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Jack Whitehall’s “The Moment Jack's Friend ‘Dave’ Met Prince Harry”

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Jack Whitehall’s “The Moment Jack's Friend ‘Dave’ Met Prince Harry”

Jack Whitehall’s “The Moment Jack's Friend ‘Dave’ Met Prince Harry”

Jack Whitehall’s “The Moment Jack's Friend ‘Dave’ Met Prince Harry”

Jack Whitehall’s “The Moment Jack's Friend ‘Dave’ Met Prince Harry”

Tuesday, 11th July 2023
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1:21

Hello, and welcome to Good1A Podcasts

1:23

About Jokes. I am your host, Jesse

1:25

David Fox. This week's guest is Jack

1:27

Whitehall, one of England's absolute

1:30

biggest comedians touring arenas, starring

1:33

in co-creating hit TV shows. In

1:35

America, however, he is

1:38

not one of the biggest comedians. Look,

1:41

don't get me wrong. He does pretty well for himself. But

1:43

at the same time, if he was out with his family here, more

1:46

people might recognize his dad. You

1:48

know, that's because Jack has done five hit seasons on

1:50

Netflix of Travels With My Father, a show

1:53

about his well travels with his

1:55

older, very proper father. The

1:57

disconnect between how big he is there and how big he

1:59

is here is fascinating. How do you go from playing 20,000

2:01

people to playing 200 people or even a

2:04

thousand people? It's interesting. Though

2:07

you will be able to see Jack in the new season of The Afterparty

2:09

which premieres on July 12th on Apple TV+.

2:12

So the joke we're going to start with comes from Jack's 2017 Netflix

2:15

special At Large. To give you a sense

2:17

of how famous and fancy he is in England, the

2:20

joke does involve interacting with the royal

2:22

family.

2:23

So here is Jack Whitehall.

2:30

This is the thing, okay? I have had these

2:32

scandals in my career and I always feel like I'm on

2:34

the verge of another one because I put my foot in it.

2:37

I can't help it, right? I nearly did

2:39

it on a big scale last year. Last

2:41

year I was asked to host the Royal

2:43

Variety Show, the prestigious annual

2:45

charity gala attended by a member of the royal

2:48

family. The year that I hosted

2:50

it, it was attended by Prince Harry. So

2:52

I was like, you know what? I'm going to start the evening off by

2:54

paying Prince Harry a compliment. Get him

2:57

on side. So I walked out, 5,000 people,

2:59

black tie,

3:00

Royal Albert Hall. I was like, your Royal

3:02

Highness, Prince Harry, I would like to start by

3:04

complimenting you on the bravery

3:06

and the courage that you showed in

3:09

Afghanistan. A ginger

3:11

in that heat. Woo, fuck me.

3:13

I'm

3:16

glad you laughed because on the night that one went

3:18

down like a dead corgi, okay? From

3:22

there on in, hard work, okay? End

3:25

of the show, the one thing you've got to remember to do

3:27

is host of the Royal Variety Show is lead

3:29

the cast in a bow to the Royal

3:31

box, okay? So I'm stood

3:33

on stage, end of the show, next to Sir

3:36

Elton John, National Treasure and

3:38

One Direction Regional Trinkets.

3:41

And there then,

3:44

and you know why I didn't do the

3:46

bow to the Royal box? Because Elton

3:48

John, Sir Elton John, National Treasure,

3:50

a man who I have never met before in my

3:52

life, thought it would be funny live

3:55

on TV in front of 5,000 people at the Royal

3:57

Albert Hall as I was about to bow

3:59

to the Royal.

3:59

the royal box he lent in and

4:02

whispered in my ear I wouldn't

4:04

bend over in front of me love and

4:12

there's cameras everywhere they caught

4:15

me exact moment he said it look

4:24

pulled out through the vowel so

4:26

that was quite bad okay act of treason live

4:29

on stage afterwards it gets even

4:31

worse afterwards they have this black

4:33

tie charity reception

4:36

god these stories are so relatable so

4:40

I stupidly decided that I would invite with me

4:42

as my plus one to the charity reception my

4:44

mate Dave okay

4:46

I'm laughing Jack you do not have a

4:48

friend called Dave it's

4:51

short for the Earl of Daffentry okay

4:57

it's a fake name he's not actually called Dave I've given

4:59

him a fake name for this story because he doesn't

5:01

come out of it great now

5:04

what Dave is Dave is your dickhead friend

5:06

so I'm hanging out

5:09

with dickhead friend at the bar not hanging out you don't

5:11

hang out with a dickhead friend you man

5:13

mark him so I'm

5:15

man marking dickhead friend at the bar prince

5:18

Harry walks over prince Harry walks over with

5:20

two armed security personnel just

5:22

remember that for later on in the story these

5:25

guys have guns all right

5:27

so walks over me and Gabe stood here at the bar

5:30

Dave not Gabe that

5:33

went well give

5:35

him the fake name and then just say his

5:38

actual name out loud

5:38

what

5:42

do I do do I start again I

5:46

can't believe

5:55

I've done that because I just wanted

5:57

to do that story and I just say his name

5:59

and Flick's lawyer was like, you have to give him a faint

6:02

name for the special. So

6:04

I made up the name and then I just said his actual

6:06

name. Can

6:09

I beep it? What

6:13

have I done?

6:17

My name isn't Dave, his

6:19

name is Gabe. So I guess we're

6:21

going with

6:23

Dave. Gabe Turner is his full name. He's

6:25

on Twitter. This goes out all over the world. He's

6:29

going to kill me. Okay

6:32

sorry, I was going to stop crying. Okay,

6:37

right. Okay, so Prince Harry

6:42

walks over to me and Gabe is like, you're

6:45

going to get me. I'm going to get you.

6:47

Okay, so you're

6:49

going to get me. I'm going to get you. I'm

6:53

going to get you. Okay, so he walks

6:55

over to me and Gabe Emmanuel Turner.

7:00

It's like Gabe,

7:02

Dave, whatever. I've forgotten

7:04

his name. Gabe, okay, is a big guy. He's

7:07

got cauliflower-shaped head, like big

7:09

rugby player, alright. Kind

7:12

of guy you wouldn't want to throw under the bus. Anyway,

7:17

so Gabe's a big guy. Prince Harry walks over. He

7:19

decides he's going to do a little joke. So

7:21

Prince Harry walks over. He's

7:23

like, is this your bodyguard? I

7:25

was like, that's so funny. He's very tall.

7:30

Harry,

7:30

you're so amusing. Probably

7:39

cut that bit out as well. So,

7:47

no, the problem is I was so

7:49

busy laughing at Harry's little joke,

7:52

I didn't realize what was unfolding next to me.

7:55

It was like one of those moments in life where everything

7:57

happens in slow motion.

7:59

I turned to my left, I could see

8:02

that my dickhead friend was gearing up

8:04

to drop a clanger, but there was nothing

8:07

that I could do to stop it from happening.

8:10

Do you know what his response was? To getting

8:12

called a bodyguard by

8:14

the fifth in line to the throne

8:17

at a black tie charity reception.

8:20

He went, Oi oi! F*** off

8:22

Ron Weasley!

8:23

Oh! Oh! Oh! Oh!

8:27

Oh! Oh! Oh!

8:31

Oh! Oh! Oh!

8:34

Oh! Shots

8:37

fired! Shots fired!

8:44

To be fair to Harry, he leaves

8:46

it just long enough for me to think that my friend is

8:48

about to be executed by the security services,

8:51

and then cool as you like goes,

8:53

Well, I'd rather look like Ron Weasley than

8:56

Shrek. I'm

9:00

here with Jack Whitehall, thank you for joining me. Thank

9:02

you very much for having me. So, you

9:05

know, what does writing stand up mean

9:07

to you? You know, when you say I'm writing

9:10

my stand up, what does writing look like? How

9:12

do you write? How much

9:14

is it on pen to paper? How much is it live? What

9:16

is your process?

9:17

Yeah, my process is very

9:19

gradual. It's jotting down notes

9:22

in my phone when I have a thought

9:24

or writing it down on a little piece of paper

9:26

and then coming back to it and

9:28

then, you

9:30

know, taking the nub of an idea and

9:33

I do write it all out, actually. You

9:35

know, we'll see it on my laptop and write every

9:38

word of it and then we'll do it on stage and then

9:41

do a little bit of writing on stage as well and

9:43

tweak and alter things

9:45

and sort of improvise around

9:47

it. But, yeah,

9:51

I seldom will sit down with

9:53

a blank page in front of me and go, Yeah, I'm going to

9:55

write some material today.

9:59

It has to sort of... have come to you. You know,

10:01

when I talk to British comedians, I'm interested

10:04

how the sort of way

10:07

British comedians start and American comedians are sort of similar

10:09

and different, but like, were you oriented

10:11

around shows? Like, especially starting out,

10:13

did

10:14

you do a lot of Edinburgh and as a result that

10:16

shape how you think of like building a set?

10:19

Yeah, Edinburgh was definitely the first place

10:21

that I went to as a comedian and saw it and thought,

10:23

oh yeah, this is a viable

10:25

kind of career path for me and something that

10:28

I kind of adore and would

10:30

love to be involved in this world

10:32

and saw shows and, you know,

10:36

there's a kind of like disparity, I guess, between the

10:38

comedy that I grew up with and the comedy

10:41

that I then saw at Edinburgh, which was more like,

10:44

you know,

10:45

personal and alternative,

10:49

you know, stylistically. And then the stuff that I probably

10:51

was brought up with was a little bit more tried and

10:54

was things like the Royal Variety Show, which would

10:56

have like quite old school, you

10:58

know, comedians and TV presenters

11:01

coming on and telling kind

11:04

of hand-me-down jokes. And it was, you

11:06

know, very mainstream.

11:08

And then seeing this other version at

11:11

Edinburgh that was, you know, completely different

11:14

to that. Although, weirdly, I feel like probably

11:16

with my career, I've told a line somewhere in between,

11:18

like, lurching between personal material

11:21

and having a little bit more of a

11:23

mainstream sensibility than maybe some of my

11:25

peers. Yeah, I think that's fair. The

11:27

other thing I was curious, I was watching your last special and in the credits

11:30

you thank Alex Edelman as a stand-up consultant.

11:32

Yeah. I'm friendly with Alex. Can you talk

11:34

about what a stand-up consultant does?

11:37

Literally, he came

11:39

in and watched my show. So

11:42

it was at the end of my tour before

11:45

I did my special.

11:48

And like, he's great. And

11:50

I love Alex and I just trust his

11:52

judgement so much. And he just,

11:55

yeah, he just watched my show and like gave me

11:57

some notes on it. And like,

11:59

I don't

11:59

know. I don't know, like sometimes I think it's good

12:01

to have a little bit of a steer and Alex is

12:04

like a really good critical eye

12:06

and he's like that joke could be more original or

12:08

you

12:10

know, that subject matter is a bit hack. You

12:12

probably want to drop that for your special

12:14

and he's amazing at that because like I

12:16

do think

12:18

for me as well, especially when I'm

12:20

doing like a big arena tour around

12:22

the country and doing it to like a very,

12:24

yeah,

12:25

like a very kind of broad audience

12:28

that have maybe seen me on TV and have come along

12:30

and I put on like a two hour show,

12:32

like of that two hour show, I would

12:34

say some of it is not like special material,

12:36

but it's just for the room. And

12:38

so he's also quite good at like taking

12:41

the scalpel out and being like, yeah, maybe you

12:43

don't want to do that bit of like,

12:45

I don't know, audience banter or

12:48

whatever it is. So it's that he's

12:50

like a critical eye. Yeah, that's interesting. Yeah.

12:53

And the hack police as well. Yeah. Well,

12:55

I imagine you know stuff gets passed in there probably. If

12:57

you're seeing people who don't see much stand up, you

13:00

need have some material because they're coming

13:02

partly because they have an idea of stand up in some ways.

13:05

If you're trying to

13:07

almost wrangle that many people,

13:09

you need to like make sure you're playing

13:11

to everyone. Otherwise you can lose that you're

13:13

playing tens of thousands of people. Yeah, you

13:15

definitely have to.

13:17

It's a very, very different show

13:19

in an arena to a

13:22

theater or a comedy club. And I

13:24

think that's definitely something I learned between the sort

13:27

of the specials that I've shot there. The

13:29

first one I did, I just did the arena show as

13:32

well as it was. And then I watched

13:34

it back in it and it didn't work as well as

13:36

a special because I was playing

13:39

to an arena in the round as well, which

13:41

is really challenging. And

13:44

the second one, I tried to tailor it a little bit more

13:46

and play to the camera and know that I was

13:48

doing it for people watching it on a laptop screen.

13:51

So I had to alter my performance

13:53

and tweak the material ever

13:55

so slightly, I think, to make sure that it works

13:58

better as a special.

13:59

And then the next one that I do,

14:02

I feel like maybe I won't do it. And I know I might

14:04

try doing it in the theater because it might be a

14:07

better room to record a special in.

14:09

Yeah, so I wanted to get into this joke. So let's

14:11

start with the writing of the first joke pre

14:14

this joke, the joke that exists

14:16

the first time, the joke that you told at the Royal Variety

14:19

Show, which the wording is slightly different

14:21

in the Royal Variety version than the one you

14:24

tell the special, but generally it's the same

14:26

idea about being a ginger in the heat. Can you talk

14:28

about when you had that thought? What do you thought

14:30

when you were like, can I

14:32

tell that joke, how are people gonna receive it? Well,

14:34

I'll tell you exactly the

14:36

sort of origin of it. So the first time

14:39

I ever did the Royal Variety Show, I had

14:41

five minutes set to do and it was

14:44

Prince Charles and Camilla, who are the royals

14:46

in attendance. And I'd worked out all of my

14:48

jokes. And then I was like, I'll do

14:50

a little bit at the beginning where I refer to them and

14:53

I'll write some jokes specifically about them.

14:56

And this is 2010? I think 2010.

14:59

So I was pretty new and fresh

15:01

and hadn't done a lot of stuff on TV.

15:04

Most of the audience probably wouldn't have known who I was. So

15:06

it's a really, really hard gig. And I

15:08

think the other comedian on the night, I'm

15:10

not gonna mention his name, but he's a very successful comedian

15:13

now in the States and he had had a tough gig. And

15:16

so I was like, this is a hard room. And

15:18

so I then had my set

15:21

and

15:23

practiced it over and over again. And they're very

15:26

regimented about what you can and can't say as well,

15:28

because obviously you're performing on like

15:32

television and in front of the royal family. So

15:34

there's extra kind of like stakes to it.

15:36

And so I was like, I'll do a little bit at the beginning about

15:38

Charles. And so I did

15:41

a thing, I think it was a

15:43

little bit about

15:45

talking about the flag on Buckingham

15:47

Palace and how you

15:49

always knew if the queen was in residence by

15:51

the flag being up. And then me saying that must've been

15:53

amazing when you were like my age

15:56

and you were sneaking out to have drinks with your mates and

15:58

trying to bring women back because you.

15:59

know whether mommy was in or not and

16:02

that got a massive reaction and he laughed and

16:04

then the whole audience laughed and then as soon

16:06

as I get into my actual material

16:09

it was straight back to being a

16:11

really tough gig and I was like well that's

16:13

the key to this show is to acknowledge

16:15

the fact that there are two very

16:17

very famous people in the room and make the whole

16:19

of your routine about them because there's no point in then

16:22

going into like prepared jokes because they're

16:24

gonna die and that's not what they want they want

16:26

you to talk about the weirdness of the situation

16:28

so that was a really good learning curve that if I

16:30

was ever gonna do it again then I had to talk about

16:33

the royals that were in attendance and just throw

16:35

them under the bus because that's the only way

16:37

you can win that gig so then when I was asked to host

16:39

it and I didn't know who the Royal Family

16:42

member was gonna be that was gonna attend and

16:44

I was told that it was Prince

16:47

Harry I was like it was the first time I think he'd ever

16:49

done it yeah it had always been other members of the

16:51

Royal Family and then I was the first year that it was Prince

16:53

Harry I was like thank you God this is

16:55

perfect it's ideal

16:57

for me and it was when he was single as well and he was

16:59

still sort of like Jack the lad and that was

17:02

his kind of public reputation

17:04

and so it was just like a treasure

17:06

trove to the point where on the night I remember

17:08

like I did that first joke where I you

17:12

know did a ginger joke for all intents and purposes

17:15

and then I did what was

17:18

the other joke I did I kept throwing him under

17:20

the bus oh yeah because he was single at the time

17:22

and he was like obviously the most eligible bachelor in the country

17:25

and I made a joke about bringing out the band Little

17:27

Mix and doing a live tinder with him and

17:29

then trying to set him up with one of the acrobats

17:32

in Cirque du Soleil and it was just like relentless

17:35

to the point where I remember

17:36

halfway through the evening I came backstage and

17:38

one of my writers and the producer were in the dressing

17:41

room I was like I think I've probably got to like rein

17:43

it in now I think I've gone into I've steamed

17:45

in too hard I've got overexcited and we're

17:47

about to get to the point where I think I will

17:49

cross the line and he will stop laughing

17:52

at all of these jokes but it was amazing

17:54

and it was like it was a great gig

17:56

and and again like yeah every

17:58

time I was like like,

18:00

chucking barbs off at him, the audience were

18:02

on side with me and then the minute I was doing actual

18:05

jokes it was like, tough

18:07

again. So when did you have the Afghanistan

18:09

joke part of it? Like, did you, and were you

18:11

nervous about it? Do you think?

18:13

Well, no, no, it was just one of those perfect ones

18:15

where it, because also all those people

18:18

are so like prim and proper and the audience, the

18:20

Royal Variety Show is like, all like

18:22

very well to do,

18:24

like cross the old

18:26

white dudes sat there in their suits

18:28

and like, you know, looking

18:30

down their nose at you, I knew that if I did a

18:32

little bit of like, nationalism

18:35

and a bit of baiting of like, you

18:38

know, British exceptionalism

18:40

and applauding him for being a

18:42

veteran that they would be right on side

18:45

and then reel them in. So the minute

18:47

I went, I'd like to commend you for your

18:49

service in Afghanistan. I was

18:51

like, I've got them now. Yeah.

18:55

Yeah. Because you got them paying attention and then you're

18:57

like, oh, now they bought into the premise.

19:00

Yeah, they really, they really

19:02

were sold on the dummy. Yeah. So,

19:05

you know, in the then retelling, you say the joke

19:07

didn't do well that night, but

19:09

it seemed like, as you told me, now it did well in the recording,

19:12

it seems like it did well. Did it feel

19:14

like it didn't well? Is that just because you wanted to set

19:16

up didn't well? Like, what was the thinking? You

19:19

know, you say it went

19:21

down like a dead corgi.

19:23

Oh, yeah, I think it went down like a dead corgi

19:25

with like the people in the Royal

19:27

Box and all of the organizers

19:30

and the people that it said, just watch it like

19:32

there and like completely

19:34

ashen faced and because that's

19:36

what happens. The minute you make a joke about one of them, everyone's

19:39

looking to see that they laugh. So

19:41

all of the like the people and

19:44

the head of the Royal Variety Show and all

19:46

of the like the suits basically, it's

19:48

like cannot stand it. And like to

19:51

the point where also you like

19:53

slightly have to lie about what you're going to say

19:55

on stage to get it round the sensors.

19:58

And so, you know, I had and told them

20:01

the extent of how far I was gonna push

20:03

it. I just said I'm gonna do some references to him, but

20:05

don't worry, it won't go too far.

20:07

And then I do that joke and

20:10

like, yeah, everyone

20:12

is then, the minute I walk off stage, because I then

20:14

introduced them when I came off stage and I'm like surrounded

20:17

by all of the producers

20:19

and the person who's like the

20:21

royal liaison and they're all

20:24

like absolutely terrified because they think,

20:26

oh no, you've overstepped a lot. This is not what you're meant

20:28

to do at this show, it's

20:30

all about deference and duty and

20:35

how dare you. So in that

20:37

respect, like I think to them

20:39

it went down.

20:40

Like a dead copy.

20:42

That makes sense. I also

20:44

wanna ask you mentioned, you also have a story about performing

20:47

at Kensington Palace for Charles and Camilla

20:49

and that's show not going well. Yeah. And

20:52

all these stories mixed together. Can you tell us just

20:54

to get a sense of your relationship to doing comedy

20:56

with the royals? Yeah, I got booked

20:58

for that one basically off the back of having done quite

21:01

well at the Royal Variety Show when they were there. So they

21:03

booked me to go and do their Christmas party

21:05

and it was at Kensington Palace for all of their

21:07

staff and they were in the front row, Charles

21:10

and Camilla and they were literally in thrones. It

21:12

was like big high back chairs and they were sat

21:14

there. And again, toughest

21:17

gig, 20 minutes, no

21:19

warm up, no other acts, just you doing

21:22

comedy for the royals. Every

21:24

joke you do, they just look to see whether they've laughed a

21:26

lot. And again, the same. My

21:29

actual material didn't really land, but

21:32

I did a load of jokes about

21:35

how I'd been at school with Kate Middleton and my mom always referred

21:38

to her as the one that got away and stuff like that, which

21:40

people found funny because I guess there was so

21:43

much tension in the room. That

21:45

breaking it with a- An

21:47

acknowledgement of the situation. An acknowledgement of the situation,

21:49

yeah. I think they enjoyed. So

21:52

yeah, that gig

21:54

was genuinely tough and he did make a joke afterwards

21:56

about

21:58

next year, maybe trying out. a magician

22:01

and also someone told me because

22:03

I had known Michael McIntyre did that gig

22:05

and Omid Jillilly did that gig

22:08

he's another the two comedians are friends

22:10

of mine and Omid Jillilly told

22:12

me that the year before he'd done it and he'd had a guy

22:14

who had an acrobat who

22:17

had climbed through a tennis racket

22:20

and that's what they'd booked as the entertainment

22:23

and then after that they'd gone gone

22:25

to having comedians but I did think

22:27

at the time I was like well this is bad for

22:29

me but it could be worse I could be clambering through a tennis

22:32

racket right now I don't

22:34

suspect that would have gone down particularly

22:36

with Camille there. I played with the

22:38

creator of wine as well. Oh really? Yeah. Probably

22:41

nice wine. No payment you just get a case of wine. Is

22:43

it nice wine? Is it like special? I think it was quite nice

22:45

wine. I only did it as well because my dad really

22:47

wanted it. I was like no it's a free gate

22:49

it's gonna be really tough as I said

22:51

like is I don't really

22:54

see it as like that prestigious

22:56

and my dad was like you're bloody doing

22:59

it I want to meet Charles so I had to do it

23:01

so that they could come along and

23:03

he could meet us here. So the

23:05

next part of the joke is that the Elton John bit and

23:07

it's that's like a thing where it's like you know you have the

23:09

punch line of what he actually says but you can't just

23:11

be like one time Elton John said that when

23:14

and I think a lot of this story you

23:16

have these sort of funny lines and you have to sort of do the

23:18

ramp up how do you think about the sort of ramp

23:20

up to build when

23:22

you know you have that funny part coming

23:25

how do you like approach the telling of story

23:27

that way? I don't know I think yeah it's great

23:29

when it's like when you know you have that big punch

23:31

and you know you've got the the hardest

23:33

bit of the joke and then

23:35

I think from there

23:37

I always just extrapolate and

23:40

it starts off as just a simple punch

23:42

line and then I just keep adding more

23:45

and keep building it up as much as I

23:47

can get away with. Yeah yeah. And I love doing that

23:49

I love having a big performance bit

23:51

that kind of gears

23:53

up to a nice big punch line and

23:56

that one's great because he literally

23:59

gave me the I whispered it in my ear on

24:02

the night. And yeah,

24:05

no need for embellishment as well. He literally

24:08

delivered the line perfectly. And

24:12

on national television. People

24:14

can hear it. It was just too. No, they couldn't hear

24:16

it. Yeah, it was just to me.

24:19

Because I'd been warned as well that he had

24:22

a really wicked sense of humor. He

24:25

had to be warned. Yeah, and

24:27

he didn't disappoint. He

24:29

was very mischievous

24:33

and very, very funny and very, very inappropriate.

24:35

And has

24:38

been whenever I've sort of crossed paths with

24:40

him, which has been always a

24:42

delight. That someone like that doesn't take himself

24:45

too seriously.

24:47

In the rehearsal, it was, I remember

24:49

it so good as well. Cause

24:52

he turned up to rehearsal. I wasn't necessarily expecting

24:54

him to be in the rehearsal. And he was literally writing

24:57

my high line when I was doing all of these

24:59

like jokes on his intro, speaking

25:01

jokes about his shell suits and stuff like that. And

25:05

then feeling a little

25:07

bit nervous that maybe he wasn't going to go with him. And

25:10

he was like, oh, that's bloody hilarious. I

25:12

was like, oh, great. Think I can get away with

25:14

a lot with you. You then cut to

25:16

the screen, we show the face you made. What,

25:19

which is interesting. What made you, you can do that

25:21

throughout that special. What made you think to have these

25:23

sort of visual proof of

25:25

the joke? Yeah,

25:27

that was probably just cause I couldn't get the rights

25:30

to show the clip. Got it. Cause the

25:32

reaction on the video probably

25:34

was even better. But why even include

25:36

it all? Like obviously the joke works. People probably

25:39

would say, why have this sort of extra

25:41

proof?

25:42

I don't know. I think with something like that, A it helps

25:45

because a line like that and a moment

25:47

like that almost feels like too good to be true.

25:49

And that moment is the exact

25:51

moment that he said it. And to have it captured

25:53

as a picture, I think is

25:56

like really delightful and the audience really

25:58

enjoy it because it's like.

27:59

because the public is boarding

28:02

school and private school. It's very

28:05

confusing. But yeah, so all

28:07

of that is projected onto me

28:09

correctly. So it's not projected,

28:12

that is the truth. So

28:14

certain assumptions are made. And it's

28:17

been one of the hardest things in

28:19

terms of transitioning my comedy to work

28:22

in the States is remembering that an audience

28:24

doesn't have that preconception about me and

28:26

having to work to sort of fill in the

28:30

blanks a

28:32

little bit more. Whereas there's, yeah,

28:36

this unsaid thing in Britain that

28:38

I can sort of rely on and take

28:40

as read. And

28:44

that has been a struggle

28:47

at times over here, remembering that that's not

28:49

the case in the States. So yeah, a

28:51

name like Dave is a pretty

28:53

traditional working class British

28:56

name. And therefore it

28:58

might be unlikely that I would have a friend called

29:00

Dave. You would more associate

29:03

my friendship group with the Ruppets

29:05

of this world, with the Archibalds

29:08

names such as that.

29:10

And Noah, Digby, two

29:12

of my best friends. So again,

29:14

yeah, it's very much

29:17

based in truth and fact. That's

29:19

interesting. So how do you do it when you play in American

29:21

odds? Do you just tell them up front? Do you have to be like?

29:24

I just rewrite it and drop a load of stuff basically.

29:27

I mean, I've tried to sort of crowbar

29:30

some of that stuff in and occasionally

29:32

you can sort of get away with it being like a British

29:34

thing rather than a posh thing. But on the

29:36

whole, you just have to sort of slightly,

29:40

yeah, a lot

29:42

of it is that where

29:44

the punch line becomes about, oh, this is a

29:46

British thing rather than a posh thing. British people

29:48

are fancy, not you're fancy. Exactly.

29:51

And in England, yeah, you have to

29:53

sort of recalibrate it. But yeah,

29:56

I definitely lose a bit of material when I come over

29:58

here. So.

29:59

The class thing is interesting because doing research,

30:02

it seems like at first you try

30:04

to hide from it, you talked about that you tried different

30:06

voices at first, and then it seems like especially

30:08

a lot of your act has been actively

30:10

sort of pushing against the expectations of

30:13

it. Can you talk about the sort of how you

30:15

learn to evolve with it and make

30:18

an asset out of it? Well, it

30:20

had to become an asset as well because I soon realized

30:23

so many like

30:25

straight white male comedians

30:28

and so many straight white male comedians when I was

30:30

coming up, all of the same, I had age.

30:33

That was a little bit of a USP when I saw, because

30:35

I was so young, I was like, well, that's an angle,

30:37

but I did soon realize that that's an angle

30:39

that I will very rapidly lose. So I

30:41

need to find another angle rather than just being

30:44

prepubescent. So then I

30:46

realized, well, actually, the one thing that

30:48

slightly marks me out from all of the other

30:52

guys with the same haircut talking about

30:54

the same stuff on stage

30:55

is that I come from a very ridiculous

31:00

background. I went to a boarding

31:02

school and have this sort of

31:05

like

31:08

existence and

31:10

family and background and all of that.

31:12

And that's something that I could use

31:14

as material and I could

31:18

bend that to my advantage. And so then

31:20

it became like the thing that

31:22

sort of slightly marked me out, I guess, from all

31:24

of the other acts that

31:26

were coming

31:28

at comedy from a similar angle to me when I was just doing

31:30

it, sort of without a leaning

31:32

into that. And so, yeah, it definitely

31:35

became something that became

31:36

part of my act very quickly. And then,

31:39

yeah, I guess probably once

31:41

it became part of my act, then you have the

31:44

flip side of that, which is you don't want it to all be about

31:46

that. And

31:47

maybe I've been guilty sometimes of leading

31:51

into it too much. And now maybe

31:54

as I've matured a bit as a comedian, I'm trying

31:56

to find a slightly

31:59

new. version of my voice so it's not all about that

32:01

because that jake does wear a little

32:04

thin eventually. Sure, yeah. So

32:06

we get to the dave into gave part

32:08

and this may be bold to say but I

32:10

believe this this is a put on.

32:13

So yes this is a put on yeah

32:15

yeah yeah. One

32:17

night it wasn't. So yeah so let's talk

32:19

yeah that's what I guess so let's talk about fleshing

32:22

it out what happened how how we got to where

32:24

it is.

32:24

I did it yeah so I did it one night I

32:27

was like I'll because I at the beginning I was like

32:29

this is what I do when I do a joke about someone

32:31

else is that I make sure that it works

32:33

first before I ask permission because

32:36

I don't want to ask permission for a joke that then

32:39

doesn't work because then I've wasted

32:41

that opportunity and potentially

32:44

jeopardized a friendship or relationship

32:47

over a joke that I'm not even going to use so I make

32:49

sure that I do it first and so I was like well I'm going

32:51

to do it a couple of times road test

32:54

it make sure this joke works then I will ask

32:56

Gabe if I can use it and if I can use his name

32:58

and talk talk to him about it.

33:01

So I was like I'll give him a fake name just whilst I'm

33:03

road testing it and whilst I was road testing it

33:05

and using the fake name I got very confused

33:08

one night because I was not

33:10

like you know comfortable

33:14

yet with the with the joke and the wording of it all that

33:16

I just said his name out loud and it was very

33:18

very funny in the moment and people

33:21

enjoyed the slip up and so

33:25

because I got that laugh I was like oh

33:28

it's going to be really hard not to try and get that

33:30

laugh again so then I was like I think

33:32

I'm going to have to do that every night so then yeah

33:35

it was it happened once yeah and then I was

33:37

like I'm going to do it again

33:40

and so I mean and

33:42

yeah I guess that's also like slightly my like I

33:46

don't know I like doing things like that

33:48

which I know probably a little bit

33:50

like trad I don't know it's because

33:52

I grew up watching as I say like lots

33:54

of

33:55

lots of theatre and lots of farce

33:58

like lots of my heroes were people like, you

34:01

know, like weird music hall outs

34:03

like Norman Wisdom and things like

34:05

that. And so

34:06

I have a real

34:09

love for that. And I love watching

34:11

corpses. And I used to go and watch lots

34:14

of, you know, theater with my

34:16

mum and dad when I was growing up and watching like Brian

34:18

Ricks Farses and stuff like that where like

34:21

masterful, like,

34:23

corpses and corpses, people breaking,

34:26

people breaking. And you know, I'm trying

34:29

to think of other like, I mean,

34:31

I don't know why I say I'm trying to think of other

34:34

the all of the names that I mentioned are probably flying over

34:36

everyone's head anyway. We know the word fires.

34:39

We're twee niche British

34:42

comedians. But like, yeah, I do have an appreciation

34:44

for that. So that's maybe where my love

34:46

of that comes from. And so yeah, I built that

34:48

into that routine, because it also makes

34:51

it a little bit messier. And I

34:53

think,

34:54

um, yeah, the audience enjoy

34:57

and they enjoy seeing me sort of fraying and

35:00

it feeling. Yeah, I mean, what is it like to play

35:03

it? Because it keeps on I assume you didn't, you know,

35:05

it grows. It's quite a large part. It's like the centerpiece

35:07

of this joke is the part of it not working. Yeah.

35:10

How did it evolve? Did any part

35:12

of you? Because around

35:15

when you're doing this joke, there are some comedians, at least in

35:17

the States, that had something similar, but would

35:19

then

35:20

do a part where they're like, then acknowledging

35:22

that this all was a lie, like you

35:25

sort of don't you just sort of play it as is. Talk

35:28

about sort of that approach and how you sort of

35:30

built it out and decided not to reveal that

35:32

this was sort of all a put on.

35:34

Well, until right

35:36

now, I guess. Yeah, until right now, I guess. It's

35:39

far enough away that we've

35:42

got some distance from it. But I don't know. I

35:44

don't know. I didn't know. Maybe it's, I

35:46

mean, other people would be of a different opinion, but I'm

35:49

kind of like

35:51

I was like a magician not reading his trick.

35:53

I do feel it's a little bit like that. I

35:55

think people buy into it and some

35:57

people. people

36:01

maybe would want to, I don't know, would

36:03

want to know, but I think, and

36:05

a lot of people do realize, but don't care.

36:09

And so, yeah, I don't know,

36:11

I didn't feel the need to kind

36:14

of like puncture it or take people

36:16

out of it because they think they

36:19

enjoy it. The other funny one

36:21

that I did, there

36:23

was a, again, a moment

36:26

that happened and I was like, it's too good not

36:28

to give every audience

36:30

this moment, was I did a

36:32

show where I came on a horse at

36:35

the beginning of the show because I was like, come on, I'm in

36:37

an arena, I need to give them a proper night out,

36:39

they've booked a babysitter. The last

36:41

time they were in this venue, they were probably seeing

36:43

Lady Gaga, so I need to put

36:45

on a show, so I'm going to come on on a horse.

36:48

So I came on on a horse and on night

36:51

two, as I came on on the horse and dismounted

36:53

the horse and made my triumphant entrance,

36:56

the horse unloaded its bowels onto the stage

36:59

and then trotted off.

37:01

It was hilarious and we had to deal with

37:03

it in the moment and the stage manager had to

37:05

come on and I had to shovel it and anyway,

37:08

they loved it. And so I was like,

37:10

we've probably got to manufacture that every night because

37:12

that would be brilliant. And so we did it

37:15

every night and people absolutely loved it.

37:19

It was my poor tour manager,

37:22

Johnny, having to create

37:24

the perfect fake. Get out of here.

37:26

I was like, did you have to figure out feeding the horse? And

37:29

then there was whipping off a little

37:33

cloth that he had hidden over it

37:35

from underneath the wings. It

37:38

truly then becomes a magic trick. Yeah, it literally

37:40

became a magic trick and it was just a bit. There's

37:45

been other moments in my show where I've sort of

37:48

had those moments. That one is

37:50

what is just depressing because then no joke

37:52

that you tell for the next hour and a half gets this

37:54

bigger laugh as a horse taking a dump on the stage.

37:59

know it's like what anything

38:02

a comedian does is they're trying out material with

38:05

their audience. The audience is telling them what they like and you're like,

38:07

well, how could I then

38:08

recreate the feeling of that moment

38:11

because you're so performative on stage? It makes sense. You're

38:13

like, okay, I just have to act this out again. I just

38:15

have to pretend. Yeah. And I

38:17

would say that the key to making those bits work

38:20

and feel like they're not acted and

38:22

feel like it's not as prescriptive as it

38:24

could be is

38:27

making

38:29

sure as well. And it always is the case, like those

38:31

are the bits where I am literally the most like

38:34

improvise.

38:37

I will always say the name

38:38

wrong and then go into that bit. But

38:41

what happens after that will be different every night.

38:44

And I like that as well because I am quite

38:46

regimented when I do stand up in terms of

38:48

like I do stick quite closely

38:51

to a script and I like those moments where

38:53

it becomes a little bit looser. And so

38:55

weirdly, you know, it is

38:57

probably authentically the most like live

39:01

moment of the show because it's the messiest

39:03

part and I

39:05

am changing it up and making

39:08

it different. But

39:12

yeah, I mean, and the

39:14

other issue with that is like some nights, I

39:17

don't connect with it as much because it feels really acted

39:19

and then all the nights it like comes out

39:22

perfectly because it feels very authentic

39:24

and messy and you

39:27

know, it's

39:28

whilst

39:31

most jokes will be pretty much the

39:33

same each time I tell them that's one where every

39:35

night it was different. Yeah. I mean, speaking

39:37

about how regimented you are, so

39:40

the joke continues and you

39:42

Prince Harry tells a little joke and you sort of do

39:44

a big act out for it. And I believe you

39:47

like pretty deliberate about how you do

39:49

act outs. Can you talk about like what the process is like

39:51

that? Are they rehearsed or they scripted? Like

39:53

how how specific are they? Yeah,

39:55

I mean, in the old days, I used to work with

39:58

my guy called

39:59

and then Kavy who's been

40:02

a long time sort of collaborator, producer,

40:04

and worked with him

40:06

on my TV shows and stuff. And

40:08

he

40:10

used to work with me on my

40:14

stage shows. And he was like

40:16

a theatre director when he was younger and then

40:18

moved into the television. But we would go

40:20

through the show and we would work out like physical

40:23

bits and act outs. And again, like talking

40:25

of people that influenced me, I was always

40:27

like obsessed with Rowan Atkinson and John Cleese

40:30

and people like that who made

40:32

the most of their physicality. And so I

40:34

would always try to bring elements of that into my

40:36

shows and have like big

40:38

physical act outs. And I love using my

40:41

body in weird, wonderful ways

40:43

and trying to add to a routine

40:46

by building in

40:49

kind of like physical

40:50

and visual element to it. So

40:52

yeah, with that one, I think that

40:55

organically became bigger and

40:57

bigger and bigger and had more

40:59

kind of like physical

41:01

elements to it as I

41:04

did it more. Yeah.

41:06

I had a question about directing, as you mentioned, director. In

41:09

this joke, there's two visual things

41:11

that I don't see many specials before where the

41:13

camera starts and it sort of circumnavigates

41:15

you and that happens twice.

41:17

That is a very interesting thing to have in

41:19

a special partly because you're like, well, where

41:22

was the cameraman? Because you see a wide shot

41:24

and then somehow you have a shot around you. Yeah. Do

41:27

you have, was that a deliberate decision to have that shot?

41:29

Was that shot filmed live? Yeah, that

41:31

was filmed live on the night. Yeah, we had to pick, we did

41:34

it over two nights. So we picked four

41:36

moments where we'd come on and try

41:38

to

41:39

film some stuff on the stage because he's just

41:41

trying to make it a little bit more dynamic. And

41:45

yeah, I think one night he tripped over and again,

41:47

like that horse taking a shot on the stage,

41:49

deeply depressing that he gets a bigger laugh than you

41:51

and all he's done is fall over on his ass.

41:54

But yeah, we tried to

41:56

build that into that routine so that

41:58

it was shot in a kind of of interesting

42:01

way as well. Yeah.

42:07

Yeah. I remember that. I don't

42:09

think I'd do it again to be honest because it is

42:11

quite distracting having a cameraman on

42:13

the stage with you running around. Yeah,

42:16

I was just curious. I was like, you notice in the next special, that

42:18

doesn't. Yeah. The other thing about physical comedy

42:20

feel like this moment captures two things about

42:23

your comedy. One is you're very specific

42:25

with your body. Your body is like

42:27

almost like a muse, how you use it, how you decide

42:29

to like, you know, you're naked often

42:32

in things you do off stage. And

42:34

then also embarrassment is obviously such a another

42:37

muse for you. Talk

42:39

about that. How you landed on those focuses

42:42

and what it is about it and what

42:44

connects you to those elements.

42:47

I don't know. I think it's just that thing of like,

42:50

I think it's useful to like,

42:52

to be

42:54

as like self deprecating

42:56

as possible and make yourself

42:58

as low status as you can. And

43:01

I really like that comedy

43:04

of cringe and humiliation

43:06

and like sharing that with an audience and that feels

43:09

not only cathartic, but I think is, you

43:12

know, really helps you connect with an audience

43:14

when you're willing to just like, bear

43:17

all and, you

43:19

know,

43:20

embrace being

43:23

a fool

43:25

at your own expense for them. And

43:27

I enjoy that. And then in terms of like the

43:30

physicality, I think, I

43:33

don't know, I just think I have quite a funny body.

43:35

I'm like quite gangly and

43:39

big like

43:42

dangling limbs. We have this

43:44

phrase, a lanky streak of piss.

43:47

Is that an Americanism? No, well, that's

43:49

what I was called as a kid. Father

43:52

could be very cool. But

43:54

I was like, well, I should embrace this. And so

43:57

yeah, I love it when I can find

43:59

a routine where I can build in a little

44:02

bit of an act out or some

44:05

theatricality. I'm very theatrical. I think that's

44:07

it, isn't it? It just grew

44:10

up watching so much

44:13

theatre and

44:14

live comedy and

44:16

was so enamoured

44:19

of it that I wanted to have

44:21

an element of that in my show.

44:27

Hello, Jesse

44:29

here. I want to take a brief moment to let

44:32

you know that I wrote a book, and it

44:34

is coming out on November 7th.

44:39

It's called Comedy Book, How Comedy Conquered

44:41

Culture and the Magic That Makes It Work. It was inspired

44:44

by all the interviews I've done for a good one

44:46

these last six plus years, as well as

44:48

a decade plus of watching and studying

44:51

comedy. This book is me making

44:53

the case for comedy as an art form that can be analyzed

44:56

and thought deeply about. I talked about

44:58

a lot of comedy that's been made the

45:00

last 30-40 years, and

45:03

if you like this show, I really think you'll dig it. I

45:06

put a lot of time in my brain and myself

45:08

into this book,

45:09

and it would mean so much

45:11

to me for you to read it. So you can

45:13

pre-order Comedy Book, How Comedy Conquered

45:15

Culture and the Magic That Makes It Work, wherever

45:17

you buy books, but we will include a link

45:20

in the show notes so you don't have to wildly

45:22

google. So thank you for your time.

45:25

I really appreciate it.

45:28

Hello, I'm Esther Perel. I'm

45:30

a psychotherapist and host of the podcast

45:32

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46:01

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46:06

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46:09

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46:31

Do you know what? The moment happens where, you

46:33

know, there's a Ron Weasley comment

46:36

and the Shrek comment. I want to get

46:38

a sense of in the moment what goes through your head and

46:40

also, you know, like, are you a person

46:42

who you're

46:44

in this moment like this might be material I need

46:46

to like be a comedian right now. So

46:48

now I have to reveal something about this element

46:51

of the joke is that that actually happened

46:53

at a different time. So

46:56

there is there's like it happened

46:58

but I had to

46:59

truncated all yes,

47:00

because that happened like six months later.

47:03

So I had the Royal Variety Show with Harry

47:05

and

47:06

that all that bit is all true.

47:09

And then six months later, this

47:11

incident happened with my friend. It

47:14

was a Christmas party. And

47:17

we were all out

47:18

in London.

47:19

And we ended up in the same room as Harry.

47:22

And I was with my friend Gabe, who was quite drunk

47:25

at the time. And he's like a

47:27

massive character. He's very

47:29

funny. And he's very punchy. He doesn't care

47:32

who you are. He was like steaming.

47:34

So he's, he is like one

47:36

of those friends that is a bit of a like

47:40

bit of a hand grenade. Yeah. He's

47:42

been very successful. Yeah, he's a successful

47:44

documentary, documentary, documentary

47:47

filmmaker and producer because I think because he's like

47:49

that, people love having him around. And they love

47:51

that he doesn't stand on airs and graces. And,

47:54

you know, I think that's part

47:56

of his charm and appeal. But

48:00

If you don't know him, oh my god, he can really

48:02

like

48:03

come in all guns blazing. And

48:05

so we were in this environment

48:07

with Prince Harry who I'd met

48:09

previously but didn't know that well. And

48:12

some of the other group knew him. And

48:14

I think Gabe just like...

48:17

He just... because he was drunk

48:20

and a bit foolhardy just really like

48:22

yeah went in no holes barred.

48:24

Now the other thing about this joke

48:27

which is quite interesting... I

48:29

don't know whether this says more about me but I

48:31

was like what happened in real life

48:34

is Gabe basically

48:36

won the exchange. Sure. It

48:38

was the other way around. Yeah. So

48:41

Prince Harry insulted

48:43

Gabe and then Gabe

48:46

like... Yeah.

48:47

Like had a topper for Prince

48:50

Harry. And so Prince Harry ended up with egg

48:52

on his face but I was like I think if I'm

48:54

gonna tell this publicly and put it on a Netflix

48:56

special Prince Harry has to win

48:58

this exchange. So I had

49:00

to recalibrate

49:03

it slightly so Gabe ends up with

49:05

egg on his face. Hence another reason

49:07

why I was like I'll probably change his name because

49:09

I feel bad. Like he

49:12

said a really funny thing. He mugged off Prince

49:14

Harry. It was hilarious. And

49:16

I'm now gonna have to make

49:17

Gabe look like the mug because

49:21

I worry more about what Prince Harry thinks

49:23

than what Gabe thinks. Yeah. He

49:25

gave me so much stink. He was like no

49:28

that's not what happened. It's

49:30

not what happened. I was like yeah but you

49:32

understand like I want to get a knighthood at some

49:34

point. And so I need to maintain

49:36

this relationship. Now as it turned out I could

49:39

have said whatever I like about Prince Harry and it wouldn't have

49:41

affected the knighthood. He's now persona

49:43

non grata. There's no

49:45

need to change it but I didn't know that at the

49:47

time. He was still a national

49:48

treasure back then. He was beloved. Though

49:50

you have mentioned that I don't even know if you're joking

49:53

the way it's passed through that you weren't invited to the

49:55

wedding because of a joke you made. Well

49:58

yeah I think I've. I've probably

50:01

read into that too much, but I was quite

50:03

friendly with him. I was, I really

50:05

was. I just, well, I don't know. I

50:07

don't know.

50:08

You probably isn't even

50:10

aware I exist, but I don't

50:12

know. There was a little part of

50:15

me that was like, maybe I could be like, if

50:17

they get a few rejections and there's,

50:19

you know, like a little,

50:21

I don't know, E.coli

50:24

bug that goes around and a few people can't attend.

50:26

I might be on the backup list. I certainly

50:28

thought there was a chance, a slim chance

50:31

that I might make the invite to the wedding. And then when I didn't

50:33

make the invite to the wedding, probably James Corden

50:35

did. There was a part of

50:37

me that was like, you know what? Well, maybe it's down

50:39

to that joke. Maybe it's because I,

50:43

you know, mercilessly threw him under

50:45

the bus on stage

50:48

for an entire tour and then on a Netflix special. But

50:50

again, probably not that. Probably just

50:52

didn't want me there. Yeah, one

50:55

of those two things. Because of my personality.

50:58

As you mentioned, that part is twisted

51:00

around and Gabe

51:03

on, I think he saw you do the joke live

51:06

in February of the year that you filmed the special

51:08

at the O2 Arena. And he tweeted, one,

51:11

he doesn't have shaved head and cauliflower

51:13

ears. And then he- Well, I mean,

51:15

he doesn't have a shaved head, but he is quite-

51:18

Yeah, that's almost an unfair- That's ogre-ish?

51:21

Yes. He definitely

51:23

is ogre-ish. No offense to Gabe.

51:26

No, no offense to him at all. But we could both

51:28

agree that he has quite bulbous features.

51:31

And a slightly green pigment as

51:33

well. No, he doesn't. He's a lovely looking

51:35

child. Yeah. And

51:38

I

51:38

guess the question I had, and I think it's

51:41

with this joke. And as I think

51:43

about your series, the trials with my

51:45

father series, what is your relationship to

51:47

truth? Like, how

51:50

important is it or non-important do you think? Do

51:53

you know what is your perspective on it? Because it does feel like,

51:56

as you know, there are communities that have to be 100%

51:58

true about whatever that means.

51:59

that's its own falsity. But what

52:02

is your perspective on it?

52:03

I think it's probably be, it's pretty, pretty

52:05

loose, pretty loose relationship. Yeah.

52:08

Me and the truth are in an open relationship when it comes

52:10

to comedy. You know,

52:13

again, I think that's very much like, come

52:15

from, you

52:16

know, my main inspiration is my dad. Yeah.

52:19

Is that he's why, what's become a comedian

52:22

because he was this amazing raconteur. And

52:24

whenever my dad told stories, I

52:27

began to understand as I got

52:29

a little bit older that a lot of them were probably embellished.

52:32

And so I think, you know, that's

52:34

definitely something that I have inherited from

52:37

him is the ability to gild

52:40

and embellish a story. I

52:42

mean, I'm never gonna just like

52:44

outright lie. There will always be like

52:47

a kernel or a core of truth to the story.

52:49

But as I tell it, like there will

52:52

be embellishment. And I feel like

52:54

that's a lot of comedians and a lot

52:56

of people's routines. And I don't know,

52:58

I feel like with the audience as well, there's an understanding

53:00

that that is the case with most

53:03

comedians is that if they're telling a great

53:05

story, there is obviously going to be

53:07

flourishes or like, you know, an

53:10

element of like, yeah,

53:12

crafting it in the retelling

53:15

of it. And

53:17

so I feel like that's probably what

53:19

I do. The best

53:21

stories are always the ones that have more truth

53:25

to them than embellishment. And

53:28

so, you know,

53:29

that's sort of like the trade

53:31

off that you have to make. Yeah, I mean, when

53:33

I thought of this question, I was thinking about your father,

53:36

partly because I know he has that reputation.

53:38

I know there's jokes that I've seen him change. Like

53:41

there's one example where you talk about how he

53:43

used to joke about how you have a big penis, but then he realized

53:45

it's funnier to say your brother has a big penis

53:48

than you have a small penis. So that became the truth. That

53:50

is not the truth. He's just the end of

53:52

that. But the other part about your dad is

53:54

that, you know, he worked in show business.

53:57

And I think that there's something about how this special,

53:59

really interesting, which is the special opens

54:02

and you do the sort of big dance number with people

54:04

with women with feathers. And then shut

54:06

on the stage as well, thankfully. And

54:09

there's fireworks and there's

54:11

a fake, there's a mic that comes up that you do a little bit

54:13

with and then you joke about how the mic is fake. But

54:16

you start by yelling show business. And I wonder

54:18

if,

54:19

and you mentioned the sort of seeing so much theater growing up, that

54:22

part of you is so comfortable

54:25

with show business being show business. You

54:28

embrace this sort of fiction

54:30

of it because that is your baseline reality.

54:32

You grew up seeing your godfather

54:35

be in place and you're like, got it. So

54:37

it is so much more organic to you than maybe someone

54:40

who

54:41

comes to it sort of later in life. Does

54:43

that make sense? Definitely. I definitely say

54:45

that is the case. Do you have an aversion

54:48

to being introspective? Does it

54:50

to a more personal or understated? Is

54:53

it a taste thing or is it ultimately like, I

54:55

guess maybe we would do better way of phrasing, do you think that

54:57

show business

54:59

background and growing up and that being your

55:01

reality makes it so like to you, that is

55:03

real. It is real to be sort of over the top where being

55:06

sort of quiet on stage is not ring true. Yeah,

55:08

I just would. I don't know. I don't

55:10

know. It would be like

55:11

it would just feel so unnatural to me.

55:14

And I do try to, you know,

55:17

push myself to go there

55:19

where possible. And yeah,

55:22

I guess I'm probably on a little bit of a journey

55:24

to doing more of that. And

55:27

as I say, like

55:28

earlier in the conversation, like trying to

55:31

maybe like think about

55:33

recalibrating my comic voice a

55:36

little bit as I grow up and mature

55:38

as a comedian, I feel like I'll probably

55:42

move more towards that as I get a little

55:44

bit older.

55:45

And as you know, mentioned, Alex's influence

55:48

as well. Like, that's one of the things that we always talk about.

55:50

And he's always telling me, you know, like, the

55:53

more personal you are on stage, that's when

55:55

you're at your best. And like, you

55:57

know, I don't know, like I. I

56:01

guess I probably maybe have had a little bit of

56:03

a fear of doing as much stuff

56:06

about that and have lent

56:08

more towards the

56:10

big, over-the-top theatrics.

56:12

And that also, yeah, I think

56:15

is probably something that might

56:17

shift. You started so young, and

56:20

as you said, a lot of it was sort of either

56:22

talking about how young you were or having that sort

56:24

of young energy or having a sort of man-child

56:27

sort of energy. And it's so hard for a comedian to find the voice,

56:29

period. So you had this voice, and

56:32

now you know you're 34, but that

56:34

to grow out of a voice is

56:36

always hard. It's hard to grow up, period, but it's hard for a

56:38

comedian to stop

56:41

a thing that is working to the level that is working for you

56:43

to be like, all right, I know this works for stames

56:45

of people. What is the mature

56:47

version of that? And I assume

56:50

that's sort of where you're working at now. What has that journey

56:52

been like?

56:53

Well, it's weird. Also, I

56:55

burnt through every single life experience

56:58

by the age of 21, because I started so early

57:00

and did like, I'd done two shows by that point, so

57:02

I'd gone through everything and talked about

57:05

it. And so, yeah,

57:08

that was a kind of like,

57:12

and frustrating

57:14

situation that

57:18

had occurred because I'd started so young. And

57:21

then the nature of doing

57:23

those big arena

57:25

shows, it's

57:28

certainly a

57:31

certain type of comedy that fits

57:34

those venues and

57:36

that type of tour better than other

57:39

types of comedy. So yeah, I don't know, I think, yeah,

57:41

I feel like I am probably going

57:44

to

57:45

develop as a comedian and certainly

57:47

feel,

57:49

yeah, I definitely still feel like I'm a kind of like

57:52

a work in progress. But

57:54

I think, yeah, a lot of comics

57:57

feel that way.

57:59

satisfied in ever the finished article

58:02

you were evolving. Yeah, it's

58:04

the pursuit. I mean, yeah, I think so. The

58:06

other, actually I want to take a step back

58:08

because I want to ask a question about the material you do about your

58:10

parents and all that, but I feel like it'd be useful for

58:13

people to know. Can you just share a brief

58:15

about the professional history of your parents to give people

58:17

contacts who might not be familiar?

58:19

Yeah. So my

58:21

dad, my dad

58:23

was a theatrical agent in the sort

58:26

of 70s and 80s and

58:29

looked after lots of very like,

58:33

you know, proper actors,

58:37

like Judi Dench and people like that. Do

58:39

you discover Daniel Day Lewis or are he signed the Medal of Colours?

58:42

Yeah, well, I could be an embellishment. I

58:44

didn't think about that until... No, I

58:47

think, to be fair, he

58:50

did. But

58:51

yeah, so he looked after all these very worthy

58:53

and successful actors and

58:56

my mum was an actress

59:01

of middling success. I would say

59:03

not due to

59:06

any lack of talent, but just, you

59:08

know, opportunity

59:11

and breaks. And

59:13

so she did some like stuff

59:16

in soaps and bit parts

59:18

and appeared in pantomime as the back end of a horse

59:21

and had various ignomonees

59:24

like that. And so,

59:26

yeah, she was an actress and he was an agent.

59:30

And so I grew up in a household where,

59:33

you know, all my godparents were actors

59:35

and there was lots of theater

59:37

trips to see clients of his and stuff. To

59:40

be honest, like when I was a bit older, he'd

59:43

sort of began to wind

59:45

down and a lot of his clients

59:47

had

59:48

left him and it was sort

59:50

of the end of an era. And

59:54

he was very adamant that I didn't become

59:56

an actor. I really wanted to become an actor, but he

59:58

was like, I honestly, Jack, I've

59:59

looked after so many actors that are out of work,

1:00:02

you need to get a proper profession

1:00:04

and I would really be very concerned

1:00:07

if you went to drama school and became an actor.

1:00:09

So I had to go to university and study

1:00:12

history of art and... For

1:00:14

two semesters or what? Yeah, like two semesters

1:00:16

and then found this route into

1:00:19

performing via stand-up comedy.

1:00:22

I don't

1:00:23

know if you're familiar, buddy. So New York Magazine

1:00:26

produces a podcast recently. They released an

1:00:28

issue about Nepo babies. Are you familiar with

1:00:30

this issue? I am. How

1:00:32

do you feel about the term generally? How do you feel about

1:00:34

it in recut your... I've decided to own a new

1:00:37

term which I talk about on stage in my current show.

1:00:39

Well, I think I'm the first person to have

1:00:41

a Nepo dad because yeah,

1:00:44

my dad was in the industry but like... And

1:00:46

obviously, there's

1:00:49

definitely a leg up in life

1:00:52

and I think less so with

1:00:54

like... I think that did

1:00:56

always like slightly irk me was people who are like, oh,

1:00:59

well, his dad's an agent so that's why he's on TV. It's

1:01:01

like my dad was a theatrical agent.

1:01:03

He was also like detested by every

1:01:05

single casting director in London. He was like one

1:01:07

of the least popular agents ever because he would just like

1:01:10

screw everyone on deals. Like I used

1:01:12

to go into castings when I wanted to be an actor

1:01:15

and they'd say, oh, your name's Whitehall.

1:01:17

The only relation to Michael Whitehall and the room would go

1:01:19

silent. And then I'd say, oh, Daddy, I had

1:01:22

a casting with this lady and

1:01:24

she seemed to recognize your name. Do

1:01:26

you remember her? And he was like, yes, I think the last

1:01:28

time I spoke her was 30 years ago

1:01:31

and I told her to go fuck herself because she

1:01:33

wouldn't throw in traveling accommodation for Richard

1:01:36

Griffiths. And so

1:01:39

he burnt more bridges than I think he built.

1:01:41

But that said, obviously, yeah,

1:01:44

the background of immense privilege. I've had

1:01:46

every leg up that one can in life, so I am

1:01:49

aware that there is definitely a degree of like

1:01:52

nepotism. But

1:01:53

I think he's the nepo dad. Like I

1:01:56

put him on TV and then

1:01:58

he is just like. He's like

1:02:00

a parasite. He's just infected

1:02:03

and eaten away at his host.

1:02:05

And now he is like thriving.

1:02:08

He's doing his own podcast and he's on reality

1:02:10

shows. And it's insane.

1:02:13

It is interesting because a lot of every convenience talks about their

1:02:15

parents in some ways. But you put them

1:02:18

in it. They materialize

1:02:20

in reality and then they became like an extension.

1:02:23

I know. Beyond you. They just sort of live

1:02:25

in the world. It's like a living joke that sort of just like

1:02:28

shows up on television. Well, also it's because

1:02:30

basically I talked about him so much on stage

1:02:32

and I was like, I think I've exhausted that avenue. I can't

1:02:35

talk about him anymore. And then Ben Kavey,

1:02:37

my friend, the producer said, why don't you

1:02:40

have him on stage, do something with him on stage?

1:02:42

And we did Edinburgh and he said, do a chat show.

1:02:45

He can sit in the corner and he'll just chip in every now

1:02:47

and again and be himself.

1:02:49

I was like, fine. We did two shows. And

1:02:52

it was very funny. And he just, you know,

1:02:55

derailed the interview every night and

1:02:58

just, you know, torched

1:03:01

any attempt that I would have to, you

1:03:04

know, present myself as a competent

1:03:06

interviewer by undermining

1:03:08

me and insulting me. And the audience

1:03:10

loved it. And there

1:03:13

was like a BBC producer and he was like, I want

1:03:15

to make a show of this. And we're like, no, no, no, no, literally

1:03:18

like kicking and screaming drag to

1:03:20

the studio to do the show because we didn't we

1:03:23

had no intention of doing anything together

1:03:25

beyond like a couple of just fun shows.

1:03:28

And then we ended up doing like three series of that. And

1:03:30

then I was like, we're done. Finally, I can

1:03:32

just go back to doing what I do and what I like

1:03:34

doing

1:03:35

and what I want to be focused on. And

1:03:37

then bloody Netflix were

1:03:39

like, oh, yeah, we had an idea

1:03:41

to do a travel show and you could go around

1:03:43

the world with him. And again, like not like

1:03:46

every other show that I've ever done has been me going

1:03:48

to the broadcasters and going, oh, please, will you let me do

1:03:51

this? And with the stuff with

1:03:53

my dad, it's always been them coming to

1:03:55

us going, can you just do this one more thing?

1:03:58

And then we've been like, oh, God, I guess so. And

1:04:00

then, and then now he's,

1:04:02

yeah, apparently it's just your dad. They're using

1:04:05

you to get to your dad. It's just, yeah.

1:04:07

The amount of people now, I used to get stopped in the street

1:04:10

and like people were like, oh, I love your stuff

1:04:12

and you're funny. It is now. It's like, oh, mate,

1:04:14

you have your dad so much funnier than you.

1:04:17

Or in America, I had and this is I

1:04:19

was in a hotel. I think he was in Arizona

1:04:22

when we were filming the show. And there

1:04:24

were two guys that walked past my dad, recognized

1:04:26

him, didn't recognize me,

1:04:28

which was obviously a ding to the

1:04:30

ego.

1:04:31

Then to make it even worse, as they walked

1:04:33

past me, I ever heard them and they were

1:04:35

like, oh, that's the man from Travels With My Father.

1:04:38

And the guy was like, what's Travels With My Father? Oh,

1:04:41

it's the show on Netflix. It's about an

1:04:43

esteemed elderly English gentleman

1:04:46

that travels the world with his doofus son.

1:04:49

And I was like, wow, that's

1:04:51

what I've been reduced to. I'm the doofus

1:04:54

son.

1:04:55

That's so funny. That is a reverse. Your

1:04:58

name's in the title. They should do Netflix,

1:05:00

should do a screen that is the same

1:05:02

show, but then it has with Michael. He suggested

1:05:05

that. I'm surprised. Nepodufus.

1:05:09

That will be my next. The other thing that I

1:05:11

have,

1:05:11

you know, and I thought

1:05:14

about this nepotism thing partly

1:05:16

that not just for you, but I think about

1:05:19

the part that sort of gets under discussed

1:05:21

is

1:05:22

a pursuit in show business often demands

1:05:25

a certain level of obsession that

1:05:27

relates to a certain amount of like unavailability,

1:05:30

both in terms of time or emotionally.

1:05:33

And then kids

1:05:34

go into the fields of their parents to

1:05:37

have access to them. They're

1:05:40

like, oh, they're famous. If I

1:05:42

also become an actor, then maybe we can hang out more

1:05:44

or whatever it is. Yeah.

1:05:46

Does that resonate with you? Yeah, definitely. And

1:05:48

definitely wanting to like, you

1:05:50

know, even though I didn't want to like

1:05:53

work with him and that was never part of the plan, like

1:05:55

going into that world and being part of his world

1:05:58

was definitely part of the. of

1:06:00

it and I saw the reverence

1:06:02

with which he held actors

1:06:05

and performers and people in that profession and definitely

1:06:07

wanted to be that because I wanted him to reveal

1:06:10

me and you know that that's definitely

1:06:13

part of it if I'd you know

1:06:15

dig a little deeper into what my motives

1:06:18

were back then and wanting his approval

1:06:20

and thinking that this man's the funniest guy

1:06:22

in the world and wanting him to think that

1:06:24

I was funny and like you

1:06:26

know what sort of worthy of his time

1:06:29

and attention and yeah

1:06:30

there was there was definitely

1:06:33

a degree of that I remember also thinking like

1:06:36

I don't know there

1:06:37

being there being a frustration when I was

1:06:39

a team that like when I spoke to him he didn't like

1:06:41

necessarily talk to me like I was

1:06:43

an adult and treat me as an adult and find

1:06:45

me particularly funny or interesting and he

1:06:48

was interesting and funny and had all of these interesting

1:06:50

and funny friends and you know and

1:06:53

I wasn't one of them and wanting

1:06:55

to sort of get his attention

1:06:58

and you know being

1:07:01

able to make him laugh and he's a very hard

1:07:03

nut to crack but there was yeah there

1:07:06

was a there's a lot of that

1:07:07

built into the desire to go

1:07:09

into career and performance yeah

1:07:11

I mean it also ties into sort of the other thing

1:07:13

that I think weaves through especially the show

1:07:15

which is him being older like an

1:07:18

older dad and both

1:07:20

the how you relate to each other and also

1:07:22

there's just sort of like so much pathos about the

1:07:25

thing about the show is like almost every

1:07:28

season ends with like I don't know how many times we could travel

1:07:30

together then you do another show but like clearly

1:07:32

there is a maximizing

1:07:35

time with him that drives you

1:07:37

yeah 100% with everything

1:07:39

and I think that's why I want

1:07:42

yeah that's why that definitely fuels

1:07:44

like an ambition and a desire

1:07:47

to do stuff that I can do with

1:07:49

him yeah while I can and for him to you

1:07:51

know to achieve things that he can

1:07:54

bask in as well whilst he's here and

1:07:56

and I share a lot of you know

1:07:59

the the highs with him and

1:08:02

enjoy being able to to do that and he

1:08:04

you know, he

1:08:05

He's been he definitely

1:08:08

has helped steer my Career

1:08:11

and work and he's a great sounding board.

1:08:14

He is a Even for

1:08:16

a sort of a 80 about to be 83 year

1:08:18

old man You

1:08:21

know

1:08:22

From a very very different generation. He's still

1:08:24

got like a good sense of

1:08:27

taste and judgment and I do run

1:08:29

a lot of stuff kind of like by him

1:08:31

and value

1:08:33

his opinion and

1:08:35

It also helps to have something like that that literally

1:08:37

has no filter if I'm doing something that I shouldn't be

1:08:39

doing He will tell me I will have no qualms

1:08:42

about it If I'm

1:08:43

yeah

1:08:44

related and this joke transitions to

1:08:46

the idea of America you're currently in America

1:08:48

as we speak What is success in

1:08:50

America mean to you especially at this point? Like

1:08:52

what did what is it? What data represent?

1:08:55

What does it represent? What

1:08:57

do you hope for it doesn't matter to you as much like

1:08:59

not only do you you're such a touring act big

1:09:02

touring acting You have shows that you Star

1:09:05

in or produce you have you know everything so what

1:09:07

what does America mean at this point in your career? Do

1:09:09

know it feels like it's just a new challenge and

1:09:11

that's exciting. I think

1:09:14

And I would in no way

1:09:16

want to take for granted my audience in the UK But

1:09:19

I guess there is a little bit of a ceiling in terms of what

1:09:21

you can achieve

1:09:24

and now and maybe I've

1:09:26

reached that and it's exciting

1:09:29

to be able to come over here and try and build

1:09:31

a new audience and you

1:09:33

know start

1:09:35

not from scratch necessarily,

1:09:37

but

1:09:39

to kind of like

1:09:41

go through that journey again in with a new group

1:09:43

of people and I'm about

1:09:46

to embark on my first kind

1:09:48

of US tour and that feels exciting

1:09:51

again and You

1:09:53

know, it's

1:09:54

gonna be a sort of

1:09:56

adventure and this certainly feels

1:10:00

different in a kind of like fresh challenge, which

1:10:03

is exciting. Wait, this is a side

1:10:05

note. Have you ever heard of the book Killing Bono?

1:10:08

Yes. I auditioned

1:10:10

for the film. So you know

1:10:12

what it's about. So it's such a guy who grew up with Bono. And

1:10:16

you have a similar relation with Robert Pattinson. I

1:10:18

need to give some of you a little bit of backstory about

1:10:20

my acting career. When I

1:10:22

was at school, I was a big fan

1:10:25

of drama. I know, shock

1:10:27

horror. Not

1:10:30

the only fan of drama at my school, though. The other guy that was

1:10:32

really into drama at my school was a

1:10:34

chap called Robert Pattinson.

1:10:37

There he is, young R. Patz,

1:10:39

star of the Twilight films. And

1:10:42

every time there was a school play at my school,

1:10:45

Robert Pattinson would get cast in the

1:10:47

lead role. And Villager 17

1:10:49

would go

1:10:52

to this guy.

1:10:53

Yeah,

1:10:56

laugh it up.

1:10:58

For some reason, my drama teacher

1:11:00

wanted the star of his play to be the young

1:11:03

James Dean and not the young Katie

1:11:05

Lang. And

1:11:08

it's fair to say that over the years I built up a little

1:11:10

bit of resentment towards R. Pattz. He became

1:11:12

my rival.

1:11:13

Rival's a strong word. Nemesis.

1:11:17

He is my nemesis. Oh yeah,

1:11:19

I've never thought of doing a book

1:11:21

called Killing R. Pattz. And

1:11:24

you also have a story about how you auditioned for Harry Potter.

1:11:27

And you didn't get it, but Emma Watson was

1:11:29

in your school and she did get it.

1:11:32

Do you want to be that famous? Do you want to be that

1:11:35

level of famous? I mean, I don't necessarily

1:11:38

hanker for that level of fame. I

1:11:41

mean, in terms of like

1:11:43

Robert Pattinson's career, I love the

1:11:45

work that he does. I

1:11:48

love the movies that he gets to make and the people

1:11:51

that he gets to work with. And I think he's made

1:11:53

excellent choices.

1:11:59

and I think he works with great people

1:12:02

and he's someone that has developed

1:12:04

as an artist and an actor.

1:12:06

I didn't think this was going to turn into a Robert Pattinson

1:12:08

love-in but uh... Well it's good. I'll

1:12:11

say this having listened to your interviews, it does

1:12:13

feel like you've now matured to like, it

1:12:15

used to be a begrudging respect or like

1:12:18

a he's very successful but like he's a terrible

1:12:20

actor and now it just seems... Oh no, he totally like

1:12:23

egg on my face, prove me wrong, you know, he's a

1:12:25

very very accomplished actor and uh...

1:12:28

Yeah maybe it was just the Twilight script. Yeah

1:12:31

yeah. Not his fault. But you'd like

1:12:33

the work but you don't need to be that famous. If you... No

1:12:35

no no, I just like... I don't know,

1:12:38

I mean I don't know what I want necessarily,

1:12:40

it sort of changes and I can't...

1:12:43

I don't know

1:12:44

whether that's just my restless mind but

1:12:47

I don't really know what I want, like part

1:12:49

of me is like I'd love to really challenge myself

1:12:51

as an actor and try to find some like

1:12:54

really

1:12:55

dramatic roles that surprise people

1:12:57

and I definitely... And I know I want that but

1:13:00

then I'm also like, I would also love to

1:13:02

do like big, broad,

1:13:04

Jim Carrey 90s style comedies

1:13:07

and I don't know whether you can do both of those anymore,

1:13:09

maybe you can. Jim Carrey tried. Jim

1:13:12

Carrey tried, yeah he did. But

1:13:14

like yeah, I look at the projects that I'm kind of

1:13:17

attracted to or developing and

1:13:20

is very varied but it's so hard,

1:13:22

I don't know... Again and again because it's slightly

1:13:24

out of your hands as to what people will go, right

1:13:27

we're willing to make this or we

1:13:29

like you doing that and that's another reason

1:13:31

that I like America. In terms of

1:13:33

like talking about

1:13:34

why I want to come over here and why I've

1:13:37

actively tried to kind of do stuff

1:13:39

in America, it's not about like breaking America because I

1:13:41

want more success and more fame, the thing

1:13:43

that I like about the States that is

1:13:46

hard for me in England is that in England I'm

1:13:48

so seen in a very, very

1:13:50

specific way, it's very, very hard

1:13:53

for anyone to see me as anything other than

1:13:55

that because they're used to me for the last 15

1:13:57

years being this big, broad...

1:14:00

idiotic, man-child, comedian.

1:14:03

And so it's so hard to get

1:14:05

out of that box. And in America, there's

1:14:08

definitely more of an opportunity to be seen

1:14:11

in a different light and to do different things and

1:14:13

to, you know, be able

1:14:16

to act in a drama or, you know,

1:14:19

play a completely different character because

1:14:21

there's less, as we mentioned

1:14:24

earlier, like, of a preconception about

1:14:26

me. And so I feel

1:14:28

like I get to start with a little bit more of

1:14:30

a blank canvas here. Yeah, I

1:14:32

mean, I think as we were talking about, like, it is

1:14:34

so hard, you had so much success with a persona,

1:14:37

the struggle to break out of it, to seem

1:14:40

more mature, is also a struggle of an audience

1:14:42

showing up expecting something. Exactly.

1:14:45

So to have an audience who does not necessarily expect as much,

1:14:47

I imagine, is

1:14:48

exactly what an artist who's been working

1:14:51

so long probably would be looking

1:14:53

for. Yeah.

1:14:54

And I definitely think, you know, they're like, yeah,

1:14:56

people want that persona and I feel that,

1:14:59

I feel that with everything I do. So I'm

1:15:02

like, I

1:15:03

give in, cave in and give

1:15:05

them what they want. But over here,

1:15:07

they don't know what the persona is. So I

1:15:10

can choose what I present to people. Oh.

1:15:18

So now it's time for the final segment of the show.

1:15:20

It's called The Laughing Round. It's like a lightning round, but because

1:15:23

it's a comedy podcast, I call it a laughing round.

1:15:25

Yeah.

1:15:25

Do you have a favorite joke joke? Like

1:15:28

a free joke or a dad joke?

1:15:30

Tim Vine.

1:15:31

Do you know Tim Vine? No. Great. He

1:15:34

just does puns. He's

1:15:35

like sort of like a kind of Stephen

1:15:37

Wright, but with a lot more energy. So

1:15:40

I think that's the opposite. Yeah. He's

1:15:42

like Stephen Wright's writing, if Stephen Wright was like heavily

1:15:45

caffeinated. Got it, cool. And he has a joke,

1:15:47

which is just very short, very simple, very sweet. Velcro,

1:15:50

what a ripoff.

1:15:52

So that would be my joke joke. Is

1:15:54

there a joke you wish you could steal or a joke you saw

1:15:56

another comedian do and you wish I had, it's like I wish I had

1:15:59

that bet. I wish I can do that.

1:15:59

every night. Michael McIntyre,

1:16:03

mandrel, that's a great routine. I

1:16:06

mean, yeah, Michael McIntyre is someone that I watch.

1:16:09

And I'm like,

1:16:10

in envy of his like ability as

1:16:13

a kind of

1:16:15

observer and writer.

1:16:17

Yeah. So yeah, mandrel. That's

1:16:20

a classic. Do you have a short story

1:16:22

of an interaction with a legendary comedian living

1:16:24

or dead that you're willing to share with us? I

1:16:28

had dinner with Jerry Seinfeld.

1:16:31

When me and my dad had

1:16:33

done a couple of series of the Netflix show, we were invited

1:16:36

to LA.

1:16:37

And Ted Sarandos invited us to dinner

1:16:39

to sort of thank us for doing

1:16:41

the show. And then sprung

1:16:43

it upon us that Fred Armisen and

1:16:46

Jerry Seinfeld were going to be the other guests at the dinner.

1:16:48

And I was like, Oh my God, I'm very, very nervous

1:16:51

and arrived with my mum and dad.

1:16:54

And I would not have brought my mum and dad had I known that those

1:16:56

were going to be the other guests. And I

1:16:58

think it was my dad. No,

1:17:01

maybe it was my mum that asked him what he did. And

1:17:04

I was like, Oh God, please just stop

1:17:06

talking woman. But he was very, very gracious

1:17:09

and dealt with it wonderfully. And then yeah,

1:17:11

it must be so unlike you were talking about, but it's

1:17:14

so refreshing if just have someone to just

1:17:16

free of expectations. The

1:17:19

other one that I had the other night was just horrendous.

1:17:22

He was always at a friend's birthday and Larry David was

1:17:24

in attendance. And after dinner, they brought

1:17:27

out like a karaoke machine and some

1:17:28

of thrust a microphone in front of my face.

1:17:31

And I sang like a karaoke version of

1:17:33

one the wall and completely cleared the room,

1:17:36

including my hero, Larry David, and didn't even pluck

1:17:38

up the courage to go and speak to him. The only

1:17:41

knowledge of me is that I murdered an

1:17:43

Oasis song in front of him and really

1:17:46

ruined that opportunity. Do

1:17:47

you have a favourite

1:17:49

time you bombed?

1:17:51

Well, I love that the Prince

1:17:53

Charles bombing in front of him, because

1:17:56

even though I was bombing and

1:17:58

that was one of those ones where even in the moment.

1:17:59

I was like, this is gonna make a great story.

1:18:02

Do

1:18:05

you have advice? You have to give a comedian? Advice

1:18:08

to give a comedian.

1:18:10

I mean, don't be frustrated

1:18:12

when I first started.

1:18:15

And I was going through all my different

1:18:18

iterations of my persona

1:18:21

on stage, and people kept saying, You're a good

1:18:23

joke writer, but you just need to find your voice.

1:18:25

And I was so frustrated. And

1:18:27

I was like, can you, can, I don't understand.

1:18:30

Why are you talking in riddles?

1:18:32

Can someone just tell me what my voice is? Just

1:18:35

tell me what the voice is.

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