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The Will and Way of Change in 30 Days

The Will and Way of Change in 30 Days

Released Wednesday, 24th April 2024
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The Will and Way of Change in 30 Days

The Will and Way of Change in 30 Days

The Will and Way of Change in 30 Days

The Will and Way of Change in 30 Days

Wednesday, 24th April 2024
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No matter what the court. t.

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Y. Y

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keep. Mental.

0:21

Mental. Man thank you so much for

0:23

all the work you do to motivate

0:25

spiral me. A couple times a day

0:27

I get up the phone call or

0:29

maybe jump on zoo or an email.

0:31

Today it was South Africa, it was

0:33

Iceland of all places. As

0:36

a cool people in Iceland it was Paris,

0:38

France. That was harder because they didn't speak.

0:40

English that great. I don't speak French but nonetheless

0:42

thank you. So cool thing your body had a

0:44

comment was change around here. We don't go back

0:46

in time to her childhood a figure out what

0:48

caused as and made us who we are willing

0:51

to. That way I look at today, I become

0:53

aware of what we're doing. today is serving a

0:55

somehow and how can we take today and make

0:57

tomorrow better as what we do here at all

0:59

today will talk about making that change tomorrow and

1:01

maybe a lot of change in the next thirty

1:03

days and I want to toss in something. A

1:07

little bit about the will in the way they haven't heard

1:09

that. Will talk about that today. it come later you know

1:11

it's er, hang of it or okay. It

1:14

is the daily boost for motivation or.com the

1:16

positive lose you need every single day since

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Two Thousand and Six Episode: Four thousand. Where

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we have four thousand, eight Hundred and eighteen today

1:24

or to believe has been that while we were

1:27

podcasting. Before. Podcasting was cool

1:29

and then it became cool. And.

1:31

Then it was really cool and then it was not so

1:33

cool. I don't wear it is today. nonetheless it's it's now

1:35

it just a thing these days but they we're good to

1:37

have you here today. I did mention my

1:39

face your pressure group that we're. Bringing. In five

1:41

or ten more people. Really? Growing slow,

1:43

the people in right now get impersonal coaching. Heavy

1:45

duty stuff is really literally it's a Youtube a

1:48

three. Four thousand dollars a month for the gonna

1:50

go to you are getting right now. It's

1:52

the beta group. It's fantastic. It's unbelievable if

1:54

you are. My workshop. Six weeks ago. And

1:57

it wasn't quite for you. Then are you had questions?

1:59

Send a notice. The Motivation: will.com my email.

2:01

I'll see you know back with a link

2:03

will get on Zoom! Of answer questions.

2:05

That's it. No sales pitch. It's for you or it's not.

2:07

Do it if you want to that we've got some openings

2:09

for your game. I'd

2:11

So let's do this thing. The

2:14

wheel in the way. In

2:17

thirty days? Really? Can

2:20

you change? Is that what

2:22

they answer's yes, you can try to thirty days.

2:24

How much can to change more than you think?

2:27

That. Before get into this the Sigma for second.

2:30

You. Can Change has been said. You

2:32

all changes instantaneous. Is as we

2:34

put it off we we around the bush but

2:36

but it it changes. A thunderstorm

2:38

came by and hit lightning on your house. Immediately

2:40

your life changes that day home. you're not going

2:42

to wait thirty days them for the like did

2:44

it like a plan on lightning strike in your

2:46

house or you know it happens, you changed. It

2:49

is that simple. Everything. Is like that

2:51

now where humans who gets more complicated but up

2:53

to start with that, let's move on because. A.

2:56

Lot of you will say it's only silly. You

2:58

can change anything and everything about your life in

3:00

thirty days. I believe you can literally changed everything

3:02

about your life. You don't believe me? Just ponder

3:04

that for just a few minutes. What?

3:07

Could happen if lightning struck your

3:09

home. Bots. Ramifications to

3:11

that? That would change everything about your

3:13

life, including maybe your life, right? It.

3:15

Is totally possible. So if you're only we just think

3:18

about a little bit. Don't go crazy better. Don't get

3:20

all philosophical about a don't get all i get positivity

3:22

psychology about it. Or do that. This except

3:24

as possible. To com a silly

3:26

but everything I've ever done. In. My life.

3:28

Was. Rooted in a sprint usually about

3:31

thirty day sprint. Lot of

3:33

things over a week or two, and some of

3:35

those thirty days friends became a year. Six months

3:37

or year. But. Every single time I've done

3:39

it everything changed when I sat down as it let's go,

3:41

let's do this thing. it's gonna happen. I commit

3:43

to a to go after it. Yes, I lose a lot of

3:45

sleep yes it or to harding bags under my eyes. a whole

3:48

thing. But. Every time I do, If

3:50

it takes me to the next stage of life, I

3:52

literally crete the next level. I said, let's go make

3:54

it, let's do it. Whatever it takes to get their

3:56

bomb done and it carries me. Like

3:58

this thing I did this. Twenty.

4:00

Years ago I started this thing. Twenty years

4:02

ago. It. Was not fun to start.

4:04

Trust me. Still, Here.

4:08

And you could change everything about your life when we talk about that

4:10

now. Tell. You it. Well.

4:13

Napoleon Hill said. The

4:15

first thing is to have a major definite

4:17

purpose around here. We call it a big

4:19

as goal or an obsessive objective. Gonna.

4:22

Be big below Scary. Make

4:25

you a little bit. Hesitant to do it,

4:27

but it has to be a definite purpose.

4:30

You gotta know what you go on after. It

4:32

has Rozsival. If you don't know exactly what you're going

4:34

after, the motivation will not be there for you to

4:36

do that. Number.

4:39

Two, if you're a negative talker about yourself that

4:41

needs to come to an end, Others

4:44

will throw sticks and stones. You do

4:46

not need to throw them at yourself.

4:50

Not. Be my coaching and I spin

4:52

not a know, maybe fifteen hours a week talking

4:54

to people groups mostly these days, but a lot

4:56

of individuals as well. That.

4:59

Was are you want to things that I do. The people

5:01

pay me to do and it's kinda weird but it

5:03

works. I. Don't let him do that. Anybody

5:05

talks negative. I stopped to interrupt that patter.

5:08

I redirect them and they'll try it three

5:10

or four times. And. Eventually they

5:12

got okay. this is not going to war. It's like

5:14

your kid trying to to something that supposed to do.

5:16

You keep stopping up. Eventually they stop. Happens.

5:19

My dogs and cats do that as well. To

5:22

stop a negative talk is another going on around

5:25

just as try to get and it's hard.

5:27

Sometimes it's easier to drily shout yourself down. Beat.

5:30

Self esteem of is easier to do that and try to

5:32

pump yourself up. Once you

5:34

get that momentum, Whatever got you here today.

5:37

I. Don't care what it is, the got you

5:39

here. That's positive. Gives us a credit. Given.

5:42

It a bad thing the got here you little fix

5:44

something. Don't. Dwell on that. Going

5:46

to get more of it. I

5:50

want you to list all the things that you can be

5:52

successful at Napoleon Hill Said the same thing. Make

5:55

it a long list. Long list

5:57

is is a make it a list so long.

6:00

The tired of writing at. The.

6:02

Stuff you can be good at. Lot.

6:04

Were all of us are gonna think you're not going

6:06

to do them all the stock into a Boston this

6:08

morning? Oh My. God. As. She's a huge

6:10

you didn't miss got. I had a list of all these

6:12

things out here and I'm so tired, so worn out I'm

6:14

starting focus I said. that's my point. I

6:16

wore you out, I loaded. you have to the point you

6:19

made this long long list of everything. and eventually it's an

6:21

absurd list you realize Wobble? I'm good at all that stuff.

6:23

Let me pick a couple. Make.

6:25

A list. It's very long. Takes.

6:28

Time to do it. If you will take the time to

6:30

make a list for yourself that so long. Did

6:32

you like? Okay, fine. I'm talented. Let me go to this

6:34

thing. Nobody. Else can do for you. Decide.

6:40

That you will do whatever it takes to reach your goal.

6:42

Be obsessed about it for the next thirty days. Nothing.

6:45

Will stop you. You have to decide to do that.

6:49

And. As a big deal. You.

6:52

Must get obsessed by it. They. You can get

6:54

obsessed by everything. But. They're

6:56

certainly you any don't have do them all up same

6:58

time. I'm a big fan of not doing them all

7:00

at the same time. I.

7:02

Have people that want to stop smoking and will

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lose weight to well as well. Listen and Stop

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Smoking First. Don't.

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Try to the both would stop smoking first. Why?

7:11

Because they've been. If you ever tried to stop

7:13

smoking you're going to eat. Data.

7:15

Suddenly you're sweet tooth is gonna kick it would use

7:17

oh stop smoking First them lose the weight. Don't do

7:19

them at the same time it is. Do them. With. What

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8:36

know, feel unstoppable sometimes. It feels like there's no possible way.

8:38

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8:40

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8:43

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9:14

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9:18

take massive and perfect action and

9:20

don't take no for an answer. But I did mention at the

9:22

beginning of the program, we'll talk about the will and the way a little bit.

9:24

This is kind of new science. I'm not going to spend a whole lot of

9:27

time on it today but it is available in the coaching that I do because

9:29

it's part of what I do these days. Modern

9:31

neurological science about things. The

9:34

will being the motivation. Motivation

9:36

is one of these things we don't truly understand

9:38

yet. It is a resource that does not run

9:40

out. A popular myth a long time ago even

9:43

I thought it was true. It doesn't run out.

9:45

And then eventually I realized, no, it never runs

9:47

out. Motivation

9:49

is interesting. When you tie it to a goal, people

9:51

sometimes wonder why I got all the motivation but I

9:54

won't do my goal or I have a goal

9:56

but I won't get motivated. Well, the goal would

9:58

be called the way. this

10:00

is the biggest deal. I have a concept around here that I teach

10:02

all the time. I

10:04

just call it proof of concept. That's all. And yeah, everybody

10:06

calls things proof of concept. What does that mean? If

10:08

I come up with an idea that I want to do, something that

10:11

I think is big and crazy and I'm a dash of something, I

10:13

want to go after it. The

10:15

first thing I do is figure it out if I could make it

10:17

happen, at least at a very rudimentary level. If

10:19

there's technology involved, I want to make sure it can happen. If

10:22

I decide I want to teach a certain thing, I want to make

10:24

sure I can actually learn it, understand it, get the results that I

10:26

want. I'm going to try it on myself first. I'm going to try

10:28

it first. What am I doing

10:30

actually? Well I had this

10:32

idea to be motivated to go after it and yet I

10:35

just didn't move on it. So

10:37

by doing proof of concept, basically what

10:39

I'm doing is I'm figuring out the way. And this

10:41

is the biggest things that stops most people and going

10:44

after things they want. Don't know how. How

10:47

could you know how? You've never done it before, right? So

10:50

no matter what goal you set, if you don't know

10:52

the steps to get there, you

10:54

can be as motivated as you want to, but you're not motivated enough

10:56

to go through the process, to go through the pain, to do whatever

10:59

it takes to get there in the next 30 days. You're not going to

11:01

do it. So a lot of

11:03

what I do around here is mostly figure out the

11:05

way for people because I understand the motivation is automatic

11:07

if I can show them the path to get there.

11:10

Always works that way. So whatever you're doing today, if you're

11:12

trying to find motivation, then look at

11:14

the thing. Okay, this is what I want and I

11:17

just can't seem to get myself off the damn couch. All

11:19

right, well, great. If I

11:21

did get myself off the couch, what

11:23

couple of steps would I take to begin to make this thing real?

11:25

In the very minute

11:27

you figure out the way, bam,

11:31

motivation arrives like magic. There's

11:34

a whole lot to the science of the will of the

11:36

way right now that's out there. And frankly, we get to

11:38

a point where you can't explain it any more than that.

11:42

We don't know so much about the brain so far. We're

11:44

working on it, but you can use your intuition. You can

11:46

kind of figure out between the lines and go, yeah, now

11:48

I see why it works at least at this point. Now

11:50

I see how it works. I'm gonna get what I want.

11:52

If you're looking for motivation, come

11:55

up with something you want to do and

11:57

figure out the way to get it. Even if it's the first couple

11:59

of babies. steps and give you all the motivation

12:01

that you could ever use. I

12:04

think your passion program is just that. I literally did not

12:06

know exactly what I wanted to do with it so I

12:09

put in a proof of concept, tried it out on a

12:11

few people, got the results and said this will work. Ultimately

12:14

it has to make change in people's lives. This is working,

12:16

it will work, let's blow it up, let's go. I'll

12:19

see you tomorrow, right here on

12:22

the Daily Boost.

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