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So let's begin with
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an important conversation about
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our misconceptions around disordered
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eating. From
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a young age, writer, Emmeline
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Klein, experienced disordered eating. And
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for her new collection of essays,
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she decided to reflect on her
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struggles with her own body. The
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book is called Dead Weight, Essays
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on Hunger and Harm. And in
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it, Klein takes a close look
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at our weight obsessed culture and
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drawing on extensive research. She argues
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how the media, the economy, even
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our medical systems perpetuate
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our concerns over our weight. Klein
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joined me recently to talk about the
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book and her research. And we also
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took your calls. But today is an
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encore presentation. So quick reminder, listeners,
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while you'll hear callers during this
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conversation, we can't take your calls
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live right now. And one
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more heads up, we're going to be talking about disordered
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eating. eating and self-harm in this
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conversation. So please do listen with
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care. I started by
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asking Emmeline about her relationship with
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her own body and when she
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first encountered the words anorexia and
2:12
bulimia in her life. That's
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an amazing question. Honestly I feel like it
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hasn't been phrased to me in exactly those words
2:19
before and I think something
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that's so distressing about our
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society and specifically the way young girls
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are socialized is that like I don't even remember
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the first time I heard those terms but I think they were
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always floating around. I'm 29 so
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I grew up in the very like 2000s
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era middle school culture
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where you were constantly seeing the
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celebrities that you were watching on
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television shows and in movies be
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extraordinarily overtly
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bullied by mainstream media outlets for
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the way that they looked up
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until they became so skinny that
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suddenly they were being bullied for trying to embody
3:02
what they had just been told to be embodying
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and so I feel like there was both
3:07
a glut of sort of she's scary
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skinny tabloids articles in like 2005 to 2008 that
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I was kind
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of consuming in a like kind
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of amorphous way whether I was actually like buying
3:19
them or just seeing them at the grocery store at
3:21
the same time as there was sort of a glove like
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lifetime movie type content and like
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teen girl like sort of
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YA novels that are
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sort of were very glamorized
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big diseases a lot and functioned
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often as like unwitting
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manuals even if that's not what the author intended
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so I think I was growing up in this kind
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of culture in middle
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school where I was seeing a lot
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of iterations
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of this sort of skinny sad
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girl trope that was
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very seductive and glamorous to
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me and I think to many other
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people growing up in that time And I
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first began like struggling with these issues myself
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on a level that was like affecting my behavior When
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I was around 12, it's interesting that
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you bring up the term that the handbook they
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didn't know existed I understand that this book dead
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weight that you wrote you started working on this
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book in 2019 and it started as a very
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different Book, I believe it was
4:19
women's hysteria that you wanted to focus on Can
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you tell us a little bit about your writing
4:23
journey and how you ended up honing on this
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topic of disordered eating? Totally,
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um, I think I mean one
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of the main Impetuses
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for writing this book and then I will go
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backwards and answer your question I promise it's related
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but is that I
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feel like disordered eating is
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just a highly highly demographically
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prevalent and Incredibly
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dangerous one of the most
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lethal mental illness besides opioid
4:53
addiction in this country And I sort
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of felt like there
4:57
when I was trying to do
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my own recovery journey Which involves a lot
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of self-education on the history of these issues
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Like I couldn't really find a book that
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gave this disease these these
5:08
diseases the sort of very
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layered intellectual like social
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Cultural criticism but also sort
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of economic and political contextualization
5:19
that similarly prevalent diseases Like
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depression and opioid addiction and alcoholism
5:24
that don't primarily afflict women Get
5:27
pretty regularly in a literary non-fiction treatment
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but I think I I
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was so I was looking for a book like that and I didn't see one
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but I think I knew that part of the reason
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that didn't exist is because When something
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when a social force is primarily
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manifesting itself through The
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pain of young girls. It's not taken seriously
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And I think I was afraid to write a book that
5:48
really centered disordered eating this way Because I
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worried it wouldn't get taken seriously and would
5:52
be misunderstood or overlooked and so I
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think part of the reason I started out wanting
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to write this book about female hysteria was because
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I mean, it is a very interesting diagnosis to me,
6:02
but I was interested in sort of like, what did
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it mean back in Victorian times and who
6:06
might be our modern iterations of it?
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But I think I was sort of using that as a
6:10
cover to write about eating disorders
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in a way that I had, because
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so many of the symptoms of Victorian
6:18
era female hysteria and then the characters
6:20
I was interested in in the
6:22
modern era, whether that's like me or Misha
6:24
Barton or whatever, were people that were dealing
6:27
with symptoms of disordered eating, but I think I
6:29
thought, oh, this is an issue that has been
6:31
taken seriously because like male doctors were writing about
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it for so long and like maybe
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I can sort of Trojan horse in what I actually
6:38
wanted to do. But then I decided
6:40
that I just realized how truly pervasive
6:45
this issue is and that it would be doing a
6:47
disservice to so many stories that
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have been censored and silenced to not
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sort of take the, not do the
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Trojan horse and just do it straight up. So you're kind
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of describing a process where you started out on
6:58
square one and you found out no, actually it's
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square three that I want and you're kind of
7:02
paring back the onion until you found the core
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and that frightened you. Is that fair to say?
7:06
There was some fear there? Yeah. And
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you said the fear was about not
7:11
being taken seriously. Is that fair? Yes,
7:14
I mean, I think that's definitely what I said.
7:17
So you understood correctly, but I think it's sort
7:19
of layered. It's more like, it's not
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even about, it's not, it's
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in general in literature, I
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feel like people with eating disorders have
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been sort of either mocked or condescended
7:32
to or maligned or just
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generally misunderstood, right? Because in a
7:36
lot of kind of academic studies,
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people with eating disorders are tasked as like
7:41
very stubborn and spoiled and sort of like
7:44
these bratty types of patients. And
7:46
then in self-help books, they're
7:49
often cast as like people
7:51
who have misunderstood or
7:53
like over, Let
7:56
let let society's messages.
8:00
Get too deep into their brain and taking them too
8:02
seriously and sort of gone crazy. And.
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Both of those readings are very.
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I think reductive and also looks
8:10
kind of individual narratives that really
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cost the blame on specific individual
8:14
women for like either misunderstand like
8:16
for up for taking such a
8:18
message that they should have been
8:21
able to sort of reach into
8:23
their own feminism and realized isn't
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as. Serious. As bad
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as they're taking s or. Lot.
8:31
Of interest as a sane are simple
8:33
or whatever and so I just was
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really worried that in trying to I
8:37
have I just I wanted to level
8:39
a like as I as I say
8:41
in that part that you read like
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I wanted to level with people who
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are for so long been either marks
8:48
or condescend. It's are just misunderstood. By
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a medical establishment of trying that in
8:52
trying to treat their disease often reinforces.
8:55
The logic when like in fact that where
8:57
I wanted to say the women he was
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you're not crazy, you're not reading societies messages
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wrong, you're actually you been locked into a
9:04
room where we've been playing on of speed
9:06
really cruel messages about your body and how
9:08
you should manager and you've been sort of
9:10
reading between the line and and really internalized
9:13
that because you are smart but the coping
9:15
mechanism you've developed is in fact the disease
9:17
that I don't think is going to. Get
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you where you want to go in the same way that. That
9:23
you might think it as when you're in
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the throes of disease. Yeah, you're losing all
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of it. Were talking that Klein author of
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Dead Weight, a book of essays on disordered
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eating and Emmeline a rep for We Go
9:34
To Break Bad. One question about the book
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title itself. The title of your book is
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Dead Weights and you know that term works
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on multiple levels. One of them is economic.
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There's an economic term called that weight loss
9:45
with looks at indecision, season, hidden costs in
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the markets, and that term is in a
9:50
one to one translation of what you discuss
9:52
in the book. but you do look
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economics and our economic system squarely in
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the face in fact a one point
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you right Eating disorders are good
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for capital. What did you mean by
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that? So what
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I meant by that is that both
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the weight loss industry and
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the kind
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of obesity industrial complex are
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both profiting at a mass
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scale off of our epidemic
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of eating disorders. So
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the weight loss industry is
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a multi-billion dollar industry and
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we know that diets become
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eating disorders very often. The
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National Eating Disorder Association statistics are that
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35% of diets become pathological
10:40
and then a quarter of those progress into
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full eating disorders. And so often
10:45
with both eating disorders
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and extreme diets, which I often think
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are sort of extreme diets
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usually can fade into eating disorders and
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these terms are very much like
10:56
spectromy and their
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spectrums more than they are like separate silos.
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And diets we
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have known since obesity first
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began being researched in
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the 50s don't work and 95% of
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them lead people to gain the weight
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back pretty soon after the diet ends.
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So the concept of a restrictive period,
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whether that's shading into
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the level of anorexia or whether it's just a
11:20
diet, adjust a diet, which I think itself is
11:22
a misnomer and part of the problem and the rhetoric of the
11:25
way we talk about these, often
11:27
lead people into a
11:29
binge cycle, which
11:33
then they're dealing with
11:35
so much shame about that they'll circle back to the
11:38
next diet company, right? And
11:40
start paying for that one. And so people
11:42
get trapped into these binge and
11:44
restrict cycles of paying for expensive diet
11:46
plans that don't work. And
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we know they don't work and the companies
11:51
know they don't work. There was a Leaked Weight Watchers memo where
11:53
they talked about, where the CEO said that
11:55
of course people usually come back at least four
11:57
or six times in the course of their Weight Watchers.
12:00
journey because that's part of the business plan. And
12:02
then on the flip side, eating disorder treatment
12:04
is one of the most expensive forms
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of treatment for any
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mental illness that we have in
12:11
this country. And yet it is
12:13
also the form of treatment besides
12:15
opioid addiction that has the highest
12:17
relapse rates and usually requires like
12:19
multiple rounds
12:21
of treatment and this like cyclical return to
12:24
these residential centers that aren't really solving the
12:26
problem. So you have two
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industries that are hugely profiting
12:30
and have no incentive to
12:33
try to change it. So it's a lot like
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the system is put in place specifically to perpetuate
12:37
the cycle we find ourselves in. I'm
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talking to Emmeline Klein who's author of Dead Weight Loss. We're
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going to take a quick break. We'll be right back. You're
12:53
listening to all of it. I'm Kusha Nafidar
12:55
and I'm talking to Emmeline Klein, author of
12:57
Dead Weight, a book of essays on disordered
12:59
eating which is out now. Emmeline,
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I want to dive right back into it.
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You talk about the media a lot as
13:06
well in your book. As a teen, you
13:08
were an observer in the pro-ED community. It's
13:10
online blogs and websites that promoted disordered eating.
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You said this was the first time
13:16
you read other girls' candid experiences about
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food and eating. What did
13:20
that feel like reading these very real stories for the
13:22
first time? I mean,
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it felt just like I'd finally
13:28
found... To the
13:30
point I was making before, when
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you're struggling with disordered eating, it's so easy
13:34
to feel like you're crazy and
13:36
you're the one person that can't handle society's
13:38
messaging right and you're taking all these things
13:41
way too far and you're wrong
13:45
in some way. So to realize, to
13:48
find a community that was sort of fostering
13:50
this sense of solidarity and
13:53
saying to each other, validating
13:55
each other's experiences and telling each other that
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you're not crazy and you actually are so...
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like it was just extremely cathartic,
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even as it also inspired, especially
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as I returned to it during
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the research in this book, so
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much mourning in me, so much sadness for how
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many people have been harmed
14:13
by this beauty standard and the way
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that this beauty standard is perpetuated by capitalism
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as we were talking about before. And
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I really, this book
14:22
is a project of amplification and of
14:25
attention because the story we've been told
14:27
about eating disorders is so slim and
14:30
centers on a specific stereotype to the listener
14:32
who tweeted about Ben Juning disorder,
14:34
for example, it's been so
14:36
centered on this one stereotype of like
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the thin white anorexic girl. And I
14:40
wanted to really break open that
14:43
incredibly narrow sculpture that's like of a
14:45
small thin body, as sorry, as narrow
14:47
as the bodies we've been taught to
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want and sort of listen to
14:51
stories of people in all shapes
14:53
and sizes and genders of bodies, but
14:56
also who've experienced disordered eating in various
14:58
different ways that really are so
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articulately and eloquently described in
15:03
these spaces, but often get censored
15:05
in the mainstream narrative. And I think
15:07
to the question of media also relates
15:09
to what we were talking about moments
15:12
ago about capitalism because the media industry
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is yet another industry in addition to
15:16
the obesity medicine industry, the eating disorder
15:19
treatment industry and the weight
15:21
loss industry that is hugely profiting off of
15:23
our eating disorder epidemic, because not only is
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the media profiting off of
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selling us this beauty standard, they're also profiting
15:30
off of really sensationalizing stories
15:32
that demonize young teenagers with eating disorders
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that were in these forums, right? And
15:37
so you saw in the ATHs era,
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a lot of coverage of these pro
15:42
eating disorder forums that were really casting
15:44
young girls as like dangerous vectors
15:47
of illness and like demonizing forms
15:49
of female friendships that were really people's
15:51
only outlet for care, especially
15:53
in a vacuum of care because a lot of people
15:56
couldn't access care because they weren't considered thin enough. Well,
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you know what you're talking about, I think the... phrase you
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used was narrow narratives and narrow
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bodies that match and we actually have a
16:04
caller online too that I think can read
16:06
in a personal perspective here. We have Michelle
16:08
from Long Island. Hi Michelle, welcome to the
16:11
show. Hi, thank
16:13
you and I'm really interested in reading your
16:15
book. It sounds terrific and it'll put
16:17
a lot of things, you know, medically
16:19
in perspective for me. I grew up
16:21
and I'm old and I grew up
16:23
in the days of Twiggy who destroyed
16:25
my life. I mean I remember being
16:27
in elementary school and you know other girls
16:30
were wearing miniskirts and I couldn't.
16:37
So I've been fighting the whole
16:39
battle of the weight thing for a
16:41
million years and I was telling, saying
16:44
that it's weird what can help you.
16:46
I mean I've gotten much better over the years
16:48
and I'm more or less under control but I
16:51
still have it in my head about you know
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I don't look good enough blah blah blah but
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I read this book recently as a fiction
16:57
book called Once Upon a Time in
16:59
Beverly Hills and it was about a
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TV star who was told she had
17:04
to lose weight or get fired
17:06
and the book in the book and it
17:08
really helped me I don't know it's like
17:10
almost magical in the book the the TV
17:13
star wishes on a magic ring and she
17:15
loses all the weight and it's
17:17
all about what happens to her life when she
17:19
gets really skinny and how her life
17:21
turns topsy-turvy and it's just a fun
17:23
book but it was sort of the
17:25
moral of be careful what you wish for
17:27
and it's sort of put in perspective like oh
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my god my whole life I've been wishing to
17:31
be thin and you know what is it
17:34
really gonna change my life no it's not
17:36
and you know am I at a healthy
17:38
weight now yes thank goodness I am but
17:41
it's like just interesting what can help you
17:43
and how the book just sort of eased
17:45
my mind. Michelle thank you so much for
17:47
that call and for your story and sharing that
17:49
experience with us one thing that stood out to
17:52
me was how this goes beyond generation and how
17:54
this is a long
17:56
time that multiple generations have gone through this
17:59
and you mentioned Michelle towards the end
18:01
about being able to get to a healthy weight,
18:03
happy to hear it. We have a text that
18:05
I think I'd love to hear your reaction to,
18:07
Emeline. This topic is very relevant to me and
18:10
my heart goes out to people that are hurt
18:12
by this. If diets don't work and therapy doesn't
18:14
work, what is the answer? It feels like it's
18:16
a trap where the only answer is an unhealthy
18:18
one. Emeline, what do you think? I
18:21
mean, I really
18:24
have found for myself that the
18:28
only avenue to, I mean, it was to
18:31
Michelle's point of it is surprising sometimes
18:33
what will help you, but I think
18:35
for me it's been so
18:37
galvanizing and liberating and cathartic to find
18:40
community and to truly just be open
18:42
and honest with other women about these
18:44
issues. I really think that we've had
18:46
a culture of silence around eating disorders
18:48
for a long time to your point
18:50
about this being an intergenerational issue and
18:53
even that culture of silence is
18:55
such that we only allow that one narrow story
18:57
to be the one that's told. And so a lot
18:59
of other people think, oh, I wasn't as sick as
19:01
my friend, so I shouldn't talk about this or like
19:04
whatever it is that
19:06
there's so much shame around talking about these issues, whether it's
19:08
the way I just described her because you think it's not
19:10
feminist to admit you're struggling with this or whatever it is.
19:13
But I truly believe that like pretty
19:16
much every woman I've ever met and almost every
19:18
person I've talked to about this has had some
19:20
form of, you know, emotional
19:22
journey with what eating food has meant
19:24
for the way that their body is
19:26
received by the world and when we
19:28
can sort of talk about that with
19:30
each other and realize, honestly,
19:32
pardon the pun, but like the crushing weight
19:35
of pain that has been enforced on women
19:37
by like capitalism's obsession
19:39
with this beauty standard. It can
19:41
be so inspiring
19:44
to recovery because
19:47
of this sort of sense of solidarity like
19:50
it's often sometimes it's hard to motivate yourself
19:52
on just an individual level because it
19:55
can seem like being thinner your life will be easier but when
19:57
I think about it instead as like, well,
19:59
I don't to bring my body into closer
20:01
alignment with the beauty standard that I politically
20:03
disagree with, but that every time I do
20:05
something, do some disordered
20:07
eating to get closer to, I'm teaching
20:10
my younger cousin or a friend that
20:12
I love that that is
20:14
possible without self-harm. And so if you can
20:16
motivate, I think that if we can motivate
20:18
ourselves through solidarity, it
20:21
can be really, really inspiring to
20:23
recovery. And I've heard that from people who
20:25
have said that they wish their treatment had
20:27
more space for talking in an uncensored
20:29
way and who wish that they had more political
20:31
education in their treatment. Let's make that space right
20:33
now. We've got a couple more callers I want
20:35
to go to back to back. First, Andrea from
20:38
New York. Hi, Andrea, welcome to the show. Hi,
20:41
thank you for this subject. I found
20:44
after being in many
20:46
different treatment programs and rehabs for
20:48
eating disorder that going
20:50
to 12-step programs
20:53
were really helpful. And
20:56
not just the OA type meetings,
20:58
but AA, because realizing that it's
21:00
really an addiction and
21:05
keeping the focus away from body,
21:07
but also this is a disease,
21:09
an addiction. And whenever there's a
21:11
tough feeling, you know,
21:13
it's what you result
21:15
into going to the addiction.
21:19
And part of the solution
21:21
is service. And
21:24
by, you know, I would imagine by doing this
21:26
book by, you talked about
21:28
community, you know, all of
21:30
these ways of doing service really helps
21:32
take the focus off
21:35
the problem and focus
21:37
on the solution. And that
21:42
I have found that that has been the solution. I
21:44
really am free of this. Andrea,
21:48
thank you so much for sharing that and talking about
21:50
that community. Let's go to Susan in Manhattan. Hi, Susan,
21:52
welcome to the show. Hi,
21:54
how are you doing? I
21:56
just want to bring up that I'm 74 and I
21:59
have been dealing with With a needle sorry
22:01
since I was twelve at that time
22:03
they were putting our kids are met
22:05
your towel diet pills or that kind
22:07
of stuff and others along suicidal reasons
22:09
as you know from of people being
22:11
overweight whether it's been family is able
22:14
greens, family habits or whatever. But the
22:16
one thing that a A I still
22:18
cannot get in touch with is how
22:20
you do not pass it onto the
22:22
next generation. How I've seen the my
22:24
family that it's Scardino with the. Pet.
22:26
Grandparents props and then the parents and
22:29
then the children and grandchildren. And
22:31
by pro choice to be very honest
22:33
with a nice about how that what
22:35
my struggles are and also about on
22:38
what it meant to me the of
22:40
way I carried a lot of weight
22:42
from most my life and on. but
22:44
I got a response in the admit
22:46
that encouraged her to feel bad about
22:48
her body, encouraged her to have an
22:50
eating disorder so it seems to me.
22:53
It's confusing and job to one nobody was
22:55
it had any similar experiences or ways of
22:58
dealing with it. Susan, thank you so much
23:00
offered considering that as well and you know
23:02
I'm one. I'm looking at the clock with
23:04
about twenty seconds left as you listen to
23:07
that, questions about what's next to impossible to
23:09
his or and Twenty Second Smith's what are
23:11
you hoping Readers take away with that respect
23:14
from your book. Am.
23:16
I really think the just a guy
23:18
like. I apply
23:20
the law solicitors honesty even if
23:22
it ends up not being taken.
23:24
In the cracked way I said, there's no
23:27
way to speak about this perfect place ads.
23:29
Being. Open and honest and sort of trying
23:32
to create community around it is so important
23:34
and something that was so. I.
23:36
Thought I would like same. Who as two seconds
23:38
is it's I never have a big. Part.
23:41
Of this but is neither demonizing nor.
23:43
Glamorizing people who are suffering from
23:45
eating disorders. right? and so I think like
23:48
to the listeners have mentioned twiggy like to
23:50
let somebody the to the listener to just
23:52
spoke to felt like they accidentally encourage something.
23:54
Like all of us have been victims and
23:56
whenever we beat ourselves up too much for
23:58
the way in which we've tried to. The
24:00
Bible Society that has wants us to do
24:02
self harm We are. Actually it's ignoring the
24:04
most important question, which is who taught us
24:06
to behave this way and who taught us
24:08
to think this way. And so I think
24:11
if we shift of frame to try to
24:13
demonize. The structure rather than each other. we
24:15
can find a really beautiful community with each
24:17
other that. Sucks that that. Sort.
24:19
Of relieves the law These questions of blame
24:21
that I think blind us to the real
24:23
driving forces under and you know I said
24:26
wait a few seconds left with seal voiceless
24:28
important conversation and we actually just had i
24:30
think of really important call come through as
24:32
well because this goes beyond gender roles as
24:34
well right now and we're talking about women
24:36
so far but men have an important conversation
24:38
to playing here to or there's a color
24:40
and true from Essex County Andrew Thanks for
24:43
seeking and read the answer. Welcome to the
24:45
show. Aired Feather
24:47
you search for. Having me I
24:49
have a own. A
24:51
young teenage girl who faithfully
24:53
is doing a lot better
24:56
but but struggled with anything
24:58
sort of for a year.
25:00
So ultimately she wound up
25:03
in in residential program out
25:05
of state and that ultimately.
25:08
Really? Did the trick for her.
25:10
I'm not so sure that. It's
25:12
the practices. the methodology is behind
25:14
the treatment, but. I. Know
25:16
that she's she's cheated being in residential
25:19
he being so far away from us
25:21
that she was determined to do anything
25:23
she could to never go back there
25:25
again. With
25:27
most troubling about this is is
25:29
it is a disease And it
25:32
is. It's affecting so many young
25:34
people but there's no real medical
25:36
treatment for it. And. so
25:38
we wound up for many many
25:41
months seeing as a series of
25:43
different social workers who claim to
25:45
have you know experience and treatments
25:47
and it was it was it
25:50
was really difficult i do have
25:52
one question however my daughter although
25:54
she is is is recovered and
25:57
in doing quite well recently she's
26:00
She's had this experience where
26:02
she finds any kind of
26:05
food, like the textures of
26:07
food and the smells of food, to
26:09
be really off-putting.
26:12
And it hasn't been really a
26:14
speed bump in her recovery,
26:17
but it is something that's
26:19
kind of developed
26:22
in the last few weeks or a
26:24
month. And she's educated
26:27
us and said that, my wife and I,
26:29
and said that there's something, there is a
26:31
new, there's a type of
26:34
condition for people that are recovering from eating
26:36
disorders where, have you heard of this? I
26:38
can't recall what the name of it is,
26:40
but she... Andrew, thank you so
26:42
much for sharing that. And for the question, Emeline, I'm
26:44
going to bring it back to you just as we
26:46
wrap up here. The question was about textured foods, but
26:49
also we're getting a lot of texts that are coming
26:51
in that are saying, please quickly talk about community. How
26:53
do we create community? Let's bring this all together. And
26:55
Andrew, really appreciate your call. So here's how we're going
26:57
to approach this. For all the
27:00
people that are listening, man, woman, otherwise, that
27:02
are thinking about where do I go to
27:04
next, can you suggest any resources or any
27:06
next steps for people out there? Yes,
27:08
of course. And thank you, Andrew, for sharing that.
27:10
And I'm glad your daughters doing better. And
27:13
I'm sorry, we don't have time to get more into
27:16
the details with your question. I
27:18
think there are... I mean, again, I just
27:21
really think that truly I know
27:23
this sounds oversimplified, but I think
27:26
if you ask people in your life
27:28
about their relationship to food and to
27:30
what it's meant for them as they
27:32
move through the world and how their body is
27:34
received, you can have a lot of really cathartic
27:36
conversations. I think in terms of specific resources,
27:40
Project Heal and The Fed
27:42
Up Collective are two really
27:45
great nonprofits
27:47
around you, these stories that are incredibly
27:49
inclusive and are incredibly aware of that
27:51
narrow storyline we've been talking about and
27:53
are trying to disrupt it. And both
27:55
of them run Zoom support
27:57
groups that are really great. And
28:01
there's also eating disorder anonymous zoom groups
28:03
online that are available Unfortunately, a lot
28:05
of it hasn't gotten back to in
28:07
person post-pandemic in the way that like things
28:10
like a I have so I'm hoping That
28:12
happens more in the future. But those are
28:14
a few that I would recommend that was
28:16
my conversation with author Emmeline Klein about her
28:18
new essay collection It's called dead weight essays
28:21
on hunger and harm and it was part
28:23
of our ongoing mental health Monday series
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