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Namo Tasa Bhagavatu,
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Arahato Sammar
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Sambhutasa Namo
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Tasa Bhagavatu,
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Arahato Sammar
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Sambhutasa Namo
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Tasa Bhagavatu,
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Arahato Sammar
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Sambhutasa Aparutadi
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Sangama Tasa Thawara
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Iso dehwan Thaba Munjan
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Dusatan Namo
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Tasa Thawara Namo
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Tasa Thawara
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Namo Tasa Thawara Namo Tasa Thawara Namo
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Tasa Thawara Namo
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Tasa Thawara
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So it can be very, there
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is a wide open unknowingness. You
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don't know anything but there
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is just awareness. It's like this
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is open listening,
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not thinking, judging,
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discriminating. No
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past, no future. And
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so the worldly
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life is
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about movement and change, where
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Bhāmaktasatya, or Dhamma, is
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about silence,
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stillness. So
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Dhamma is silent,
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here and now, timeless.
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Where world is about your
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body, how it changes, how
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your senses change, how
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life changes externally,
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internally, the body gets
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older, gets
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illnesses, societies
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change and climate
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changes. This is
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the world that we experience
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through the senses. So
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the Buddha is pointing to Dhamma rather
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than to trying to explain
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the sensual world in
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terms of what it should or shouldn't be. The
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Buddha doesn't mention how the world should be
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or shouldn't be. But
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the world is this relentless,
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inexorable changingness that we
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experience through the senses that we
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have. So
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where is the Dhamma? Because
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the world, the world of the
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senses is considered
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in modern jargon
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to be the real world. But
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in Buddhism, it's the illusory
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world. Its illusion is change.
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It's undependable, unstable, changing,
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dependent on conditions.
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And just to contemplate the function of
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language, as I've
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reflected many times how language is
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very divisive. That's
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its function. It's
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part of the
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world. The world
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has languages, has
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views, opinions, religions,
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organized religions, have views and
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opinions about
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what's moral, immoral, what's right,
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what's wrong. And
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it goes on and on like that. This is the
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world that we, out of ignorance
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of Dhamma, out of ignorance of
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the silence behind the noise, identify
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with the world. And that's why
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we suffer. Because
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the world isn't what it should be. You
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are the way you should be, but
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you are the way you are right now. Just like
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this. So
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we have, you know, we get bachelor's
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degrees, master's, PhDs, and evaluating
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the world and all that.
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its various facets, it's interesting,
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it's boring, it's
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stupid, it's intelligent, it's
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right and wrong, good
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and bad, what should
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be, what shouldn't be. And
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this is all about language, isn't
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it? It's when we have language,
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then we see things
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in terms of right and wrong.
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In religions we can consider
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our religion's right, and
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other religions are wrong, theistic
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religions are wrong, our religion
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is right, and
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on and on like that. So we we
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evaluate things according to
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what we've been told by others, what
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we believe, and
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we tend to express these
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opinions and
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views believing completely, and that
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I'm right, and if you don't agree
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you're wrong. But
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is Dhamma right or wrong? If
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I take refuge in Dhamma, is it about
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right and wrong? Is
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there wrong Dhamma? Is
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there right Dhamma? And
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you know, then we try
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to think of Dhamma in terms of
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good and bad, true and false, right
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and wrong. Dhamma
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is still silent, perfect,
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his apparent here and now, it's
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timeless. So,
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waking up, like Buddha, the
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actual word means awaken, wake
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up, and see,
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Dhamma is here and now, timeless,
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ehi patikal, come and see for yourself.
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It's kind of an invitation or
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encouragement. But
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even with Buddhism, we can be caught in
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our own views about right and wrong and
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we might
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be clever, intelligent, and have
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very intelligent views about how things
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should be. There's
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nothing wrong with that. But
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right views, when
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we talk about the eightfold path, we talk
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about right view and right is a bit
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dodgy, actually, it's perfect view. When
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you realize Dhamma for
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yourself, that's
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enlightenment. Suddenly, you're awake. Your
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true nature is here and now, not the
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forms that you have to endure for
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the lifespan of your body.
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So righteousness is a
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problem with religions
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and politics. Just
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listening to the propaganda, political
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propaganda of the day and
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the name calling
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and the
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criticisms. that
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you hear, you know, and
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who's right and who's wrong and who's a
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monster and who's a savior
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and and
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on and on like that we form opinions
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about our political leaders.
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So these opinions, you know, then we
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tend to project
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them onto others and if you don't
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agree with me then you're wrong. You're
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not a true Theravada and Buddhist if
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you believe
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in bodhisattvas and that's
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Mahayana. So did
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the Buddha teach Mahayana or,
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you know, then we can get
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caught in doubt or in belief?
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And so, you know, to be a true,
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absolutely true to Theravada
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Buddhism can
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make it very critical of any other views
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about Buddhism that
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aren't exactly in line with our
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particular view of
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Theravada. So
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this happens in Christianity, we're
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in Catholics and Protestants, Evangelicals,
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the whole history of wars
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and misery
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caused by righteous views. Now
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righteous views, sometimes
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we can't help having. You
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know, because that's when
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we're conditioned to
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believe in right and wrong, good and bad,
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almost as absolutes. So
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conditioning makes
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us, you know, attached
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to a viewpoint that
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we've been told by
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someone else, maybe your
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mother or father or a priest or a
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pastor or a rabbi, and
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you're told this is absolutely true, this
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is God's will, God
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wants it to be this way. And
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so you believe that, you believe what
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you're told. And
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when things conflict with that
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particular view, then the forces
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of evil, temptation, hell
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raises its ugly head because if
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you're wrong, you go to hell. So
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just to reflect on these, you know,
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to be able to be
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the knower of these thoughts,
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you know, to be stopped thinking
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or to be critical of thinking,
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because to be critical of
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thoughts is still thinking. So
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it's by being a witness to the
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way it is, thinking
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is like this. And
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so you start listening, rather
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than trying to get rid
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of your ego, you're listening
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to it. So
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the ego says one thing, but you're
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the listener, you're not the ego anymore,
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you let go. So this is... a
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kind of abandonment, letting go
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of conditioning. Freeing
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yourself from just the habitual ways
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of belief, ways
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of thinking, identity with
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your body, with the emotions
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you're feeling. I
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like to see it as listening. I
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listen to my ego. After
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all the years, do I still have an ego?
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Have I gotten rid of
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it? Or do
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you detect egotism in me?
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Do you give
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these reflections, my
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lifestyle? You can
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see it as egotistical in some way
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that is critical, because
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you can, according to the ideal, if
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I didn't have an ego, you
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have an idea of getting rid of
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the ego, destroying the ego, rather
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than witnessing the ego. You
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can't destroy the ego
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because the power of
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the worldly
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dumbness affects us. What
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somebody says, how somebody looks,
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affects us. If
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somebody looks at you
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in anger, whether they say anything,
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or not, you kind of feel it.
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Even though they might not be angry with you, when an
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angry person comes into the room,
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you feel it because
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that emotion is quite
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strong. Then
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when we speak on anger, then we
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really get attached to our angry
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view. We
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want to set things right. We want to be
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considered right and put
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them in their place, seek revenge. And
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is that wrong to feel
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the desire for revenge? According
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to ego, we can feel
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guilty about wanting to get
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even with somebody because according
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to mental practices, we should
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love everybody, forgive, and let
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things go, which is good
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advice, to forgive, to spread
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loving kindness. That's
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good advice. So
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we tend to feel guilty when
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we get angry. We might say
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something when we're angry that we
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regret. Then we feel guilt or
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shame. So
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then we want to apologize for our
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mistakes, which
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is good. But
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still, it's like this
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person, me, apologizing for
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something I've said or done that
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offended you
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in some way. Now,
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the knower
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of this, the listener, is
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aware of these tendencies. There are some
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good tendencies like asking for
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forgiveness is a good thing to
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do, good action, good
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speech. Do
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not speak on anger when you're
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aware, then you're
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aware of the anger and let it
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go, meaning you don't get rid of
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it, you still feel it because it's
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part of the conditioning
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that we have through this
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sensual realm. But
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we don't speak or act on it. So
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I've oftentimes reflected in my monastic
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life how I
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rejoice in all the things I've never
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said but felt.
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So feeling is like this,
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when somebody insults you
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or abuses you in
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any way, then you feel this way. You
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know, no matter how alert
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and mindful you are, you're still going to
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feel something because this
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is a feeling realm. The body is
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a sensitive form of the eyes,
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ears, nose, tongue, a
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brain, this realm
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that we have to experience, heat
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and cold, hunger, thirst, fatigue,
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pleasure, pain. So
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this is a... the worldly
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dhammas that we experience
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through these forms
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that we tend to eye out
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of ignorance of dhamma
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we identify with. Now
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the dhamma we take refuge in
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has no form, it's
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formless, but
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it's apparent here and now. So
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you can't see it, hear
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it, smell it, taste it, touch it. When
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you try to think about it then
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you're caught in the thinking realm again.
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You can't reach it with thought with
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most intelligent kind of theories and ideas.
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But awakeness means you
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realize this for yourself, your
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pure perfect
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dhamma, apparent here
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and now, timeless. While
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the world is falling apart around you, it
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might be, you know, things
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go through phases of development
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and decay, change.
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I remember learning, it
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was a head monk and like in
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chit-herst, you know,
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I felt I wanted
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to establish the perfect monastery. And
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so I wanted perfect monks, perfect
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nuns, perfect
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people, but
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nobody that came to chit-herst was
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perfect. So
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this by reflection, I'm reflecting on that, that
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none of us are perfect monks
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or perfect nuns, perfect
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lay people, perfect women, perfect
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men. These
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are ideals. And
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wanting to live in an ideal world is,
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you know, you're never going to
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find that world because it doesn't
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exist. It's imagination.
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So to know the
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world is awakeness. We
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have to experience the
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world through the body and senses,
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but we awaken to it
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that it is impermanent and
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that it's not self. You can't
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find your real self through
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worldly conditions. You're not the earth
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element, the fire element, the water
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element, the air element. You're not
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earth, fire, water, and air. You're not
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anything that
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you can imagine, think about,
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perceive through the senses. So
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we stop trying to
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find Dhamma through belief
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in ideas about Dhamma or
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what great teachers tell
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us Dhamma is, but we begin
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to look inward, open-eyed
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Dhamma. Instead
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of seeking Dhamma as
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some object we hope to
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realize and find, we
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can't find it because
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this is what we are,
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because you're a parent here and now. Before
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you identify with the
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body or the thoughts or the
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emotions, So
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I remember a feeling sometimes that some
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of the monks, nuns
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would be just perfect
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bhikkhus and cilidharas and
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then they disrobe and leave and
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then you're disappointed because the
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ones that you had great
24:36
confidence in leave and disappoint
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you and you had these hopes
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that they would be
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the enlightened masters of
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Dhamma to
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carry on the teaching and the and
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so you you
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know with my clinging to these
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ideas then
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when things change the way you you don't
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want them to be then you
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feel disillusioned disappointed you might
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take it personally it's my
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fault you know
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it's one way of interpreting experience or
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we can just say they don't have
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the the accumulated
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virtues bar me to carry
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on so we
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can put them down as not having
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the the seeing the real
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Dhamma that's
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one excuse or
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we might doubt the tradition or you
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know so we the ego will say
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anything you
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know have certain tendencies like some
25:49
people are always blaming others for
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what's wrong or others
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are blaming themselves the
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introverts blame themselves It's
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probably my fault. I
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shouldn't have said that. I've disappointed. I've
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failed as a teacher, as a Ajahn,
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as a monk, or
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I blame everyone else. You're
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not good enough. You
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misunderstood. You don't really
26:24
understand. You're stupid. Or
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you don't have to borrow me the accumulated
26:32
virtues to live the holy life.
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These are rationalizations
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that we make when we feel
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discouraged or disappointed or
26:44
disillusioned. Now
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listening to these, whether
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it's being introverted or
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extroverted, whatever terms you
26:55
want to use, that
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which is aware, it listens. This
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silent awareness is
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receptive, apparent here and now. Conscious
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awareness here and now. So
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listening to yourself, rationalize,
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justify, blame. We
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all do it, but those
27:23
who have believed their own
27:25
rationalizations, their own views and
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opinions, aren't
27:32
looking in the
27:34
right place. They're
27:37
still going outward expecting life
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to be what they
27:41
think it should be, how things should go
27:43
the way I believe
27:45
what I think. I
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know better than everyone else. And
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let me tell you what's right and wrong. And
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that becomes a dictator. You
28:03
don't believe what I say off in
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your head. The
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awakened one, awakened
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human being, is a listener, learns
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from, that whatever emotions,
28:22
habits you have, whether
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extroverted, introverted, blaming
28:27
others or blaming yourself, these
28:31
things are all based
28:33
on thoughts, on views, on
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opinions. They come and
28:37
go. They flow. They're
28:39
the moving, flowing stream
28:43
in the
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stillness of silence. So
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in terms of when
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the Buddha said,
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I leave you the Dhamma Vinaya,
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the Dhamma, the Vinaya is changing
29:02
form. It's
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about right and wrong or skillful,
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unskillful. Dhamma
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is not about right and wrong,
29:14
skillful, unskillful. So
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the Dhamma, since it
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has no form, you
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can't really, you can point to it.
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Like the Buddha's teachings are all pointers
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at here and now, timeless,
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ahipashikos, see for yourself,
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wake up, be
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the observer, the witness. Find
29:54
out for yourself rather than just believe
29:56
what the scriptures tell you
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or Enlightened
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Masters tell you, you find out
30:02
for yourself. So
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it's budget time, waiti da
30:09
pouenui, to realize this for
30:11
yourself. So
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I personally found it quite interesting
30:35
to just listen. You
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see, you know, I begin to see how
30:41
arrogant I can be, or the
30:44
thoughts that I
30:47
can have, can be
30:49
very cold calculating, or can be
30:52
very emotional or indifferent.
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They can be right or wrong. But
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that which is aware of
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these thoughts, these emotions, isn't
31:09
right or wrong. It's here and now. It's
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mindfulness, conscious
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awareness, here and now. And
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this is where we
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actually find ourselves, always in the
31:22
here and now. The winter's retreat,
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the month of January is past. We've
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got two months left of this precious
31:30
time. Some
31:45
people think the world is, you
31:47
have to experience worldly dhammas. There's
31:51
something to explore, or you
31:54
have to learn from the world. This
31:57
is more thinking. The
32:02
world is impermanent.
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And this, you know, so
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it's, I remember being a graduate
32:12
student in the University of California,
32:16
Berkeley in 1960, and
32:18
how the philosophy
32:20
of the hippies
32:23
was beginning to influence the student
32:25
body of Berkeley. This
32:28
kind of drug scene was
32:30
beginning, and the idea
32:33
was to experience life, experience
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everything, right
32:39
or wrong. You know, you're given the right
32:43
to explore life, to explore
32:45
the world through action and
32:47
speech, which
32:49
seemed very nice when you're
32:51
young. Suddenly when
32:53
you've been brought up about
32:55
having to behave yourself and
32:57
different kind of moral conditioning,
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and suddenly sex
33:03
is available and drugs
33:05
and alcohol and freedom
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to explore life
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sounds terribly exciting. But
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then, you know, you realize through
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that, you know, it's all empty.
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You know, people get addicted, get
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obsessed with sex or drugs.
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And then you lose self-respect
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because just following every desire,
33:46
every movement of your
33:48
mind with action or speech, isn't
33:51
a way to even respect
33:53
yourself. It
33:58
doesn't lead to happiness. momentary
34:00
kind of pleasure or excitement,
34:03
but that's very impermanent. Where,
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you know, I find personally, you know,
34:25
in my own experience of being a
34:27
monk, it's the
34:29
lifestyle I respect. When
34:32
I met Lompocia 1967, you know, I kind of, it was, I
34:39
had ideas about what
34:42
a good monastery should be and what
34:44
Bapong seemed to fit my
34:46
ideal to the time. And
34:50
so, learning
34:53
to live within the Vinaya
34:56
precepts and
34:58
all that was, wasn't
35:01
easy, but it
35:03
certainly gave me a sense
35:05
of I can do it. I respect that I'm
35:08
taking responsibility for
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having to
35:13
do things like bowing
35:15
to a teacher, bowing to a
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Buddha Rupa, you
35:20
know, and when he's been brought up in
35:23
the American Christian tradition, you shouldn't bow
35:25
to anybody. Bow
35:28
to golden images and find
35:30
myself bowing
35:32
to golden images. So
35:36
the conditioning, Christian conditioning
35:41
is one way, but then the actual
35:44
experience of bowing to a Buddha Rupa,
35:48
being aware, using bowing
35:50
as a way of awareness, suddenly,
35:55
you know, you
35:57
feel a sense of respect
35:59
because the Buddha Rupa
36:01
to me is a very
36:03
beautiful icon. I
36:06
don't project on to them kind of
36:08
special powers like
36:11
some people do. That
36:14
some Buddha Rupas have certain psychological
36:19
metaphysical powers. I could,
36:22
you know, he can project that
36:24
onto them, but they are in
36:27
terms of just physically
36:30
as icons, religious icons. They're
36:33
the human form in
36:35
a state of awareness. So
36:38
this Buddha Rupa behind me, golden
36:41
image, you know,
36:44
I found very beautiful.
36:50
Because the Buddha is aware, he's not
36:52
shutting his eyes, he's not plugging up
36:55
his ears, holding his nose,
36:57
his senses
36:59
are still
37:02
operating. And
37:04
that's a beautiful
37:07
icon in religious terms
37:09
because so many religious
37:11
icons are about misery
37:14
and pain, crucifixion,
37:22
hearts with thorns around them,
37:24
things that are rather gruesome. Where
37:27
in this particular tradition,
37:29
the Buddha Rupa is, you
37:32
know, this is my how I see
37:34
and how I relate to Buddha Rupa is that
37:37
they're a beautiful
37:39
iconic form to
37:43
be respected. Well,
37:47
maybe that's an opinion in a view. It
37:50
is in itself, but
37:53
there's a knowing of that. It's
37:55
only that, it's an opinion, a
38:00
I've developed. So
38:04
it doesn't mean I have to get rid of all
38:06
views. I'd say
38:09
Bhutarupa is empty phenomena and that's
38:11
all, but because that's
38:13
true, it's phenomenal
38:15
and it's empty. But then
38:19
in terms of experience,
38:21
you know, in terms
38:23
of sensory experience, this
38:26
is an opinion that
38:28
I find pleasant
38:30
to hold to, but not
38:33
be attached to. If
38:36
there are no Bhutarupas, it's still okay.
38:41
It doesn't have to be Bhutarupas
38:47
because Dhamma is apparent here and
38:49
now and timeless. In
39:02
the training process, training
39:07
under Vinaya, you
39:13
know, Ajahn Chah was very clear in
39:15
his direction of being the witness to
39:17
the way it is. So
39:21
I respected that. He wasn't telling me
39:23
how I should be and
39:26
how to behave with being a
39:28
witness to conform to the
39:32
Vinaya tradition that was practiced
39:34
at Wat Papanga that time. To be
39:39
aware of whether you like
39:42
it or don't like it, agree with it
39:44
or disagree with it, it's fair enough. It's
39:46
all thoughts rising
39:49
and ceasing. So
39:55
from a Western trained
39:57
ego and so conditioning,
40:00
religious conditioning, that was very
40:02
much the, a
40:06
lot of the Vinaya rules I
40:10
didn't understand. I thought they were superfluous,
40:14
unnecessary, fussy.
40:16
So I
40:18
listened to these, to my
40:21
own criticisms of the Vinaya, rather
40:23
than thinking I've got to believe
40:25
that this was established by the
40:27
Buddha, so it's perfect. Because
40:34
I trust it, you know, the direction
40:36
of being the witness, and
40:40
my social, religious conditioning
40:42
was very much based
40:45
on Christianity
40:48
or Western ideals,
40:51
Western idealism. And
41:01
I can actually witness that, it's something
41:03
that comes and goes and changes. And
41:06
then the Katai culture and
41:09
the monastic forms
41:13
would reflect oftentimes the
41:17
American conditioning, because it is
41:20
very different. Conditioning
41:23
is conditioning, it can be
41:25
different, like from Britain to
41:27
America to Australia to France,
41:31
Thailand, India, you
41:34
know, the conditioning is not, social
41:36
conditioning is not uniform,
41:38
it can be very different from
41:40
one country, from one state to
41:43
another. But
41:47
the witnessing isn't European
41:51
or Asian, it's
41:56
not personal. It's
41:59
apparent here in And now, timeless.
42:14
So in Sangha life there are strong
42:18
views and opinions that
42:22
we hear or are kind of upset at this
42:24
or that we agree with. But
42:29
we can be aware
42:31
of this, being aware
42:33
of our own tendency
42:37
to being right and
42:40
imposing my
42:43
righteous views on you,
42:46
one can be aware of that tendency. Because
42:50
my true nature is Dhamma,
42:53
a parent here now, timeless,
42:55
deathless. Singsara
42:59
is all about death. We're
43:04
all going to die,
43:07
these forms sitting here in
43:09
the Salah in the
43:11
temple. We
43:14
know that. But
43:19
we don't like to be reminded because we
43:23
want to live, we want to be
43:25
happy, we want to be right, we
43:27
want to be understood, loved, cared
43:30
for, appreciated. So
43:40
as personalities, you know, we can be
43:44
constantly frustrated because our personalities
43:48
aren't going to be
43:51
the same and live
43:54
in agreement but in conflict. And
43:58
so we began to... realize
44:01
for ourselves, Dhamma,
44:03
it's a realization, it's real, it's
44:06
here and now. It's
44:13
not something created or
44:16
born, it's
44:19
invisible, you can't
44:23
see it or find it because
44:25
that's what you are. So
44:31
I offer this as a reflection.
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