Prepare to be inspired to think about parenting from a different perspective---and to think about your own childhood and how you would “re-parent” yourself if you could. We talk with Devin Jae Wilber---photographer, entrepreneur, and Mom to two beautiful children, one with autism--about how showing up authentically as a parent and releasing perfection has given her greater joy and the opportunity to contribute to others. And, we laugh a lot too! In this episode, we talk about:

• Katy Perry and lions
• Introducing Devin Jae Wilber -- “Mom extraordinaire” + photographer + entrepreneur
• The “Mom” expectations
• “If I can’t keep a plant alive” 
• Make up your own rules about parenting
• The belief that mothers are supposed to be the CEOs of the house
• Blue hair for picture day
• Trusting the process of exploration for children
• “If you’re going to fall, learn how to fall the right way”
• Shame and growth
• Dealing with different parenting philosophies
• The fallacy of “Pinterest Mom”
• Having a special needs daughter
• “Give everyone a break”
• Showing up imperfectly
• The origins of Devin’s passion for advocacy
• Her daughter’s autism diagnosis
• Doing something meaningful with your anger
• The “First Words Project” at FSU
• Formulating a plan matters---so does gut instinct
• Managing anger -- part of the grief process
• Being a realist and dealing with people that make uninformed remarks
• Protecting parents’ mental health 
• “There’s no playbook”
• Coping with grief
• Devin’s new plan - not taking “no” as no
• We have to be our own advocates

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