I need to add this disclaimer really fast because I don't want to send out the wrong message.GOD is amazing and so is church but we have to use discernment with a side of common sense when joining or visiting churches--- Support this po

The Dark Side of the Black Church

Jan 1st, 2024 33m 28s

I want to be clear I'm not bashing BLACK people but I'm sharing my experience in BLACK Churches. Not all Black churches are BAD or performative.--- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/reallifewithray/support

My Cousin Vinny

Dec 22nd, 2023 26m 44s

The story of my Cousin Vinny, guilt, and the power of Prayer and encouragement. Hope this helps someone.--- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/reallifewithray/support

The EX and the Cockroach

Dec 2nd, 2023 13m 15s

I heard a story on X today and realized how the smallest things can be soooooooooooooo HUGE in relationships.--- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/reallifewithray/support

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MEN AND THEIR AUDACITY SERIES DISCLAIMER

Nov 23rd, 2023 4m 41s

Sorry my mistake I need 4 more women willing to tell their stories.--- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/reallifewithray/support

Witchy Poo Boo in the Workplace

Nov 21st, 2023 40m 45s

Witchcraft in the Workplace is REAL and baby I’m ready to tell my story. Don’t yall laugh at my pics either 😂🤣😫--- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/reallifewithray/support

Creating healthy Boundaries

Nov 12th, 2023 26m 2s

This episode is about my personal experience with setting boundaries. Chat with me on X/Twitter @msraybay--- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/reallifewithray/support

A ring, Abuse, and a BABY

Jul 23rd, 2022 25m 34s

Why do MEN feel like a baby and a ring can take away the pain of ABUSE?Let's discuss it --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/reallifewithray/support

Your STORY is not their story

Jun 13th, 2022 25m 19s

I had a wonderful conversation/prayer with my coworkers this morning and wanted to share with you all. What runs in the FAMILY doesn't have to run in YOUR FAMILY.What someone else died from in the FAMILY, doesn't mean you'll die that WAY.You

Every woman has that ONE

May 31st, 2022 20m 36s

Sooo I randomly spoke with a Verizon REP about his marriage *Yes ya'll lol* and it made me think about the actual FACT that every WOMAN has that 1 MAN she wished she had in her life. *(If he's not already there)Let's discuss it--- Support

How I feel about Kevin Samuels

May 27th, 2022 20m 45s

Wait here me out, let's discuss Kevin Samuels? --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/reallifewithray/support

DEMONIC FRIENDS

May 27th, 2022 23m 31s

You ever feel stagnant or like LIFE is not getting any better?Let's discuss those "FRIENDS" that's around you?Are those Friends assigned to ruin you or to assist you? --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/reall

Stop talking to people who don't care

Mar 22nd, 2022 15m 30s

We grow up thinking we need certain people but sometimes GOD will bring in divine relationships that's bigger & better and that's what you need to focus on. --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/reallifewithray/s

What's for you is not for everybody else

Dec 16th, 2021 22m 28s

Just like that 1 day I decided to stop trying to save other people and focus on my own destiny.Let's Discuss it--- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/reallifewithray/support

Leave the TOXIC Relationships alone

Dec 14th, 2021 33m 7s

Is RATCHET the new Marriage and Relationship Goal?Is disrespecting our spouses, cursing them out, blasting them on social media the new thing now?Are we making this a trend? Let's Discuss --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.s

Rejection is a beast

Dec 11th, 2021 29m 2s

How do you still LOVE when you don't always feel the love back?Let's discuss it--- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/reallifewithray/support

More NOTEBOOK and less PLAYAS CLUB

Dec 11th, 2021 17m 35s

Is LUST ruining dating?Are we doomed if we're not already married?Let's Discuss--- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/reallifewithray/support

The Brown Sugar Effect

Dec 8th, 2021 24m 9s

Can single women cross the line as platonic friends?Let's discuss it --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/reallifewithray/support

Losing My DAD

Dec 8th, 2021 33m 47s

I lost my Dad this year and I wanted to share the journey I started and what I'm doing to heal and grow through this very shocking situation.Hope I can help someone with my story RIP Ray aka Dad--- Support this podcast: https://podcasters

That BAD COMPANY Tho

Dec 8th, 2021 23m 41s

Is your Stagnation tied to the company you keep?Let's discuss it!!--- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/reallifewithray/support

How I feel about TIP and TINY Allegations

Jan 29th, 2021 16m 11s

Why are we victim blaming?Why do victims have to have a time LIMIT on when they expose their TRAUMA and PAIN?I am so bothered by the allegations but I am even more bothered by the people that are disrespecting the victims...--- Support

Should it take being SCANDALOUS to keep a MAN? *DO BETTER*

Nov 30th, 2020 25m 56s

I saw a series of tweets and I had to make an episode speaking on this....HOW far should a WOMAN go to keep a MAN and who is truly suffering in the situation?Should a CHILD go through HELL for your HAPPINESS?--- Support this podcast: htt

LEAVING FLORENCE, LIVING IN TEXAS, AND WHY I'LL NEVER GO BACK......

Nov 28th, 2020 28m 37s

I'm SURE IN THE COOLEST PLACES IN THE WORLD IT'S SOMEONE WHO HATES LIVING THERE, AND WELL THIS IS A LITTLE BIT OF MY STORY AND WHY I LEFT SC AND WHY I'LL NEVER EVER GO BACK.SCRIPTURE REFERENCE USED: LUKE: 16-30--- Support this podcast: ht

SEIZURES, BAD FRIENDSHIPS, AND BAD VIBES

Nov 27th, 2020 30m 8s

THE FRIENDSHIP THAT BROUGHT ON STRANGE ISSUES....IS YOUR "FRIENDS" AND EVEN BAD "FAMILY MEMBERS" STOPPING YOUR LIFE PROGRESS?--- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/reallifewithray/support

WHY I’m comfortable being SINGLE

Nov 27th, 2020 18m 11s

I realized from my last abusive relationship that I did some abusing myself. I want a GREAT MAN and an even better husband but I want to be the WOMAN GOD wants me to be for him.TAKE A LISTEN.......--- Support this podcast: https://podcast