we laugh, we cry, we fall in love, we f-up, we move on and you shouldn't let any ancient rule manipulate you and your happiness just like that, if you know you're ready, then do it. #youdoyou 

moving on is not a competition. there is no one-size-fits-all when it comes to loving (& unloving) and so stop wasting your time thinking that it's some sort of a race. we heal at different paces, we just do. take your time, gauge with it, and let your heart settle. 

don't mind the time-- you've finished and survived, that's all that matters.