In this must-listen episode, we tackle the difficult but important topic of abuse in relationships involving neurodivergent (autistic/ADHD) and neurotypical partners. Through anonymous personal stories shared on social media, we explore the unique challenges and power imbalances that can arise when communication styles and needs differ.

Our goal is to raise awareness around this complex issue, provide insights into healing from trauma, and offer resources for those affected by intimate partner violence or toxic relationships. While some content may be triggering, this candid discussion is essential for fostering understanding and healthier neurodivergent relationships.

Listener discretion advised.

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Resources mentioned:

United States

Phone: 1-800-799-SAFE (7233)

Website: thehotline.org

Services: 24/7 support, safety planning, crisis intervention, and referrals to local services.

RAINN (Rape, Abuse & Incest National Network)

Phone: 1-800-656-HOPE (4673)

Website: rainn.org

Services: 24/7 confidential support for sexual assault victims, online chat, and local service referrals.

Loveisrespect

Phone: 1-866-331-9474

Text: LOVEIS to 22522

Website: loveisrespect.org

Services: Support for young people experiencing dating abuse, peer advocates, and educational resources.

Canada

ShelterSafe.ca

Website: sheltersafe.ca

Services: Connects women and their children with the nearest shelter for safety and support.

Crisis Text Line

Text: HOME to 686868

Website: crisistextline.org

Services: 24/7 support via text for those in crisis, connecting to trained crisis responders.

Kids Help Phone

Phone: 1-800-668-6868

Text: CONNECT to 686868

Website: kidshelpphone.ca

Services: 24/7 support for youth, including chat with trained volunteers.