Phone sex operators, cam show producers, escorts, pretty much all realms of sex work have blacklists. Why? Because the behavior of clients can get very, very, weird and in some cases downright dangerous. Some men feed off of doing whatever they can to screw with sex workers for a variety of personal, twisted reasons. But sometimes even the most innocent of clients can get entangled in misbehavior of his own doing, although he doesn’t understand what he did.

That’s where Amelia Divine and I come in. We’re going to do two things for all of you boys ‘out there’ who find yourselves swimming in the sea of wtf-edness that is navigating the world of sex work and BDSM.  We’re going to point  out common types of misbehavior that can get you in trouble AND we’re going to go to the sex workers themselves and ask them what their pet peeves are so that you will never find yourself in deep doo doo. Well unless that’s you’re thing…