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What is prosperity ? And

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most of the time we just think , well , it's money

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and it is maybe in that physical

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, foundational sense of it's what I need

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in this material world and that's

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what I use to buy things or

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share or give or whatever

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it may be . But

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if we can zoom out and start

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to see , well , what if prosperity

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is more beyond

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the physical , into the emotional

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, the mental , the spiritual ? Now

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we start to look at , okay , well , what else

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is really important in

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my life ? And if I'm

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here to create , I

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don't have to think that it's just , oh

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, I have to go work hard , I get

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to actually create more . So

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it can be money . But maybe you're prosperous

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in love and in the

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relationships , and so I

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just love using the word prosperity over

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wealth or abundance . Wealth

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feels very heavy and it feels

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very much tied to money

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, right , and we can say , oh , I'm

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wealthy in love and I'm wealthy in relationships

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and wealthy in wisdom and all these pieces . There's

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still to me , there's a heaviness , and

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so I love the energy of prosperity

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because it becomes , I

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don't know , more of that higher

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quality essence of our

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soul that just wants

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to be all of it

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, to be prosperity . Not that you're

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seeking to have it , it's , it's who

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you are and it can be so

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golden and bright and light

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and fun and freeing , and and all these

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pieces I think the word to me

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, the word wealth has

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and I could be wrong with this is just a feeling

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that I have .

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It's like the word wealth is more about

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separation between

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the haves and the have-nots . So

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if you have wealth or

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you're wealthy , people don't usually associate

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that term with love

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and sharing . Right , they

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, they more associate I think Mine

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Dramatic is hoarding hoarding , yeah , right

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, like to hold it , which is not prosperity

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, right , like if you say prosperity it's

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, it's just abundance overall

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. Um , so I'm curious

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to hear you talk more

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on um . As you were talking , I was thinking

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, you know , I think we as a society , society

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oftentimes will , even

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if we're abundant in emotional

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life or relationships

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, right , I

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think we tend to , a

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lot of us tend to not

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really hold that as high as

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money . You know , it's like this scheme

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, this plan , this structure that humanity

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has about value of a

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thing . Right , that's outside of you . I'm

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not saying everybody does that , but I think a

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lot of times when we think about wealth

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or prosperity , we're not really honoring

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what it means to be prosperous in

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relationship , or what it means to be prosperous

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Like spirituality , or what it means

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to be prosperous like spirituality . I mean , I think I get . I think I get

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a good feel for that in a sense that you

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know you get great , immense satisfaction

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in a way that you would never get in any other way

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. It has to come from spirituality . But

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I think we also battle as humans

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, at least I know . I

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mean , if I could , if I could just base

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my life on spiritual . You know , wealth

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I'm one of the richest people

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there is right Like , and it's

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infinite and you just keep creating more of it

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, yeah , yeah .

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But on the material plane , that's when we start going

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. I don't know how to

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reconcile this . I don't know how to see

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that I'm wealthy or see that I'm prosperous

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and then actually feel

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that I am in the physical and

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I really see

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the infinity sideways

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. Eight like that's prosperity , it's

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giving is receiving

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and not to separate

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it . And of course , in miracles kind of talks a lot

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about this stuff too , in the sense that to

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give is to receive . And

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I feel like there's a disconnect there . And

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why I love the

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infinity sign is because you have that center

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point , you have the void

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, you have the beginning of all that is it's

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, it's like it's God right there

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. And if I give , I'm

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giving to myself . Right , I'm infinitely

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receiving . Because if I'm even

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just wanting to share love and give

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it to you , because maybe I think , oh , like

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you're sad or something's going on , the moment

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I give you love , I'm already giving myself

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that same love . And this is

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the energy and healing , this is the energy

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anywhere . And yet the

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physical disconnects it to say

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, well , if I give now I

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have nothing Like . We just immediately

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think , well , if I gave you money , then

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I have less in my bank account because

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we look from that physical lens and

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to give and receive , there

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is a masculine and a feminine component

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and most of

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the way , our lack and scarcity

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driven model has been very

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physical and yet also very

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masculine . Just keep pushing , just

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keep working harder , go earn more

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. Right , it's the doing part , it

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is not the being aspect of

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the feminine to be in flow , to

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surrender , to trust , to know

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that if this is what my heart really

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desires and I want to give this because

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it feels good that I've already

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received it and more will come

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so it's , I don't know

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, it's just this dance of like seeing

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we're in it , we're like absolutely

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the being . Quality of prosperity

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means there's

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nothing to even want or desire . You

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already are everything

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that there is , and I feel like that's

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the hard piece for many of us to get

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our minds around .

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Yeah , I think so I deal

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more in the spiritual part , right . So

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I mean I can always get help too with

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the money , the physical factor that you're talking about

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, but the spiritual part I totally get

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, and

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it is still that same point is still the hardest thing to really understand and it's

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such a releasing . It's not , it's not an action , it's not a masculine

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thing , it's a very much about just

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letting go and recognizing that

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that's there and that you are everything you

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need and then you

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can . Then you can more fully appreciate as

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it comes and goes through the masculine and the

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feminine . So how does

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that translate into the physical world with money ? Like

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, do we get to that place where we say , okay , I have

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everything I need right , and

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then allow that to go out and come

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in ? Like , how do people normally

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, what's your experience with people going

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through those beginning stages where they start to recognize

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, okay , I really do have everything I

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need , even monetarily right

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, or even whatever prospers we're

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talking about relationship , wise or spirituality

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or whatever how do you

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help them to go through that beginning stage where they're

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starting to recognize that ? Is that what you're saying ?

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Yeah , I like for them to

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notice and because you and I

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are both wearing glasses , what

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kind of glasses are they wearing and

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what lenses are they seeing the world

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through ? Because if you're already

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seeing through lack and scarcity , you

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think you don't have anything , you think

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you're not anything and

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you're always wanting what

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you don't think you have . So

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it really is even just those

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simple pieces of breaking it down , of

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like , okay , my

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water is half empty or is it

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half full , and that might seem

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like , okay , we know this , we've heard it over

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and over , it's all in your perspective

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. But there is a big part of if you

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really believe in prosperity , you

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are always seeing the

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overflow , you're seeing

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that there's enough . And

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if you know , if , if we want to , just like

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, go into

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a grocery store and you see

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all the food on the shelves

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and you , you stop and you go okay

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, this is this one store in

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my town . And then you start to zoom out

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and go how many of this one

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store do I actually have in my town or my

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city ? Or how many other competitors

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are there and they all

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have this as well ? And

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then you zoom out to

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your county or your state or your

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country and you start to go , holy

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shit , there's a lot and

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this is in the now , there's

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enough . And yet we

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can look at

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ourself and go , well , I

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have this much money

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, or I earn this much money , have

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this much money , or I earn this much money . But then we start to compare to our friends

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or our family and go , oh , but they have more . And so then

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we immediately turn that into lack within

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ourself . And so it's that self-worth piece

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of where

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are you ? How full are you

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? And again , if you're constantly

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comparing yourself , you're

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letting the illusions of the world

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around you dictate your

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prosperity . But if we really

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are centered and just like you're saying , coming

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from that spiritual place , you

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are everything , you're infinite . We're

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just limited by some of the physical components

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and sciences . Well , you know there's gravity

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and all this stuff . But like I

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know I can fly , I know I

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can soar , I know that I have , like , all these abilities

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, we're all starting to step into

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them and that in itself

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, when you start to really see your self-worth and

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know , like , what you're

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here to create on the planet

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, you can already start to see

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, well , where was it incongruent

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? Where was it maybe tied

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to beliefs that I picked up from

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somebody else . Maybe it really

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was . There's some stuck emotions that

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I've never felt , and when I was a little

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kid somebody took my lunch money

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and ever since I've , like , had that

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fear that people are going to take what

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I have . Right , they

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can't take who you are , but we still

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think that somebody is going to come in and take that too

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, and so all of that is

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the fear that I really

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see as part of the systems , part

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of the physical world . It's what

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really keeps us kind of locked into

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thinking we have to work harder

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, and so I get to kind of really

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help see where people are and

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see with them , but I

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help them see themselves

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right in this , this new light

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, so that if there are pieces and parts

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of themselves to either integrate or

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to shed and rework , that's

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where the gold is right . We hear it

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your mess is in your message and right

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, and your message is in your mess and it's like you . You

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have to go into the fear , you have

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to go into the wound , and that's

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the part that most of the time we

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we try to avoid . We're like , ooh

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, but that's that's too hard .

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Yeah , we like to put everything to that

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. Um , you said something

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yeah

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, we like to put everything to that . You said something that just kind of triggered for me , so I

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think it was two days ago . I'm practicing channeling with somebody and

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I was asking a question , and so she's

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channeling this thing , which I mean . I did ask

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a question which directed it right , but the

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answer to this was not anything that

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I'm consciously aware of and

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it went back to that comparison . And

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the reason I'm bringing this up

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is because I don't

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have any conscious awareness of this . I have

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a memory of , maybe you

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know , events that would have caused that to

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happen , but it's . It's been so

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long since those things happened and

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they happen so frequently

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that I don't even recognize

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that I'm doing that . So the I'll

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just tell you that the statement was there's

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some issue with me

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comparing myself to others

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. You just said that . Right , comparing

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myself to others and

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what it's doing is like I'm kind of taking

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it from a standpoint of I

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see somebody else and I start comparing

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and I

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, um , I'm

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feeling the emotion that

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, or I'm afraid of feeling the emotion of basically

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being hurt . Right , I'll be hurt

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. So what I do then by

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the comparison is I put myself in second

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place , probably

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through I'm guessing words that I don't remember right , I don't even recognize

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I'm doing this . And by put myself in second place , probably through I'm guessing words that I don't remember right , I don't even recognize I'm doing this . And

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by putting myself in second place , the other person can't

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hurt me , okay , but

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that is affecting , as she's describing

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it . To me it was like okay

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, that's , that's gotta be affecting everything . It can't just

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be the question that I asked you

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, you know . So

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how does one go

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about digging in to

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find these things ? I mean , I know . So

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that was just a channeling session . I know

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you can get it through dreams , which I find

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really ironic , because there's nobody else involved in your

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dream , like you can't deny that . And

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once you know what the dream means , then all of a sudden

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it's like oh , maybe . But if you genuinely

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ask yourself , if you allow yourself to go into

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that space where you're totally honest , then

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you can start to say oh , yeah , I did feel that

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way . Yeah , I do know , I do

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know that feeling that's been conveyed in the dream . So

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what is the method that ?

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you've used to try and figure out those belief systems that you're talking about , that really

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get in the way . So

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we're going to dig in . And if for you it's like , oh , I really do have this comparison piece . Great

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, is there somewhere when , when you really think about

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that moment , that awareness , or

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maybe you can call it in right now , it's

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like where do you feel that in your body

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? And , depending

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where it is now , what does it feel like ? Is

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it really tight ? Is there any emotion

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? And then you can start to kind

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of just go deeper into it , because most of

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the time we don't even want to see it , we don't even

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want to acknowledge it . Which acknowledgement

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is such a huge piece ? And

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in looking at an

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individual's core wound , that's

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the first level . That's like what's tied

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to our root chakra . If you want to say that foundational

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piece is , if you don't even want to acknowledge

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it , you're repressing it , you're , you're

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, you don't even want to deal with it , you don't even want

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to have it exist , right , it's

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kind of like , ok , I

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feel something . No , I don't , no , I don't . And

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the next level is kind of denying

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that it's there too . So it's . We want

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to be honest , we want to just lean into

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it . That in itself can be

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really hard , depending on how

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much we've buried it . So

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for you , if there is

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this part of you , it's like maybe

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you're even you've already accessed a memory

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or you know where this ties to

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or where you're what . What age

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are you ? Right , because now we can start to

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go into it and

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kind of craft it and see , well , where

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did this line start ? And sometimes it

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can be in this life and

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sometimes it might be on and

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you start to see other patterns . Or

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for myself , like I am accessing

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more and more past lives , that I'm looking

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for the common thread , and

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my common thread really

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is my core wound of rejection and

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in the sense , most of my past lives I'm

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by myself , there's

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no one else involved , or it's like I've

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felt rejected or shunned in some way . And

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so if you start noticing

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these threads now , we can carry

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it into this now and

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acknowledge it and love it , maybe forgive

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it , give it that deep care , that love

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, the compassion

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, the tenderness , and also

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start to see where is

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this not just stuck inside

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of you and hindering

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this life and all lives , but what

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parts have you repressed

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? So maybe you don't express

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the emotions and when you feel that comparison come

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in boom , you're going to have that same trigger

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. So is it also catching

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in your throat or you're not ? You know now you're

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.

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You say that because , like I said so , it first

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started with a different kind of question . It

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channeled into there's this thing of

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you comparing yourself , and then I had a

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memory of oh , this is . I remember

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things like this . My mother used to like

16:42

, where I grew up which

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I thought it was the whole town , because this is what our family did

16:47

, but I don't know if it was or not she

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would see somebody out in public and she would say

16:52

am I that fat ? Because

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she was always looking to understand

16:57

better where she was to compare herself

16:59

to other people , right , okay . So that was something

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that went on all the time . But then , as the channel

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was talking , she keeps talking

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, and the more she says , but she doesn't even know , she

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doesn't know all my history , right , the more

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she's talking , I'm like , oh , that totally relates exactly

17:12

Like you said , totally relates to the throat , okay

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, oh , that totally relates exactly like you said , totally relates to the throat

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, okay , and what's in my family history is thyroid problems . Yeah

17:29

, so I can see coming from the , the other , the other , the lineage , right , the ?

17:31

literal lineage , but also probably any other ancestral connection . And now there's parts of

17:33

you that hold back , because

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you're going to almost , let's just say , internalize

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the comparison rather than voice it , because

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you saw your mom voice it and you're like I don't

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want to do that . And so now

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it's held within and it

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festers , because everything

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you do , you look through those glasses

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and your glasses say am

17:54

I good enough ? Am I better

17:57

, am I worse ? Am I this right ? Oh

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my gosh , this person has this car . Oh , like

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, my car's not that

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great . Or even when you finally get

18:06

the new car and you're like , oh my gosh , I got a new car

18:08

. I've never had a new car . Right , there's pure excitement

18:10

. But then you , you have this person

18:13

who's like yeah , I got a new car and

18:17

it's like the Mercedes . And you're like , well , I couldn't get the Mercedes

18:19

.

18:19

You know what I mean . And immediate , you're just like , well

18:21

, I didn't really want that , but gee , it's nice , you

18:23

know .

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Well , and again , there there's some of those components

18:27

too , of like maybe you did want it

18:29

a little bit , but we'll already start

18:31

to shove it down Like no , I didn't , that's , that's

18:33

not for me . Or , and then we can almost

18:35

go right into judgment Well

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, they're this , I'm not

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. And again , all

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judgment is self-judgment and

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comparison is to

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what we kind of talked about earlier , about this , this

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beauty . In contrast , somebody's

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gonna want what you don't have and somebody's gonna have

18:54

what you don't have and somebody's going

18:56

to have what you don't want . And

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it's like everything is

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going to give you this polarity

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to integrate . And somewhere

19:04

there's a part of you different

19:07

life , different dimension that

19:09

actually did get the Mercedes . And

19:12

that's the part when we can

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go . I am prosperous , I

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am everything , I have it all . There

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are parts of you everywhere , right , like we

19:20

know quantumly , if you're already thinking

19:22

of a decision do I get the Mercedes or

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not ? There's a , somewhere , there's

19:27

a part of you that did it , and in this

19:29

lifetime you chose not to . So guess

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what ? You already got the Mercedes . Who

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gives a crap if it's not in this lifetime

19:35

, that wasn't the journey you wanted , but when

19:37

we can start to really accept

19:39

that it's , you're the

19:41

all you're , every different

19:43

option comparison there could be . You've

19:46

been it , you've lived it , you've played in it . That

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feels hard to be like , well , how do I

19:51

get there ? But that's staying

19:53

in , that pure love , light , energy

19:55

of everything is what it is

19:57

and it feels like we're on a

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journey that's divinely

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guided Right . And so , if you were

20:04

meant to get the car , it's

20:06

going to happen like

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I'm really going to manifest this . No

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, it's ease , it's grace

20:16

, it's just being in that flow of you

20:22

know what . If this is what I want , you set the intention , you let it go and it'll

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come back , if it's meant to be in this lifetime , in this now moment

20:26

. But our brain

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wants to hold on to everything

20:30

and ruminate and stir

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, and so I also look at

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where are we in

20:37

our energy ? In the sense we're

20:40

meant to be very present and

20:43

most of us are not . We're

20:45

in our head and our head already

20:47

is living out all of those multi-dimensional

20:50

what ifs and possibilities that

20:53

you're kind of so lost

20:56

. You don't even know what to

20:58

go after here and now , because

21:00

your mind will already say , yeah , blair

21:03

, you can't have that , you're not worthy

21:05

, um , so and so already

21:07

had that . And right in the comparison

21:09

. We'll just keep playing out , and those

21:11

glasses will continually be fixed

21:14

until you realize you

21:17

don't have this power . Come into my heart

21:19

, be in the space of love

21:21

and be truly excited

21:23

and happy for others when

21:26

they get what they want . And

21:28

, as we know , though , the physical

21:30

world is very limited , but like in the sense

21:33

of um , how long we

21:35

get excited and hold it right , right , it's

21:37

like it's usually like a yay , and

21:39

then boom , you're onto the next thing , and so

21:41

if we're in that infinite space

21:44

of this is great and we're so excited

21:46

, you would probably see that friend , and

21:48

every time you saw them with their vehicle , you'd

21:50

be like so excited for them . But

21:53

they , they probably moved on like oh

21:55

I'm , you know , now I'm trying to buy the big house

21:57

or go on this vacation , or you know , because

21:59

we're so kind of just trying

22:01

to keep up with the , the foundational

22:04

systems that are based in fear and lack , and

22:06

trying to get more , when really it's

22:08

already here , and if you close

22:10

your eyes and dream and

22:13

visualize yourself there , it's

22:16

really no different than having

22:18

it physically , except it's just not physical

22:20

, but you can absolutely craft it in that

22:22

way and have it be so real that it

22:24

does end up showing up .

22:26

Yeah , I think that's , regardless of whether

22:28

they're in this school of thought

22:31

or not . I think that's . I think everybody

22:33

could really identify with . You

22:37

want whatever you want something you

22:39

are daydreaming about . Okay , we'll just put you in the daydream

22:41

, regardless of what the previous story is . But

22:43

you're in the daydream and you are spending so

22:45

much energy thinking about all the details

22:47

of what it is , this thing that you

22:49

want . Well , of

22:51

course , however much time it takes for

22:53

that thing to manifest , most

22:56

people , I think , can agree that they they

22:58

at least spent some time thinking about that thing that

23:00

they wanted , and

23:02

I think there's something to

23:05

honor . You

23:07

know , some of essentially what we were talking

23:09

about is like shadow work . You go into the stuff

23:12

that feels heavy and dark and it

23:15

could be painful , but the heaviness

23:17

of it you go into that and by doing

23:20

that you

23:22

also can kind of see . You

23:24

know , it's kind of like Abraham Hicks's

23:27

idea of the contrast , which is

23:29

you , you don't

23:31

have something that you want . Well

23:33

, you didn't know you didn't want this or you didn't know

23:35

you wanted this other thing , but now that you

23:37

have the contrast , you can say , oh , now I , now

23:40

I know I wanted to be a blue car and not a green car

23:42

or whatever , exactly

23:44

, yeah , I mean you can't , I mean even

23:46

. I mean even famous people admit that

23:49

kind of stuff like uh , who is that jim

23:51

carrey writing himself a million

23:53

dollar check , you know ? Because that's something

23:55

that he wanted . But he didn't necessarily , he

23:58

did not take action , but he didn't , he

24:00

didn't dwell on that per se .

24:09

He just kept it , you know with him , right , and when

24:11

we're bringing in this infinite aspect of our being

24:13

, being a soul

24:15

that has been everywhere and everything been

24:17

everywhere and everything , there's so much potential , there's

24:20

so much possibility . And so , to me , physically , we created

24:22

money that's not part

24:25

of what is true and

24:27

infinite , it's fabricated

24:29

by us , like we made it up . So

24:32

what if you could bypass that ? And

24:35

those are the really cool , synchronistic , miraculous

24:38

stories that sometimes you hear . What

24:40

if you could bypass what the

24:42

money piece , right . So it's like if

24:45

, if Jim Carrey has this dream of like I

24:47

want a million dollars , cool , but

24:49

spirit's like what are you going to do with that ? Right

24:52

, like what's the greater intention and

24:54

so if you're like , if I really want

24:56

actually a million dollars , because I want to go open

24:59

this retreat center , because I want to

25:01

help children be educated

25:03

, whatever , now suddenly

25:06

maybe you don't necessarily need that million dollar check

25:08

, but you have a flood

25:10

of resources that show up and

25:12

someone's like here , I , I have this

25:14

, this land , let

25:16

me gift it to you , and you know

25:18

what I mean . And so , oh , I wanted this car

25:20

and you didn't have to buy

25:23

it . It is gifted or it shows up

25:25

in some way . And that's

25:27

the part that our minds have the hardest time

25:29

, because we want to logically

25:31

, step-by-step , see how it's going

25:34

to happen , which is really want to be able

25:36

to step-by-step

25:39

see how it's going to happen , which is really want to be able to . Yes , because

25:41

then you're telling your highest self and spirit and everything connected

25:43

that I don't care how

25:45

your magic works , but this is the

25:47

way it needs to show up , right

25:49

? It's very demanding , it's very controlling

25:52

, it's so human . It's your ego that's

25:55

actually coming in to say spirit

25:57

, I'm going to override you because I am the best

25:59

and I know how this works .

26:02

It's so funny you say that because I distinctly remember

26:04

going off to undergraduate . So I was

26:06

like 18 , right , and

26:08

I was in the South and

26:12

I had a roommate who I didn't know

26:14

. I'd only met her because she became my roommate . She

26:16

said to me one night Blair , do you pray ? I

26:20

didn't really like this roommate very much

26:22

. I didn't . I mean , I didn't have like real

26:24

animosity toward her . We just didn't really connect

26:26

and I didn't understand her and I just thought why

26:30

are you asking me if I pray ? So I just

26:32

entertained the conversation . I was like , yeah , sure

26:34

, what's up ? Right , Then

26:36

she proceeds to tell me what she wanted me

26:38

to pray for for her , which were specific

26:40

outcomes , Okay , Of certain things . I

26:42

don't remember what they were , but

26:45

I think the thing that really annoyed

26:47

me on some level at

26:49

18 was this

26:51

idea of telling God what to do

26:53

, which is exactly what you're talking about

26:55

here . Right , Like , yeah , why don't we just say what

26:57

we really want ? And in the channeling practice

26:59

we spend a lot of like , there's a lot of

27:02

time that you spend . That's like somebody

27:04

will ask a question and for me I'll

27:07

either not get

27:09

the answer or I'll essentially be told that's not

27:11

the right question . I mean , they've said that before

27:13

, like it's not the right question , so can you rephrase it

27:15

? Can you elaborate ? You know you help them kind

27:17

of dig into what is the real question

27:19

. You

27:27

know , I'll just use a simple one . You know , how can I manifest my vacation , or something like that , or where

27:29

should I go on vacation ? Well , that's not really the question .

27:31

The question is more , probably closer aligned

27:33

with how can I create more

27:35

joy in my life right , Because

27:38

the idea of a vacation is to go and

27:40

relax and how can I create

27:42

more relaxation in my life yeah

27:47

, and you won't even get the answer if

27:50

you're not ready to receive it yet either , if

27:52

the timing's not right , if you're not to

27:54

this state of being

27:57

where you can actually

27:59

openly receive it

28:01

and move it forward . So so

28:03

there's always these dances of like oh

28:06

I , I know this , but then we

28:08

don't . So it's still not going to

28:10

show up . And yet we're also

28:12

wanting to control it . Left

28:14

brain logic . And I will say , having

28:17

come from the financial industry , this

28:20

is where it all is , it's all

28:22

logic , it's all planning , it's

28:24

all structure . And to zoom

28:27

out and see where the planet is as

28:29

she's evolving , and she's asking

28:31

us to help her through her evolution

28:34

. We also are evolving

28:36

, our consciousness is shifting . So

28:39

where we used to be in this left

28:41

brain dominant , masculine world , we're

28:44

flowing into the feminine , and

28:47

really the ultimate goal is to find that

28:49

connection , that balance

28:51

, harmonic , resonant place of left

28:53

and right together , and

28:56

we don't know how to do that . So

28:58

if we look at it for finance

29:01

, for money , most

29:03

of the time it's like you are like

29:05

I want to do this thing , I need money

29:07

, right , and so maybe you do

29:09

need to go to the bank , or you go to the bank and

29:11

banks like well , where are you ? Where are

29:13

you going to like , where are your finances ? What do

29:15

you have in your bank account ? And you

29:17

know , and it goes . It goes even crazier when it's a business

29:20

, because it's like well , let's see your balance sheet

29:22

and your income statement . How much income can

29:24

you afford this ? So they're already

29:26

telling you what

29:28

they deem your worthiness

29:30

to be . They're not even looking

29:33

at the projections . Right

29:35

, we don't look at projections . We

29:37

don't know what your worth is in the future . We don't know if

29:39

something else is going to show up . And suddenly you just

29:41

like have this waterfall of money coming

29:44

in . We're looking at it right here , right

29:46

now , and we're telling you that

29:48

you suck . I'm comparing you against

29:50

everybody else and I'm not going

29:52

to give you this loan , right . And now you're

29:54

like what do I do

29:56

? And in that moment we already feel

29:58

our worth demolished

30:00

. We feel like we have no resources

30:03

, we absolutely don't feel prosperous and

30:05

we start really believing

30:07

that I have to save and

30:09

have this egg before I could do

30:11

anything in my life . Now

30:14

you're not living right . Every

30:16

day you're going somewhere and there's probably an opportunity

30:18

, but you don't even see it because

30:21

you truly believe well , I don't have

30:23

the money for that or it's not going to show up

30:25

and so I can't take that trip

30:27

. But maybe on that trip you would have run

30:29

into the person who becomes

30:32

a really profound person in your

30:34

life and opens you to meet

30:36

the right people . That could have brought

30:38

in more of the prosperity or the money

30:40

piece of it . And so it's like we've

30:43

lived in this place of planning

30:45

, planning strategy structure

30:48

and it's

30:50

going away . So

30:52

more and more . I've heard it in different industries

30:55

. But people are starting to notice . Where

30:57

you used to be able to

30:59

predict the stock

31:01

market interest

31:04

rates , it's

31:07

getting harder and harder . It's like

31:09

it's so unknown

31:11

we're getting to this place of we're

31:13

truly are living in the

31:15

abyss of the unknown , and

31:17

that scares people because

31:19

they're used to this predictability piece

31:21

. They're used to pulling up

31:23

the weather and being like great , the

31:26

weather says this is what it's going to be . But

31:28

guess what , when the weather is not what it's supposed

31:30

to be , how do you feel ? Already

31:33

triggered , you already feel that fear

31:35

coming up of like but they said

31:37

it was going to be a sunny day , and why is it like hailing

31:40

Right , and now you're upset

31:42

that it's hailing . You're not in the now of

31:44

like wow , this is really cool

31:46

. Like we don't get hail and

31:49

there's hail today . This

31:52

is really cool . Like we don't get hail and there's hail today . Okay

31:54

, right , so this is the part where I've known for a while like the

31:56

foreshadowing is going away and what I recently heard

31:58

was a channeled angel message and

32:01

this makes total sense and I love it . No

32:04

more foreshadowing , because

32:07

we are all creating in

32:09

the now and every

32:11

moment you're creating , your

32:13

future is already changing and

32:16

it's harder and harder for us to know what that is

32:18

, because we're in the now moment , which

32:20

means you don't need to be in the future , you don't

32:22

even need to think about it , you don't need to worry

32:24

about it . But if you stop

32:27

and pause and look kind of in the bigger picture

32:29

, you're like but wait a minute , I've

32:31

got to book appointments and

32:33

go to the dentist and you still need

32:35

to plan the future or book

32:38

your flights . If you're going on a trip and

32:40

right , there's certain things . But in this

32:42

now moment , what is it you're creating

32:44

in the now moment ? Do you

32:46

feel so expansive , you feel so good

32:48

that you're like yes , I'm going

32:51

on this trip to Hawaii , which

32:53

, which I'm doing in a couple of months with my family , right

32:55

? And so it's like , okay , I don't know . I

32:58

don't know what's going to happen , but right

33:00

now I know we are going to go and let's book it as

33:03

the now continues to come . If I'm

33:05

living in this prosperous way , everything

33:08

is synchronistic , everything is good

33:10

, everything is exactly what needs

33:12

to happen . I don't need to know what that is

33:14

, but the more we get to be the kids

33:16

, the children who are like , yay

33:19

, look , it's hailing today . Oh

33:21

, can I go play outside , mom , right ? It's like

33:23

more and more excited for this

33:25

unknown of , like , what is spirit bringing

33:27

me ? Is it really an obstacle

33:30

? Well , only if I think it is . Is

33:32

it something that's allowing me to evolve

33:34

and grow and recognize in myself

33:36

where , whew , I still have some work here

33:38

, okay , then it's

33:41

nothing but gold coming in . And

33:43

if I get to Hawaii in a couple months and realize

33:45

, wow , this

33:49

was not what I was expecting , perfect

33:55

, right , because maybe things show up and people show up and the right opportunities

33:57

show up . But if I'm in my head

34:00

right now , planning my life

34:02

in two months , like we're going

34:04

to be on this trip and we're going to do this on this

34:06

day . If something

34:08

shows up to counteract

34:10

that , I'm probably going

34:12

to be upset , right , I'm going to feel disappointed

34:14

. That's not going to help me grow

34:17

if I am stuck in my own rigid

34:19

, masculine way of this . Is how , universe

34:21

, you are going to show up for me , right

34:24

? Versus , if I'm in flow , I'm

34:26

going to just be there and know that . If we

34:28

have flights delayed or if we

34:31

have a car thing , or if , like

34:33

you know , we do see dolphins

34:35

and we weren't expecting it , it's like that's

34:37

the magic of truly being alive , that

34:39

is being prosperous , that

34:42

is being in the flow of the now

34:44

moment and everything being created from

34:46

that point . So if you're lost in

34:48

the fear and the lack and the scarcity , if

34:51

you carry that into your now , right here

34:53

, it may

34:55

still be in your future . But

34:57

at some point , if you change that new now

34:59

where you're like , oh , get rid of it , get

35:02

rid of it , get rid of it , you can

35:04

almost guarantee now you can still kind

35:06

of foresee like that's not going to be my future . I'm

35:08

not bringing that in right now . So every

35:11

day is your new moment to show up for yourself

35:13

, claim the prosperity

35:16

that is you . Be prosperity

35:18

, be that energy , be the love . And

35:20

, yes , there may be things that show up and kind

35:22

of unravel you and all you can

35:25

do is breathe , pause , notice

35:27

where same thing that you were doing with

35:29

the comparison notice in my body what's

35:32

going on . Where have I felt this

35:34

before ? Oh , my mom used to do

35:36

this . Ooh , do I still let people walk

35:38

all over me ? Oh , I do . Actually

35:40

. That's why I'm upset . I didn't put my foot

35:42

down , I didn't set my boundaries . Suddenly

35:45

, you're already changing everything to go Okay , now

35:48

I know . And if you need to be tested

35:50

, you will . And in that next

35:52

experience you'll get the opportunity

35:55

to take what you had the awareness

35:57

about to implement differently

35:59

, to put in some boundaries , shift

36:02

it and then see how you do . And

36:04

if you master it , you're done . You

36:06

move on to the next thing and the goal

36:08

is that we are constantly clearing

36:11

away all the muck , all the

36:13

crap that is fear-based

36:15

, that is lack-based , that is

36:17

non-love , ultimately to

36:20

bring you to this place of , if you're just truly

36:22

in the flow of love , you just

36:24

you're kind of like I don't

36:26

want to say like the artsy fairy or like

36:28

the , you know , like you're just floating around , like

36:30

you can still be very grounded and be present and

36:32

not so like floaty . But

36:34

you're , you're in the flow and

36:36

you're excited , you're curious .

36:39

Yeah , the way I would describe it is um

36:41

, it's

36:43

almost like , in some ways , when

36:46

I'm in this state I would say

36:48

, life feels like an adventure . It's like

36:50

, okay , let's go see what's going to happen , I'm

36:52

going to do this thing , I'm here and like and

36:55

and that from that place . Things

36:57

don't irritate you , you don't get triggered

36:59

into the fear or you know any

37:01

of that stuff , because you didn't try

37:04

to control everything . So therefore , you're

37:06

not disappointed when it does or does not go

37:08

away . I mean go a certain way , but it

37:12

is that fairy kind of a feel

37:14

, but it's , it can just be

37:16

relaxed , like whatever happens

37:19

happens .

37:20

Yes , choose your own adventure book . Yeah

37:22

Right , in no way are you ever reading

37:24

the book , going oh no , what

37:27

if I pick the you know ? And ? And only

37:29

when we start really being in our head and

37:31

we're older do we still want to try and like

37:34

, control the situation and

37:36

go oh God , I hope I don't pick the wrong thing

37:38

, right , but you really can never pick anything

37:40

that's wrong in the book or in

37:43

life . There is nothing wrong , because if

37:45

you want to say what's wrong , it's just simply that

37:47

contrast .

38:09

It's showing you what you're not okay with , or it's showing you

38:12

this , this opposite . I was in

38:14

the South , so there's this heavy Christianity feeling

38:17

there and that's the only

38:19

thing I'd ever known Not

38:21

that I , you know , was a

38:24

devout anything or another , but it definitely

38:26

was still there , right , and they

38:28

have that phrase God doesn't give you anything you

38:30

can't handle . And I totally believed in

38:32

that . I didn't have any qualms about that . But here

38:34

I was really upset and

38:36

really very , very much in

38:39

the headspace of worried

38:41

about whether what I did was the right choice

38:43

, not only for myself but for my kids and

38:45

long-term blah , blah , blah . Okay

38:48

, I finally had the

38:50

realization on a walk . It's

38:52

like okay , you know , if

38:56

, if God doesn't give you anything you can't handle

38:58

, then you can't make a mistake

39:00

. you literally cannot

39:02

make a mistake it doesn't matter what the circumstances

39:04

are , doesn't matter what happens . There

39:07

is no mistake because there's no judgment right and

39:10

the talk about freeing . You know

39:13

, that's just like when you finally

39:15

really realize that kind of thing like I

39:17

can't screw this up yes

39:20

and same like take that and

39:22

apply it to money , yeah , you really

39:24

can't .

39:25

And even if , let's just say , you get duped

39:27

and somebody tells you to

39:29

do this thing and you find out

39:31

that you send money and it's

39:33

not legit , it still wasn't

39:35

a mistake , right ? Because in that moment

39:37

love would say , well , I guess they needed that money

39:40

. And I'm just spreading

39:42

the love and I learned what

39:45

to do next time . You know what I mean

39:47

. And so every single thing , sometimes

39:49

you're like , oh okay , could

39:51

we have less of that ? You know , if you feel like

39:53

you're still in that kind of pattern

39:55

and it happens over and once you

39:58

, once you see it and you , you realize and

40:12

you can chuckle and kind of laugh at it

40:15

like game over , then you are

40:17

truly living life , because

40:19

life is meant to be fun .

40:21

And that's really the prosperous

40:23

yeah being yeah

40:25

.

40:27

And so that's where you can . If we loop back

40:29

to , how do you define prosperity

40:31

? Well , maybe we do have it

40:33

where it includes more virtues of

40:36

our lived values , of you know

40:38

, there is joy and there is love and there

40:41

is peace and there is sharing

40:43

or contribution or something right

40:46

? Prosperity is if I'm giving

40:48

my gifts , I already know I'm receiving

40:50

my very gifts , and if that means it's

40:52

tied to money as well cool Then

40:55

whatever I am giving is coming right

40:57

back to me so that I can keep co-creating

40:59

in this now moment with

41:02

my community , with Mother Earth

41:04

. Right , Whoever , whatever it is

41:06

, you're creating prosperity in

41:08

that ripple across the multiverse

41:11

.

41:11

ultimately , so

41:13

would you say , I know we talked about this , I

41:15

know we talked about it on the summit , but I

41:17

don't remember if we talked about it on in

41:20

the previous podcast with you but would

41:23

you say that getting connected to spirit

41:25

is the way to open the door for

41:27

somebody who's really stuck in this

41:30

masculine

41:32

, it is fear-based

41:35

, fear-based structure that humanity

41:37

has , okay , around money or whatever

41:40

you want to call that prosperity , wealth , whatever . There

41:42

is a masculine and fear-based

41:45

kind of structure . So if somebody is looking

41:48

to really shift from that into

41:50

this open , free , truly genuinely

41:52

prosperous , what would you say

41:55

is the best vehicle

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to get there ?

42:00

Spirit is always the bigger journey

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and because it's

42:04

this greater power . So what

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is that greater power ? That is what

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you've deemed to be outside yourself . That's

42:12

actually within yourself and that

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can be God , goddess , source

42:17

, infinite , creator , right , like , whatever

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the term is . There really , is

42:22

that quantum

42:24

piece that even scientists are realizing

42:26

. They don't know how to quantify it . And

42:29

there's this other force , and if

42:31

you're trying to give

42:33

observation , then this

42:36

starts to change and it's like

42:38

that . That's what you're looking

42:40

to tap into and

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I say within you . And if

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we want to really say it's

42:47

within the space , within yourselves

42:49

, like it's what we're all created

42:52

from and it's connected

42:54

to all that is right , right

42:56

, so everything

42:58

. And if we keep saying I'm

43:00

going to give my power to this external

43:03

part , then that's why

43:05

we live in the systems , in the structure

43:07

, because that's exactly what the left

43:10

brain created and the masculine created

43:12

were these systems . Because if you

43:14

want to say energetically , if everybody's

43:16

sending to this one system

43:19

and let's just say government , right , imagine

43:22

energetically how

43:24

much they're siphoning and

43:27

becoming more and more powerful and

43:30

greedy and manipulative , because that's

43:32

how we've designed

43:34

it all ultimately . But you

43:36

start realizing wait a minute that

43:39

very power is within me

43:41

, it ignites me , it

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fuels me . There

43:45

is this inner space

43:47

, spaciousness . This

43:54

inner space , spaciousness , peace that you start creating for yourself

43:57

so that you are very solid , even within space , right , but you're solid

43:59

in your knowing , in your

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truth that , no matter what starts

44:03

to happen around you , it

44:05

doesn't unnerve you and you're

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still grounded , you're still

44:09

in the present , you're still in

44:12

your own control , if you

44:14

want to say , because you've tapped into

44:16

that greater power and it keeps refueling

44:18

you , energizes you .

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