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2:00

Hey guys,

2:06

welcome back to the Dalsy and the

2:08

Gull podcast. It's Brooke and Danielle

2:10

and we're so excited. We

2:12

have had some amazing guests on I feel like and today

2:14

you guys are just going to get Brooke and Danny. Brooke

2:17

in the original recipe. Original

2:21

pod. Just the two of us. Hope

2:23

you're all having a fabulous day as you're on your

2:25

commute or you're on your little walk or

2:28

folding laundry as I always say. That's my favorite thing

2:30

to know. I know Danielle folds a lot of laundry.

2:32

Yeah, clearly. Because you have a lot of content for

2:34

it. I need, I just, you know,

2:37

those errands or errands of course. That's

2:40

all we do. That's all we do. No,

2:42

we don't do anything else. But

2:44

we are always so grateful that you guys

2:46

listen to our podcast. So also we never

2:48

say this. If you guys do love our

2:50

podcast, give us a thumbs up on YouTube.

2:52

Give us a follow on Spotify, Apple rating,

2:54

five stars if you feel. Yeah. It

2:57

takes two seconds. So easy and it really helps us. Like we'd

2:59

love to like be in some charts. That'd be fun. Yeah.

3:02

Let's do the damn thing. Let's do the damn thing. Yeah.

3:05

So we're recording this from LA. We're here at the

3:08

podcast one studio. I mean, I'm obsessed. Can I move

3:10

in here? It's gorgeous. It's so nice to us and

3:12

it feels like home because it's our network. So it's

3:14

even more exciting. Yeah. Everyone's, I

3:16

feel important. Like everybody comes in. They're like, Hey,

3:18

nice, nice to meet you. Yeah. Like,

3:21

you want to meet me? Yeah. And

3:23

I got us pizza bagels the other day. Like they're

3:25

always like, so like when we walk into the studio.

3:27

It's like podcast one, welcome, scales and the go. Like,

3:29

no, it feels like we're here for like a corporate

3:31

presentation or something. Yeah. You guys need to come

3:33

to LA more often. It's really so

3:36

nice. We've had such a good time. We've just

3:38

been driving around, having lots of giggles. Last night

3:40

we went to the comedy store. We

3:42

did. So I just, I feel like

3:44

I've heard of this as an iconic, iconic

3:46

comedy venue in LA. Oh, we'll say what you said

3:48

to me last night. What people call it. The

3:51

store. Yeah. Brooke was like,

3:53

well, you know, industry people would call this the store. I

3:55

hadn't heard it. I've heard it. Oh, I thought I was

3:57

at the store. We got Trevor Wallace. I

4:00

get the hype, I get the hype. I feel like I've

4:02

seen his videos and the little clips and

4:04

a bunch of other comedians. Comedy styles, different

4:06

out here in LA. It's different. I

4:09

think New York, a lot of the humor they use,

4:11

for a good reason, is like, but the subway and

4:13

experiences you have in New York, and they do that

4:15

here but for LA, and so we couldn't relate as

4:17

much. Yeah, the Valley people be like, and we're like,

4:20

we have literally no idea what this means. Yeah, exactly.

4:22

We're like, just another language. But then again, I feel

4:24

like there's a lot

4:26

of people go, I guess, tourist in

4:28

both places. I mean, not for the tour,

4:30

not for the tour, not feel bad. But

4:32

and that's only like one little percentage of

4:35

their sets, I feel like. But, and it's

4:37

so funny, they all talk about Coachella. But

4:40

we also go to so many comedy shows

4:42

that people are probably like, okay, who cares? But we had so

4:44

much fun. It was so interesting though. We

4:46

were at the show and they sat us in the second

4:49

row. I was so excited. I was like, let's get made

4:51

fun of. Obviously would have loved the front row, but I

4:53

think you have to pay extra for the front row. And

4:56

we're on a budget. No, I'm kidding. We set

4:58

us up with tickets. Our agent set us up.

5:00

I know, it was so cool. We're on a list. I know,

5:02

we're on the list. It didn't really mean much, but it was cool.

5:04

We were on a list that we were on and it was really

5:06

cool. So we were really appreciative of that. But

5:08

then the whole show, there ends up being an empty table

5:10

in front of us. And I hated every second of that.

5:12

Hated it. I didn't like it either. I was like, can

5:14

we move up, can we move up, can we move up? But

5:17

we didn't wanna break every new rules or anything. Yeah, of

5:19

course. Well, I think also, I feel like you, well,

5:22

you were saying like at our shows, like if

5:24

there's a free chair right in the front, we

5:26

want someone to sit there because it makes them

5:28

a performer. You're like, I relate as a performer.

5:31

Well, I'm used to this now, playing at these

5:33

clubs, you know? And like for them too, like,

5:35

yeah, exactly. They wanna feed off of us. Not

5:37

one of them talked to us. I was so

5:39

sad. No. I love crowd work. I

5:42

know you do too. Yeah, I was excited. Not

5:44

excited. I was ready to, I'm an influencer

5:46

and then they have their

5:48

bets. Someone really did make fun of podcasting.

5:51

Yeah, they were like, they're just giving anybody a mic and a

5:53

camera these days. I know. They

5:55

looked at each other. Yeah, I really, that's really funny. It probably hits

5:57

different, I like. So I feel like it's really,

5:59

yeah. podcast? No, that was

6:02

fun. We also, well we've

6:04

been like working, recording a

6:06

ton of podcasts that you guys are gonna... So

6:08

many podcasts you guys. Podcast, podcast. But then

6:10

we have had a little bit of

6:12

pocket, free time, pockets of

6:14

fun. I feel like you've been our

6:17

social director Danielle has been keeping me on track.

6:19

She's like, okay Brooke we have to leave now. Hello,

6:22

no. But I am not like that. You're more

6:24

like Taipei, brain like that. Is it okay that

6:26

I'm doing this? Yeah. Okay, I get nervous that

6:28

it's like... No, I don't love to be late

6:30

or anything. I just am like getting

6:33

caught up in like... No, that's what I wish I was

6:35

better at. You're so good. You're so in the moment when

6:37

you're talking with people. Oh really? And it's so present and

6:39

amazing and I wish I was more like that because when

6:41

I know I have somewhere else to be, even it's like

6:43

my best friend in the world, like towards the end of

6:45

the conversation when I'm like looking at that, I'm like, oh my

6:48

god, I actually have to go. But you don't want to like be

6:50

a bitch, especially someone you love. Yeah, and be

6:52

like rushing. I'm like, hurry up, hurry up. Yeah.

6:54

Yeah, so but it's worked out well. Like I

6:56

feel like we each have our strengths and I'll be like, okay Brooke, and you're like,

6:59

oh yeah, totally. Like as soon as I say wrap it up,

7:01

we'll wrap it up. And then we

7:03

go to the next place and it's really fun. And

7:05

you're keeping us on calendar. It's like you're the one

7:07

that's like we have to be at this place. Here's

7:09

the address. Here's this... But you're good at logistics. You'll

7:11

be like, you know, we simply can't go to both

7:13

of those things. Like you'll look ahead. It's the time.

7:15

Yeah, you'll be like, we have to drive everywhere here.

7:17

We balance each other out. Yeah, but... It's been working

7:19

out really well. We're going Aries. But yeah, we've gotten...

7:21

We've basically like done a lot of... both

7:23

of our podcasts until like one or two o'clock.

7:26

Oh, no, that's a lie. Longer than

7:28

that. But the last day or two, we've had like a

7:30

little bit more free time, I'd say. Yesterday,

7:33

not the day before. Yesterday and today. I mean,

7:35

yeah, yesterday. Yeah, yeah, yeah. The first two days

7:38

we did a ton of podcast meetings. And

7:40

it was... It felt really good. Like, I'm

7:42

sure you guys loved by this point, the

7:45

pretty basic episode of that. Yes.

7:47

And everybody liked what we said. And we have some

7:49

more in the can. Yeah. Coming out. My parents always

7:51

say that like, you guys should recruit. And that says,

7:53

keeping the can. Keeping the

7:55

can. They're like batch recording. Like,

7:58

just keep them. in

8:00

the can just in case one of you is

8:02

feeling well. I'm like, it's not a bad idea,

8:04

but the can is just a funny. I like

8:06

it. Keep it in the can. I don't really.

8:08

It's really funny. Yeah. You're

8:11

getting a phone call. And we have a running joke that Danielle

8:13

always gets phone calls from Ryan at the most inconvenient times, but

8:15

it's actually not from Ryan. It's my brother. Yeah,

8:17

he also calls a lot. He's trying to

8:19

convince me because we're going to Miami. He'll

8:22

rogue text me. I feel like your brother's the

8:24

same. We don't hear from them. And they call with

8:26

an idea or a proposal. So

8:28

he text me and he was like, hear me out.

8:31

He says 30 minute flight from Miami to

8:33

Tampa. Come see me. Come through. And

8:36

I'm like, it's like the sweetest taxi. I

8:38

feel like I actually like

8:40

I have somewhere to be on Monday. Because

8:42

you can book a flight. I know. You

8:45

know, you know. I

8:48

wish I could see him. It's like it's a sweet thing. But

8:50

yeah, it's this running joke that they

8:52

always call it the most inopportune times. Yeah, I know. I'm

8:54

like, where were you when I was like sitting? But

8:58

grass is always great. Of course. No, you're very

9:00

grateful. Yes, we've done some fun things. The girls have done it.

9:03

So yesterday was a free day. And

9:06

Danielle actually pitched me the idea. She

9:08

was like, while we're out there in LA, we've

9:11

been in winter in New York. So she was like, well, we're

9:13

out there. We'd really love to get to the beach at some

9:15

point. And you're like, either Santa Monica or Malibu. I

9:18

was like, we're going to send it. Let's send it. Go

9:20

all the way. Let's go all the

9:22

way to the PCA. Actually,

9:26

we didn't announce this yet. But we

9:28

did an episode with Girls Got Eats coming up initially

9:31

in Raina. And they just stayed tuned for that. But

9:36

they actually gave us the idea. They asked what we're doing

9:38

this week. And we're like, oh, we want to go

9:40

to Malibu. And

9:43

they were like, oh my gosh, you guys, are you so

9:45

house members? And we're like, yes. OK, you can go

9:48

to Malibu house. Or what's it, a

9:50

little beach house? Little

9:52

beach house Malibu, I think. Yes, you just email

9:54

them as for a day pass. We're

9:56

like, all right, we'll just do this. Yeah,

9:59

because I guess. Think you can apply to

10:01

be a member there solely but like we're

10:03

like global members So I think that's why

10:05

maybe I'm like global. I got that global.

10:07

That's where I use So

10:09

has the most let's say podcast one use so how's the

10:11

most if like when you're in Miami if you're in I

10:14

think this one Chicago we didn't end

10:16

up going but like it's it's fun

10:18

when you're in a different place Anyways, so grateful to

10:20

them for that wreck. It was the

10:22

most well first off the drive

10:24

there So there was like an hour drive and there was

10:26

like an hour 30 drive But half

10:29

the reason we rented the car was a little bit for this Malibu

10:31

trip So we could drive along the pch Vibe

10:33

out listen to really good music and we found

10:36

such a good place There's literally playlists on

10:38

Spotify called driving to Malibu or driving

10:40

down pch and we were having a really

10:42

nice time Just enjoying ourselves. I mean

10:44

then we did hit traffic like that Yeah, then it was

10:46

like that was the LA traffic that everybody speaks of you

10:48

know It because we were cruising

10:51

for a while and it was actually like out of a

10:53

movie scene, you know We're listening to the music we see

10:55

the house. We're like whoo Then

10:57

all of a sudden we hit the traffic right? Okay,

10:59

no worries. No worries We're not rushed or anything, you

11:01

know, and Danielle and I were we're constantly a meeting.

11:04

Yeah, we're like brainstorming We're on the

11:06

next thing We're

11:08

driving. We're inching along, you know, three mile per

11:10

hour five mile per hour stop three mile per hour five

11:12

mile per hour Stop we're seeing some of like

11:14

the food offerings on the side Whatever

11:16

really tough. We're just gabbing away. We were

11:18

unbothered really. No, I was chill cuz we

11:20

at that point at that point Oh,

11:24

yeah, frickin eyes obsession The

11:27

woods Danielle taught it to me the recent he said Like

11:30

the way she tells stories she'll say phrases

11:32

like mind you at that point at this

11:34

point Keep in mind and now

11:37

now we keep saying it for everything

11:39

We're just saying at that point we

11:41

didn't yeah, keep in mind mind you

11:43

like we'll just like say them all

11:45

in one sentence It's

11:47

fun at that point. We didn't have much else to do

11:49

that day I knew we're going to a comedy show we

11:51

knew what the light days were like, you know traffic no

11:54

worries Yep, not like from New York or anything

11:56

and no worries Yeah,

11:58

we're cruising We started pointing out some

12:01

of the food places. Yeah. Oh my god. She's I said

12:03

I was a little hungry Yeah, I think that's what it

12:05

was. We're joking around though. Like, you know, I was snacking

12:07

on my um Kind of

12:09

a rogue snack choice. I got dried mango

12:11

with chili. It was quite spicy. I yeah,

12:14

was it good I like dried mango

12:16

not freeze dried mango like dried mango. Yeah. Yeah, I

12:18

like it. It was for marijuana So like,

12:21

you know, of course, of course, but it was

12:23

spicy enough that I had to like drink my water I was yeah

12:28

But I needed a little snack Yeah so then

12:30

we're like driving along and I see this one

12:32

restaurant I'm like, oh like as a joke like

12:34

Should we go there and as I say there

12:36

because that there we get

12:38

a bump a Tap

12:41

a lot. I mean it was definitely a

12:43

bump from behind Well,

12:45

actually I wasn't sure what it was at first. I thought it could be

12:47

the car stalling Oh, yeah, like something

12:49

you knew as a tap though. I knew immediately I mean

12:51

like I felt it and the first thing is like, oh

12:53

my god, am I okay? Like you think about

12:56

like, oh whatever but then we both just froze.

12:58

Well, you were like, are you okay? I'm gonna use your neck.

13:00

Okay, you were very good about it Well, I froze

13:02

and then we were like, what do we do? Like

13:04

it was almost like we knew there was probably no

13:07

damage and we were in this line I was like

13:09

do we have to get out of the flying of

13:11

traffic? But we were like, yeah, cuz we're laying over

13:13

if yeah, what are we gonna do? So

13:16

I think about the rental car. I feel like when you're driving The

13:19

biggest fear when you're driving a rental car, you're like, okay I

13:21

burned the car just can't get ruined

13:23

because like that's that's the one rule

13:25

Yeah, we did buy like a little

13:27

insurance for each day So I we

13:30

were thinking about that but we were like, okay, let's

13:32

you thought about that You were like, I'm gonna get

13:34

the it was like scratches protection It was like the

13:37

smallest one But I was like, I don't want them

13:39

to be like ma'am There's I'm like, yeah, I'm dealing

13:41

with that because I feel like even when you park

13:43

here like someone could of course You're like, yeah slide

13:45

along your car So I'm like we have to

13:47

pull a turnaround we turn around the guy like

13:49

we're making icon Making eye contact

13:52

with the guy and he just put his hazards

13:54

on so he was gonna stay in this the second lane

13:56

from The right to like the left lane. It was

13:59

Stan still chopped you. Mind you at that

14:01

point. At this point it was Zanzil traffic so

14:03

he was locked. He didn't want to move. And

14:05

that's just also rude because there's already so much

14:07

traffic. Yeah so he was just going to not

14:09

move make everybody go around him. So

14:12

then Daniel was like what should I do? We're

14:14

like okay let's get over. Yeah. You handled

14:16

it so well. What did you do? Well

14:18

so then I needed Brooke's help though because

14:20

so I'm like trying to put my blinker

14:22

on so I can go cross over to

14:24

which to the parking lot of this restaurant

14:26

I pointed at at that point. You were

14:28

like should we get Thai food? Yes, Thai

14:30

food. And then I'm like okay well now we're

14:33

in this Thai food parking lot so I feel like we should have

14:35

eaten there. Who knows. Yes so Daniel gets us over one lane

14:37

and then we have to go over one more lane but then

14:39

I was like this guy could just go on

14:41

the he could. He was staying there he wasn't following

14:43

us. He wasn't moving. So then I said no

14:45

worries. I rolled down my window and I pointed

14:49

with my pointer finger at

14:51

his car directly I go you get

14:55

over. He has her like brown white

14:57

touquet sunglasses on like it was giving

14:59

like Paris Hilton like yes get over

15:02

here. Everyone's

15:04

watching. And

15:07

I pointed with my full chest you get

15:09

over and he doesn't even he makes

15:11

almost no emotion that he saw he

15:13

just gives a small little nod. Yes

15:16

okay so we pull up

15:19

we get over we get out of the car

15:21

first and we check no damage. I mean we're

15:23

good so then we're like how do we proceed?

15:25

I know we were like damn like I want to

15:27

teach this guy a lesson but I know it's like we

15:29

got to give a little something to him because he was

15:31

clearly on his phone or something like there's no reason

15:33

why you should have hit you know like absolutely

15:35

none. None. So

15:37

then he pulls up and

15:39

I'm like he doesn't I feel like you would

15:41

get out of your car immediately like are you okay?

15:44

Two girls versus one guy like come on. You're

15:46

right and you'd say oh my gosh are you

15:48

okay? I'm so or at least act a little

15:50

apologetic like eyebrow furrow or something. Yeah give me

15:53

an excuse. Yeah and so he

15:55

opens the door he doesn't even get out he's just like sitting

15:57

there and he's like he the first thing he says

15:59

to me is like I'm looking for my information

16:01

and I'm like I'm still waiting for him to say I'm

16:03

sorry cuz I'm not gonna say I'm sorry Like we were

16:05

just no So

16:08

then I was like, oh,

16:10

well actually it's okay like not that even apologize

16:12

It's actually okay. Like there's nothing we just checked

16:14

back cause no chips. No damage anything. So it's fine

16:16

And he was like, oh, are you sure

16:18

and I was like, yeah, it's fine. He's

16:20

like, okay. Sorry. I said just be safe Okay, be

16:22

careful. Oh, yeah, like Tom. Let's just be

16:24

safe and I walk away in my flowy dress

16:27

like I made a Malibu like really funny. I

16:29

bothered me though It's like could you at least

16:31

just like I mean obviously we were okay and

16:33

we weren't gonna you know people like oh my

16:35

neck But yeah, that's why you should not go

16:37

guys I

16:40

know I like I got it though I do

16:42

you do hear that they say like But

16:45

that's like you if you're gonna file an insurance claim I think they

16:47

say to go to the hospital to get checked out out or whatever

16:49

to like Because

16:51

just in case I know that our point

16:53

your neck was crooked mine, you know Quick

16:56

and you got yeah like something happened. Yeah, but what

16:59

laughs or whatever it was so like I mean, we're

17:01

literally two miles per hour. Like there's no way it

17:03

was just like bumper cars almost was like Oh, yeah,

17:05

and we were in it. We're in a pretty

17:07

big car. So I think that's also why probably we're sad

17:10

So but it was like a unit of a

17:12

car like worse. I know Not

17:15

a truck, but it feels like so it worked out.

17:17

Yeah You

17:21

Know Literally, like I feel

17:23

like your whole body was out of the window like come on

17:28

People got a free show that I can't believe

17:30

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bags. She was like, Oh my gosh, of

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course, like, everything is just like, of

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course, no worries. For sure. What else can I do

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for you? Like, it just feels like people are like,

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New York could never. I know sometimes I feel like in

21:03

New York, I feel like I'm an inconvenience for everybody. But

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you are I mean, yep, because we are because

21:08

we are. Everyone is so we

21:10

like, I feel like sometimes LA gets like

21:12

a bad rep. And I sometimes maybe I've

21:14

thought that myself. Me too vibes and gals

21:17

are here to say that we've had a really great experience.

21:19

Yeah, LA is in its redemption era for us. Yeah, I

21:21

will say we've all of our friends that lived here. We've

21:23

never anything to do with that. So just in

21:25

the industry. But like, like we said, like, everyone

21:27

here at podcast one has been so amazing and

21:30

so sweet to us. Yeah, I will add the

21:32

people that we've met. We've met some subscribers, like

21:34

everybody has shown out lovely, like we're, we're

21:36

blessed, I would say. So I would say,

21:40

for me, this is probably my favorite LA trip I've ever

21:42

done. Yeah, no, same. This is been the best.

21:45

But what we really need to talk about mind

21:47

you at this point, at this point

21:49

of this podcast, you guys Brooke is on her first

21:52

out of four trips. It's

21:54

a lot of trips like a lot of this way.

21:56

Wait, no, no, no, no, one, two, I think I'd

21:59

be back and my I think I'm backed by this

22:01

at this point. Sorry, at this point

22:03

of recording. At this point

22:05

of recording, you're only on one out of four. At this point

22:07

of recording, I'm on one out of four. At this point when

22:09

the episode goes up, I have returned. You'll be returned. Hopefully, safety.

22:12

Hopefully, safety. Yes, I'm

22:14

traveling by land, boat, and sea. Literally.

22:17

Yeah, no. So please walk us through

22:19

your journey. Boat and sea. Land,

22:22

air, and sea. Yes. That's

22:24

what it is. Land, air, oh my gosh. So I

22:28

booked forever ago. I feel very

22:30

fortunate. I booked a... I'm working with Virgin

22:32

Voyages going on my maiden voyage. Maiden Virgin

22:34

Voyage. But I'm not a... I love a

22:36

cruise, you know me. Yeah, you have cruises.

22:38

I've been on many cruises. Yes. So

22:41

I knew that it was like my boyfriend's spring break. I was

22:43

like, let's go on our maiden voyage. Virgin Voyages.

22:45

It's adult only. I can't fucking wait because it's

22:47

adult. That's the worst part about a cruise is

22:50

the families and stuff. I know. That's

22:52

great if you're a family. Fantastic for them. But

22:54

like, you know, it's nice that there's a distinction that you

22:56

have that option or you don't. Because

22:59

at this point, I do not have

23:01

any children mind you. Yeah.

23:04

It's so fun. It's so fun. Please, please, please do

23:07

the... Stay with us. Thank you. Thank

23:09

you. Mind

23:12

you, I'm really excited for this

23:14

trip. Then we booked LA. I

23:16

was like, oh, I have a week free here. So then

23:18

it kind of fills in. I was like, all right, somehow I need to get

23:20

to Miami and this in between. Manifested

23:24

that. So, Moroccan Oil

23:26

said, hey, we're having a brand trip for

23:28

the Miami Open. So

23:31

come watch some tennis and get your

23:33

hair done and try the new product. And stay

23:35

at the One Hotel. Literally. And go to Carbone.

23:37

All of our favorite things in one trip. And

23:39

it just so happens to be the

23:41

days in between this trip and

23:44

my trip, my maiden Virgin

23:46

voyage that leaves from Miami. So I feel

23:48

very lucky. It all worked out. It's

23:51

so great. I'm so excited. Thank you.

23:53

I feel really lucky. So we go

23:55

LA to Miami, Miami to the Mexico

23:58

and the Bahamas. And then

24:00

from there we return to Miami and we're gonna

24:02

go to Boca for a few days hanging out

24:04

Ben's grandparents. I Don't

24:08

like to do this Such

24:10

a privilege to take obviously, but I I'm a homebody

24:12

if you guys know me I'm gonna go but like

24:14

no really my gallon I'll go to bed Yeah,

24:21

I just like to I like a pit stop at

24:23

my yeah, so do I I mean who doesn't it's

24:25

nice to like repack the suitcase Yeah, cuz I had

24:27

to pack for like I mean I packed really poorly

24:29

like it was just I Don't think

24:31

I think you feel that for LA but I think the

24:33

rest will be fine Yeah, mm-hmm. Yeah, the rest are all

24:35

the same and LA really is too, but LA's been a

24:38

little bit chillier than I think Yeah,

24:40

I brought one sweater. I've worn it every day. Yeah, it's

24:43

coming in that white butter like has seen some

24:45

shit It

24:51

smells oh I don't mean I

24:54

meant like it's been around It

24:57

went to the comedy show. Yeah, it went

24:59

to went to probably Yeah,

25:02

it did and went to the coffee shop this morning.

25:04

Yeah, we went to community good That was great behind

25:06

went to John Vinnie's great I'm like we like this

25:09

is a really good LA trip because we've like we

25:11

purposely try to try new places Yeah that we've been

25:13

wanting to try that are like and some classic faves

25:15

and the Grove of course as well Sun

25:18

life great smoothies. Yeah, I booked it some

25:20

soul cycle. I did some pilates one

25:22

one One-h one

25:25

singular. Yeah, I convinced her to not go this

25:27

morning. So we did a lot We went for

25:29

a 30-minute walk. There were some hills Over

25:33

back, but the hill that went down.

25:35

Yeah, but downhill That's

25:38

over. Oh my god. I'm trying to what's what is

25:40

it working out your calves? Oh, okay. Yes, I'm trying

25:42

to think So

25:45

um, so these are my trips and I'm really

25:47

excited. I also like haven't really traveled We

25:50

went to Texas to see can't know us redemption

25:52

from January. It's like January. You needed all these trips.

25:54

I needed a trip Yeah, so I'm really really happy

25:56

for you. Thank you So trip

25:58

back to back to back Then I'll

26:00

be back. So we'll see I'm

26:03

excited. I feel like all of them are like kind of Adventure

26:06

filled the trip like these are like, you know,

26:08

it's not Like oh, I'm

26:10

just going and sitting at like a house. I guess like

26:12

it's we have Then wants to

26:14

do excursions like that kind of trip. Yeah,

26:16

it's nice of you But yeah, it's fun. Like you'll

26:18

be happy once you know, I'm so excited. Are you

26:21

like ziplining? It's just like that No

26:25

Not that I think I

26:27

don't think like scuba dive your peace kids will scuba

26:29

dive. I think maybe I Think

26:31

we're gonna do like a chocolate tasting glass.

26:33

Oh, I'm saying like it was like chill.

26:35

Yeah, that'll be good No peanuts for

26:38

me, please. So, you know, yeah, Brooke.

26:40

Yes, but what about you? What well,

26:42

then you return home after this and like I will

26:44

return. I know it's like what are your plans next week?

26:46

I won't be there. See you. I know I'm off. I'm

26:49

I'm off It's

26:51

so weird like like Brooke showing to Italy

26:53

and I Like oh

26:55

my god those two weeks like cuz I'm sure

26:58

we're gonna have pre-recorded podcast. So it is fun

27:01

Not fun, but like you're like, I love them Nothing

27:07

like I wish you were still there but it's fun to

27:09

have them pre-recorded in the can and the can it's gonna

27:11

have them In the can I can't lie because I'm like,

27:13

oh my gosh, like the vert I think it's just like

27:15

the planner in me. It's like, oh my god. We literally

27:17

have these lined up We already have the photos

27:19

taken for them Like it feels it feels good

27:22

to like be ahead for sure because we we

27:24

do pride ourselves and we sure we like to

27:26

have our Podcasts pretty current so we're usually like

27:29

Basically every week at the bottom of the lot like

27:31

okay We like have to get this up, but it is

27:33

fun sometimes to be like, yeah, these old are ready Um,

27:36

I don't know where I was going. Oh, oh

27:38

you'll be gone I'm doing a photo shoot for

27:40

something really exciting that I'll be announcing big things

27:42

coming big things coming. It'll be Easter I'm going

27:44

to stay with my aunt on Long Island. Oh,

27:46

yeah You told me your lineup

27:48

is full. Yeah, and then right when you get

27:50

back I'll be leaving because I'm going to a wedding

27:53

My bad. Wait, are you gone for the whole week?

27:56

No, but like yeah, like come back Yeah

28:00

I'm going to South Carolina for a wedding, but you'll have

28:02

some. I don't, yeah, I'll be up to, who knows, it'll

28:04

be up to while you're gone. Messing

28:07

around New York City. I'll hold it

28:09

down for you. Oh, thanks. Yeah. Keep

28:12

her under control. But yeah, so

28:14

that's kind of where we're at at this point.

28:16

Mind you. Mind you.

28:19

We will keep you guys updated next

28:21

week with, you know, everything. Yeah. Yeah,

28:23

we're so excited. And we'll

28:25

release the guest episodes periodically so that you

28:27

guys will still hear from us, like currently.

28:30

Yeah. And they're all going to have current

28:32

intros. So like, it's like, so if you see a guest episode and you're

28:34

like, Oh my gosh, this is so old.

28:36

It's like the current. Yeah. I'm

28:38

glad you said that. No, because we do, like we said,

28:40

we pride ourselves in like keeping a current. So yeah, you'll

28:42

have still updates from us every week. And

28:46

yeah, so fun. We're entering a really exciting and

28:48

busy season. I feel like April, May. Yes.

28:51

Like, Oh, I'm excited. We both have big

28:53

things coming. I feel. Yeah, we

28:55

do. Your thing might. I don't. Yeah.

28:58

I don't want to hype it up too much. Okay.

29:01

So we have listener

29:03

submissions from you guys. We're going to do some

29:05

girl talk unless there's anything else catch up and mustard. I'm

29:07

trying to think. No, I mean, we've been talking. Yeah,

29:09

we've been talking all week. Can we count what episode

29:12

this is? We did three the first day. Wow.

29:15

I'm counting like podcasts. We've been on as well.

29:18

Two for the plane. I

29:21

was going to say my maiden voyage is waiting for me right

29:23

outside of your horn. Like,

29:25

because you know that. Yeah. Two,

29:28

four, five. Okay. Six.

29:30

This is our sixth. This is our seventh episode.

29:32

Yeah. It's a lot of content content. I

29:35

thought you were saying some another

29:37

word. Content.

29:39

Okay. So

29:41

Brooke's got some, you guys, we love girl

29:43

talk and we thought this would be a

29:45

fun little check in of doing some spicy

29:47

catch up girl talk. So

29:50

Brooke, what you got for us? Oh, I'm kicking

29:52

her off. Yeah, I'm not logged in. Oh,

29:54

sorry. Sorry. I'm on the, uh, at

29:56

gals on the go podcast follows on Instagram and we

29:58

just said, ask us things.

30:00

and yeah,

30:03

girl talk. I guess. Girl talk. We love girl talk. I actually

30:05

think this is really interesting. How

30:08

do you feel about splitting bills with an S.O. when one makes more

30:10

money than the other? Like

30:14

we never really talk about like finances with like relationships

30:16

and whatnot and I feel like that we actually have

30:18

kind of unpacked this a lot in the recent like

30:20

I think individually like we've been yeah, we talk about

30:22

it. We talk about it a lot and And

30:25

I my answer to this is there is no

30:27

answer like every couple is different every relationship is different Like

30:29

you have to do what works for you because I feel

30:31

like there's a lot of toxic advice on both sides Yeah,

30:33

I see a lot of you know He

30:36

has to pay for everything and if he doesn't block

30:39

him fuck him and then I see the other side

30:41

That's like and they're both empowered feminists takes you know

30:43

and I'm some stew so like not to say the

30:45

ones right or wrong Then there's the other side. That's

30:47

like well. I'm a feminist. I believe we're 50-50, so

30:49

it's like you hear And

30:52

you're like okay, so which one is right there is no

30:54

right I like that that's a good answer I mean I

30:56

I mean I could share kind of like I Generally

31:00

go by if I text Ryan,

31:02

and I'm like hey really want to try this

31:04

Italian spot tonight I'm gonna offer

31:06

to pay we I mean we

31:08

don't I feel like what

31:10

we do And this is what works for us is

31:13

like one of us pays and then like

31:15

the next time. It's like someone else or So

31:18

yeah, yeah anyways if I

31:20

text him then I'm offering if he's like hey

31:22

I want to get dinner or hey, let's order

31:24

uber eats like I'm gonna expect him because he

31:27

like offered it That's kind

31:29

of how it works or if it was a mutual decision

31:31

that we both wanted to then it's like oh you got

31:33

breakfast It's morning. I'll get dinner tonight stuff like that. Yeah,

31:35

I feel like that's how we do it But

31:38

there's definitely sometimes where we're like Go

31:40

to I don't know like a

31:42

fast food place You go ahead and then

31:44

I'll order like I don't know if you're ordering separately yeah

31:46

like sometimes we definitely do it's just kind of Like that

31:49

you're right. There's no answer Yeah, there's not

31:51

we don't the same. I feel like it's not we know

31:54

It's not that we don't talk about we definitely talk about finances

31:56

and like I feel like we have a lot of financial transparency

31:59

But it's more just like what a give

32:01

and take. I don't see it as like a thing

32:03

that it's like, well, I always buy the dinners and

32:06

he always buys the days and like whatever. Fun

32:09

to treat them too sometimes. Totally. Yeah, I

32:11

don't think it's, I

32:13

mean, for me it's an interesting situation because my boyfriend's

32:15

in medical school so he's like literally making negative money

32:18

at the same time. Like there's like, versus

32:20

like I feel very lucky that like I'm doing really well. So

32:22

it's like I kind of have a non-ordinary

32:25

situation and I know a lot of, actually

32:27

a lot of men feel, I'm

32:29

not trying to speak on behalf of all men, but I do

32:31

know that this is how a lot of guys feel. They feel

32:33

like emasculated when like a woman

32:36

is like, not that

32:38

one woman makes more, but like they

32:40

offer to pay and do everything. So like, you know, like they want

32:42

to be able to provide. Yeah, yeah, yeah. But

32:46

I think that life ebbs and flows, right? Like,

32:48

you know, there's gonna be times when maybe one of you

32:50

makes more and then the other or whatever. I gotta pat

32:52

him on the back. Yeah, I don't think,

32:54

I mean, and that's not to say that I pay for it,

32:56

like that I'm paying for everything out here. I think that it

32:59

fluctuates and I think that that's life and you

33:01

know, but I guess I'm gonna see how

33:03

it goes. Like when we move into it, it's like splitting

33:05

everything. I'm still kind of unpacking all that. So I won't

33:07

give you guys a plan. Yeah, it's fun talking to other

33:10

friends and stuff. But there's no right or wrong, just so

33:12

we're clear. Cause I've, some of my friends, I

33:14

have across the board answers, you know? Yeah, I don't

33:16

think like if it doesn't bother you, like even if

33:18

your friends say something about it, like if it doesn't

33:20

bother you and you're okay with your situation and you

33:22

feel like it's a sound situation, it's

33:24

fine. Like I feel like everyone has their own opinion. Yeah,

33:27

I'd agree. Good takes

33:29

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the place to find a place. Okay,

36:04

this is like the way it's worded. I

36:07

think that we can kind of work with this. This is how

36:09

weight plays a part in friendships such as being the

36:11

fugly friend. I'm sorry I'm laughing because that's not true.

36:13

I know that this isn't true for this girl. I'm

36:15

sure it's not. You look beautiful. Or

36:17

not being included. It

36:20

could be weight. It could be like anything. I don't know if

36:22

you've ever been in friendships and I can think of a few

36:24

in my life. We're

36:27

not even friends. Just points in my life where I'm like,

36:29

oh my gosh, I feel like we actually just listened to

36:31

a comedian's bit on this about going to

36:33

Miami. I was just telling you this idea. That's

36:36

so funny. She did a whole bit about

36:38

it. When you go to Miami, if you guys go

36:40

to Miami, if you've ever been to the club. Or

36:42

clubbing. Yeah. Like big clubs.

36:45

You know. If you're getting a promoter, how it's

36:47

all appearance based, it's like, okay, I want to come. I

36:50

want to bring five of my friends from the promoter. Send a pic of

36:53

your friends. It's like, bruh. Who you got?

36:56

Are you going to be like this? I can't even believe that

36:58

it's still like that. It's actually like that. Okay, whatever.

37:01

I don't know if you've ever felt like that. I don't want to make

37:03

you feel bad about yourself. I don't know if you've ever felt that way.

37:06

Like, um. I, well, yeah, yeah,

37:08

definitely felt that way before. I feel

37:10

like everyone has. Like, there's definitely like

37:13

certain friends I'm with where like,

37:16

I feel like these shit. Not because they make you

37:18

feel like that at all, but I think certain friends

37:20

are like, oh my God. Like she

37:22

carries herself so well. She's so confident.

37:25

Like that literally has nothing to do with you at

37:27

all, but with them at all. But like

37:29

you like put something on yourself. Is that what you mean? Yeah,

37:33

I just think I've been in front. Like I know

37:35

in college, someone's in college where I was like, oh

37:37

my gosh, I feel like the Dolph, like the designated

37:39

ugly friend or whatever. Yeah, definitely. Yeah,

37:42

like when, when you're with a group of girls and like a group

37:44

of guys come up to you and you're like, okay, well,

37:46

they won't talk to me. Like I've definitely had points of

37:48

time. Like trips when you're at the pool. It's like, okay,

37:50

well, I mean, obviously I'm in a relationship, but I'm like,

37:52

I'm just gonna like stay away because like they probably don't

37:54

even think I'm cute anyways. Definitely. Yeah.

37:58

Yeah. I'm sure

38:00

like you also can't like you're not in competition with

38:02

your friends like let's be real and I have to

38:04

remember Yeah, and if you have friends that are making

38:06

you feel like shit Then

38:09

that's a different situation. I've had points in

38:11

time in my life where friends like Will

38:14

make comments about how they look I mean the worst

38:17

is when someone's like I hate

38:19

when I wear the color yellow I'm like, okay. I

38:21

mean yellow right now. Yeah, like and there's a time

38:23

and place that sometimes it's like No, I really like

38:25

it doesn't look good. I mean, I really like it

38:27

on you, but sometimes when people worded it It's like

38:30

do you not see that? I'm literally wearing that right

38:32

now. Yeah, it's tough So I think people like that's

38:34

like what's good amount of your life. Maybe yeah, just

38:36

instance yourself. Yeah Yeah, I remember

38:38

like feeling that this way a lot like not

38:41

that anyone projected it onto me It was just like

38:43

my feelings like how I would feel like spring breaks

38:45

and stuff. Yeah a lot of that. I'm telling ring

38:47

breaks Yeah, I definitely remember having those feelings is and

38:51

the only thing is to work on yourself Like you

38:53

know, especially if it's not your friend Really look

38:55

at this step back. We'll get it be like are they making me

38:58

feel like shit or am I just feeling like shit? Right.

39:00

Yeah. I mean I've never been the girl. That's

39:02

like Like I feel like

39:04

that first day on vacation When

39:06

you put on your bathing suit, you're like, this is this

39:09

is new like I haven't put on and then like after

39:11

the third day I'm just walking around the house and I've

39:13

been into but it's like that first day But then I

39:15

have some friends who just who get

39:17

on my band soon now No shorts like I'm

39:19

like a denim shorts on with the bikini top

39:21

Like I'm that girl for many reasons. I hate

39:23

the bikini line of it all. I just don't

39:26

feel like I that's still something that I'm working

39:28

on so you recognize

39:30

valid. Yeah. Yeah, it's like I like I

39:32

hate that it has to be a comparison

39:35

game But I feel like that's also part of like being a

39:38

woman is like it's an innate thing to be like Oh

39:40

like, you know comparing yourself to the beauty

39:42

standards and whatever but I can tell you that you're beautiful

39:44

in your own way And just because it's I'm

39:46

sorry that you don't feel that reflected. I've definitely

39:48

felt that with weight things, too I can I

39:50

could say I echo that.

39:52

Yeah, I'm just trying to get personal experience. Thank

39:54

you. Feel not alone. Oh, that's good No

39:57

in college or Not

40:00

even just in college, really. In recent years, I

40:02

feel like I've definitely thought about that and

40:05

thinking about my weight comparatively to my friends. But it's

40:08

like, who's to say what's right and

40:10

wrong? We all have different measures. I'm healthy. You're healthy.

40:13

That means nothing. It means nothing. Yeah.

40:17

But not being included is another level. Then

40:20

I feel like you've got to find new friends. I've

40:22

definitely felt moments of where you overthink and you're

40:25

like, why aren't they

40:27

reaching out? But I don't know.

40:29

That's a whole other. Yeah, that's next level. I

40:31

feel like this is relevant spring break time, though, of

40:34

being like, ooh. My

40:37

bathing suit not feel as hot as I should.

40:39

Yeah, definitely. Here, why don't you pick one, Danielle?

40:42

I'm asking Danny the phone. Oh, are you having

40:44

anxiety about it? No, I just want you to

40:46

feel included. Oh, no, you're doing a great job.

40:48

I feel like these are good topics. Oh,

40:53

this is interesting. Going out without

40:56

boyfriends. We

40:58

actually have talked about this

41:00

recently, too. The kind of not

41:03

ethics behind it, but just how

41:06

to. Well, is this like opinion on

41:09

going out without your boyfriends? Or how? I've definitely seen

41:11

like. Oh, I was trying to read the second.

41:13

She said in slash out. I think she means like

41:15

is that in or out? Or

41:17

does she mean like, I

41:19

think she means like is this in or out? I

41:22

definitely like a little bit of both. I

41:24

think it's my, I mean, I talked about

41:26

it in our perfect weekend formula. My favorite thing is to go to

41:28

dinner with my friends and then meet up with Ryan and his friends

41:31

after. And that's like ideal. But

41:34

there's definitely times when like, for example, we're

41:36

here in LA right now. And I'm

41:38

sure Ryan's going to go out with his friends. And

41:40

I feel like when you're in a relationship where you

41:43

trust so much, there should not be any sort of

41:45

worry. Like he should be able to go have fun.

41:47

Yeah, if they're literally partying the whole weekend and

41:49

you're just at home, that's a little strange. They

41:52

should be wanting to see you. Yeah,

41:54

I think if there's no reason why you can't be in

41:57

the same place, I think it's more so. I

42:01

mean I definitely go out with my boyfriend. Yeah, I

42:03

have a concert ticket and my friends are going and

42:05

he's not going like I'm still gonna go like it's

42:07

not I don't plan that yeah, absolutely yeah I

42:09

I don't know now I'm like over that I'm

42:11

like should I not be like no no I

42:13

I'm sure we all know some couples where they

42:16

really don't go out without each other like I

42:18

can think of some I can think of one

42:20

right now that I know that like they it's

42:22

like are they both going out because like she's

42:25

not gonna come out without him and

42:27

I don't know if that's a thing that's in their relationship

42:29

or if that's just like how they are

42:31

and you wonder about it and I'm not saying

42:33

that that's a healthier unhealthy different strokes you wonder

42:35

about it I like that yeah I want

42:37

to reflect on it about that I

42:40

think I don't think I'm out but I do I

42:43

do believe that there's a bad healthy line yeah like I

42:45

think that you know if you're going out all the time

42:47

and it's to

42:50

avoid hanging out with your person that's something

42:52

to can be yeah maybe we don't like

42:54

him maybe we got a kind of loose

42:56

but yeah I got locked

42:58

out of your phone oh I'm sorry I'm

43:00

sorry ma'am do you want to pick one

43:03

more sure you're having fun on here I'm

43:05

on Brooks phone um

43:08

oh my god some of these are really funny

43:11

intimate um I'm

43:14

going here okay it's not that bad it's not

43:16

that bad favorite non-sexual turn

43:19

on oh yeah no that's not bad for me like I love when I

43:24

see them like talking

43:30

to my friends like without me or family

43:32

like I think it's attractive like

43:34

or like them with their family

43:37

it's just really attractive man

43:39

I'm like oh my god like he doesn't need me in

43:41

that conversation like it's I like it or like when they're

43:43

like enjoying it or when they'll come over and be like

43:45

oh my god he's the best like I like love that

43:47

shit wow that's really sweet I

43:50

was gonna say when they like do

43:52

something that's like winning or

43:55

succeeding like if it's like we're playing a video

43:57

yeah wins like oh my god yeah yeah it's like

43:59

a video You're probably like what the fuck, but it's

44:01

like no like did that you won

44:03

you beat me are you? Winning

44:07

in Brooklyn waiting that is so Win

44:11

yeah Get an

44:13

A on their test. Yeah, literally like

44:15

I like to see see someone

44:18

who I like being recognized I

44:20

like to or Ben does that

44:23

He has so many in his room. It's really

44:26

cute like his childhood bedroom He's like the childhood

44:28

bedroom that it's been it's literally preserved like a

44:30

capital It feels like it's been like frozen locked

44:32

in time. You know when you open the door. You're like oh

44:34

my gosh I'm in third grade I

44:37

love it And he has all these

44:39

Rubik's cubes, and he like can solve a Rubik's cube

44:41

like I think that's so cute like I love that

44:43

Non-sexual don't like I'm like do the Rubik's Cube. Yeah,

44:45

you all I think it's cool I'm like yeah like

44:48

solve a puzzle do like when do Do

44:50

a trick do a flip, but no yeah when they have

44:52

like a cool talent or like yeah I

44:55

know what you mean. I like that a lot. Yeah something

44:57

that Shows

45:00

that do this ever pick your nose

45:02

don't lie Yeah 100%

45:05

we're in the car books like I'm sorry like like

45:07

sometimes you literally just have to get something I know

45:09

I knew we were recording I was like oh I

45:11

just realized I feel a crusty in here, and I

45:13

see it Yeah, am I sitting there like going it

45:15

down? No no, but I I Actually

45:19

with our long nails. It's so easy to kind of

45:21

like get what you need to but

45:23

no it's not like I don't do it like in

45:25

public like yeah. Oh no, but I mean Well

45:29

to me that's not so gross like everyone

45:31

picks their nose I know like you mean

45:34

if you don't then you that's

45:36

actually kind of grosser than you have yeah I

45:38

mean do I'm not gonna do it when I'm

45:40

sitting at a restaurant That's not asking no, but

45:42

in the privacy of my own home in the

45:44

shower something Maybe I'll pick my nose show in

45:47

this shower. I yeah, I like to

45:49

clear out my nose like I'm like I'm like oh Yeah, I was like

45:51

like you hear like huh like people

45:54

yeah, it's just fun. There knows in

45:56

this yeah That's

46:00

really funny silly

46:02

silly um um

46:09

best underwear for working out no

46:12

underwear I do no underwear too yeah I

46:14

was doing it for the longest time and then someone

46:16

said oh just don't wear underwear you won't see the

46:18

lines I was like oh you're just gonna

46:20

watch it after you start this like three

46:23

years ago oh okay me too who's I was

46:26

talking to someone recently told them that I don't wear

46:28

underwear when I work out they were like oh and

46:31

I was shocked honey I was shocked I

46:33

was like I think I know you're trying but I

46:35

think I was there oh okay and I was shocked

46:37

I was like how wait wait wait there's

46:41

no way to avoid having lines I tried every type of

46:43

underwear I'm telling you I've tried it I

46:45

mean you have to wash your pair of even the

46:47

seamless ones they bunch I know so and it's

46:50

then you have a wedgie and it's very uncomfortable

46:52

especially cuz my like spin where you're like no

46:54

absolutely not and you're gonna it's not like a

46:56

pair of jeans where it's like I'm I don't

46:58

wash my jeans every time I wear them have

47:00

leggings a sports bra all that

47:02

stuff like you do better yeah assuming you're washing

47:04

it assuming a suit mind you

47:06

mind you have at this point you must

47:08

be washing it immediately yeah or

47:11

not immediately but like put in your dirty

47:13

yeah for hygiene I I'm

47:16

not I don't judge either way yeah yeah

47:18

I do sometimes think about like a vagina

47:21

just like on that I'm raw hair raw

47:23

dog and on the leggings that's really

47:25

funny because I feel like underwear is

47:27

like built to like protect your lady

47:29

yeah yeah but it's interesting question yeah

47:32

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you listen to your podcasts. Have

48:30

any of y'all's friends ever wanted to date your brothers? How would

48:32

you react? My best friend dated my

48:34

brother. What? In

48:36

middle school. Oh. This was

48:38

when Victorious was like out, did you

48:40

ever watch Victorious? My best friend's brother

48:42

is the one for me. Oh there's

48:44

a little behind your time. Yeah. Well

48:47

that song was so popular and at that point. Mind

48:50

you. My best friend at the time like

48:52

I mean dated my brother like they you know like kissed

48:54

by the lockers and stuff. What was she

48:57

was in your grade? Yeah. She was like

48:59

I'm literally my best friend and Freddie is two years below. She's your

49:01

friends anymore. Um no. We're like friends. Yeah

49:03

but we're not she's not like yeah. We're still best. We're

49:05

still good friends. Um no

49:07

no and we talk about it. At this point. At

49:10

this point literally at this point. No she actually she

49:12

came to our Tampa Life show. Oh. Yeah

49:15

she was like we're like lifelong. Oh yeah yeah.

49:17

Okay but at this point like literally in today's

49:19

life if let's just say one of your best friends

49:22

you know let's just say Freddie comes to town they

49:24

start like you know hanging out and like hitting

49:26

it off like what what do you how do

49:28

you think you would do that today. I mean

49:30

I'm curious your your opinion. I think it also

49:32

depends on the friend but I

49:35

wouldn't be that bothered by it as long as it

49:37

doesn't ruin like the friendship. I

49:39

think you'd have to be one of my looser friends. Yeah like

49:41

not like immediate because I think that would just be like oh

49:44

you're here to hang out with me or to hang out with

49:46

him like that's. Yeah. Um

49:49

I mean then I because I like you know then

49:51

you know you like the girlfriend right like yeah

49:54

but. I can't

49:56

imagine that I would be so opposed I feel like

49:59

growing. people like, ew, that's gross, he likes my

50:01

brother, or whatever, but it's like, if you know that

50:03

your brother is like a good person deep down, and

50:05

you walk the best for him, and you know that

50:07

your friend's a good person, like I can't, the only

50:09

con that I could see is that it ends, and

50:11

then you lose your friend. That's the thing. So

50:14

I think that second tier of friends. I think as

50:16

you get older, you get more mature to that sort

50:18

of thing, though, and be like, look, they're both great,

50:20

they should date. Yeah, I

50:23

think it's actually kind of cool, like how, yeah,

50:25

we have a big age gap, though, so it's a little different. Yeah,

50:28

I think that makes it a little, I feel like

50:30

if we had an older brother, that would be an

50:32

issue, probably. If we had an older brother who,

50:35

I feel like that would happen sooner. But if you dated my

50:37

brother, if I dated your brother, I feel like that would be

50:39

too close, because we were a little too, yeah. But

50:42

I could see a world

50:44

in which. Shame, I don't, I'm not that,

50:47

I don't wanna be that protective, annoying sister.

50:49

If they really find themselves together,

50:51

that's awesome. Yeah,

50:53

should we do one more? Yeah, let's see what

50:55

else we've got. Ring us home, that's my new

50:57

favorite thing to say. Like

51:00

a soul cycle reference. How

51:03

long should the talking stage be? I

51:05

mean, who am I to give them? In

51:09

my head, it's like, after

51:12

like, I don't know if you're going on dates,

51:14

but like if it's like five or six dates, or like

51:16

after like, it might have two months, but

51:18

maybe that's too long. I

51:21

don't do one. Well, I mean, we were like, I guess we. I

51:24

was like a month and

51:26

a half. Not even, honestly, I was

51:28

just a month. What was the question, how long should the

51:30

talking stage be? Yeah, until you start dating. Yeah, that's what

51:32

I took. Well then are we doing like,

51:36

then you start like being exclusive or

51:38

like, I hate all these

51:40

fucking things. It's like, we're talking, we're together,

51:43

we're not. I understand not hooking up with

51:45

anyone else. I also understand that for like

51:47

safety and like sexually and like stuff like that. I

51:50

think that's a really important conversation. Yeah. But

51:53

the other stuff, like the

51:55

like boyfriend, like the together versus boyfriend, girlfriend,

51:58

I never understood that difference. Because

52:01

we're together, I'm like, okay, so he's your boyfriend? They're

52:03

like, no, no. Yeah, so we each deleted the apps

52:05

and we only talk to each other. Exclusive

52:08

I think is, I understand that category

52:10

versus boyfriend girlfriend. No.

52:14

So what are you not understanding? Talking versus

52:16

exclusive? Yeah. Well, talking, I guess you

52:18

could be talking to a bunch of different people. Yeah. So

52:22

you do understand them all through. For sexually, I guess.

52:24

It's just like annoying. Yeah. I

52:27

feel like- It shouldn't last long. No. I

52:30

guess two months is long. I only did talks with

52:33

exclusive, whatever. Well, but then again, it's different for

52:35

everybody though. Like what parts of your life- Yeah,

52:37

some guys, or some girls aren't ready. Like, sometimes

52:40

people need a little bit more time to be

52:42

more intimate or to feel close to

52:44

someone or to just- a lot of people have walls up.

52:46

Like we, I feel like- Ooh. I

52:48

know people that have like walls that it takes them- You

52:50

gotta- Yeah, you gotta hammer it down

52:52

on that wall. And you have to,

52:54

you know, have patience and patience. Grace.

52:58

But- Oh, I like-

53:00

you guys always submit such- I know. These are

53:02

really thoughtful and I feel like we're not like- We're not like experts.

53:04

Yeah, it's more so like, let's just talk about it. Let's

53:07

talk about it. Let's talk about it. Frick

53:09

and I were filming a TikTok and

53:12

she was like, we were like in our robes

53:14

and she's like, what the fuck is this wet

53:16

spot on my robe? It was a random, like,

53:18

just blot bunch of wet. Cause I had just

53:20

self-tanned and I was like, that's weird. There should

53:22

be no water involved here. And

53:24

you were like, my wet spot, let's talk about it. My

53:26

random wet spot, let's talk about it. And then I was

53:29

like, that's so funny. Like just to put that in front

53:31

of anything, like podcasting in LA, let's

53:33

talk about it. And then

53:35

I was like, should we make a TikTok and it looks like I don't think

53:37

anyone would also understand that. So I was like, yeah, you're right. It's

53:39

a Charles Groves phrase. No, I know.

53:41

I know his phrase, but if we just

53:43

like- The lore of- Yeah. The

53:45

lore, as you would say. Well, I think that's all we

53:47

have time for as I schedule. Yes,

53:50

meetings, meetings. I

53:52

think I'm gonna have you drop me off with the- Danielle has to go

53:54

somewhere. I think I'm gonna have you drop me off with this movie. Oh,

53:58

sunlight. I'm literally addicted to- for

54:00

these guys. Yeah. That's

54:03

perfect. I'm excited for you. We love you

54:05

guys so so much. Thanks so much for

54:07

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54:16

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54:18

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54:39

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54:41

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54:47

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54:52

this. We're not just like blending in

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this year. We are stepping out. I

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feel like people were doing like the

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faux fur. I mean, people still are

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because Macy's has all the bright colors

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and mixed textures that command attention. I

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love like outfits that are

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really like detail oriented. You

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know, they have like ruffles and

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sequins and fringe and bright colors.

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I am trying to get more into accessories. Personally,

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I feel like I just wear like my simple

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like bracelet and necklace that I wear every day,

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but I really want to get into like some

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chunky jewelry and pairing that with maybe like a

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leopard print. Like why not? I've been seeing actually

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some zebra print coming back. I'm kind of here

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for it. I love these like girly

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looks that are just like so out there and I'm

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trying to step up my style this year. I'm like

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get a little out of the box. Okay.

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So you could check out

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your new favorite styles at

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Macy's.com/own your style. Time for a

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quick break to talk about McDonald's. Wake

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