know work they made
34:01
stem from my years of
34:03
like having older sisters and
34:06
and he's being around all time i don't know why
34:08
who knows who knows we never know why about
34:10
our kinks i mean some people think they do about
34:12
whoever know anything out of mouth is that the important
34:14
part animal doesn't , you
34:16
feel that the hotline so
34:18
i don't know what interested me and we're
34:20
trying to work trying to thongs i would take
34:23
boy shorts or nice rarely come on
34:25
somebody else might or might look into wanted
34:27
to know what about like
34:30
hurting ma'am or sniffing them like like
34:32
are you into panty seller like they're in
34:34
i've i've done some research about panty sellers
34:36
i really
34:37
the not doing as an old underwear and i'm like what i
34:39
do these shoes makes money
34:41
music much emphasis on ah it's
34:43
not one of my foremost fantasies
34:45
foremost fetishes
34:46
mike about partner has a sexy
34:48
pair of panties and succeed maybe they're boy shorts
34:50
maybe the lazy town who knows
34:52
the hot you if they might leave
34:54
them on and like
34:55
you fuck them through that will have the effect that
34:58
the of anything that i'm really into like push
35:00
the panties to the side and fuck me they're super
35:02
hot
35:03
the smell of them is nice to a mixture
35:05
of kind of like perfume or body
35:08
spray and but put out loud
35:12
oh oh my gosh
35:15
offer you into that you love like tell
35:17
me what other fetishes don't i know about
35:20
new experiences learning new things about
35:22
myself when i like or but what other
35:24
people like it's hot mean to experience
35:27
something for the first time maybe in
35:29
or ten other times if it's something that i end up enjoy
35:32
for just trying it for first timers said
35:34
i can really relate to that i think as a submissive
35:37
what i learned about myself as like oh
35:39
novelty i get off on novelty
35:42
the newness of things and then
35:44
when i discover something i like or even
35:46
if i don't like love it or i
35:48
guess for me if it's a scary like serve
35:50
ample a cane like i
35:52
like getting came to but i'd just
35:54
like with
35:56
play i don't want it all the time
35:58
every day you know but i like
36:00
knowing that it is on the menu now and they could
36:02
be on the menu again at some point like i like
36:04
having a wider and wider pool to choose
36:06
from for play with your dorm
36:09
lady who you saw are there any
36:11
specific the things that she did to
36:13
you that are noteworthy
36:15
especially if she didn't touch
36:17
he heard this electro one
36:20
thing
36:21
what it's called i have a neon want there's
36:23
also a violent wand and the there's also the
36:26
cattle prod which have to be really careful about with
36:28
electro play you always have to be careful about hearts
36:30
stopping via amman into
36:33
in so much but the tingling this
36:35
or that so she did that was exciting
36:37
share this little metal thing with a wheel
36:40
on the and ortenberg we'll can
36:42
we those can't look at the opinion
36:44
so she had that and she ran across
36:46
my balls and my dick and stuff
36:48
as intense like thought something
36:51
bad is going up against that of the and please
36:53
but obviously see no issues doing so
36:55
that was super hot she
36:57
had had i guess that
36:59
wanted to have like five balls
37:01
she called it so she asked
37:04
me yeah i didn't do that that was little bit too much
37:06
for me i think none the female presence
37:08
to never give my
37:10
you know what would you need to say yes
37:12
to situation like that a more gender
37:14
bounds
37:15
the i think so i don't think don't
37:17
think men the think i like
37:19
the idea of the abu
37:21
of it with a female partner
37:24
who that makes sense yeah
37:26
i personally think that all preferences
37:28
are valid it's a matter of like
37:30
issue a preference that like against a person
37:32
to keep that yourself the new the like the hot
37:35
tub bonus of it great i think
37:37
it's super hot when even if
37:39
someone is not super into
37:41
a polar a whole type of partner or another
37:44
simply for play party scenario is like
37:46
having someone who can go there who can hang
37:48
who can touch who's down for whatever it
37:50
like the i think the really hot personally
37:53
regardless of what by
37:54
yeah what a more so as as being open
37:56
minded to experiences and not
37:59
to judge people those
38:01
expenses that's kind of where i met
38:03
the same and i think that for me it's
38:05
that type of openness that like
38:08
led me to be like
38:10
never be into a woman here
38:12
i am just didn't realize
38:13
it got railed superstring you know like to
38:16
know and so like that super super fun for
38:18
me on that note of group stuff
38:20
you mentioned mf ems and mms
38:23
can you i always get the letters
38:25
and the order of a letters confused can you
38:27
just like outline what specifically your into
38:30
and what you like about it and like
38:32
the years threesome are more some
38:34
dreams consistent
38:36
i think i like both scenarios
38:38
like you said i can't remember which what goes
38:41
in , mms for having to have no it's intelligence
38:44
and i know that we can look it up but i prefer
38:46
to err on the set of just clarifying i
38:49
think like those arrows
38:52
are like the fact of to people making
38:54
one person feel good but i also like
38:56
everybody being able to do whatever they want
38:59
any to sit nicherie odyssey consensus
39:01
court and but yeah it's a hand
39:04
touches something that should be
39:06
like no don't do that kind of thing your
39:08
immunity beacon a more open because it's
39:10
you know you're already naked nerdy
39:12
do and stuff so when to suffer
39:14
holy cow , i feel
39:17
like i'm like oh we're already here on earth
39:19
were already talking to each other were
39:21
already in the same room we could be
39:23
not wearing these for okay we'll keep my
39:26
sister says
39:28
hard to be open about it i'm very envious
39:30
of you to be open about these things and things
39:32
wish i could be no one in my forties now
39:34
you think i'd be able to
39:36
no i think you have more practice not
39:38
doing it like i think that if we start
39:41
earlier it's either thing for me the
39:43
older i get in a certain group
39:46
people do i
39:48
mean i think that my first experience with
39:51
there's real like putting groping
39:53
whatever experience because it was in a group
39:55
setting i think that's affected my psyche
39:57
i guess or the way i look at life and to
40:00
be jealous of other people
40:02
and i think that's what's so good about
40:04
relationships that are kind of open for
40:06
settle have that right now but i think that that's
40:09
kind of the way the future the way i see
40:11
joshi such a horrible thing i'm
40:14
learning so much about jealousy and it is
40:16
something that is very confused
40:18
to me because i don't get activated
40:20
in the way that i know most people do
40:22
you feel comfortable sharing a little bit about
40:24
how you got to the monogamous
40:26
place you were in and what monogamous
40:29
means to you at this moment in the context of your
40:31
religion social pressure
40:33
the think is how i got to a place of
40:36
even getting married
40:38
i love how you answer that question
40:40
because the way people usually
40:43
answer is the assumption is that
40:45
being monogamous is the default
40:48
so here i hear the opposite of that
40:51
i'm a girl well i became kind of monogamous
40:54
because that's what happened how
40:56
did you become not totally monogamous
40:58
like have you done threesomes with
41:01
your partner
41:02
no not , know
41:04
it would take a lot of talk you know it
41:06
would not really sexually with each other very
41:08
often anymore so that's why
41:10
i said are you know nowadays it's kind of few
41:12
and far between us and which is a bit
41:15
sad to talk like it with
41:17
her
41:18
like you talk about the fact that you're not having as much
41:20
sex as you want to go
41:21
we did me and we went to therapy and suffered
41:23
that but it didn't really help
41:27
the real monogamous means
41:29
sometimes you go to massage parlor
41:31
okay is a powerful i
41:33
don't think it's awesome let me be really clear
41:35
it novel
41:37
now everyone has different relationships
41:39
to how they interact with the agreements
41:42
they make what seems to to me based
41:44
on my own personal experience is it
41:46
every single human
41:49
do not do exactly what they
41:51
say they're gonna do all the time every single
41:53
human like there's not a single can bloom
41:55
and i have encountered in my lifetime you
41:57
know and as and lot of judgment that we like to
41:59
throw around at each other for stuff that the
42:01
very normal and i would say that i talked to lots
42:03
of people and their lots of people that are very
42:05
very self righteous about been
42:08
monogamous and their own
42:11
rules and they have their own guidelines
42:13
and so i think that we as human beings
42:16
me to do our best to make relationships
42:19
where we are supporting each other but i've not looked like
42:21
you know and there's different ways to do all of that i
42:23
just like to be very forceful with people because
42:25
like you're not bad you're not bad like
42:27
i just want everyone in the world the know that you're
42:29
not inherently
42:33
what i would like be here some
42:35
details about massage parlors
42:38
and like how do you find them and like what's
42:40
the social nuance of lake sooner
42:43
which massage parlor euro like as
42:45
it weeks is it a hundred times worse
42:48
it's legal here or it's though
42:51
nope it's legal in california but
42:54
the toward massages not
42:55
legal in california here they
42:57
pay you whatever licensing often
43:00
only gives was to have like sex per
43:02
se in there
43:03
okay but like hands on for okay full
43:05
body massage i guess i think so
43:07
the have a proper category like is there
43:09
a sign outside that's like full
43:11
service massage and then there's like other
43:13
massage places okay
43:15
erotic massage or whatever they call i
43:18
, something new for needs the
43:20
know going to have everybody coming up to canada yeah
43:23
i think that's wonderful wonderful
43:26
get the sex workers money and i
43:28
moved he returns
43:31
excerpts idea
43:32
how do you find them sometimes it's like
43:34
word of mouth or whatever friends
43:36
or whatever the go i found one that's
43:38
really really nice and classy and
43:41
i go there's times and everybody's
43:43
like non judgmental everybody
43:46
has their own gonna specialty
43:48
like whatever specialties this
43:51
was one place has something called something called
43:53
pass and that's prostate massage
43:56
they do that i love that name
44:01
yeah so that's kind of one other specialties
44:04
they do like a new room massage kind
44:06
of stuff they do that who
44:08
is that a full body the use like some
44:10
kind of louisiana
44:13
mika we water gets really slippery i
44:15
haven't done it yet but it's totally on my bucket list
44:17
one how do they start like what's the message
44:20
and cause i've watched a couple of videos and i mean
44:22
or trying to just like think in my brain
44:23
okay here's what i would do if i was in charge
44:26
you use it distance with
44:27
like a back massage and than that spends
44:30
between your legs it's like teasing
44:33
in central and then it can
44:35
get really intense there's
44:37
one person ever see it does one
44:39
place she likes to edge that's
44:41
amazing to you have like the super intense
44:44
finish so like opie in there for
44:46
an hour or whatever that's a lot of one
44:49
you know the or know how to say stop he
44:51
just oh that
44:53
it's gonna happen and and she's real reform so
44:58
amy think or toys are sexy
45:00
things haven't explored yet that you
45:02
want to explore no or
45:04
to experience a few things are
45:06
used to have hello spotlight things when
45:08
i was single should have or now though think
45:10
that would probably help i
45:14
might wanna try those a narrow city because
45:16
they're like because prostate massager but it massager
45:18
you move your body it moves and never
45:21
tried that but i'd like to try that who
45:23
are you do try i'd love to
45:25
know how girls also
45:27
do video
45:28
we use the details and outfits that i love your
45:31
yeah i mean if you can get a video inside there
45:33
the don't i mean like i could i assume it
45:36
why am i want to look at the end that i don't know but i do
45:38
anyway
45:39
when would you say in your
45:41
sexual life have you felt the
45:43
most appreciated
45:45
probably the woman i was dating before i got married
45:48
because she was to the most open minded
45:51
to trying things and would actually
45:53
want to try different things with me and
45:55
shows and of you wanna call it caught worship
45:57
but she always like comments at how much like
46:00
i did so i'm sorry
46:02
for the preceded for my penis oh
46:05
yeah
46:05
the compliments when complements come
46:07
from a place of nadia
46:10
mean enthusiasm when i
46:12
received compliments that are clearly just
46:14
so true like where i just feel
46:17
it coming from and that earth
46:20
you're in a relationship where you're not having
46:22
the connection that you want and given that
46:24
you are a person who finds connection
46:27
is sexy what are you doing today take
46:29
care of your self agreement the emotional
46:32
for like not just like how are you masturbating but like
46:34
on a larger scale at what do you do to just sort
46:36
of like self regulate them
46:38
the current spend time with friends as far
46:40
as a gun or emotional level like
46:42
be so get along quite well with for friends
46:45
were not partners love you and i mean let the
46:47
eminent lovers one thing on earth will do
46:49
that but a year ago before the hard copy
46:51
of suitable for the pandemic i was using a cuddling
46:53
service even , nothing
46:56
sexual about it but i found that really
46:58
helped being held in a helps you
47:00
feel wanted you know what i mean i
47:03
obviously can't haven't done it since because
47:05
was things are starting open up again but yeah
47:07
again but here where we're a little bit behind you guys
47:10
as far as a pandemic coast in lockdown
47:12
and stuff but i found that really of and
47:14
doing things that i enjoy like
47:16
doing music hang out with friends like i said
47:18
just doing things that make me happy riding my motorcycle
47:21
that kind of stuff
47:23
what are your hope for your sex life going
47:25
forward in general
47:27
i would like to somehow open
47:29
the doors to multiple
47:31
people and stop worrying so much
47:33
about what others think in order mean like
47:36
open non jealous kind of relationship
47:38
is what i would like to see i
47:40
don't know if it's ever going to happen just because it's so tough
47:43
you know it's a big decision to make that
47:45
change and i don't want to hurt anybody
47:48
in the process so that's kind of scrambled
47:50
way to answer their questions
47:52
a tricky human situation do because
47:54
like i've made so many decisions
47:56
for a place of trying to not hurt the other person
47:59
and i can definitely recall instances
48:01
where me trying to like
48:03
avoid a thing led to a different type
48:05
of hurt or disconnection or
48:08
hurting myself instead you know in these various
48:10
ways so it's really really tough when people who care
48:12
about each other house needs
48:14
that at least for the moment have incompatible
48:16
strategies around being that that's a tough
48:18
place to be
48:20
those are goals of those are dreams
48:22
but i don't know yeah i
48:24
don't have given up the haven't given
48:26
up but i don't know that it's wherever
48:29
happened
48:30
oh well i think it's good to speak dreams
48:33
out loud and see if they want to evolve
48:35
how they want to evolve and just
48:37
for me when i have big wish her
48:39
desire the moment i'm aware
48:41
of it i can choose to not pursue it
48:44
but if i am like denying to myself
48:46
that it exists and just trying to function that's when i
48:48
bought into some dark places in my life because
48:50
i do i have big crazy dreams
48:52
in the world like i really
48:55
really wanna make several feature
48:57
films one of that sex ed one of his belt
48:59
wiggling they're very weird i really
49:01
want to raise enough money to get a trailer to go
49:03
around the country really want to raise millions
49:06
of dollars to build a full service creativity
49:09
resort in the middle of somewhere where we can
49:11
have play party than free to save face of
49:13
evil and like i don't know i'm going
49:15
to do any of those things but i
49:17
hope so and just knowing
49:19
that i am in my
49:21
wade doing today what
49:24
makes me feel okay like that silver
49:26
step toward pursuit you know some
49:29
speaking dream the irish
49:31
and i just like i love it a luxury
49:34
and okay pick it up on my tangents
49:36
powerful dreams can be listening to
49:38
the podcast i've heard you've mentioned
49:41
about the place with all these different
49:43
play rooms and create and place that is
49:45
that dream that would be amazing
49:46
would be amazing and end it with a really
49:49
big deal for me to start talking about
49:51
it out loud and that really only began
49:54
last april like on my birthday i could i would like
49:57
a top pocket what if i fail and the know they
49:59
will somewhat
50:00
i'm not gonna make it happen by not talking
50:02
about it you know you are not doing
50:05
i'm not doing a yeah and so it's just the baby
50:07
little step
50:08
so many people have ideas like
50:10
this but then you don't actually take
50:12
steps to make it happen it's just you know
50:14
i'm not gonna happen or it out
50:17
and an overwhelming and it's hard to hear from friends
50:19
and family like oh that's
50:21
an idea you know like some people are
50:23
scared or to run into it or whatever you know so i
50:25
think that the more that we noodle out loud of the easier
50:27
to as okay you mentioned at the beginning
50:29
of this conversation and then throughout
50:31
the conversation that talking
50:33
about sex is often difficult for you
50:35
how you feel about that now well
50:37
like i mentioned once we start
50:40
i often say more than i intended
50:43
i feel good about like a feel ago or
50:45
release in when i mean i feel like five
50:47
let go and every time i do that with
50:49
anybody's i feel better about myself
50:52
afterwards if , can get of
50:54
our gang actually details in you think that editors
50:57
okay if you could go back in time
50:59
the younger you a piece of sex advice
51:02
what age are ages would you pay what
51:04
would you say
51:05
probably would sixteen or seventeen
51:07
and probably spends a longer
51:09
time period than that i would say to myself
51:11
to be so down on yourself not like
51:14
i just said if you'll try it it's not gonna happen
51:16
so approach the person that you
51:18
want to you know don't be worried
51:20
about rejection that kind of thing what
51:23
i would thomas of is still
51:25
really here once as far as we know so
51:28
your enjoy your life that is a topic
51:30
too much worry on what other people think
51:33
yeah now more than ever we
51:35
just need to live our lives and enjoy
51:37
whatever we can the everything
51:40
i'm enjoying the own you
51:42
know for the next few years ago thank
51:45
you for much for been on the show
51:47
thank you so much router me the other
51:49
question for me
51:51
have you ever been to an actual like
51:53
sex clubs do they have them in california
51:56
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