Sam Tielemans, LMFT
Couples Healing From Pornography Addiction
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When pornography use is discovered in a relationship, there is often a lot of grief and hurt that surfaces.Shock about how this could have happened. Feeling stuck in pain not knowing how to make sense of it.And grief about what the relationsh
After pornography use, a husband becomes a source of pain as well as a source of comfort for his wife. this can be such a confusing place for both people to be.Sometimes she doesn't want to be around him at all, but other times she needs him c
Understanding and resolving the underlying issues that lead pornography use is essential. Without addressing the root cause, you're bound to continue to struggle with triggers and temptations.Announcement!!!Trust is a critical part of rebuil
Announcement!!!Trust is a critical part of rebuilding your relationship after pornography use has damaged itSo, I decided to do a special trust building workshop, where for 90 minutes I’ll be doing a deep dive and sharing with you specific st
Announcement!!!Trust is a critical part of rebuilding your relationship after pornography use has damaged it.So, I decided to do a special trust building workshop, where for 90 minutes I’ll be doing a deep dive and sharing with you specific s
Have you ever felt so hopeless and discouraged as you've tried to quit pornography that you thought that there's no way out?Despite how hard you've tried, you just haven't been able to get this problem out of your life.This is how Braden felt
Pornography use damages a relationship in deep and significant ways.Trust is broken and her wall goes up.The idea of forgiveness can feel impossible to offer, and a husband feels despair wondering if they’ll ever move on from the past and fin
When a woman discovers her husband's pornography use, her whole world gets turn upside down. Oftentimes she now thinks that everything was a lie. Their whole relationship was fake. They don't even know who their husband is anymore.Given how m
When a spouse is gone for the day or weekend and a man is all alone, it's a common trigger.In this episode I share 3 specific things you can do to make sure that those periods of being alone won't cause another setback.For therapy with Sam:I
Change is 100% if you have the right ingredients.In today's episode, I want to introduce to you a man who has found success, and 2 years later, he continues to to do well, have a strong marriage, and help other people in their struggles with q
Initiating conversations can be very difficult for a husband to do.If his wife is in a good mood, he doesn’t want to bring up the pain all over again.If she's in a bad mood, he doesn't want to cause a fight or make things worse.Thus, he avoi
How do the conversations go when you talk about her pain?Do they end with you feeling closer or further apart? Do you feel hopeless and inadequate, not knowing what to say to help her feel comforted?For a wife, not getting the understanding a
Have you ever gotten into an argument with your spouse where you're talking about specific actions that he's committed to do but then doesn't follow through?For a wife, it can feel really frustrating if there’s a lack of follow through because
"We've been spinning our wheels for 9 months... I'm in a worst place now than the day I discovered everything."A couple reached out to me a few hours before recording this episode. They were both discouraged and frustrated add the slow pace of
This road to healing your marriage can be agonizing. So many people wonder how long will this take? They feel like they might not be able to hold on much longer.The good news is that it’s actually not based on a specific timeline or a nu
After the discovery of pornography use, it shatters the foundation of the entire relationship. Naturally, it becomes the center of most conversations as you try to resolve the issues and pain it causes.Then after you start making some progress
Couples can very easily get stuck when a husband has a slip up, acts like things are normal, and then his wife finds out that he searched for something and didn’t tell her.This can cause a wife to spiral into distrust, self protection, anger a
March 18th: Join the free 5 Day 'Overcome Your Urges' Challenge to get tools to resolve the root cause of your urges so you can eliminate them instead of resisting them.It can be very discouraging when there is a mismatch between husband and
The idea of being in a relationship with a narcissist can feel overwhelming.After all, a “personality disorder” is a serious thing…But what if people slinging this diagnosis have been wrong the whole time?What if there was different a way to
Safety is necessary in order for relationships to be repaired after pornography use.Many women default to using an emotional wall to keep themselves safe after they discover their husband's pornography use.You've all heard about and have trie
Safety is necessary in order for relationships to be repaired after pornography use.Many women default to using an emotional wall to keep themselves safe after they discover their husband's pornography use.As time goes on and he develops the
It's very easy for men to switch one bad coping mechanism (pornography) for another (food, video games, social media, TV, etc.).Some people might see those things as far less harmful, so they allow themselves to do it.However, swapping differ
In a relationship, having a strong feeling of security is so important.When pornography addiction or habit is discovered, it completely undermines the security that she feels.This causes lots of issues for both people and the relationship its
Lots of people struggle with feelings of low self worth, unworthiness, inadequacy and a lack of self love.Affirmations and being positive doesn’t seem to stick because we don’t actually believe the good things we are saying.It can be hard to
Have you ever had a good day with your spouse, then out of nowhere, you get hit with a wave of deep sadness.Then you share the sadness and the conversation spirals and he doesn’t say much in response.If you’re a husband, have you ever been fa
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