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Hello, I'm your host Charmaine,

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and welcome to Beautiful JEMMS!

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Hey, how was your lunch break?

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You met some of the staff? Nice.

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Oh, you know many of them

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already. That's great. You want

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to know why I called some of the

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staff, allies and enemies? Sure.

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Well, first, let's do an

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overview of the staff and what

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their roles entail. Does that

0:34

sound good? All right, let's

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start from the top, who everyone

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reports to is God. He fills

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three roles on the mining site,

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as the great geologist who

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directs you to the area where

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gems can be mined. The great

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engineer who has drawn up a plan

0:50

to follow to extract your gems,

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and the great excavator who

0:54

provides the on site support and

0:58

protection to retrieve your

0:58

gems. In these roles. God

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created you with a specific life

1:02

purpose, you are given a life

1:06

path, and also the freewill and

1:06

the power to live them out. When

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you go to mind on your dig site,

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according to God's will, you

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initiate lessons to transform

1:16

and grow your heart, mind, body

1:21

and spirit. Most of us want to

1:21

be a better version of ourselves

1:25

tomorrow than we are today. That

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innate striving is a desire for

1:30

the evolution of your sole

1:30

purpose. There are two types of

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rounds you receive support from

1:36

with the direction of the great

1:39

excavator, the spiritual realm

1:39

and the physical realm. The

1:43

spiritual realm consists of

1:43

angels, ancestors, and the Holy

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Spirit. Angels work together

1:48

towards a common goal. Some are

1:53

for you and some are against

1:53

you. Your ancestors are invested

1:58

as you are a part of their

1:58

bloodline, the Holy Spirit

2:02

actively carries out the will of

2:02

God. It's important to note here

2:07

that it is not limited to these

2:07

three types of spiritual beings.

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Okay, on the mining site, we

2:11

have on site managers which are

2:16

the Ark angels. They are our

2:16

protectors and guides over all

2:21

other staff. Specifically, the

2:21

operators who are also angels,

2:27

they work closely together.

2:27

Angels are a sign instructed and

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directed to protect and guide

2:33

you through the mining process.

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Your ancestors are the health

2:37

and safety staff. They go out

2:41

before you to ensure your mining

2:41

site is safe for miners. By

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taking note of any dangerous

2:45

areas that can cause potential

2:50

harm, to make sure that you're

2:50

protected. If you are harmed,

2:55

they are the first responders to

2:55

secure your rescue. Many times

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they walk with you to help you

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maneuver safely through

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generational patterns in your

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healing process. Their

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collective experience is key to

3:07

mining the extremely dangerous

3:11

part of the mind containing

3:11

generational curses. This area

3:16

must be mined with the direct

3:16

involvement of the grade

3:19

excavator. He will instruct all

3:19

the appropriate staff to

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orchestrate the digging and

3:22

lifting of the rock surrounding

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the extremely rare gems found

3:26

under these conditions. The

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ancestors are key because you

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are not only removing and

3:34

lifting out the collective rock

3:34

of experiences from generations

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before you, you are also

3:38

collecting the family heirloom

3:43

of gems. The Holy Spirit can

3:43

play multiple roles one many are

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familiar with is that of the

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comforter during times of

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distress when you feel like

3:52

giving up due to the mining

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process, God will send his

3:55

spirit to comfort and keep you

3:59

safe according to your personal

3:59

spiritual beliefs. Beyond site

4:03

managers, operators and health

4:03

and safety staff may take

4:07

different forms and names. So if

4:07

you believe in a higher power,

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who you know them to be may be

4:13

different, but their roles

4:16

remain the same. Now let's move

4:16

on to the physical realm. It

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consists of family, friends and

4:21

others like healers, spiritual

4:24

leaders, psychologists, coaches

4:24

scientists, various

4:28

professionals from these form

4:28

two groups, one of technicians

4:33

and the other mining coworkers.

4:33

The technicians provide

4:38

expertise, assistance and

4:38

support in specific areas of

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your mining process. A

4:42

psychologist may provide you

4:46

with tools to unearth and

4:46

process trauma. While a

4:50

spiritual leader may help you

4:50

use the heavy machinery of

4:53

prayer to live a spirit of

4:53

hopelessness or an alternative

4:57

healer may teach you how to

4:57

temper them. Emotional eating,

5:01

through balancing out the heart,

5:01

mind, body and spirit. These

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technicians can work with you

5:06

face to face through media books

5:10

and other forms of

5:10

communication, your mind and co

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workers or your family, friends

5:13

and any others who are meant to

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interact with you. I'm pretty

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sure you know who these people

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are. They may have been the ones

5:21

you met on lunch break. Right?

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That's why you are curious about

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my labels of allies and enemies.

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Surely all of your co workers

5:29

are allies, right? Well, it's

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quite possible that the majority

5:34

are your allies, but be sure

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there's a sprinkling of enemies

5:38

in there. In fact, there are

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four different roles that the

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staff will fall under either

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allies enemies, frenemies or be

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unbothered. There is no hard and

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fast rule for determining where

5:54

they belong. Mistakenly, some

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believe that you can tell the

5:59

difference by the color of their

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skin, race or ethnicity. There

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are both allies and enemies who

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look just like you have similar

6:06

racial backgrounds and identify

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with the same culture. There are

6:11

those who look different from

6:14

you, but they are sincere

6:14

allies, then there are those who

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play on racial differences and

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ethnicity to support their

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stance as an enemy. You must

6:23

discern who is who the great

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excavator has given you the

6:30

tools you need to figure this

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out. If you remember, he said

6:32

that all roles are intimately

6:37

created by him. So all of these

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roles serve some purpose in your

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process. We are going to go a

6:42

little off book now. I want to

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share some observations with you

6:48

to discern the differences that

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I've learned while on the mining

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site. And don't worry, I checked

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them with the great excavator

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beforehand, I have the green

7:00

light. Keep an open mind. Take

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everything with a grain of salt

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and only keep what you need to

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mine your gems. We'll start with

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everyone's fan faves allies.

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Here are a few ways to tell if

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one of the mining staff is an

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ally. Your life purpose and

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their life purpose intertwine

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theirs, there's a healthy level

7:27

of trust. They support you and

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you support them. There's

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reciprocity, meaning a healthy

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satisfying exchange for both

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parties, which results in value.

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Respect, they show you respect

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and all they do and say they

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only want you to stand in your

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power. They take you as you are

7:47

see the good in you see past

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your imperfections. In other

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words, they accept you and they

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are compassionate. They

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celebrate and cheer you on

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because they want to see you

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succeed. They may or may not

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have emotional ties however,

8:05

they are genuinely invested in

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you. Now how can you tell if

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they're an enemy? Your life

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purpose and their life purpose

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intertwines? Yes, that's right.

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Think of it like you can't have

8:19

a superhero without an arch

8:23

nemesis. You naturally distrust

8:23

them. They clearly undermine

8:30

your power through disrespect,

8:30

rejection, indifference and

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fear. They work towards your

8:34

demise, devaluing and

8:39

discrediting you along the way.

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They are genuinely interested in

8:43

your downfall because they

8:43

somehow benefit from it. These

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are your saboteur. As Merriam

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Webster defines them, a person

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who destroys or damages

8:54

something deliberately. Now

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those frenemies they got a boom

8:59

because I'm bias. They are the

9:06

worst. Reminds me of the old

9:06

Jays smiling in your face them

9:12

backstabbers. I mean at least an

9:12

enemy lets you know straight up

9:16

where they stand. They pull out

9:16

their swords in front of your

9:20

face, not behind your back.

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That's definitely one way to

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know a frenemy. Here are some

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others.

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Sorry, I can help. They are

9:29

usually master manipulators.

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They will have you all messed up

9:33

if you aren't in tune with your

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star player, meaning your

9:38

intuition. You have a clear mind

9:42

and balanced emotions. If these

9:42

three things are out of whack

9:47

every time you're around this

9:47

person. Pause, step away.

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Evaluate you aren't crazy. You

9:51

didn't miss anything. You may be

9:56

in the middle of a manipulative

9:56

IV narcissist thinkable EB

10:00

called gaslighting. As a matter

10:00

of fact, we're going to take a

10:05

brief but hard stop. Right here.

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narcissists can appear in the

10:10

form of lovers, friends and

10:10

family. Usually, they are spoken

10:15

of in these individual terms.

10:15

Did you know that they can

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coexist in groups, it's called

10:19

collective narcissism. According

10:24

to psych today.com, it is

10:24

defined as an exaggerated view

10:28

of the importance or greatness

10:28

of the group to which the

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individual belongs. These groups

10:32

can be as small as a family or

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as large as a nation. Typically,

10:37

these master manipulators are

10:42

double agents. They have all the

10:42

qualities of the enemy with the

10:47

appearance of an ally. Let's say

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you are out at lunch, and you

10:51

leave your protective gear on

10:51

the table. They'll change the

10:56

channel on your walkie talkie

10:56

plays dead batteries and your

11:00

headlamp and kill your sweet

11:00

Canary. I mean, really, you come

11:05

back, put your protective gear

11:05

on and head out into the mic.

11:10

Your headlamp isn't turning on

11:10

though. So you hit your hard

11:14

hat. That doesn't work. So you

11:14

take off the hard hat to get to

11:19

the headlamp. But it's so dark

11:19

you can't see. So you take off

11:24

the goggles to find the switch.

11:24

You look at the switch and it's

11:28

on. Okay, that means the

11:28

batteries are dead. So you reach

11:33

in your bag to get the extra

11:33

batteries. And they're gone.

11:37

Wait where's the canary? Why

11:37

isn't it singing? You start to

11:42

freak out and turn on your

11:42

walkie talkie done. You barely

11:46

get out of there tripping over

11:46

them Tim's? Yup, frenemies got

11:51

you all jacked up. If you don't

11:51

know what I'm saying. Go back to

11:56

episodes five to 10 and you'll

11:56

get me. I think I've said enough

12:00

about frenemies, just know that

12:00

anything goes with them. If you

12:05

are getting mixed signals from

12:05

someone take it for what it is.

12:10

A friend of me may be on the

12:10

other end. Our last mining staff

12:15

or those who are unbothered.

12:15

They are exactly as they sound

12:19

neither for you or against you.

12:19

Oh, but they still serve a

12:23

purpose. They're here to watch.

12:23

You don't know how bad I wish I

12:28

could play Michael Jackson right

12:28

now. I always feel like

12:33

somebody's watching me. Yup, the

12:33

unbothered are creeps, I'm just

12:37

kidding, seriously, they serve

12:37

two purposes. When watching you

12:42

either to be a witness or to

12:42

learn through observing him.

12:47

Some serve as a witness to your

12:47

experiences. The same way a

12:51

witness will cooperate your

12:51

story in court, while others are

12:56

meant to learn from you. There

12:56

is no way any one person can

13:00

experience it all. We need

13:00

examples. So some are unbothered

13:05

because they aren't meant to be

13:05

involved. They are just meant to

13:10

watch to glean knowledge from

13:10

your experiences. Okay, I don't

13:14

think you need any more

13:14

explanation behind their

13:18

creepiness. No, I'm just

13:18

kidding. Let me stop playing

13:22

around. Don't laugh. You're a

13:22

creep, too. All right, like any

13:27

job the staff will be either

13:27

permanent contract or short term

13:31

temporary workers. It's similar

13:31

to the concept of a season

13:36

reason or lifetime. For example,

13:36

the Ark angels, ancestors and

13:40

family are permanent workers.

13:40

Angels and friends can be all

13:45

three categories. The unbothered

13:45

Hmm What are they like? The

13:50

people on the job that do

13:50

nothing except watch you work?

13:54

These on bothered aren't sounded

13:54

too good. Hmm. But they do serve

13:59

a purpose everyone does. Now

13:59

that we have the staff down,

14:03

let's talk about how it all

14:03

works together for the good,

14:07

even to them that are called

14:07

according to His purpose. Romans

14:12

28 Remember where you met God

14:12

earlier by that hard rock? Yes,

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when your childhood experiences

14:17

are being formed, there are

14:21

allies enemies and frenemies

14:21

around making strong impressions

14:26

on you. Some may have been so

14:26

long ago that you forgotten. As

14:31

you mind you will start to

14:31

remember looking at that hard

14:35

rock closely with your headlamp

14:35

of thought. You will be able to

14:40

determine which tools and

14:40

possibly technicians you need to

14:44

dig out your gym. Why while

14:44

you're doing this, keep your

14:49

current allies clothes and

14:49

protective gear on at all times.

14:53

I consider you an ally. So I

14:53

share them My childhood with you

14:58

about my second grade teacher

14:58

and episode 10. It helps to have

15:03

allies to share your stories

15:03

with while you figure them out

15:07

and come to an understanding of

15:07

them. I'm blessed with great

15:12

allies, and I'm betting you are

15:12

two. If not, you're here so

15:16

you're one ally up. The second

15:16

grade teacher I had in Episode

15:21

10 would be classified as an

15:21

enemy. She was consistently

15:25

insensitive and uncaring.

15:25

Honestly, I knew she didn't like

15:30

me, or the other black kids. I

15:30

hated going to her class. God is

15:34

so good though. Because the next

15:34

year, I had the bestest teacher

15:39

in the whole wide school.

15:39

Everyone loves him. She had an

15:43

infectious laugh and a bright

15:43

smile. She was always interested

15:48

in each and every student. My

15:48

interest in science, and its

15:53

connection to nature had always

15:53

been there. She saw the spark

15:57

though, and lit it on fire in

15:57

me. She's a huge reason why I

16:02

love science to this day. When I

16:02

think back, she is one of my

16:06

favorite childhood allies. What

16:06

did these two teachers have in

16:11

common? They were both white,

16:11

two very different people

16:15

playing their role, one as an

16:15

enemy and the other one as an

16:20

ally. These dual experiences

16:20

were important for me to have

16:24

with white people. Imagine if I

16:24

had only experienced one or the

16:29

other, I would not have a

16:29

balanced perspective. I may have

16:34

been fortunate though. Sometimes

16:34

people experience one or the

16:38

other. If this is you remember

16:38

the law of polarity. Everything

16:43

has two sides, and opposite. Hot

16:43

Cold day night, good evil,

16:48

allies enemies. You may have had

16:48

one side of an experience.

16:52

Remember, you're the creep I'm

16:52

just getting the unbothered in

16:57

someone else's life. Look for

16:57

proof outside of your

17:01

experiences. And there's often

17:01

your allies are behind enemy

17:05

lines blending in who they are

17:05

will be made apparent to you

17:10

just keep that walkie talkie of

17:10

intuition by your side.

17:14

Interestingly, I feel that as

17:14

children we are more tuned into

17:19

God in every way. Children are

17:19

honest about what they see how

17:23

they feel and what they think.

17:23

Remembering your childhood

17:28

stories does two things. It

17:28

provides a clear backstory to

17:32

your experiences up to this

17:32

point. And it shows you how to

17:36

be like a child, unassuming,

17:36

honest and open. You can learn a

17:41

great deal about who you are at

17:41

your core by getting in touch

17:46

with your inner child. As we go

17:46

along mining our gems, the

17:50

allies we work with make life

17:50

easier for us by partnering so

17:55

that we're both winning.

17:59

17 says iron

17:59

sharpens iron. Shout out to my

18:03

homie, we'd be going in the

18:03

great excavator places these

18:07

allies in your life for you to

18:07

become better with each

18:11

interaction sharper than you

18:11

were before to fend off the

18:15

enemy and frenemy your allies

18:15

will have messages for you from

18:19

the great excavator both subtle

18:19

and obvious. Here are some

18:24

personal examples or types of

18:24

allies in my life. My brother,

18:28

who was a health and fitness

18:28

technician, he told me years ago

18:33

that water and sleep should be

18:33

top priority to stay healthy. He

18:37

gave me a word of the right time

18:37

to prevent sickness. They can

18:42

also show you by example, like

18:42

my sister who never sees man is

18:46

quick to forgive and always

18:46

carries herself with a smile.

18:51

It's like she was born with some

18:51

protective gear forgiveness. My

18:55

friend risks who has been an

18:55

entrepreneurial technician since

19:00

she was 16. You go girl, or my

19:00

cousin Mecca who gives life

19:04

everything she's got. She moves

19:04

fearlessly when it comes to

19:08

changing the game, creating the

19:08

life she wants with style and

19:13

possess. She's my live your best

19:13

life technician. Then you have

19:17

some allies who are consistently

19:17

thriving on their achievements

19:22

like to other health and fitness

19:22

technicians in my circle, my

19:27

uncle Marty and my friend Dee,

19:27

just watching them accomplishing

19:31

goal after goal is amazing. You

19:31

know, my brother also comes

19:36

under this category, and you'll

19:36

find your allies are multi

19:40

talented, as many of mine are.

19:40

So don't think this is all they

19:44

got. Another type of ally are

19:44

the raw truth tellers, my

19:48

daughter and my homie. You will

19:48

need these people in your life.

19:53

They have strong headlamps of

19:53

thought to illuminate your blind

19:58

spots. They aren't always

19:58

appreciated. As they shouldn't

20:02

be, though, because the truth

20:02

can hurt. However, we all know

20:06

the truth sets you free. So

20:06

always be sure to think these

20:10

allies in your life right after

20:10

you finish crime. Just kidding.

20:15

You know, I love y'all. Another

20:15

type of ally are those who have

20:20

similar personalities, traits or

20:20

shared interests, like my friend

20:24

Mila, we take deep dives into

20:24

the ocean of emotion. She's my

20:29

poet technician, or my friend

20:31

Netta, ladies and gentlemen,

20:31

travel technicians, tickets and waves

20:36

on the go, having fun. There are

20:36

many types of allies out there,

20:41

I couldn't possibly get to them

20:41

all. So if I didn't mention you,

20:46

you know who you are. And

20:46

there's always next season, I

20:50

will give you one more ally.

20:50

This last ally though you are

20:54

fortunate, if you have one and a

20:54

lifetime, the very, very special

20:59

agents who have a similar life

20:59

path and purpose to you, you are

21:03

meant to work closely with them.

21:03

For me, that's my homie. Like I

21:08

said in the first episode,

21:08

you'll meet her later in the

21:12

second season, I will say that I

21:12

have been blessed with more than

21:17

one very, very special agent in

21:17

my life. Some have passed away

21:21

or left like my mother.

21:21

Remember, all staff are either

21:25

perm contract or short term

21:25

temporary workers. How long they

21:30

stay with you is not the focus.

21:30

What you learn while they are

21:34

with you is with each

21:34

interaction, you become better,

21:38

sharper and sharper than you

21:38

were before, to fend off the

21:42

enemy. Whether you have one good

21:42

ally or many take the time to

21:47

remember, appreciate and thank

21:47

them for the role they play in

21:51

your life, especially those who

21:51

work closely with you. It's not

21:56

always easy being an ally.

21:56

Sometimes there is sacrifice on

22:00

their part to help you. It can

22:00

be as simple as them taking time

22:05

to listen, respect and honor

22:05

those relationships by setting

22:09

healthy boundaries. And by being

22:09

a good ally to them, giving them

22:14

what they need and want as well.

22:14

Some say you should not expect

22:19

the support of family and

22:19

friends when you first start a

22:23

business or project. I challenge

22:23

that because my family and

22:27

friends have been dope. So all

22:27

my allies, friends and family.

22:32

Thank you for listening, and

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thank you for your support. I

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pray I'm a blessing to you as

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much as you have all been a

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blessing to me. Cheers to you.

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So far, we have mostly gone over

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allies in the physical realm.

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What about the spiritual realm,

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these allies either walk with

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you or are called into you? God

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will use this staff to help you

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with or without your knowledge.

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However, you can call it an

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activate these workers by using

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the heavy machinery of prayer,

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meditation stillness in nature.

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When you go to any mining site,

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there's usually more than one

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piece of heavy machinery working

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at a time. The angels Holy

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Spirit and your ancestors are

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always assisting you. When you

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become more proficient with the

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use of prayer, meditation,

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stillness and nature, you will

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be able to make great strides in

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your mining process. If we are

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aware and have the knowledge of

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those allies who helped us in

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the spiritual realm, take the

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time to thank them for their

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help. Of course, this is only

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made possible through the great

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excavator God. So make sure to

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continually build and strengthen

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your relationship with him

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offering thanks, praise and

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worship. Thank you so much for

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spending time with me today. I

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pray that you build your

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relationship with God. Love

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yourself unconditionally, and

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put in the work to mind refine

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and shine those JEMMS!