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Up next, how Well the Gianno

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called Well. This

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week we're celebrating the forty ninth

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episode of this podcast and

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we have something very special plan

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for you, guys. Don't go away. This

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is Outlied with Gianno Caldwell. Welcome

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back to Outlied with Gianno Caldwell. I'm Gianno

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Caldwell and I'm very excited for today's show.

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This is our forty ninth episode

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with someone who's a very dear

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friend of mine. Our guests today

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is rather an interesting guy. He's

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a minister that you're like, oh man, we've had

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other ministers on here before. Of course,

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he's very unique though. He has the last

0:41

name that millions of people know

0:44

around the world, and it is

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Kardashian. Yes,

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that Kardashian. This

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Kardashian, though, is someone

0:54

who does something a little different

0:56

than the reality TV stars that you know from

0:58

keeping up with the Kardashians, kN Chris

1:01

Chloe and all of those folks. This

1:03

guy is a life coach. He's a minister

1:06

and I'm telling you, folks, you're in

1:08

for a true ride. I'm

1:11

talking about Ron Kardashian.

1:13

He's here for indef and inspiring conversation

1:16

that I know you'll enjoy. Ron

1:19

is a life coach and he's a mentor to so many

1:21

people whose lives he's touched for the

1:23

better. He's also a strength and conditioning

1:25

coach, certified by the National Strength and Conditioning

1:28

Association and the founder of

1:30

Kingdom Conditioning Ministries. You

1:32

can find out more about Ron's integrated God's

1:34

Center fitness approach by picking up his book

1:36

Getting in Shape God's Way. He also

1:39

has a book I'll called thirty Second Solution

1:41

trand Firm your body, business,

1:43

relationship, and life in just thirty

1:45

seconds. This is a book that people

1:47

like TD Jake's has

1:49

endorsed. So Ron

1:52

Kardashian, thank you for joining us

1:54

here on Out Loud with Gianno

1:56

Caldwell Coach. Thank you Gianno for having

1:58

me. No, it's my pleasure you're now. It's a

2:00

lot going on this week, and I want

2:02

to start off the show by talking

2:05

about Afghanistan, the people they are hurting.

2:07

I know that there's been plans in the

2:09

works for a while for US to withdraw

2:11

in Afghanistan, and I'm certainly not looking to

2:14

have you get involved in any

2:16

political conversations because I think this is beyond

2:18

politics. I think this is a human a

2:21

human issue where the United

2:23

States it's supposed to be that shining

2:26

city sitting on a hill or freedom

2:28

loving people everywhere, and it feels as though

2:30

we failed that mission. But I want to

2:32

play some audio from CNN

2:34

of all places and what they're

2:36

noticing on the ground, from one of their senior international

2:39

correspondence. Let's play the audio drive. It's the panic,

2:42

the lack of clear information, The rumor

2:44

mill is an over drive. There's hysteria.

2:47

You have Taliban fighters with whips

2:49

with guns. You have US and

2:51

UK soldiers who are not allowing people

2:54

in. You have mixed messaging coming

2:56

through about what kind of paperwork you need

2:58

and how you can get on a fly where you

3:00

can go. I mean, it is just an

3:03

absolute mess. And we heard

3:05

President Biden say yesterday in his comments

3:08

to ABC News that this is not a failure.

3:10

And I think a lot of people outside that

3:12

airport, particularly those taking the

3:14

kinds of extreme actions were just talking

3:17

about, would like to know if this isn't

3:19

failure, what does failure look

3:21

like? Exactly what you just

3:23

heard is a clip from CNN,

3:26

and I'm sure a lot of you are listening and saying,

3:28

wait a second, that was CNN, Yes,

3:30

it was. The world is

3:32

condemning our leader right now. Our

3:35

allies in Afghanistan are

3:37

allies around the world who been

3:40

a part of this fight for twenty plus years,

3:42

didn't receive one phone call from

3:44

the commander in chief as to what he was going

3:47

to do and how he was going to do it, thereby putting

3:49

the lives of American citizens

3:52

and those who helped our country in jeopardy.

3:54

And I want you to listen to this next sound

3:57

by now. I want to get the coach's response on

3:59

the other end of it from a lady

4:01

who is Afghanni, and

4:04

these are her thoughts on President Biden.

4:06

Biden, listen to me carefully.

4:09

You're destroyed, not Afghanistan,

4:12

but the world. Teliban

4:15

our best brandsman al Qaida, and

4:18

I said, all they're gonna do,

4:20

use our lad to build,

4:24

don't restart to

4:26

build that to destroy the

4:28

world. You you

4:30

you're right now, you are your on vacation

4:33

and our country's batting. And

4:37

why are you on vacation, man,

4:40

coach painful?

4:44

The people are truly hurting in in in our

4:46

country has failed at his mission.

4:49

Honestly, my thoughts, I want to

4:51

get your thoughts because you you speak

4:53

with some of the most prominent people around the world,

4:55

and you've coached them through successful they

4:58

be titans of business, ministers,

5:01

world leaders. I want to get your

5:03

thoughts, especially a human perspective

5:06

on what you just listened to. That

5:08

was probably the most moving thing I've heard

5:11

all week, and I have not heard that clip yet,

5:13

but you know, Gianna, what comes to mind right away?

5:16

And forgive me because this was

5:19

so emotional for me as a father,

5:21

as a husband. That is somebody's

5:24

daughter, and we have to put

5:26

on the right lens and look

5:28

through the perspective of empathy

5:30

and compassion because

5:33

we this is not a political issue. This

5:35

is a human lives issue. Now, I'll

5:37

tell you something very powerful, and I don't

5:39

quote this. I don't quote

5:41

this without deep reverence and respect

5:43

and introspection from my own life. But Proverbs

5:46

two is something

5:48

that haunted my soul as

5:50

I heard this woman's screen, and it says,

5:53

when the righteous are in authority and

5:55

become great, the people rejoice. But

5:58

when the wicked man rules, the people grown

6:00

and sigh. Could you hear

6:02

the groaning and the sign? This

6:06

is a human istic

6:08

issue. It's about saving lives.

6:11

These are American citizens on that soil,

6:13

and regardless, pulling out any

6:15

sort of protection jeopardizes

6:17

the lives of not only men, these young

6:20

boys, but women and children.

6:23

And I read a subtitle

6:26

this week as I was doing my d D

6:28

and trying to empathize and see

6:30

how I can better serve this initiative amongst

6:33

leaders, and one thing read

6:35

correct with me that the

6:37

backbone of this annihilation

6:40

and onslaught is about the gold,

6:42

the girls, and the glory. That's

6:45

what the Taliban's agenda is, and

6:47

it's puts them in harm's way without

6:51

any resources or protection, and

6:53

this is now inducing an

6:55

epidemic that I'm dealing with amongst

6:57

those leaders. You mentioned that I coach call

7:00

deep trauma. Wow, And

7:03

you can see that because certainly, if

7:05

for f folks who has been watching the news media,

7:08

we've seen airplanes, our airplanes,

7:10

as a matter of fact, our military aircraft with

7:13

over six hundred people and the most

7:15

that they've ever known or have on

7:17

records, there's ever been on said military

7:20

aircraft. But you saw people

7:22

attached to the side of it,

7:25

and you saw some people as

7:27

the airplane took off, they were hanging off

7:29

the side of the airplane and something I think a young

7:32

boy died as the airplane took

7:34

off and hit the sky. There. This

7:37

is You're so right and your words are so appropriate,

7:39

and I mean really touching and moving what

7:42

you're saying right now, especially considering

7:44

the fact that this is

7:47

the level of chaos that we've not

7:49

necessarily seen as a country. Well,

7:51

I don't even know what the vice president is. No one knows.

7:54

Where's Kamala Harris, Like, no one knows. It

7:56

seems as though she doesn't want to have her hand anywhere

7:58

in this mess. It feels like we're in a leaderless

8:01

country right now. And it's it's this isn't

8:03

political. For folks that are listening, Hey,

8:06

I voted for Trump. This isn't my fault

8:08

or you know, at least it's better than drump

8:11

or something like that. You have people that will try to take both

8:13

sides of it and make it political. This is

8:15

not political, folks, This is

8:17

not This is lives on the line

8:20

and the reputation of our country on the world

8:22

stage being diminished day by day,

8:24

hour by hour, with the president who

8:27

doesn't seem like he's up for the job, and the vice

8:29

president who's not answering the call

8:31

of leadership, and this is where we are. So I

8:34

would say this if it was Trump, if

8:36

it was George W. Bush. It doesn't matter

8:38

about the D or the R by someone's

8:40

name. This is an issue that our

8:42

country is gonna have to deal with the blowback

8:44

for years to come. Our allies are not questioning

8:47

could we could they count on our support and

8:49

that's a dangerous place to be because those same

8:51

allies can go build new relationships with

8:53

Russia and China because China has

8:55

taken over on the world stage. We

8:58

gotta be really thoughtful about how

9:00

we want to be viewed for the next ten

9:03

fifty years. As America still a

9:06

shining city on a hill,

9:08

is it still a big enough hope for freedom

9:10

loving people everywhere? And it doesn't

9:12

feel that way, Coach, It really doesn't until not

9:15

only that, Gianno, it's that if you can do

9:17

this to them, who else are you going to do

9:19

this too? Absolutely great point.

9:21

It is a botched model of leadership,

9:23

as one Fox analyst had so

9:26

beautifully sad to use that profound

9:28

word botched. And I think

9:30

you are right on the money in terms of

9:32

we have got to do some see from

9:35

my perspective. I look at this from a human performance

9:37

perspective. We're in the human development

9:40

business. So anytime you're

9:42

looking to increase the wherewithal or

9:44

the capability of a society,

9:47

everything, Giano, everything

9:50

rises or succeeds or fails

9:53

on leadership, man, And

9:55

that's it, and you're you're the expert for it.

9:57

And I'm so thankful to have you for this

9:59

conversation, Sian. Now, I wanna first

10:01

give our listeners an opportunity

10:04

to get to know how we know each other. I

10:06

initially heard about you through

10:08

my church, Dr Bill Winston. He had a conference.

10:11

It's a twenty thousand member church and they have massive

10:14

conferences where people come from all

10:16

of the world. People view these conferences

10:18

from all of the world. Thousands of people

10:21

come and during one Sunday

10:23

they mentioned that Ron Kardashian.

10:25

They flash a picture up and they said, Hey, he's gonna

10:27

be coming and giving a word to us.

10:30

But he's one of the good Kardashians. He's he's

10:32

a good, a good Christian brother.

10:35

And I mean he had to mention that. People

10:37

were like, Wow, a Kardashian, it's

10:39

coming to the church. What is this about. It was

10:41

a real consideration as to you

10:43

know, what, what is this about a Kardashians

10:45

coming to the church. So so

10:48

I learned about you initially that way, and

10:50

then months months later, if not over

10:52

a year later, I get a call from um

10:54

Dr. Winston's daughter, Melody Winston

10:57

saying, Hey, I think there is a guy that you should talk

10:59

to and I'll let you take

11:01

it from there. Well, it was just a beautiful introduction.

11:04

I think, you know, relationships, Gianna,

11:06

we need to understand this about our culture that we're

11:08

in. There either a bridge or a gap.

11:11

They're either moving us closer to our destiny

11:13

or bringing us farther away from it. And

11:16

when I was introduced to you, I

11:18

was at the time you

11:20

weren't even as well known as you were now. You

11:22

were working on your career, you were developing

11:24

yourself, and I think the thing that impressed

11:27

me most about you was your humility

11:29

and your sense of human

11:31

understanding, which I find is

11:34

an absence in this culture today.

11:36

You know, empathy is something that is

11:38

a behavioral trait that and I'll just

11:40

point to me as a man that and all

11:42

I always point to myself. I remember

11:44

if I'm pointing the finger at someone else, I got three fingers

11:47

pointing back at myself. But it's something

11:49

that I have aspired to work on, and

11:51

meeting you, hearing your heart, hearing your

11:54

passion, and now watching the success

11:56

of your hard work with God's

11:59

favor, with God's favor of course, since

12:01

you've really done an exceptional job, and

12:03

I'm equally as honored to be in your

12:05

life as well. No, I thank you

12:07

for that, Coach. And you know, we talked

12:09

about the fact that whether I talked about the fact

12:12

that you've coded some of the most powerful people

12:14

in the world. And I'm not gonna ask you

12:16

who are some of those people out of confidentiality.

12:18

I know that you know y'all do agreements like that, you

12:20

don't expose those people. But

12:22

why are people so drawn to

12:24

you? Why is that you think? You know? Ever since

12:27

I was a little boy, I was the God.

12:30

There we go again. I felt so emotional to

12:32

that woman's quote. It's just so this

12:34

Afghanistan thing has hit me. So forgive me,

12:36

but this brings me back to my early

12:39

childhood when I was diagnosed with attention

12:41

deficit disorders and the teachers

12:43

had basically thrown me away. You

12:46

know, he's no good. You know he's a troublemaker.

12:49

It would lead to a propensity and a trauma

12:52

that is a rejection

12:54

induced trauma, much like a nine

12:56

eleven victim would induce trauma through

12:59

seeing world calamity? Are these precious afghanis

13:02

seeing calamity induced

13:04

trauma. I faced trauma,

13:06

so I understand it. I think it gave me a very

13:08

sound ear if you

13:10

will to be a good listener. And ever

13:12

since I was a little boy, I have

13:15

been the one in the school yard where the

13:17

kids would come and tell all their problems

13:19

to I don't know why Giano. And

13:21

at a very young age, you know, I had

13:24

my first apparition of Christ where I

13:27

was actually visited. I mean I was a bad

13:29

boy. I just admitted. I always like telling

13:31

my own trash, got mixed

13:33

up with the wrong people, got into drugs,

13:35

got into alcohol. Dealt with

13:38

deep shame and regret for some of the behaviors

13:40

and the way I treated people, which

13:42

became the caveat though for are you going

13:45

to do something about it? Which is

13:47

the most admirable trait of human develop

13:49

it is that the greatest apology as

13:51

a change behavior. As some has

13:53

quoted and um, you

13:56

know that has evolved through the years. Um,

13:58

how I grew up and and here I am

14:00

now as a senior level executive advisor

14:02

and executive coach to some of the most

14:04

beautiful people on the planet, well

14:07

and some of the most prominent as well.

14:10

Now you kind of talked about why people are

14:12

drawn to you life coaching.

14:14

You know a lot of people they think of it, they say, well, I can

14:16

just get a counselor what do I need a life coach

14:19

for? Exactly? And this is

14:21

this has been your your life's work. How did how

14:24

did you really get into that space?

14:26

Like I hear that people were drawn to you

14:28

from a kid? How what was what

14:30

was the catalyst to say, okay, this is my life's

14:32

work. Well, summing up in a minute,

14:35

is I had a great desire to be a physical

14:37

therapist. I wanted to be a doctor. My mother

14:39

was a was a therapist. Um,

14:42

she was in the gerontology, which

14:44

is care of the elderly. So I was

14:46

a candy striper in the convalescent

14:48

facilities, pushing around wheelchairs

14:51

while I was living my high school

14:53

athletic life and the cross pollen

14:56

nation. Between watching the effects

14:58

of dementia and the age process

15:00

in conjunction with my athleticism.

15:03

I mean, I was just this aspiring pro athlete.

15:05

I wanted to go to the NFL. I wanted

15:08

to play football. I loved it, I ate, I

15:10

slept, I drank it. And then in my

15:12

junior year as a two year

15:14

letter I retained an injury

15:16

in my trap where I severed all

15:18

the nerves down my spine

15:21

through the trip ezist, which is that famous

15:23

massage muscling the back, and I was paralyzed

15:25

giano from the neck down for about

15:27

thirty seconds. And I'm laying

15:29

there on the football field, I can't feel my

15:31

feet, and I know at that moment

15:34

I may never walk again. But

15:37

God, you know

15:39

this whole but god thing. You know. They

15:41

use it as a church que oculum or acute

15:43

saying, you know, but it's really a true story

15:45

for me. If this began

15:48

my journey of becoming the therapist

15:50

or what I am wearing the title of now strength

15:53

and conditioning coach to

15:56

help prevent athletes from furthering

15:58

injuring yourself. Now here's the parallel. Just

16:00

for sake of time, you fast forward

16:03

my career twenty years. I'm still

16:05

preventing men avoid injury,

16:07

women avoid injury. I just moved it

16:09

from the weight room to the boardroom. And

16:11

it is the same neurological connections

16:14

we deal within business and life

16:16

in relationships that I was dealing with

16:18

on the football field, and that's

16:20

my entire practice now. So

16:22

it really was a life experience that

16:25

drove you into the space that became your life's

16:27

passion and work. Absolutely because at

16:29

that moment, my career to be a pro

16:31

athlete had ended, but my passion

16:34

to help pro athletes had just begun.

16:36

And oftentimes we will look at our career in

16:39

our life, or will face the vicissitudes

16:41

of life, the calamities of life, and

16:43

say, when I I face serious rejection,

16:46

well, I'd like to propose a new word for

16:48

our listeners, and that is your rejection

16:50

is not a rejection. Your defeat

16:53

is not a defeat ism. It's simply a redirection

16:56

into an area where you still

16:58

are passionate involved in. And

17:01

my love for pro sports, my love for these

17:03

athletes then became my passion.

17:06

But I couldn't play the game with them,

17:09

so I prepared them for the game

17:11

of life. You know what that

17:13

that's such a powerful statement and it reminds

17:15

me of a couple of things. One

17:18

me growing up at the age of fourteen, politics

17:20

became it was my life, life's

17:23

work now, but it became a passion of mine

17:25

because I thought I was helping my mom.

17:27

So I got involved with

17:30

politics because I was riding down the street

17:32

with my grandfather at the age of fourteen, and I

17:34

see a lady who looked

17:36

drugged up and be down, and I'm beginning to

17:38

tear up because I knew I saw my mother's. Yeah,

17:41

I knew I saw my mother. And then as

17:43

we began to continue riding down

17:45

the street, I looked over. My grandfather looked

17:48

at me and said, what's what's wrong with you boy? Very

17:50

southern voice, and I realized

17:52

this is what lady wasn't my mother, but it certainly

17:54

could have been her. And then um

17:56

from there, I said, Granddad, what can I do to prevent

17:59

this kind of thing from happening? And he tells me about the

18:01

elected officials having the power

18:03

to increase the penalty of law for those who selling distribute

18:05

drugs and them having the ability to provide

18:07

grand funding, and that soon after I

18:09

wouldn't started volunteering from my local altaman

18:11

because I thought I was helping my mother that

18:14

became that life's work. But I think what also

18:16

that you said is such an interesting

18:18

point of view, because my grandmother

18:21

would often tell my younger brother, who wanted to be a

18:23

w W E wrestler, he shouldn't do that, he

18:25

should go be a doctor a lawyer. She was

18:28

trying to put him on the path that she thought was best

18:30

for him, and I told her, listen,

18:32

don't do that. The reason you don't do

18:34

that is because you don't know if he's gonna

18:36

either go be a successful w w E

18:39

wrestler, or if it's gonna lead to him being a manager

18:41

of the wrestlers, if he's gonna create a new technology

18:43

for the wrestlers. So to your point, finally,

18:46

as I come to a close,

18:49

you getting out there on that football field,

18:52

having that injury and having that

18:54

moment sparked everything for

18:56

you. Everything that's right. You

18:58

know, we we said in the church, your tests, your

19:01

testimony, but do we

19:03

really pass it? Because the

19:05

ultimate passing of the test is

19:07

to fight the fear, the doubt, the unbelief,

19:10

and if they're shame in there,

19:12

and Gianna, that's a big, big

19:14

piece of your life puzzle that I'm

19:16

sure your listeners know and I know personally

19:19

that you had to overcome the

19:21

shame of the inner city you had,

19:24

you had to overcome the shame of defeatism,

19:27

and you did it. And

19:29

your living testimony to passing

19:31

that test. And really, that's

19:34

what an executive coach does. I

19:36

mean, that's the difference you asked earlier, what's

19:38

the difference of psychology and coaching. We

19:41

take a strength based approached rather

19:43

than a liability approach. And what

19:45

I mean by that is that we all know that we have

19:47

liabilities. Again, I point three fingers

19:49

at myself. I'm the king of liabilities, failure

19:52

after failure after failure, defeat after

19:54

defeat after defeat. But I have coined

19:56

a saying gianno. And you know this that

19:59

I have learned through most and obtained

20:02

the victories in my life not through my

20:04

successes, but from my atrocities,

20:06

because it conditions

20:08

the human soul in a way

20:11

that seasons and flavors us

20:13

for what I believe is the most epic

20:15

time and world history. To be alive, you're

20:18

gonna need some guts and

20:20

all the pain that you've been through

20:23

dealing with life, dealing with

20:25

policy, dealing with an invisible

20:28

government. If I could say, you

20:31

are developing backbone in resilience

20:33

and other dimensions, because

20:36

if we just look at our life through one lens,

20:38

it's a very limited lens. You're not just

20:40

a physical person having a spiritual

20:42

experience. You are a spiritual

20:45

entity having physical encounters.

20:47

And how you navigate and redirect

20:50

those encounters is the outcome of what

20:52

I call moving from career to call it And

20:54

that's what you did. We're talking to Ron Cardassians.

20:57

Stick with us, We'll be back after the break.

21:03

You being coach. Ron Kardashian and

21:05

the Kim Kardashian and the Chris and

21:08

the Chloe and all of those folks.

21:10

Those folks are living a much different lifestyle

21:13

than you. But you have You have the name

21:16

and the platform to speak righteousness

21:18

to a nation and thousands of people listen

21:21

to you on a regular and consistent basis.

21:23

How does that name really

21:26

go into these secular areas? And I'm when I'm

21:28

using your name because people are often open,

21:31

They're like, oh, I want to hear what you have to say,

21:33

versus a normal minister who

21:36

you know may have a church, and you build you

21:38

get more people that are gonna be interested

21:40

in what you have to say just off of that. How

21:42

has that worked for you in your life and in your your

21:44

ministry. It has required

21:46

deep and prolonged counsel.

21:49

Let me tell you, it is a

21:51

unbelievable dichotomy to wake

21:53

up one morning and you are the

21:56

subject of thirty million Google

21:58

hits. I mean, who can who can mentor

22:00

that? Who who do you call

22:03

to help process that? Because you get all

22:05

the haters and the players that come up for the woodwork,

22:08

you know, which I was exposed to. Now I embrace

22:10

it, but it was painful at the time. My

22:13

greatest claim to fame is

22:15

my life message. I mean, what

22:17

the real story is people don't know is

22:19

that I gave my life to Jesus

22:22

Christ at twenty two, being an ex

22:24

addict coming out of the entertainment

22:27

industry. I'm back down in the

22:29

bottom of the barrel. I almost oh deed

22:31

uh at least a half a dozen times.

22:34

I mean, my my life

22:36

has been the epitome of pain

22:39

Giano. But I experienced it

22:41

all by twenty two, and

22:43

in that in this time now I'm forty seven,

22:46

you know, so I have been on the

22:48

other side of this, living my life as a

22:50

first as a strength and conditioning coach, being

22:53

a personal trainer, working you know,

22:55

sixty seventy hours a week now to a

22:58

senior level advisor. But the claim

23:00

to fame has always been I've always sought wise

23:03

counsel. And I'll never forget

23:05

the day Bishop td Jake's

23:07

honored me with one of the greatest honors

23:09

of my life. He endorsed my last book,

23:12

thirty Second Solution. Didn't

23:14

even put the tie in together that

23:16

the Kardashian brand, uh

23:18

and whatnot. He was really moved by the book.

23:20

Apparently he bought four hundred copies

23:23

for his entire staff, and it was

23:25

about making good decisions. Well, it

23:27

began the beginning of our relationship.

23:30

And I sought him out as a friend,

23:32

as a mentor. And I looked at him

23:34

and I said, Bishop, I don't know how to process

23:37

the fame. I've never been interested

23:39

in fame. It's not in my wheelhouse. It's

23:42

fun. It was cool, I

23:44

said, but I'm an influencer. How

23:46

do I stay true to my calling? Should

23:48

I change my name? And he looked

23:50

at me with that powerful, beautiful

23:53

voice and said, don't you dare

23:57

you know, God gave you that name

24:00

and use it to redeem mankind.

24:03

Gianno, I never forgot it. And

24:05

Bill Winston, who has been my pastor now

24:08

for I don't even know how many years, my

24:10

only pastor, authentic, genuine,

24:13

seasoned, flavor, gentle, compassionate,

24:17

you know, said the same thing. He said, we

24:19

will take everything God has given us and

24:21

use it to bring glory to his name. And that's

24:23

really all I want to do. And that's

24:26

really excellent to hear those

24:28

comments from both pastors.

24:30

Now, let's let's talk about your book thirty second

24:32

Solution. Let's let's give folks a rundown

24:35

of what you discuss. What encouraged Pastor

24:38

TD Jakes to buy four hundred copies

24:40

for every member of his staff. Yeah,

24:43

we can, do you mind if I just up?

24:46

He said. Ron Kardashian's thirty second

24:48

Solution introduces readers to new

24:50

breakthrough information for transforming

24:54

old patterns into turnarounds.

24:56

He used the word dramatic turnarounds. What sometimes

24:59

happened, they're not was dramatic. Sometimes people

25:01

just need a little turnaround. For those who

25:03

want to derive purpose and more satisfaction

25:05

from life. Um, I think the

25:08

hub of the book was about poor decisions

25:10

I made. Again, you know, I

25:12

think the greatest form of leadership

25:14

is you have to have a certain sense of humility,

25:17

and you have to be able to be transparent,

25:19

to tell your own dirt that if anybody

25:21

everybody thinks you're perfect, then you're unrelatable.

25:24

And in the book, I just talk talk about

25:26

my transformation process and these

25:29

what I call cognitive decisions

25:32

that I had to make, or brain decisions.

25:34

For one of the themes of my podcast

25:37

now you know, as you encourage me to start

25:39

the podcast, we named it higher,

25:42

but it was derived from a concept

25:44

of can you think higher about yourself?

25:46

And I got it from an old neuroscience

25:49

education that I had about nerve cells

25:51

that fire together, wire together. So

25:53

if you can rewire yourself,

25:56

you can refire some nerve

25:58

connections and you can go higher

26:00

in your belief system or your your

26:02

own perception of yourself. And this

26:05

giano is what constitutes for

26:07

the greatest breakthrough in life. The

26:09

battle is six inches between the

26:11

ears, make no mistake about

26:13

it. And when you've got materials and

26:15

tools like my book to help you fine

26:18

tune that process, you're on your way

26:20

to a higher dimension. Wow, So

26:23

you're saying that your book allows people

26:25

to kind of rewire their brains to make

26:27

different and better decisions. I'll

26:29

tell you one thing I sought out Dr Daniel

26:31

Aman, who was a New York Time bestseller of Change

26:34

Your Brain, Change Your Body. You know him,

26:36

I think you. I think you know of him. We've

26:38

talked about him before. But he said, Ron

26:40

Kardashian's thirty second solution

26:43

will literally help you put the brakes on the brain

26:45

to help you think before you act, so you

26:47

can make significantly better decisions.

26:50

Now. He went on to say that the

26:52

brain is involved in everything that you do.

26:55

So this tools that I developed,

26:57

I had him authenticated, developed

27:00

new brain pathways that will

27:02

enhance impulse control, focus and forethought.

27:05

And that's something that you've done with

27:07

me. We've we've enhanced your focus,

27:10

and we've we've narrowed your lens and

27:12

had time to expand your lens.

27:15

So what has made you such a profound,

27:17

empathetic um journalist

27:19

is that you have a worldview, but at

27:22

time of precision, you know how to hone

27:24

in on the crossfire, which is an element of

27:26

vision and focus. And that's what it

27:28

does. I want to switch gears a little

27:30

bit because we're now not

27:33

just in Afghanistan right now

27:35

with the chaos that's ensuing there,

27:37

but we're also still in the time of COVID, and

27:40

there's been a lot of mixed messaging around

27:42

COVID people. For a lot

27:44

of people, they lost either

27:46

eighteen months or their life which was the

27:48

start of when the COVID lockdown started,

27:51

or they lost their life. I mean, it's

27:54

really that's the distinction. They

27:56

either lost a team onto their life or

27:58

they lost their life. And it's

28:00

horrific that that's where we are, but

28:03

that's certainly where we are, and a lot of

28:05

people have been more than pressed than normal because

28:07

because of COVID, they're losing their job, they're losing

28:09

a family member. People have been suffering

28:11

for quite a while. Have you noticed with

28:14

your clientele specifically, have you

28:16

noticed more depression that's

28:18

coming about with folks. How are you

28:21

trying to guide them through that process

28:23

and for our listeners, help guide them through

28:26

through the processes, especially in a COVID

28:28

era, Yes, and answered your

28:30

question the short answers, Yes, we have seen

28:32

an increased heightened awareness of anxiety, depression,

28:35

fear, even the paranormal. I

28:37

mean my discussions with individuals

28:39

has dramatically changed. People

28:42

are traumatized. Remember that word

28:44

trauma, I think is the main

28:46

focus of this discussion we'll

28:48

have because there is healing for trauma, but

28:51

trauma camouflages itself

28:53

around other ailments like insecurity,

28:56

anger, rage,

28:58

bitterness, UM.

29:01

It goes down into addictive behaviors

29:03

UM trauma induced UM,

29:06

psychosomatic disorders, the use of drugs

29:08

and alcohol and pornography.

29:11

And what it begins to do is it begins

29:13

to rewire the brain in a

29:15

very destructive pattern. I

29:17

want to intercept that pattern. And even

29:19

for people who are listening now, can can

29:21

I just do some executive coaching right here?

29:23

Live? Please, please, and thank you? Whatent

29:27

of you can change this moment

29:30

by what I call using a technique I

29:32

call called cognitive replacement. And

29:35

cognitive replacement is a fancy word for saying

29:37

you have just had a thought that has tremendously

29:40

attacked you. You have the power over

29:42

that thought by not just rethinking

29:44

another thought, but actually saying

29:46

out loud, in capturing the thought,

29:48

by saying no, that

29:51

is the wrong thought. Wrong, You're not

29:53

don't think that way about yourself. Don't

29:56

get bitter, get better, become

29:58

more proactive in help people instead

30:01

of slandering them. Become

30:03

better at being a father rather

30:05

than being abusive. I know you're angry,

30:08

I know the money's tight, I know you've been

30:10

in lockdown. Change the way you

30:12

think and it will change your behaviors.

30:15

And this is something that we hear a lot about right

30:18

now. I always say that since starts

30:20

with a belief system, it is a skewed

30:22

belief system. Now here's what we've done. My

30:25

whole life work has culminated to develop

30:27

a tool and the algorithm

30:30

that helps people capture those

30:33

belief systems from an internal

30:35

angle, not just externally. Tell

30:37

me about your day, tell me about your life, tell

30:39

me about your strengths, tell me about your liabilities.

30:42

These are these job interviews cues

30:44

that they think are describing the full intel

30:46

of human ability, potential, and talent.

30:49

You are way more than just a

30:51

series of questions. You are an

30:53

intricate neural connection that

30:55

has built a web of life from

30:58

your experiences, in your try aisles,

31:00

in your victories and your joys and your

31:02

sufferings, and it has built this beautiful

31:04

canvas called human life. When

31:07

we take a snapshot of a human being.

31:09

It has done at the neurological level, and

31:12

it is so powerful Gianno that it instantly

31:14

brings breakthrough focus

31:17

and clarity overnight because

31:19

people are finally able to get a digital

31:21

read of their brain. And I make a

31:23

joke out of it when people are arguing that.

31:26

Not many people do argue, but I did have this one guy

31:28

goes, what does my thoughts have to do with my

31:30

income? And this was an engineer,

31:33

and I said, are you kidding me? I go

31:35

everything, you know what I'm saying. It's

31:38

like he was so smart that he was stupid. And

31:40

I told him, you're probably a really intelligent guy, but

31:42

from an EQ perspective, not I Q

31:45

and EQ, which is where we assess

31:47

this is the game changer for leadership,

31:49

that that ron card action actually

31:52

became a better person

31:55

through EQ training, which

31:57

is the hub of my whole practice now and

31:59

we're a will to digitize that and show

32:01

you your brain much like which I was

32:03

joking about earlier. You get your blood

32:05

pressure checked, but have you ever gotten your brain checked?

32:08

And we can control your blood pressure, and

32:11

now we have the capability and the

32:13

power to control thoughts and behaviors

32:16

through this assessment. Wow,

32:18

now is this now the the assessment

32:20

that you're referring to is as a part of your company

32:22

elevate. Yeah, higher technologies

32:25

is of what we're doing. I have, I have several companies,

32:27

but higher, higher

32:29

um. You can visit the higher dot net,

32:31

the higher dot Net. My coaching company

32:34

is Lee Confidante right French

32:36

for the confidant, which was influenced

32:38

by my beautiful French clients. Be guys have coach

32:40

on three continents um and

32:42

and it really the distinction was

32:45

all the greatest world leaders and you

32:47

know this, Johanno in world history

32:49

of l had one thing in common. They've had a confidant.

32:52

Uh. And I've used that word because

32:54

people are looking for trust.

32:58

And back to those early days in

33:00

high school, I I just was somebody people

33:02

can trust. And that is the fullness

33:04

of our coaching company and our technology

33:06

company is confidentiality.

33:09

We run a airtight nondisclosure

33:12

right full en d A on all

33:14

of our practices. And this assessment

33:17

is the entry portion

33:19

to establish. And it makes sense because a lot

33:21

of people will go to a coachure therapist and they'll say,

33:23

hey, give me the three sixty view on my leadership,

33:26

help me to take my game to the next level. Okay,

33:28

let's start with just my speculation.

33:31

We eliminate all speculation. The

33:34

tool does the work. It maps out

33:36

the roadmap for your next twelve

33:38

months, and the the success rate

33:40

is almost because for everyone who

33:42

goes through it right, tells somebody else

33:44

like you've done, and they're going through it

33:47

and having success. Now we need to take

33:49

a quid break. But when we come back, I'm gonna

33:51

ask Ron about his faith and are

33:53

increasingly secular cultures.

33:55

Stay with us, all

34:01

right, we're back outlined with Gianno carbo

34:04

I got Ron Kardashian, I'm talking to who's

34:06

been giving us a plethora of information

34:09

and actually doing live coaching. Um, I'm

34:11

so thankful to have him on. He's a personal friend

34:13

of mine. He's someone that I talked to and rely on

34:15

for advice. He coaches me, and

34:17

I'm glad to have him join us.

34:19

Now, Ron, I want to ask you before we started

34:22

talking about more about faith, which we we've been

34:24

talking about throughout this interview, are

34:26

there any basic principles

34:29

about finding meaning and

34:31

happiness in life that can apply

34:33

to everyone who you come

34:36

in contact with regardless of their specific

34:38

set of circumstances. There anything that you can

34:40

tell us that we can just take and

34:42

we can apply to our lives right now, Yes,

34:44

I have. If you will email me Elite

34:47

Level Coach at gmail dot com

34:49

Elite Level Coach, I will send you these ten

34:52

keys of excellence as a gift to improve

34:54

your life in business, and I'll just

34:56

share with you a few of them, my first

34:58

one on the top ten list for In answer to

35:00

your question, and to do some coaching here, exercise

35:03

maturity. Think about that statement

35:05

for a minute, because oftentimes

35:08

we bring old behaviors into new rooms.

35:11

I coach people on this when they move to the

35:13

c suite role. I said, you can't act like a director

35:15

if you're the CEO. Right,

35:17

there's a change of cadence in a rhythm.

35:20

In fact, one of my next books is going to be called Rhythm.

35:23

I've written three, I've got I've got three

35:25

more, four more to go. One of them is on developing

35:27

the rhythms of life and understanding the power

35:29

of frequency. Because there's so many immature

35:32

business dealings, people and things. The world

35:34

is in need of leaders, and not just industry

35:36

leaders, but world leaders. They are in need

35:39

of maturity. I think

35:41

we all understand that pretty well. Um

35:45

Number two isolate your business around

35:47

a cause. Uh, this is

35:49

what I call organic motivation. It's

35:51

naturally generated, Giano. I

35:54

wake up every day alive and

35:56

well, without the use of cocaine

35:59

or meth and phetamine or

36:01

stimulants. I watched my

36:03

coffee and take now, why I'm driven by a

36:06

cause? The cause of something you would

36:08

die for? Do you have a cause? The

36:10

Bible even says is there not a cause?

36:13

It whispers in the echo of the night. Are

36:15

you doing more with your life than just acquiring

36:18

wealth to heap up? Or eventually

36:20

moths and dust will call corrupt? This

36:22

is this is what's going to happen. This is the

36:25

stark reality of our unlimited

36:27

wealth and success. Is that if we're

36:30

not multi platforming and how we're building

36:32

a life, both here on the earth and in the

36:34

heavens, then we're missing the essence

36:36

of life. And which

36:38

leads me to my third point. No matter how much money

36:40

you have or don't have, live your passion

36:43

or someone else will live

36:46

your passion or somebody else will.

36:48

And how many times do we look at other people and go

36:50

I could do what they do. Why are they so successful?

36:53

I could have done that, I could have invented

36:55

that. Well, you still can see

36:58

this goes back to cognitive placement,

37:01

is where you want to stop the belief

37:03

system and say no, no no, no, I'm not going to think about

37:05

what they've done. I'm going to pursue what I'm passionate

37:08

about. That's it's just a little

37:10

quick, thirty second fix that

37:13

you do repetitively, because remember, the

37:15

brain is a muscle. You either condition it

37:17

or it dies. And so whenever

37:19

you get stuck thinking I can't change, just

37:22

remember that's what the overweight

37:24

person said before they lost a hundred pounds

37:27

by saying I'm finally going to go to the gym every

37:29

day. It's the same thing. You've

37:31

got to condition yourself and you've got to know that. Thoughts

37:34

are things, which leads me to my fourth

37:36

key, and I'll just I'll just give five of them. Focus

37:39

on things that add value to your life

37:41

and increase your health and make you

37:43

a better human being. Focus

37:45

on things that add value to your life. That includes

37:48

relationships. If you've got

37:50

toxic people in your life, if

37:52

you're constantly making deposits

37:54

and you have no return. There needs

37:56

to be some quantification and clarification

37:59

there not that you need to say goodbye.

38:02

Don't let the door hit you with a good lord

38:04

split you. You know, as we used to say, You

38:07

know you don't want to just walk out on people's

38:09

life, but you do want to have some restructuring

38:12

in order to establish healthy boundaries. And

38:14

lastly, I'll just give you one more which

38:17

is one of my favorite ones. I give to c

38:19

e O s all the time. And even entrepreneurs

38:22

who are starting their businesses, don't waste

38:24

your time hiring people to fill spots

38:27

or basis of their degrees. If

38:29

you want to make the big money, you're

38:31

gonna have to pay the big money.

38:33

In other words, honor people that are valuable.

38:36

If you feel right about it, hire

38:38

them. There's one thing that very

38:40

wealthy people all have in common, Gianna. They

38:43

all prize personal development as a

38:45

core value. If they don't

38:47

have what they want, they'll find a way

38:49

to buy it. And in a world

38:52

filled with stellar advisors like yourself,

38:54

you can have a Giano Calldwell, you

38:57

can have him on your administration or your

38:59

boy or or working for Fox

39:02

or what you know, as you do that's

39:04

why they have you, because you're

39:06

valuable and honor people with that

39:08

value. I promise you it'll come back a hundredfold.

39:11

Wow, you've given us a number

39:13

of keys. I'm sure people are going to be emailing

39:15

you. Those are really wonderful and good

39:17

practical applications. But I

39:20

think also importantly staying

39:22

away from toxic people. I think that's so critically

39:24

important. You want to hear actually the medical

39:27

scientific proof of this now, I would

39:29

love to. This is unbelievable, Johno. This

39:32

this validates my whole life work as a

39:34

coach, and a salute to other coaches

39:36

and therapists and pastors out there as well. There

39:38

are wonderful people out there. The

39:40

There was a study done at the Heart Math Institute

39:42

that said, when an individual is

39:44

speaking with deep intentionality,

39:47

the DNA helix follow this.

39:49

Now, the DNA helix inside

39:51

the ear of the hearer begins to move up and down.

39:54

Now the key there is deep intentionality.

39:56

So to your point, if you've got somebody who's slandering

39:59

God something angry, that's intentional,

40:02

that is, with deep intention the DNA

40:05

helix is actually transforming in

40:07

the ear of the hearer, and you are being

40:09

actually rewired,

40:12

follow this, rewire to re fire,

40:15

to go lower. With the

40:17

antithesis of this, if you're hearing someone with

40:19

deep intentionality, like I'm on the phone with

40:21

you every week, right and we're talking about

40:23

positive belief systems, are outcomes to business

40:26

or strategies and decisions you want to

40:28

make, and we're flavoring and seasoning

40:30

things with salt, and I am in speaking

40:32

to you with intentionality, much like I'm

40:34

doing right now. The DNA

40:37

helix inside you is transforming to say,

40:39

I can become better, I will

40:41

think smarter, I can think a different

40:43

way about this situation, and inevitably,

40:46

Gianno, it produces a better outcome

40:49

all the time. And the name of that, that term

40:51

again is the DNA

40:53

helix inside the ear of the hearer,

40:56

so in in other words, inside your actual

40:58

DNA strand you

41:00

are being transformed, either for the better

41:03

or for the worst. You're either going higher

41:05

or going lower. And if you're staying

41:07

the same, you're just coasting. And we know if you're

41:09

coasting, you're roasting. If

41:12

you're coasting, now,

41:15

let me ask you, this coach, how important

41:17

is it to look at the problems in your life as

41:19

possible gifts. Very good,

41:22

Very good. Well, you know, great question,

41:24

right, very good question. Very you my

41:26

producer, he gave me that, so I won't

41:28

take credit for it. You gave it to me. That

41:31

was that was one of his questions. But how

41:33

do you how do you look at that? What are your thoughts on that?

41:36

Well, let's just parallel this into a very humanistic

41:38

example. Okay, if you want

41:40

to build your body, there's

41:42

gonna require some weight

41:44

training. I mean, everyone looks

41:46

at these most beautiful bodies. We just went

41:48

through the beautiful Olympics and we saw the

41:51

performance of the most decorated

41:53

athletes in the world. How did they get there? Pain?

41:57

No pain, no gain.

42:00

And I think what happens in our life

42:02

is that we are required

42:04

as human beings to constantly

42:07

be pivoting in life. This is what makes a great

42:10

CEO is the power of the pivot,

42:12

and that while we deal with heinous

42:16

or detrimental or painful

42:18

situations in our life, we must

42:21

train ourselves through the

42:24

pressure, through the pain

42:27

of life to pivot and

42:30

have an outcome psychologically

42:32

that I'm going through hell, but

42:34

when I'm going through it, I must not stop.

42:38

That there has to be a wherewithal

42:40

inside you that says this will

42:43

end. And that's the beautiful part about

42:45

it is that life runs in cycles.

42:47

And when you have the knowledge that your

42:49

life is cyclical, you know that

42:51

this is a season of your life, it is not

42:53

eternal, and that will keep you motivated

42:56

and inspired even in most dark as time,

42:58

even if it's the thought of one day this will

43:01

end and I will be better from it.

43:04

That is something. You really

43:06

can turn these these issues of

43:08

problems into your greatest benefits, right

43:10

because you deal with them and

43:12

it no longer is an obstacle. Right. And and

43:14

sometimes you have to deal with issues

43:17

before your greatest moment hits.

43:20

Sometimes it may be a young lady, say you're

43:22

dating, and you realize like, oh, man, she's a good

43:24

girl, but you end

43:26

up self sabotaging it. And

43:29

from that you realize, like, man, I need to

43:31

deal with this issue, this problem that

43:33

I have, which can be trauma from previous relationships,

43:36

abandonment issues from dealing with your mom or

43:38

father or whatever the case may be. You

43:40

have to deal with those before their greatest opportunity

43:43

come, which could be uh in my case, a wife

43:45

or uh, you know, someone

43:47

else's case. A husband. Uh, So

43:50

dealing with those issues, those problems

43:53

um as we perceive them, can be uh

43:56

the alignment for the best opportunity

43:58

to come directly to us. This is it's pulling,

44:01

pulling those opportunities to us. Would you agree

44:03

with that? You know? Gianno, let me

44:05

tell it to you as Bishop T. D. Jake said

44:07

it to me. I can't say it as eloquently

44:09

as he did, but I'll try. Pain

44:11

becomes the silent fraternity

44:14

that brings the most peculiar people in

44:16

the most inclement situations at

44:18

the most peculiar places

44:20

in time. Think about a rehab

44:23

center. You're sitting there,

44:25

encircled in a private fraternity

44:27

of strangers, discussing issues

44:30

that are the deepest in your heart, but you

44:32

know nothing about the other person that you're sitting

44:34

with. Pain begins

44:37

to become the trajectory for

44:39

life's next level of development. This

44:42

is what I mean about. You have

44:44

to have a proper perspective

44:47

about pain, and most of the time

44:49

people don't have the tools, and that's what

44:51

we provide for them. This one

44:53

tool for your listener, for you, Drew is

44:56

no matter what you go through in life, what I want

44:58

you to experience right here, right

45:00

now, live is the simple

45:02

notion that whatever you face

45:05

in life has an expiration date,

45:09

and your to massage your mind

45:11

with that message. Bathe your

45:13

soul. The soul is the mind, will and emotions,

45:16

and if we let it get out of control, it will

45:18

lead us down to paths of disparity. It

45:21

will lead us into areas where we don't want to

45:23

go. Use the tool of

45:25

understanding that this has

45:28

an expiration tape, and I must

45:30

keep moving forward this simple

45:32

tool of cognitive replacement to

45:34

say that every day, sometimes

45:37

every minute, sometimes every second

45:39

begins to spark an internal hope. And

45:42

I have seen people turn their lives around

45:44

and come through things. Not that it's going to be

45:46

easy. Whoever said it was

45:48

was lying. Life is difficult,

45:51

success is difficult, but your perspective

45:53

at the end of the day is the game change. We're

45:56

talking to Ron Kardashian. Stick with us,

45:58

we'll be back after the break. I

46:03

wanted to talk to you very

46:06

very specifically about the

46:08

role that Christianity

46:10

and faith is taken in the country right

46:12

now. Many many folks are noticing

46:15

how the church attendance isn't the same,

46:17

and this is pre COVID when we start seeing

46:19

the numbers go down, and we've seen a

46:22

nation that's increasingly secular,

46:25

a president who actually just adopted language

46:27

in his healthcare budget saying

46:30

that instead of calling women mom

46:32

or mother, who're gonna call him birth in

46:34

person a birthing person.

46:37

So they're trying to they don't want people to be

46:39

called dad. They're saying it's sexist,

46:42

and it's it's a lot of things that are going

46:44

on in our country right now. Is that it is quite frankly

46:46

alarming. And I know that you have two

46:48

kids, I know you have a wife, and

46:51

you gotta be concerned. As a minister, someone

46:53

who's preaching the gospel, I would imagine I should

46:55

say that you would be concerned about

46:58

what's going on in and for our listeners, I want

47:01

to I want to take people back to a moment. And I'm just so

47:03

glad that this thought hit me because i want to ask

47:05

this question. This man has been

47:07

very accurate. I'm talking about

47:09

Ron Kardashian and I'm going back

47:12

to something that happened in It

47:14

was a Saturday. This tape

47:16

came out about President Trump, he was running

47:18

for president. It was to grab him by the

47:20

p tape and the Republican

47:23

Party was saying, you know, we're thinking about,

47:25

like trying to figure out if we can replace

47:27

him, if maybe Mike Pens could

47:29

stop up, or is Mike penns gonna

47:31

continue to run with him. It looked

47:34

like political suicide for everyone

47:36

around. It was no chance that he can win. I

47:38

had just spoke to the number three at the r n

47:40

C and he told me, I said, you

47:42

know what's going on with Trump. He's like, we're looking at our options.

47:44

We're trying to see to see how can we get him out. So

47:47

I talked to Ron this Saturday afternoon

47:49

and you all probably remember because it was all over the

47:52

television, and I said to Ron, I

47:54

said, yeah, it looks like Trump has done there's no way

47:56

that he can win. And what did you tell me? Ron? I

47:58

had told you that I heard. I

48:01

heard very clearly in

48:03

my own prayer time that he was going to take the presidency

48:07

the gravitas. And once you delivered the message,

48:09

I was like, this guy couldnt know what he's talking

48:11

about. You said, no, the prophecy has went

48:13

for Donald Trump. Donald

48:15

J. Trump will be the president. And

48:18

I'm like, run this type. You said, it doesn't matter,

48:20

he will be the president. The prophecy

48:22

went forth, that's it, Donald Trump is gonna win

48:24

the election. And for anyone

48:27

during that time on that day to

48:29

hear what you say would just think that you were either

48:32

completely crazy or you were

48:34

just like uh not into politics

48:36

and such an amateur that you didn't know what you were talking

48:38

about. But you ended up being correct. And I

48:40

just wanted to bring that moment back for the listeners

48:42

because that was one of those very powerful

48:45

moments and one of the things that stuck with me to

48:47

this day. But moving beyond

48:50

that, from a perspective

48:52

of being a minister and

48:54

being a faith man, are you concerned with the

48:56

direction of our country around

48:58

faith? No, not

49:01

at all. We are serving

49:04

a supreme God who makes no

49:06

mistakes. Predestination

49:09

is not a theological word. In this

49:11

is the proper perspective to stop

49:13

you from induced trauma.

49:16

The media is trying to traumatize

49:18

you. Trauma, trauma, trauma, trauma.

49:20

We're gonna go through the whole Greek alphabet in these

49:22

pandemics trauma, trauma, trauma,

49:25

vaccine, no vaccine, trauma, trauma,

49:27

trauma. We have to learn

49:30

to center ourselves and

49:32

really see who we're serving here. Giano,

49:36

he makes no mistakes. He

49:38

is the Alpha and the omega. He

49:40

is the beginning in the end, he is

49:42

the first and the last. He preordained

49:45

it and new through every area we

49:47

would walk through. And living with

49:50

this consciousness gives great consolation

49:53

and peace of mind to a believer

49:56

who is abiding in the vine. The

49:58

fake ministries are done. It's

50:01

over. You're either in

50:03

or you're out. And I say

50:06

this with deep conviction because

50:10

I'm hearing from him, and

50:12

I'm not the only one. There

50:14

are millions of people hearing from

50:16

him, because my sheep hear

50:18

my voice. But I am seeking him, Giano.

50:21

I'm on my face every day. You

50:24

know, Back in the day, in the Old Testament,

50:26

there were two very famous men, Daniel

50:28

and Joseph. These were political advisors.

50:32

These were men who consulted the king

50:34

and in modern day translation, they operated

50:36

in what we call a Daniel or a Joseph

50:39

annointing. I operate in one. I

50:41

used to be ashamed to say it. I get

50:43

and I get visitations from him,

50:46

and I'm very cautious what I speak. As you know,

50:48

I don't have a podcast that blast this. I don't

50:50

believe in it. I am cultivating what

50:52

I'm hearing. But I'm gonna give you one

50:54

more if I can share one live. I have not

50:57

shared this publicly yet, and I'm gonna

50:59

make a day you and I'm going to share something

51:01

if you give me permission that the Lord has

51:03

told me. And this is why I don't

51:05

want you to be concerned, ladies and gentlemen. He

51:08

is the Prince of peace. And

51:10

we're in calamity. We're

51:13

we're so filled with anxiety and

51:15

and over the counter drugs and prescription

51:17

and CBD oil and th HC

51:20

and coming and my God slowed

51:22

down. Breathe, breathe

51:24

in gold and ex O green for

51:27

your salvation draws near. He

51:29

said. If the man had known his house

51:32

was gonna be robbed, he would have never

51:34

fallen asleep. But stay awake.

51:37

On March thirty one, I fell

51:39

into a deep sleep. I

51:41

am nothing special. I don't

51:43

know why he chose me. I

51:46

am nothing great. I'm just a servant.

51:48

I just want to honor my wife

51:50

and my kids, man and help some people before

51:53

I go. That's it. That's the simplicity

51:55

of my life. But he chose me,

51:57

He's chosen some of you and he

51:59

visited me in a dream where I saw Christ.

52:02

I was standing before him,

52:04

and I looked to my left, Giano, and

52:06

I see these two lines. And

52:08

now, if you read Matthew, which I

52:11

encourage all your readers to do, this is the parable

52:13

called the Ten Virgins. Jesus

52:16

in this vision hands me this piece of oil.

52:18

It was a block of oil. It was a piece of chrism.

52:20

I've studied this out and it was a

52:22

thick oil. And he

52:24

said, place this upon your wound and you will

52:26

be healed. And what I

52:28

got from that was is God is sending an oil

52:31

to the nation. You can't white

52:33

knuckle this, you can't fight it.

52:36

He has got a plan, and he has an anointing,

52:38

which in the Hebrew Lexington is

52:40

an empowerment to prosper. You've got

52:42

to get it. These ten virgins that open

52:45

up at the time of his coming didn't have enough

52:47

oil. So hold that there.

52:49

Five virgins had oil, five didn't.

52:51

We didn't have enough oil. We gotta get

52:53

more oil in the tank, Coach, how do you get more oil?

52:56

Prayer, listening to the

52:58

word of God, committing yourself to him.

53:00

But here's what scared me. That's not what scared

53:02

me. I looked to my left

53:04

and I see these two lines, and I immediately knew

53:07

that they were the righteous on the right and the unrighteous

53:09

on the left. And if you end Matthew,

53:12

it is called the Great and Terrible Day.

53:14

There were two lines, Giano, and I was

53:16

standing right in the middle of them both, and

53:19

I actually felt for a split second,

53:21

I didn't make it. In about a hundreds

53:24

of a second. I felt the emptiness

53:26

in my soul, thinking to myself,

53:29

I've spent all these years making all this money.

53:32

I've spent all these years trying to do the

53:34

best I could and to live my

53:36

whole life, which is, by the way, an

53:38

eighty year lifespan is only thirty thousand

53:40

days. That's only seven two

53:43

hours. I lived my whole life for

53:45

this moment, and here I was about

53:47

to lose everything. And in the blink of

53:49

an eye, he looked at me and he said, I've got to attend

53:52

to some other things. And I was

53:54

awakened, and I had

53:56

knew at that moment that

53:58

there is coming a distinction,

54:01

a choice that we all have to

54:03

make, and we're gonna end up in

54:05

either of these lines. My call

54:08

to action today is not buying my programs.

54:12

It's not another self help book. It's

54:15

a simple prayer to say,

54:17

God, show me what you showed

54:20

Kardashian. You help him,

54:22

you can help me, because ladies

54:24

and gentlemen, you do not want to be in that line,

54:27

the end righteous line. He will have to say no

54:30

to the creation he loved. There is no more

54:32

grace, there is no more forgiveness,

54:34

there is no more turning back. It's it.

54:36

It's over, it's done, and everything

54:39

we've ever done in our life is coming down

54:41

to a thirty second decision. Will

54:44

you accept him as Lord and say, help

54:47

me, give me the anointing, give

54:49

me the oil to

54:51

help me make it through this life so you can

54:54

save yourself in that one day

54:56

of judgment and it's coming. Man.

55:00

Uh, that was quite the note to

55:02

leave us on. I want to thank you Ron

55:05

for delivering such powerful words

55:07

throughout honestly, and I gotta

55:09

tell you, even in your your last

55:11

response, that that's what we need to

55:13

use part of that last response to promote

55:16

this episode because it was, I mean,

55:18

just very very powerful

55:20

message there. Because we have become

55:23

traumatized by the media on

55:25

a daily consistent basis. That's how they

55:27

make their money. Click click click click

55:29

click, and and and and

55:32

the time does seem near. We it does

55:34

feel like we're in the last days. The Bible

55:36

and the Scripture is clear on that. But the good

55:38

news is it's not too late for

55:41

people to repent and ask

55:43

God for forgiveness. No matter what they've

55:45

done. They can continue to repent

55:47

and get on their face. Remember that, and remember,

55:49

just to intercheck for our listeners, the word

55:51

repent is not that old school word. It's

55:54

just a change of thinking. Giano,

55:58

a new neurological can action, nerves

56:01

sells it, fire together, wire together so

56:03

we can go higher. Thank you so

56:05

much, coach Ron for your words today. Thank

56:07

you again for joining out loud with Gianno

56:10

calledwell coach Ron Kardashian, and please tell

56:12

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56:15

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56:19

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56:24

No, my cousin, God bless you, Rob. You listening

56:26

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56:29

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56:31

is LinkedIn. That's where all the professionals

56:33

are for at least now. Thank you so so much

56:35

for joining me on out loud with Gianno

56:37

calledwell. That has been a fantastic ride. Yes, sir,

56:39

my honor, thanks, my friend. I

56:42

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56:44

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