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Welcome to Dear Daughter with me,
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Namulanta Kombo. Podcasts
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from
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the BBC World Service are supported
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by advertising. Hello
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and welcome back to Dear Daughter live
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from the BBC World Service. We're
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here in Nairobi, Kenya. And
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here's the host of Dear Daughter,
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Namulanta Kombo.
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Hello and welcome. This
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is the second of two live episodes about the world
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of dating and relationships. And the advice we all want to
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give not just our own daughters, but to daughters
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everywhere. And
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also on stage with me throughout, and thank you for introducing
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me, is one of the BBC presenters in
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Kenya, Maya Hayekawa. So I'm so sad that
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this is the last episode of season
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two. But I'm
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happy to be recording it here in my hometown of Nairobi. Nairobi
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is a metropolis, a city that truly never sleeps and is the
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heartbeat of Kenya. From
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the tree lined streets to the Nairobi
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blue skyline, I couldn't be more proud to call this home.
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Me, I love Nairobi. Absolutely.
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And of course, we
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are joined by this lovely, lovely audience. Now,
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Namulanta, before
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everyone sat down, we asked them to write
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on sticky notes their dating advice. Basically, their do's
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and their don'ts and their best and their worst
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experiences. So
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I'd like to take you through some of them. And
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this one says, do be kind to the waitstaff
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genuinely and don't order
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for your date. So
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yeah, who said this? I'm really curious.
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That was you? So
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much pressure. Okay,
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okay, so it's good to be kind to the wait
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stuff. Like
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say your please, say your thank you when you're getting the
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order. And when I say genuinely, don't
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like lay it on thick and be
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like, oh, thank you so much. I
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really love your service. I mean, just
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be genuine and don't flirt
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also because now your date is like, are
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we on the date? Or it's also
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the waitresses on the date with us. Yeah,
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so that's it. Thank you. No,
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that piece of advice really reminds me of what my
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mother used to tell me as well, because she used to say,
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you know, how someone
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else treats like let's say a waiter
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or a guard, you know, ends up treating you
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the same way. So it's kind of like a little sneak
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peek into how they would treat you in the end, right? And
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then there's this other one that
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says, date without the expectation
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of defining anything, deciding
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anything or achieving anything
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other than joy
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and truth with each other. And
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then in caps, tequila. Is
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there a story behind that? Who is it? Who
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is it? Aha.
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And they are married. Yeah, we are married.
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They are married. Yes,
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we are married thanks to tequila. First
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of all, you have to know yourself. You have
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to understand what you want and what gives
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you joy and what is your honest truth.
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And we also forget that dating is fun. It's
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supposed to be fun. You're supposed to get to know
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each other somewhat
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in a relaxed manner, but it's difficult to do
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that. So that's why I said, don't come
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into that dating game heavy. Don't
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come already deciding, I am trying to
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find the, you know, like already
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just give yourself the space, give the other
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person the space, because they also are in a
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very
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unfamiliar situation. And just have
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fun, hence the tequila. Ah,
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now that makes sense, doesn't it? All
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right, now, Melanta, back to you.
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Yes, so we've got new
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letters, great new letters and two
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new writers. We have my good friend Daisy
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who'll be talking about how to keep relationships
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going. But
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first, here's
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someone with a story about how not
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to have a first date. Welcome,
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Meinam Arumba. He's a comedian.
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He's
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a comedian and will be telling us about his
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dating experiences. He has no daughters
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of his own but it sounds like he knows a
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bit about other people's daughters. So
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Meinam,
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you're addressing your letter to who? Your
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future daughter. Who's this letter for?
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To all the daughters in the world. Let's
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go. Okay. So
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my name is This is Meinam. This is my daughter to
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daughters. Dear
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daughter slash niece. It's
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about being inclusive.
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This is a story about how I lost my date.
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It was back when I was
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a freshman, excited
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to be in uni and be finally
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free to partake of life as we should.
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You can drink as much
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as you like and stay out as long
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as you wanted. To the little
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heaven. To
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the last weekend of the semester and
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just basically closing party season
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and I couldn't be more excited. A
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friend of mine was having a party and
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I was particularly looking forward to this one because
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I had a smoking hot date and
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I couldn't wait for my friends to see. I
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did my usual pregame before the party I
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took a few shots to get things going. I
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met up with my dates and
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she was looking lovely and
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we set out for this glorious
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party. I was a little late.
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and a few of my friends were already there. And
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most of them were shocked to see me with
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a date for the very first time. So
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I did my usual lap of honor, high-fiving
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my homies, giving
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a nod here and there, you know, the finger
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pointing. I
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was on top of the world. I
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must have taken one too many shots because
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the next thing I remember was
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waking up on Sunday. Spartie
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started on Friday. I
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think I was a bit too excited. My
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friends told me I was drinking like it was my birthday.
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So my friends were filling me in since I didn't know
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what happened. And
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they told me that I managed to pull off the impossible.
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I blocked out comfortably in the corner
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and my dates left with my friend. Suddenly
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those high fives didn't seem too high-fiving.
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Of
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course my friends never missed a chance to laugh at
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me and make fun of me.
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A lot of silly things will happen
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as you grow older and experience the dating
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world with all its goodies. And
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I hope you never take yourself too seriously and
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you're able to take the good and the bad in good
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humor because life is a dance that's
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meant to be enjoyed.
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Yours truly, Meinne Rumba. Meinne,
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Meinne, Meinne. How
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did you let this happen? I didn't
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know
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about hydrating
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in between shots. I should have
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eaten fast. You know everything people do so that you
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make your night last long. I should have done
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all those things.
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So first off, can we agree that
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that was probably not your friend? I
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think I would disagree. I think they're still my,
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because I've done that to someone also. And
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that person is still my friend. So,
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tell me how it works. Just tell me from a male perspective,
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how does that, there's no code?
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Because you see, it wasn't like it was a relationship
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that I had with this, with this
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girl. It was just a,
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it was like a date that I was hoping maybe to get
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to go father a bit. So
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it's not as serious as my friendship with
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that guy is way deeper than that. It's been longer
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and yeah, it's just
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a bad day.
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So this is interesting because I
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have been out of it, but I'm interested to know more
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about the Nairobi dating scene. So
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let's get into that. Tell,
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tell me what's happening.
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It's obviously not easy dating
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in Nairobi. I'm sure all of you guys know that. It
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feels like it's a small world and everybody
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knows each other and finding your
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way is not the easiest thing. You
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don't know the traumas that people have gone through. Many
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people have been, as you say, character developed.
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It's a maze. They're trying to figure that out.
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So because there are people listening from all over
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the world, tell us about character
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development, the Kenyan version,
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character development.
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I think everyone has to go through
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that. It's where you are taught
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that
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your feelings, only your family care about.
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And then you enter the dating pool. Like you
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leave your feelings outside because
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your heart will be stepped on.
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You're going to get hearts. You will
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but that's part of the learning experience,
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knowing what you don't like, what you like, things that
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work, things that don't. I think
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it's an important
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step for everyone to have gone through. Kenya
9:52
Institute of Character Development. That's the
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official education.
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Higher
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learning. KICD,
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thank you. So
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do you have any graduates? Yeah. I
10:09
can see many alumni. Are
10:15
you a graduate? You admitted to being a graduate.
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I'm now the vice chancellor.
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Tell us about your institutes. What
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happened? So many things. So
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many things. Like I talk about
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dating in Nairobi, which is an extreme
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sport. You need divine
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help. You need human beings.
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You need your peers. You need mentors. You
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need schooling. You need good food,
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diet, CMOS. You need coconut
10:43
oil, gorilla glue for your heartbreak.
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I think Nairobi, like dating
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in Nairobi is a beautiful
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thing. The character development.
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If you can look back and laugh at yourself and
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sort of like commiserate with people in laughter,
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it builds character.
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You are strong. Yeah. And
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you can just meet people, you know, and look and you just see each other.
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You're like, yeah, you do. Yeah. Yeah.
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Same. Same. So
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it's beautiful. You see the pain in their eyes, but that's
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a really good segue into something I wanted to ask you,
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Meinne, which is about humor,
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which you have
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talked about in your letter. Don't take yourself too seriously.
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So what has humor done for you
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in your life? In my life. You
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need to be able to kind of laugh at yourself because bad things
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will always happen. So that's
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a good way to kind of sometimes get over
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something that's difficult. As bad
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as things get, you can always cause, you know,
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like they say, we're not living this world alive.
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So it's never
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that serious. So if it's not that serious,
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then it means you can take a laugh. You can laugh at yourself.
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You can go through things without, you
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know, agonizing about every
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little.
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That's another great Kenyanism. It's
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never that serious. Daisy, what do you think? about
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KICD. Back
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in the Middle Ages when I was dating, I
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mean it's been 12 years since I was
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in the dating scene. Listening
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to these stories gives me a mix
12:14
of relief that I'm not
12:17
in the field playing anymore, but
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also dread because these children
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and daughters that we are writing letters to
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will most probably be dating in this
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context. And Mayena
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mentioned trauma, so I hope
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this traumatized generation of
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daters, we are going
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to bring up
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a generation of people that are more
12:43
datable than we were, breaking
12:46
the cycle type of thing and having healthy
12:48
conversations about dating.
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Yeah, because I'm
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always asking my single friends like, why? Why
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are you single? And they look at me like, shut up.
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You have nothing to contribute
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yet. It's wild out here. So
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thank you, Mayena, for your letter. It
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was amazing.
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Now, I think that it was really
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brilliant just hearing from Daisy. I think I heard you
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say that you haven't been
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in the dating scene for the last 12 years. So
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that gives us a bit of hope, right? All
13:17
of us in our character
13:19
development phase, there's something to look forward
13:21
to, which is making our
13:24
relationship last, right? So
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we're going to hear from Daisy with her
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second and final letter. But before
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we hear that letter, we
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also asked the audience this question. We
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asked, how do you make relationships
13:39
last? And Namlata, what I found
13:42
really interesting is that three people actually
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wrote patience, patience and patience.
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This is just one of those pieces of advice
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where it sounds easy. It sounds really
13:53
easy for you to be patient, but when you find
13:55
yourself in that situation, when you find yourself in
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really questionable situations, situations, it might
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not be as easy for you to show
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some patience. Now,
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Melantha, I'll just read one more over
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here. It says, have similar hobbies
14:10
and or personalities. It makes
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it easier to have fun and enjoy similar
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things in life. This is in addition
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to having a romantic connection. What do you
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think?
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No, I don't think so. I don't think
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so. But when I don't
14:24
have an answer, I usually ask my mom. Oh,
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OK. So let's look for dorkers.
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What's the answer? I
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think it's not like.
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You've got to be exactly the same. That's
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very boring. But
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what you don't want is each one of you
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to impose too much
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on the other one. You got to balance.
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And you got to give each other time
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for the other person to grow where
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they want to go so long as ultimately where
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the destination or the journey is beneficial
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for both of you.
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That
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is a good time to move on to
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our second letter with my
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friend Daisy, who you may remember from season
15:16
one, where we spoke about how
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she will talk to her daughter about sex.
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And if you want to hear that interview, you can also
15:24
check out all our past episodes.
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And so Daisy, today you're talking about something
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even more complicated than sex. You've
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written a letter to your daughter about making a marriage
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last.
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Yes, kind
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of. So Daisy, please
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read us your letter. So
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my daughter's name is Netay. Dear
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Netay, you are
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five and a half years old and
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full of love. One
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day you will read this, my
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letter to you, about a different
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kind of love, love in marriage.
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When I was growing up, grandmas
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and aunties at every wedding
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made it seem like marriage is a struggle
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to be endured. Muay-tay-n,
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they told the bride, which means,
16:14
persevere. I
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don't think that they were right to paint a miserable
16:19
picture of marriage. Their message
16:21
should have been that, yes, there
16:24
will be some problems. But
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marriage can be one of the most beautiful
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life experiences one can have.
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After almost eight years of marriage,
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here are some things I have come to learn. The
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first is that kindness
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should be a non-negotiable
16:42
foundation of your marriage. In
16:44
fact, kindness must feature
16:46
prominently when you're choosing a partner.
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After all, we are raising you
16:51
to be kind, and you really are. Show
16:55
unconditional kindness to each other in
16:57
the best of times, but especially
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in the worst of times.
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Which brings me to the second thing, tough times.
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Trust me, all marriages
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are far from perfect. Do
17:11
not see turbulence as a catastrophic
17:14
signal to jump ship. Overcoming
17:17
marital difficulties together birthed
17:20
strength and magnificent beauty.
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But I must tell you that there are limits to
17:25
perseverance. Abuse,
17:29
exploitation, and oppression
17:31
should not be tolerated. The
17:34
third thing is that it is important
17:37
to retain your personal pursuits. Ideally, your partner will become
17:40
an enabler for your ambitions, for your passions,
17:42
and for your interests. And
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you will be theirs. There
17:49
will be compromise at different points,
17:52
but marriage should not be an ultimate
17:54
aspiration for which you abandon your dreams. Lastly,
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I want to thank you
17:58
for your support.
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I want you to know that marriage can be a blessing.
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With it, you will get an eternal
18:05
best friend, an ally
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in every battle, the playmate
18:10
of a lifetime, and
18:12
a safe, permanent home where
18:15
you can be vulnerable. Like
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every parent, I wish for
18:20
this and more for you. Love
18:23
you always, your mama Daisy. Thank
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you so much, Daisy. Now
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I think there are very many expectations that
18:38
we inflict on ourselves, and
18:40
then there are those that society imposes on
18:43
us. You either have to live
18:45
happily ever after,
18:47
or endure
18:49
everything terrible in marriage.
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Tell me about Mui Ten.
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Mui Ten is
18:56
a phenomenon
18:58
that I think I should give context to. So I
19:01
grew up in this wonderful place called
19:03
Kiricho, and we went to a lot
19:05
of weddings growing up, simply because we all
19:08
had big beautiful families.
19:10
And there was a very
19:12
distinct pattern of messaging
19:15
that was always specifically
19:18
directed to the bride, which
19:20
is Mui Ten, persevere. And
19:23
the message was, you're getting
19:26
into marriage, things will
19:28
be tough, but stick
19:30
it out. Stay put, there
19:33
is no exit clause.
19:35
So the aunties and the grandmas
19:38
who deliver this message, I know they
19:40
meant well, because they themselves are
19:43
a product of this society
19:46
that told them themselves when they were
19:48
young brides to Mui Ten
19:50
and to stay put. But the problem is
19:53
this messaging gives rise to a very, to
19:56
dysfunction, let me say to dysfunction in
19:58
multiple ways.
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First of all, it is these same aunties
20:03
and grandmas who before this
20:05
wedding, before this bride met this man, kept
20:08
expressing their concern about her
20:10
prospects. You know, when is this man coming? You're approaching 30.
20:14
Where is he? You're approaching 40. Things
20:16
are looking really bad. So you're making a big
20:19
decision and you have a time
20:21
limit for it. So it is quite probable that
20:23
you will make mistakes.
20:25
The other dysfunction
20:27
that I think this kind
20:29
of messaging caused
20:32
is that it, me as a young girl, I'm
20:34
internalizing this message, but who else is
20:36
listening? My male counterparts,
20:39
young boys, the groom is listening. And
20:43
the message that he would get is that
20:45
you have a free pass, right?
20:48
Your levels of accountability are lowered because you
20:50
know that this bride that you're taking home with you
20:53
is going to stay put, whether you become
20:55
a raging alcoholic, whether you are a serial
20:57
philanderer,
20:58
she's not going anywhere. So
21:00
what does this do? It just perpetuates a
21:03
cycle of bad marriages. But
21:05
then lastly, and I know this
21:07
is a long answer,
21:09
but lastly and
21:12
ironically, the same
21:15
grandmas and aunties who are delivering
21:17
this messages in this generation
21:19
when I was growing up were also quite
21:21
progressive because they were part of a family that was
21:24
bringing up a generation of women who are going to become
21:26
independent. You know, they worked
21:28
very hard to afford these young girls opportunities
21:31
that would give them financial
21:34
independence, but also would expand
21:36
their worldview so that they get
21:38
to this point where they're understanding, oh, there
21:40
are other options beyond returning,
21:43
beyond to persevere a
21:45
marriage or a relationship that's not working
21:47
for me. So what was the manifestation
21:49
of all this? Statistically where
21:52
I come from in Kericha, if you compare the longevity
21:54
of our parents and their peers, their marriages,
21:57
and of our generation, there's a huge
21:59
disparity. Our parents are married 30, 40,
22:03
50 years and in my generation
22:05
you're
22:06
lucky if you hit the seven-year
22:09
mark, the ten-year mark and it's because
22:11
of this cycle
22:14
of dysfunction. Give
22:16
it up.
22:22
So what is the message that you're giving Natai
22:25
if she one day has to come to you for
22:27
advice about perhaps a rocky
22:29
patch in her marriage?
22:31
Yeah, the thing about marriage
22:34
and relationships is that they are highly
22:36
complicated so the advice
22:38
that I would give to her when she comes to me will be
22:40
dependent on the situation, it will be highly situational
22:43
but another element of
22:45
wholeness and I think somebody
22:47
else mentioned it before and I also mention
22:50
it in my letter is
22:52
retaining your personal pursuits,
22:55
retaining your passions. What
22:58
this does to relationships is that
23:00
it removes
23:03
this element of neediness,
23:05
right? And I read it in this book
23:07
by Dr. Esther Perel
23:10
called meeting in captivity. She
23:13
says nothing kills
23:16
passion and eroticism
23:20
in particularly a marriage than
23:23
having a partner that is so dependent
23:26
on you or if there's a codependency
23:29
because that
23:31
neediness evokes the
23:34
thought and concept of parenting.
23:37
Who wants to think about their parents when they're passionate,
23:39
you know? So she
23:42
says fire needs
23:44
air and relationships, specifically
23:47
marriage, needs space, right?
23:49
And you only generate that space
23:52
if you have your personal interests, your personal,
23:54
your pursuits, your hobbies and
23:57
it serves to enrich the relationship as
23:59
well. You have to
23:59
more to talk about and you have more to share
24:02
when your life is multi-dimensional
24:05
outside of your partner.
24:07
I see mine are nodding away
24:09
there. Daisy
24:12
has touched on red flags. There's
24:14
some definitely some red flags in dating
24:17
and in a marriage that you need to look out for before
24:19
you get married. Right, yeah. Before you get
24:21
married.
24:23
Tell me about your flags. How red are they?
24:25
What are they? And how do you feel about that
24:27
whole concept? Is it restrictive
24:29
in dating?
24:30
One red flag I'd said is have
24:32
someone who's not obedient. Like
24:38
that's a deal breaker. Is this humor?
24:40
No, I'm joking. No,
24:46
obviously there are red flags. Super
24:50
serious. Maybe their question is whether
24:52
to weigh them or something, whether something
24:55
is a deal breaker or not. I
24:57
feel like maybe in the dating scene, right
24:59
now in Nairobi, things are moving too quickly.
25:02
People can be
25:04
too quick to not give someone a chance or to walk
25:07
out or something too quickly because you just notice, you're
25:10
doing this and that means that we can't
25:12
walk. So we don't have the same, I
25:14
guess, patience that maybe that
25:16
our parents and older generations had. I feel
25:19
like, yes, it's good. Like there's red flags
25:21
and that's a real thing. But
25:24
there's also a space to learn
25:26
someone and grow
25:29
and evolve with them. And yeah, I
25:31
think that's also a good thing.
25:34
And our amazing audience, Maya,
25:37
have been sharing their views and experiences. So
25:39
what else have we got? That's right. Let's see if there's
25:41
anything else. I think I'd like to read
25:43
this one out for
25:45
a married couple. They've been married
25:48
for
25:49
two months. Let's give it up for them.
25:51
That's
25:53
amazing. Congratulations
25:55
to Christian and Nora
25:57
and wishing you guys a really long life.
26:00
lasting marriage, but then their advice
26:02
on a lasting marriage is communication,
26:05
laugh together, play together and enjoy
26:08
each other.
26:09
Very simple. I love it. Let's
26:11
give it up for everyone. Whether
26:14
you're single or in a relationship,
26:16
engaged or married,
26:19
it's just
26:20
a beautiful thing to be able to share our
26:22
experiences and give each other tips and
26:25
you know just help each other. Well
26:28
that's it for our Dear Daughter Live recording
26:30
from here. Nairobi.
26:39
Thank you very much everybody. Thank you Maya
26:41
once again and to the lovely audience here.
26:44
It's been okay
26:45
for anyone who knows me, you're so surprised to see
26:47
me here, right? Doing this.
26:50
It's been a journey of growth for me and I'm
26:52
really
26:53
living in the moment. I'm really enjoying
26:55
myself and I'm really grateful that you
26:58
guys are here to witness it and all
27:00
the support, all the messages, all
27:02
the people that have listened to the podcast, all the people that have written
27:05
letters, I'm really grateful. What I've learned
27:07
is
27:08
sometimes growth is in the small things. It's
27:10
not like I need to lose weight and
27:12
I've lost 10 kgs. It's
27:15
in me deciding that I'm going to try this
27:17
and I'm here. It's in me
27:21
trying to do better as I'm doing this podcast
27:24
and it's in me patting myself on the back and not being
27:26
so hard on myself
27:28
and saying well done. So thank you very much.
27:33
To all our wonderful listeners and
27:35
letter writers from around the world, thank you for
27:37
making my podcast such a success. It's
27:41
the end of the second season but we hope we'll
27:43
be back for season three.
27:49
You've been listening to Dear Daughter Live
27:51
recorded here in Nairobi, Kenya. I'm
27:54
Namlanta Kombu. Thank you and good night.
28:01
Dear Daughter Live was presented by me, Namulanta
28:04
Kombu, and moderated by Maya Hayakawa.
28:07
The producers were Charlotte McDonald, Lucy
28:09
Burns and Maggie Karanja. The
28:12
editor was Claire Fordham, sound
28:14
by Neil Churchill with support from Mbarak
28:16
Mohammed Abdullah and Hilary Kumatai.
28:19
Production support from Brendan Amidi,
28:22
Siobhan Reed and Sophie Hill. The
28:25
World Service Podcast producer
28:26
was Prabhjit Bains. The World
28:29
Service Podcast Commissioner was John Manel.
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