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No matter what the court. t.
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Y. Y
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keep. Mental.
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Mental. Man thank you so much for
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all the work you do to motivate
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spiral me. A couple times a day
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I get up the phone call or
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maybe jump on zoo or an email.
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Today it was South Africa, it was
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Iceland of all places. As
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a cool people in Iceland it was Paris,
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France. That was harder because they didn't speak.
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English that great. I don't speak French but nonetheless
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thank you. So cool thing your body had a
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comment was change around here. We don't go back
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in time to her childhood a figure out what
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caused as and made us who we are willing
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to. That way I look at today, I become
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aware of what we're doing. today is serving a
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somehow and how can we take today and make
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tomorrow better as what we do here at all
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today will talk about making that change tomorrow and
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maybe a lot of change in the next thirty
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days and I want to toss in something. A
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little bit about the will in the way they haven't heard
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that. Will talk about that today. it come later you know
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it's er, hang of it or okay. It
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Then it was really cool and then it was not so
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cool. I don't wear it is today. nonetheless it's it's now
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it just a thing these days but they we're good to
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have you here today. I did mention my
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the beta group. It's fantastic. It's unbelievable if
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you are. My workshop. Six weeks ago. And
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it wasn't quite for you. Then are you had questions?
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Send a notice. The Motivation: will.com my email.
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I'll see you know back with a link
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will get on Zoom! Of answer questions.
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That's it. No sales pitch. It's for you or it's not.
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Do it if you want to that we've got some openings
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for your game. I'd
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So let's do this thing. The
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wheel in the way. In
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thirty days? Really? Can
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you change? Is that what
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they answer's yes, you can try to thirty days.
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How much can to change more than you think?
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That. Before get into this the Sigma for second.
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You. Can Change has been said. You
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all changes instantaneous. Is as we
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put it off we we around the bush but
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but it it changes. A thunderstorm
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came by and hit lightning on your house. Immediately
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your life changes that day home. you're not going
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to wait thirty days them for the like did
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it like a plan on lightning strike in your
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house or you know it happens, you changed. It
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is that simple. Everything. Is like that
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now where humans who gets more complicated but up
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to start with that, let's move on because. A.
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Lot of you will say it's only silly. You
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can change anything and everything about your life in
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thirty days. I believe you can literally changed everything
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about your life. You don't believe me? Just ponder
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that for just a few minutes. What?
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Could happen if lightning struck your
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home. Bots. Ramifications to
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that? That would change everything about your
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life, including maybe your life, right? It.
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Is totally possible. So if you're only we just think
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about a little bit. Don't go crazy better. Don't get
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all philosophical about a don't get all i get positivity
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psychology about it. Or do that. This except
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as possible. To com a silly
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but everything I've ever done. In. My life.
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Was. Rooted in a sprint usually about
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thirty day sprint. Lot of
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things over a week or two, and some of
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those thirty days friends became a year. Six months
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or year. But. Every single time I've done
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it everything changed when I sat down as it let's go,
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let's do this thing. it's gonna happen. I commit
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to a to go after it. Yes, I lose a lot of
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sleep yes it or to harding bags under my eyes. a whole
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thing. But. Every time I do, If
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it takes me to the next stage of life, I
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literally crete the next level. I said, let's go make
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it, let's do it. Whatever it takes to get their
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bomb done and it carries me. Like
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this thing I did this. Twenty.
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Years ago I started this thing. Twenty years
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ago. It. Was not fun to start.
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Trust me. Still, Here.
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And you could change everything about your life when we talk about that
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now. Tell. You it. Well.
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Napoleon Hill said. The
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first thing is to have a major definite
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purpose around here. We call it a big
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as goal or an obsessive objective. Gonna.
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Be big below Scary. Make
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you a little bit. Hesitant to do it,
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but it has to be a definite purpose.
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You gotta know what you go on after. It
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has Rozsival. If you don't know exactly what you're going
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after, the motivation will not be there for you to
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do that. Number.
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Two, if you're a negative talker about yourself that
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needs to come to an end, Others
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will throw sticks and stones. You do
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not need to throw them at yourself.
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Not. Be my coaching and I spin
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not a know, maybe fifteen hours a week talking
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to people groups mostly these days, but a lot
4:56
of individuals as well. That.
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Was are you want to things that I do. The people
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pay me to do and it's kinda weird but it
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works. I. Don't let him do that. Anybody
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talks negative. I stopped to interrupt that patter.
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I redirect them and they'll try it three
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or four times. And. Eventually they
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got okay. this is not going to war. It's like
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your kid trying to to something that supposed to do.
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You keep stopping up. Eventually they stop. Happens.
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My dogs and cats do that as well. To
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stop a negative talk is another going on around
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just as try to get and it's hard.
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Sometimes it's easier to drily shout yourself down. Beat.
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Self esteem of is easier to do that and try to
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pump yourself up. Once you
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get that momentum, Whatever got you here today.
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I. Don't care what it is, the got you
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here. That's positive. Gives us a credit. Given.
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It a bad thing the got here you little fix
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something. Don't. Dwell on that. Going
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to get more of it. I
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want you to list all the things that you can be
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successful at Napoleon Hill Said the same thing. Make
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it a long list. Long list
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is is a make it a list so long.
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The tired of writing at. The.
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Stuff you can be good at. Lot.
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Were all of us are gonna think you're not going
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to do them all the stock into a Boston this
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morning? Oh My. God. As. She's a huge
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you didn't miss got. I had a list of all these
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things out here and I'm so tired, so worn out I'm
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starting focus I said. that's my point. I
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wore you out, I loaded. you have to the point you
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made this long long list of everything. and eventually it's an
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absurd list you realize Wobble? I'm good at all that stuff.
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Let me pick a couple. Make.
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A list. It's very long. Takes.
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Time to do it. If you will take the time to
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make a list for yourself that so long. Did
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you like? Okay, fine. I'm talented. Let me go to this
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thing. Nobody. Else can do for you. Decide.
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That you will do whatever it takes to reach your goal.
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Be obsessed about it for the next thirty days. Nothing.
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Will stop you. You have to decide to do that.
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And. As a big deal. You.
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Must get obsessed by it. They. You can get
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obsessed by everything. But. They're
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certainly you any don't have do them all up same
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This is kind of new science. I'm not going to spend a whole lot of
9:27
time on it today but it is available in the coaching that I do because
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it's part of what I do these days. Modern
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neurological science about things. The
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will being the motivation. Motivation
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is one of these things we don't truly understand
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yet. It is a resource that does not run
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out. A popular myth a long time ago even
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I thought it was true. It doesn't run out.
9:45
And then eventually I realized, no, it never runs
9:47
out. Motivation
9:49
is interesting. When you tie it to a goal, people
9:51
sometimes wonder why I got all the motivation but I
9:54
won't do my goal or I have a goal
9:56
but I won't get motivated. Well, the goal would
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be called the way. this
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is the biggest deal. I have a concept around here that I teach
10:02
all the time. I
10:04
just call it proof of concept. That's all. And yeah, everybody
10:06
calls things proof of concept. What does that mean? If
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I come up with an idea that I want to do, something that
10:11
I think is big and crazy and I'm a dash of something, I
10:13
want to go after it. The
10:15
first thing I do is figure it out if I could make it
10:17
happen, at least at a very rudimentary level. If
10:19
there's technology involved, I want to make sure it can happen. If
10:22
I decide I want to teach a certain thing, I want to make
10:24
sure I can actually learn it, understand it, get the results that I
10:26
want. I'm going to try it on myself first. I'm going to try
10:28
it first. What am I doing
10:30
actually? Well I had this
10:32
idea to be motivated to go after it and yet I
10:35
just didn't move on it. So
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by doing proof of concept, basically what
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I'm doing is I'm figuring out the way. And this
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is the biggest things that stops most people and going
10:44
after things they want. Don't know how. How
10:47
could you know how? You've never done it before, right? So
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no matter what goal you set, if you don't know
10:52
the steps to get there, you
10:54
can be as motivated as you want to, but you're not motivated enough
10:56
to go through the process, to go through the pain, to do whatever
10:59
it takes to get there in the next 30 days. You're not going to
11:01
do it. So a lot of
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what I do around here is mostly figure out the
11:05
way for people because I understand the motivation is automatic
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if I can show them the path to get there.
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Always works that way. So whatever you're doing today, if you're
11:12
trying to find motivation, then look at
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the thing. Okay, this is what I want and I
11:17
just can't seem to get myself off the damn couch. All
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right, well, great. If I
11:21
did get myself off the couch, what
11:23
couple of steps would I take to begin to make this thing real?
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In the very minute
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you figure out the way, bam,
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motivation arrives like magic. There's
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a whole lot to the science of the will of the
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way right now that's out there. And frankly, we get to
11:38
a point where you can't explain it any more than that.
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We don't know so much about the brain so far. We're
11:44
working on it, but you can use your intuition. You can
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kind of figure out between the lines and go, yeah, now
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I see why it works at least at this point. Now
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I see how it works. I'm gonna get what I want.
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If you're looking for motivation, come
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up with something you want to do and
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figure out the way to get it. Even if it's the first couple
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of babies. steps and give you all the motivation
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that you could ever use. I
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think your passion program is just that. I literally did not
12:06
know exactly what I wanted to do with it so I
12:09
put in a proof of concept, tried it out on a
12:11
few people, got the results and said this will work. Ultimately
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it has to make change in people's lives. This is working,
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it will work, let's blow it up, let's go. I'll
12:19
see you tomorrow, right here on
12:22
the Daily Boost.
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