You are only as good as your mindset,so instead of a fixed mindset that's caged,have a growth mindset that's open to changes,new experiences, opportunities
It is impossible to live without failing at something, unless you have lived so cautiously that you might not have lived at all,in which case you have failed by default
It is not hard to make decisions when you know what your standards are,it's not a crime to have high expectations of your self,be one of those people who doesn't follow trends but set them