In order to have substance in what you attract into your life on this journey of finding love, you have be in a mind frame of being emotionally aware and in tune with self.
Sometimes in order for us move forward in some capacity in our love life and dating life we have to forgive ourselves and not live in a life of regrets.
Sometimes we rush through the process of learning through the pain in order to not be alone; not understanding, that is where the lessons stand for us to grow.
What are your dating processes? What are you really looking for when it comes to finding love? We have to get to the point of asking ourselves these hard questions, to get to that common denominator.
Are you at the point in your life where you are numb to the fact of failed results that you accept anything; just to say you are with someone. Be intentional about your process!
In the lonely season is where you find clarity of self. But most are afraid to sit at the table and face those fears. But in order to move forward you have to ask yourself those hard questions.
What are you doing differently than before to attract what is specifically meant for you? On this journey of finding love, we have to get outside of our norm in our preparation.
We tend to blame others on what we attract into our lives on this journey of finding love. We blame others instead of looking at what we can control in this regard to heal and take back our control.
Life has a way of testing us. Especially on this love journey; this particular hurt is a different type of hurt that if we don't face those let downs going forth we begin to attract our pain.
On this journey of finding love, we tend to say the hell with it when things are not going our way or happening in our timing. Stay focus on your process!
Sometimes instead of doing the necessary work to heal, we tend to find comfort in our pain. We use hurt to attract more hurt, expecting people love use through our pain.
Negating that voice within that tells us that a person is not meant to be in our space is sometime the tipping point of emotions that sends us overboard. Not taking heed to that gut feeling.
On this journey of finding love, we have choices on how we choose to proceed. We have a choice on what we attract into our life in this regard, whether good or bad!
What I often find is that instead of people embracing the single phase or quote on quote the lonely phase of their lives; we begin to use other people for a temporary fix. This phase is meant for preparation of self.