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So I remember knocking on his door and he
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said, come in. And he was sitting there and I
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walked in. I said I said, man, I'm
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spiritually bankrupt. And
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the bottom that I told you about the hopeless,
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desperate place I was at on
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my first go around, I
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didn't. I didn't know anything about God
0:20
or Jesus or grace
0:23
or mercy. Didn't know anything about
0:25
that, but I had been saved by his
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grace and mercy. And then I,
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myself, will turn my back on him
0:32
and went back to doing the stuff I did. And
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it was so devastating that I
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felt like I had let God down. And
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I did let God down as well as myself.
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And I somehow figured that was unforgivable
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because I said, your ego tells
0:46
you these lies, man, and the disease wants you
0:48
to stay stuck. But when I walked
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in and I said, Joe, I'm spiritually bankrupt,
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tears are rolling out because I
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just, I feel terrible about
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my actions and my inability to control
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myself. I'll never forget
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his response.
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That is where we left off in Tom's story. Last
1:05
week after he had truly lost
1:07
everything. He had lost his wife.
1:10
He had lost his ability to work. He
1:12
had lost his purpose and
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now you will get to hear the second
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half of Tom's story. And the
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amazing miracles that God
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began to do in his life. Then Tom's
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story illustrates in
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a beautiful way. How
1:29
miracles truly work. Oftentimes
1:31
we sit back and we want God
1:33
to do magic in our lives. And
1:35
magic is where. One person
1:38
or one being just does great things. And it's a
1:40
one-way street. But what we need
1:42
is for God to do miracles in our lives.
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And if you understand how miracles work, there's
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two parts to miracles. There's our part
1:50
where we need to do some things
1:52
to get in line with what God
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wants us to do to take those
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steps, to begin to walk alongside
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God in the path that he has for us. And
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when we do that, God does
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a second part and begins to do.
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Amazing and miraculous things
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that we could never do on our own.
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It's such a beautiful illustration.
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when you hear Tom's. Story.
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And what happened in this second half?
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You're going to love it. And I think you
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will be able to learn so many wonderful lessons,
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just like I've learned by listening
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to Tom share what God has done.
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Then how in such an
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amazing way, God put everything back
2:32
together. And even a
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greater way than it ever was before.
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So enjoy the second half of Tom's story.
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I pray that you'll learn some great
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things from this second half of Tom's story.
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And that you'll be able to figure
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out whatever it is the Lord wants you to do
2:49
to take those steps, to begin to walk alongside
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him. And then trust
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him. For the great miracles
2:56
that he wants to do in your life
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as well. God bless you. And
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enjoy Tom's story.
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HellO, and welcome to Renew, Restore,
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Rejoice, the Safe House Ministries podcast,
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where we share stories of the power of God
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to change lives through Safe House Ministries.
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Safe House Ministries is based out of Columbus,
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Georgia, and we are a ministry that exists to
3:17
love and serve people who have been affected by
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addiction, homelessness, and
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incarceration. I'm your host, Phil
3:23
Shuler, the Director of Development for Safe House
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Ministries here in Columbus, Georgia. Safe
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House serves over 1, 100 people
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each month as they transition back into
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our community. Safe House provides an
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abundance of services including 213
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beds for homeless individuals and families,
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case management for obtaining job skills and long
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term employment. Over 300
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hot meals every day, free clothing,
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and so much more. One of the most incredible
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services that Safe House provides is our
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free 9 12 month intensive outpatient
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substance abuse program, which is state
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licensed, CARF accredited, and has
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no wait list. Almost 100 percent
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of individuals staying in our shelters who follow our
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three phase program become
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fully employed within a few months. And
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68 percent of individuals who
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stay at least one night with us End
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up finding work and moving into their own home.
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Thank you for being with us today and listening to our
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podcast. We hope you enjoy this week's episode.
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He stood up and he hugged me and
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he said, you're going to be all right. He
4:20
said, now there's something you missed. When
4:22
we do these steps, you need
4:24
to figure out what it is and
4:26
then we'll work on it. And when he
4:28
said, I'm going to be all right, I was like, dude, you don't understand
4:31
I'm, my life's over. And, but he
4:33
knew when you get to that point where, all
4:35
right, I'm all in now, I'm going to do, I'm really
4:37
going to do whatever y'all tell me to do this time. And
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went to treatment for my last long
4:42
term treatment. I went there and I'm praying
4:44
every morning and I'm like, God, I missed
4:47
something. And I've searched my
4:49
mind and I can't figure out what it is.
4:51
I need your help. Please reveal
4:53
to me what I missed. If you'll reveal this to me, I'll
4:55
work on it. Cause I, I want
4:58
to live for you. I don't want to stop living
5:00
for me. And I was there
5:02
a couple of weeks and I am not figuring
5:05
out what I missed. And I'm praying every morning,
5:07
same prayer. Please reveal to me what
5:09
I missed. And one day I was called at a group
5:11
by a psych nurse. They just
5:13
put me on depression medicine. So the
5:15
psych nurse calls me out to talk to me about
5:18
what I think you're going to ask me how the medicine's
5:20
working. Because truth was
5:22
I was severely depressed because I couldn't
5:24
stop getting high. Who wouldn't be severely
5:27
depressed? And so she
5:29
has my chart in front over and she says, Oh, I see
5:31
you're from Columbus, Georgia. And it says
5:33
here you're separated. I see. Yes, ma'am. She
5:36
said, okay, let's talk about that. Tell me about your separation.
5:38
I said there's not really a lot to talk about. My
5:40
wife kicked me out, about eight years
5:42
ago, and I ain't talked to her
5:44
since. She's what? You haven't,
5:46
are y'all getting divorced? Are y'all getting back together?
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I was like, I don't know. She's what do you mean you
5:51
don't know? You have no closure on this. I was
5:53
like, what do you mean closure? She says, you,
5:55
Tom, you need to figure out if you're gonna get divorced
5:57
or you're gonna get back together. But she, not
5:59
only are you hanging, but you left her hanging
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this whole time. Y'all can't move on
6:03
with life because you still don't know what
6:05
you're gonna do with this marriage. And
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I thought. It was like an epiphany
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to me. I was like, wow, I never thought I would, I never
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even thought to look at that.
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I know why now. That hurt
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my heart when she told me you don't live here anymore.
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Although I was high in stone,
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it hurt my heart so
6:25
bad, cause I failed in marriage
6:28
and I wanted
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to succeed in marriage. And
6:32
so I've decided that hurt right
6:34
there, I was going to box up and put a nice bow
6:36
on it and put it on the highest shelf I could find
6:38
never to be talked about or looked at again
6:41
because it's too uncomfortable. So
6:43
even though I was doing step work, I was never
6:46
going there because that's the one thing I am
6:48
not going back to because I don't want to
6:50
feel that pain. Because I love my wife
6:52
with all my heart. I was just out of control and I
6:54
couldn't be the husband I was intended to
6:56
be. So as that Nurse
6:59
talked about that. She never did talk to me
7:01
about my psych medicine because
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when she told me that Tears
7:06
started coming out of my eyes because I knew that's
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what I missed. I Missed
7:10
getting closure on my relationship
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with my wife So I actually looked
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at her and I said is it possible that God just
7:17
used you to reveal to me what I missed
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And she said I don't know honey, and
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I said Can I give you a hug? I've
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never seen this lady before in my life. And
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I stood up and I gave her a hug. I've
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never seen that woman again. The whole time I was
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in the 10 month program, I never saw this nurse
7:33
again. You can think what you want to think about
7:35
that, but it was revealed to me what
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I missed. And I called my sponsor
7:40
and I said, I think I know what I've been overlooking
7:43
and he said that's good, man. He said, you just keep doing
7:45
what you're doing and we'll figure
7:47
it out. Anyway, I as
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I went through the step process, working
7:52
the steps again, because every time I relapsed,
7:54
I worked the steps again. So
7:56
this is my fourth time working the steps with
7:58
my sponsor, different sponsors.
8:00
Don't get me wrong, because as you change locations,
8:02
you get different sponsors. And
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And we went through it and I
8:07
remember taking it to my group when I was
8:09
in treatment, and asking their
8:11
advice, because we were told not to trust our
8:13
own decisions anymore, because our decisions got us
8:15
into treatment. So let's bounce these decisions
8:17
off these twelve other people, and see
8:19
if they think it's a good idea. So
8:21
I talked to them about that, and
8:23
They asked me, how do you communicate with your wife
8:25
right now? I said I don't communicate with her
8:28
at Christmas. She'll send me a text that
8:30
says, Merry Christmas. And as soon
8:32
as I see it, fear comes all over me and
8:35
I just text back, Merry Christmas. And I
8:37
send it and I hope she doesn't send anything else
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because I don't know what to do, and
8:41
they said, okay you're not allowed to text her anymore. You need
8:43
to call her. I was like, Oh Lord,
8:45
you're going to have me call her. I'm not
8:48
comfortable with that. And they said that's what you have to do.
8:50
Do it and report back to group. I
8:52
was like, okay. So I
8:54
would bring up her number in my cell phone and
8:57
I just could not make myself press
9:00
call. And I would just put
9:02
the phone down and said I'll do it tomorrow. I can't
9:04
do it today. I'll do it tomorrow. The, after
9:06
about 30 days, they're like, Tom,
9:08
you need to make that call you need and
9:10
come tomorrow and tell us how it went.
9:13
So I finally pressed that thing. And
9:16
she answers the phone. She says, Hello.
9:18
And I said, Hey, it's me. She
9:21
said hello. She said why
9:23
are you calling me all of a sudden? I ain't heard from
9:25
you in years. And all of a sudden, you just call me out of the blue.
9:27
And unfortunately, I said I just
9:30
want to get on some level playing ground where we
9:32
can communicate with one another. And she
9:34
said, you got some kind of
9:36
nerve calling me after all this time, talking
9:38
about getting on some level playing ground. Let
9:41
me tell you something. And
9:43
she went off on me, hollered
9:45
and screaming on how I broke the trust.
9:48
And telling me everything I knew I
9:50
had done, but the things that really hurt
9:52
her. For 30 minutes, I listened to
9:54
her go up one side of me and down
9:57
the other. But something told me just to shut
9:59
up and listen because I needed to listen
10:01
to that. I needed to be accountable for my actions.
10:04
And so I let her get off her chest,
10:07
whatever she needed to get off her chest. And the
10:09
craziest thing was that was 30 minutes,
10:11
literally, because I had a timer on my phone. I know
10:13
how long she went off on me. And
10:16
we talked 30 minutes was
10:18
actually a pretty decent conversation,
10:21
which kind of It was hard to believe
10:23
after what I just heard come out of her on
10:25
how hurt she was. And then
10:27
she's talking to me about just
10:29
stuff, and I hung up the phone and
10:32
I was thinking, wow that actually went better than I thought
10:34
it was going to go. And I went back to group the
10:36
next day and read to report on what, what
10:38
just transpired. And I told him what I just told you.
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And they said that's good. When are you going to talk to
10:42
her again? I was like, what do you mean? Talk to
10:44
her again, talk to her again. I did
10:46
what y'all told me to do. And they're like, no, you
10:49
haven't gotten to a solution to your
10:51
problem. So you're going to have to talk
10:53
to her again, talk to her again, and report back to group.
10:56
I waited 30 days, called her. And
10:58
her voice, you could hear in her voice, she was happy to
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hear from me. The tone had changed,
11:03
and it was nice, man. It was really nice that
11:05
I felt like, wow, she's really glad to hear from
11:07
me. And we talked for about
11:09
an hour and I reported back to
11:11
group and it was a wonderful conversation.
11:14
And They told me to call her again and same
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thing I'm doing what y'all tell me when
11:19
am I gonna be done? It's we'll let you know So
11:22
it went up from calling her every 30 days
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So I call her every two weeks
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and I call her once a week and then I started calling
11:28
her every day And as
11:30
things progressed in my recovery,
11:32
we started praying together for the first time
11:34
on the phone So every night
11:37
me and her are praying together and it's
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a wonderful thing man and
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I'm working the steps. I'm at a
11:43
point in the steps in step 11 where
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it says we seek only knowledge of God's will
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for us. We pray only for knowledge of God's will for
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us and his power to carry it out. And
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I'm really earnestly praying that prayer
11:54
on a daily, every morning. I'm praying, God,
11:57
please, your will be done in my life. Give me
11:59
your strength to carry it out. I don't know what
12:01
it is, but I know you'll reveal it to me.
12:03
And a changing moment in
12:06
my recovery When I
12:08
started really earnestly seeking
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God's will in my life and not trying
12:12
to run it anymore like I'd always run it
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Things started working out for them for the good.
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I Remember I completed
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treatment Had our moving on ceremony
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and I was living in the community where the treatment center
12:24
was in South Georgia. And
12:26
I was very plugged in. I was
12:28
had a service position with a, which
12:31
kept me very involved. Best thing I'd ever did
12:33
was take a service position because that kept me
12:35
plugged in to that community.
12:37
I'd worked steps to the best of my ability.
12:40
I had a spiritual awakening. They said I was going
12:42
to have. I start out every morning
12:44
with prayer, meditation.
12:47
I'm very grateful that today I'm alive
12:49
and I don't want to kill myself.
12:52
And I had one of the guys down
12:54
there, he was working as a certified
12:56
peer specialist at a,
12:58
for Georgia Mental Health Consumer Network.
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They had a respite, respite house there. And
13:03
it's for addicts, alcoholics, or people
13:05
suffering with or living with mental health
13:07
problems. Just a place where they can come and
13:09
chill, get some resources they need.
13:11
If they ever need help with anything,
13:14
this, the certified peer specialist helps
13:16
give them the resources to, to achieve
13:18
their goals. And one of the guys at work there
13:21
said, Tom we have a job opening and I
13:23
just want to let you know about it because I
13:25
think you'd be a perfect fit for it. And
13:27
I was like a job opening, I'm
13:29
not looking for a job. So I
13:32
was like, I appreciate it. I really appreciate the offer,
13:34
but now I'm on disability. I can't work.
13:36
I'm on disability. And So
13:39
I told my wife about it in that conversation.
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She's okay, she didn't really know what all
13:43
that entailed or what it was. But
13:45
I started, I knew everyone that worked
13:47
there because I went up to the place and I would
13:49
go and join in their activities and
13:52
use their computers and so forth. And
13:54
I got to be friends with all the employees out there.
13:57
And I started thinking about, I went
13:59
through treatment with some of these people that are working
14:01
here before. They're
14:03
still sober. So I
14:06
asked each one of them, how many, how long have you been sober?
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And that was 13 years, 14
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years, 21 years, seven years,
14:13
six years. And I was like, huh,
14:15
might be something to this. They're actually
14:17
trying to help other people and there'll be
14:20
they're staying sober. I ain't doing nothing
14:22
and I'm not, so maybe there's something to
14:24
this. I was talking to my wife about
14:26
it and I'm praying on this. I'm going God
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I didn't even knock on this door. This
14:31
door opened. Is this your will for me?
14:34
Are you leading me in this direction? If it
14:36
is I want to go, but I
14:38
need some clarification I don't know if this
14:40
is what you want me to do and me and my wife
14:42
are praying on it We pray on it continuously
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Waiting for an answer. Sometimes it ain't
14:47
my time. It's his time and
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I'm Now here's the, some
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of the rest of the story. Me and my wife, I told you we're
14:53
praying every day together and
14:55
our relationship is starting to blossom,
14:58
which I never considered
15:01
getting back with her because I broke
15:03
her trust and there, I
15:05
didn't think she would ever forgive me. I don't think she'd ever
15:07
be able to forgive me. So as
15:09
we're talking and we're praying I Our
15:11
relationship starts moving in
15:13
a direction I never thought was possible. And,
15:17
one of our friends, unfortunately,
15:20
died in Columbus, so I had
15:22
to come home to go to the funeral. It was somebody we worked
15:24
with and she said why don't you just
15:27
come here and stay here,
15:29
and we'll go to the funeral together. So
15:32
I was like, okay, I came with my sponsor, stayed
15:34
in separate rooms. Don't get me wrong. Wasn't no funny
15:36
business going on cause we were not there yet.
15:39
And but it was an opportunity for us to
15:41
see each other face to face, pray
15:43
together, face to face, hand in hand
15:46
and talk about this job and
15:49
it's, we're going in a direction of actually
15:53
restoring our marriage and
15:55
I'm just completely blown away on how
15:57
this is even possible. It's
15:59
only God can, could restore something
16:01
that was so broken. When you break
16:03
someone's trust, it's almost impossible to gain
16:05
it back. But I learned
16:07
when I went to make my amends with her
16:09
and I sat down with her face to face and
16:12
I went through everything that I thought I had done to
16:14
harm her. And then I let her tell me what
16:16
I left out. And then I asked her, what
16:18
can I do to make this right? And she's on
16:20
there for it. She said, Tom, I've forgiven
16:23
you. But you haven't forgiven
16:25
yourself. What you need to do
16:27
is work on forgiving yourself. And
16:30
no truer words were ever spoken. I wanted
16:32
to hold myself accountable for breaking that
16:34
trust through my foolishness
16:36
and my addiction. But that being
16:39
forgiven, being shown how to be forgiven
16:41
allowed me to forgive myself. It
16:43
wasn't an instant process. It was a process.
16:46
But I finally got there. I'd never
16:48
been there before because I was never able
16:50
to look at this problem
16:53
I had with my wife. I always wanted to keep it up
16:55
on the shelf and not worry about it. But
16:57
anyway we're praying, we're thinking about getting back
17:00
together eventually, don't know when.
17:02
But this job opportunity comes up, so
17:05
we're praying, I said, now if I take this job, I'm
17:08
going to stay here and we won't get back together.
17:10
And and it just floored me that I
17:13
don't want to give up. I'm praying for God's
17:15
will in my life. And I think God wants me and her to get
17:17
back together. God restores families.
17:19
And I'm trying to justify this in my mind
17:21
that this would be God's will for me to
17:23
restore my marriage. But then this
17:25
door opens that I wasn't knocking on and it's
17:28
to help other people and we're,
17:30
we pray on it together and we come to the conclusion
17:33
that she said, I think
17:35
this is God's will for you. Why don't you
17:37
apply for that job? Just see what happens.
17:39
It's okay. So I apply for the job
17:42
and within a day I get
17:44
the call back and said, Hey, we want you to come
17:46
to work. And I was very grateful. I
17:48
never thought I would work again being on disability.
17:51
So here, I never thought I'd be able to after
17:53
the stroke, because I'd lost a lot of my cognitive
17:56
function. And over time, it
17:58
got, rerouted in my brain and I was able to
18:00
do things I wasn't able to do before. I
18:02
take this job and I am just exuberant
18:05
with gratitude. You know what God's doing
18:07
into my life and I'm going to be able to help people.
18:09
My wife is behind me a hundred percent. As
18:11
I talked to her on the phone, I know that's on hold.
18:13
And I, one thing she says, she said,
18:16
Tom, we may not get together
18:18
now, but when God
18:20
says it's time for us to get back together,
18:22
we will, I said, and I could deal
18:25
with that. I'm okay with that. So I take this
18:27
job, I work my first day, I have a wonderful
18:29
first day, I do the on board
18:31
paperwork with the Atlanta office and
18:34
they show me what my duties are and we talk
18:36
to a couple of clients and
18:38
we have a warm line where people call if they're struggling
18:40
with their mental health or addiction. She had me answer
18:42
that a couple of times. She said, Tom,
18:45
you're great on the phone because I had a background in customer
18:47
service. I know how to talk to people. And
18:49
she said, yeah, you're going to do great here.
18:52
It's been a great first day. Here's
18:54
your schedule. You're on the schedule for 30 hours.
18:56
We'll see you tomorrow. And I thought, wow,
18:58
this is great, man. And I went home
19:00
and I was just really happy,
19:03
man. Really grateful. And
19:05
at five, about two minutes to five, I got a
19:07
call from the Atlanta office. And
19:09
of course, after such a wonderful first day,
19:12
I knew that the director must be calling me
19:14
to welcome me aboard. And I answered the phone
19:16
and she said, Hey, I'm the director. And I said,
19:18
I know who you are. She said, I'm just
19:20
calling to let you know your job's no longer available.
19:23
And I was like, excuse me, what does that mean?
19:25
She said, what means just what I said, your job's no
19:27
longer available. So I know you're on the schedule,
19:30
but don't show up for work tomorrow. All right okay,
19:33
and I hang up the phone and
19:36
it's God is my witness. The words
19:38
that came out of my mouth were, thank you, God,
19:40
for closing that door. I can't wait to see
19:42
what door you open for me next. And
19:44
It was weird because my sponsor was in the
19:46
next room and he overheard the conversation.
19:49
He overheard my response and he
19:51
walked in and he said, wow, Tom, something's
19:53
changed about you and whatever it
19:55
is you need to hold on to. He
19:57
said, you just got some, what would be devastating
19:59
news. And you took that with a grain of
20:02
salt. But the truth of the situation
20:04
is that opened the door for me to come home. And
20:07
get back with my wife, which I
20:09
was just amazed on how God's plan
20:11
was working in my life when I seek it. Now,
20:13
I honestly feel like God
20:15
wanted to see if I was faithful. Are you
20:17
willing to give up what you want to
20:19
do what I want you to do? And
20:22
that was giving up my wife to go help other
20:24
people. And I decided to
20:26
go that route and trust God. And
20:29
he shut that door. He just wanted to see if I was willing
20:31
to do it. And once he knew that I was willing and I was
20:33
faithful, then I knew
20:35
other doors were going to be opened. I
20:38
didn't see that at the time, but I see this now.
20:40
So
20:42
I decided I wanted to get certified as
20:44
a certified peer specialist, and I'm going to pay for
20:46
it myself where they were going to pay for it for
20:48
me, the place I went to work for one day. So
20:51
I've researched it, I signed up
20:53
and I was going to, Do schooling and
20:56
then you have to go through a certain period of schooling and
20:58
then you have to take a test. It's an oral test. It's a written
21:00
test. And if you pass that, you get
21:02
your certified peer specialist credentials.
21:05
So I decided to do that and I'm talking to my wife
21:07
about it. And she said I've got an idea.
21:09
She said since because of COVID,
21:11
they were doing it online instead of in
21:13
person. She said, why don't you just
21:15
come home and do it while
21:18
I'm at work. You'll have the whole house to yourself.
21:20
and you can do your training from
21:23
here. And I thought, wow,
21:25
come home. That's all I heard. Train,
21:28
come home. You tell me I
21:30
can come home. So I said, yeah,
21:33
I said that's, that'd be awesome. So
21:35
I came home and I did the training
21:37
and but then I went and took tests, pass the test,
21:40
of course. And now I'm looking for a job.
21:42
And I'm praying God your will be done in
21:44
my life. I'm seeking knowledge of his will and his power
21:46
to carry it out. Leave me where you want me to be. Put
21:49
me somewhere where you can use me. I don't
21:51
care where it is, what it is, but use
21:53
me. So I, I put in application. I
21:55
went by safe house ministries was the first
21:57
place I went because someone
21:59
I was in treatment with said, Hey, I went through
22:02
the treatment in Columbus, Georgia's called tomorrow.
22:04
So go check them out, Tom. If you're
22:06
looking for a job, might be a good fit
22:08
for you. It's really good program. So
22:10
I went, I applied, I brought my resume
22:12
and I brought my letter saying that I was going
22:15
to get my certificate, but I didn't have it yet.
22:18
And I walk in and I see the director there,
22:20
Ms. Sapp was there and the other employees,
22:23
and I didn't, I knew I recognized
22:26
Ms. Cheryl Sapp, but I didn't know where I knew her
22:28
from. It was one of those, she looks real familiar
22:30
to me, and it's really weird. I know
22:32
this person, I just don't know where I know her from.
22:35
And, we talked and they said, Hey we
22:37
actually have a position coming up because we're
22:39
fixing to open up a place on victory drive.
22:41
So I can't hire you till that happens.
22:44
So I understand if you need to get a job somewhere
22:46
else you go for it and
22:48
we'll let you know when the opening comes up and
22:50
if you can come to work for us, that'd be great. So
22:53
I go home and I decided to Google Miss
22:55
Cheryl Sapp to figure out how do I
22:57
know this person? And I Google
22:59
it, Talbot Recovery comes up, the
23:01
first 30 day rehab that I was in.
23:04
And she was the first spiritual creature
23:06
on the face of the earth I met. The
23:08
hope she gave me, and
23:11
yes, I'm a little teared up because I'm so grateful.
23:14
She was the first person to give me hope. And
23:16
here I had an opportunity to work for this person.
23:18
I thought, boy, God, you are
23:20
working now, ain't you? Just
23:23
to put me back in a position to be in front
23:25
of this person is just amazing, not only to
23:27
just to see her again, but to work, actually work
23:29
for. And So it's after
23:32
a couple of weeks, I kept going up there every week
23:34
or every two weeks and hey, I'm just checking
23:36
to see if there's anything coming open because after
23:38
praying on this repeatedly daily,
23:41
I felt like this is where God wants me and this is
23:43
where I want to be. And then one Monday,
23:45
one Monday morning, I got a call from Miss Cheryl Sapp.
23:48
It was a Friday. She said, Tom we're
23:50
ready for you. Can you come to work Monday? And
23:53
I was like, I sure can. Can
23:55
I talk about getting on my knees and prayers
23:57
of gratitude? After that call, I
23:59
was just beside myself and
24:01
I went to work up there in
24:04
a long term treatment center, which is, I've
24:06
been through long term treatment three times. So
24:08
I was real familiar with what they did, but
24:10
now I'm on the other side of it.
24:13
I was feeling so blessed and I know
24:15
I was so blessed to go through everything
24:17
I went through and my experience of what I
24:19
went through and what it took for me to keep banging
24:21
my head over and over to finally
24:23
get this thing finally get honest, open minded
24:26
and willing because it's so
24:28
hard to do for me. But I finally
24:30
did it and God, I started seeking
24:32
God's will and he just started leading me in directions
24:35
to where I'm actually in a position
24:37
where I can give somebody that same hope
24:40
that I was given. And it's such
24:42
a beautiful thing, man, especially
24:44
to watch them progress and watch their
24:46
eyes go from darkness to
24:48
just these shining eyes
24:50
that you know the Holy Spirit's now dwelling
24:53
in them. It's a miraculous,
24:55
beautiful thing.
24:56
Wow.
24:58
So that's amazing.
25:00
I don't know what else I can say,
25:01
you've said a lot and the it's just an
25:03
amazing testimony of the beautiful
25:06
work of the Lord through your life
25:08
and from the brokenness
25:10
in every single way imaginable to
25:12
how the Lord has restored and just
25:15
even given you abundantly more than
25:17
you had before.
25:19
Way more than I even ever thought about. I just want
25:21
to make sure that this is very clear
25:24
that this is what God has done
25:26
for me. It's nothing I did.
25:28
Amen. I decided to
25:30
ask God to take
25:32
my life over. I want knowledge of
25:34
your will and I want your strength to
25:37
carry it out. And if you'll lead me, I
25:39
will go. That's awesome.
25:41
That is awesome. Now, how long have you been
25:43
at Tomorrow's Hope, a safe house?
25:45
April of this year was my second year there.
25:47
Amazing. Where do you and your wife go to church
25:50
at?
25:51
First Assembly of God, Phoenix City.
25:53
Alright. Praise
25:55
the Lord. Amen.
25:58
Praise the Lord. And I know that the Lord
26:00
is, has been and is using you
26:02
to be a Just a beacon of hope
26:04
and light in so many other people's lives.
26:06
So you've shared a lot and there's
26:09
so much wisdom already
26:11
in what you've shared, but if you had
26:13
to pull out a few
26:15
key lessons over the
26:17
journey that the Lord's taken you through,
26:20
what might some of those key lessons be?
26:22
Good question. What first comes
26:24
to my mind is God
26:26
loves me regardless of me no
26:28
matter what. I can't
26:31
mess that up. I do have
26:33
the self will, has the power
26:35
to block me from the sunlight of the spirit.
26:38
But the sunlight of the spirit is still there. All
26:40
I have to do is reach out and grab his hand and
26:42
he's back. Never give up. Start
26:45
being consistent. That's it. Today I show
26:47
up every day. Today I pray
26:50
every day. I'm just,
26:53
I am so grateful for what God has done in
26:55
my life. Just for me
26:57
being consistent, man. Wow.
26:59
So simple but, it was a program
27:01
action. If it wasn't for the 12
27:04
steps of Alcoholics Anonymous, I would
27:06
not be alive today.
27:07
Praise the Lord.
27:08
It's that's, that was my stairway
27:10
to finding a relationship with
27:12
Jesus Christ. And now I have a relationship
27:16
with Him. It's not a religion,
27:18
it's a relationship. We're,
27:20
He's my Father.
27:21
Amen. That's awesome. Any
27:24
any last bit of advice
27:26
or last little anecdote
27:28
or just anything you want to share? Sure.
27:31
Sure. One thing I do want to share in
27:34
in, in addiction, we
27:36
learn to love things and use
27:38
people and recovery. We
27:40
learned to love people and use things.
27:43
There it is. Wow. That's good. Thank
27:45
you. Thank you for just letting
27:48
the Lord use you. Thank you for surrendering to
27:50
his will. Thank you for preparing
27:52
and thinking through what you'd say here. And
27:54
just for sharing your story,
27:56
you're welcome. It was absolute pleasure to be here.
27:58
Never give up, man. Just never give up.
28:00
Amen. Amen. And
28:02
I still am just letting
28:05
that statement sink in. And you're so right.
28:08
God loves me no matter what
28:10
he just does. He gave his son to
28:13
die for us. The Bible's
28:15
very clear in that while we were yet sinners, Christ
28:17
died for us. And he loved us
28:19
and he wants the best for us.
28:22
He wants us to know him. That's good. You mind
28:24
if I Any doubt you mind if I close this in the word of prayer?
28:26
Be honored. Father, I praise you and I love
28:28
you, and I thank you for my friend Tom, for my brother Tom
28:31
pray. Bless his life, continue to bless
28:33
his marriage and his path and
28:36
use him Lord to do the
28:38
things that. You have planned
28:41
for him to do that would help so many other
28:43
people. Encourage his heart,
28:45
help him to stay strong in his faith, to stay
28:48
steadfast with you, to
28:50
stay connected to other believers
28:52
that are around him that love him and encourage
28:54
him and just are a
28:56
strength, Lord. You've designed
28:58
us to, to need connection,
29:01
Lord. First and foremost, connection with you and
29:03
then connection with others who love you as well.
29:06
Amen. Amen. Bless Tom and thank
29:08
you for all that you do in Jesus
29:10
name I pray, Amen.
29:11
Amen.
29:12
We look forward to being with you again next week as
29:14
we share another testimony about the power
29:16
and the goodness of God to change
29:19
lives through Safe House Ministries.
29:21
if you are someone listening to this podcast
29:23
that loves to hear these stories
29:25
of the great things that God is doing
29:28
in changing people's lives for the better, and
29:30
if you would like to be a part of that work,
29:32
please reach out to us You can
29:34
reach us at 2101 Hamilton
29:36
Road, Columbus, Georgia, 31,904.
29:39
You can call us at seven oh six three
29:41
two two. 3 7, 7 3,
29:44
or you can email us at [email protected].
29:50
Thank you so much for being with us this week for
29:52
the renew restore and rejoice
29:54
podcast of safe house ministries, we
29:56
pray that God will bless you this week. And
29:58
we look forward to having you back with us again
30:01
next week for a new episode.
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