Hello Pod listeners!  Welcome to Episode #10. In this episode we will explore where and how to meet a lesbian.Delicious Dish:Today's Delicious Dish is 10 foods that can help you attract new love & heal a broken heart. Sprouts & sprout juices ~ rich in potassium that works to heal your heart, giving you the extra boost of this essential nutrient will help your body run smoothly & efficiently.Leafy Greens ~ Rich in magnesium & chlorophyll.  These nutrients will help you reduce blood pressure, physical stress, muscle spasms, anxiety & depression.Fresh Fruit ~ Rich in potassium, but don’t cook them it will change the nutritional value.Fresh Vegetable s~ raw vegetables are clean fuel for your body.  Gives your heart & body an energetic boost.Raw Cacao ~ known as “heart blood,” it keeps the coronary artery clear & regulates cardiovascular activity.  Ancient myths states that eating raw cacao will work to dissolve conflict between your head & your heart.  Cayenne Pepper ~ Detoxifying!  Reduces BP, breaks up blood clots, & floods your body with a stream of anti-bacterial agents.  Garlic ~ Sulphur rich foods help decalcify your body & physically stop your heart from closing.Ginger ~ decalcifying because of rich in Sulphur.  Energetic breath of fresh air!Onions ~ regulate blood sugar, reduce inflammation, clear clogs in your heart or bloodstream.  Packed with serotonin & dopamine so brings a happier mood & brain booster.Radishes ~ Great for glowing skin & fat-burner.These foods can help you to prepare your body to open energetically to the frequency of loveMeeting a Lesbian:Now that you’ve worked on yourself, gotten to know yourself and what you want out of a relationship, let’s get you on the right track to meeting someone special.Where to meet a lesbian:       Places:Lesbian BarGay & Lesbian centerSports teamsActivities and Meet-Up groupsThrough FriendsThe InternetChurchGay NeighborhoodsStraight ClubsGay NewspaperVolunteeringDating Websites and Apps:OkCupidtindereHarmonyBrendaHerLavalifePlenty of FishcomSinglesNetDate HookupOn-line dating tips:Good spelling & grammarBe positive, don’t go on & on about what you don’t wantAvoid clichésInclude a pictureWrite a catchy titleBe honest & positiveBe unique & specificInvite a response & add a personal touchkeep your post currentCorrespond through email before talking on the phone or meetingDon’t give out your # until you are planning on meetingMeet during the day for coffee or a quick drink for first date“How can you tell if she’s a lesbian?” Inspired by a great article at About.com.  We’ve all been there, we some come attractive female and wonder, “Is she gay or straight?”  Your “gay-dar” (the ability to tell if someone is gay or not) isn’t working, and you don’t just want to have “wish-dar” where you just wish she was gay.Look for the obvious to begin with: Does she have a marriage equality sticker on her car, or some “rainbow” jewelry?  This can be tricky because there are a lot of gay-friendly supportive straight people.Does she have short hair?  Is it like Justin Bieber?  A faux hawk?Does she dress like a tomboy?  But remember that not all lesbians are butch, and that the feminine ones can be more difficult to “identify.”Check out her fingernails. Are they short and trimmed?Behavior:Is she making eye contact and holding it with you a little bit longer?If the beautiful femme is “winking” or “flirting” with you, she might be a lesbian.Pay attention to her body language, like turning towards you or facing you. Is she making a point to sit near you, or asks you to sit by her?  Is she touching you while you’re talking? Is she going out of her way to engage you in conversation?Is she complimenting you?Location of where you see her:If you’re at gay pride, can you assume she’s a lesbian, or just a straight ally?If you at your local gay bar or coffee shop, is that an obvious clue?  It’s probably at least a 70% chance that she is.Who is she hanging out with?  If she’s with gay men, it’s not always a guarantee she’s gay, but she probably won’t be offended if you ask.Conversations:You can begin conversations to hint that you’re gay or bisexual and see how she responds.  Talk about an LGBT event or current gay topics.See if she mentions if she’s dating anyone, in a relationship or married.If you meet her through a group of friends, you can always ask one of them if she’s single and gay.  If you’re too shy for that, you can just comment that “your friend is hot,” and see if they offer up some details.If you’ve become friends or gotten to know each other better, you can be bold and come right out to ask, “Do you date men, women or both?”  Word of advice though, wait until you’re comfortable with this person so that you don’t offend them.How to pick up lesbians:Do’sMake “gay” eye contactBe confidentBe subtleHave a signature moveMaker her laugh/ or say nice thingsTouch herGet in with her friendsJust go for itDont’sAsk for her number unless you are actually going to use itGive her a business cardUse bad pick up linesDrunkBeing an assholeFlaunt your promiscuityBe flashyHow to flirt in persontry to sit near hereye contactopen the door for hergentle put your hand on her when talkingcompliment hermake her laughoffer to get her a drinktell her you’ve been thinking of herText/Phone flirting etiquetteAsk firstkeep it shortstart simpleuse discretiondon’t drink & textcheck the time before you textkeep it fun & flirtydon’t diss your friendsnothing seriousmake a dategive her time to reply before you text againdon’t over do itsave “special” for face to facecall  or text her just to say hithank you with a text or call after your dateCircular Dating is the secret to finding “the one”So you’ve met someone, you’re attracted to them, you enjoy each other’s company, you’re compatible and you like each other’s quirks.  Does this mean you’ve found “the one?”  And should you stop dating other people?  NO!!Why you shouldn’t get serious too fast:it can blind you to some potential problemsyou’re devoting all your time and energy to one person, and closing off other options that might be better for youmake sure that your feelings are also compatible with the other person…you can’t be the only one “falling” in loveWhat circular dating means:continue to flirt with other potential datesaccept invitations to coffee, drinks or dinnerif you’re online, meet as many “matches” as you canWhy do this?Dating should be fun, so meet people and have funIt will help you figure out what kind of partner you’re looking forYou will learn about yourself and help you discover what you want and don’t want in a relationshipTake your time so you can find a partner who is truly right for youIt also keeps people “motivated” to win your attention and pursue you if you’re dating other people at the same timeKeep the focus on yourself:Do the things that make you feel warm, romantic and wonderful inside…..that is very attractive to others and you become infinitely more desirable.Treat yourself to things that you love to do, or get yourself things…like you’re “dating yourself.”This will make you feel free, not desperateYou will feel generous, not needyDating and flirting with others also makes you feel strong and confident, which are very attractive traits.Who is your straight celebrity crush that you want to be a lesbian?Cortney – Jennifer NettlesCathy – Salma HayekWhat gay celebrity would you trade to her?Cortney – Ani DiFrancoCathy – Suzie OrmanThings that make you go Hmmm? Or Mmmm:This weeks’ Hmmm?  Is a Sckoon Menstrual Cup...They market it as Aesthetically pleasant, engineered for functionality & comfort, Sckoon Cup will change your hygiene experience forever.  Being different makes us better!It is reusablesaves on wastereliable protection up to 12 hrs a dayThis weeks Mmmm?  Did you females can have 4 different orgasms?ClitoralVaginal or G-spotMultiple~ having one right after the nextBlended~ vaginal & clitoralWell that’s it for today's show and we hope you join us next week. Thank you:We would like to give a shout out!  A huge thank you to;Mind Body Green article by Diya SenguptaMind Body Green article by Rori RayeSckoon menstrual cup Women’s Health Magazine About Relationships by Kathy BelgeAutostraddle article by PhoenixQuote of the week:We will leave you with a quote:“Anyone can make you happy by doing something special, but only someone special can make you happy without doing anything.”  Unknown authorWe would love to hear from you, so check us out on Facebook or at www.homoliciousliving.com. 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