Would you ever consider using a matchmaker? In a world of dating apps (and let's be real -- those are rough for a LOT of people!), not to mention a whole lotta ghosting, matchmaking is an appealing notion for many.

Plus, matchmakers play a unique role in that they speak to both parties, before and after dates. They're able, therefore, to give people honest feedback about how they're coming across, and help them make adjustments.

Here I chat with Anika, a matchmaker for Three Day Rule, about how we can all get more honest in dating. We also talk about how men and women differ when it comes to their must-haves and dealbreakers -- as someone who has spoken to hundreds if not thousands of people by now, that's actually quite interesting. She also shares some memorable matches she has made over the years. This is a sweet one!

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Memorable quotes from this episode:

• "There are women who wonder why they’re not being approached, but they don’t have an approachable aura."
• "Success means different things to different people."
• "Dating really is a numbers game … the more conversations you have, the higher chance you’re going to find someone you want to move forward with."
• "Some people have told me, 'I’ve gotten deeper with you than I’ve gotten with my therapist.'"

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Mentioned on this episode:

• Anika's site: askanika.com
• Anika's Instagram: @nikarashaun