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Because ain't nothing but a cheap bang baby

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To low down G

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. So we crazy Death grown

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gets the label that pays man Unfatable

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. So please don't try to fake this . But

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I'm back to the lecture at hand . Back

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to the lecture or legend

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at hand .

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It's been some time so for

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those of y'all Good , good , good , but we still

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good .

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Sure , for

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those of y'all that are returning or tuning back

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in with you what's up , what's good with you ? I

0:34

hope life has been treating you well .

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How has it been treating you ?

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Oh , we don't need to talk about that .

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OK .

0:42

Maybe not on this episode , but Shambu

0:45

Shambu . What

0:48

would that episode be without me giving y'all

0:50

a little bit of an anecdote to start that episode

0:52

?

0:53

Wouldn't be nothing but a G thing .

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It would be . Other podcasts would be over

0:56

there . You know what I

0:58

mean . Stop being a hater , not being a hater .

1:00

I'm just saying the reason why we do what

1:02

we do over here is because it makes

1:04

sense . I don't

1:06

know what you do over there . I don't listen , but

1:08

that don't mean don't listen .

1:11

That's what people listen to .

1:12

I believe they do .

1:14

I think it did numbers . It will do numbers

1:16

if I would ever , or if I bring it back . But

1:19

are you on the hiatus ? I don't know what

1:21

we on . I've

1:24

taken a break .

1:24

We ain't good good , but we still

1:26

good .

1:26

You notice , I've taken a break from social media . I've taken a

1:28

break from a lot of things .

1:30

Oh , that makes sense , but not this .

1:33

Yeah , we need to record , because

1:35

we record and we don't publish any episodes

1:37

.

1:37

We got a lot of episodes in the vault . Deji's

1:39

just waiting for us to have more episodes in the vault

1:41

so he can post all of them .

1:43

Yeah , it's consistency .

1:44

Correct .

1:44

Consistently , because then , if y'all getting it , y'all

1:46

can spread the good word and you could just tell everybody

1:48

that these motherfuckers need to get paid for

1:50

it . But back to the lecture or

1:53

the legend at hand . I

1:56

don't know if we've done an episode on Thanksgiving

1:59

, but little

2:02

do y'all know , yemi

2:05

and I . I would say

2:07

well , she is very partial to

2:09

October Halloween

2:11

. That festivities Me . I'm

2:13

a Thanksgiving motherfucker . It falls around

2:16

the time of my birthday . It's

2:18

one of my favorite holidays where I get

2:20

to eat , I get to chill

2:22

and I get to be around some of my favorite people , which

2:24

happen to be my family . But

2:28

back in the day , because

2:31

me and Yemi were trying to have some sense

2:33

of normalcy or maybe I

2:35

was I

2:40

used to make the Thanksgiving

2:42

dinner . Yes , so when Yemi be telling

2:44

you I don't know how to cook and I'd be pregnant ?

2:45

What did you ? You used to ?

2:48

Yes , make what

2:50

.

2:50

I used to make .

2:51

Everything .

2:51

No , the word make coming

2:54

from your mouth is confusing me , because you're

2:56

using it in a sentence as if you're

2:59

the one who was making the food . I

3:01

was making the food , but what she was doing was

3:03

boiling stuff

3:06

At

3:08

that age , please , please .

3:10

You see how yummy , you see how I'm going to let you tell

3:12

a story .

3:12

I want to tell a story .

3:13

You see how your haters will be your motivators as

3:15

a young child , because people in

3:17

our family , specifically

3:19

Well , I just said make , because everything came out of box .

3:22

I'm really confused .

3:22

So how ? What is it ? What is it ? You're prepared

3:25

. Anyways , I would make

3:27

Thanksgiving dinner .

3:29

I would make everything mashed potatoes the

3:31

stuffing cranberry

3:33

cornbread , everything Out of box .

3:35

Yemi , how are you making cornbread ? You going

3:37

to go to the fucking farm and grind the mill .

3:40

No , ok , then Excuse me , I'm

3:42

going to get cornmeal , is that

3:44

not what ?

3:44

I just said . No , no , no I said

3:47

you going to go to the farm , you going to get the cornmeal

3:49

, you going to mix in with the starch and the flour and then you going to

3:51

make yourself some cornbread .

3:52

No , this is what you do you buy

3:54

cornmeal , you buy

3:56

flour , you buy butter

3:58

, you buy milk , you

4:02

buy eggs . So

4:04

what is it ? What is it ?

4:07

What is the difference ? What is it , what is it ? What is it , what

4:09

is ?

4:09

the difference .

4:11

What is the difference for me taking

4:14

the Jiffy

4:16

corn pop , which is corn box , cornmeal box

4:18

? Ok

4:21

, what's the difference between that , doing everything

4:23

you just said ?

4:24

Well , I want to figure out where this story lands , so I won't

4:26

interject anymore . I'm going to figure out

4:28

where this plain lands and I'm going to just sit here quiet

4:30

, correct .

4:31

So I would make everything , I would do the one , two

4:33

, cook it all day , because typically

4:35

before this my mom would go to work at Dominic

4:38

.

4:39

Throwback .

4:40

She'd be there about two or three , my dad

4:42

would be .

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the like button on this video For real for this

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4:52

I said that because I've been editing a lot of YouTube

4:54

videos lately , so also make sure

4:56

you watch our YouTube . So

4:59

the day would go . This is typically

5:01

the only day that my dad would

5:04

wake up early . For other people

5:06

, To do anything Correct

5:08

, correct .

5:09

Correct .

5:09

But at the end of the day and inevitably

5:12

still was for him because he was going

5:14

to eat the turkey .

5:15

So my dad , would wake up early the only time you see him

5:17

wake up to cook .

5:18

Yeah , so my dad would wake up early

5:20

, about 5 , 6 o'clock

5:22

. The turkey would already be prepared because

5:25

, well , shambu , me or

5:27

my mom would prepare the chicken by putting

5:29

all the seasonings .

5:31

Is it chicken or is it turkey ? My ? Part the

5:33

turkey we would do all that stuff the day before

5:35

.

5:36

So then all my dad has to do is come in , preheat

5:38

the oven , turn it on , and then he'd do his little

5:40

one , two , check the da , da da , check

5:42

the turkey .

5:43

And every year .

5:44

Every year . Like the turkey was dry , dried

5:46

in a mud fuck , it still is dry

5:48

. Well , he has stopped cooking it now , but I'm glad

5:51

he has , because the turkey wasn't doing all that

5:53

much . Let's be real .

5:54

Right right .

5:55

So then I would start cooking about , I

5:58

would say , around 11 noonish , would not get

6:00

done to about 4 o'clock .

6:01

I thought we wouldn't start cooking until mom got back

6:04

.

6:04

No , no , no . I learned my lesson because

6:06

remember the one time where he was at , I

6:08

was cooking until like 7 or 8 o'clock and y'all

6:11

was like there's your , where can we eat , where can we eat

6:13

? And I made the cornbread late and

6:15

I rushed the cornbread and then I had to remake

6:17

the cornbread .

6:18

Yeah , so that was it . Because it didn't taste right , it was

6:20

burnt , it wasn't cooked up , something was wrong with it

6:22

. Yeah , exactly . And then I tried a little

6:24

funky recipe instead

6:26

of yeah , following the box , because

6:28

that's what you do usually no , you

6:30

just follow the box .

6:31

I started and I started now Experimenting

6:33

. That's the problem .

6:34

The problem is people started experimenting instead

6:36

of just following the recipe . But that's there

6:38

for a reason . Ok , you don't experiment on

6:40

Thanksgiving . Y'all remember that one video

6:42

where the girl fucked

6:44

up the mac and cheese . I don't know what she did , but

6:46

the auntie was like you don't experiment

6:49

on Thanksgiving If you know you

6:51

got to cook something for Thanksgiving

6:53

and you want to try a new recipe . You

6:55

do that beforehand Any other holiday , beforehand

6:57

Easter , somebody's

7:00

birthday , that's before Thanksgiving

7:03

, fourth of July

7:05

, juneteenth . You don't wait for Thanksgiving

7:07

to experiment with the food , you don't . She

7:10

said you don't fuck up the mac and cheese . And

7:12

since you did all that , you got to wash all the dishes

7:14

.

7:15

So I would do that and

7:18

I would do that . That wasn't a particularly special

7:20

Thanksgiving , right , but I would do

7:22

that and I would do that . Right

7:24

after that , I cook , I do my one

7:26

. Two , but I would do all that just

7:29

to hear my mom and

7:31

well , specifically our mom

7:33

complain about how the cooking was not on

7:36

par to hers . So

7:39

then I was like , well , that's

7:41

not what you do . And every year

7:43

, like clockwork , she's like you could have

7:45

done this , you could have done this . So

7:47

the one day she have off

7:49

a year by choice , keep

7:52

in mind , you buy choice . We not over here like , hey

7:54

, mom , wednesday are going to be ready . We

7:56

not those type of people we used to be

7:58

when we were children , sure , but

8:02

since we've gone back here as adults , no

8:04

, we just be eating . When we eat , like

8:08

clockwork , my mom would tell me that the cooking

8:10

is not all that right and

8:12

it gives a lack of appreciation

8:15

. One , because

8:18

you didn't have to cook for her entire day . Two

8:20

, I don't think I've ever

8:22

said that mom's cookie was never all that

8:24

in a bag of chips , since I've been eating

8:26

her food for now almost 28

8:29

, about to be 29 years of life . So

8:32

I say that because she already got a lot

8:35

of shade that she throwing her way to her own son

8:37

. But I

8:39

even realized it because , as me

8:42

and my sister have stopped cooking Thanksgiving

8:44

, which now is going on year

8:46

four of us not preparing a meal at all

8:48

our family typically

8:51

now caters , shouts out

8:53

to growth . We'd love

8:55

to see black excellence , black bourgeoisie . Our

8:59

brother will have a whole catering this year

9:01

. We're doing a potluck , still not making shit .

9:05

Just make sure , if you're not making anything , and

9:07

you're not bringing anything , you send me half the money for

9:09

these banana pudding cupcakes .

9:11

Why would I ? I told you what I want . I want pound cake and ice

9:13

cream . I don't know .

9:14

Well , I don't know where you're going to get that from . Niggas is

9:16

talking about it . Are you going to buy it and

9:18

bring it over there ?

9:19

I did last year . I'm just asking Remember the year

9:22

I brought pound cake and nobody touched it ?

9:23

but then , as I was about to take it , as you're about

9:25

to leave , they say you don't bring stuff over to people's

9:28

house and then leave it , and that's why this time , when

9:30

I bring them banana pudding cupcakes

9:32

, I'm going to make sure I stash a couple at the house first

9:34

. I'm like , oh yeah , y'all can have these , and

9:36

they're going to be like it's supposed to be two dozen .

9:38

Well , it's supposed to be some for me Exactly

9:41

, and that's why I learned

9:43

the hard way . Don't bring food to people's

9:45

houses .

9:46

Don't bring food to people's houses , and I'm the type but

9:48

that's true , though I mean I don't care about the like

9:51

that's a ghetto edit .

9:52

Let's save it .

9:53

That's a ghetto intellectual question .

9:55

Let's save it .

9:56

Let's save it . Let's save it for that .

9:58

We just gave over the ghetto intellectual circle

10:00

back . We'll have to remember . But

10:03

now , as we have Thanksgiving

10:05

at my brother's house , which he usually has people over

10:08

, something that he has always wanted to do have

10:10

everybody host Thanksgiving and have

10:12

everybody come to his crib , because , for whatever reason

10:14

, my brother don't like being out the house . So

10:17

now we do that , we get it catered , we do

10:19

all these things . My mom still complained

10:22

about the cooking , and we all know that the cooking

10:24

is fire . So now I'm starting to realize

10:26

that Shorty just got a problem

10:28

with being grateful

10:32

.

10:32

Hold on being thankful .

10:35

Ooh , even better . But I did grateful

10:37

because it's nothing but a G . But

10:41

, like I said , shorty's got a wrong . She

10:43

just does not understand what it is to

10:45

be thankful . And that that

10:48

inevitably leads into one

10:50

of my favorite holidays , not

10:52

because of the food , but really because of the community

10:54

and what we used to do but

10:57

since we've gotten older we haven't really done it is

11:00

that we used to go to party . To party , and that

11:02

was one of my favorite things . My

11:05

brother would come and get us .

11:07

Are you thinking about Thanksgiving or Christmas ? It's both

11:09

. We've done them for both .

11:12

But typically during the holidays we

11:14

just go to parties , house

11:17

hopping parties . It doesn't matter where . It is Chicago

11:19

South Side , I know that's also Chicago

11:21

. But you know South Suburbs , even

11:24

if it's out here . We've gone to Naperville

11:26

Joints . You know , all around the world we see our people

11:28

. All around Chicago we see our parents'

11:31

people . And then I always

11:33

go back to the only Thanksgiving

11:35

we actually traveled for , which was a family reunion

11:37

when we went to Atlanta .

11:39

Yeah , but that was a long time ago . That was a long

11:41

time ago .

11:42

So I say all those things because it's the season , it's

11:44

that time of the year .

11:46

And we're talking about Thanksgiving

11:49

.

11:49

Thanksgiving .

11:50

What's this episode going to be called ? Giving Thanks ? I

11:53

don't know .

11:53

It's a good idea . That's

11:56

a really I don't know .

11:57

Get rid of the dry ass . Turkey , that's

11:59

a good one . Because one thing about it I'm

12:02

not put in turkey on my plate . If I put turkey on my plate

12:04

, it's really just a formality . No , I put

12:06

turkey on my plate every year , if I put turkey on my plate . It's really

12:08

just a formality .

12:09

I'm there for the sides . The sides are the

12:11

main reason I put turkey on my plate every

12:14

year . No .

12:15

If I put turkey on my plate , it's really just a formality

12:17

, and I'm not one of those people . Let's talk

12:19

about Thanksgiving . That's what we're talking about today . Let's talk about Thanksgiving

12:21

. I'm

12:24

not one of those people that

12:26

feels like they can't go without

12:28

eating the whole day just so they can save room and

12:30

their stomach for things to get better .

12:32

Let's stop . First of all , you've been eating like

12:34

you got five stomachs lately , Lately .

12:36

I don't know what that's about . What it is about me , but I be hungry

12:38

all the time . Now I think I'm just going through a change in

12:40

life . Is that what it is ?

12:42

Maybe . Well , some might say you're pregnant , but

12:44

that's not one of my business . I'm not

12:46

pregnant .

12:47

And if I was , I would kill it . I'm gonna kill it , I'm gonna

12:50

kill it . Yay , I'm no shame

12:52

.

12:52

I'm not saying that for shame .

12:54

But damn God damn .

12:56

As soon as .

12:56

I find out . Excuse me , shorty , can

12:59

we eat into this motherfucker ? Not everything

13:01

got to be . I'm just saying

13:03

I'm not beating

13:05

around the bush , I don't have time to be

13:08

raising anybody .

13:09

I am just saying let's eat .

13:11

I'm keeping these straights . I don't have time to be raising anybody's

13:13

children .

13:14

So I'm just

13:16

saying you can eat into it , shorty .

13:18

I don't know why I be so hungry , but

13:20

I've been exercising , I've been going to the gym

13:22

, so maybe it's a little bit of that . I haven't

13:24

been consistent , but I've been going . But I've

13:27

been eating healthier . So it's not like I'm eating

13:29

trash , eating five meals a day . It's

13:31

more so like I just ate a salad with

13:33

some salmon , I don't know .

13:34

The last couple of vacations you've been on

13:37

my nerves with how much you wanna go eat . I'm like

13:39

damn .

13:39

Yeah , because you don't wanna eat at all

13:41

, I'll have to like beg you to

13:43

let's go to breakfast . I have to start the

13:45

meal . I have to start my morning with the .

13:47

Just because you have to start your day

13:49

with a meal doesn't mean I .

13:51

Most people have to start their day with

13:53

a meal , as opposed to what . Starting

13:56

your day with work , opening your

13:58

laptop and working .

13:59

But first of all , don't be disrespectful , I'm not

14:01

being disrespectful .

14:02

I just know that's how you start your day .

14:03

No , and we know how that's been

14:05

okay . First of all

14:07

, I typically don't

14:09

eat till about three , four o'clock

14:12

in the afternoon , wild , I've

14:14

never been a breakfast person per se .

14:17

Breakfast is the most important meal of the day .

14:18

Says who .

14:19

Says most people .

14:21

Man , I ain't hearing none of that , but you were talking

14:23

about how you're not one of those people that I feel like you have to

14:25

save .

14:26

Savor like save . I'm gonna eat

14:28

breakfast , regardless of if it's Thanksgiving

14:30

. I'm going to eat lunch too . If we're

14:32

not eating until seven o'clock , I'll

14:35

just eat and then take

14:37

a break and then eat again when I'm hungry , which

14:39

will probably be like 10 , 12 . And

14:41

I'm only putting size on my plate , I'm not putting

14:43

turkey on my plate .

14:45

So this is my thing . When I think

14:47

about Thanksgiving , two things

14:49

have always really annoyed me . One

14:52

, the fact that now that our

14:54

parents don't even worry

14:56

about us making Thanksgiving dinner , that

14:59

they still make a turkey . That

15:01

shit . Always I would look at my I still

15:04

look at my parents to this day . I'm like why the

15:06

fuck are we about to have 10 pounds of turkey

15:08

for the next three or four

15:10

months , like we'd be turkeyed

15:12

out Like my mom , be putting it in stew like

15:15

be ?

15:15

making sandwiches salad

15:17

.

15:18

I'm like yo put that shit away

15:20

. Dog Like , why is this bird so big

15:22

? So that was the number one , but the second thing

15:24

for me has always been that

15:27

why the hell ? Cause

15:29

we're African right .

15:31

I mean , the last time I checked I was Nigerian

15:33

.

15:34

Okay we're . Nigerian , african . Yes

15:37

, we are part of the diaspora . I

15:39

don't know about y'all , but

15:42

typically I'm not

15:44

used to having dinner before eight o'clock

15:46

and you tell me one day

15:48

out the year I got to act all

15:50

fancy out of the see . This is a

15:52

shit I don't like right . Like what

15:55

do people say ? They don't like forced interaction . I

15:57

don't like forced anybody who knows me . I

15:59

don't like forced timetables .

16:00

Like my mom For formality , forced formality . Like

16:02

you know , we don't do shit like this . Why is today

16:05

the day you want to do shit like this ? Exactly , and that's always

16:07

behind me . We all need to come together and stand

16:09

up and pray and talk about what we thankful

16:11

for . Oh , my pasty , pasty , macaroni

16:13

and cheese . Exactly , pasty , macaroni and cheese

16:16

.

16:16

I'm gonna move out of my way and nigga don't even show up on time

16:18

to work . You want me to show up on time for a meal

16:20

that happens one time a year , like , come on , make it

16:22

make sense . You know what I'm saying ?

16:24

I do think there

16:26

is some onus to that

16:28

If you aren't the type of people

16:30

who see your family as often and

16:32

y'all are coming together on

16:34

Thanksgiving . But we live

16:36

with our parents . We see them every day . Our

16:39

brother , tunday , lives six minutes

16:41

away from us . He has all his family

16:43

over there . We see our family

16:46

, honestly , probably too often , which

16:48

is why we have some of the tensions and

16:50

the things that we have now , because we are

16:52

too close .

16:55

No , but I hear what you saying Because

16:57

, I guarantee you , me and Yemi are in the process

16:59

of buying homes . So

17:02

by the time of this time next year , hopefully we both

17:04

out of this jam . Yes , I

17:08

guarantee you .

17:10

I'm gonna be gone regardless , if I don't like it , if

17:12

I don't buy a house , I'm gonna still be gone .

17:15

Whatever , but I guarantee you

17:17

that you will miss certain

17:19

aspects of being near your

17:21

family .

17:22

No , I mean , I already think about those things

17:24

. I'm not saying that I won't miss that . I would

17:26

just say that , at this age that I am now

17:28

, I don't need to be living here , and I don't need

17:30

to be here . What does ?

17:31

this mean , because I like to talk about this all the time . You

17:33

be a capper , all right , stage one capper Yemi

17:35

does so much things , knowing that she

17:37

doesn't have to do everything yourself

17:40

, but when you live on your own , everything

17:43

will be in every way .

17:44

Yeah , but I think checks and minuses

17:47

, or what's it called Pluses and minuses , I think

17:49

you know Pros and cons . Pros and cons , all

17:51

the yings and the yanks of things

17:54

, but what does that have to do with Thanksgiving

17:56

? This is okay , we can have side

17:58

gadgets Relax .

18:00

We only got like 20 minutes in that episode because

18:02

I was gonna say regardless if

18:04

it's Thanksgiving

18:07

or any other day , right ?

18:09

One thing that I will always do is

18:11

, if I know that .

18:12

Yemi is cooking . I don't care if I live

18:14

five miles away , you gonna find

18:16

your way to eat what I'm cooking .

18:18

Yeah , to get a plate , because Yemi

18:20

does that and I don't . Let's , let's , let's , let's

18:23

say this Hold on , hold on hold

18:25

on , you don't gonna stop me .

18:26

You don't gonna stop me , I'm not gonna stop you .

18:28

I'm just gonna interject real quick , put a pause

18:30

in what you're saying .

18:31

Okay , all right .

18:31

And then I'm not putting stop , I'm just putting

18:33

pause . I need you . I need you . Hey , come

18:35

on , shorty , I don't want you to get your point . You

18:38

would do that , but I'm not coming over to

18:40

your house to eat your own food . So yeah , that's

18:42

cause .

18:43

That's cause you feel like I don't know how to cook . That's

18:45

what I feel . Everybody who's had my cooking

18:47

has said it's been on point .

18:49

Who have you given your cooking to ? I Yemi

18:51

, I cook , bro . I cook For who ?

18:53

People , dogs no

18:55

, your goofy as hell . That's what

18:57

I'm looking at .

18:58

What was you gonna say ?

19:00

Yeah , cause Yemi's been on this whole .

19:01

Then you will travel from highways to byways

19:03

through tunnels . Use the underground

19:06

railroad just to make sure he has

19:08

some of my food . Yes , but Because

19:10

? Why ? Why ? This

19:12

is not because me , as an older brother .

19:14

I feel like no , it's because you have this

19:16

certain fixation . Yemi is literally

19:18

one of these people . It doesn't matter who you

19:20

are as a person . Like if you

19:22

eat her food , she gonna have a problem . Like

19:24

I'm really thinking about the day where you have your own

19:27

family . Your child could eat off your plate and

19:29

you will probably slap that motherfucker's hand .

19:31

No , no , no . So I see it , I

19:33

see it , I see it .

19:35

I see it with Mariah .

19:37

No .

19:37

Mariah , yo , yo , baby , yo , everything , I see

19:40

you , I see you . No , no , no , no , no . I

19:42

share everything with my baby . That's my baby . I'll

19:44

tell you , I'll tell you , I let you laugh

19:46

, I let you laugh , I let you laugh . Let

19:49

me say this it's

19:51

not about me .

19:52

I don't have a problem with sharing my food . No , you

19:54

do , please . I didn't interrupt

19:56

you when you went . I let you laugh , right , I let

19:58

you laugh . Hey I don't have a problem

20:00

with sharing my food when

20:03

, comma , you

20:05

are eating it in front of me and

20:08

you have let me know that you

20:10

are going to eat it . What

20:12

?

20:12

the hell is that that's regular , I

20:14

will cook something .

20:15

And I will cook something and

20:18

like if we , if I cook it and

20:20

I'm eating and you like oh , let me just get

20:22

some off your plate , no problem , right ? Or

20:25

if I cook something and I put it away

20:27

and you like yummy , can I have some ? Sure

20:29

, but Deji will just like

20:33

sneaky , sneaky ninja , eat my

20:35

shit . And then I'll see a rapper

20:37

for in the trash . That's

20:39

going to upset me because I had intentions

20:42

in my head on

20:44

eating . That . That's a false narrative . It's

20:46

not a false narrative , that's a false narrative , that's

20:48

what happened and that's why he bring that up , because he did that shit

20:50

to me this week . That's why he

20:53

bring this up , that's a false narrative .

20:54

I left some food .

20:56

I left a snack out because

20:58

I was going to come back and eat it and

21:00

I was taking it on my lunch box . So

21:03

I will remember to eat it and

21:05

then it would disappear . I forgot

21:07

about it , but I went to throw something else

21:09

away in the trash .

21:10

It wasn't in the trash , I left it on the kitchen counter

21:12

actually .

21:13

So you left the rap , you left the evidence on

21:15

the kitchen counter . Why ? Cause you wanted to spite me .

21:17

No , I didn't want to spite you , I forgot about it , you forgot

21:20

about it , I forgot . So

21:23

let's say , let's take this one step further .

21:24

It was in the trash . I said you ate my chips with

21:26

hoi cookies . Yes , it was cookies

21:28

. I don't give a fuck if it was a

21:30

Reese's cup . Don't eat my shit

21:33

if it's my shit , ok . So let's think

21:35

, or at least ask me first , just so I know

21:37

. Ok , I don't have to worry about that food no more , because

21:39

I was thinking I'm going to come downstairs and eat those

21:41

cookies .

21:42

OK , so let's take it a step further . Yevvie's

21:47

used so much of our stuff and I

21:49

did trip about it , unless it was something really big

21:51

. You know , like , say , a car , for instance , I don't need

21:53

to go somewhere . You know what I'm saying .

21:55

Stuff like that , but you don't ever really need to use

21:57

your car . When I will use it .

22:00

Sure , I would just say that . But

22:03

you needed it more because , look

22:05

at me , selfless Yevvie

22:07

will do this thing where

22:10

she'll make you try to feel bad

22:12

for eating the food . For I

22:15

mean , yeah , you can say what it

22:17

was . I told him what it was For eating

22:19

the snack , so Yevvie was over here . Y'all

22:22

know , for those of y'all that

22:24

do remote work or have to go into the office

22:26

, I know y'all got that area where

22:28

y'all got all the snacks and you could pop

22:30

in , get a snack , put a load

22:32

and

22:35

then you take as many snacks as you want because you go

22:38

snack on a train . You go eating in your car , whatever

22:40

. You take it back to the crib so you don't have to buy

22:42

snacks for the week , whatever . Yeah

22:44

, you eat them at your desk . Yevvie will

22:47

both face lie and I

22:49

will catch her in a lie and then she'll say it doesn't

22:51

matter , did you ? You're wrong , so I

22:53

ate those chips ahoy right , it was those

22:55

little small little snack packs where there's maybe

22:57

like five or six of the chips ahoy

22:59

cookies in it . Yevvie over here talking about some

23:01

danger , I bought that . I said , oh really , you paid

23:03

a dollar . You paid a dollar for that . I

23:06

was like Yevvie , you ain't paid no dollar . She's like , yes , I

23:08

went to the 7-Eleven , I bought me the chips

23:10

ahoy and now I can't eat it . I said , yevvie

23:12

, why the fuck are you lying bro ? I

23:15

was like Lily in my head . I was like why are you lying

23:17

? I said I know you went to your job . I

23:19

know you went to your job . I

23:22

know you walked into that motherfucking

23:24

snack room and I knew you took about three

23:26

or four , five of them and you brought one home

23:28

and then she was like Dainty , that shit , don't matter

23:30

, what you did was wrong . And I said I'm not

23:32

arguing with you , I'm

23:34

not arguing the fact what I did was

23:37

wrong , that's all it should

23:39

be .

23:41

I would have to lie . We would have to be doing all this chakarane-ness

23:44

. We would have to be doing all this mess

23:46

If you would have just left my stuff

23:48

alone .

23:50

But that's not the point I had . The point is

23:52

if you know for a fact that

23:54

you are just trying to make somebody feel worse yes

23:57

, you didn't buy them cookies . You're not

24:00

buying them chips , or ?

24:01

like , even if .

24:01

I didn't buy them cookies .

24:02

Even if I didn't go two minutes to

24:04

the 7-Eleven . It's worse , I

24:06

had to go all the way to the office . You

24:09

already know I don't like going into

24:11

the office . My job says you have

24:13

to go into the office . I don't want to be

24:15

here , but I'm

24:19

trying to compromise with these people . I don't want them

24:21

to keep saying I'm not a team player . I

24:23

don't want them to say , oh , she's not coming into the office

24:25

, so I go into the office . Let my

24:27

reward and let

24:30

my gifts for going into the office Be

24:33

the tripster who I cook and then I can eat when I come home

24:35

. It's laughing , it's

24:39

laughing , I'm

24:41

laughing . I'm laughing because Yembe

24:44

has I thought it'd be my gifts

24:46

. I struggle from one to two nights . I

24:48

go to the office , I sit there . I

24:50

went to the office this day . Those

24:53

people literally looked at me in my face and told

24:55

me that Harry Styles' album was better

24:57

than Beyonce .

25:01

Hey , I'm not listening . I'm not listening

25:03

. We've had this Taylor Swift version

25:05

of me . I tell you , you can't argue

25:07

.

25:07

They looked at me in my face . I said I can't

25:10

be here because I'm uncomfortable , because

25:12

if these people are capable of saying this , what

25:15

else are they capable of ? And you have me breathing

25:17

the same air as them . Let me go home

25:19

. Let me go home . I tell you .

25:21

I just want to go to my bed . You can't trust people that

25:23

are not of the culture . That's another story

25:26

, that's another tangent . You feel me ?

25:28

OK , ok , but

25:30

all I'm trying to say is this right ? I

25:32

don't have a problem with sharing my stuff , but

25:35

just one tell me , or two you're

25:37

going to be dead .

25:38

This has been your whole entire life ?

25:39

If it has been my whole entire

25:41

life , why do you keep doing it ? Because

25:44

, look , you don't give a fuck . Just say you

25:46

don't give a fuck , just say you don't give a

25:48

fuck .

25:48

That's not what I'm trying to say . What you say

25:50

is you don't give a fuck , so I'm passing it on these things

25:52

just keep trying to teach me lessons , and I'm a grown ass woman

25:55

.

25:55

Ain't nobody trying to teach you ?

25:56

this lesson . Ain't nobody trying to teach you this lesson

25:58

, but as a younger sibling and as

26:00

a baby , knowing that you get spoiled , there's

26:03

just certain due processes that you have

26:05

. I understand that you feel

26:07

some type of way . It's not like I'm

26:09

eating your meals . I have never eaten a meal

26:11

that Yemi's been looking forward to . Say damn

26:14

Yemi , is she going to buy some Chipotle ? I don't

26:16

eat your Chipotle . I don't be eating an

26:18

IEchileftover , something that you've

26:20

already partake in IE .

26:22

See , that's what Yemi won't tell you , but those chips

26:24

always was not open . That's a different thing

26:26

, yemi .

26:27

Why are you talking about that ? That's

26:29

a separate issue . That's a separate issue

26:31

.

26:31

Y'all is confused as to me . Drop a like or

26:34

like something Just drop the issue .

26:36

Drop the issue . Ok , that's all

26:38

I'm saying .

26:39

What I'm trying to say is two days for

26:41

years will eat my food . I'm

26:43

talking about two days would make them

26:45

.

26:45

I would make a meal two days , would eat it Literally

26:48

eat it in front of my face Like

26:51

y'all don't understand .

26:52

If you make some noodles and you was letting them

26:54

cool off and dry like you was letting

26:56

them dry , don't

26:59

leave them for too long , don't fuck with me If y'all

27:01

that went to fucking all these .

27:02

Y'all remember the fucking Kirkwood fucking Hot Wigs

27:04

boy ? I used to eat the bitches every

27:06

week , pop them in a microwave for six minutes

27:09

, let them cool off for two

27:11

minutes , them bitches gone . Y'all

27:13

don't know that type of pain . Nigga

27:15

would bottle me water and I would put barbecue

27:17

sauce on . I used to be fucking smashing

27:19

them . I used to have to buy two boxes

27:22

because I had to learn the game plan Soon

27:24

. They would eat the first box .

27:26

I would have the second box Now

27:29

that I've learned from two days Y'all doing it to

27:31

somebody else . What kind of shape are you

27:33

? You should be shaped up yourself , what

27:35

, what

27:37

. But now you saw

27:39

what happened .

27:40

Now you want to do it , but I do it smarter . You

27:43

see what I said I do it smarter , I

27:45

party faster . Why am I at ?

27:46

the gym so high . Hey , we're open . They're

27:48

some fucking chips .

27:51

They are some chips , you see it . I'm sorry

27:53

, there's some fucking cookies .

27:54

They was fucking five . You're not going to die

27:57

over five cookies . I never said I was

27:59

going to die . Do you see what I'm saying ?

28:00

I just say I was going to die . Don't let people make you feel bad

28:03

. Ok , you already did .

28:04

You didn't think you wouldn't have felt bad if you wouldn't have

28:06

aimed myself . I didn't feel bad . Let's pivot

28:08

, let's pivot . Let me get back to Thanksgiving

28:11

, right ? So OK , what's on your Thanksgiving plate ?

28:14

That's a good question .

28:16

What's on your first plate ?

28:17

Well , it's interesting because since we've gotten

28:19

it catered , it's different , right ? The one

28:22

year we did freaking casserole

28:24

. I never fucking again , Never

28:26

fucking . I don't know who . Black people

28:29

just do regular yams with the

28:31

brown sugar and the syrup . Why the fuck

28:33

I want all my sweet yams ? Ok , all these

28:35

marshmallows . Why

28:38

the fuck are you all niggas trying to give me diabetes ? Ok

28:40

, I will throw that shit in the trash . And

28:43

, honestly , when we had it that one year it was

28:45

gone in the trash . Now

28:47

I'm going to say this I love

28:49

me some sweet potatoes , so I got to have that on my plate . I

28:51

like turkey . Typically , we have spaghetti

28:54

now and I always love spaghetti . I

28:56

don't care if y'all don't think that's a Thanksgiving meal . That's

28:58

a Thanksgiving dish or side for me .

29:01

People argue that that's not a side for Thanksgiving

29:03

.

29:04

Yeah , there's a lot of people I mean . I feel like

29:06

it's becoming more common , maybe

29:08

because you can eat that every day , correct . Other

29:12

than that , I mean I'm not too fond on turkey . You know , we

29:14

African I got to give me some Jalof , so

29:17

I usually , typically always have three plates

29:19

, three full plates .

29:21

So you know , that's the first plate Episode

29:23

should be called Gluttony . I think we already have an episode called

29:25

that .

29:26

We don't have an episode called Gluttony

29:28

. Ok , that's a good title , let's keep it in the bank . But

29:31

yeah , that's my first plate . The second plate it will

29:33

consist of the collard greens . I don't do dressing

29:36

stuffing fuck that . I don't really

29:38

care about that . No , I've never been

29:40

big on it . Honestly , love

29:43

me some collard greens . Then we

29:45

get the mashed potatoes so I can mix them in with

29:47

the collard greens , and

29:50

then we put the cornbread on that plate as

29:52

well , and then I'm

29:55

going to . I try to partition , and y'all

29:57

could think I'm crazy , but I've been trying

29:59

to partition . I've

30:01

been trying to partition I'm sorry , not partition

30:03

, partition to get turkey

30:06

off the menu .

30:07

I've really told let's do some big chicken or something .

30:09

That's what I remember . When I offered that and Tunde

30:12

and Wanu were like my brother and his

30:14

wife . They were like Deji , we fun to have turkey , like

30:16

everybody likes turkey . I said , no , fuck

30:18

that , get a rotisserie chicken Shit . You could

30:20

do whatever you want with the chicken and I was

30:22

just like yeah , and they was all

30:24

like no , we not doing that . That's crazy , I'm

30:26

not going to have a lot of motherfuckers will have ham . Y'all

30:29

obsession with pork , I'm just trying to .

30:31

we could have roast beef , something different bro

30:33

, yeah , and I was just like

30:35

why we always got to do this , but nobody

30:38

listened to me .

30:38

But that's what's on my mind . The third plate is

30:41

anything that is nuanced at

30:43

the Thanksgiving . I'll do it just to be

30:46

polite . Try

30:48

it . But I'm really doing it to be polite because I know if nobody

30:51

eat it , at least I can say I eat it . But I usually pick

30:53

at that plate and then I just throw it

30:55

out , unless there's something really good , you got to put it upside

30:57

down in the trash , can , correct , correct

30:59

.

30:59

So that's usually how it goes for beef .

31:02

Oh yeah , I forgot about black eyed peas too . So yeah , yeah

31:04

, yeah , because we usually have a pretty good spread , but

31:06

, like I said , we get a cater . This is the first

31:08

year we're not doing catering in the last

31:10

three or four years . So

31:13

what about you ?

31:15

My plate consists of

31:17

, like I said , just a little bit of turkey

31:19

for fruity , and then I'm putting some

31:21

cranberry sauce on that , because if it's dry I would

31:24

need something to give it some , you know

31:26

some . So one , two mashed potatoes

31:28

. If they're garlic and they whips , it

31:30

can't be from a box . It needs to be authentic

31:33

mashed potatoes . You remember the

31:35

one time we tried to make mashed potatoes from

31:37

the box or from scratch ? No , that was a good

31:40

year that we actually cooked me and you cooked

31:42

and we were the only two that ate it , because mom and dad

31:44

went to somebody's house . We fucked that

31:46

up . We fucked that thing's giving up .

31:48

Yeah , so I know that was like right before .

31:50

that was the year Before COVID .

31:51

That's also why I don't like cooking Thanksgiving , because

31:53

when we we used to do it . It took us all

31:55

day and we used to do it for our parents

31:57

and when they did that stupid ass shit and

31:59

didn't tell us I'm not saying that there's yeah

32:02

, because we were- like this year , we're going to make everything from scratch

32:04

.

32:04

And we did , we're going to do it , we're

32:06

just going to make you know , we just , we just , I don't know what

32:08

got into us . We were bored we were bored , but

32:11

I mean it wasn't . It wasn't COVID

32:13

, it was before COVID . That's what I'm saying . We just

32:15

, we just had time . We was like yeah , we're not going to make anything

32:17

in the box . I think we just realized

32:20

that it's up to us to we made stuffing

32:22

out of scratch .

32:23

We use yes , we did we , because we use breadcrumbs

32:25

. I bought breadcrumbs , yes , and

32:27

I use the big ones that could

32:30

not the like actual breadcrumbs . What are

32:32

they called ? Panko crumbs ?

32:34

That's what I don't know . But yeah , we did everything

32:37

from scratch that year and we , we

32:39

did our big one but we were cooking to like seven

32:41

, eight .

32:42

Yeah , it was too late , too late , too late .

32:44

Because we didn't prepare like usually . You supposed to prepare beforehand , but

32:47

we were kind of just like oh yeah , we're going to do it . So

32:49

, but my plate ? Yes , Mush

32:51

potatoes . Gravy on the mashed potatoes . I

32:54

need the sweet potatoes . Yeah , Super potato

32:56

yams . I don't need souffle casserole

32:59

. Don't put no marshmallows on my shit . They

33:03

hear that we had that . That's that play . Was that

33:05

? That panel was still full .

33:07

I was trying to give that away , like you don't want this .

33:09

No , girl , I don't want that

33:11

because I wanted you would have seen me eating it . And I need my

33:13

sweet potatoes right next to my mac and cheese , because

33:15

I need that , that savory and that

33:17

sweet , and I'm going to pick up both of them , put

33:19

both of them on my fork and eat them together . Then

33:22

I'm going to put some greens on there as well Cornbread

33:26

, jalof rice , jerk

33:28

chicken , if we have it . If not

33:30

, we usually have ox tail . I'm going to give

33:32

me a ox tail , that's it . I

33:35

feel like I named everything . I'm only eating one plate

33:37

to be to be quite honest . Last year I

33:39

DJ'd Black Wednesday , so

33:42

I was tired , hungover . After

33:45

I ate my first plate , I took a nap on the couch

33:47

.

33:47

Yeah , you did . You was knocked out .

33:48

I was knocked out because I was tired from DJing

33:51

and then from the

33:53

itis . I fell asleep . I don't know what was going

33:56

on around me .

33:57

I can't remember . I can't remember

34:00

.

34:00

That was a weird thing .

34:01

What's one thing you feel like they should add

34:03

to Thanksgiving that is not normal

34:06

, just in general . Or

34:08

like food wise in general .

34:09

Both , let's do both food

34:12

wise , something that I would like to eat

34:14

, or Thanksgiving

34:17

, maybe some fried . I

34:19

would love some fried

34:21

chicken or fried fish

34:23

, but from sharks .

34:26

Okay , I can see that they

34:28

probably do get some good orders that day too .

34:30

Some sharks or , you know , some

34:33

lemon pep , because I feel like that would bang with the rest of the

34:35

stuff on the plate , though that would

34:37

fuck it up Fried catfish

34:39

and some mashed potatoes .

34:42

I was thinking of lobster rolls . That would go

34:45

crazy .

34:45

We just like lobster rolls . In general , People

34:48

probably have seafood like Chanel . They

34:50

used to do like seafood for Thanksgiving

34:52

instead of doing like other stuff , because

34:54

they're like we eat that all the time because they Jamaican . So

34:57

yeah , but

35:00

something that I would like to happen at Thanksgiving

35:03

, I don't

35:08

know . I feel like one year we did karaoke

35:10

, music movies .

35:13

When I have posted our Thanksgiving's most

35:15

of the time be like oh , y'all be lit , because

35:18

they usually just end up being a big party .

35:20

Big party . Everyone's done eating

35:22

.

35:22

So yeah .

35:23

I mean , I feel like I

35:26

would prefer to do house hopping , to be honest

35:29

. I do I mean , yeah , I would

35:31

prefer to do that . That's an addition to

35:33

Thanksgiving I would like to do . I

35:35

would like to go to everybody's house to eat , but just to be

35:37

in that community and hang

35:40

out with people , because last year

35:42

I fell asleep because I didn't

35:44

want to be up and be like , active

35:47

around people

35:49

that we're with

35:51

, because I remember one year we saw

35:53

Jump in the Broom after Thanksgiving . Oh

35:57

, we went to the movie theaters . Was it after Thanksgiving

35:59

or Christmas ?

36:00

It was after Thanksgiving . It was after Thanksgiving , so

36:03

we saw Jump in the Broom . No

36:06

, we saw Queen and Slip the next day , yeah

36:08

that was one Thanksgiving as well , so

36:12

that's always been something typical . Yeah

36:16

, that we have done as a family , which is crazy because

36:18

we've made traditions with our brother but we don't

36:21

necessarily have stuff with our mom and dad . But

36:23

that's just a product of who our mom and dad are . They

36:25

don't really care for us .

36:26

I don't know if I just think that my dad is not like a

36:28

social person , but that's okay .

36:30

I mean , you could still have traditions , you could still do

36:32

.

36:32

I'm excited this year because I

36:34

have Wednesday off of work .

36:37

So do I . You don't typically

36:39

always .

36:39

No , my company don't give us no days off

36:41

, that's okay . But , I

36:44

may take off Tuesday too .

36:46

Take the whole week off .

36:47

Right .

36:47

My fuckers already take too much of our time . No ways .

36:51

Because they was like you only use five days

36:53

. You don't want to , we don't

36:55

even want to talk .

36:56

I looked at my . There was two days that I called off

36:58

this year and it makes sense

37:00

where I'm at where I'm at Mentally .

37:02

Yes , I

37:04

guess if you got a limited PTO , take it

37:06

.

37:07

But that's the trick they will let you . That's

37:09

the thing I've learned with unlimited PTO . They'll

37:11

tell you that shit , knowing that you'll take less days , because

37:13

you're like , oh , I could take off whenever you want , but

37:15

the thing is you got to just start putting your foot

37:17

in the sand . But what I was actually

37:19

going to say is that it's

37:22

interesting . With Thanksgiving , though , is

37:25

the

37:27

one activity I would like to get into

37:29

that I have not yet , and

37:32

I think part of it is because I don't have

37:34

my own place , because I would be the only one to organize

37:36

and actually kind of hone it out

37:38

of my friend group . Is a friend's giving

37:41

Right ? I feel like

37:43

, as adults

37:45

at this age , particularly

37:47

at this age where people are living

37:49

on their own , they're living with their spouse , they're

37:51

trying to figure out what it means to them to kind

37:53

of build their own family and identity

37:55

, I feel like friends giving is a very

37:58

cool thing . That came out about

38:00

Thanksgiving , and

38:02

it's just more so surrounded by the community . So

38:05

I've always been interested to

38:07

see what that looked like , because for me , friends

38:10

giving would just be a really big party . I don't

38:12

necessarily care about all Typically when

38:14

it comes to holidays . I don't care about patentry

38:16

. I don't really care about the decorations

38:18

. All that I care about making sure we

38:20

get everybody in a space so we

38:23

could turn up .

38:27

I agree , I would do Friends

38:29

Given too . I would throw all the parties .

38:32

Because I feel like in general out of my friend

38:34

group you have to be the one to do it . I

38:36

mean , people live on their own but they don't ever really host

38:38

nothing . I'd be the one to be like . So , like

38:40

yeah , and I'm like y'all

38:42

been living by yourselves for years

38:44

, but it seems like I get it People , man

38:47

with black men kind of be weird sometimes that

38:50

like , oh , this is my space , this is my fortune

38:52

of solitude , that's cool .

38:54

I just think they don't keep it clean enough to be having

38:56

people over .

38:56

No , I got some pretty clean niggas

39:00

.

39:03

I just think you should be saying niggas and keep talking

39:06

about white people too .

39:06

So I don't know , and you know why are you lying ? I

39:09

mean , what's the last white face ? You've actually

39:11

seen me kick it with . Yeah

39:14

, think about it .

39:14

I haven't seen you kick it with nobody Shut up

39:17

. You're a lazy . You're leaving the house , you lie .

39:18

See you just be talking about your ass bro . You

39:22

be talking . I watch y'all to realize

39:24

that everything that this woman say

39:26

to the left of me , if this was video

39:28

recorded to the left of me , to the right of me .

39:30

Look at the camera . There ain't no camera . Look at the camera

39:32

and talk to them .

39:33

She is telling you she wants . She's

39:35

a little sister so you got to realize big mouth , but

39:38

it's always like there's always

39:40

a hint of like lies in it . You feel

39:42

me Like if you .

39:43

I said there's a hint of lies .

39:47

I didn't call you a liar because if it

39:49

was up to you , what ?

39:49

does a liar , do you over here

39:51

? You over here ?

39:53

thinking like I'm a KKK associate

39:55

. Member of some shit .

39:56

What does a liar do ? They lie , they

39:59

lie , but that's so . If I lie

40:01

, then what am I ?

40:03

I just want you all to know that

40:05

at the end of the day , yeah when

40:08

I see yummy eat

40:10

off either my niece or my nephews

40:12

plate , I'm going to look at her and say , see

40:15

, hypocrite , I don't eat off , they

40:17

play yummy , your , you be

40:19

capping , bro . I've seen you just take food

40:21

off . They play . I really haven't . I don't think you know what

40:23

you're talking about . I definitely do , but we talk

40:25

about Thanksgiving , okay Right

40:27

. So what is your most memorable

40:30

moment ?

40:31

from .

40:31

Thanksgiving out of all the Thanksgiving's we had

40:33

.

40:34

So I

40:44

don't know .

40:44

I feel like we talked about the ones that I think are memorable

40:47

, like the year that we cooked or

40:49

we could talk about the first time we met today's

40:51

wife , and we didn't know it at the time

40:53

.

40:54

You can talk about that for your memory , but I

40:56

was thinking about the one year . No

40:58

, I mean yeah , if that's your favorite memory you

41:01

can talk about it , but I didn't think about that I thought about

41:04

the one year where

41:06

mom made a salad and she opened

41:08

a bag of premixed

41:11

salad and poured it into a

41:13

tupperware and said she made

41:15

salad . That was funny to me

41:17

. I don't

41:20

know . That's what my brain went to , because I mean memorable

41:23

Thanksgiving . I really just think about

41:25

the year that we cooked the whole thing by ourselves

41:27

, because we really what I did I did

41:29

a lot of the work and did you was a great sushi .

41:32

Yeah , I mean , stop lying to the people , I actually

41:34

cooked because

41:36

you lied . Who peeled

41:38

the potatoes , who boiled the potatoes

41:40

, who smashed the potato chef , chef

41:42

duties smashed the potatoes , and

41:45

then I also whipped the mashed potatoes

41:47

.

41:47

So I literally , but you with the way about

41:49

no , no , yummy what

41:52

a whisk . What

41:54

a way . Yes

41:57

, well , yeah . So what's

41:59

, what was your favorite Thanksgiving memory ? Daigee

42:01

.

42:02

Favorite Thanksgiving memory ? I

42:06

feel like there's so many

42:09

. That wasn't a favorite memory , that was just I

42:11

always think I'm a memorable memory , because I look at them from

42:13

this time standpoint of like how I

42:15

grew up as a like Daigee

42:18

. I remember that because

42:20

we were super , super young and today just

42:22

took us to this person's house 13 years

42:24

ago . Yeah , and we were playing scene

42:26

it . That's why I remember that . So I'm like , oh

42:29

, that's cool when I was 12 years ago

42:31

, 12 years ago , I'm 28 , 14

42:33

. So I think about stuff

42:35

like that , but then I also think about that .

42:37

Isn't that crazy , like someone has literally

42:39

watched you grow since

42:42

you were a teenager and you

42:44

know , you know , I mean like , but I think about

42:47

that with my friends all the time .

42:48

Oh , yeah , yeah .

42:49

Yeah , I think about that , like with my line sisters , like

42:51

they literally see me when I was 18

42:53

and I'm not that anymore

42:55

. So it's like you hear me , you're not , it's

42:57

okay , you don't have to how

42:59

old are you actually why ? Yeah

43:03

me please so yeah , so , like you said

43:05

, we're playing scene it .

43:08

So that's the time I really remember . Like I said

43:10

, remember when we seen jump .

43:11

Thanks giving her Christmas .

43:13

That , was that really the same to ?

43:14

me , the only difference is on Christmas . We don't

43:16

eat like a meal , we just be in

43:18

community , correct ?

43:20

Thanksgiving when we saw jump in the broom . I remember

43:22

that because we went to country club .

43:24

Hills we got Bobo , I think it was

43:26

. I think it was Friday , no

43:28

it wasn't , but it's okay .

43:31

When we saw Queen and Slim , I remember that that was

43:33

a terrible . I remember that the

43:35

only thing that made it worth it is that we all

43:38

all had the same reaction .

43:40

We were last five minutes I'm telling

43:42

you me today . Why do you got up and walk

43:44

out the ?

43:45

theater , the whole theater went up

43:47

, though they was all like what the fuck ? Like every

43:49

. It was the coolest experience . Yeah

43:51

, because it was all . A whole bunch of black people say

43:53

like this fucking . So that

43:55

was a very .

43:57

we literally got up and walked out . I think I made a

43:59

walk . I might have walked back in , just so I could

44:01

see how it ended , but I had already missed

44:03

some stuff because I walked out much .

44:05

Yeah , honestly , I'm going to

44:07

the other kind of the laugh

44:09

. If I had , it was so funny because

44:12

the hype was crazy .

44:13

Lena with had our own website

44:15

.

44:16

I mean the promo rollout . The the

44:18

remote was crazy just for the movie to be like

44:20

ass .

44:21

No , I mean like the whole movie wasn't

44:23

bad . We've talked about this before on the

44:25

podcast . Of course , the scene with

44:27

the cops and the boy and then

44:30

the last like 10 minutes was trash

44:32

, but everything else was cute , like the segmentography

44:34

, the story , like I'm really thinking that these niggas

44:36

gonna get away and you both

44:39

face shot them , yeah , in

44:41

our fucking faces , as if we didn't see . Yeah

44:44

, trayvon Martin .

44:45

George Floyd .

44:46

George Floyd , like I think , I think this

44:48

was after , this was before George Floyd

44:50

, but that wasn't the last incident of

44:53

of police brutality , you know . So it was

44:55

just weird to see life

44:57

in film

45:00

when we watch stuff

45:03

on TV to escape reality , correct

45:05

, and I'm not saying that , like , art

45:08

does not reflect reality , because movies

45:10

is art . I'm just saying , like

45:12

, you had the opportunity to give us a

45:14

happy ending because we already

45:17

don't see it in real life , and you dropped the

45:19

ball . And that was the day I stopped fucking with

45:21

Lena , with and then she .

45:23

She tried to come back on Masters of

45:25

the season three and I , which

45:27

ages better as you rewatch it

45:29

. I'll say that , but still

45:31

, what the fuck ?

45:32

and also , let's talk about Thanksgiving

45:34

.

45:35

Our favorite episode , yes , so that's so

45:37

now I feel like we talked about Thanksgiving on the podcast

45:40

before we talked about how it's one of our favorite episodes

45:42

, but I don't think we talked about how it actually came

45:44

about , as it becoming a Thanksgiving tradition for

45:46

us or even just like Thanksgiving

45:48

.

45:49

No , I'm saying like I feel like we talked about Thanksgiving

45:51

, the holiday , as an episode , if we

45:53

have . You know , we've said new stuff

45:55

. It's been a long year for us , sorry

45:57

.

45:58

I mean , we also haven't been recording this consistently

46:00

, so y'all should just be happy to hear our voices . No , I'm

46:02

joking .

46:03

And that's a period .

46:05

But yeah , we probably did have a Thanksgiving episode

46:07

. But you know , you live and you learn . How

46:11

did the Thanksgiving episode become tradition

46:13

?

46:13

if you guys have not . I think

46:15

we might have just talked about our favorite , like TV

46:18

shows or something .

46:18

That's probably what it was .

46:19

That's probably what it was .

46:21

For those of you who haven't watched it , it's

46:23

on . It's called Masters of Nuns , so

46:25

pretty much a dramedy

46:28

is what they call it , or a comedy

46:30

yeah , a drama comedy based

46:32

around a person named Dev

46:34

and his friends and they live in New York

46:36

and they go through basically life , but

46:39

it's from the minority standpoint

46:41

, first generation standpoint

46:43

Older millennials .

46:44

Older millennials Correct , but

46:47

very very great story .

46:49

Very great story , very beautifully shot

46:51

, a lot of things , and it actually has one

46:53

of our favorite episodes , which I don't

46:55

know , how it became a

46:58

tradition .

46:58

But basically , I mean it's called Thanksgiving . Yes

47:01

, why not watch it on Thanksgiving ? So ?

47:03

that , yeah , that's what it is and it's a

47:06

coming of age story , but every Thanksgiving

47:08

something happens differently and

47:11

it's a really beautiful , beautiful story

47:13

.

47:13

Like Lena , waithe needs to stay in that

47:15

bag .

47:16

Correct .

47:16

That particular bag and don't go anywhere

47:18

else , don't shift anywhere else , don't give us

47:20

nothing else . How

47:23

stay here ?

47:25

But yeah , it's a really beautiful episode .

47:26

You watch it , yeah we talked about it before , so

47:28

we won't go . So I would just say y'all watch it .

47:30

Y'all could give us y'all feedback .

47:32

I mean For y'all . Definitely let us know your feedback after you watch

47:34

it , if you've been listening this far , and

47:36

make sure you throw that away .

47:38

So yes , Find

47:40

a business , yeah , but

47:42

that would probably be my favorite . I

47:44

guess that's my favorite things because I always make sure , I always

47:47

make sure no matter how

47:49

through high water . No matter before I go to bed

47:51

, I wash that .

47:52

Whenever it's how we come home .

47:53

I wash that episode . Yeah , and

47:55

as long as Masters of Nine is on .

47:58

Netflix .

47:58

I'll probably have to buy it , if they never , just so I could keep

48:01

tradition alive .

48:01

But it's stuff like something you're going to show

48:03

your kids . Are you going to show kids watch ? Yeah

48:06

, I feel like that episode is safe for

48:08

kids to watch .

48:09

Yeah , why not ? I mean , I would wait

48:11

for them to be of a certain age where they could understand

48:13

what is actually going on .

48:14

Yeah , I mean to sit down with them , for sure

48:16

, but yeah , but in general .

48:19

Yeah , so that's a beautiful episode . That's a

48:21

story of family , love , acceptance

48:24

, growth . I

48:27

mean it kind of has everything mixed

48:30

all up into it and a whole bunch of , like you

48:32

know , resolution , which sometimes

48:35

I don't think people talk about it enough

48:37

. The reason why we like shows like this is

48:39

because there is resolution Oftentimes

48:42

in our own lives . We

48:44

have to wait .

48:45

Yeah and be patient for our resolution , but

48:47

in these shows it's you get it in 30 minutes

48:49

, and I will talk about that because that's that's

48:51

really like something that I've been dealing with a lot

48:53

lately , like I'm

48:55

living what I watched

48:58

on TV , like what I grew up , like

49:00

what raised me , like I was raised

49:02

by TV , to be quite honest , which is why my personality

49:05

is the way that it is , but I'm

49:08

starting to realize that yo

49:10

, like these adults that I was watching when I was like

49:12

10 , 9 , 8 years old

49:15

, is who I am now . Like I'm dealing

49:17

through adult shit and it's like it

49:20

might not be resolved in 30 minutes , like I

49:22

was raised to believe and

49:24

that's crazy to me , it really won't . That's crazy

49:26

to me because I'm like damn , I'm an adult

49:28

and it . I feel like I be jumping

49:30

in and out of spaces of like knowing

49:33

that I'm an adult , even though fully I know that I'm 27

49:36

years old . But there's some , there's some aspects

49:38

of my life where I feel like , ooh , I'm

49:40

still this age , but

49:42

fully , like

49:45

damn , this

49:47

shit is . I don't think I've watched the show that

49:49

has anything that directly is

49:52

parallel to my life , but

49:54

just like realizing that like damn , this would

49:56

be an episode of a TV show but

49:58

it's not resolved in 30 minutes . So yeah , that's that's

50:00

. That's interesting that you said that , because I'd be having

50:02

like that mental that

50:06

not block , but I just be thinking about

50:08

that often .

50:09

Yeah , I'm in a season where I'm thinking , where I'm in

50:11

that right now and it's it's , it's the

50:13

worst . I can see why people don't like uncertainty

50:16

, because when

50:18

you're in a season where you're not able to handle

50:20

, it is kind of gives you like , am

50:22

I going to make it through ? Like , what is the

50:24

resolution ? What is the conclusion ? You can

50:27

have faith , you can have all the positive

50:29

, all that stuff , but you

50:31

know , the one thing about life

50:33

is it's gonna life and sometimes you don't know how

50:36

life is gonna life . You , you feel me , but

50:40

yeah , no , I think it's a . I think it's a . I

50:42

think , when it comes to Thanksgiving

50:44

, that episode especially we

50:47

see all those things right like we see

50:49

which , if

50:52

we were actually paying attention , we see that the

50:54

resolution actually took decades

50:56

or years , which

50:58

, okay , that would make it make sense

51:01

but like yeah , no , I get it , yemi yeah . I

51:03

guess that's Yemi's humble flex or humble brag , whatever

51:05

.

51:06

It wasn't a brag , it wasn't a flex . I literally

51:08

, if anything , I think it's to

51:10

my own detriment Like I

51:12

was raised to not

51:15

believe , because I don't think I even believed that then . But

51:17

I was raised to believe that there is a resolution for

51:19

some of the stuff that you go through and things will

51:22

just fall into

51:24

place . They do and they

51:26

do . They fall into a place . It might not

51:28

be the place that you want them to , but they

51:30

do fall somewhere .

51:31

But I think that's the thing that

51:33

sometimes we forget , specifically

51:37

during the holidays , because everything is Hallmark

51:39

right , specifically throwing into

51:41

Thanksgiving . Everything is about thanks , like

51:43

you should be so grateful , which is true , but

51:46

the journey to being thankful

51:48

and gratitude is a motherfucker

51:51

Like . There's a lot of things that

51:53

you have to learn to let go of and accept

51:55

because that's what reality is right

51:57

.

51:59

Well , I'm thankful for where I am right now

52:01

. And I'm thankful for all the things that this

52:03

year has given me . You know it's November , it's

52:06

the second to last month of the year . Next

52:08

week , two weeks from now , we're gonna be celebrating Daisy's

52:10

birthday . I'm thankful for this nigga

52:12

right here as much as he gets on my nerves

52:14

and pisses

52:16

me off . But you know I wouldn't want

52:18

to see her .

52:19

You see how , even as this is a big

52:21

brother right . Yes , me and my coworkers

52:24

were talking and you know we were doing the

52:26

whole company , like we were doing the team

52:28

hot social hour or whatever . And

52:31

they're like oh , let's talk about everything

52:33

you are thankful for . And

52:35

people were saying obviously most people were saying they're

52:37

families and then everything . And

52:40

then it got to me and I was like

52:42

sure I'll tell you what I'm thankful for . I said for my

52:44

sister . I said , and you

52:46

see how she just everybody listen

52:49

to what she said begrudgingly Me

52:51

. I was very straightforward . I said look , I'm

52:53

very thankful for my sister in this year

52:56

of this life that I've experienced this

52:58

age of 28 . You

53:00

know , I'm in the middle of my Saturn return

53:02

and everything that they say about that bitch

53:04

I'm telling y'all right now is 100%

53:07

true . But I was like , yeah

53:10

, I'm so happy that I've been able to

53:12

experience and enjoy life with my sister

53:15

in this year of 28 . Cause

53:17

, honestly , if I look at it holistically , this

53:19

for most people would be a really good

53:22

year . You know , this would be a really great year

53:24

for them . You know , like what I've

53:26

been able to accomplish , what I've been able to see you

53:28

accomplish , and where we're going from a projectory

53:31

standpoint . It would make you feel like

53:33

, wow , there is a lot of good

53:35

coming down the pipeline .

53:37

Yes .

53:38

Right , and in addition

53:40

to that , I'm saying that

53:42

because , basically , what I said

53:44

is like I'm very happy that my sister

53:46

and I are able to enjoy life . We

53:49

were both fortunate enough to go to Afro Tech and

53:52

there was this moment in Afro Tech where we both daft

53:54

each other and honestly

53:56

, I'm telling y'all this was like I've

53:58

been going through a season , but like that

54:01

moment was enough for me to be like , yeah , I

54:03

can keep on pushing for as long

54:05

as I need to , because life

54:07

be worth it . You know what I'm saying .

54:09

Is that you remember what that moment was

54:11

?

54:12

Yeah , so we was at

54:14

. So we ain't even

54:16

really talk about it , but we were at Afro Tech . Right

54:18

, and basically Afro Tech was

54:20

the combination of what me and Yemi are

54:23

as people , which is basically we

54:25

are very charming

54:27

. Basically I would call us

54:29

unicorns when it comes to a social

54:31

setting . But besides all

54:33

that , we just are ultimate finesses . Like there's

54:35

no way we're not gonna find a way to

54:38

make sure that the situation is conducive

54:40

to us . So

54:43

Yemi and I , we was at Afro Tech . This

54:45

was the second or third day

54:47

. It was Friday , that's all I remember . Friday

54:51

Yemi found out

54:53

that one of her favorite

54:55

artists at the time , or I should say right now

54:57

. Ombre was performing at Soho House

54:59

, austin she's a member . They

55:01

was doing all this woopla wahala

55:03

type shit , talking about some . You can't use your one off

55:05

right now because of blah , blah blah

55:08

. You need to talk to the house , the house needs to communicate

55:10

with us . Blah , blah , blah all a whole bunch of bullshit . So

55:12

, me being me , I

55:15

kind of let Yemi do the talking . Then

55:17

I walk over to this door because I was just gonna walk in

55:19

with this other dude who was talking , who was

55:22

going to this

55:24

.

55:25

I'm giving them play by play A different

55:27

event . He was going to a different event at Soho House .

55:29

And we was talking up to buddy and he's like , oh , y'all

55:32

having a hard time Cause he's like this Soho House don't even

55:34

be cracking like that . Blah , blah , blah .

55:36

And then buddy was like what's up about that ?

55:38

at different days and bloody was like come on , just come with

55:40

me and I'll say salute

55:42

. This is why that was one of my favorite

55:44

things I learned about AvroTech . One thing about Black

55:47

people is that we were always finesse the

55:49

situation for one another . But that

55:51

dude got us in , but we didn't really need to get in

55:53

because Yemi's a member . So

55:55

then we got up and then it was

55:57

. It was giving

56:00

Tiny Desk vibes you know what I'm saying . Like it

56:03

was so intimate , it was almost

56:05

surreal , like it was literally some shit

56:07

. You see , it was something you

56:09

saw in a movie , if we're going to be quite frank .

56:11

Like yeah , like it's giving 90s

56:14

, like Love Jones . Not

56:16

a diary , a diary

56:18

of a man . Yeah , my diaries of a man , black woman

56:20

.

56:20

Yeah , yeah , yeah , If you know that stole . What's

56:23

her name ? Alison Stone , or is there Angie

56:25

Stone ? Angie Stone ?

56:26

but that was .

56:27

Family Reunion . Family Reunion , but

56:29

damn it .

56:30

It was giving a vibe like that , like a 90s romantic

56:32

comedy , which is such my vibe , oh my goodness . But

56:35

yeah , I think that's the moment that we realized , like

56:37

this is the stuff that we're supposed to be doing . We're

56:39

exactly where we need to be Correct , correct

56:41

. So yeah . I'm thankful for that . But , I

56:44

mean , I said

56:46

that in my language , you said in your

56:48

language , but we're saying the exact same thing

56:50

.

56:50

No , we are not saying the same exact thing . Oh

56:52

, how could I say that I had

56:54

a moment that literally encouraged

56:57

me to keep on , keeping

56:59

on .

56:59

Yeah .

57:00

And then you said as much as this motherfucker

57:03

pissed me off , yes , and annoying me

57:05

, yes , I'm still incredibly

57:07

like what the fuck are you ? Listening

57:10

to .

57:10

Okay , just as you said that in that moment , don't mean that you

57:12

didn't just come for my life and call me a liar , and call

57:14

me a selfish ass bitch because

57:17

I didn't let you eat my chocolate chip cookies .

57:19

What are you talking about ? You did it . I had

57:21

to eat them off . The strength yeah

57:23

, I had to eat them off the strength

57:25

.

57:26

The strength of what Me oh Okay

57:28

, so you see what I'm saying , people , but

57:30

yes , I'm very grateful and thankful for Deji

57:33

and having him in my life Period

57:35

. No butts , no

57:38

ants , no , nothing . Thank

57:42

you for being my brother . You didn't have a choice

57:44

. But it's more than just

57:46

blood with us . That's why we are

57:48

talking to y'all . That's nothing but a G

57:50

thing , cause it's more than just excuse

57:52

me . We share the same DNA .

57:54

I appreciate that . I appreciate you and I'm very

57:56

thankful for you .

57:57

Amen .

57:58

Amen , and that's the resolution of

58:00

this podcast . Anyways

58:03

, now it's time to move on to the ghetto intellectual question .

58:05

Y'all heard it a little bit earlier , but let's circle back . Yeah

58:07

, let's circle back . Ghetto intellectual question If

58:10

you bring food to

58:12

the potluck to the Thanksgiving

58:14

dinner to the Christmas dinner , to the

58:17

Easter , and it goes untouched

58:19

. Do you feel like

58:21

you can take it with you when you leave ? Or

58:23

do you feel like , okay , you ride it and that's it ?

58:26

My answer is because I've actually done this .

58:29

Yes , you have every right to take that shit back , especially

58:31

if nobody ate it it was a dessert . Like , if it's a

58:33

main dish and it was nasty and

58:35

that's why nobody touched it , they gonna let you take it regardless

58:37

, but it's because nobody ate it . In

58:40

that moment , yeah , and they knew they was gonna come back to

58:42

it they was like , oh yeah , no , you can't , take

58:44

nobody , you can't . But that's why I said , with

58:46

the banana cupcakes , the banana pudding cupcakes

58:49

, I'm gonna stash a couple in the house first

58:51

, Cause you telling me I'm paying $98

58:53

for some cupcakes and I'm only gonna be able

58:55

to eat one .

58:57

So typically what they say is if

58:59

you are gonna bring something , if

59:01

you're gonna make it , always make extra so you can

59:04

have some . But if you're gonna buy some yeah

59:06

.

59:07

That's it .

59:08

Honestly , I would buy some

59:10

, and who cares if it's 12 , if

59:12

it's fucking 18 . I'm gonna put it in

59:14

the container that it looked like two dozen .

59:16

You know what ?

59:16

I'm saying Like that's , if you

59:18

count every single one , we got a problem .

59:20

That's all you you'll be like . Why is there something missing ? Because

59:23

I paid $100

59:25

for 24 cupcakes and

59:27

you think I'm paying $100 for 24

59:30

cupcakes and only eating one . You

59:32

don't know who I am , for

59:34

real .

59:35

And that's your fault and that's I really feel like

59:37

people that get upset at you for

59:39

doing so . Hey , man one

59:42

, I don't really care . Honestly

59:44

, sometimes I'm like why are you tripping

59:46

? Are you finna eat it ? Cause the people who usually

59:48

tend to trip is- .

59:49

Yes , I don't want to just try to save it for the trip

59:51

.

59:51

Yeah , and I'm like I didn't buy this shit for you to have free groceries

59:54

.

59:54

If it's really informal or wrong

59:56

to want to take something that you bought

59:58

that nobody touched afterwards

1:00:00

. Okay , let it be , but if it

1:00:02

was like pop , they'd be like okay

1:00:04

, you can take that , cause you know my friends don't really be like oh

1:00:07

yeah , let me save pop . People be like I don't even

1:00:09

drink pop . Yeah , but it's because

1:00:11

it's some cake and some ice cream . You can

1:00:13

take that with you .

1:00:14

I specifically especially when you bought the dessert

1:00:17

. I'm one of them people that .

1:00:18

I will buy something , not no , you're the only one that's

1:00:21

going to eat it Exactly .

1:00:22

Hey , if y'all know that , if y'all know good or well , if

1:00:25

you know good or well , that's not shame

1:00:27

on me . I'll be like , look

1:00:29

, I'm going to bring this and they'll be like cool

1:00:31

, I think people will eat that . You know what damn well I'm

1:00:33

the only one , See the thing is about . It is you

1:00:35

got to know your situations , people ? One

1:00:38

thing I've always done is that I will

1:00:40

go into a setting and I'll find a

1:00:42

way to make it work for me especially

1:00:45

when it comes to the food . Cause

1:00:49

I'm not even the right word . Choice Shea

1:00:54

B . I

1:00:57

want this . You

1:00:59

know what I'm saying ?

1:01:00

That's what's really important I want this .

1:01:02

If you do not want it because you know pound

1:01:04

cake and ice cream is a beautiful combo I'll be trying to

1:01:06

tell people . But when nobody

1:01:08

wanted , it at the time y'all

1:01:11

was just like that's gross . I want to have

1:01:13

this sweet potato , I want to have this apple pie . Y'all

1:01:15

want to have apahalo mode . Have

1:01:18

y'all apahalo mode . I'm going to have my pound

1:01:20

cake and ice cream , please

1:01:23

, and thank you . And then , if I see

1:01:25

, nobody touched it , I just got me another

1:01:27

loaf . That's it . That's all I have to say

1:01:29

. Ok , I'm going to move it on .

1:01:33

So you have a , I have a thing I said and did you on Twitter

1:01:35

, but you haven't been on social media .

1:01:37

I've probably seen it .

1:01:38

No , I don't know you haven't been on social

1:01:40

media .

1:01:41

Well , ask me about it . I've probably seen it

1:01:43

. I'm not saying that I've been .

1:01:46

So it's this video and it says the

1:01:48

sun at 530 said

1:01:51

, and it's a video of

1:01:53

Jennifer Hudson walking away after she was singing

1:01:55

heavy from Dream Girls .

1:01:57

Heavy , heavy . Her walking

1:01:59

offset . Yeah , why do you think I'm saying that

1:02:01

? Oh ?

1:02:02

because they like savings . They like savings , it's

1:02:04

just it's definitely hit my ass .

1:02:06

I'm not going to lie to you it just hit so hard .

1:02:08

It was no transition , it was just

1:02:10

. It's never really a transition

1:02:12

, right ? First of all , we voted to end Daylight

1:02:14

Savings , so why are we still moving ?

1:02:16

Did we ?

1:02:17

really yes , we voted in

1:02:19

the last election to end Daylight Savings

1:02:21

, so that means it didn't pass . No

1:02:23

, it did . We voted on it .

1:02:26

Why do I ? I feel like that should have been bigger news .

1:02:30

The government does what they want to do and

1:02:32

they reinstated us through the loans . We got to pay

1:02:34

them back now . I voted

1:02:36

for George . Excuse , my excuse my raised voice

1:02:39

, but I voted for George . What's the

1:02:41

?

1:02:41

name George .

1:02:43

George Joe

1:02:45

Biden . There we go . I'm

1:02:48

going to let you get there . I voted for him

1:02:50

because he said he was going to take away student

1:02:52

loans . I want my vote back . I'm

1:02:55

not going to hold you .

1:02:56

I tried to log into my stuff two days ago and

1:02:58

it said I didn't have an account and I

1:03:00

said hm .

1:03:03

No , you just used the wrong email . No , they

1:03:05

said we're going to start your automatic payments .

1:03:06

You got to pay $70 . Because I even did it by my social

1:03:08

security number and then I was like hm .

1:03:11

I was like , if y'all lost my info , just let me know that , just

1:03:13

let me know , and you know you're not going to put a question

1:03:16

mark what God put up here , yeah exactly

1:03:18

. But they said they're going to start taking automatic payments

1:03:20

from me and I'm going to just switch my credit card . I

1:03:23

mean , I know my card is not the same that

1:03:25

I used to I'm going to just put a different credit

1:03:27

card , Because when I went to fill out that thing and they said we're

1:03:29

giving you $0 . I said you got

1:03:32

me fucked up . So now that

1:03:34

I make money you want to take it from me ? Yeah

1:03:36

, they do . I might as well just go and be broke , or

1:03:39

I just make less money . I won't call anybody who has

1:03:41

to pay , who doesn't have to pay back their student loans . I'm

1:03:43

just saying I might as well just go and have no money , Because you guys

1:03:45

are going I have to give you this money back . You'll have

1:03:47

me fucked up . Anyways , that's

1:03:50

it for things I send to you on Twitter , and

1:03:53

I think that's about the end of the show .

1:03:55

It is the end of the show .

1:03:57

Thank you for staying with us and thank you for listening . The

1:03:59

one thing that Issa Rae said that I love so

1:04:01

much is she said I don't do announcements , I

1:04:03

don't do coming soon , I just drop my

1:04:05

shit and you'll see it when you see it . And that's

1:04:08

the exact same thing that the man , the

1:04:10

CEO of Revolt TV , said . He was

1:04:12

like we don't do cadences

1:04:15

, we just drop when we drop and we let

1:04:17

people see it when they see it , but you can do that when you've gotten

1:04:19

to a certain point , right ? Of course , of

1:04:21

course , and I'm

1:04:23

not saying that we're there yet . I'm just saying we got to start

1:04:26

thinking like the bosses do and that's why we do

1:04:28

what we do . And it was a writer strike , so

1:04:30

you faulted us . And there was writers . We

1:04:32

didn't have our writers because they were on strike

1:04:35

, I hear you . So all

1:04:37

the content is coming out . Now . We have

1:04:39

YouTube videos that are that

1:04:41

are literally live , that you have not seen , that

1:04:44

you can watch . We're posting when we went

1:04:46

to Afro Tech , when we went to Atlanta , when we went to

1:04:48

Puerto Rico , when we went to Do

1:04:52

we dream ?

1:04:53

Well , we did already .

1:04:54

Yeah .

1:04:55

Did you do your solo trip ?

1:04:57

Where did I go ?

1:04:59

Alabama .

1:05:01

I don't even think I blog there , but if I did , that's

1:05:03

coming too , so you have content

1:05:05

that's coming from us . So just stay in tune

1:05:07

. If you are not seeing it because you don't

1:05:09

follow us on Instagram , you need to follow us on

1:05:11

Instagram . My Instagram is sukijies s-u-k-i-g

1:05:14

. Double easy , Because I make everything that I try

1:05:16

look twice as easy . I'm also on TikTok

1:05:19

now . It's DJ sukijies , so DJ

1:05:21

s-u-k-i-g . Double

1:05:23

easy .

1:05:26

You can follow me Same thing

1:05:28

Same at on Twitter and IG

1:05:30

, at damn underscore

1:05:32

dayg . That's with two I's . That's

1:05:34

d-e-j-i-i . It's

1:05:37

been wonderful . I hope you all have a good

1:05:39

Thanksgiving .

1:05:40

Yes , happy Thanksgiving to you . Make

1:05:42

sure y'all eat all the good food and

1:05:44

if you have a family that makes you not want

1:05:46

to have a good Thanksgiving come

1:05:50

up and grab a plate . Yeah .

1:05:51

Not at our house , but at one of your people's house , soho

1:05:54

, does that .

1:05:55

Soho has a Thanksgiving

1:05:57

feast . We have to pay for it , but also

1:06:00

it's for people who are away

1:06:02

from home don't want to go back home , don't

1:06:04

like their family , and soho house is a

1:06:06

good vibe . Yeah , and they have good food

1:06:08

. Like we went there , we went to eat the

1:06:10

feast at the one in Austin . And

1:06:12

the food was decent .

1:06:14

So they had banana pudding , they had banana pudding

1:06:17

, they did , and it was really good actually too

1:06:19

.

1:06:20

So we had eight before we went there , so we didn't eat too

1:06:22

much , but next time we know .

1:06:24

Yeah , maybe next time we talk about Afro

1:06:27

Tech .

1:06:27

Yeah , we'll see , but we already talked

1:06:29

about it twice .

1:06:31

Oh yeah , because we dropped it . We are dropping

1:06:33

a video of our reaction .

1:06:34

We dropped the review and we are

1:06:37

dropping our vlog , so the

1:06:39

podcast would be the third time . Ah

1:06:42

.

1:06:42

I completely forgot that we did a review . We

1:06:44

did a review of vlog . Oh yeah , we had

1:06:46

a met . We had a wonderful time at Afro Tech

1:06:48

.

1:06:48

It was cool . We had a wonderful

1:06:50

time in Austin .

1:06:52

Afro Tech we'll have to yes , austin

1:06:54

, yes , it's been great , it's

1:06:57

been another video thing . Y'all have a good Thanksgiving

1:07:00

. Bye , keep it lovely

1:07:02

.

1:07:02

Because ain't nothing but a cheap thing , baby

1:07:04

, to low down G

1:07:06

, so we crazy Death grow against

1:07:09

the label . That pays man Unfadable

1:07:11

. So please don't try to fade this . But

1:07:14

I'm back to the lecture at Haynes .