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Hey guys I'm Candy and I'm Sir and
1:00
you're listening to was it Confession is if
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this is the first time you're listening to
1:04
the pot the simple premise is myself and
1:06
smoke either in my closet to get some
1:08
things of our just and you get something
1:10
of your chest. So buffers go You know
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we gotta do these America Versa just were
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not that are that are like a same
1:16
as you're gonna love sushi you got what
1:18
I will way these album. Had
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a federal judge trap. That
1:29
we've. Got a live extra pressure
1:31
again of her. A title is
1:33
sorry but not sorry. I'm. Sorry.
1:37
I can be since around my husband
1:39
had an emotional affair while. Much
1:43
as pregnant. And I mean. Oh
1:46
wow, I was pregnant and during the
1:49
first few months of their birth I
1:51
found out about it when our child
1:53
was about one years old. My guy
1:56
for got on link is what's up.
1:58
From his laptop I noticed. When
2:00
I had used his laptop I don't
2:02
know that my spirit moved me and
2:04
I checked his message is why I
2:06
saw broke me. Ah,
2:09
here I was taking. on
2:11
a lot of the childcare responsibilities
2:13
because I was. The. One on
2:15
maternity leave. I know better now and
2:17
you best believe it will be different
2:19
if I choose to have a sick
2:21
to. Anyways,
2:24
We have hast for.and work to out.
2:27
Took a long time believe find the
2:29
in a healthy a space I too
2:31
have let alone as the resentment though
2:33
because it was not healthy for me
2:36
it would manifest in ways that made
2:38
me act out of character and. I
2:40
am not misbehaving for no man. Fast forward
2:42
a couple of years. my husband comes to
2:45
tell me the girl unexpected he passed away.
3:13
The key. To.
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Success. Music.
3:23
Muzak to effect until. As
3:27
he got sedated, Zero I. I
3:30
thought, let's look at my. Olive
3:33
Country be some as of now. I'm. Not
3:36
Doing this. Of
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fossil had a couple of years for husband
3:44
comes to tell me. A
3:46
dull unexpectedly passed away. And.
3:49
He would like to do a social
3:52
media tribute. I
3:55
am sorry for her. Friends and Family
3:58
This list. I
4:01
am Not. Guys
4:03
will make it through this. I'm
4:06
sorry for her friends and family. this is
4:08
passed away, but there is a part of
4:10
me. Now also isn't
4:12
sorry. And I don't feel any same
4:14
about a good I told my husband he
4:16
has never as a. Pet me or
4:18
even a child on social. Was
4:26
I so I don't know? What
4:28
value? of
4:31
what values this is are being to
4:33
whatever he is feeling how he's expecting.
4:36
To. Suffer the insult either. am.
4:39
I. Have Never Ever told Anyone
4:41
this until you Guys. That might
4:43
turn suck prison opening. Laughing. I'm a
4:45
day. Festival.
4:48
Or Ip. Not,
4:54
you know what? I'm not
4:56
bad like Rest in Peace Yes
4:58
box professional. Mma. Problem as much.
5:03
All the time you know
5:05
my problem. So like recipes
5:07
are family can grieve and
5:09
peacefully but like doesn't That's
5:11
my story line. Your notes
5:13
also why. Am
5:17
I hate to be optimistic? make of
5:19
sorts as is actually doesn't know how
5:21
your marriage is gonna lesser this because
5:23
when you stop to that she plays
5:25
Las Dismember Very much in love with
5:28
this woman. Like. He's. Gonna tell
5:30
you whatever he wants to tell you now
5:32
but when you got a policy was that
5:34
he's never even put me all he's a
5:36
he's any social and i us pay a
5:38
social media he gets repeated the woman he
5:40
had an emotional affair way as solely a
5:42
most know I guess what there's only one
5:44
past know like to tell the story now
5:46
i gotta say why be a was I
5:48
say. And. He's in your
5:50
house. cry? It's either. Not real
5:52
clean ecstasies. Agree then. Losing.
5:55
Weight. Loss or
5:57
of do this. Hi
6:02
where do you have? Hands off with like a
6:04
little story. Senate and pressure on him. Every
6:07
Christmas my mom always pop cook
6:09
the chicken on Christmas Eve. And
6:12
leave the out to cool occur.
6:14
There was one year when my
6:16
sister came downstairs because she thought
6:18
she could say something in the
6:20
kitchen. She came downstairs to find
6:22
the Chicken Crawford a nod German
6:25
Shepherd saliva. with
6:27
a big chunk missing from. His. Mother
6:31
the next day. They.
6:35
Said. See wants
6:37
us to see it. Pick.
6:42
Up around that see bit. Panties.
6:45
And suits invalid produce Cadiz Cadiz
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can be produced and his colleagues
6:49
that ah. Without saying
6:52
a while, And
6:55
it wasn't until books day. That.
6:57
Have A! My sister came clean to the
6:59
whole. Family. To
7:02
with I don't care less. Listen,
7:05
how now how how how to the
7:07
not many of you know I'm seeing
7:09
dog. I got a dog. yeah yeah,
7:12
knows he's black and and would not.
7:14
We need to be clear about something.
7:16
Get a sequel. Books that number one
7:18
on I mean present to fight with
7:20
said either Laden Boy dependencies, Bruno's subjects
7:23
and.me to and on. Know bad numbers
7:25
and I'll be lucky. Know say no.
7:27
not in the kissy Kissy. We don't
7:29
even put his bowl in the dishwasher
7:31
puts. the lifestyle is that we separate.
7:35
Yeah. I.
7:39
Target my off of I thought of one
7:41
a lot c. O So
7:43
keep my ah yes I
7:45
agree or disagree. We know
7:47
what I know him but
7:50
some are you a distance
7:52
law. The Dog
7:54
yeah mouth the city for the
7:56
doctor Philip Hi brow. We've.
8:03
Got we've. Already got a strike for that.
8:05
Can move a box of P a C
8:07
around with the he could he know that?
8:09
I know, Who knows mummy don't play them
8:11
games. Ah don't play games and God forbid
8:13
that and to detach. Thought the
8:16
Bank that end of the skies. I'm not
8:18
saying it. But. If he saw
8:20
has had ah I see Brixton has
8:22
died from natural causes. That
8:26
no. One.
8:30
Has been. Doing. That
8:33
was a booming do this year old. Yeah,
8:35
we'll. Need.dot. Know
8:37
Than and know absolutely the fuck
8:39
sorry. Pause, pause, pause, pause. My
8:41
problem might be my puzzle. I'm
8:44
a mom, a new system, and
8:46
once you eat, that. Blink.
8:49
Once you eat, that. Can
8:52
be those semi things have happened here that
8:54
we could. Number. One, the dumps
8:56
never have been in the concept and
8:58
thought that number two this that know
9:00
I will stop are unable to live.
9:03
It was a pop put the chicken to
9:05
me only understanding same. Guy.
9:09
With a bit like this could be a
9:11
complete sense of know what does and what
9:13
does that mean? On a par, what does
9:16
that mean oils? What's so funny is. What
9:18
makes us yesterday? I don't wanna a silo
9:20
by says Conversations box office they will have
9:23
been told that was the chicane. Now.
9:25
Some of you apart pull kinda as a
9:27
kid. make up your mind, make up your
9:29
mind because he said we shouldn't be watching
9:31
for the content. To
9:34
didn't do need at at it
9:36
again. the desired outcome of Apart
9:38
Cook. More was like
9:40
what's the end? what he's gonna'
9:43
mentalities. Need along. With
9:46
pot cooking? What's this? Listen. listen
9:48
when you fully cook a chicken.
9:51
You've. Fully put. Get when you pop
9:54
put it to then go back to
9:56
fully. Was. Surely.
9:58
It dries out. Surely. The. It.
10:01
An ass play ball. I. Don't
10:03
think it makes it sees me that I knew I. Know
10:05
that the reason why that German shepherd
10:07
felt so comfortable with business by somehow
10:09
can not be able to of the
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to just jump straight. In Essence High Cousins Five
11:54
years. Ago a nice to the Uk and I
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decided to install. I see a loss yet though.
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it. Already!
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Ah. And I decided
12:05
to install Kinda and ago I
12:07
went to this city and. I
12:10
went to the city near mine and messed with a day.
12:12
We. Started texting and few weeks pasts we
12:14
decided to go on a date in the
12:16
city during the testing phase eastern to telling
12:18
me. He had depression. And.
12:21
Yeah, sorry but to get us. He
12:23
started telling me he had to depression when he.
12:26
Was younger you to the fact
12:28
he had erected so disillusioned. And
12:33
he then proceeds telling me that she is
12:35
the full We start speaking he went to
12:37
the ducks and got treatment so he was
12:39
quite inexperience in sex even though okay he
12:41
was his his mid twenties or about know
12:43
that's not as often as a bass even
12:46
though he was in his mid twenties. but
12:48
he was the happiest. see it as being
12:50
as he got his confidence back. Love I
12:52
was a bit unclear as to why or
12:54
meant by still wanted to go on a
12:56
date with him so on the day of
12:58
the date we went to dinner drinks with
13:00
sided to go back to minds we. Started
13:03
kissing and things started to get
13:05
started when order facade and this
13:07
man stripped naked. And
13:11
stop pumping says fools the
13:13
know what you mean pumping
13:15
them with a must see
13:17
on its advil. He got
13:19
a full erection. Put.
13:22
Something bill into his bowl. Say
13:24
something. Have
13:28
nothing. In the post.
13:31
Office. I.
13:35
Was reading in. His
13:39
hands on I'm. Pretty
13:44
pumped up. his boss. He
13:47
gets a put her at said pets. His
13:49
hand on his hips. stop posing like superman.
13:52
I just started busting out. Last thing I. Didn't.
14:00
It hurts. The most the real
14:02
thing I've ever experienced. The eventually we
14:04
sat down to talk and he explains
14:06
he went through private surgery where he
14:09
ended up getting. Upset him. And
14:17
his based in his penis
14:19
to listed new follows: What
14:24
are you say the right now? what
14:27
other? while I am reading. So.
14:29
He has to squeeze the bulls to inflate
14:31
the willie. The.
14:34
Procedure Cost. Twelve.
14:36
Thousand Man Great British Society for
14:39
you can depend on. I'll tag.
14:42
Worth every penny staring at Simony.
14:45
Now. Right? A
14:48
society? As a service
14:50
as know the play in
14:52
a rock pop. Pop President.
14:54
but it's. Really?
14:59
Think. Oh,
15:01
it costs to while thousand pounds. Yeah,
15:04
and it's normally pacelle things in older
15:06
men. So he was one of the
15:08
few young men in the Uk with
15:11
the by you know offices see the
15:13
weaknesses of that. She caught a bionic,
15:15
did this. This is it. That's what
15:18
me and my friends corners sex did
15:20
they have says go with a couple
15:22
of paragraphs, have a whole. Even
15:25
off the most we'd first date.
15:28
As. All we still continue to
15:30
see each other for what I
15:32
actually think pause that's actually very
15:34
cute sixty when I think that's
15:36
very yes and. We
15:39
started we can see seats are them
15:41
for a while until one day he
15:43
decides to tell me that he has
15:45
told his mum about first encounter. That
15:47
he told her that once. Who.
15:50
Ice Who? Who.
15:53
Once I said his com
15:55
tasted. Have met so. They're
16:03
like. This
16:05
you can watch. This
16:08
is a while and. This is
16:10
cool. Case and behavior says eight know
16:12
when. You're. Saying sure what?
16:14
mother? She said
16:17
excited about. His.
16:19
Yeah, his procedure working in
16:22
his favor. Design
16:25
mass home from the accordion.
16:28
From the why you didn't view or did.
16:35
I was horrified that he said such
16:37
a thing with his mom, but the
16:39
horrid didn't stop. I told him that
16:41
he shouldn't have done that because I
16:43
wouldn't be able to me how without
16:45
dropping dead if embarrassments to what he
16:47
proceeded to say the i would probably
16:49
never meet her because his parents don't
16:51
agree with him. A split the Uk
16:53
season though I knew. I
17:01
thought I'd. Rather than man with a
17:03
blow up, the tell you. That
17:06
as parents, alive, immigrants, Came.
17:09
On Sunset above him and sit and listen.
17:11
I thought it a mom was why. I
17:14
told you. Do.
17:18
Okay, That's still more
17:20
of even though I'm white European, I'm
17:22
very dark said that would wouldn't go
17:25
too well either. Said there. It was
17:27
my first experience of the British Months.
17:29
Not only. Oh,
17:32
that's not only. Has
17:36
he the most? Pings
17:39
his uncooked chicken. Color of a
17:41
penis would talk to them. Effect.
17:44
Com read. A
17:48
bionic. Pump in his balls and
17:50
he and his family or Tories
17:52
I less that relationship. it was
17:54
a relationship is this. A
17:56
bit traumatize, but at least I came out with
17:58
a cold and fun. I know. I
18:03
couldn't see it is I know
18:05
we like detail. But.
18:08
I feel like this is this is excessive.
18:10
I really sat on a twelve K did.
18:13
Have an indecisive vote Tory but my
18:15
energy often this period of my life
18:17
has been high and have achieved so
18:20
much: Five hour. To
18:22
take that bionic big our a sauna.
18:24
think both. If you've been. Imagining
18:29
with months without even knowing.
18:31
I take your motherly advice.
18:34
And you'll kill a person said like
18:37
take your sense of humor and how
18:39
you always speak facts get tell your
18:41
truth was no one I love you.
18:44
Take your confidence. I'm I love
18:46
anywhere I. Go. Your.
18:57
V A confession title is I let
18:59
his mother know he cheated than last.
19:02
Already. Is a lot of us
19:04
of holocaust reading of that? See you on about
19:06
not that I am analysis that attacked the two
19:09
best and my ex partners to is cheating on
19:11
me with his work colleague still by seats his
19:13
school and I learned that his. Ex
19:15
before me sinister things with him off
19:17
the seven years because of the same
19:20
as ah. Ok
19:22
with this can other hand war.
19:24
Two years in he tells me
19:27
he's surprisingly with a birthday trip
19:29
I stay at his for few
19:31
months before said trip, working from
19:33
home while he's at work and
19:35
peep the old laptop in his
19:37
office and unattended. ah I snooped
19:40
to find out where The Beat.
19:42
A trip is I would have been
19:44
less. Bought to get more than
19:46
I bargained for. I'm fine. Thousands
19:48
of messages, how says, thousands of
19:51
messages and face times to another
19:53
woman she works in his school.
19:56
Best believe. I was furious
19:58
beyond police I'd. Don't let
20:00
him know what of the vaccine.
20:02
And long story short with two
20:04
weeks passed me finding out. Why
20:08
best believe. I was furious
20:10
beyond belief. I don't let him know what
20:12
I've seen. And long story short with two weeks
20:15
passed me finding out like a as he's writing
20:17
this. It was. Petty.
20:20
Revenge Time. He
20:23
inherits a house from his gun
20:25
that I let him install a
20:27
new kitchen, bathroom, carpet, Rewriting.
20:30
We rewiring x x at Trump. On
20:33
we one weekend he's at
20:35
the football. And I'm at the
20:38
house renovating. Note: You guessed it.
20:41
Not. Netherlands in the desert of do that
20:43
of the map is I don't do that. I'm.
20:47
Destroying and leaving all the evidence
20:49
in my wait. To.
20:52
See, mess up the house Sanders you
20:54
mess up the whole world will block
20:56
Block Med Sci. let him renovate his
20:58
kitchen, bathroom, carpet and rewiring and dead
21:00
at that. just doesn't mess up the
21:02
place. Love that. You love that see
21:05
you are printed out. Let's. Say
21:07
a some key file worth of
21:09
messages, screenshots, Nude imagery of
21:11
both was the location on
21:13
maps. They'd been together
21:15
and he told me one thing.
21:18
But. Was with her except but oh it's on
21:20
one the what he was with her etc etc
21:22
I pinned to all over the wall was of
21:24
the house is like Regina George when she loses
21:27
the first. And
21:29
lo and behold Jesus took the will
21:31
because the next person at the house
21:33
off the myself was his mods are.
21:36
I was long gone. With. Him and
21:39
his somebody block from social media
21:41
on contact yet seen on. oh
21:43
he could do that psychologically. tried
21:45
to call me on know caller
21:47
id and he voice messages. I
21:49
stand this behavior. I'm sorry I
21:51
said ahmed I'm at a pie
21:53
eyes. And
21:55
the thing is, for me to get to that
21:57
point of a pisces you haven't even even. That
22:07
is Meet us Senate! One son
22:10
is incredible. Free media, incredible. A
22:12
son in games and what? You
22:14
gonna? Let me tell you something
22:16
for free? Yeah, because I've been
22:18
around enough she is to know
22:20
I am also that piled of.
22:22
A relationship. Where
22:25
the managed to the pick someone else and
22:27
not broken the woman's heart of the pile
22:29
of that I let me tell you something,
22:31
the mom knew what he was fucking old
22:34
and moral I go away on I'm not
22:36
I'm I'm always say this they always there
22:38
has she was smiling your face and interstate
22:40
it all go. Ah and I hate to
22:42
make it up. L A C email saying.
22:46
It's of because I'm not a bad so
22:48
I don't have to dissect i experience but
22:50
as a as as a woman yeah, Avatar
22:53
my mom yeah that's my worst nightmare. To
22:55
inflict that on a novel on someone else
22:57
is yeah. Yeah, I see. I've
22:59
always said it. should he bring Barbara
23:01
on Monday cities on to say that
23:03
it was game ball out. Everyone has
23:05
launched an attack. Everyone says we're automatic
23:07
Paid off Yeah, says. was Gabi know
23:09
yet? If you man a saint Oprah
23:11
relationship, someone has gained support. Yeah, an
23:13
egg. The woman that I don't want
23:15
to start by what's my son's put
23:18
a novel woman said rude and as
23:20
absurd. As for all the evidence you
23:22
have, yeah, we're. Not.
23:24
I'd. Say sun at least sense
23:26
mess and he had haven't heard from his. glad
23:28
that you feel spirit work so see what was
23:31
planned that on what would you do and it's
23:33
get thousand he says it will cut see what
23:35
may one of us he would normally pay for
23:37
his sins of says it was by far this
23:39
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