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Almost every day, Evelyn
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watches the same video of her
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daughter looking into the camera
0:09
and babbling. That
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was one of my favorite videos because she's
0:22
using her voice. Last
0:24
fall, my colleague Amber Ferguson met up with
0:26
Evelyn while she packed for a trip. By
0:29
the way, we're only using Evelyn's first name to
0:31
protect her privacy. Evelyn
0:34
was finally going to see her baby in
0:36
person for the first time in almost a
0:38
year. I'm really excited.
0:42
I don't know if I'm nervous,
0:44
but excited definitely. I know I'm
0:46
going to cry because it's been
0:48
so long and I just hope
0:50
that she embraces
0:53
me. She's a baby, so I feel
0:55
like babies sometimes remember things, but sometimes they don't.
0:58
So we will see how that goes.
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I'm excited. You
1:06
see, Evelyn placed her baby for
1:08
adoption. And now she
1:10
was on her way to see the adoptive mother
1:12
and her family, and most
1:14
importantly, her daughter, Olivia. Time has gone
1:16
by so fast, so seeing the pictures
1:18
and videos of her growing
1:23
up over the months, it's exciting to look at,
1:25
but now I get to see her in person
1:27
and hold her and touch her and
1:29
hug her. So that really means a lot to me. Despite
1:33
all the joy and excitement,
1:36
this moment almost didn't happen. This
1:39
adoption almost didn't happen. Baby
1:41
Olivia almost didn't happen because
1:44
Evelyn tried desperately to get
1:46
an abortion. In
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the newsroom of The Washington Post, this is
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Post Reports. I'm Martine Powers.
1:57
It's Thursday, April 25th. In
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the nearly two years since Roe v. Wade
2:02
was overturned, abortion access has become
2:05
a patchwork in the United States. Depending
2:07
on where you live, the procedure might
2:09
be restricted or banned completely. If
2:12
you're pregnant and don't want to parent,
2:15
anti-abortion advocates often suggest adoption
2:17
as a solution. But
2:20
carrying a pregnancy and giving birth
2:22
and placing that baby for adoption can
2:25
be painful, and it can be complicated.
2:28
Today, we have a story that
2:30
I was drawn to because it's
2:33
just so nuanced. It
2:35
is about abortion restrictions. It's
2:38
also about disparities in the world
2:40
of fertility and about the state
2:42
of adoption in America today. And
2:45
to the two women at the center of
2:47
it, it's not a political story. It's
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a story that is deeply personal. As
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I said, this story was reported by my
3:01
colleague, Amber Ferguson. You'll hear her voice
3:03
first. Evelyn was
3:06
a college student in her early 20s when
3:08
she unexpectedly got pregnant in 2022. When
3:11
I first connected with Evelyn, the first thing she
3:13
told me was I wasn't doing much with my
3:16
life. She was on academic dismissal
3:18
for the third time. She was in community
3:20
college in San Antonio. And so because
3:23
she was on academic dismissal, she
3:25
had to sit up an entire year of
3:27
school. And she met
3:29
a guy on social
3:31
media. They dated for a few
3:33
weeks, and she got pregnant. She
3:39
told me the air out of her
3:41
body left her when she saw the
3:43
pregnancy test on her bathroom counter. And
3:45
she immediately knew she wanted to get an abortion.
3:49
So at the time that Evelyn was trying to
3:51
figure out what to do, she's
3:53
in Texas. There was a ban
3:56
on abortion after six weeks of
3:59
pregnancy. So what
4:01
happened? What happened when she went
4:04
to a clinic to try to get an
4:06
abortion? So after she
4:08
received the positive pregnancy test, she immediately
4:10
made an appointment. She went into
4:12
the clinic three days later after the positive
4:15
test, and she
4:17
was hoping she wasn't too far along. She
4:19
said that the waiting room was packed. She
4:22
found out she was six weeks and four days pregnant,
4:25
and they said that they couldn't help her,
4:27
but they could refer her to a clinic
4:29
in Oklahoma. So
4:35
she went to Oklahoma next? Yes.
4:38
So Evelyn is adopted herself,
4:41
and she was terrified to tell her
4:43
adoptive parents who she lived with. So
4:45
she called her birth mom, Tamala, who
4:48
lives close to the Oklahoma border. She
4:50
told her adoptive parents she was going
4:52
to visit Tamala, but
4:54
Tamala helped get her across state
4:56
lines to Oklahoma to do a
4:59
medical abortion. And so how
5:01
did that go for her? So
5:04
Evelyn was prescribed medication to start an
5:06
abortion, and she took it. She
5:08
bled, she cramped, she
5:11
had blood clots, and she thought it
5:13
was successful. The clinic advised her to
5:16
do a follow-up, but she thought that it
5:18
worked. So two or three months passed, and
5:20
she still hadn't gone her menstrual cycle, and
5:22
she took another pregnancy test, and to her
5:24
surprise, it was positive. And she
5:26
went to the clinic to confirm
5:28
it, and they said the
5:31
fetus was still growing. Oh my gosh.
5:33
How often does that happen, that people get
5:35
medical abortions that don't actually work? Three
5:37
percent of medical abortions fail when
5:40
gestation reaches 70 days or 10 weeks.
5:44
So after two attempts to get an abortion,
5:46
she was still pregnant. What
5:49
did she do then? So
5:51
Evelyn was desperate. She found a
5:53
website online that ships abortion pills
5:56
across the states, And
5:58
she bought pills that were available for her. We're
6:00
coming from India and about a week
6:02
later she took the pills see experience
6:04
cramping but there was no bleeding. She
6:07
emailed the company and they said for
6:09
her to take more. Tells them. But
6:11
she refused and want to keep doing more harm. So.
6:15
What was he thinking in that moment? Cd
6:17
release him to come in
6:19
to having an abortion, not
6:21
carrying this pregnancy to term
6:23
and to be met with
6:26
these failed attempts. What? Was I
6:28
like for her? She. Was petrified. One of
6:30
the main reasons why it's you want
6:32
to have an abortion. That's because she
6:34
felt she can cure for. This.
6:36
Child: Her parents adopted her when
6:39
they were. Older so they're in
6:41
their seventies now. I'm and
6:43
she says you know I wasn't working, I wanted
6:45
to finish school, I didn't have anything on my
6:47
own and I didn't want to put this on
6:49
my parents to raise this baby. And
6:52
after her third attempt didn't
6:54
work, she spent a couple
6:57
months just researching everyday. Had
6:59
a has. A leap
7:01
second trimester abortion. This whole time,
7:04
her parents didn't know she was
7:06
pregnant and the people closest to
7:08
her for friends didn't know she
7:10
was pregnant. And she sounds a
7:13
clinic in Albuquerque, New Mexico that
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does allow leap second trimester abortions
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and they told her it's can
7:20
be twelve thousand dollars. And
7:22
she said i don't have that money
7:24
and so they connect said heard A
7:26
to organizations and that gave her. Grants.
7:29
To pay. For her flight her food
7:32
her hotel for her to go
7:34
and she told her parents that
7:36
she was going across town to
7:38
San Antonio to visit a friend
7:40
but she bore a deflates a
7:42
New Mexico to try to have
7:44
an abortion again. Well.
7:46
And. That didn't work either. And
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when she got there she was praying this
7:52
is her. Third, Fourth time now
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praying as she kings had this abortion
7:56
times and at this point you know
7:58
she's feeling the baby. And
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they say no. After they did the
8:03
ultrasound, he,
8:05
I remember seeing the look on the
8:07
doctor's face and he was like, I'm
8:09
sorry, we can't go through with abortion.
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You're too far along for us to
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do it. And I was crying. I
8:16
was scared. And that's when
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it hit me right away that I was going to have,
8:20
you know, my baby and stuff. You
8:25
know, the fact that you said
8:27
she was adopted herself, why
8:29
wasn't that something that she considered more seriously
8:31
up to that point? It's
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something I asked her a lot about. And
8:35
she said, I just did not want to
8:37
give birth. I did not want my parents
8:39
to know I was pregnant. I did not
8:41
want to give birth. And it wasn't
8:44
until she was faced with the reality that she
8:46
had to give birth that she
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made the decision to choose adoption.
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And she chose the same adoption
8:52
agency that her parents used. I
8:55
asked her several times, like, did you ever
8:57
think about parenting? And she said,
8:59
no, she said, I knew
9:02
where I am in my life. I did not
9:04
have the capacity to care for
9:06
this child. That never wavered. It
9:09
just makes me sad because it was like,
9:11
it was a hard time. It was very stressful. And
9:14
I didn't know what to do. And it
9:17
kind of seemed like it was like, I
9:19
didn't know how it was going to turn out.
9:22
In the moment I felt a lot of stress
9:25
and everything
9:27
kind of just felt like negative, especially since
9:30
I was having a baby by a person
9:36
that I didn't really know in that way. And
9:38
someone that had been
9:40
disrespectful towards me and I felt like I
9:42
was trapped. Wait. But
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one thing I never did was blame
9:48
my baby for it. Because
9:52
it was never, it was never
9:54
false. And
9:56
then when it hit her that she was going to give
9:58
birth, it was like, I don't know, to have this
10:00
baby, she said, you know, I never want
10:03
to resent this baby. I never
10:05
wanted this baby to think
10:07
it was their fault. And she's like, I
10:10
want to give this baby the best life
10:12
possible. And the best life possible is not
10:14
with me. It sounds
10:16
like Evelyn was really resistant to talking to
10:18
her parents about this. But at some point,
10:20
it's kind of impossible to hide. What
10:23
was it like for her finally having
10:26
to have that conversation with her parents?
10:29
Evelyn was terrified. Evelyn was terrified to
10:31
have this conversation, but she could not
10:33
keep hiding it. And she sat her
10:36
mom down. And she was still too
10:38
terrified to tell her dad. So her
10:40
mom is the one who told her
10:42
dad, her dad was shocked. He
10:45
couldn't believe it. He said, Why
10:47
didn't you come to us sooner for help? At
10:49
this point, she had already contacted the caseworker to
10:51
start the adoption. And she's
10:53
like, I was just trying to do everything
10:56
on my own. And they said, we'll support
10:58
you in whatever decision you decide to make. So
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I want to stop the story here and
11:04
switch points of view. Because while
11:06
all this is happening, there was another woman
11:09
two hours away in Houston, who
11:11
was ready to start a family. Tell
11:14
me about Carolyn Whiteman. Carolyn
11:16
Whiteman is a 44 year old woman
11:18
in Houston, Texas, who always wanted to
11:21
be a mom. In
11:23
2020, her dad was diagnosed with
11:25
prostate cancer. And she got tested
11:27
for the BRCA2 gene and she
11:29
tested positive, which puts her at
11:31
an increased risk for breast and
11:34
ovarian cancer. And her
11:36
doctor strongly advised her
11:38
to have her ovaries
11:40
and uterus removed by her mid 40s.
11:43
And Carolyn is single. She
11:45
always is expected to find someone and have
11:48
a baby. And her timeline was
11:50
moved up in 2021. She froze
11:52
her eggs twice. And she
11:54
was looking for a black
11:56
sperm donor. And She found
11:59
out that there's hard. The any less
12:01
than three percent of sperm donors
12:03
are black she didn't want. To
12:05
choose a donor for different race and
12:07
so cheap. Basically. Gave that
12:09
up. The I am
12:11
they're freezing my ads and then making
12:13
a decision. Series on a single mother
12:16
by choice was already a jump and
12:18
once I got there it was okay.
12:20
what's the next steps of his sperm
12:22
donor And then when I realized there
12:24
was a lack of lox from donors
12:26
the disappointment was was heavy because I
12:29
thought oh now here's another barrier I'm
12:31
gonna have to work through and I
12:33
just decided not to work through it.
12:35
I probably could have maybe lot harder
12:37
I probably said have decided to. Adams
12:40
continue looking. To as there are other women that
12:42
were able to find a donor spat. I.
12:45
I just that exhausted I was
12:47
tired and I said you know
12:49
why let me stop and pivot
12:51
and at the answer will come
12:53
to me and I just i
12:55
paused. And twenty, it's when it's your
12:57
after I published. A story about the shortest black
12:59
sperm donors. I received an email
13:02
from Carolyn see things V for my
13:04
story and said that she try to
13:06
find a box sperm donor and couldn't
13:09
and that's what let her down says
13:11
adoption path. When she emailed me in
13:13
October twenty twenty two she said diet
13:16
adoption was a struggle and that she
13:18
was going through the process and not
13:20
There are barriers. I'm a call
13:22
to adoption agencies here in Houston and it was
13:24
a phone conversation and I'm just call. To say
13:27
hello. My name is Carol and. I'm
13:29
interested in learning more about adoption and
13:31
they asked me to are you married
13:33
and I thought that was an interesting
13:35
person at a among several questions but
13:37
it was seen. are you married method
13:39
now and I'm sorry we didn't say
13:41
to anyone but married couples arm and
13:43
then there was another agency that men
13:45
send I would have to fund our
13:47
to have remarried and I'll have to
13:49
sign a pledge to raise the child
13:51
and a christian home which I had
13:53
no problem doing but it was says
13:55
interesting that it was tied to be
13:57
married so I knew. Those agencies weren't for
13:59
me. I'll admit, I was surprised that
14:01
I never heard of that been a
14:03
requirement that marriage was a requirement to
14:05
adopt. At this point having
14:08
reached out to all of these adoption
14:10
agencies and hearing look you're not who
14:12
are looking for lose her reaction than
14:14
what was she feeling. She. Felt
14:16
rejected. She already thought it was
14:19
such a struggle to find someone
14:21
romantically, it was already a struggle
14:23
to find a block sperm donor.
14:26
And now she's here. and there's
14:28
another obstacle where they're nice and
14:30
accepting her to be an adoptive
14:33
mother and. Carolyn says.
14:36
She was Ben Folds and she
14:38
was upset. She's like I did
14:40
everything right. I went to college,
14:42
I am a homeowner. I have
14:44
such as supporters group of family
14:46
and friends and and healthy and
14:48
I have the money to do
14:50
this that I saved up and
14:52
it's like no one wants me.
14:59
To them, what happened, what changed,
15:02
So. Then she contacts Gladney
15:05
Adoption Agency and it's
15:07
a months long process.
15:09
Home studies, interviews, background,
15:12
Checks and a suspect You
15:14
thousand dollars. Were
15:23
going into couples there but after
15:25
the break who hear how Carolyn
15:27
story intersects with Avalon's. Will
15:29
be right back. Suit
15:46
tell me about the experience than of
15:49
one had giving birth to her baby
15:51
daughter. So. Evelyn certs
15:53
having contractions at thirty six weeks,
15:56
and she initially thought. It was
15:58
gallbladder pain I guess. yet gallbladder is. She's
16:00
in the past and her mom is
16:02
a nurse and said, no honey, you're
16:04
having contractions. And so they drove to
16:06
the hospital and six hours later, Olivia
16:09
was born. Shortly after she
16:11
gives birth, the gluttony caseworker comes and
16:13
tells her how the adoption would work
16:15
and tells her she can take as
16:17
much time as she wants. And
16:20
Evelyn chooses five profiles of
16:23
families and she was
16:25
just so drawn to Carolyn's. She said
16:27
there was just a warmth about her.
16:30
I loved all the
16:32
pictures she had of her family and
16:34
her friends and how she spoils her
16:36
goddaughters. She later told me,
16:38
you know, I really wanted a black
16:41
woman to raise this child.
16:44
So later there was a Zoom that
16:46
was set up. They met over Zoom
16:48
and they just talked. They talked about
16:50
family time and spirituality and Carolyn, she
16:52
was on the board of Girls, Inc.,
16:55
which is like a nonprofit to teach
16:57
girls leadership. And Evelyn was
16:59
part of Girls, Inc. when she was younger.
17:01
And so they connected on that. Later
17:04
that day, there was a second Zoom and
17:07
her parents met Carolyn and
17:09
then literally eight hours later,
17:12
Carolyn gets a phone call that Evelyn chooses
17:14
her and she's about to become a mom.
17:17
Oh my gosh, what was Carolyn's reaction in
17:19
that moment? She was just
17:21
so happy. She was just like, finally.
17:25
So she has to get a stroller.
17:27
She has to make a registry. She got a
17:29
nanny. She just like has to buy all of
17:31
these things that most adoptive
17:34
parents would have a few months to gather.
17:36
And she does not have that time. The
17:38
baby's already born. And then
17:40
you have Evelyn who, she
17:43
never took Olivia home after she gave
17:45
birth. She thought it would be too difficult.
17:47
So she just stayed at the hospital the whole
17:49
time? Evelyn went back to
17:52
San Antonio. She went home and the baby
17:54
stayed in a placement home. Okay. And
17:57
so she is shopping with her
17:59
mom. and they get Olivia this
18:01
light pink dress for adoption day and
18:04
they go to the fabric store and she knits
18:06
the baby a blanket. And
18:09
then the day before the adoption, Evelyn
18:12
and Carolyn finally meet in person.
18:14
And at that point, Evelyn had
18:16
already signed the relinquishment rights. Did
18:19
everyone ever have a moment of
18:21
doubt about her decision after Olivia was
18:23
born? No, after she
18:25
gave birth, she was silent. And
18:29
she just looked down, she just automatically loved
18:31
Olivia. And she told me, I know I
18:33
really tried everything not to have her, but
18:36
I do love her. And so
18:38
her feelings immediately changed after she
18:40
gave birth and she loved this baby.
18:43
And it was incredibly difficult for her
18:45
to choose adoption. But she said, I
18:48
know this was what was best for me
18:50
and what is best for her. And she
18:52
said, I know Carolyn could give her everything.
18:55
I know I couldn't. What
18:57
was adoption day like? So
18:59
on the day of placement, which is adoption day,
19:02
they handed the baby to her and
19:04
she just sat with her and rocked her and
19:06
she was just crying. And she says, I love
19:08
you, I love you, I love you. You're
19:12
gonna have such a great life with Carolyn.
19:15
She kissed her on the forehead and
19:18
she told them, I'm
19:20
ready. And
19:23
she hands Olivia over to Carolyn
19:25
and they hug. Some gifts
19:28
are exchanged and they're kind of just getting to know
19:30
each other and they sat and they held hands for two
19:32
hours. And eventually
19:35
the room clears and it's just
19:37
Evelyn, Carolyn and Olivia. And
19:40
Evelyn turns to her and just kind of
19:42
shares a little bit about her story and
19:44
opens up. And she talks about how
19:46
she got pregnant and what her plans are and what
19:48
she wants to do. And she said, I try
19:51
to have an abortion a couple of times and
19:54
I really hope you won't judge me. And
19:57
Carolyn says, I would never judge you
19:59
for that. A lot of
20:01
decisions led us here and I
20:03
am so grateful. Aww.
20:10
How are they doing now? After
20:13
the birth of Olivia and after adoption day, it
20:15
was very difficult for her. She told me she
20:17
cried every day. She
20:20
slept with Olivia's baby
20:22
clothes from the hospital just to smell
20:24
her. And she
20:26
just kept telling her mom and her parents, like, I
20:29
really want this to motivate me. I
20:31
don't want this to take me further off track. And
20:34
so she wrote a letter to
20:36
the dean of the community college to ask
20:38
to come back. And
20:41
she finished the spring semester
20:43
with straight A's. And
20:46
she's like, I surprised myself so much.
20:48
And by that point, she had enough
20:51
credits and she was able to apply
20:53
to transfer to a four-year historically
20:56
black college outside of Houston. And
20:58
she was accepted and
21:00
she's studying criminal justice. She moved down
21:02
her own for the first time and
21:04
she has a roommate. And
21:07
she's like, every time I would like call her, she's
21:09
like, Amber, I'm going to Bible study or Amber,
21:11
I'm going to the gym. And
21:13
she's just like thriving and she's making
21:16
friends and she is happy. I
21:18
want to be someone that Olivia
21:20
looks up to and for
21:23
her to know that, you know,
21:25
I've continued going to school not
21:27
only for me, but for her as well so
21:30
I can be someone that she can
21:32
be inspired by and look up to
21:34
and for her to
21:37
hopefully want to pursue her education
21:40
so that she could go far as well
21:42
and do something that she loves to do. And
21:45
Caroline is finally a mom,
21:47
and she loves motherhood. I
21:49
mean, her life revolves around
21:51
Olivia and they did
21:54
an open adoption. There's a range of things
21:56
that that can mean, but for them, it
21:58
means that there's just really regular children. communication.
22:01
So Carolyn and Evelyn
22:03
and Anika, who is Carolyn's sister, are in
22:06
a group chat and they're
22:08
always sending pictures and
22:10
videos back and forth. And so
22:12
in their adoption contract, they
22:16
thought that they would meet once a year.
22:18
And so the first time that they met was in October.
22:21
She's like setting T-series. She's very observant.
22:25
I love that. We called it a dressing room. Thank you.
22:28
No! No! We're just
22:30
having a go. We just had a go. And
22:33
I got to witness for the first time Evelyn
22:35
seeing Olivia in almost a year
22:38
and it was extremely emotional. And
22:40
what was really beautiful about it
22:43
was that Evelyn's parents were there
22:46
and they're just so proud
22:48
of her. I was talking to her dad a lot and
22:51
he just said, you know, I
22:53
never thought I'd become a grandpa like this.
22:55
But he said, I'm so proud of Evelyn
22:57
and she could not have made a better
22:59
decision. I wondered
23:01
why Evelyn shared her story
23:03
with me. Evelyn never had
23:05
to tell anyone that she tried to get
23:08
an abortion. And I asked her, like, why
23:10
do you want your story out there? And
23:12
she said, I don't want any
23:14
other young woman to be placed in the
23:16
position I was in. And she said, this
23:18
was my path and I'm so glad Olivia
23:21
exists. I'm so glad I was able to
23:23
have her and get birth. But
23:25
what I did was dangerous. And
23:28
she doesn't want other women to go through what
23:30
she went through. Interesting. Because
23:32
I know the story
23:34
isn't about politics, right?
23:36
These are just the experiences of two women
23:38
and them coming together in this really remarkable
23:41
way. But I, you know, I can't
23:43
help but hear it and say, like,
23:46
this is the argument that
23:48
is given by anti-abortion advocates
23:50
of what the possibilities are
23:53
beyond abortion, that there are so many
23:55
people looking for children that the adoption
23:57
process can bring much
24:00
happiness to people and that
24:02
that could be an answer. So
24:06
I spoke to 10 adoption agencies
24:08
and states where adoption is banned
24:10
or restricted and eight of them
24:12
said we asked the birth moms,
24:14
you know, about how they got pregnant and the
24:17
majority of them say either
24:19
tried to get an abortion or I
24:21
wanted an abortion and I couldn't. I
24:23
mean, what happens when a woman can
24:25
either get an abortion because of state
24:27
laws and they can't parents.
24:30
What happens? You know,
24:32
either they parent and they really
24:34
struggle or they choose
24:37
adoption and basically
24:40
be forced to give birth
24:42
and then place that baby
24:44
up for adoption is extremely,
24:47
extremely difficult. Evelyn
24:49
never thought she would give birth and place
24:51
the baby up for adoption. But yet this
24:53
is the situation she found herself in because
24:55
she lived in Texas. So
24:58
what you're saying is that even though
25:00
Evelyn has come out of this experience
25:03
with so much gratitude for the baby
25:06
that she gave birth to and being
25:08
able to place that baby in the
25:10
arms of a loving woman,
25:12
Carolyn, that even with
25:15
all of that, that she still
25:17
thinks that her story is
25:19
not like the dream story that
25:21
anti-abortion activists are talking about. Not
25:24
at all. When we were fact checking this
25:26
story, the clinic she went to in San
25:29
Antonio has since closed. I needed to get
25:31
the name and she was Googling and she's
25:33
like, oh my God, it's closed. I can't
25:35
believe that they help so many women. And
25:38
then the clinic she went
25:40
to for Oklahoma to get the medical abortion,
25:42
it relocated to Chicago. Her stance
25:44
on the fact that women should have the
25:47
right to abortion is even stronger than it
25:49
was before. She knows that
25:51
it puts women in such a difficult position. I'm
25:54
curious where Carolyn stands on all of this.
25:56
Did you talk to her about how she
25:59
feels about abortion? access and whether
26:01
this changed her opinion? Carolyn
26:03
says abortion is health care. She
26:06
never judged Evelyn. She doesn't judge her. She
26:08
says, I'm so sorry you went through this.
26:10
You put yourself in a very dangerous position.
26:13
And she's very upset by that. She
26:15
said, you know, she is
26:18
so grateful for Olivia that Olivia is
26:20
healthy and that the abortion medications didn't
26:22
do anything to affect
26:24
her health. But she is very
26:28
sad for Evelyn that she had to go through that.
26:31
So to you, what is the
26:33
story about? Is this a story about
26:35
abortion laws and about women's health care?
26:38
Is it a story about like how
26:40
these narratives can be politicized
26:43
in the fight over abortion
26:45
rights? Or is
26:47
it about adoption and how we define family?
26:51
This is a complicated story.
26:54
Yes, it's about adoption. This
26:56
is the struggles that black
26:58
women face to become mothers.
27:01
I mean, if Carolyn
27:04
had access to a black donor, she
27:07
wouldn't have chosen adoption. But
27:09
when it comes to the abortion question,
27:12
it's just really about the length that
27:14
some woman will go to to obtain
27:16
an abortion and how it still might
27:18
not work. And I mean,
27:20
many things happen for Evelyn's abortion not
27:23
to be successful. She
27:25
was six weeks and four days and under
27:27
six weeks she got
27:29
medication that was ineffective twice
27:32
and she was also too
27:34
far along to obtain one safely. It
27:39
just shows that even though
27:41
a woman can try so hard to
27:44
make a choice for her body, there
27:46
are things, systems, laws, people in
27:48
place to prevent that. And so
27:51
they have to take alternative measures.
27:58
Amber, thank you so much for sharing this. story. Thank
28:01
you. Amber
28:08
Ferguson is a senior video editor for
28:10
The Post. If
28:12
you want to learn more about Evelyn
28:15
and Carolyn and Olivia and see photos
28:17
and videos of them and their reunion,
28:20
we will include links to Amber's story in
28:22
our show notes. Before
28:33
we go, here are a few other stories
28:36
I'm following today. The
28:38
Supreme Court heard oral arguments
28:40
this morning on an unprecedented
28:42
question of presidential immunity. The
28:45
justices are weighing whether former President
28:47
Donald Trump can be prosecuted for
28:49
actions he took while he was
28:51
in office to stay in power
28:53
after losing the 2020 election. And
28:55
in court, the justices appeared poised
28:57
to reject this claim of presidential
29:00
immunity. Conservative justices worried
29:02
that a ruling could hamper the power
29:04
of future presidents or subject them to
29:06
the whims of a politically motivated prosecutor.
29:09
The liberal justices emphasized that the president
29:11
is not above the law. Whatever
29:14
the court decides will determine whether
29:16
and how quickly Trump would face
29:18
trial on charges of election interference.
29:21
The justices' decision will likely shape
29:23
power and accountability for future presidents.
29:26
And major news in New York,
29:29
the rape conviction for Hollywood producer
29:31
Harvey Weinstein was overturned today. To
29:34
be clear, Weinstein is not being released
29:36
from prison. His 2022 rape
29:39
conviction in California still stands.
29:42
But the New York Court of Appeals
29:44
ruled that the judge in Weinstein's original
29:46
trial in 2020 improperly
29:48
allowed testimony about allegations that were
29:50
not part of the case. The
29:53
court has ordered a retrial. That's
29:57
it for poster reports. Thanks for listening.
30:00
Today's episode was produced by Charlotte
30:02
Freeland. It was mixed by Sean
30:04
Carter and edited by Maggie Penman. I'm
30:07
Martine Powers. We'll be back
30:09
tomorrow with more stories from the Washington Post.
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