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This week on the Anxiety Slayer podcast,
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we're answering listener questions about
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some of the Ayurvedic practices we've
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been discussing for managing stress and
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anxiety. Before we
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patreon.com/Anxiety Slayer. Today
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we're going to be answering listener
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questions about how to calm your
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fragile mind and some of the
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conversations we've had over the last
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few weeks. Thanks so
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much for getting your questions to us.
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We love answering them and look
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forward to receiving even more in the days ahead.
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Welcome to another week, Ananga. Hey,
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Shen. It's so good to be with
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you and to answer some listener questions this week.
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The first question that came in was,
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can you explain how Ayurvedic
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practices such as meditation
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and breath work contribute
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to more satva or
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cultivating satva and protecting the mind
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from negative influences? Mm-hmm.
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Love that. Mm-hmm. So
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last week we were talking about these
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three qualities of nature,
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three gunas, satva, rajas,
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and tamas. And simply
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put, satva is the one we're aiming
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for, for peace of mind, for
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harmony, for clarity in
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the mind. If you want to know more
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about that topic, you can look back to Ayurvedic. So
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690. How do these
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practices, practices like meditation and breath
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work contribute to cultivating peace? By
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helping bring calm to the
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mind, protecting us from behaving
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rashly and bringing that
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pause for healthy
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thought. Often we're stalled
2:20
by challenging thoughts, negative thoughts, unwanted
2:22
thoughts. But when we have these
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beautiful practices like meditation and
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breath work, we're calming the mind, we're slowing the
2:29
rate of our thoughts and it gives
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us space. It helps bring peace
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and clarity to the mind, which are
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separate qualities in and of themselves. And
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when we have more clarity and peace, we
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can use that space
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and that clear thinking to explore other
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areas that can help us with
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our wellbeing. So
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understanding these three qualities and aiming
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for the quality of Sapa, there's
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so many things that can influence
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it, including meditative practices, but also
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our diet, our lifestyle, the company.
3:02
We keep the things, we need
3:05
the things we watch, our environment, and anything
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we can do to help calm
3:09
and clear the mind paves the
3:12
way for us to explore those
3:14
other choices too. In
3:17
a very conscious way? Making
3:20
choice from really being in the
3:22
present moment and making a conscious
3:26
choice. And
3:28
Kyle Jung says, until you make
3:30
the unconscious conscious, it will direct
3:32
your life and you will
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call it fate. Yeah. And
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that's Tamagoon. That's the lower quality that we
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talked about last week. That
3:41
quality is when we now
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want to make a choice. We don't want to decide,
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but that's also a choice. So
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we're being run by the unconscious
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instincts, subconscious thoughts,
3:52
subconscious feelings and emotions, but
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they're just running the show. And we did
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an episode a few weeks ago about being present
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in our life and not living on autopilot.
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When we're living fully on autopilot, we're
4:04
under the influence of that lower energy, tama
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gun, where everything's
4:08
just rolling over and we're stuck in it and
4:10
we don't think we can change. So
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yeah, these practices really help make
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the unconscious conscious. We can see our
4:18
patterns, we can see our behaviors and
4:20
habits, and then we have the opportunity to make
4:23
positive change that can
4:25
support us in more clarity and more peace.
4:27
Once you start leaning in the
4:29
right direction, you can nourish that energy and
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increase it. Hmm,
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you sure can. The
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next question is, how does Ayurveda view
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the role of mindfulness in
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making conscious choices for your
4:43
mental well-being? It
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really starts with Ayurveda finding
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practices that help us feel present
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and focused right here, right
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now. Mindfulness and
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Ayurveda go hand in hand. It's
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back to what we just mentioned
5:00
about making choices to lift
5:03
our consciousness. Yeah, and
5:05
the fact that anxiety and unsettled
5:07
thoughts are provoked by too much
5:09
incoming information, so mindfulness, present
5:12
moment awareness protects us
5:14
from that overstimulation, just
5:17
bringing the mind to a single-pointed
5:19
focus. Just this morning, I was
5:21
listening to somebody explaining this point
5:24
from the Yoga Sutras of
5:26
Patanjali, and one of
5:28
the verses, 132, recommends
5:30
the practice of fixing the mind
5:33
on one object, and
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the verse says that that should be
5:37
performed as a practice in order to
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eliminate disturbances. So
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that's the point, is to just practice
5:44
bringing the mind to one point of
5:46
awareness, for protection, to
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protect our mind from disturbances. And these days
5:51
we have so much incoming
5:53
information and that disturbs our
5:55
mental well-being. We were
5:57
sharing before we started recording today. about
6:00
both of us have been out in environments
6:02
where there's just too much noise. For
6:06
us to feel settled or comfortable and
6:08
then there's the sense and the light
6:10
and so much movement
6:12
wherever we go. So these practices are protective.
6:14
And the mind, to help the mind settle
6:18
and from that settled place we can
6:20
then make better choices for our mental
6:23
well-being. There's a teaching that
6:25
explains that the movement of our eyes
6:28
affects the rate of our thoughts when our
6:30
eyes are you know
6:32
darting around looking at different things. Everything
6:34
is scrolling on social media very
6:37
much. Our
6:40
thoughts and our minds. What's the
6:42
speaking of adding a scroll up and there's some sudden
6:44
noise and some changing visual. All
6:46
of these things disturb the mind
6:49
so there isn't moment awareness helps.
6:51
Bring peace and it gives us that healthy
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base to consider. No choices. And
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the more you can make conscious
6:59
choices the more satsykh you
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are. The more you are
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going to experience that
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beautiful, peaceful sweetness
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that is possible for each and every one
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of you. We
7:15
do want to let you know that there's
7:17
a quiz that we've created at our Patreon
7:19
that you can access and it's
7:22
called the Three Gunas Quiz and
7:25
it's about discovering your mental
7:27
constitution by reviewing your diet
7:29
and habits and addressing
7:31
where you want to make changes. And
7:35
you can find the Three Gunas Quiz
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at patreon.com/anxiety
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slayer and
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it will be available for our free
7:45
members too so everyone can see it.
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Again that's patreon.com/anxiety
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slayer. Our
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third question that came in this week is
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can you elaborate on how the foods we
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eat can impact our mental
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clarity and that
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begins with fresh foods. Fresh
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foods have the most energy,
8:13
the most vital energy, which
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is called prana and ayurveda. Anytime
8:19
you can have fresh greens
8:21
and fresh fruits and anything
8:23
that is not been sitting on
8:26
a shelf or in a can or in a box,
8:28
anything that is a whole food,
8:31
you're in really, really good shape. Yeah,
8:35
very simple to know what's good
8:37
to eat just by looking at
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fresh, colourful, vital foods.
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When we eat foods that are lacking in vitality,
8:46
stale, canned or processed foods, we don't receive the
8:48
same support either for our
8:50
minds or our bodies. We don't receive the
8:52
same balance on either level.
8:54
Those things are devitalised, those kinds
8:56
of foods are devitalised and they're
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also harder to digest. And
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if you look at them, they just don't look
9:03
as good as fresh fruit
9:05
and vegetables. I always
9:08
love walking past old-fashioned
9:10
grocery stores. There's a market town near us
9:12
where they have big fruit and
9:14
vegetables at the weekend and I
9:16
just love seeing all the colours
9:18
changing according to what's in season.
9:20
And it just looks
9:23
so wholesome and vital. So that's
9:25
the simple key. And
9:27
yeah, it affects our mental clarity, our
9:30
energy and our emotional balance
9:33
by eating fresh, healthy, nourishing
9:36
foods. It gives strength to our body
9:38
and it gives clarity and
9:40
peace to the mind. And
9:43
we know if we eat heavier foods, you can feel it, especially
9:46
once you've made changes to your diet.
9:49
Should you have a spell where you're
9:51
eating more comfort foods very quickly,
9:54
we start to feel sluggish and
9:56
things feel heavier to digest, the body
9:58
feels more lethargic. Yeah.
10:00
You might be in a moment as. Pure
10:03
pleasure while you're eating that.
10:05
A. Large. Meal. Whether.
10:07
That be a. Pizza.
10:09
Or of burger or
10:12
something along those lines.
10:14
But. How do you feel after. It.
10:17
So much harder to digest.
10:21
Processed. Food Big
10:23
meals, Animal Proteins.
10:25
Much much harder. It's.
10:28
One of those things that. You. Don't
10:30
ever want to feel that way again once you've made
10:32
that choice. Yeah. He lets
10:34
you know it really does let's you
10:36
know. And then you you have a
10:38
wonderful. Well balanced, fresh
10:41
plate of food. And
10:43
as a much kinder guest to
10:45
give to your mind and body.
10:48
Yeah. I body lets us know
10:50
the world's in these questions in
10:52
relation to mental clarity and emotional
10:54
balance. And Los We will
10:56
discuss these three. And
11:00
we sit this. everything falls into those
11:03
categories into those who as nature and
11:05
that includes S and. So.
11:07
As also. Goodness
11:12
of clarity. And anything
11:14
in that. Category. Promotes.
11:17
Who the Hell's. Then. Rodgers.
11:20
Is is described as the mode of
11:22
passion. It doesn't mean romantic person means
11:24
more. Activity, ambition,
11:26
striving. For. Jessica
11:29
quality that provoked by things
11:31
like too much spicy food.
11:34
Too hot, too spicy to sell
11:36
c. And Those foods, Of
11:38
course. In
11:43
the body. And nine the
11:45
domestic science which is described
11:47
as amount of ignorance of
11:49
darkness or inertia. Those suits,
11:51
ah, stale. Meat.
11:54
Comes. Under that category old food style
11:56
foods, the vital I suits come on
11:59
to the couch. The green. The
12:01
owner of commerce and I'm like
12:03
to go that consciousness and makes
12:06
us from afar. J. And
12:08
it doesn't. This is the life price. He.
12:10
For mind. And
12:13
from customers subsidies. And.
12:16
You have a book recommendation that you
12:18
mentioned for sad sick cooking. would you
12:20
share that and on the. Field.
12:22
Is a wonderful shift toward do feel
12:24
alter the Ivy. Why A if you
12:26
just put that in google. If
12:29
you put in devious kitchen see I see
12:31
what a. If is
12:33
kitchen. she's an. Irate. Except. She
12:35
has a restaurant in New York.
12:39
If you're in that area to check her out.
12:41
And she's written to beautiful books which has been
12:43
very well received. One is. Called. The
12:45
Joy as parents. And the other
12:48
one is cooled. Look to eat the hell
12:50
you feel. and others are
12:52
is a to clean based. And
12:55
Alexa inside the store with down
12:57
licks and seems slanted she plans
12:59
and. All. Kinds
13:01
of wonderful stuff you can order to
13:03
try. Very beautifully created cook books,
13:05
but a lot of Karen's them. So.
13:08
The website is. If he is
13:10
not. Thanks
13:13
to. Our
13:16
next question is how can we
13:19
navigate the pressure to constantly be
13:21
busy? And prioritize
13:23
self care and stillness. Without.
13:25
Feeling guilty or without feeling
13:28
unproductive move. Which. Is
13:30
a while. I
13:33
understand that question because for many years.
13:35
I. Had a struggle. Navigating.
13:38
That and now not so much. There.
13:41
Is a piece. That
13:43
comes from. Respecting.
13:46
An understanding our own nature.
13:50
And. as our nature is not to
13:52
be in that space of go
13:54
go go due due to work
13:56
for coin to experience. A
13:58
lot of pressure, A lot the stress,
14:00
A lot of. Unhappiness.
14:03
Frankly, Because. It's
14:05
not. Who. We are in I would
14:07
like to save. And more so than that it's
14:09
not as a who any of us really are.
14:13
And we all. Each. And
14:15
every one of us deserve to prioritize
14:17
self care. With. Out
14:19
feeding ourselves up about it. In
14:22
my opinion, most often. The.
14:25
Pressure we feel is a societal
14:27
norms. And.
14:30
This does not mean it has to be. Your mode
14:32
of operation. Try. To see it
14:34
for what it is and then adjust accordingly.
14:38
Nothing. The more settled we all
14:40
in understanding of respecting our own
14:42
nature. Member We had a
14:44
conversation few years ago. notes on our. Hc
14:47
and and I think it'll soon
14:49
as social anxiety go swimming. Discussed
14:52
Susan Cain's book Plants. Are
14:54
of interest in a world that. Won't Stop Talking to a
14:56
New and I both read the book. And
14:59
we took the quiz an undisclosed.
15:01
Our findings in the quiz and we both knew
15:04
we were. inch. Of
15:06
A.i didn't realize how much of
15:08
an introvert I am. Yeah, and
15:10
it was clear, oh, I'm a
15:13
supportive. Step. Having
15:15
that conversation and really spending time with
15:17
that book because it helps me. Claim.
15:20
That way I operate when she says things
15:22
like you rather be a party or home.
15:25
In. Your pajamas within. A good
15:27
book. I'm really go for the book
15:29
options and very happily and I don't feel
15:31
like I'm missing out on anything at all.
15:33
in such as I was about to eat
15:35
or be wishing of the. Home with the book. This.
15:39
Protections in Living According to
15:42
Our Nature Festival in. Using
15:44
common practice is journaling. Writing
15:47
reflects talking to people we
15:49
trust to understand our nature.
15:52
And then to settle in there and to
15:54
be happy that. I am. Who
15:56
I am. This
15:59
is how I am a. You don't have to
16:01
conform with anyone else. It is eager
16:03
a while. Some clothes says i be me and
16:05
you'd be view. And as a peace
16:07
in that, and it's respectful. When.
16:09
We try to confirmed societal norm it's
16:11
not respectful and I as a side.
16:14
Is. Not possess himself. Specs
16:16
on was x ray as
16:19
an expectation of conformity. Nature
16:23
was so much in the education
16:25
system where. Children expect is
16:27
in many schools as the same. Learning.
16:30
Style. And sit into
16:32
certain books as we see our
16:34
children struggling. With. That. And
16:37
friends. With.
16:39
We feel guilty or on product is
16:41
that's one kind of suffering if we
16:43
feel overwhelmed arose a strange, that's another
16:45
kind of suffering. But. There's a
16:48
beautiful lady teaching on the principle of
16:50
dharma. That. Teaches
16:52
that dama is a principle. It's a
16:54
it's a living cosmic principal. and when
16:56
we're in alignment with us, And
16:59
we understand and honor our nature. Then
17:02
this protection in that. And
17:05
then I'd also like to say. What?
17:07
Is still miss and self
17:09
care? Actually lead to
17:12
increased productivity. Because
17:14
it's what I found. Yeah, And.
17:17
They do. Certainly
17:20
more efficiency on a slight
17:22
recession season have. Lost
17:25
the saying more. Hanks Less Speed. We
17:28
start rushing around trying to multitask and we
17:30
just get more stress. On
17:32
weeknights. Thanks. And we can.
17:38
right? It's a really uncomfortable place today.
17:40
so yeah is usually the text stillness a
17:42
self can lead to increased. Productivity.
17:46
And. Only we can give us
17:48
permission for the experience. And.
17:51
Then finally our last question.
17:54
For. This week is how can I
17:56
incorporate i have a that principles
17:58
into my work environment? To
18:01
create a space that supports. Mental.
18:03
Harmony. And productivity.
18:07
Which. Is. And I wish
18:09
more people were it asking this question. Especially
18:11
for those who are going into an
18:14
office environment. You. And I've
18:16
been working from home now from many, many
18:18
years. But. We. Both at one
18:20
point worked in a. Bustling
18:22
office environment with lots of people,
18:24
lots of comings and goings and.
18:27
And it is a a different world
18:29
for sure. And. There are
18:31
many things that you can do to.
18:33
Incorporate more. I are
18:36
basic principles, simple choices.
18:38
That you can make. Something.
18:40
As. As. Sweet as
18:43
taking a living plant.
18:46
To. Your office and putting it on your desk.
18:50
Creating. Food in
18:52
advance? Maybe meal prepping for your
18:54
lunches? So. That you have
18:56
nursing home cooked food that you can
18:58
eat. Or perhaps exploring
19:01
local options for a healthy and
19:03
fresh lunch. Is. It just sucks.
19:05
A couple of things that she can do. Certainly.
19:08
We recommend hydration, take care of
19:10
water bottle, take your flask of
19:12
or herbal tea or. Whatever.
19:15
You enjoy drinking but stay
19:17
hydrated throughout the day. Yeah.
19:20
making your workspace as comfortable, As.
19:23
Possible for com focus, there's lots
19:25
his ear plugs available now with
19:27
decent grades as sound canceling: "I
19:29
have some the I use his.
19:32
Meeting in a in a coffee shop
19:34
person outside as sometimes I wear them
19:37
inside the house is. And
19:41
I just read. Peacefully house as
19:43
noise canceling headphones, But at once
19:45
we might not be in a situation where we can
19:47
use headphones if he can. And have your
19:50
own playlist of relaxing music. Than.
19:52
That's a really good option, but otherwise.
19:55
They're. These discrete if I'm cleanses a
19:57
plug swamp popular make his food
19:59
loot. Mind. You can choose how
20:01
much are able to hear season still have
20:03
people talking around you. But. You can
20:05
just take the. Rumble. The.
20:08
Over stimulating rumble of noise. Down.
20:11
So that's one. Option to explore. using.
20:15
Essential Oils. Are the
20:17
wearing them on your wrist sizing a
20:19
diffuser new desk? Assess Possible. Taking.
20:22
Stretching a breathing breaks as much as
20:24
possible. And avoiding
20:27
insurrections that are of
20:29
stressful disrespectful which. Also.
20:31
Ties in with the previous question about really.
20:34
Understanding our nature and how we'd like
20:36
to. Show up and how
20:38
we like to interact with those things all
20:40
in alignment with the and I have a
20:43
dick. Lifestyle just bring in as much.
20:45
Peace. And harmony into a day. As
20:48
we can. While. Doing the
20:50
things. We need to do. Is
20:52
is somebody that's responsible for a workspace the new
20:54
you to make changes on a larger scale. you
20:57
might be able to. Make. Changes
20:59
that bring in more natural
21:01
light, more plant, small brain
21:03
establish ground rules for respect.
21:06
And support staff members.
21:09
Or things to consider. But. I
21:11
just really being open to. Have
21:13
your mindset that looks the things that
21:16
can be gently changed and improved rather
21:18
than selling books and so place where.
21:21
We're. Not comfortable and we're not happy spending
21:23
time seeing. How. We can change
21:25
in how we can explore these qualities of nature
21:27
and bring. Venmo. Sons have been
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