If you want to win, you must stop listening to the others. Do not let anyone else make life decisions for you. If you try to listen to what everyone says, you will lose control of your own life. So, do not let that happen.

I Don’t Care What Others Say

EcommerceBuff Radio Episode 5

Audio Transcript

Welcome to another episode of EcommerceBuff Radio.

My name is Oshadee, and today my message to you is, Do NotListen to The Others.

If you want to win, you must stop listening to the others.Do not let anyone else make life decisions for you. If you try to listen towhat everyone says, you will lose controlof your own life. So, do not let that happen.

It can be anyone. Take their feedback, but make your owndecisions. Only you know what is going on with you. They do not understand the real context of your preferencesand goals. Only you know that. So, it isup to you to make your own life decisions.

If you carefully evaluate what others say, they are justgiving their opinions, thinking within their own context. So, those opinionswould not necessarily fit into what you have to go through.

And, the other thing is that, once you start making your owndecisions, you have to take the authority and be responsible for what you do.So, there is a tendency for you to do it better. Because you have to make sure your decisions work. That means,subconsciously you will try your best to win, just because you want to provethat your choices are right.

Otherwise, if you follow someone else’s decisions, you havean excuse to blame someone, if anything goes wrong. So, then you will saythings like, I wish I didn’t listen to them. But, guess what, then, it will betoo late. It is your life that they are playing with.

There is no point of regretting things.

If you talk to an old person about their life, most of themwould say that they are not satisfied with what they have achieved. The mainreason for this is, most of the time, people do not make their own decisions.So, they do not grind it out.

So, think rationally,and start making your own decisions. If you have a brain, why would you needsomeone else to make life decisions for you? The very moment you startcontrolling your own life, you will feel the grip of your own work. If youdecide to quit your job and start a business, think rationally, calculate your risks and makeyour decision.

One last thing I have to tell is, do not team up with thosewho are negative and have pessimistic feelings. They will influence thesefeelings to you and drag you to their level. Always think like you are going tobuild the next Amazon. Those optimistic and energetic feelings will make you anachiever, and a winner.

Try to team up withthe people who have ambitions for their lives. When you are surrounded by such positiveminds, you will start thinking in the same way. They will help you to overcomethe little bumps you face in your life.

So, dear friends, start building your own life, startingfrom today.

We will see in another episode of Ecommercebuff radio.

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