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What's up y'all it's your girl Lex P. And

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it's your girl Dre and Nicole. And

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you are tuned in to another episode

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of Poor Minds. Where I drunk my

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ice beaks sober thot. We got a

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guest today. We got a

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guest today. I'm a guest

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today. It's my

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weekend. Y'all I'm sorry to buy

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you with the girls come through. Because we about to

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have girl talk today. Yes. So if you've been living

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under a rock and you're not on TikTok then you

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wouldn't know who she is. But everybody on TikTok and

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everybody know who she is. We got queen, Leora in

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the building. Ah.

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What it do bitches. Yay. Y'all

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so excited to have you. I know.

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You look so pretty. Hair

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laid but we already knew this.

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Y'all hair is laid. Make up

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on point. Thank you. Beat, beat,

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greet. You say the beat is.

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Beat, beat, real, greet. OK.

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So we're going to start

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from the beginning. Because I

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feel like TikTok is still new

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to me. It's not something that's been

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around just like the beginning of time.

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So when you first got

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on TikTok, did you have a presence on

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another social media app like before TikTok? No.

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OK, but you know how like in your

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city you might have a little motion. Yeah.

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You know, people like your pictures. So you're

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kind of known. So that's what I had.

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Like I was like a popular girl. OK.

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So when I went to TikTok and it

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blew up, a lot of people was kind

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of like your mouth is foul. That's never

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going to go anywhere. You're

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so pretty. Why do you talk like that?

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So TikTok really like blew every

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other platform up for me. Yeah. Yeah,

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a lot of outside people. people came in and

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started being like, hold on, who is this? Cause

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your hometown, they don't necessarily support you.

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Other people support you. We

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know all about that. I've had all the time cause

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we from Houston. Well, I'm from Houston. She from orange,

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but she damn near from Houston. But

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it's the same thing. Like people don't really support

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you until you start getting the support of everybody

2:19

else. Right. And then it was kind of like,

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oh shit, I been fucking with you.

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I fought with you. I fought with you. Now,

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why you might come get your head on a

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house? And let's talk

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about the influence. Yeah. Cause I feel like

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when you started doing your voiceovers the way

2:34

that you did them, a lot of other

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people started doing them the same way. So

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it's interesting that people were telling you it

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wasn't going to go. But I don't like

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to be like, that's not shit. I started

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cursing. You feel me? Because at the end

2:47

of the day, that's the line talk. Yeah.

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Like growing up, it was a lot of

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raunchy talk in the salon and

2:54

bitches really running their mouth, but that

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doesn't leave the salon door. Right. So

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when I posted on TikTok, it was like, Oh, I love that.

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Like I love going to stylists that speak their mind

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and it just let people feel comfortable to use the

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platform. So I hate being like, Oh, you all have

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started that shit. Right. Cause bitches

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been talking shit. That's true. Yeah. I

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be humble though. I be humble. Cause my

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folks be like, we are a fuck. No, no, that bitch

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out just like. Uh-huh. I just seen

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a few voiceovers. Why be like, come

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on. I don't block a couple of

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bitches now. Yeah. From like stealing stuff.

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Yeah. I don't block a couple of

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bitches. That's so like, okay. Like if somebody inspired

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you, that's a little different, you know,

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but versus like somebody straight up stealing

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your jokes, talking like

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you're cadence. Yeah. Filling everything.

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Yeah. I just block people like that.

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Yeah. And I just let them let their minds wonder.

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Right. But, you know, we talk

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shit. Yeah. And I also think

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TikTok can kind of get a little weird too

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because I always see like people take somebody's whole

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video and they're just kind of

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like breaking down their, yeah, sticking their video

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and talking about it. And that's how they

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literally have their followers. So that's why it's

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like. It's hard for us to do

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TikTok because like, I don't really get into

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that. I like original content. It's a lot

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of original creators on there, but it's a

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lot of people kind of just stitching, copying

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things and stuff like that. You know what

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I feel like TikTok is, you have

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to hop on your moment. So like

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when the girl Carly went missing.

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Yes. My raw emotion was

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to make a video. Okay. Like so raw

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emotion, don't care if you get like, this

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is how I truly feel. That's

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when it goes viral. Right. I tell

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people be stitching videos cause that's how they truly

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feel, you know, and they just never expect it

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to blow up. Right. Okay. So that's

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why I tell people, when you want to like make

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your online and TikTok, do what the fuck you want

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to do. Right. Cause people

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just want to see what they can't do.

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Right. And I'm talking a

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lot of the girls be fighting down on

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TikTok. They be arguing. You be arguing people

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on TikTok. No, I don't,

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I'll, I'll speak my piece. I'll

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talk my shit. Yeah. But I

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feel like when it comes to writing paragraphs, and

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going back and forth, baby, I'm never going to fucking see you.

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I'm going to fucking know you. But

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do y'all remember that girl that was

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like basically talking about how like white

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influencers and they do all this stuff

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and it's like, I just felt like

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everybody was kind of dog-powling on her.

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So that's my thing. I feel like sometimes when one

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person says something wrong, TikTok is brutal. Oh,

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it is. TikTok is the

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show. They're very, very, like I thought Twitter

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was bad, but them TikTok streets. I don't

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know. I think Twitter still works.

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You think Twitter is worse? Oh yeah, Twitter

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is worse for shows. Twitter is worse. Maybe

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it's because I'm an old- I feel like things don't live

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long on TikTok. Twitter, as they do

5:37

on Twitter. People go far on Twitter. Like,

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see how, sometimes you can still get potentially

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banned for hate comments. Yeah, that is. Twitter,

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you can say whatever the fuck you want. Right. Like,

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you can say anything. Then ain't nobody going to say

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shit. No, that's it. It's not going

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to be reported. So talk about your background

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and like doing hair and how that came along

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too. Okay, boom. So I

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knew that I wanted to have my own song. But

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I didn't want to go- going to the salon as

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an owner who didn't know anything about hair.

6:03

Right. Because I felt like a lot of

6:05

shit be going over their head. So I

6:07

was attending Clark Atlanta University and I had

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an epiphany. Bitches are walking around here with

6:11

Gucci, Louis and motherfucking Prada. Like, what do

6:13

y'all do? Right. And they're like, Oh, we do

6:15

hair. We do lashes. We do makeup. So

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I felt like school was in my lane. I

6:19

literally woke up right before I was supposed to

6:22

go home for winter break. I didn't call my

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mama. I didn't tell nobody. I picked up my

6:26

whole entire dorm. It was a snowstorm

6:28

in Atlanta that day. And the security

6:30

guard wouldn't even let me pull my car up to

6:32

the front door of the dorm. And

6:34

at that moment, I knew this is what I'm supposed

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to be doing. Because I'm

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like, it wouldn't be this hard if it was going

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out. Right. Back here, all my stuff to

6:43

my car in the snow, drove home in the snow. And

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my mama like, why the fuck is all your stuff in

6:47

the snow? Like, what are you doing? What are you doing?

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I'm like, I want to do hair. She's like, well, you

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got two weeks to enroll in the school or get

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a job. Like, I'm not playing with you. So

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I was enrolled in school within like the next

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day, baby. So could you do hair a little

7:00

bit though? Like you used to. So I really

7:02

was like a natural hairstylist at first. I was

7:04

doing silk dresses for $25. I

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don't know that's right. As soon as I got out of college, college

7:09

school, bitches was lined the fuck up at my

7:11

house. So then I started doing color. So I

7:13

was like a natural style. So

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I wanted to sell hair. Okay. I

7:18

was fucking with this little nigga. Okay. He

7:21

went to jail. He went

7:23

to jail, bitch. I'm scamming. I'm selling drugs.

7:25

I'm doing this. No, she was in the

7:27

street. Oh, bitch. I was in the street.

7:30

I'm pulling up the people houses, bitch. We

7:33

zip. Hey, what is an

7:35

egg? If

7:37

you know, you know, if you know,

7:40

you know, so I'm pulling up. You

7:42

see me? So I'm just like, this

7:44

is not the life for me. Right. The

7:47

trap money I transferred into

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selling weed and then boom,

7:51

Corona. Yeah. So

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girls were like, can you just throw the wig on

7:56

for me? Like, I don't care if you could do

7:58

here or not, baby. I want that. We. can you

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do it? People not going to the salons, no

8:02

more everything was done. So

8:04

I said, you know what, add an extra hundred

8:06

on and I'll put it on your damn head.

8:08

It's literally how I started knowing. That is crazy.

8:11

When I tell you there's so many COVID

8:13

stories, COVID did it. How did people start

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to say business? I'm telling you, like COVID

8:17

was such a, it was a horrible thing,

8:20

rest in peace to everybody who lost their

8:22

life, but a lot of people started a

8:24

new life. They put you in rhyme

8:26

mode. It definitely had a lot of choice. Because nobody

8:28

was working, people weren't working anymore. Money

8:31

wasn't coming in like that. So it made people

8:33

start getting creative. Okay, what's a skill that I

8:35

have? What's something that I could potentially be good

8:37

at? Let me try that out. Baby, Walmart clothes.

8:39

Like what the fuck are we supposed to do?

8:42

That was something that's to say to fucking sign.

8:44

That bitch still not 24 seven. Right?

8:47

The mall still open up that. The

8:49

mall still closed early. That's what they

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say. COVID did a lot of permanent

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things. Permanent damage, yes. They made some

8:56

hustlers, baby. Yeah. That's how I started

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selling hair and doing hair. But

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throughout that time I was in college and college

9:03

school. I did acquire my license. Okay, so that's

9:05

a lot of things I think people are missing

9:07

too. Because a lot of y'all be wanting to

9:09

charge your arm in the foot. But you

9:11

don't have the freedom to do school. No, you're

9:13

not even licensed. That was the

9:15

hardest part for me to sit down. But I said,

9:17

Leeora, do it now. So when you

9:20

have your salon, you can tell your girls, I went

9:22

to college and college and school. I did this and

9:24

that. I know how you feel. I just wanted to

9:26

relate. Your son said, I just needed to plap. Yeah.

9:30

Right. But you know what to do.

9:32

You do everything. So how did you,

9:34

okay, so you don't do hair anymore. So

9:38

how did you transition from doing hair

9:40

to now being a hair influencer? So

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I got my own salon suite. Ooh,

9:46

well I was working in the salon at first. Rest

9:49

in peace to the owner. That was a lot.

9:51

That was a lot. My homeboy got killed

9:53

in front of the salon. Wait, wait, wait,

9:55

wait, wait. Not the death trap. Okay, let's see.

9:57

We can talk here. We can talk here, right?

10:00

Okay, boom, boom. So

10:02

I just graduated cosmetology school. This girl had

10:04

hit me up. Like I know somebody who has

10:06

a salon and they'll let you work in there

10:09

with your temp license. You have to get your

10:11

real license, you could stay permanently. Oh,

10:14

so I get there. The first red flag

10:16

was I had my own personal crack head.

10:20

Literally. I

10:22

had my own personal runner. Like literally. You want him

10:25

to paint the walls? You want him to go get

10:27

you some food? You want him to wash your car?

10:29

He got you anything you need, he got you. So

10:31

that was the first one. That sound like the business.

10:33

Then I found out the owner was addicted to

10:35

drugs as well. He like a little

10:37

pearl. It was, no, it was like a little heroin. Oh,

10:40

okay. I feel it over there. It was

10:42

some drugs. It was real good. Like white

10:44

bitches knocking at my door late at night, talking

10:46

about some, do you have any cleaning supplies that he

10:48

left for me? No. I

10:51

promise. Bitch ain't seen

10:53

Clorox in years. Bitch ain't seen Clorox

10:55

in years. They

10:57

say mean bitches be sweating on their lips.

10:59

I'm a weed. Now, this is hot up

11:02

in here. This

11:04

is a little light. It's that song, hooli-ho. Listen to

11:06

this little drink, baby. And

11:08

it's a drink I told you. It's hot in

11:10

place. No, you good. Okay.

11:13

But yeah, he came to the

11:15

door. He was addicted to drugs. He

11:18

ended up going to rehab and a girl pulled

11:20

up at my salon and was like the lights

11:22

are off. I was paying him. He

11:24

was not paying the bills. He was getting

11:26

drugs and he was in rehab. Oh

11:28

my God. I moved out, got my shit.

11:31

He had my ring light in his office and

11:33

everything doing what he was doing. It was a

11:35

lot. Oh my God. And then once I moved

11:37

out, my homeboy got killed. Oh. But

11:40

wait, but the owner still lost? Oh, he

11:42

did. He overdosed? Yeah. Damn, that

11:44

hair wrong. He overdosed. Dang, that hair wrong. Well,

11:46

no. I think he got hit by a

11:48

fucking train. I'm not, hold

11:51

on, hold on. Hold on, I might have to call

11:53

and fact check on that shit. Yeah. I

11:55

ain't gonna lie. It was a train.

11:57

If anybody get hit by the train though, you're probably

11:59

on. wrong. Bleep, bleep to see that. But

12:02

ain't know who the fuck I was talking

12:04

about. No, he really for real got hit

12:06

by a train. I thought real talk. Oh

12:08

my god. I beat him. He was a

12:10

good man. That's what them girls do. We

12:13

not laughing. Y'all know y'all folks did drool.

12:15

Yeah, like you and you wrong and I would

12:17

have been mad at my homegirl. Cause why you

12:19

told me to work up here bit? It was

12:21

more so like, I felt like it built my

12:24

character. Okay. You got on there. But I'm not

12:26

gonna lie. I like having a crackhead of

12:28

this thing. Yeah. He was going

12:30

to do whatever. Okay. He was

12:32

going to do whatever crack rock

12:34

period. The problem was y'all going in

12:37

the back of the salon doing a crack. Yeah. You,

12:39

you can't be doing crack in the

12:41

vicinity. Go do that at home. Right. Yeah.

12:43

And they say crack smell like you smelly.

12:45

It's very, very smell crack before. I feel

12:48

like I smelled it on somebody before. I don't

12:50

think I've ever smelled it. Like I've never been in

12:52

a vicinity where somebody was doing it, but I feel

12:54

like I, it had that smell.

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You know what crack smell like? Somebody sent on

13:02

Tik TOK. They was like, hood people smell a

13:04

certain type of way. Get them. Oh, you

13:06

think you think it's crack. Oh my God.

13:08

And I ain't gon' count.

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Like honestly, it do be giving like,

13:13

you know, when I go over my hood bitches house

13:15

to give a little cigarette, little Pepsi in the

13:17

air, but it ain't really cigarettes. It's really crack.

13:19

I don't think I've

13:22

ever smelled crack. No, you probably

13:24

smelled it. You didn't know what

13:26

it smell like. Yeah. Now I

13:28

want to go smell some crack.

13:30

Like, like downtown Atlanta. I didn't

13:34

know what crack smell like. We know

13:36

what crack smell like. Ain't it a

13:38

Ruth Chris? Just go to their Ruth

13:40

Chris downtown. You gon' smell it. Not the Ruth

13:42

Chris. I been to their Ruth Chris. Girl, baby,

13:45

everybody be outside everywhere downtown. Smoking

13:47

crack. Yeah. Smoking.

13:49

You'll be surprised to smoke crack. You

13:52

know what? I agree now. I agree

13:54

with that. That's why Whitney used to get so with

13:56

me and be with Sadie. Hey, hey, hey, hey, hey.

13:58

Not too much on my own. No, that's why she used to get so much. That's my

14:00

mom's sister too. Yes, I

14:02

love me some wit. She never

14:04

did. Crack is wack and crack is cheap. But that's why

14:06

I'm saying it's why she get you. So you're the fit.

14:09

She was like, baby, I do coke. Period. Whitney,

14:11

the one who told me the difference between crack

14:13

and coke. Me too. I didn't

14:15

know. I didn't know. The cure is crack and

14:17

cheap. That's what I'm

14:19

saying. Don't put her in that category. Rest

14:22

in peace to our queen. Okay, so talk

14:24

about the transition from that to getting your

14:27

own place. Did you, you got your own place. So after

14:29

that, I was like, fuck that. I'm gonna go back to

14:31

my mama's house. Back in the bathroom. Yeah.

14:34

So I decided I did want a suite.

14:37

So that's when we went over there. That's when

14:39

we started making TikTok. Okay.

14:41

And that's when it blew up. Okay. So

14:44

once that happened, a lot of girls

14:46

started booking one-on-one classes. So

14:48

I would. That's when they be charging like $1,000 or something.

14:51

Oh baby, one thing about me, I know how to get them

14:53

boo. Man, it was $550, baby. Come

14:56

on. $550 cash, go and pull up.

14:58

You and your model and you're gonna feel at

15:00

home. Once they started doing that, I

15:02

was booked up with so many classes. I'm like, oh

15:05

my goodness. I don't want to do hair

15:07

no more. Right. Because it's

15:09

easier and it's like, you don't got to deal with

15:12

people so much and be like, oh, I don't like

15:14

my hair. Right. This and

15:16

that. Because that, Silas really don't talk

15:18

about how we get mentally abused. Like

15:20

real talk. People don't care if you eat,

15:23

people don't care if you go out. People don't care if

15:25

you have like a personal life. It's

15:27

all about them and their hair. Which is cool. Which is

15:30

cool. You're paying for a service, but it's like, we're still

15:32

human and people make mistakes. Yeah. So like

15:34

I said, not to interrupt you, but I do see a lot

15:36

of videos. We might, I hate my hair. I hate my hair.

15:38

And it's like y'all be dragging people. It goes viral. It's like,

15:40

damn, like you should have told her that before you left. Have

15:42

you ever had a situation like that where you got into a

15:44

little with somebody? Cause they was like, I don't like my hair.

15:47

I'm not paying you. Yeah.

15:49

Okay. So I got in two

15:52

different situations. One situation, a

15:55

girl came, she got her hair done. She's four up

15:57

and down. She loved it. She came for the re-foot.

16:00

And I had somebody waiting, so this is like

16:02

an audience bitch you trying to show out. Yeah.

16:04

So she was like, I just really didn't

16:06

like my hair the first time. I don't

16:08

know what's going on with this. This wasn't

16:11

plucked correctly. This wasn't done. The bitch just

16:13

had a lick. Yeah. But mind

16:15

you, her little muffin cap is peeled back.

16:17

I'm applying some new glue. Yeah. So I'm

16:20

like, Do you,

16:22

are you fucking okay? Right. I said bitch if you didn't like

16:24

it, you shouldn't have paid her. You shouldn't have came to fall

16:26

back. I'm not redoing it. Why would you come back? I said

16:28

I'm not redoing this shit. And I said, you getting a little disrespectful bitch. And

16:30

there's people in here. I'm finna get a berry. And she's like,

16:32

She's like, No, I

16:34

just feel like it should look the same way. Guess what I

16:36

did? I left that bitch with her wig peeled back. I said

16:38

get the fuck out of my seat. That's what I would have did

16:40

too, my bitch. Because, how you

16:42

about talking about somebody that's doing your hair? That's what I'm going

16:44

to do. That's what I'm going to do. But if you

16:47

see me, I'd be scared. No, she wouldn't. I would have been

16:49

like, okay. You would have did it. The thing about it

16:51

is, I was just taking a whole song. It's just

16:53

like if I came here. Yeah. You know

16:55

what I'm saying? I'm like, oh, I don't like this. I

16:57

don't like that. Yeah. Okay. This

17:00

is what I do. Yeah. Right.

17:03

This is my craft. It's kind of like, you

17:05

know what? If you don't like it, I got

17:07

something better for you, baby. Get the hell out. No, I'm

17:09

not going to lie. Somebody walks in here and be like, oh

17:11

my God, get the fuck out, bitch. Because you work for this

17:13

dude. Yeah. So that does make sense when you put it

17:15

that way. I agree.

17:18

It's like, absolutely nah. You not about to be talking to me

17:20

crazy and my shit. Get

17:22

the fuck out. Then we had this one, bitch. I'm not even sad,

17:24

mama. I really don't give a fuck. Ooh, I like her

17:26

already. She came in there. Yeah. Her name was sad

17:28

mama. That

17:31

mama know she was wrong as fuck. That's my mama, then.

17:33

We used to go to school together back in the G.

17:35

I guess he already was hating. No,

17:37

not necessarily a hate. She probably felt

17:39

comfortable. Okay. That might be a different.

17:41

Okay. But, ooh, sad mama the poor adult with

17:44

her whole family, her kids, her brother. Mind

17:46

you, I'm still doing hair at my mama's

17:48

house. Right. You got your mama's

17:50

house. Yeah. So you got your brother in here with my fucking

17:52

mama making them like, what the fuck? Okay,

17:55

cool. So, the kids in the

17:57

back. The kids in the back. This bitch

17:59

ass. asked me, can I light a cigarette in here?

18:02

Bitch, what? Okay. Do

18:04

it like we supposed to cigarette there. So that was the first

18:06

red flag. She left, next

18:08

day she called the wig and

18:10

came up. Big mess up, come on

18:12

back. She comes back, she takes me

18:15

again. And she's like, hey, it's still

18:17

coming up. You know what? Come

18:19

get your money back. What are you doing?

18:21

Well, look, look, it's fine, babe. I've

18:23

never been hard on the court. Right. You

18:26

can have that back and you can go to somebody who

18:28

pleases you. That mama was doing something.

18:30

Oh, this, this not it. Oh,

18:32

this not it. That mama came and got

18:34

her money. That was it. A

18:36

month later, somebody gets to blow

18:38

on my phone. Blowing, blowing, blowing it up.

18:41

I'm like, hold on, I recognize this number. I'm

18:43

not answering though, cause I'm doing hair. Right, right.

18:46

My doorbell ring. So

18:50

I'm on the phone, I'm like, bro, what the

18:52

fuck, huh? I said, I know this not this bitch

18:54

at my dump. This can't be, I must've got a

18:56

motherfucker personal letter or something that I gotta say. Right.

19:01

What's that mama that? I

19:03

mean, her kid is real B. Okay. Like

19:05

she was like a size H in eighth grade. Okay. But she's

19:07

really, that's why I call her that mama. Okay, boom. So

19:10

I'm like, who died? That's literally what I said when I

19:12

opened it up. Who died, bitch? Cause this should be no reason

19:14

you should be pulling up to my mama crib like this. She

19:17

like, I took the wig to multiple

19:19

people. They said they cannot install it

19:21

because they had been previously installed. I'm

19:24

like, what the fuck does that have to do with me? She

19:26

like, well, I just brought it back to you because

19:28

you're the one who originally installed it. We're

19:31

gonna cut this right here. I'm not at a salon. Right.

19:34

I'm not at a place of business where you would just pull up

19:36

the sign that's open and you're welcome to come in. Right. This

19:39

is where my mom lays her head. You don't just pull up

19:41

here. Yeah. I didn't give you my address

19:43

for that. So me and her get into it. Mind

19:45

you, I still got a bitch in the house under the dry.

19:47

I'm on the front step. So

19:50

I'm just like, look, what are we getting into? Right. Nothing,

19:52

I gotta go. So she leaves,

19:54

she crying, she called my phone. You train me

19:57

like a, oh, and I don't like that. That

20:01

momma reverse out that driveway baby. Come

20:03

on, that momma. Go on, that momma.

20:05

That was that momma. But listen, I have no ill

20:07

wheels towards that momma. Okay,

20:10

that momma. We was in choir class in eighth grade.

20:12

I never thought we would see him. That momma can see?

20:14

No, fuck no. We thought it must have seen. It

20:16

was an elective. I'm like,

20:19

you know you bond with people.

20:21

You know. You bonded and

20:23

like, nobody wanna be there. We all here.

20:26

That was a rough momma for that momma.

20:28

I ain't had no kids then. That

20:30

momma had kids. I would be on edge too.

20:32

I get it. So that's what, did something specific

20:34

happen where you was like, okay, I can't do

20:36

hair in my momma's house no more. Like when it

20:38

was like, it was like, so nothing

20:41

specific happened. It was just like, you started making a

20:43

lot more money. No, just because like,

20:45

I feel like I'm a very, people,

20:49

I'm a girl's girl. So

20:51

it's like, I'm not gonna disrespect you unless you disrespect

20:53

me. Even when that momma was at my front door,

20:55

it wasn't like, bitch, get out of my step. So

20:58

what are we gonna do? Right. How

21:00

are we gonna move forward? So nobody ever came at

21:03

me like disrespecting people. Cause

21:05

I come at people with respect. A

21:08

lot of people was like, how you wanna invite people to your

21:10

momma's house? I can never, but when you

21:12

know how to talk to people. Right. And

21:14

handle them. Right. When you're talking to people crazy,

21:16

you kind of moving crazy. That's when it's like, you can't be

21:19

doing the stuff you do and pulling up. It's like,

21:21

you seem like you have a good heart and you're

21:23

always pure. Always pure, like

21:25

girl, come get your hair done. Right, right, right. So

21:28

before we move on, cause Ty, I'm gonna need another

21:30

one. Me, me, me. I'm gonna hold up with my

21:32

little drink. What's wrong with y'all? I'll be drinking. Today.

21:34

I keep spilling it on my fucking head. So

21:38

this one is called the Queendom Con. And this

21:41

is especially for you, boo. This

21:43

one has some red low tequila. We

21:45

have some muddled cucumber and mint. We

21:47

have some agave, some watermelon juice. And

21:49

then we topped it with a little

21:51

bit of some sparkling rosé. Just

21:53

to give it a little feel, a little

21:55

sparkle. And then we've garnished it with a

21:57

beautiful cucumber ribbon. We'll

22:00

call it a cucumber ribbon and then some fresh mint.

22:02

So this is the Queendom Cump. And it

22:05

is here. It is really good. Well, I love

22:07

black people who make liquor. My granddaddy used to

22:09

make liquor. What kind of he used

22:11

to make? Moonshine. Okay. I like

22:13

your moonshine though. That's the most

22:15

strong. You're cooked. My

22:18

granddaddy owed us fuck. So you know

22:20

what he's doing? You know my dad owed us fuck. He had

22:22

me like 50. Really? Okay.

22:25

I know that's right. Niggas be having babies

22:27

in like 50s. Forever. Did

22:30

Robert De Niro just have another baby? And he's like

22:32

84 or something. And

22:34

saw the Al Pacino. And he owed too.

22:37

That's a little fucking crazy. It

22:39

is a little crazy. I feel like there comes

22:41

that age where it's like, okay, now you tripping.

22:44

80, you was not finna see that baby turn 81. You're

22:46

for a short, do you have children? No, not

22:49

yet. Okay. The thing about that is you

22:51

have to be very active. However

22:53

you act with your child really determines

22:55

their fucking future. Yeah. You're 80. What

22:57

the fuck are we doing? But

22:59

I don't think that's crazy. That's a woman. You do fucking.

23:02

Having a baby with an 80 year old is crazy. Cause

23:04

you gotta change your nigga diaper and your baby diaper.

23:06

Right. Not doing that. Right.

23:09

Not changing both. I don't

23:11

got time for that. Not doing that. That's some

23:13

strong that though. That is

23:15

a problem. That's what's crazy about it.

23:17

The crazy thing is one of my

23:19

elementary school best friends, her granny had

23:22

a brother that was like younger than us.

23:24

We was like 14. And

23:26

her granny had a brother that

23:29

was like. That's wild as fuck. That's

23:31

how you're like, I don't know. When I'm 80, I

23:33

don't want to still be like being

23:35

horny and stuff. Like I want to be old and

23:37

chilling. Oh, I don't know. I think I want to be fucking

23:40

dick at 80. I'm not sucking dick at

23:42

80 bro. I'm not doing it. I'm not gonna be sucking

23:44

dick, but I think I'm gonna still be having sex. At

23:47

80? Yeah. You don't have nothing but powder coming

23:49

out that pussy. That's all right. That's what they got.

23:51

That's what they got. They came out of the jilly store.

23:53

Girl. You ain't even gonna be able

23:55

to open it. Your hips

23:57

are gonna crack. That's what I'm saying. Don't

24:00

open them bitches. Like we fucking

24:02

chilling. Just enjoying the fruits of our

24:04

labor. It's one of our children's. Yes.

24:07

Children's. Yes. Nacili ora, lick the

24:09

most horny person on the couch.

24:12

And. Hold on. Uh-uh. Uh-uh.

24:15

You almost got it. You almost got it.

24:17

Oh, no. OK. Not

24:20

the tomato. Hold on. What's

24:22

y'all saying? I'm a Leo. I'm a Virgo.

24:24

Ooh, I know you horny. Of course. Yeah.

24:27

I'm a boho. I love horny though. I

24:31

know. I love it so much. What you about that? April 22nd.

24:33

OK. My baby April 14th. Almost. Oh,

24:36

he an Aries. I was almost Aries though. Because

24:38

like I think Aries season end on like the

24:40

20s. So I'm like one of the cousins.

24:42

So you be having a couple Aries. I think

24:44

I have both. Yeah. So I know Leo's real

24:46

freaky. I do be a little. They

24:48

are. They real freaky. That's why I don't believe. Because

24:51

I'm a sheen not going to be fucking almost. I

24:53

mean, I'm very. I'm already halfway there, bitch. I mean,

24:55

if we getting pounded out every fucking day by 80,

24:57

by 80, I'm good. I'm

25:02

going to be fired. OK. So speaking

25:04

of your baby. Yeah. I'm

25:06

freaking out my baby. Let's get it to

25:08

her. Come on. Like I said. I

25:10

got that ranking man. And one thing about me,

25:12

like I said, baby, I be watching your TikToks

25:15

and you be cracking me up. I don't even

25:17

think I found out about you from TikTok first.

25:19

Because we just now started kind of getting active

25:21

on TikTok. Yeah. Our page and

25:24

stuff. But I used to always see your

25:26

posts on Twitter. And my best friend that

25:28

lived in Houston, she used to love your

25:30

voiceover. So she would always be feeding me

25:32

to me. But I'm like, this girl

25:34

is hilarious. You, the

25:37

first time that I wanted to talk

25:39

about is not getting along with your significant

25:41

other family. Because the way you be going

25:43

in on your baby daddy mama, be

25:46

having me weak is fuzz. I'm

25:48

laughing, drinking a lot. It

25:51

be so bad. She be calling that lady ball-headed. OK,

25:53

listen. Let me just put it out like this.

25:55

OK. Shoddy not ball-headed. She has a

25:57

pixie cut. OK. blonde

26:00

one. Okay. All right. So she has a piece

26:02

of clay. She can grow hair. She's not fucking

26:04

body. I just don't like

26:06

her. She don't like me. So this is

26:08

real beef. It's real serious. I

26:11

can tell by the voice. She don't like me. I

26:16

don't like her. So how did that come about? Cause

26:18

you and your baby daddy, when y'all first met, was

26:20

it kind of like y'all were really dating? Was it

26:22

like a hookup situation? What happened? Okay. So boom. I

26:25

met my child's father when I first

26:27

met him or whatever. I literally met

26:30

his mom like within the first fucking

26:32

week. Oh, that's not that nice. Feel me

26:34

like she was, it is, she was, he

26:36

ain't even get it yet. And I was

26:38

meeting the mom. She frying pork chops. You

26:41

feel me? Like at three in the morning.

26:43

No, she real crazy. She's really

26:45

crazy. That's what people really need to fucking know. Right.

26:47

So as soon as I walked up to her, she's

26:49

like, no, who the fuck is you? You

26:51

feel me? And I'm just like, Hey, I'm here. You know,

26:54

she's like, who the fuck are you with your titties up to your chin?

26:56

You know, coming in here for my

26:59

son. Okay. So then from there, we

27:01

honestly became best fucking friends. Oh, so

27:03

y'all was home. Oh, we were the best

27:05

fucking friends. You know, she was my manager

27:07

for a point in time. Oh, wow. We

27:09

were traveling together. Like this is my girl.

27:12

We don't even sleep in the same bed

27:14

together. Like we locked in, locked in. But

27:17

you know, people usually go for who

27:19

their parents kind of act

27:21

like or you get what I'm saying?

27:23

So me and her actually act alike.

27:25

Y'all have a very loud. She never

27:27

holds her opinion back. She says whatever.

27:31

So we did fall out

27:33

over some business troubles. And

27:36

when I got pregnant, she

27:38

never reached out to me. I never talked to

27:40

her. First time I ever saw her

27:42

was in my general review. And she was

27:44

just more so on some like, oh, I thought the

27:46

baby might die. So oh,

27:49

I don't know. Why would she say that?

27:51

You know, people be trying to paint me

27:53

as the bad guy. Right. But people really

27:55

be going crazy. But, you know, she was like,

27:58

oh, I thought the baby might die. So, you know. We

28:00

don't congratulate people until they have them.

28:03

Oh my God. But honestly, all jokes aside

28:05

though, wouldn't that hurt your feelings? Cause

28:07

you kind of maybe looked at her like a

28:09

second mom, a bonus mom. Yeah. It kind of

28:12

was just like, what? You

28:14

know, they weren't a part of my pregnancy

28:16

at all. I feel like it was over

28:19

past issues, but they say they

28:21

don't celebrate pregnancy or whatever. But

28:24

regardless of that, me and my child's father, he was

28:26

there for me like every step of the way during

28:28

my pregnancy. And

28:31

then I had my child. They never came

28:33

to see my child. I

28:36

think the first time she saw my baby, my

28:38

baby was probably like eight months. Really? Yeah. She

28:40

came to the hospital. The first day I had

28:42

my son and she told me, she don't hold

28:45

children. She

28:48

don't hold children cause they

28:50

spoil them. I am weak,

28:52

but then she eventually held them, you know? So

28:55

it's just a lot of picking.

28:57

Yeah. Yeah. And then things went further

28:59

and oh, my, oh, your baby got

29:01

to call me auntie. Oh,

29:03

baby. You know what? This is what I was going to ask you. I

29:06

don't mean to interrupt you. But let me

29:08

ask you this. Was she a young mom?

29:10

Yeah. That's the vibes it was giving

29:12

me whenever you said y'all was, you know, sleeping in the

29:14

same bed and having fun and turning up and

29:16

working together because not saying anything is

29:18

wrong with that, but she was having

29:20

fun with you. And she was like

29:23

more so like, this is my

29:25

friend versus somebody like, this is somebody that my

29:27

son is dating. And kind of like

29:29

a daughter-in-law type of, this is not my fear. That's

29:31

why I want to make it clear. I'm

29:34

not disrespecting her as his

29:37

mother. Right. I'm disrespecting her

29:39

as another mother.

29:41

Right. How could you act like

29:44

that towards me and my son?

29:46

And you have children. Right. Right.

29:48

You've told me like we've talked

29:51

and we've talked about stories where

29:53

she's been disregarded from her child,

29:55

father's family, you know? So

29:58

it's kind of like a cycle. she's

30:00

repeating. But I always

30:02

tell him, it's no disrespect to

30:04

you. You feel

30:06

me? I tried with your family. I

30:08

tried to love them. At this point,

30:10

it's more so of, we just don't

30:12

like each other. Right. It is

30:14

what it is. Now, sometimes I do take it far.

30:17

Because I be like, you won't take time.

30:19

I do take it far. Calling me bald.

30:22

But if people knew her, if people

30:24

knew her, she's a jokester. Okay. She

30:27

talks about people left and right. She's

30:29

just like me. Yeah. So it's just,

30:31

I have a platform. Yeah. But,

30:35

so how is it now when y'all see each other?

30:38

Yeah, does it affect the relationship? Like, has it affected

30:40

you feel like the relationship that you have with your

30:42

child's father? I'm like, what am I gonna see out

30:44

there? If I see her, she might try to beat

30:46

my ass, back my hand plan. I ain't gonna lie,

30:49

I had to get out there with you. I'm not

30:51

the outside. I'm bald, bitch, remember? But look, look, look,

30:53

look, look, look, look, I mean, hey, I'm not mad

30:55

at that. It's not like I put shit out

30:57

and don't expect people to have a reaction. Yeah. Shit,

31:00

I understand what it is. You feel offended? So the fuck did

31:02

I? But it's no reason for us

31:04

to be around each other. You already told me you

31:06

don't really fuck with my son like that, so. And

31:10

so since she said that, do you feel like you're

31:12

always gonna be like, keep that energy? Or if she

31:14

changed her mind, you will be open to letting her

31:16

be in his life. Listen,

31:19

my son is thriving.

31:21

You know, if she wants

31:23

to step in, sure she can. If she

31:25

wants to leave out, sure she can. I'm

31:28

gonna teach my son boundaries.

31:31

Yeah. Okay, so I don't ever

31:34

want to put it in his mind that she's

31:36

a horrible person because he'll see it for himself.

31:38

He gonna call her bald, because he keep hearing

31:41

you call her bald. Listen, he might, he might,

31:43

he might bald, he might grow up

31:45

to love her. You get what I'm

31:47

saying? And that's totally fine. I just

31:50

don't like you. But I

31:52

had to grow into that because there was a

31:54

point where I was like, no, nobody's gonna see

31:56

him. No, no, no, no. Yeah, yeah, yeah. But

31:58

I had to say to myself, if I... trusted

32:00

that man enough to lay down with him and

32:02

have a child with him, then I

32:04

have to trust him enough, you do what I'm

32:06

saying, to protect my son. Once I let

32:08

all that bitter energy go and I just

32:10

accepted the fact, I don't fucking like y'all.

32:14

I mean, it be like that. I just

32:16

don't fucking like y'all. That shit have nothing

32:18

to do with my son. Right. You feel

32:20

me? But I do think it's hard because

32:23

like, I was real close to my mom.

32:25

So anybody, anytime, if you didn't like my mom,

32:27

you didn't like me either. So it was up and stuck

32:29

behind my mom. I don't care if it was family or

32:31

not. So your son may just

32:34

have a problem with her later on

32:36

in life, just off the fact that

32:38

like, this is my mama. It's so

32:40

crazy though, because their family, they

32:42

can have disagreements, they can

32:44

go at each other's necks and then they

32:46

can move on. I always was the type

32:48

of person like, you fucked me over once,

32:50

bitch, just fuck you for like. Yeah, yeah. I

32:54

don't like to play like that. I don't play them

32:56

games, bitch. Fuck you, you're not about to fuck me over

32:58

twice. I'm telling you, I cut my dad off,

33:00

hoe. I could give him a fuck. I am weak. Oh,

33:02

I could give him a fuck. Did you say he was

33:04

old? Fuck it. I

33:07

got shit to do with me, what they say, you can't teach an

33:09

old dog new tricks. You can't even. So if you stay in your

33:11

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33:14

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33:16

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new that a baby and Thor he's the

35:08

or fucking with the baby mammal I'm gonna

35:10

well well well well well well well well

35:13

well we're on. Our

35:15

Our Lady. Because. I may

35:17

a couple. Niggers who. Never.

35:19

Even not a bug and baby. Well. Yeah.

35:23

Yeah. Yeah. Who, who

35:25

fucked her once, fucked her twice. Damn, it's

35:27

a whole baby. Now me

35:29

and him, we really had a relationship. We'd

35:31

have been over so many places together. You

35:33

know, it's like that. But I did tell

35:35

myself, like, now that I have a baby

35:37

daddy, like, oh, fuck no. Like, I would

35:39

never fuck with another baby daddy. You wouldn't?

35:42

No. Not the shit he was

35:44

texting me while we were single. Yeah. You

35:47

feel? We got a different relationship. We got

35:49

a different relationship. But it's just

35:51

going to be natural for you to wonder,

35:53

you know. And like you said, the most

35:55

important thing, because it's one thing, somebody have

35:57

a, have sex one time and then the

35:59

person. get pregnant or two times and a

36:01

person get pregnant. But when you have a

36:03

bond with somebody, which is what y'all have,

36:05

like when you have that bond and then

36:07

y'all create a life together, it's different. That's

36:09

why I always say, give me a nigga,

36:11

your baby mama gotta be dead. And say

36:13

dead, live in a different state. Or you

36:15

never fuck with her like that. I keep

36:18

saying, I say the mama gotta be dead,

36:20

the baby mama gotta be dead. The

36:22

mama too? Everybody, the whole, everybody gotta

36:24

die. The sister need to be dead.

36:27

Everybody don't need to have no sister.

36:29

Everybody need to get no family tree

36:31

ho ass. Adoptee. Right. Adoptee.

36:34

No type of family fucking tired. Baby,

36:36

no tired. Clearly. But

36:39

that baby daddy, baby mama shit, I

36:41

don't know. It's a hard dynamic. It's a

36:43

hard dynamic. Like, especially if y'all had like,

36:45

like you said, a bond, a real relationship

36:48

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36:50

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y'all. But I feel like

37:50

our culture normalizes

37:53

baby daddy, baby mom. Yeah, for sure. So

37:55

it's like, we can meet, let's have a baby, and you

37:57

can just be my baby daddy. You get what I'm saying?

38:00

that husband dynamic anymore, right? It

38:02

comes with so much toxic bullshit

38:04

and hurt. That's why I feel

38:06

like a lot of these people just be hurt. We

38:09

break up, you go get this new

38:11

relationship. I'm here raising this child by

38:13

myself. And it's just a lot of,

38:15

it's a lot. It's a lot,

38:17

because do you want to get married? Oh,

38:19

I'm going to get married. Okay, because I know a

38:22

lot of times people- Do you think you still believe

38:24

in marriage? I feel like- I love to have conversations

38:26

with like, especially people that are younger than us, and

38:28

they say that they believe in marriage, because I be

38:30

feeling like y'all generation, like our generation

38:32

a little fucked up too, because we don't be believing

38:34

in marriage. But I be feeling like the early

38:36

twenties, the mid twenties, y'all don't be believing in

38:38

marriage anymore. I have met a lot of my

38:40

friends who be like, I just don't feel like

38:42

I'm- But I'm a lover

38:45

girl. I'm a relationship girl. A

38:47

lot of women, that's all I was going to say. I think

38:49

a lot of women now, especially, they say

38:51

they don't care about marriage, because the

38:53

person that they're with doesn't care about

38:55

marriage. So they're trying to convince themselves

38:57

that they don't care. So that's

38:59

what they say. And they saw their parents. Right.

39:02

Their parents weren't, they've never seen an example of

39:04

like- My mom and dad were married for 18

39:06

years. Okay. So I

39:08

saw that. Now, do they have the perfect

39:10

marriage? No. Right.

39:13

Could they have been separate, and I

39:15

still have had that great childhood? Yes.

39:18

So I feel like a lot of people, they

39:20

try to stay together. But if the marriage isn't

39:22

that fucking good anyway, I don't need to see

39:24

that bullshit. You feel me?

39:26

So it's kind of like, but I did

39:28

see a marriage dynamic. I did see wife

39:31

and husband. Right. So I expect that. Yeah.

39:33

Like I expect that. Yes, good. He definitely thinks that

39:36

like, oh, we're supposed to stay together for the child

39:38

and undersea. They end up making shit worse a lot

39:40

of the time when y'all ripped off fucking life

39:42

and shit. Why are we trying to stay together for

39:44

the child? This shit making it worse than it would have been

39:46

if we would have just separated. I always say that you and

39:48

that baby can go. You and the

39:50

baby both know. You're not teaching

39:52

your child nothing, but to

39:55

stay and dysfunction. Yep. I

39:58

agree. Right. I

40:00

be thinking to myself, like I look back at

40:02

my mom and my dad and I'm like, whoa,

40:05

like, let me not get comfortable with

40:07

dysfunction. Right. Exactly. Just because,

40:09

you know, we got a baby. No. And

40:12

I think that too, that's a good point that you made

40:14

because sometimes like I had to grow out of that. Like

40:16

when I was in a relationship with somebody, I'm like, we

40:19

not arguing. It's too peaceful. He must not care.

40:21

He just don't give a fuck because I was

40:23

so used to arguing and I thought that that

40:25

was love. Somebody charged me

40:27

up or getting mad at this. Oh, he mad.

40:30

He cares. It's like once you

40:32

realize like, bitch, that ain't love.

40:34

You're literally thriving in dysfunction. And

40:36

so it's like, it's not normal at all. So it's a

40:39

lot of habits that we have to break like mentally just

40:41

from like our environments. You know what I'm

40:43

saying? For sure. I was in an

40:46

abusive relationship. So

40:48

being in a relationship like that,

40:52

it kind of makes you feel like, oh, he loves me. Yeah.

40:56

You know, like, oh, he stalks me. Yeah. I'm

40:59

upset when I do the simplest of

41:01

things, you know, he can't control his

41:03

self. Like he just truly loves me.

41:05

But when you leave a situation like

41:07

that and see how much that person

41:10

really had no regard for

41:12

your safety, for anything, like they don't

41:14

care about you. They're pouring all of

41:17

their evil spirits onto you. I don't

41:19

know. One time I thought it

41:21

was just going off my Instagram, going off

41:23

his Instagram, going off. Like

41:26

this nigga was logged into my page for like months.

41:29

That's crazy. And you had no idea. I

41:32

had no idea. And I used to always wonder

41:34

why the fuck do his phone keep going off

41:36

on my page? Oh my God. He was logged

41:38

into my page. I remember one time I was

41:40

talking to this other nigga, I'm pulling up on

41:42

him, right? But I'm dropping his shit off. I'm

41:44

talking to each other. I'm talking to him. Yeah,

41:46

we can go to the movies. We can go to

41:49

the audience. He's seeing all of his videos. I think I

41:51

literally pressed send as I was opening the door. This

41:53

nigga yaks me out that car. Some of the fuck the pain. Oh

41:55

my God. No, yeah. Fair

42:00

enough. Why hates? The. Whole

42:02

narrative of like you say oh girl yeah

42:04

he pulled up Army Monday. Go crazy

42:06

though. analyzes, Years. A unique get

42:09

away from flip the moon don't. Understand

42:11

there are so you're at a point the were

42:13

like a needed could be helping you out be

42:15

some gasping. For Air? Literally.

42:18

Care or to the point where i don't want

42:20

to the com me on the caller id and

42:22

among scare know for a lot of have when

42:25

i see people were a body on like. This

42:28

crazy because over this issue I say I

42:30

thought agree about his before my eyes out

42:32

your allies me a my if of them

42:34

are on fighting for hours. And. When I

42:36

say fighting, oh my fuck am I argue like

42:38

we was physically in their life. fighting you mighty

42:40

mighty and it was like I woke up the

42:42

next. Morning I was like. This.

42:45

Is. At the agree. I

42:48

would probably closer he would probably cut about a

42:50

lie all that I had him an ideal Ali

42:52

not it would be loving mother. yeah and I'm

42:54

and like all this is what we do with

42:56

it is I've ah finally woke up in a.

42:59

While my what the actual was like a my

43:01

billie. Like I'm so over worrying fighting

43:03

a grown man for like literally in

43:05

there fighting for our bikes. One wrong

43:07

move are going to literally any for

43:09

the last our lives that how active

43:11

half me as I was like I

43:13

say ah that's to say like as

43:15

is really want. I always say this

43:17

because I know we have a you're

43:19

a lot of young listener do when

43:21

another is acting crazy. I don't care

43:23

if it's in the beginning stages. whatever

43:25

yami leave is not a plan it

43:27

is not a sign of any longer

43:29

Iran Who is gonna you are. No

43:32

better Were always gets worse. I

43:34

had a house. So. Where he

43:36

had the key to get out. What?

43:38

You mean or not sitting in out so he

43:40

could lock you in their. right? See.

43:42

A home. On some of this is the be

43:44

some life family. Matters

43:47

you decide just are you know you may help like

43:49

the world that a young latina easy on the do

43:51

you live with my age who be like okay I'm

43:53

not even with the see. No more, I'm leaning.

43:55

He was in jail. a baby

43:58

mama. He's out mean a. I

44:00

really helpful to he shall like are really

44:02

love to share a meal his. Child's.

44:05

Mother he got a relationship or while

44:07

he was incarcerated she called me let

44:09

me know the he was like no

44:12

color how palm saying these and day

44:14

one. In a warning for the morning. Whether.

44:16

It was through and at beach. On.

44:18

Floating? Yeah, it was kind like the

44:20

Sra they brought the cat. Why? Like.

44:22

Him to one is in do it in out

44:24

a big scene in do a bit that one

44:27

low ball car ride that was just like how

44:29

to seal the deal he awoke meal yeah but

44:31

that be a far from guy mega lead me

44:33

to be say I live in a family and

44:35

is. That. A risky and did I like

44:37

and away. From

44:41

Atlantic City. Where did you know is how high we

44:43

you. Mean we Now my we. Have. What

44:45

liquid or say and late always liked

44:47

to say sometimes that on pillow people

44:49

do that though a lot these are

44:51

the library Oh now let me tell

44:53

you that happened for a reason and

44:55

it was only for the reason of

44:57

got this test me know because as

44:59

soon as I let their relationship. I

45:01

went bad. And. You yeah right? The

45:03

you planning on? Well by the does he

45:06

ever tell my results you your eggs I'm

45:08

calling the police literally till this fucking dad

45:10

and Friday so these blocking. Day but you

45:12

know I I I don't want to feel

45:14

people buffet nice. I would have

45:16

a conversation my best friend the other day and we

45:18

will talk about like the whole Wendy Williams situation like.

45:21

Aussies like Down Bears he's really

45:23

really seeing. Seeing that documentary really

45:25

hurt me. but I was. I

45:27

honestly. A lot of way.

45:29

I used to be a Windy William fan I

45:31

still am. I pray for her all zombie correctly

45:33

which are about to say a Wendy's William Downfall

45:36

of you really know her stories because of that

45:38

made any New Year is because of that me

45:40

so I don't know what's going on in our

45:42

household or what he was on because the fat

45:44

you know he's Francis who are now for back

45:47

pay the front of hours later year as he

45:49

kindly of these like can sustain his lifestyle without

45:51

the money. Ah, I'm. Wendy.

45:54

Is having a really sweet? I'm a hard time?

45:56

Let her memory. Or fund the right is the meal

45:58

made a mess Assault on the. documentary they they're

46:00

talking they're having a conversation and she was

46:03

like he don't have no money she

46:05

remembered it though You

46:07

don't forget about a broke nigga doing something to

46:09

you and I even about him being broke That

46:11

man did something to her and her brain can

46:13

still connect Connect the dot

46:16

man her heart beat. I heard he

46:18

was her co-dealer Baby

46:21

mama he was doing something to

46:24

her. I thought I don't care

46:26

what I listen I truly

46:28

believe that a man can really be cuz women

46:30

when we love our love is a little different

46:32

We love these so I think for Wendy it

46:34

was like she felt like she had like a

46:36

ride a ride or die You know so I

46:38

say all that to say because I had an

46:41

ex that reached out to me like two days

46:43

ago and It was so crazy because this

46:45

is one of my exes that like I used to live with

46:47

him Him and my mom had a

46:49

close relationship and my mom passed so it's like

46:51

when people who knew my mom It's like, you

46:53

know, I feel a little different A

46:56

little different connection. So it was like he reached out to

46:58

me. He was like, oh, I'm so proud

47:00

of you It's crazy that we

47:02

didn't end up together because

47:05

I feel like you wouldn't be where you are because I was

47:08

holding you back and but I appreciated

47:11

the message but when I tell you men

47:13

are so sneaky because If

47:15

I said come to Atlanta and let's work this out.

47:17

You would have been on the first thing smoking That

47:19

was the whole reason you sent the message exactly hoping

47:21

you're not that fucking proud That's what I'm saying because

47:23

if you are you can be proud from a distance

47:25

and be like, you know What I'ma leave her alone

47:27

to let her do her thing or cuz

47:30

it's like men will they will

47:32

drain you if you let them

47:34

Every time if you always a

47:36

motive. Yes It's always

47:38

always a motive and some women

47:40

don't wake up from that But I used to

47:43

tell my friend is when God shows you signs

47:45

to leave somebody alone You better listen

47:47

because sometimes he will put you in a position

47:49

to where you have to surrender Yep,

47:51

because I remember I had a good

47:53

friend her boyfriend was horrible when

47:56

I say horrible It was like she

47:58

was losing weight. She was having this

48:00

breakdowns, he was abusive, he was cheating, having

48:02

babies here and there, and it was so many

48:04

instances where she could've left him, but

48:06

she didn't. She almost broke herself not, and

48:09

then she found him dead. Ooh.

48:12

And that crushed her. Right.

48:15

But I specifically had a conversation with

48:17

her and I said, you need to

48:19

let him go before God makes you

48:22

let him go. Yep, yep. Right,

48:24

and then you'll be in a situation to where

48:26

it's like, damn, I should've listened. You know, I

48:28

could've been here, living my life. I would've been

48:31

a little sad, but if you would've been okay.

48:33

But you would've been removing from me. I'm telling

48:35

you, it is a reason for the

48:37

season, baby. I'm telling you, even with my last

48:39

serious relationship I had, I was with this guy

48:42

for years, and I mean,

48:44

the last year, Dreia knows how hard it was for

48:46

me. Yeah. Because it was like, I was

48:48

going through it with him, but I had just

48:50

lost my mom, and I remember, it was so

48:52

crazy, y'all. I remember one night, it

48:54

was like, we had a little, you know, when you in

48:57

a bad relationship, y'all be having little bouts where y'all get

48:59

along. Yeah. So it was like, we had, it was like,

49:02

day six, bitch, we getting along, and all

49:04

this my husband. Girl, I'm like, we in

49:06

love. Yeah, we in love. We in love.

49:08

So I really, y'all, I remember, I went

49:10

to sleep that night, and I pray every

49:12

night, I'm very spiritual, and I said, God,

49:15

if this is the man for me, please

49:17

let us just find peace. Let's

49:19

get out of this nasty little thing that we're

49:21

doing, and let's just get along, and Lord, please let

49:23

this work for me. Y'all, when I

49:25

tell y'all the next day, I have found some shit. Like

49:27

I knew about this girl he was fucking with, and

49:29

I found some shit again. I mean,

49:32

it wasn't even like, my day had

49:34

barely even started, and it wasn't even

49:36

like I was looking for her. The

49:38

shit fell into my fucking lap. I

49:40

said, damn, nigga, that should be real.

49:43

And like you said, it was the smallest thing.

49:45

The smallest thing that makes you be like, you're

49:47

just, right. You know what, I'm

49:49

done. Cause one thing about it, God got a sense

49:51

of humor, and I feel like he be like, okay,

49:54

you not gonna know peace. You keep dealing with it.

49:56

And that's what it was. I didn't know peace. And

49:58

I remember it was like, it was that. that

50:00

had happened and literally like I

50:02

was trying to figure out what I was going to do that

50:05

next night me, you and Armani had went out. We

50:07

went to a little party and I

50:09

was like, call him, call him. And he wasn't answering

50:11

the phone and I went looking for something I did.

50:13

I went looking for something. I found exactly what I

50:15

was looking for. And I was like, that was my

50:18

moment. Never, never went

50:20

and never turned back. It was like,

50:22

something just switched beach. And it's so

50:24

crazy because let's say that was her

50:27

and as her friend, you would

50:29

have been like, girl, get out of there.

50:31

What the fuck are you doing? But when

50:33

it's you in that position, it's so hard.

50:35

It's so hard. It's so hard. It's

50:37

like, y'all don't know him. Right. You

50:39

know, I love him. Y'all don't know

50:41

the real him baby. I think we're

50:43

both the type of friends.

50:46

Like we be telling our friends our opinion, but we

50:48

don't try to press. Yeah. Because I always say, as

50:50

long as I don't feel like your safety is in

50:52

danger, like, because me and him used to fight, but

50:54

it never got to a point. So we're like, I

50:56

have to go to a hospital. I have to go

50:58

to a hospital. I'm bleeding or I'm like calling her.

51:00

It never got to that point. I think in both

51:02

of our relationships when we were in bad situations. Yeah.

51:04

So I'm always like, you know, I mind my business

51:06

to a certain extent because no matter

51:08

what I can't make her leave or vice versa.

51:10

She can't make me leave. Oh, I cut

51:12

bitches off. Yeah. Really? Yo, I don't

51:14

play. My whole thing is this. My

51:16

whole thing is this. You

51:19

don't have to tell me about him. Now

51:21

we're good friends and we're talking. I'm not

51:23

going to judge you. If you love him,

51:26

you love him. But when it comes

51:28

to safety, yeah. Okay. That makes

51:30

sense. If you have children and

51:32

he's putting them in danger, right?

51:34

Right. I don't play like that

51:36

because I hear too many situations

51:38

to where the man that came

51:40

and killed you, the friend, everybody

51:42

that was around now, now, yes.

51:44

Let's be real too.

51:47

Like people don't be telling

51:49

their friends what be going on. Yeah.

51:51

And it's him fucking fire

51:56

hose. I

52:00

have to be my fat hoe. What's that? That

52:02

mama in there about to whoop your ass. I

52:05

don't go fuck. I don't go head over the fat hoe about my

52:07

nigga. But about, but about

52:09

so nigga? No. I don't

52:11

know. About my nigga. I don't know about

52:13

my nigga. So about so nigga, I don't

52:15

know bitch. Who am I up to?

52:17

See, but I cut people out like that. Yeah,

52:19

yeah, that makes sense. But I would never put,

52:21

like I would never put my friends in some shit.

52:23

Like if I'm trying to pull up and like. But

52:25

you think you not gonna put nobody in it till

52:27

you eat them in it. But sometimes you don't know

52:29

how, these niggas be crazy. It was

52:31

one time I had a friend. And

52:34

it's so sad because they were cool. They

52:36

had a great relationship. And then he was

52:38

starting to beat her. She would keep going

52:40

back and act like it wasn't that bad.

52:43

Then she got pregnant. Okay, she

52:46

got pregnant. She was like six months pregnant. She

52:49

got him the wrong order or something

52:51

like that. He beat her to

52:53

a pulp to where she lost

52:55

her child. And she

52:57

had to get a DNC. Oh my

52:59

God. Y'all know what a DNC is? That's when

53:01

you have to go through a surgical procedure to

53:04

remove your child. They know what that is from

53:06

Ressa Tucka. Right. That's how I learned. That's horrible.

53:08

Yeah. Okay, so she moved. I'm not

53:10

fucking with him. I don't need to know my

53:12

address. I'm gonna call the police if he pull

53:14

up. So I'm in her new

53:16

apartment chilling. Somebody get the buzz in

53:19

the gate. It's like

53:21

okay. I just opened it. So

53:23

you know, I don't know who the fuck that is. One

53:26

of my friends eat my little food. He

53:28

walks in the fucking door. Yeah. That's

53:30

how I'm about to go. I immediately left,

53:33

locked the bitch. I'm not dealing

53:35

with that. Cause that's a

53:37

little too far. Cause you could have died. He

53:40

would have came there mad about any fucking

53:42

thing. Cause that's crackhead behavior bitch. You get

53:44

beat to a pulp. Yeah. And you lost

53:47

your baby at six months. So

53:49

she must've didn't, cause he should've went to jail. Did he

53:51

go to jail for that? She

53:54

probably didn't know what she said, what she

53:56

did. Cause I was just trying to be

53:58

there for her as a friend. Cause

54:00

that's tough. But when

54:02

I go back around you, oh you allowing that around

54:04

you baby, I'm just gonna have to pray for you

54:07

for it from a distance. From a distance, yeah. Cause

54:09

like you said, niggas pull up, they don't give a

54:11

fuck who in the room. Everybody getting

54:13

got, man. Everybody, and if you like

54:15

that shit, if he did all that to

54:17

you and you still find room in your

54:19

heart to forgive him, bitch, that's something you and him

54:21

need to go. On y'all own. Y'all

54:24

can ain't got nothing to do with me. Yeah, I definitely

54:26

agree with that. I pray if you call me, I'll call

54:28

the police. I'll

54:30

call the police. Keep your location on. You

54:33

know, I don't know how to find you, but

54:35

I don't want no part. Okay, so we're gonna

54:38

switch gears a little bit. Cause I really wanted to

54:40

talk about this with you because me and Dre don't

54:42

see this the same.

54:44

We sure don't. So I

54:46

want to talk about, do you really need a

54:49

reason not to like somebody? And when I say

54:51

not to like someone, like you're a content creator.

54:53

So I know you be having comments like, Ooh,

54:56

Liora get on my nerves. I don't like her.

54:59

She whacked, she did, she that. And I

55:01

was like, you know, that stuff used to get to me

55:03

so bad. Cause I know people be in the comments, let

55:05

you talk too much. Let you interrupt and Dre, mind you,

55:07

I've been working on it whole ass niggas. So

55:10

mind your motherfucking business, bitch. But me and Dre, we

55:12

are actually friends and real life. So she know this

55:14

is how I talk. Y'all not used to that, but

55:16

that's okay. You may just not like me. And

55:19

I used to be the person to be like, y'all don't even

55:21

know me. I'm a nice

55:23

person. But now I'm like, you know what?

55:25

You don't need a reason not to like me. Cause there's a lot

55:27

of bitches and a lot of niggas. I'd be

55:29

like, I don't like you. And I don't know them. I

55:31

ain't never been around them. I just don't like you. I

55:34

don't think you need a reason not to like people. I

55:36

feel like you need a reason. Cause you don't got a

55:38

reason. You just a hater. I'm a hater though. Like you

55:40

just hate it. I'm a hater. I

55:42

thought you need a reason to dislike somebody. Like

55:44

to just be like, I don't know. I don't

55:47

like her. Or she just, she thinks she all

55:49

dead. Or she thinks she did. She

55:51

thinks she dead, bitch. You're weird. Cause you don't

55:53

know me. I am weird. One thing I learned

55:55

from that though. Cause

55:57

I see both parts. People. who

56:00

comment like you're

56:02

too loud, you curse too much, this and

56:04

that, I don't like you. You

56:06

went out your way to watch my

56:08

videos, to comment on my platform, because

56:10

you know that I'm so big, I

56:13

won't see that. I

56:15

won't personally attack you. That's the only

56:17

reason you feel comfortable to express your

56:19

dislike for me. So what

56:21

I learned is that means you really love me.

56:23

Low key. Now I will say

56:25

for me, I don't comment on people's stuff. When I

56:28

don't like someone's comments, it's in the mind. But

56:31

that's a reason, but that's still a reason because

56:33

I feel, I'm like that too. Sometimes I could

56:35

just listen to a bitch talk and I'm like,

56:37

it's your vibe. I've seen it

56:39

before, I've seen how it played out. Don't

56:41

like it, you are a fake bitch. So

56:43

I don't like you. Yeah, right. But

56:46

when it comes to things like that, like

56:48

let's say I really wanna investigate a bitch.

56:50

Like I DM her, why don't you like

56:52

me? A bitch ain't gonna have a reason.

56:55

She not, cause you hating. You're hating, that's why

56:57

I said, the bitches who comment, the bitches who

56:59

say shit and they don't know you, they really

57:01

love you. Now if you meet me in person

57:03

and you like, oh, I met her, I feel

57:06

like her energy was off. She wasn't that nice.

57:08

I respect you. I put a picture, she acted

57:10

like she was too good. I

57:12

can respect that because you met me, you felt my

57:14

vibe. You was like, I don't really fuck with her.

57:16

But usually 99.9% of the time, when

57:21

we meet people in person, people

57:23

always talk about how much they love us, how

57:25

nice we are, all of that shit. It's always

57:27

bitches who don't know you from a can of

57:29

paint. They got so much shit to say about

57:31

you. Bitch, you're just a weirdo. That's true. Well,

57:34

I say this, like I said, it's

57:36

a lot of content creators. I watch

57:38

their content and I realize, it's

57:41

not for me. Now I'm not gonna indulge

57:43

in it and hate on it. But I'm

57:45

gonna keep scrolling. I keep scrolling, but sometimes,

57:47

some people's personality so be they be everywhere. Let's

57:51

say you saw that content creator

57:53

out. A parting

57:55

you would be like, hey, that's

57:57

so and so. Because see, we're people. who

58:00

were entrepreneurs, we have a

58:02

platform. So when we meet people,

58:04

it's like, hey, nice to meet another winner.

58:07

Nice to meet somebody who has the same eyes.

58:10

But to them, you get what I'm

58:12

saying? But to them, they're looking at

58:15

us like, oh shit, that's, you

58:17

feel me? That's so and so, we're somebody

58:19

different to them. So regardless if you don't

58:21

like it, they're still gonna

58:23

have a little bit of a maturation. But if it's

58:26

somebody like us who has a platform, we

58:28

know how people move, we know how

58:30

we edit videos, we know

58:32

the behind the scenes bitch, you're giving me

58:35

evil spirit vibes. I feel like that's different.

58:37

Yeah, because like I said, I don't wish

58:39

bad on nobody. I want everybody, especially black

58:41

women that create content to win. But it's

58:43

been plenty of times where I see people

58:45

where I'm like, you said things online that

58:47

I feel like it's harmful to black women

58:49

or harmful to black people. And

58:51

I'm just like, oh yeah, I see her, but

58:54

I keep it pushing, because I'm not no fake bitch. If

58:57

I tell Dreia, man, I don't like this girl,

58:59

Dreia ain't never gonna have to see a picture

59:01

of me and a girl like, oh, she outside.

59:03

No, I ain't doing it. But you had a

59:05

really good example earlier when we was on the

59:07

phone of the situation with the person that I

59:09

used to be cool with. And she was like,

59:11

well, I feel like, I kind of didn't like

59:13

her for no reason. And I was telling you,

59:15

you had a reason to not like her. Like

59:17

you could elaborate about the situation. I'm that friend.

59:20

Okay, well let me tell you what happened. Dreia

59:22

and, okay, so I used to work at the

59:24

strip club. I worked at the strip club for

59:26

a very long time. So

59:29

there was this girl that used to work at

59:31

the club. I was a bartender, she was a

59:33

dancer. Been around this girl for years. She never

59:36

said two words to me. I would just see how she

59:38

moved around the club. Didn't like her, how

59:40

she would talk to other people, how she would treat,

59:42

never liked her. Didn't like her. So when

59:44

her and Dreia started hanging out, this is

59:46

what I said. I said, you

59:48

know what, I'm gonna tell you

59:50

what I think, but I don't want you to go

59:53

off of what I say, because maybe your experience is

59:55

different. Because I know there's people out there to be

59:57

like Lex is a bitch. It was a bitch. I

1:00:00

told her, but I said, be careful because I

1:00:02

seen her do this to this person. I seen

1:00:04

her do this to this person. So I knew

1:00:06

I was going to play out, but I'm not

1:00:08

a, I told you so. And I got to

1:00:10

do it for myself type of person too. Like,

1:00:12

I got to figure it out for myself. Right.

1:00:14

So I had never hung out with the girl.

1:00:16

I never hung out with her, had never been

1:00:18

around her, but they started hanging out.

1:00:21

A little trouble started happening. And then one time

1:00:23

we came to Houston and we went out for

1:00:25

her birthday. Yes. Thanks.

1:00:28

Just saying exactly what I thought it was.

1:00:30

Never as many years as I knew that

1:00:32

girl, never hung around her. But when I

1:00:34

actually hung out with her, but I will

1:00:36

say, I felt like in the beginning, did

1:00:38

I have a real reason? Sometimes people walk

1:00:40

around with a guard up. I'm

1:00:43

that friend. I have a

1:00:46

best friend. Um, you remind me of her.

1:00:48

You want me to be like very pretty,

1:00:50

very outgoing, like give people a chance. Yeah.

1:00:52

I'm the person that I see how you

1:00:54

move. And when trouble starts

1:00:56

starting up in that little friendship, how I'm going

1:00:58

to tell you, like, I told you, right. Cause

1:01:01

I see it. I experienced it. I've been

1:01:03

through with people whenever I go through an

1:01:05

experience with a person. I write that shit

1:01:07

down. Yeah. I started to notice

1:01:10

their character. I try to analyze

1:01:13

the situation. Like how did things go

1:01:15

wrong? Right. So when I meet another person,

1:01:18

we're not going to repeat that. So when

1:01:20

my friends get with people who I'm not too

1:01:22

sure about, and then they get to calling me,

1:01:24

telling me this story and that story, I'm like,

1:01:26

that's why. Right. Because we're around people who have

1:01:28

a little evil spirit. And

1:01:31

I feel like for me, it's like, like I said,

1:01:33

when I say I didn't have a reason not to

1:01:35

like her because she didn't do anything to me. So

1:01:38

I'll be like, I'm sorry. Like I

1:01:40

don't need a reason not to like people. I

1:01:42

really don't. If I just don't like her. It's

1:01:44

just like this. If you met

1:01:46

somebody and they told you, Hey, I

1:01:48

just got out of jail for murdering

1:01:50

my ex wife. Yeah. But I want

1:01:52

a relationship with you. Would you be

1:01:55

wrong to say, Hey, I'm good. Right.

1:01:57

That's what I'm saying. No, I see your

1:01:59

track record. I see what you've done

1:02:01

and I'm grown enough to say I'm okay.

1:02:04

I'm not gonna indulge in that. A lot of people,

1:02:06

they like to get people to benefit at the doubt.

1:02:08

They like to be around them and they wonder why

1:02:10

their world is in fucking shambles. Get

1:02:13

these fucking people away from you. And I'll add on

1:02:15

to, Drea, what you were saying earlier, because you were

1:02:17

like, no, because sometimes y'all just be a hater. You

1:02:19

know what? I'm not seeing people do be hating. You

1:02:21

know what? I'll take that crown. I'm

1:02:23

a hater. You know why? Because

1:02:25

I do think it's stupid that sometimes people have

1:02:28

a platform for being stupid. Like,

1:02:30

when I say that, I mean like, there's

1:02:32

platforms of people out here like, like doing

1:02:34

blackface with the makeup because they think they

1:02:36

know somebody's gonna say something. Or

1:02:39

like dancing with pieces of chicken and

1:02:41

thinking that it's funny. That's not being a

1:02:43

hater to me. That's, we're

1:02:46

creating. A we're crazy. We're creators.

1:02:48

Right. We hustled, we grinded.

1:02:50

But they say that they're hustling and creating

1:02:52

too. And that's cool. But when you know

1:02:54

what it is, you know what it

1:02:56

is. It's like if I'm an NFL player, if ever since

1:02:59

first grade, bitch, I've been going to practice every day. I've

1:03:02

been eating right. I've been lifting weights. And then all

1:03:04

of a sudden, you know what I'm saying? Somebody just

1:03:06

comes up out the blue and makes a mockery of

1:03:08

what I've been doing. Right. Right. It's

1:03:11

not like I'm hating on you. It's just, you're kind

1:03:13

of disrespecting my crap. Right. Right.

1:03:15

I agree. Because I feel

1:03:17

like you only hating if you don't have a reason.

1:03:19

Like, for you to look at that person's page and

1:03:22

be like, I don't like you because you be doing

1:03:24

blackface. I'm a black woman. That's offensive to me. You

1:03:26

be doing blackface. Oh, you be doing shit where

1:03:28

you eating chicken all the time. Trying to make

1:03:30

it seem like black people like chicken so much

1:03:32

and you a white person. I don't like your

1:03:34

ass because you're being racist. That's

1:03:36

the reason. But if you ask somebody, oh, why

1:03:38

you don't like this person? They're like, um,

1:03:40

I don't know. Like, she

1:03:43

just thinks she all of that. And she thinks she all

1:03:45

of that. Yeah. Like, if I

1:03:47

got 2000 followers and you have 500K and I

1:03:49

go to your page and I'm like, this bitch

1:03:51

thinks she the shit because she get her hair

1:03:53

done out of time. You

1:03:55

don't even know my character. You

1:03:57

know, you're a fucking hater. You

1:04:00

got a my platform you say? I don't like

1:04:02

how she. Speaks. On. Black. Women

1:04:04

or. Adult Life house. he made us

1:04:06

look at a certain demographic my were

1:04:08

number like that that slavery as the

1:04:11

right and we the respect they seized

1:04:13

know just like a family pays light

1:04:15

out if how that they battle with

1:04:17

pussy get her hair nine right up

1:04:19

her Rivesaltes. Yeah. Gonna

1:04:21

hate Yeah my Amazing! I'll say these because

1:04:23

I'm a very confident want me and I've

1:04:25

never been on a woman's pay zombie like

1:04:28

I'm looking at her and as her pictures

1:04:30

and be a my ex a lot of

1:04:32

like the way she looks it always be

1:04:34

something that they're doing so I you know

1:04:37

what Agora. I'm. Not a lot

1:04:39

easier is real like even in the harvey.

1:04:41

oh really my a video that she be

1:04:43

making. The asshole these fucking about

1:04:45

frames. A little bit yes A be critical

1:04:47

of live what are you doing like what

1:04:49

are you and I'm not allow another thing

1:04:52

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1:04:54

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and be robin that seek him like these

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day or less Need su disliking and s.

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hate this is is this is not

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your awning is rife with as if

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you think about six the way it

1:05:28

is some probably priests yeah why is

1:05:30

this problem lies what the hell is

1:05:32

the right to see has such a

1:05:34

big on know what he did either

1:05:37

and even some people who product realize

1:05:39

what the fuck it basically people ride

1:05:41

your dick. They're. Going to be like

1:05:43

a lot. Like isn't right right? Yeah but

1:05:45

I'm I'm saying is like or messier They

1:05:48

have all the praise. His a probably hi

1:05:50

sexy right? He probably has everything that she

1:05:52

represents ever part of it's fingering. Sam is

1:05:54

i hate you Run with the new same

1:05:57

for I was a reliable know. That's

1:06:00

relatable. Like, that's OK. They

1:06:02

be figuring around, they be figuring around, like, chicken cutlet.

1:06:04

That's what I'm saying. They do. They do. They be

1:06:06

smacking me. I don't like you. Why are you doing

1:06:08

all this? But guess what, though? Guess what you did,

1:06:10

though? You watched it. I did. And I

1:06:13

sent it to Tresha. That's a view. And some

1:06:15

people don't give a fuck. And it was shared.

1:06:17

So, a lot of people don't give a fuck.

1:06:19

That's what I'm saying. So it's like, I'm not

1:06:21

in the room. I'll be watching that girl video.

1:06:23

The one you fucking do. And when you say

1:06:25

you don't like, you be watching it. You be

1:06:27

sending it to me. In

1:06:30

my defense, though, she always be on my explore

1:06:32

page. And that's why I tell you, let's say

1:06:34

you saw her out. It would be like, I

1:06:36

hate that bitch. But it would be like, damn,

1:06:39

hey, bitch. You know what I'm saying? It

1:06:41

would be like, hey, bitch. All right. All right. Come

1:06:43

on, bitch. Let's scream, all right. Right. I hate

1:06:45

what you do, hoe. But I got a respect

1:06:47

for my chicken cutlet. No, I don't know. I

1:06:50

might bump her or something. Because it's that bad.

1:06:54

It'd be some strangers that I hate. It'd be

1:06:56

so select. I would never say it on this

1:06:58

platform. I'm a stranger

1:07:00

that I just hate. OK, why y'all think

1:07:02

about it? My neighbors. My neighbors. My neighbors.

1:07:04

And I'll give a fuck if y'all see

1:07:07

this. Cut the fucking grass. Straighten

1:07:09

them blinds out. Bitch, I'm not

1:07:11

paying all this money to be pulling

1:07:13

up. And I'm seeing y'all shit like

1:07:15

we're sucking the hood. Take your garages

1:07:17

down. Not parking in front of

1:07:19

my fucking house. Exactly.

1:07:22

But you know what? But it was made because

1:07:24

I hate my fucking neighbors, too. Not that

1:07:26

I'm thinking about it. I'm telling

1:07:28

you. I talked

1:07:30

about this shit on Twitter one day. They

1:07:32

be fucking so loud at 6 in the

1:07:34

morning. And I be like,

1:07:36

why is it so loud? But

1:07:39

you don't like that shit. That's why I

1:07:41

said it. They be fucking too loud. They be waking

1:07:44

me up. And I be beating on the fucking wall.

1:07:46

Because that's a fucking considerate. I'm not no dick right

1:07:48

here, bitch. Exactly. And you over here riding now. Exactly.

1:07:50

But that's what I'm saying. And even when I

1:07:53

do be fucking, I live in a fucking apartment.

1:07:55

I be trying to be considerate. Let's not be

1:07:57

too loud. Yeah. Let's calm it down. I know.

1:08:00

We're going to hand over his mouth like you

1:08:02

would have had some places before So

1:08:07

another example I cannot say her last

1:08:09

name and I hope I say it right she's on the bear

1:08:11

cast the black girl a Oh, a da

1:08:14

berry. I hope I said that right. I don't sorry

1:08:16

y'all cuz I know I butchered her name She's a

1:08:18

black actress. She's really big right now and um She

1:08:22

did SNL recently. Mm-hmm. She

1:08:25

was hosting and JLo was

1:08:27

performing And people had dug up

1:08:29

an old podcast of her talking about how much

1:08:31

she hated JLo And so basically

1:08:33

she says that she just had a moment with her was like, hey,

1:08:36

you know I'm sorry about that XYZ and I'm like,

1:08:38

hey, I'm not staying on business. I don't gotta

1:08:40

like you, bro Yeah, we put ourselves out there

1:08:43

as creators There's a lot of people who do

1:08:45

not like me and they don't know me and

1:08:47

it used to offend me But now it's just

1:08:49

like hey, you know what? Maybe I'm

1:08:51

just not sure vibe and I'm not your type of girl

1:08:53

But you don't need a reason to hate me before you were

1:08:56

a creator I'm gonna

1:08:58

say this before I was a creator It was certain celebrities

1:09:00

that I would just be like the tabloid

1:09:02

could post anything. I'll be like they did

1:09:04

what? They're

1:09:06

bitches, but now that we are

1:09:08

in the spotlight you see people will say

1:09:11

That is true. So our only thing I could

1:09:14

say about that is as a normal person looking

1:09:16

at celebrities I would pop a little shit. Yeah,

1:09:18

I get it. I have some core. We talked

1:09:20

about this I had to screw up my Twitter

1:09:23

right because they want to be them you like

1:09:25

damn you cool I

1:09:27

don't know From

1:09:30

2012 when you queen for sheep, but it all

1:09:32

matters when I was little I thought Sierra was

1:09:35

a man, you know They all did it out.

1:09:37

We all did Sierra was

1:09:39

a man. I'm like Sierra's a

1:09:41

beautiful fucking woman like, you know people just

1:09:43

say anything Everybody with

1:09:45

me No,

1:09:48

so let's say I was eight years old on Twitter

1:09:50

Thomas. Oh my god See, there's

1:09:52

a man, but then they found

1:09:54

that that's what it be having time. They're

1:09:56

like, oh she said this back in 2012

1:10:00

A lot of times it do be like the young little kids. It

1:10:02

might be me mixed in there sometimes, but most of

1:10:04

the time it be eight year olds. You be in

1:10:06

me, she in like, she just went the fuck out.

1:10:09

Girl, when I tell you, I had to literally search every

1:10:11

like big celebrity name that I could think

1:10:13

of and just go back and delete shit.

1:10:15

And I'm embarrassed to say some of the

1:10:17

things I used to be saying a few years

1:10:19

ago. Listen, you wouldn't think that. Girl,

1:10:22

I used to be saying some crazy shit.

1:10:24

Okay, I be saying. But you're right. It's

1:10:26

like when you're a normal person, like us

1:10:28

being creators now and being in the more

1:10:30

in the spotlight, you have to be more conscious

1:10:32

of what you say online. Yeah, you definitely do. But

1:10:34

back in the day, I used to be just tweeting whatever

1:10:36

because who the fuck was online? Wait, hold on.

1:10:39

But back in the day, the culture was different.

1:10:41

That's what you can say whatever the fuck you

1:10:43

want to. Brianna used to be on Twitter arguing

1:10:45

down, eating bitches up. I'm talking about

1:10:47

celebrities thinking about fuck. They were about to argue

1:10:50

in. I think they could've got canceled for like

1:10:52

songs. But why ain't you gonna say the craziest

1:10:54

shit in songs that in 2024 he would get

1:10:56

canceled for this? Like what Rick

1:10:58

Ross said? Yeah,

1:11:00

remember they had a- They would've come with

1:11:03

the fuck out of it. He got a

1:11:05

little canceled for that next. He had lost his

1:11:07

sponsorship since then. I would say they would.

1:11:09

I'm in eighth grade and to call my mom. She ain't

1:11:12

in or. I'm

1:11:14

fairly as she ain't in or, baby.

1:11:18

So yeah, so I'm not gonna lie. I said

1:11:20

what I said. I don't think you need the

1:11:22

reason not to like someone because I don't be

1:11:24

having a reason for real. Okay, so now we

1:11:26

gonna move on. So now

1:11:28

it's time to get

1:11:30

into the bed. Bow,

1:11:32

bow, bow, bow, bow,

1:11:34

bow, bow. I

1:11:37

don't know, what the fuck? You know what I'm saying? We

1:11:39

got a little tune, a little one. I'm saying, I don't

1:11:41

know. I ain't gonna say no. It's so 50. All right,

1:11:43

what we got today, Dreia? What you wanna talk about? I

1:11:46

wanna talk about two things actually. Oh Lord.

1:11:48

I want to talk about women

1:11:50

doing masculine shit in bed. Yeah.

1:11:53

And men doing feminine shit. In the

1:11:55

bed. Okay. Like, wait.

1:11:58

So, you know. The

1:12:00

very hard for me Like. Something.

1:12:02

That's the masculine at some me I'm

1:12:04

like among women like as like a

1:12:06

woman be extremely dominate in the be

1:12:09

You know see the one is like

1:12:11

you know you seize on top, see

1:12:13

size, a position seen leaving you were

1:12:15

that masculine. You are one and leading.

1:12:18

Cause. Women are also, you know, What?

1:12:20

Society said we're supposed to be you

1:12:22

know sexes both of be something that

1:12:24

we are engaging of the man and

1:12:26

they see a always woman leading dog

1:12:29

whistle dominate that been dominate is connected

1:12:31

to be masculine. Air. For a

1:12:33

man I think things that are feminine that they can make

1:12:35

to like. You know they always talk about the like. When

1:12:37

you're may amount. And I'm a

1:12:39

father model. My groin Who miller also a

1:12:41

molecule like an ambulance. Year

1:12:44

Ah ah.

1:12:47

A solid live there do that now

1:12:49

me to do in the bedroom. you

1:12:51

know maybe only them might like a

1:12:53

we ran as as a movie one

1:12:56

of these early so that is se

1:12:58

o bombing of polls. Go Easy.

1:13:01

On our side father found a

1:13:04

lot of every day and La

1:13:06

Mama guitar the everly be a

1:13:08

leader but you know the cause

1:13:11

I don't wanna say yeah that's

1:13:13

on a per item let's I'd

1:13:15

rather I'd hold any. And is

1:13:17

on hold aggro now. Couple amount is

1:13:19

cool. Okay a sneak out baby. I

1:13:21

know you can't help but yeah if

1:13:24

you did, Not.

1:13:29

Have. You lose the opportunity

1:13:31

be I live I know below be that we

1:13:33

probably have a guide our I have our had

1:13:35

a baby native I hope you will really. O

1:13:40

l a y me like what if a

1:13:42

woman during sex he likes them as any

1:13:44

to yeah you like this scene when he

1:13:46

does you like this he dumps. I

1:13:49

said that hello may I may not be

1:13:51

in the by using it on Sep. Ah

1:13:53

now I do thousand to say about So

1:13:56

paintings. It's about like I say on

1:13:58

my it issued yeah yeah yeah. a

1:14:00

woman you're not like yeah nigga puss it

1:14:02

good ain't it? I don't like that shit.

1:14:05

Poor ass nigga. You

1:14:07

feel it? That

1:14:09

puss is grappin' ain't it? Yeah

1:14:11

pussy assinism. I didn't read

1:14:14

it. Bitch man. Some

1:14:17

niggas might like it but I think for me

1:14:19

like I don't like being extremely...

1:14:22

I'm aggressive in real life. So I gotta

1:14:24

calm down a little bit. So I be

1:14:26

like you like that? Yo what's up nigga you was talkin'

1:14:29

all that shit on the phone. No I don't

1:14:31

like that. I don't like that. I'm

1:14:34

not gonna lie. I'm

1:14:37

not gonna lie. Talkin' about that shit on

1:14:39

the phone is crazy. I

1:14:41

don't like all of that. I just feel like if I'm not connected with

1:14:43

you and you get to doin' all that, that's

1:14:45

sexual harassment. Like if I'm not feeling

1:14:47

it and you get to hittin' that

1:14:49

shit like... You doin' so much.

1:14:51

It can be aggressive. Men

1:14:54

can be aggressive too. Men can be like, can

1:14:56

say that type of thing. Yeah so I think that just

1:14:58

means you shouldn't have gave that pussy up. Yeah. You

1:15:02

know when you give that pussy up to that white

1:15:04

man, he could do whatever and you're like... That's

1:15:07

true. I'm here baby. But

1:15:10

if you're fuckin' on somebody that you know you're not supposed to be fuckin'

1:15:12

on or you just wanted to put a hell of it, you be

1:15:14

like what you just say that? What? Yeah.

1:15:16

That point for me is that if I was

1:15:18

thinking about... She would have

1:15:20

never fucked that man. Literally. But

1:15:24

like... What if he

1:15:26

lift his legs and be shaking

1:15:29

them? Okay bitch, not shaking them. Hold

1:15:32

on. I swear

1:15:35

to God I put that on my son. If I'm

1:15:37

fuckin' a nigga and he grab his ice and

1:15:39

start clappin' his ass. Out

1:15:42

in the fuckin' pussy. So you

1:15:44

can clap yours but he can't clap his. Yes immediately

1:15:47

guys. What the fuck do

1:15:49

you mean? If I'm in bed I'm fuckin' you

1:15:51

start clappin' yo ass. Let's wrap this up. I

1:15:54

definitely had a man lift his legs up though before. Our.

1:16:04

Way I me. but I do. But if

1:16:06

you're than. I do And they do. They have.

1:16:09

Club and I'll be. Among

1:16:11

grabbed and not grabs. Grabs.

1:16:15

Issue. I

1:16:17

see it was mainly or he would do

1:16:20

him a curve. Our enemies and it

1:16:22

was I will go on that I love you

1:16:24

so much like it was a very is I'm

1:16:26

in no, it wasn't like I was like, did

1:16:28

Nancy? Here. It was any

1:16:30

good on the other I'm out of

1:16:32

i would only world role of. A

1:16:35

lifetime will you make their for

1:16:37

you make a move emails for

1:16:39

some as be nice no lies

1:16:41

as a dumb goulioti were Poseidon

1:16:43

de la Donna in a really

1:16:46

really long far as a. Api

1:16:48

with the gould said yeah you would the

1:16:50

boots on around the ghoul. It was a.

1:16:52

With the ass off of me. He

1:16:56

with the boots outside he is. I

1:16:58

love experiencing and try things. In the

1:17:00

bedroom cause you I discovered being. That I

1:17:02

know I like so awful I you you

1:17:05

should always is trough is now judge me

1:17:07

I'm very freaky of right. Very nice thing

1:17:09

about the like your my parsley. We could

1:17:11

do it every. Blade.

1:17:13

Is is worth all I see him. You.

1:17:17

Need wix that as far. As. Yellow.

1:17:19

Hair yeah, Arabic, their light. Wix.

1:17:21

Did it won't but ah well I do

1:17:23

like mean that like. Com a room downtown

1:17:25

goes out that can I can say

1:17:27

that has never been like that is

1:17:29

no disrespect the Pantheon like. Here's how.

1:17:32

I E D's and he like the media like him

1:17:34

or her own. I booted out to be. Here

1:17:37

with. My whether

1:17:40

away. As

1:17:42

you can always keep away right as down

1:17:44

grow we humans are you are okay with

1:17:46

me in the womb. You know some type

1:17:48

of some found mean a little. More a

1:17:50

family in the bedroom. Applies to be a safe

1:17:53

space so they moan alone. I feel like

1:17:55

the bear middle sized by yeah I hate

1:17:57

when people be like oh the only good.

1:17:59

one hit He how is

1:18:01

that the case when you're in an

1:18:03

intimate position with a woman with a

1:18:05

ro6? Well, I feel

1:18:07

like if you and your woman in the

1:18:09

bedroom, whatever y'all do behind that clothes Or

1:18:11

it's supposed to be behind that clothes. Exactly.

1:18:15

Y'all be grabbing on the gas from here on top Put

1:18:30

my hand out What

1:18:41

we talking about, I don't go

1:18:43

like right there above like we'll do a

1:18:45

little press like get in now We'll

1:18:48

go get in now. I'm talking about you gotta grip them

1:18:50

cheeks. You talking about when he hit in front of front Yeah,

1:18:53

like he on top. You just grabbed. Okay. Yeah,

1:18:55

we right there above the ass cheeks We're gonna

1:18:57

grab the ass. You will punch the fuck out

1:18:59

of me. Oh, he's straight. We ain't hitting this

1:19:02

What we hit this for? Okay,

1:19:08

we'll do a little correct what like let's

1:19:10

say that right here we'll do a little

1:19:12

crying home Like

1:19:20

you be doing this Grabbing

1:19:27

it but I'm like I

1:19:30

said, I'll

1:19:32

be rubbing on his head I'll

1:19:38

be seeing like my friend. She's like I be smacking

1:19:40

my nigga. I'm not smacking away.

1:19:42

Yeah, that's a little you be smacking No,

1:19:44

I don't believe

1:19:46

me during About

1:19:57

it. I mean maybe man Oh,

1:20:00

but I didn't know what it is, too. Because, like, nigga, you think

1:20:02

that shit feels... First of all, I don't know why

1:20:04

niggas think that shit feel good when they be smacking

1:20:06

your ass on some random shit that feels hard. Or

1:20:08

when they grab it and, like, hold it. Hold

1:20:10

it, it don't, bitch. I barely got the ass.

1:20:13

I like it. Speak for

1:20:15

yourself. We be in the gr- You

1:20:18

got more ass. No. We bought a- We bought

1:20:20

a ch- I'm finna start feeding. No, I'm talking

1:20:22

about women, bitch. We in J.C. Penney. We in

1:20:24

J.C. Penney. Why you grabbing my ass that hard?

1:20:26

Exactly. You trying to go fuck? Why? I

1:20:28

don't know. I like you. How you doing with

1:20:30

me? I'm so good. I been doing myself, yeah.

1:20:33

We back on. We back on. We

1:20:35

agree with that one. No, we agree. We gots

1:20:37

to move on. Okay, so now it's

1:20:39

time to get into the bop.

1:20:42

Ayy. The bop. Ow. Bow.

1:20:46

Bow. Bow. Bow.

1:20:49

Bow. Bow. Bow.

1:20:52

Bow. Bow. Bow.

1:20:55

Bow. Bow. Bow.

1:20:58

Bow. I'm gonna do a

1:21:00

better job of shouting y'all out whenever y'all

1:21:02

send me music, because I really like this

1:21:04

song. It's about like him trying

1:21:06

to keep up with the standards of these girls, you

1:21:08

know? Because the girls be asking for a lot now.

1:21:11

I feel like back when we first started

1:21:13

Wind Down Wednesday, Poor Minds, we used to

1:21:15

talk about BBBs, you know? We was getting

1:21:17

purses, shoes, going on a little cute little... A little pay?

1:21:20

Yeah, a little trip, something, getting a

1:21:22

little rent pay. Bitch, y'all hoes be

1:21:24

asking for Birkins and surgeries

1:21:26

and X-Ys. Vanir.

1:21:29

Vanir is everything else. So, it's

1:21:31

a cute little song. Jordan Ward,

1:21:33

White Crocs, that's my bop of the week. But

1:21:36

you been jamming, Drea. Gross, so

1:21:38

I cannot believe that we have not said

1:21:40

that this is our bop on the show, because me

1:21:42

and you both tweeted about these songs. Yeah,

1:21:45

Glowbop, Glow-Really? Oh, that's a good song. That's a

1:21:47

good song. I like it. Who did she slap?

1:21:49

I don't know. But

1:21:52

you know I love that TikTok

1:21:54

page, the retirement house with some old people.

1:21:56

Oh yeah. I love them. They are so

1:21:58

funny and she did a collaboration. Racial with a day

1:22:01

or however they thought you know if they

1:22:03

saw when the niggers is like saying they

1:22:05

could the girl hear them their own on

1:22:07

do with a girl go and do like

1:22:09

they are like that. Yeah yeah ha is

1:22:11

why have an early look on to a

1:22:13

bolo Mom comes with a yeah yeah because

1:22:15

I thought me how. Hundred miles away. Me:

1:22:17

I'm happy I'm not. I'm not real busy.

1:22:19

Yeah, Like a realize the was

1:22:21

year ago they borrowed. Okay, I'll

1:22:27

add to our line. As he needs a say

1:22:29

it because it was some a war so

1:22:31

they see the the not that I they

1:22:33

were trying to make her be too sexy

1:22:35

and they would highlights make her into something

1:22:37

they season I really were me the runway

1:22:39

because it's global a beautiful see sexy she

1:22:41

don't have to prove that as the she's

1:22:44

all those the black leather wrap her alma

1:22:46

feel like low she's a gray like says

1:22:48

say see you go on sale say they

1:22:50

would just products while yeah that is oral

1:22:52

blaze I argued well I am. This.

1:22:54

Is a thing. Know. You. I

1:22:56

do believe. This a lot of hum debutante

1:22:59

to switch up sitting soon with Sierra

1:23:01

are beyond say or any other artists

1:23:03

are enshrined in thing they were will

1:23:05

be ten years in the game and

1:23:07

a career If you just came out as

1:23:09

odd as I think you need to

1:23:11

stay young like saying Elaine and we're

1:23:13

is is keep running Kaepernick a breather

1:23:15

Salafi yeah glow his back for like gave

1:23:17

me the bob's of if in is.

1:23:20

Like. That it was the same type of absorbing.

1:23:22

This is our land. Never figure man I'm

1:23:24

fucking in Atlanta will be And

1:23:26

what a book opposite. When I

1:23:29

first watched the whole like guy

1:23:31

know money's have we been our

1:23:33

cars will our bodies on with

1:23:35

a game among. Those. Are far thor

1:23:37

and will realize for can only we

1:23:39

was up at a song every. So

1:23:41

our first tour we be a mommy set

1:23:44

up a bloke mom home for wonder what

1:23:46

it is? Hammy? what you will isn't food

1:23:48

Pseudo William Been. Laid. Off

1:23:51

I know. Damn.

1:23:57

I say I say about have I'll tell

1:23:59

you. I'm fucking with this

1:24:01

21 out. It had to grow on me,

1:24:03

cause y'all know I'm not a rap girl,

1:24:05

you ain't T.O. But I feel real, I'm

1:24:08

coming. I'm telling you, that shit right there

1:24:10

like, what, lace front fucked up, you shoulda

1:24:12

wayo bunny. Y'all be having a chance

1:24:14

to stop boning on? No. The

1:24:17

fuck is going on? Got your ass again. You don't wear

1:24:20

a bonnet? I'm bonnet down, elastic

1:24:22

band down, all of that. But then sometimes, I

1:24:24

do have a band on. Sometimes that shit get

1:24:26

rid of. All we get

1:24:28

in like, you get a word. See, y'all money could

1:24:30

be getting mad at me. Now

1:24:33

see, look at Dre. We

1:24:35

all got a need. Somebody up

1:24:37

Dre. I'm not gonna lie, so. At least

1:24:39

I got black on, thank you. Yeah, you got black on.

1:24:41

So I be wearing glue-less units, like this is glue-less. Oh,

1:24:44

okay. So, but so, when I'm at home by myself,

1:24:47

I take my wigs off. But my

1:24:49

man be so mad at me, cause I do not,

1:24:51

I don't do that. I need you to

1:24:53

look at me as a sex symbol at all times. Oh, I'm

1:24:55

the type of person, I'll take my wig off in the middle

1:24:57

of an argument. No, yeah, I'm not a

1:24:59

sex symbol. So let's really get into

1:25:01

it. I was with my aunt for

1:25:03

seven years. I think he probably saw

1:25:05

me with like braids. Like you can

1:25:07

see my real hair. If my real

1:25:09

hair is like out, I just wash

1:25:11

it. Braided down, looking like Allen Oberson.

1:25:13

No, no. So y'all make

1:25:16

sure y'all share the content. Like, subscribe,

1:25:18

follow, all that good stuff. And let

1:25:20

me say this before we close out.

1:25:23

Y'all, there is one Twitter

1:25:25

account that is connected to

1:25:27

poor minds. It's P-O-U-R underscore

1:25:30

in my NDS. Y'all are

1:25:32

tagging the wrong poor minds page.

1:25:34

If you see at poor minds with no underscore,

1:25:36

that is a fake page. Do not follow that

1:25:39

page, okay? They blocked me,

1:25:41

Andrea, and the poor minds page on

1:25:43

both. So we only have one

1:25:45

Instagram, one Twitter,

1:25:47

one TikTok. It

1:25:50

is P-O-U-R underscore in my NDS.

1:25:52

All right. And we

1:25:54

got hella fake Facebook page. Oh, the

1:25:56

Facebook page. It's the one. The

1:25:58

crazy thing is our Facebook page. What page actually

1:26:00

have the least amount of followers? So if

1:26:02

you on Facebook The one that's ours? Got

1:26:05

the least amount of followers The one that's not

1:26:07

us? Got like 250,000 followers But

1:26:10

don't you know, it's like if you actually look at the

1:26:12

content Cause the caption is like whoever it is don't speak

1:26:14

English Cause their captions are like

1:26:16

Bum-ba-clod Should men pay bills? Should

1:26:20

men pay bills? Yes, no Check

1:26:23

answer below Block, block Fire,

1:26:26

fire, fire Like that's

1:26:28

literally what the caption is I'm like what

1:26:30

was that meaning? Bum-ba-clod Bum-ba-clod

1:26:32

I love that meaning A woman in

1:26:34

my life that I love, admire One of my favorite

1:26:36

people in the world She's been married almost 20 years

1:26:39

She says she hasn't even farted That's me I

1:26:42

was with that man for 7 years If

1:26:44

he gotta go, it's better out than he No it

1:26:46

is but I'm not doing that in

1:26:48

front of him She said it was more so like

1:26:50

a personal thing She was like even when I take

1:26:52

a shit, I shower She was like I shower immediately

1:26:54

She was like I just feel nasty I had to,

1:26:56

I think It was you I called and I was

1:26:58

like Hey call me so I can act like I

1:27:00

have a phone call So I can go sit Oh

1:27:02

I remember that I do that constantly Girl, what? I

1:27:04

will literally never live in an apartment again That doesn't

1:27:07

have two bathrooms Because if you're

1:27:09

in my room and you're in my bathroom I will

1:27:11

go to the guest room Now when I'm

1:27:13

first starting like fuck with somebody Like hell

1:27:15

no we're not shawl at that Yeah like

1:27:17

I don't have no bonnet on You know

1:27:19

Once we locked in, we locked in Yeah

1:27:21

I mean now don't get me wrong The

1:27:23

bonnet thing like I'll wear a bonnet if

1:27:25

I'm sleeping But if we're having sex, if

1:27:27

we start having sex I'm taking it off

1:27:30

And I'm like really? Get

1:27:32

my bra on See y'all never really sleep with one in

1:27:34

the first place So I'll just be ready No yeah

1:27:36

But in my defense though I haven't had

1:27:38

like a closure or like a frontal in

1:27:40

like years Oh okay So

1:27:42

lately though Like being

1:27:44

me down Yeah Yeah being

1:27:46

me down Yeah I don't You gonna take this

1:27:49

pussy out of you Get it Alright If

1:27:51

this bonnet throw you off we got deeper issues What?

1:27:54

If this bonnet throw you off I

1:27:57

don't think about it Cause he don't he don't be

1:27:59

caring Like I said, he be like, let me see, let me see. He

1:28:02

just niggas will fuck a crack head.

1:28:04

Exactly. That's my thing. I seen a

1:28:06

nigga fucking a crack head on Twitter the other day.

1:28:08

That's what that we have to learn. Once I figured

1:28:10

out, people don't really give a fuck what you look

1:28:12

like. It's all about how

1:28:14

you make them feel. Right. And that's

1:28:16

why I said, I know my man, it's more of a me thing. I

1:28:19

like to feel sexy when I'm having sex. I

1:28:21

like that. It's a personal thing. I like that.

1:28:23

I wanna be one of them bitches that put

1:28:25

on low shit real sexy. Yeah, that's me. Before

1:28:27

they. Like you know on the movies. Well, the

1:28:29

lingerie. I'm a lingerie girl.

1:28:31

They don't be having no bun at all. Yeah.

1:28:34

Playing some soup in the background. There

1:28:36

do be a meeting in my bed. I

1:28:39

smell like cocoa butter and bass. I'm

1:28:42

like, what a bunny.

1:28:44

All right, Dre. Go ahead with the item of the

1:28:46

week. What we got? Okay. All

1:28:50

right, so we have an item of the week. What is this? We

1:28:52

got another gift for you. We got another gift for you.

1:28:55

So I have a cosmetics line. It's

1:28:57

called Muse Beauty Collection. I'm

1:28:59

saying I'm feeling like I do my makeup because

1:29:02

I'm tired of going to get my makeup. Really?

1:29:04

To everything. Yes, girl. Oh, this is

1:29:06

some serious shit. Thank you for your.

1:29:10

Hold on, damn, bitch, I'm dyslexic. Thank you

1:29:12

for supporting my newest brand Muse Beauty.

1:29:14

We're starting as just a dream. It's

1:29:17

finally coming true. And I hope you

1:29:19

know it wouldn't be possible without supporters

1:29:21

like you. I hope

1:29:23

you enjoy your product. And don't forget

1:29:25

to tag us Muse Beauty, baby.

1:29:29

I like that and she not seeing you. You know

1:29:31

what that means? I'm not. You know what that means?

1:29:33

Her shit is selling, okay? Okay, baby. The business will

1:29:35

be like, I don't know. The business whose

1:29:38

shit ain't selling, baby. I'm gonna tell

1:29:40

you that glaze, if you like a gloss,

1:29:42

that glaze is literally the best clear lip

1:29:44

gloss you will ever use in your life. Ah!

1:29:47

That glaze be so poppin'. But

1:29:50

you know what? My makeup artist did my

1:29:52

makeup recently and it was like a homemade

1:29:55

gloss. She was like, yeah, this gloss is

1:29:57

poppin'. So I know when people really take pride in their brand

1:29:59

and they do a- is different. Yeah, it's different.

1:30:01

Yeah, that you all love it. It's different. And

1:30:03

that's what really made me want to start

1:30:05

like a cosmetics brand too, because I always get so

1:30:07

many compliments on my lip gloss, my lips, all of

1:30:10

this. I swear to God. No rap in my

1:30:12

motherfucking cap. I was going to say, what the

1:30:14

fuck is your lip coming? I

1:30:16

promise you I was. I was like, I was

1:30:18

lost in the body. I have my honey lips.

1:30:20

How long was it? Oh. That's another year.

1:30:23

I was like, damn, a card. Y'all

1:30:26

have to stop. Y'all

1:30:29

have all done y'all. So you

1:30:31

got to do a review of it, although I

1:30:33

honestly do. I'll be fair mused. Dre, what's the

1:30:35

liner that I wear? No, that's what I was

1:30:37

saying. So I have on the chestnut liner, the

1:30:40

Honeydew matte lipstick lipstick, and then I have glaze

1:30:42

on top. Yeah. So chestnut

1:30:44

liner, the combo that I

1:30:46

always like is the chestnut liner, the lust

1:30:48

gloss, and the glaze on top. That's

1:30:50

that grown woman shit that I love. You

1:30:52

know, like hoes that be talking about lipstick

1:30:55

combinations. Yes. Not just like beauty

1:30:57

supplies, so cocoa bottles. We'll

1:31:00

put you on some good combinations with the

1:31:02

perfume. But you smell good. I

1:31:04

love the good perfume now. Yes.

1:31:06

What's your favorite color? Oh, girl, I got

1:31:08

a few. So right now, I'm

1:31:11

really liking Delina exclusive. I'm

1:31:13

really liking Tiziana Tirasini.

1:31:19

Yeah. The Cassio P is. That's

1:31:21

my favorite. Smells really good, too.

1:31:23

I'm liking Mason Margiela, Butter Fireplace.

1:31:27

It's a lot of good. The one, if

1:31:29

you like clean skin, at least, I got

1:31:31

a lot of food. Because you know, my favorite right now

1:31:33

is the Valentino, the black bottle. OK, I

1:31:36

know which one you're talking about. Borneo

1:31:38

Romul? Yes. I love that. I love

1:31:40

the good girl, the black good girl. You got

1:31:42

to try the pink one. I heard. And meet

1:31:44

that with the Delina. Nice and fruity. OK,

1:31:47

love her. We love

1:31:49

Creed. OK. She's

1:31:52

pink. I can't think of her name. She's

1:31:54

pink, glass. She got a little bow on her. I

1:31:56

love her. She's almost down to the motherfucking bottle. I

1:31:59

go through my shit. Blackerata course. Of

1:32:01

course, but you gotta mix it with bitter

1:32:03

peach by the time forward. See? Okay,

1:32:06

I want the time and I want the Prada candy.

1:32:08

The Prada candy. Prada candy smells good. She's a

1:32:10

staple. Somebody gave me that last year for my

1:32:13

birthday. I used that. She didn't

1:32:15

like pumice. Yeah, she's a staple.

1:32:17

The one that I recently bought

1:32:19

that I've literally, I cannot... People

1:32:22

love this scent on me. It's the, what is it?

1:32:24

The Kayali? The pistachio? What

1:32:27

is it? Oh, pistachio gelato. Pistachio

1:32:29

gelato. I just like,

1:32:31

cause Andrea had tweets about that and mixing it

1:32:34

with the, what is it? The

1:32:36

bazillionaire? Oh, that's what I

1:32:39

had on this morning. So you mix that,

1:32:41

they have a pistachio... Pistachio, so... It

1:32:43

don't last. It's like a mist. Y'all, but no

1:32:45

mist. The Kayali is

1:32:48

a perfume, so you gotta mix those together. Okay.

1:32:51

When I tell y'all... So if y'all, if anybody

1:32:53

watching this, y'all know from the hood or whatever

1:32:55

at the music supply store, as you know, we

1:32:57

got a scent called Pussy. That

1:33:00

girl gave it to us! That girl gave us some

1:33:02

pussy! She didn't give us some pussy! I got, I

1:33:04

got! My beauty supply store, they got 205

1:33:07

Pussy. You see, I'm from Birmingham.

1:33:09

This 205. So they put 205 Pussy on me.

1:33:12

205, that's a little crazy. This

1:33:15

girl gave us some pussy. She

1:33:17

pulled up, she pulled up the cross- She

1:33:24

just had two of them readily available in her purse

1:33:26

and she was like, oh, this for y'all. You

1:33:28

know a real bitch when you be like, what

1:33:30

you wearing? She be like, Pussy. This do smell good.

1:33:33

She had that pussy on. Shout out to her. I

1:33:35

can't remember her name. You want

1:33:37

some pussy? We used to say that all the time. Oh, you

1:33:39

put that pussy on you? That 205 Pussy. That 205 Pussy. That's

1:33:42

that Birmingham Pussy. And I like that they added a little sparkle in it. It smell

1:33:45

a little... This is what you had on! When I told you, I was like, you

1:33:47

smell so good. Mm-hmm. I'm like, you smell so

1:33:49

good. I love... What's my sheet? You

1:33:51

know, the YSL... I

1:34:00

love Leebo. I love Leebo. Opium.

1:34:02

You know black opium is like the

1:34:04

original bad bitch thing. I

1:34:07

had that in my car, but I couldn't find it. So

1:34:10

I'm like, well, you know, you're five percent. OK,

1:34:13

you smell good. OK, I'm a perfume connoisseur.

1:34:15

I love me since I was seeing you

1:34:17

at least a third. Yeah, she got all

1:34:19

the good stuff. I need a list. I'm

1:34:21

finishing one of them. OK. You

1:34:24

do a review of a new beauty, too.

1:34:26

Oh, I am. I'm literally

1:34:28

booking on my makeup products to makeup class. I'm so

1:34:30

tired of booking just to go down the street. Yeah.

1:34:32

I need to know how to do my own face.

1:34:35

Yeah. I think that was one of the things like

1:34:37

I'm really grateful. Like I know how to do my own

1:34:39

makeup because that shit could get expensive. Yeah, I had

1:34:41

to learn because I used to always have to look people

1:34:43

to do my makeup. The

1:34:45

thing about being a beauty influencer, though, it

1:34:48

don't get expensive. Yeah, you get to look at

1:34:50

a lot of stuff. Yeah, because they just like they be

1:34:52

like, shit, fuck it. I'll do your face. Tag me.

1:34:54

Yeah, that's all they be wanting. A little tag, a

1:34:56

little one, two. OK. Believe it's some real girl talk,

1:34:58

bitch. Yeah, we've been having a good time. So now

1:35:01

we're going to get into our favorite segment,

1:35:03

the Pour Your Heart Out segment. If you

1:35:05

want your question answered on the show, make

1:35:07

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1:35:09

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1:35:11

in the subject line and you get to

1:35:13

skip the line. I like that. You give

1:35:15

good advice. I feel like I

1:35:17

could already tell you. I'm telling you, all

1:35:19

my friends can bring my line down. OK,

1:35:21

OK. Go ahead, Drea.

1:35:24

OK, question number one. Hey, Drea and

1:35:26

Lix. My name is Brian. I'm from

1:35:28

West Palm, Florida. And first of all,

1:35:30

I fucking love y'all. In the times

1:35:32

I feel alone, y'all really play in

1:35:34

the background talking shit, feeling like some

1:35:36

homegirl for real. Now, I

1:35:38

know you can't speak on the LGBT

1:35:41

perspective, but any tips on being a

1:35:43

new bartender? I'm 18, taking my little

1:35:45

classes, and I get my certificate at

1:35:47

the end of this week. Anything I

1:35:49

should know before I get out there on my

1:35:51

first motherfucking night, which I'm nervous

1:35:53

for. Also, what headspace were y'all at

1:35:56

when you was 18, and how

1:35:58

would you say you've Grown from all these experiences? They

1:36:00

put you in the position. Where you are now.

1:36:02

How. Did you get your fleet in a door? When did

1:36:04

you jump? Off the porridge. Not sexually elo. Ill

1:36:06

only saw want to reveal it. It's who.

1:36:09

Keep doing what you do for reply. It's the fuck

1:36:11

am I. Really have

1:36:13

a fair know what you know you

1:36:15

as far as how many people from

1:36:17

your nephew Brian love Yards easy as

1:36:19

he so I think met you please

1:36:21

allow now that you are with on

1:36:24

on about Undies a unicycle Live Theory.

1:36:26

Folly. Of I have a foul. As

1:36:28

a male bar tender, I've never been a

1:36:30

bartender made eighteen. remember he's okay for me.

1:36:33

Oh kind of a fucking drink liquor. You

1:36:35

know how to fuck are you up you

1:36:37

fucking liar. A minor because you know you

1:36:40

can Barton, I do. We know, I see

1:36:42

Rob Martin. On I thought of marketed

1:36:44

as a scene at He is

1:36:46

another that outline of hi I

1:36:48

am I was a hard core

1:36:50

a bartender that has that of

1:36:53

the illegal. That's how we became five.

1:36:55

I'd love the idea of illegal. What Am I? Not

1:36:59

on our are going up in

1:37:01

in a lot of a success.

1:37:03

How about my life? The freebie

1:37:05

little are mostly vault but I'm

1:37:07

not that bad about the Bbl.

1:37:09

growing up it didn't hurt. Oh

1:37:11

usa about underplaying on our to