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Hey Joe, it's the start of a new year. Have you set
0:03
any big financial goals for this year? Yes,
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I'm going to buy a dog. Buy
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a dog? I want to get a dog
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that does magic tricks. You
0:12
know what you call a dog that does magic tricks? What's
0:14
that? A labra cadaver door. Joe,
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this is the open. We want people to stay
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with the episode. Stay. Cut right
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to the intro. Welcome to
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the Afford Anything podcast. The
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show that understands you can afford anything but
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not everything. Every
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choice that you make is a trade-off against something
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else. And that doesn't just apply to your money.
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That applies to your time, your focus, your energy,
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your attention to any limited resource that you need
0:41
to manage. What matters most and
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how do you make decisions accordingly? Those are
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the two questions this podcast is here to
0:48
explore. I'm your host. My name is Paula
0:50
Pant. Every other episode we answer questions that
0:53
come from you. And I do so with
0:55
my buddy, the former financial planner, Joe Salcihi.
0:57
What's up, Joe? You want me to buy
0:59
a new joke book, don't you? Yes.
1:03
That is a good financial goal for 2024. Give better
1:05
material. Maybe
1:09
enroll in a course on comedy writing. You've
1:12
done a few of those. We have done some of those. I
1:14
should have actually paid attention, apparently. Well,
1:19
speaking of enrolling in courses, our first question
1:21
today, I know, right? Do you like the
1:23
segue? Ninja. Our
1:25
first question today comes from a woman who
1:27
is wondering if she should
1:30
enroll in her dream course,
1:33
which is learning pottery, or if
1:36
she should use that
1:38
money for a big long-term goal,
1:40
like a down payment on a home. Here's
1:43
Elizabeth. Hi,
1:45
Paula and Joe. I'm a long-time listener
1:47
since 2017 and really love your show.
1:49
We are a recently married
1:52
couple. We've been living together for seven
1:54
years in Ottawa, Canada. We've been renting
1:56
the same one bedroom apartment for those
1:58
years. to be
2:00
our student apartment while my husband finished
2:02
law school, but that was years ago
2:04
now. We like it, but it's small
2:06
and we might want to start a family in
2:09
about five years and would want more space. The
2:11
housing market in Canada is wild and to
2:13
semi-comfortably be able to pay a mortgage, we'd
2:15
want to put down a down payment of
2:17
over $100,000. My job gets
2:21
me a government pension and decent salary,
2:23
but I don't feel fulfilled at work.
2:26
I have the dream of taking four months
2:28
off work unpaid to do an intensive pottery
2:30
course at a college in my province. However,
2:33
it would require me to save and then spend
2:35
about $20,000. At this
2:38
stage, I feel a little hopeless about homeownership,
2:40
so I just want to throw it all
2:42
away. Save for the dream course and
2:44
take it in the fall of 2025. But I also feel
2:46
like the
2:49
housing market is going to keep going
2:51
out, so delaying homeownership will just push
2:53
that goal further and further away. We
2:55
can't live in this apartment forever, but
2:57
renting another bigger place would also cost
2:59
an arm and a leg. We owe
3:01
$103,000 in student loans. In
3:04
terms of savings, I have $30,000 in an
3:07
RRSP that I could access through the first
3:09
time home buyers program to put toward a
3:11
down payment. I also have $18,000 in a
3:13
TFSA. Both those
3:16
accounts are robo-advised on a low to medium
3:18
risk plan. We also have $15,000
3:20
in high interest savings accounts
3:22
to put toward a down payment and
3:25
about $10,000 in emergency funds in high
3:27
interest savings accounts. On
3:29
the one hand, I feel that life is too
3:31
short. I want to take the course even though
3:33
it wouldn't be a good financial decision. On
3:35
the other hand, I feel like I
3:37
might be letting my husband down because he wants
3:39
to buy a house and I would be saving for
3:42
almost two years just to spend it all. Do
3:44
I go on the dream course or continue
3:46
saving for the home? Thank
3:48
you, Paula and Jo. Elizabeth,
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first of all, I love your question.
3:53
It's a beautiful question because it truly
3:55
is about conflicting priorities, which is the
3:57
heart of all money management. money
4:00
management is having limited resources
4:03
and needing to choose between multiple things that
4:05
are important. So your question
4:07
gets to the root
4:09
of what really every money
4:11
management and time management and
4:13
energy management question is. So
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let's talk through some of
4:19
the details. First, you
4:21
mentioned that in order
4:23
to comfortably pay a mortgage, you would
4:26
want to have a downpayment of
4:28
$100,000. While
4:30
I get that, and I think
4:33
it's admirable that you want to keep your
4:35
monthly mortgage costs low by virtue of
4:38
having a higher downpayment,
4:40
it also strikes me that this premise
4:42
of the downpayment has got
4:44
to be so high that everything else, including my
4:47
dreams, need to be on hold could
4:49
be interfering with the way that you're framing
4:51
this question. When I heard
4:54
the $100,000 price tag, that is such
4:56
a high barrier when it comes
4:58
to a downpayment that the first thing I
5:00
did, I went to canada.ca, which
5:03
for all the listeners out there,
5:05
that is the official government of Canada website.
5:08
I went to canada.ca, I looked up how much
5:10
you need for a downpayment. This is
5:13
from the Financial Consumer Agency of Canada.
5:16
And in Canada, Elizabeth, I'm sure you already know this, but
5:18
I'm just stating it for the sake of the entire
5:20
community that's listening. In
5:23
Canada, if the home that you're buying is less than $500,000,
5:25
then you need a minimum downpayment
5:27
of 5% of the purchase price, which is $25,000.
5:31
If your purchase price is between $500,000 to a
5:33
dollar shy of a million, $9999,999, then your
5:39
minimum downpayment is going to be that $25,000 plus
5:42
10% of the portion of the purchase above
5:46
$500,000. And then
5:48
if you're buying a home that's a million or more, you need
5:50
20% of the purchase price. So
5:53
assuming that the property that you're looking to buy
5:55
is Less than a million, assuming the
5:57
property that you're looking to buy is less than a million. Closer
6:00
to the five hundred thousand dollar range.
6:02
You. Wouldn't need. A
6:05
hundred thousand dollars. Down. Payment. Now
6:08
the way that you phrased it.
6:11
In your question he said that you want.
6:14
The hundred thousand dollar down payment because
6:16
it would make the ongoing. Mortgage.
6:18
Payments More reasonable. And again, I I
6:21
totally respect. Wanting this
6:23
ongoing, the. Monthly.
6:25
Payments to be a more reasonable
6:27
amount, but I would invite you
6:29
to question the premise of. Whether.
6:32
Or not. Opting for the say
6:34
your down payment is worth it. Given.
6:37
What you would have to sacrifice in order
6:39
to get there. You
6:42
also said. And I thought
6:44
this is interesting. That.
6:46
You want to pursue your dreams that you would.
6:49
Be. Worried that you're letting your husband
6:51
down? And I'd like to. Gently.
6:54
Challenge that. Because.
6:56
It's be a city admission that is.
6:58
Very clear. Is
7:00
your dream? And if
7:03
you sacrifice your dream, For.
7:06
The sake of. Satisfying.
7:08
Someone else that can
7:10
often lead to ongoing
7:12
resentment. Even
7:15
quiet resentment which then.
7:18
Poisons. A relationship subtly
7:20
slowly. but it does. I'm
7:24
sure that he wouldn't want to let
7:26
you down. And. If
7:28
she doesn't want to let you down,
7:30
then. Your dreams matter.
7:34
And. His role. Is.
7:36
To help support your dreams just as your
7:38
role is to support his. You
7:40
know I think this. Elizabeth is calling
7:43
him with a question which are to
7:45
these two decisions and often Paul of
7:47
the truth it could be in the
7:49
middle, there could be a place to
7:51
meet part way smaller down payment and
7:53
get the course. Maybe the course is
7:55
not the actual same exact course Me:
7:57
Maybe she comes down on that goal.
7:59
Maybe there's a different way to take
8:02
it. Maybe there's a way to pursue
8:04
that in a in a manner. That
8:06
job that doesn't cost as much so
8:08
she can do a bit of seats
8:10
are good examples What I'm talking about.
8:12
This is one of the most exciting
8:14
things of my career. When I was
8:16
a financial planner, I had a client
8:18
who wanted to live along the shore
8:20
of Lake Michigan the the to a
8:23
western shore just. Gorgeous.
8:25
Along the the Michigan coasts lot
8:27
of beautiful houses. a lot of
8:29
saw a beautiful beach front. of
8:31
course every night you see the
8:34
sun going to up. For people
8:36
that have never been to the
8:38
Great Lakes looks like you're looking
8:40
out over the ocean so she
8:43
really wanted that. Percy did not
8:45
have enough money paula to get
8:47
that. She was also very much
8:49
an extrovert. said she wanted to
8:51
work with people. Ah see. Ended
8:54
up buying. A house across the
8:56
street from the homes along Lake
8:58
Michigan that were super expensive. This
9:00
old Victorian home the she was
9:03
able to get in sb a
9:05
loan to six. Also, because of
9:07
the zoning in the area, she
9:09
was able to turn it into
9:12
a bed and breakfast. And
9:14
even know in her retirement she was
9:16
going to quote have to work in.
9:18
Some people hate that. Julie.
9:21
Being a complete extrovert love that like
9:23
that was fabulous. Waking up in making
9:25
breakfast for a bunch of people were
9:27
awesome and guess what? See got to
9:30
sit every night while the people that
9:32
were staying at her bed and breakfast
9:34
did whatever they did on her beautiful
9:37
front porch looking out across. A.
9:39
Bunch of other houses but she still
9:41
could see Lake Michigan see this beautiful
9:43
view. So sometimes and I think it's
9:45
also good metaphor. sometimes you gotta look
9:47
across the street right? is there and
9:49
across the street moment here that we
9:51
could embrace Where we do get that,
9:53
what we want, but maybe in a
9:55
different ways. If we'd originally asked, possibly.
9:57
I think there's a you know in this is. This
10:00
is up to Elizabeth, but sometimes
10:03
there is one specific
10:05
program that you
10:07
want. You want that program. I'm
10:09
thinking about when I wanted
10:11
to study journalism, I didn't want
10:13
to go anywhere other
10:15
than Columbia. That
10:18
was the only institution from which I wanted
10:20
to study journalism because it's
10:22
the best J school in the country. I
10:25
wasn't willing to consider anywhere else. I
10:28
happened to get a fellowship that paid for the
10:30
whole thing, but even if
10:32
I hadn't gotten that, I would have only
10:34
gone there regardless. I
10:37
understand, I'm very empathetic to
10:40
sometimes there's one particular program
10:42
taught by one particular institution and that is
10:45
the one and the only one that you
10:47
want. If that's the case,
10:51
don't compromise on that. If
10:53
that's the case, be
10:55
a bit more flexible with how much of a
10:57
down payment you save, which
11:00
would have spillover effects to the purchase price
11:02
of the home that you buy. Also,
11:05
this is a pottery class and
11:08
those are going to be for unpaid months. Could
11:10
you sell some pottery? Could
11:13
you start an
11:15
Etsy store? Could you go to weekend
11:18
fairs or weekend festivals? Can
11:20
you monetize this love of
11:22
pottery? It
11:24
doesn't have to be so big that this becomes
11:26
your full-time job, but if you can make an
11:28
extra $1,000 a month, $1,000 a month is a significant amount.
11:34
We can broaden that out even further, Paula. You
11:37
asked the question, can pottery create an
11:39
income stream? An even broader
11:41
question is, with her income stream she
11:43
has now, is there a way to
11:46
improve those or are there
11:48
other income streams that she's not taking
11:50
advantage of that she could have? Just
11:52
a completely open-ended question to ask the
11:54
universe, is there a raise
11:57
that either of you are maybe eligible
11:59
for? after study shows that your
12:01
boss wants to give you raise and you haven't
12:03
asked. Your boss often has other priorities and certainly
12:05
in a lot of companies is not just going
12:07
to go, hey, you know what, we want to
12:09
throw more money at you. We
12:11
always hope that's the case, but I think
12:14
putting it out there is something that you
12:16
may be able to do. And beyond pottery,
12:18
are there other side hustle opportunities that you're
12:20
not taking advantage of? That's on the income
12:22
side. On the budget side, also
12:24
looking at the rest of your budget, is
12:26
there anything that you don't value that much
12:29
that you're spending money on? Something
12:31
that could easily go away if something
12:33
as important as pottery or the house
12:36
are higher on the value list
12:38
that you would sacrifice for these
12:40
goals. So I think we could
12:42
even go broader. It also strikes me, Elizabeth,
12:44
it sounds as though you are not
12:47
really in love with your full-time work. And
12:50
that in the long term, you
12:52
know, that doesn't necessarily affect what you do in
12:54
the short term with this pottery class, but
12:57
in the long term, over the span of the next 20, 30
13:00
years, that's something that you might
13:02
want to think about, because if
13:05
you're already not really that jazzed about what
13:07
it is you do, and that's the impression
13:09
that I get from the way that you
13:12
phrase your description of your work, is
13:15
that where you want to spend the
13:17
bulk of your
13:20
career for the next several
13:22
decades to come? Sure,
13:24
it has a good pension, but a pension
13:26
is living for the
13:28
future. I feel
13:30
like this is a refrain that you and
13:33
I have often, Paula, that we in
13:35
our community overvalue the money decision
13:37
and undervalue the time decision.
13:40
And when you decide to go with
13:42
a job that's 70% for
13:44
a pension? A job that's 70% joy,
13:47
you mean? Yeah, sorry. Or 70% meaning?
13:50
Yes, you're mortgaging your time. Right.
13:52
One other thing I notice,
13:54
Elizabeth, is you mentioned that your
13:57
investments are in low to medium risk.
14:01
It sounds to me, I don't know how old you are, but
14:03
it sounds like you're relatively young and
14:05
of course everyone's risk tolerance
14:08
is personal, but I would invite you to
14:10
see whether
14:12
or not you're comfortable with bumping
14:15
up the risk profile on those
14:17
investments a little bit, particularly given
14:19
that you've got time on
14:21
your side, you've got decades and decades ahead of
14:23
you. But in summary,
14:25
as soon as I heard your question,
14:27
my immediate thought was take the pottery
14:29
class, take the pottery class
14:31
because life is precious
14:34
and the whole point
14:37
of all of this resource
14:39
management and resource allocation, that's what
14:41
money management is, the point of
14:43
that is to be able to
14:45
direct our resources at the things
14:47
that we most value, the things
14:49
that bring us the greatest levels
14:52
of satisfaction. And
14:54
that's what this pottery class is. This
14:57
is your dream. That's funny,
14:59
that was my first thought too. Yeah. Second,
15:01
I heard that you could hear it in her voice.
15:04
Yeah, exactly. You got to solve
15:06
for the pottery. Right, and she's
15:08
got these scripts that are telling her, no,
15:11
do the quote unquote right thing, do the
15:13
responsible thing, don't let other people down. This
15:16
is your dream, right? If
15:18
you don't pursue your dream, you will regret
15:20
it, you will resent the people around you
15:22
for it. You know, one day,
15:26
your hands may have arthritis and you might not be
15:28
able to throw pots anymore. If
15:30
that day comes, you
15:33
will either look back and say,
15:35
man, I'm glad that I
15:38
was so immersed in the world of pottery when
15:40
I still had the health to be able to
15:42
do so. Or you'll look back
15:44
and say, man, I really regret that
15:47
I didn't pursue that, because I
15:49
was so worried about keeping
15:51
everybody around me satisfied. So take the
15:53
class. Well, Thank you, Elizabeth,
15:55
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21:07
just want to, before we play this
21:10
question, point out to everyone that oftentimes
21:12
we have these limiting ideas or limiting beliefs,
21:14
these scripts in our head, invisible scripts. And
21:17
oftentimes when we hear side hustle, many
21:20
of us immediately think gig
21:23
economy, driving for Uber. I
21:25
work an extra 25 hours
21:27
a week and I make pennies. A
21:30
lot of us think about scraping the bottom of the
21:32
barrel, and it sounds like a lot of work for
21:34
not a lot of payoff. That's
21:36
not what we're ever talking about when
21:39
we say side hustle. When we say
21:41
side hustle, we mean you are building
21:43
a business that is all
21:45
your own, and you're starting that
21:47
business on the side, but it'll
21:49
grow and it can become far
21:52
more lucrative than you ever imagined. And so
21:54
that's the situation our next caller has. His
21:56
wife started a side hustle and
21:59
now his question is fundamentally, what do
22:01
we do with all of this extra money?
22:03
We have way more money than we know what to
22:05
do with it. That's the root of his
22:07
question. So with- Louis calling
22:09
in with the flex is what we're saying. Yeah,
22:14
exactly. Before you even play his question,
22:16
I want to preamble that because I
22:18
want to impress on everyone who's listening
22:20
that a side hustle can blow your
22:22
expectations out of the water. I think
22:25
a lot of people would be shocked
22:27
at how much money you
22:29
can make as an entrepreneur, how
22:31
much potential is out there. So
22:33
with that said, our next
22:36
question comes from Louis. Hi,
22:40
Paul and Joe. This is Louis from Maryland.
22:42
I'm calling with an update to my question
22:44
from episode 328 and
22:46
a follow-up question. My wife's 1099 side
22:49
work has been more successful than we could have
22:51
imagined. After we paid off some
22:53
consumer debt and 30K in student loans, we
22:56
are looking at what's next as there's no shortage of
22:58
work for her. We have
23:00
529s set up for our young children, but I've
23:02
recently watched a couple of YouTube videos about using
23:04
529s as wealth management
23:06
tools. Specifically, the speakers were
23:09
talking about using 529s for ourselves
23:11
as a way to pay for long-term care. Once
23:14
we reach an age where we are not able to care
23:16
for ourselves, then the penalty
23:18
for using funds for non-educational purposes is
23:20
waived because we would qualify as disabled.
23:22
We would still be taxed on the
23:24
gains in the account. The second
23:27
benefit that I have read about is that
23:29
the money in a 529 does not count as
23:31
part of one's estate and it makes
23:33
for an efficient way to transfer wealth while avoiding
23:35
the estate tax. Are you
23:37
familiar with these two uses for 529s? The video
23:40
authors were financial advisors, one from the largest
23:43
U.S. bank, so I don't think this is
23:45
some type of obscure strategy from the corners
23:47
of the internet. For
23:49
further context, my wife and I are
23:51
maxing our employers' sponsored retirement accounts, putting
23:54
money into the back door Roth, and we have
23:56
a taxable brokerage account. We have
23:58
owned occupation disability insurance, and sufficient life
24:00
and a real insurance. Am
24:03
I overthinking long-term care and would it be
24:05
simpler and more cost efficient to buy disability
24:07
insurance once we reach our 50s
24:09
or 60s? Thank you for all you do for
24:11
the community. Louise, congratulations
24:14
on all of your
24:16
life's success. So
24:19
I went back and I looked at Episode
24:23
328, by the way for anyone who's
24:25
listening, affordanything.com/Episode 328 to take you
24:27
directly there. And that was when
24:30
you called in and said that your
24:32
wife, she wants to start a
24:34
side hustle and she is
24:36
thinking about moonlighting in her field.
24:38
Actually quite similar to Elizabeth, she
24:40
works for the federal government and
24:43
now she wants to moonlight in
24:45
her field as a 1099
24:47
contractor. And it's so incredible
24:49
that aired in July of
24:51
2021. So fast forward
24:55
a couple of years and it's so
24:57
incredible to hear about all of the
24:59
amazing success. So a huge congrats to
25:03
both of you for that. And
25:05
Louise, everything you said is 100% right, right
25:07
on. The issue really, I think the scope
25:13
of your question is more around should
25:16
we wait on saving for long-term care or
25:19
is this a good strategy? Here's the issue.
25:21
And we spoke about this a couple of
25:23
weeks ago. So people want to talk about
25:25
the whole long-term care issue. Paula, I'm not
25:27
going to dive into it as deeply as
25:30
I did. They can go back
25:32
to Episode 484 to hear
25:34
me rant about how
25:37
challenging long-term care can
25:39
be. This is an issue
25:42
that is very
25:44
difficult to solve. It's incredibly expensive.
25:46
It will suck
25:48
so much money out of
25:51
any family's quest to
25:53
have intergenerational wealth. It
25:57
is super frustrating. This idea of
25:59
a... This traffic illness in
26:01
the family now the best way
26:03
to solve any. Insurance
26:05
question is to not answer
26:07
it like an insurance question
26:09
to answer it like a
26:11
risk management question. So the
26:14
best way also to handle
26:16
it if you're able to
26:18
then is to. Manage.
26:20
It yourself without the help of insurance
26:22
company. If I could avoid insurance premium,
26:25
that's exactly what I want to do
26:27
and that's why I like think it
26:29
about risk management versus buying insurance insurance
26:32
companies want you to think about. Hey
26:34
is this insurance good or not? Let's
26:36
widen the lens a little and go
26:38
what risks of my susceptible to And
26:41
then how do I solved those? Clearly
26:43
Luis, you already know that long term
26:45
care the catastrophic illness is a big
26:48
big big risk. The difficulty
26:50
that you're gonna want to solve for
26:52
with this. Is if
26:54
I lock this money away
26:56
and I set it aside
26:58
to manage the risk myself.
27:02
How. Does that compare to what I
27:04
would have done with a long term
27:06
care policy? And I'll tell you what
27:08
you're trying to solve for Medicaid will
27:10
pay for your skills here in a
27:13
portion of your custodial care for may
27:15
be the first quarter. The problem is
27:17
is that you have to continually really
27:19
apply and then have added so. We
27:21
want to assume that Medicare is difficult
27:24
to get longer than that. And
27:26
is also something that we can't
27:28
necessarily plan on. So because of
27:30
that I want to look at
27:33
at at starting after. Let's say.
27:35
One. hundred days when hundred twenty days
27:38
somewhere in in in that region ah
27:40
after that the average long term care
27:42
stay is about two and a half
27:44
years so i want a plan on
27:47
maybe three years and then i would
27:49
just look at rates because much like
27:51
paula you talk about the real estate
27:54
market it's a local market not a
27:56
national market it's the same a long
27:58
term care unfortunately as the cost
28:00
of long-term care stays can be look
28:05
at your region multiply by three years
28:08
take out one quarter then take that
28:10
money that's in the 529 plan use
28:13
use whatever inflation number you want
28:16
on both the cost of long-term
28:18
care and the amount of money
28:20
that you're going to have and just see that
28:22
you're going to to have a good good
28:24
model there that's on the long-term care side
28:27
if you can do that fantastic
28:29
never worry about long term care again
28:32
the issue is a lot of people have though
28:34
you're gonna see Louise that's a ton of money
28:36
this is why insurance companies are having problems with
28:38
this is because it is so much money that
28:40
you've to set aside what I worry
28:42
about is by doing this you
28:44
are going to mortgage some
28:46
of your goals these are word
28:48
mortgage a lot when it's come to goals lately we
28:50
did it with a little bit compromise
28:53
some of your goals you're gonna set this money
28:55
aside and hopefully not use it right now the
28:58
good news is this way it stays in the
29:00
family if you pay a long-term care insurance premium
29:02
it doesn't stay in the family hopefully you don't
29:05
use it you wasted all the money like that's
29:07
what we're all hoping for it's for that to
29:09
happen I don't wish the long-term
29:11
care stay on on anybody if they don't
29:13
need to this way though it
29:16
does stay with your family but you
29:18
don't get to use the money because
29:20
if you ever touch that money you
29:22
just destroyed your whole plan around long-term
29:24
care so I want to make
29:27
sure that the other goals are fully funded
29:29
before I explore some hybrid strategy which is
29:31
what you're talking about about waiting until
29:34
you know you're in your
29:36
50s and then exploring strategies
29:38
long-term care experts by the way will tell
29:41
you that you get a better rate of
29:43
return on your long-term care premium if you
29:45
buy it sooner I will
29:47
agree with them however Paula
29:50
the average family has so many
29:52
other priorities besides long-term care that
29:54
while it might be a little less expensive
29:56
in your 40s or even 30s It
29:59
may cost you a lot. Lot more goal wise to
30:01
look at. are you know what I mean, right?
30:03
I will be prepared to pay us. Yeah, I'd
30:05
be prepared to pay a higher premium later knowing
30:07
that I'm losing a few bucks by waiting on
30:10
this until I'm in my fifties. So to reiterate,
30:12
I. Would first look at. By.
30:15
Creating your own long term care insurance?
30:17
Hear? what does that? actually looks like
30:19
how to set model out when I
30:21
look at it. Let's say spending it
30:23
when I'm eighty years old. Don't.
30:26
Know what is going to happen but that's
30:28
probably a a good a slick at then.
30:30
If that is enough money I would
30:33
look at all my other goals and
30:35
makes your okay. I'm very comfortable setting
30:37
this money aside and not using it
30:39
for something else. If I'm not they
30:41
be then. I take part
30:44
of the money than out of the five
30:46
twenty nine to use or allocated towards other
30:48
goals. And then I do subtype a hybrid
30:50
stretchy later like we talked about an episode
30:52
Four Eighty Four you know we had a
30:54
collar. the talks about a life insurance policy,
30:56
the at long term care inside of it.
30:59
They. Get you something like that? I don't
31:01
know, but what I do know is.
31:04
If you can, Do. This
31:06
and hopefully don't use it and
31:08
this becomes intergenerational well for your
31:11
family which is a fabulous place
31:13
to be. And show
31:15
I want to go back to something the
31:17
he said earlier about. Any time
31:19
that you are looking at an insurance question.
31:22
Ask. Yourself.
31:24
About risk management, not about insurance. I
31:26
just want to elaborate on that flight
31:29
for the sake of everyone has listening.
31:31
The reason for that is because you
31:33
want to start not with product. But.
31:35
With Strategy Insurance is a
31:37
product. But the goal.
31:40
Is. To manage risk. And
31:43
so is The goal is to manage
31:45
risk. Then you start with our at
31:47
what is the strategy that I'm going
31:49
to use to achieve that goal. Insurance
31:51
can be a tool, gets a product
31:54
that can be a tool that you
31:56
use to execute your strategy that helps
31:58
you reach that goal. But. You want
32:00
to start with first
32:02
goal, risk management, and then
32:04
strategy, and then only look
32:06
at what tools are available. And
32:09
the reason for that is insurance
32:11
salespeople are never going to say that, right? Insurance
32:14
salespeople will have you lead with product. Never
32:17
lead with product, lead with strategy. So
32:20
much, so much better, especially in that
32:22
insurance realm. You
32:24
know, Paula, I also want to reiterate
32:26
something before we get a bunch of emails from
32:29
people to be very official.
32:31
Even when I said this, I went, you
32:33
know, I probably need to explain this more.
32:36
Medicare does not officially cover
32:38
any long-term care. Let
32:40
me tell you the reason why
32:43
I say that you might get a quarter.
32:46
My dad, as an example, had to
32:48
have some rehab after recent
32:50
surgery, Paula. So he went to
32:52
a nursing home for that. He
32:54
had coverage not because of
32:57
the long-term care issue, but
32:59
as a rehab as
33:01
part of his necessary skilled
33:03
care. So he did
33:05
get coverage. But that's the way,
33:08
every time I've seen a long-term care
33:11
situation, it starts off as a
33:13
rehab. It starts off as,
33:15
I mean, nobody just, I don't
33:17
see people busting down the door going, hey, you know,
33:19
I want to get into a long-term care facility. Maybe,
33:22
maybe it is an Alzheimer's
33:24
issue, as an example, that
33:26
could be a reason to go to
33:28
a nursing home. Maybe you don't have anybody
33:30
close to you, no relatives close that can
33:32
help you, so you end up at a
33:34
nursing home. So there are reasons
33:37
why Medicare won't cover any
33:39
of it. Medicaid
33:41
will cover long-term care stays
33:44
in a long-term care facility
33:46
that they approve. So you'll
33:48
have to ask about Medicaid. Payment
33:51
insurance will probably cover anywhere. You'll want to look
33:53
at the stipulations of your policy, but Every
33:55
policy I've seen will cover the place where you want to
33:58
go. They'll just limit the amount that they pay. They
34:00
are they want limited the facility
34:02
as long as they check some
34:05
boxes for being a truly a
34:07
skilled. Accredited. Place
34:10
for you to stay. So I just
34:12
wanted work through the definitions there because
34:14
we may have paula Some people in
34:16
the industry go and nope, Medicare won't
34:18
pay for that. Totally agree
34:20
that. Going back to the rule
34:22
of leases clustered in the fact that
34:24
this is now. The. Question on
34:27
his mind. Long term financial planning
34:29
is all based on the fact
34:31
that. His. Vice Five
34:33
or for our sins So
34:36
wildly successful. That they've
34:38
been able to pay off all their
34:40
student loans, pay off their consumer debt,
34:43
Get. Themselves to a place where they're like,
34:45
wow, What do we do
34:47
now? How do we use more
34:50
sophisticated strategies to manage your money?
34:52
To. A That's a question fundamentally that
34:54
comes from a place of abundance.
34:56
And that abundance comes from having
34:59
a very, very successful side. Hustle
35:01
fell. Again, release Big
35:03
big congratulations to you and
35:05
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35:07
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35:10
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39:04
next question comes from a voice
39:07
that may sound familiar. Here's
39:10
Steve. Hey,
39:12
Paula and Joe. It's Steve. Long,
39:14
long-time listener. First-time caller, though. My
39:17
wife and I have plans to move out
39:19
of state. We know the town have been
39:21
patiently looking for the house, quote-unquote, the house,
39:24
since 2019. But
39:26
we feel like we're getting really close. To
39:28
make the math easy for this question, I'm going to
39:30
use round numbers to create the scenario. The
39:32
purchase price of the house will be $500,000. Our
39:35
down payment will be $100,000, which we already
39:37
have put in cash on the side. Our
39:39
current home is worth about $350,000 and there's no
39:41
mortgage on it. It's paid off. The
39:45
challenge. My wife doesn't want to sell our current
39:47
house until we've closed on a new one. By
39:50
my finger in the error calculations, a mortgage of $400,000, the
39:52
$500,000 purchase price minus the down payment of $100,000, plus
39:57
the insurance and property taxes we'll be paying, it's going to cost
39:59
us $500,000. about $3,000 to $3,500 a month. I'm going
40:34
to be doing an 80-20 type loan, which many people have done to avoid PMI. The
40:37
80% would
41:01
be paid off with the sale of our house and the 20% mortgage
41:03
would then become our one and
41:06
only mortgage that I can work on paying off as
41:08
fast as I can. I'd love
41:10
to know if you have a better solution. Signed
41:13
with love, Steve and Vicki Stewart. P.S.
41:15
If you answer this question on the show
41:17
before we sign the contract, I'll buy you
41:19
both a spin drift. He
41:24
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41:29
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41:31
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41:34
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41:38
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41:41
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41:43
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41:45
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41:47
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41:59
I have one thought for you. Paula about
42:01
just steve's math. Which
42:04
is always great to say to steve because
42:06
steve always has great math by the way
42:08
so to be able to catch steve in
42:11
a math assumption makes me a little giddy i'm
42:13
pretty excited. I got something i let's hear it.
42:18
Well he says it's three thousand to thirty
42:21
five hundred dollars a month and that's the
42:23
cash flow but paula that's
42:25
not the true cost the
42:27
true cost. If he
42:29
does this strategy is just
42:31
gonna be the interest on the loan during
42:34
the time that he holds the two houses
42:36
right so he's gonna have this one loan.
42:38
And i'll have just the
42:41
interest payment because the principal
42:43
payments going toward the value
42:45
of the property plus the
42:47
cost of the insurance and
42:49
property taxes on the first
42:51
house so. Based
42:54
on the size properties he's talking about
42:56
i think that well the cash flow
42:59
is going to be thirty five hundred dollars.
43:02
Really the cost of the
43:05
keys desire to have more certainty
43:07
in her life is
43:09
going to be well shy of thirty five
43:12
hundred dollars. Interesting it's interesting you
43:14
you picked up on the monthly payment piece cuz
43:16
that was not the piece that was in my
43:18
head at all. The piece that
43:20
was in my head so thinking about the
43:22
big numbers right they want to hold the
43:24
five hundred thousand dollars they have
43:26
a hundred thousand dollars in cash. Sitting
43:29
just sitting there waiting to be deployed on
43:31
a home right so that
43:33
gap that they need to plug is
43:35
four hundred thousand dollars now the value
43:37
of their current property is three hundred
43:40
fifty thousand dollars. After let's
43:42
say an eight percent haircut so they're gonna
43:44
pay six percent for a realtor
43:46
fees and then maybe another two percent for
43:48
a bunch of other miscellaneous so.
43:52
Times point oh eight will say twenty eight
43:54
thousand dollars is going to be the haircut
43:57
which means that after paying. realtor
44:00
fees and other expenses associated with selling
44:03
their home, they will probably be left
44:05
with ballpark around $322,000. Let's
44:08
just say $320,000 for the sake of round numbers,
44:11
right? $320,000 after they sell their home. So
44:14
here's what I'm imagining. They make
44:16
an offer on this $500,000 home with a home sale contingency. Okay.
44:24
So in the contract, they
44:26
put in a home sale
44:28
contingency that's, you know, for,
44:31
we'll say 60 days, right? They
44:34
then, once they're under contract for this home,
44:36
they now have 60 days to
44:38
sell their
44:40
current home, get that $320,000, that plus the $100,000 that
44:42
they've got. Now
44:46
they've got $420,000. The
44:48
amount that they need to borrow is only 80
44:51
grand. Yeah, they'll pay a 7%
44:53
interest rate on an $80,000 mortgage, but like at that point, you
44:57
know, with an $80,000 mortgage, that monthly payment
45:00
on that mortgage is going to be so
45:02
small that they wouldn't even ever have to
45:04
refi that. They can just shovel money towards
45:06
that and have that paid off pretty quickly.
45:10
The very first note that I took
45:12
when I first heard Steve's question was
45:15
contingency loan. That
45:17
was my very first note, Paula. So I'm
45:20
definitely on board with that. Obviously, the only
45:22
issue with a contingency loan is that if
45:25
there's two competing offers, one's
45:27
contingency, one's not, you
45:29
know, that makes it a little more difficult if
45:32
it's a super competitive market. But
45:34
with markets maybe cooling down a little
45:36
bit, a contingency won't be looked at
45:38
so as harshly as maybe two
45:40
years ago. I mean, I think
45:43
home sale contingencies are so common, right?
45:45
So many people are only able to
45:47
buy a home if they sell their
45:49
current home. So I
45:51
think it's incredibly common for
45:54
a buyer to receive a contract that
45:56
has both a financing. He would want
45:58
to have it two contingencies. in there, he
46:00
would want to have both a financing contingency as
46:03
well as a home sale contingency. But
46:05
the financing contingency would be the financing that
46:07
he gets from the bank for that $80,000
46:09
gap. And then the home sale contingency would
46:11
be of course for the sale of his
46:13
own. Sure. He
46:15
just wanted to know the downside. And
46:17
I think that's potentially
46:20
a Achilles seal to your point. I think
46:22
it is very common. I don't think it's
46:25
something I'd stay up at night worrying about,
46:27
but I do know that contingency
46:30
offers get beat by cash offers. Yeah,
46:32
that's true. If this were the year 2020 or
46:34
2021, remember at that time, the
46:39
housing market was incredibly competitive. And
46:42
homes that were listed would often get
46:44
multiple offers on the day that they
46:46
were listed. People forgoing inspections.
46:49
Right, exactly. People forgoing
46:51
inspections. People were forgoing all
46:53
contingencies. If you want quantitative
46:55
data around this, there's a metric
46:57
called average days on market. And
47:00
in some markets like Boise, Idaho,
47:02
the average days on market was eight. Eight.
47:06
It is historically never
47:09
in the single digits. Right. But eight
47:11
days on market from the time of
47:13
properties listed to the time that it
47:15
is under contract, 2020 and
47:17
2021, when interest rates were rock bottom low, those
47:24
were eras in which
47:26
home buyers flooded into the market and
47:28
you had a hyper, hyper competitive home
47:31
buying atmosphere. Today
47:33
with interest rates high, we
47:35
have the opposite issue today. Home
47:39
buying is at its lowest point since 1996, which
47:43
means if you are a
47:45
buyer, you are in an
47:47
incredibly strong position today because you're
47:49
not facing much competition. So if
47:52
there was ever a time to
47:54
be buying a home with multiple
47:57
contingencies, a financing contingency and a
47:59
home contingency, this
48:01
is the time to do it because this is
48:03
the time in which you are not
48:05
squaring off against a whole bunch of other buyers.
48:08
Just wait until interest
48:10
rates drop, right? Just
48:12
wait until we are back to, we'll
48:15
say 5% mortgage
48:17
interest rates. What do you
48:20
think is going to happen to the home buying market?
48:22
It's likely going to get a heck of a lot
48:24
more competitive, which means that
48:27
you'll be squaring off against very aggressive
48:29
buyers who are making very aggressive offers.
48:32
Definitely a better time to make a contingency
48:34
offer now than two years ago. Yeah,
48:37
exactly. That's why time
48:40
and time again, and I cannot say this enough, when
48:43
people say, oh, interest rates are high, therefore
48:45
I don't want to buy a home. Are
48:50
you freaking kidding me? What do you think
48:52
is going to happen when interest rates drop
48:54
if you are waiting to buy a home
48:56
while rates are high? Guess what? You're
48:59
waiting along with everybody else. That means
49:01
that when interest rates decline, you
49:04
are competing against all of those
49:06
other people who have also waited.
49:09
If you can afford the house at 7.5% or
49:11
whatever the prevailing
49:13
interest rate is on the day that
49:15
you buy it and interest rates drop,
49:18
you already own the home that you
49:20
bought less competitively, which meant you were
49:22
probably able to negotiate a better price
49:25
tag on the house. You've got
49:28
this cool little tool you can
49:30
use called a refinance.
49:33
Yep. Ding, ding, ding, ding, ding, ding, ding. Then
49:35
the house just becomes more affordable. Right.
49:38
Exactly. Then you
49:40
can put that money toward the mortgage, toward other goals, whatever
49:44
you want. If you can afford it at 7.5%,
49:46
then you'll be sitting
49:48
pretty when you refi into
49:50
5%. Steve, in your case,
49:53
I wouldn't bother refiing. I would take out
49:55
the smallest mortgage possible. Get her done. Yeah,
49:57
exactly. Get
50:00
your dream house under contract with
50:02
a financing contingency and
50:04
a home sale contingency Once
50:07
it's under contract sell your home use
50:09
the proceeds from the sale of that home plus the hundred
50:12
K that you've saved to make
50:14
a gigantic payment will say you're making a
50:19
$420,000 payment on this five hundred thousand
50:21
dollar property And then the only mortgage that you
50:23
need to take out is going to be eighty
50:25
grand maybe a hundred grand It's going to be
50:27
such a small mortgage that you'll never have to
50:29
think about refiling it because why would you? It's
50:32
such a tiny mortgage that you can just shovel
50:35
money towards it and pay it off Super
50:38
fast, but yeah for everyone else
50:40
who's listening if you are Thinking
50:43
about waiting until interest rates decline
50:45
don't but obviously don't spread yourself
50:47
too thin Don't be house poor
50:49
like all the basic personal finance
50:52
classic principles Don't
50:54
go away. Those are always there no
50:56
matter what but if you have The
51:00
means to buy a home and
51:02
you're thinking to yourself. I'm just gonna sit on
51:04
the sidelines until rates come down Man
51:07
when that happens likely you are
51:10
going to be competing With a heck
51:12
of a lot of other people who also
51:14
share that same pent-up demand Let's
51:16
widen that a little bit Paula. Yeah 16
51:19
years as a financial planner 15
51:22
years doing this financial media stuff
51:25
The phrase I hear more often
51:28
every year that has persisted never
51:30
goes away is timing timing
51:34
and The thing that
51:36
kicks people's ass over and over and over
51:39
is timing Like I hear
51:41
so many negative stories later about people trying
51:43
to time. Well, it's not a good time
51:45
to buy a house It's not a
51:47
good time to buy the stock. It's not a good time
51:49
to buy it It's whenever
51:51
we try to time We
51:54
get in trouble and it doesn't go away.
51:56
I'll see it on three different different pieces
52:00
on popular websites today. Either the
52:02
realist timing isn't good, the crypto
52:04
timing isn't good. Like some reason,
52:07
some author is telling you that
52:09
you need to wait. And
52:12
this is one area where I think
52:15
people get in trouble trying to time it out.
52:17
And Steve's like, what does that do with me?
52:19
It doesn't, Steve. I'm just going, OK? Well,
52:24
you know, timing only applies in one context,
52:26
which is the timing in your
52:29
personal life. Yes. Yes.
52:32
But the authors are never talking about that
52:34
when they're talking about timing. They're always talking
52:37
about, oh, well, you know what the Fed
52:39
might do. You know what's going to happen
52:41
with the election. Prices are at
52:43
all time highs, or whatever the goofy
52:45
thing is that they're talking about. This
52:48
idea of timing that you read, you just
52:50
got to put on the blinders and block
52:52
that off. Right. Exactly.
52:54
Timing matters when it comes to your life,
52:57
your budget, your income, your debts,
52:59
your competing priorities. That's where
53:02
it matters. What matters is, does
53:04
this fit into your
53:07
personal budget? But
53:10
if it does, man, never
53:12
hesitate based on macro
53:15
factors. Because you
53:17
know what two asset classes reliably
53:19
go up over the
53:21
long term? Stocks and real estate. But
53:24
Steve, one other suggestion. So
53:28
let me float an alternative plan. Because
53:31
the drawback with this
53:33
home sale contingency idea is
53:36
that it then forces you to
53:38
have to sell your home rapidly.
53:41
And if you're in a position where
53:43
you have to sell your home rapidly,
53:45
then there's the risk that you
53:48
might be forced to accept a lower offer
53:50
than you otherwise would have been able to get if you
53:52
had held out for another couple of months. So let
53:54
me propose an alternative idea. And that
53:57
alternative idea is you
53:59
make an offer on the home. the $500,000 home, you
54:03
put the $100,000 that you've saved towards that
54:05
home, you take out a
54:07
mortgage for $400,000, so you
54:10
make an offer with only one contingency, which
54:12
is a financing contingency, right? You
54:14
finance that $400,000 gap, close on the home. Once you have
54:17
closed on the home,
54:21
then you sell your current
54:24
home. And then when you sell that current home and
54:26
you've got the $320,000,
54:28
which theoretically is going to take
54:30
only a few months, maybe three months, four
54:32
months, like let's say that rather than having
54:35
the, you know, if you have a home
54:37
sale contingency, you've got the time pressure to do this in 60 days
54:40
ish, maybe even less, right?
54:42
If you don't have a home sale contingency,
54:44
maybe you take longer and you hold out
54:46
for the right buyer. So maybe
54:48
selling your home takes three months or
54:50
four months or heck five, six months,
54:52
let's go crazy. Let's say it
54:55
takes six months. Even
54:58
if it takes six months, once
55:00
that home is sold, you'll have ballparked
55:02
$320,000 that you would then use to make a gigantic lump
55:04
sum payment against
55:10
this mortgage. And then
55:12
with that huge lump sum payment made, the
55:14
remaining balance on that mortgage is still going
55:16
to be so small that again, I don't
55:19
think there's any point in refiying it. You're,
55:21
you're on the amortization
55:24
table, you are way out there,
55:26
right? On the amortization table of
55:28
that for originally $400,000 mortgage,
55:31
you have now paid off so much
55:33
principle that most of your remaining payments
55:35
are going to go primarily
55:37
to principle. So again, the
55:39
monthly payment is going
55:41
to be high, but it's almost all going
55:43
to be principal payment because you've made the
55:45
big lump sum that's like carried you into
55:48
the far, far latter half of
55:50
the amortization chart. What
55:53
I love about it is that the
55:55
monthly payment is based on a higher
55:57
number, which
55:59
just, forces you to get it done.
56:01
Yeah. Yeah. And most of that's
56:03
going to go to principle. Yeah. And
56:06
if you make it, if you make
56:08
it a that that lump sum principle
56:10
payment, your monthly payment obligation stays high,
56:13
it gives you this force savings,
56:16
which I dig. So yeah. Yeah.
56:18
Now the drawback to this second
56:21
plan, the one that I've just outlined, is
56:24
that your loan
56:26
origination fees are going to be higher
56:28
because you're borrowing a higher amount. So you're going to
56:30
have to pay another, an extra few
56:33
thousand there. But the
56:36
trade off for paying an extra few thousand in those
56:38
loan origination fees is
56:40
that you get the benefit of time to
56:44
sell your current home in
56:47
the optimal way, rather than being time
56:49
pressured to sell your current home in
56:52
between going under contract and waiting for
56:54
the closing. So
56:57
actually, now that I'm saying this out loud, I
56:59
like the second plan
57:02
better. No, I do not. Now
57:04
that I've heard myself say both of those out loud,
57:06
because when I originally heard his question, both of those
57:08
plans popped into my head at once. And
57:11
now that I hear myself speaking the words out
57:13
loud, I do like the second plan better. Certainly
57:16
there will be higher loan origination fees to pay, but
57:18
I think that that is a worthwhile
57:21
fee for having the
57:24
leeway to
57:26
hold out for the right buyer. What's
57:29
interesting is I like it better too for
57:31
me. I've known Steve for a long time.
57:33
I think he likes it worse because of
57:35
his aversion to larger amounts of
57:37
debt. Yeah.
57:39
And typically, I mean, again, both
57:41
of those plans popped into my head at once.
57:43
I think they are both perfectly fine viable plans.
57:46
But we've outlined what the pros and cons are in
57:48
terms of the
57:51
contingencies versus the loan origination, the size
57:53
of mortgage that you take out. That's
57:56
what you wanted, Steve. There it is. Send
57:59
me my spin. drift. Well,
58:04
thank you, Steve, for the question and
58:07
for editing both of our shows for so
58:09
many years. Steve
58:11
Stewart is the engine that makes both
58:13
of our shows possible. The little engine that
58:16
could often. And the
58:18
guy that has heard so
58:20
much Paula talk between the
58:22
pieces that actually make
58:24
it to the show. Yeah,
58:28
he's got so much on the cutting room
58:30
floor. Steve's got some dirt. Yeah.
58:34
That's tip number three. You could just blackmail us
58:36
with all the dirt that's on the
58:38
cutting room floor. That'll plug
58:40
the gap. Oh, make sure you cut
58:42
that part, Steve. Steve cut that part. I
58:45
do not like that. I don't like strategy number
58:47
three. Very bad. You
58:52
want him to actually cut that? No. Well,
58:59
our final question today comes
59:01
from Greta. Hi,
59:04
Paula. My question is whether it
59:07
makes sense to roll money from
59:09
an IRA into
59:11
a 401k. So
59:14
a bit of background, I
59:17
have a Vanguard IRA
59:20
that has both Roth
59:22
and traditional IRAs at
59:25
Vanguard. This IRA money
59:27
is money that I rolled from old
59:30
401ks into an IRA.
59:33
However, I now have
59:36
a 401k with
59:38
fidelity that has good
59:40
low cost options.
59:43
And I'm wondering if it would make
59:46
sense to roll my
59:48
traditional IRA at Vanguard
59:51
into my traditional
59:54
401k at Fidelity
59:57
in order to potentially in the future. be
1:00:00
able to do a backdoor Roth
1:00:03
at Vanguard. Currently
1:00:06
with my current employer I can
1:00:08
do a mega backdoor Roth at
1:00:11
Fidelity so I'm not currently
1:00:14
needing to do a backdoor Roth at
1:00:16
Vanguard but I'm wondering if in
1:00:18
the future if I wanted to do
1:00:21
a backdoor Roth if it
1:00:23
would make sense to get rid
1:00:25
of the traditional IRA money there
1:00:28
in order to avoid
1:00:30
the pro-rata rule. Seems
1:00:32
like mostly people
1:00:34
are rolling 401ks into
1:00:37
IRAs but wondering if in this case
1:00:40
it might ever make sense
1:00:42
to roll an IRA back
1:00:44
into a 401k given that
1:00:46
my 401k right now
1:00:48
has great investment options. Thanks
1:00:51
for your advice and everything you do. Greta,
1:00:54
thank you so much for that
1:00:56
question and by the
1:00:58
way congratulations on it
1:01:01
sounds like the new 401k is a
1:01:03
pretty great place to be and Paula
1:01:05
I think I have a short answer
1:01:07
for Greta and I have a longer
1:01:09
answer for Greta. Which one do you
1:01:12
want first? Oh okay let's start
1:01:14
with the short answer. Yeah the short answer
1:01:16
is never ever ever do this. Don't
1:01:19
swim upstream and
1:01:22
we're done unless you want the
1:01:24
longer answer. Yes let's hear the
1:01:26
longer answer why is that? But
1:01:28
the longer answer is because of
1:01:30
two things number one is management
1:01:33
changes at any company
1:01:35
often come with cost-cutting measures
1:01:37
and things that sometimes
1:01:39
aren't great for employees and
1:01:42
a great place for
1:01:44
a management team that is in
1:01:47
cost-cutting mode to cut is those
1:01:49
favorable conditions on the 401k.
1:01:52
It's expensive to manage a 401k
1:01:54
and while fees have definitely dipped
1:01:56
over the past 30 years have
1:01:58
gotten smaller and smaller That
1:02:00
doesn't mean they'll always be that way. That also doesn't
1:02:02
mean that you'll always have great options. And if you
1:02:05
roll it to a 401k now, you're
1:02:08
going to have to roll it back later. Now the
1:02:10
cool thing is, is that 401ks
1:02:12
even with good options, often
1:02:15
cap those options so
1:02:17
that there's maybe 10 or 20 or
1:02:19
30 so they don't confuse people. And even if they have
1:02:21
30, they don't
1:02:23
have the same number that Schwab has
1:02:26
or Fidelity has or Vanguard has where
1:02:28
you've got everything available. So
1:02:30
no matter how great your 401k is, use
1:02:34
the IRA as an opportunity to
1:02:36
diversify around it. So what I'm
1:02:38
talking about is this. Let's say
1:02:40
you've got a 401k that's very
1:02:42
strong in large companies and small
1:02:44
companies, and you want those funds
1:02:46
in your portfolio, but you
1:02:48
also, let's say, want some international, and
1:02:51
your 401k has horrible
1:02:53
international options, but Vanguard has a
1:02:55
good one. Use
1:02:58
Vanguard to get that
1:03:00
better international exposure that you
1:03:02
want. Use the 401k to
1:03:05
do the small company and large
1:03:07
company funds. And if somebody
1:03:09
from the outside looks at your stuff, they'll
1:03:12
go, well, this isn't diversified. Why are you
1:03:14
all international? But when they look
1:03:16
at the entire picture, all the
1:03:18
things that you're trying to do, Greta, you've got
1:03:21
better diversification because of the fact that
1:03:23
you controlled your fees, gave
1:03:25
yourself better upside by having
1:03:28
the best of whatever was available.
1:03:30
So I always like the two
1:03:32
table option with that IRA and
1:03:34
whatever your 401k is. And
1:03:36
I generally have a mistrust of maybe
1:03:39
not this current management team you work
1:03:41
for, but that your company will always
1:03:43
continue to do the right thing because
1:03:46
you often see that the company doesn't do the right
1:03:48
thing in the future. The
1:03:50
other pieces, even for
1:03:52
people that think that they have a very low cost
1:03:54
401k, often they
1:03:57
don't, but you don't see
1:03:59
it. Companies are very good at
1:04:01
hiding fees and I'll show you how they do this.
1:04:04
If you look at the fund that you
1:04:06
have and you go to morningstar.com, you'll
1:04:09
see on Morningstar that when
1:04:11
you invest through Vanguard or through Fidelity
1:04:13
or through Schwab in a mutual fund,
1:04:15
you'll often use an investment
1:04:18
that is, let's say
1:04:20
it's the Vanguard
1:04:22
S&P 500 investment class. They
1:04:27
may use a different class of
1:04:29
the same fund inside your 401k
1:04:32
that has higher expenses that
1:04:34
allows the management team to pass the cost
1:04:37
of administering the 401k onto you in a
1:04:39
hidden way because
1:04:43
the internal cost of the fund is different
1:04:45
than what you may look up. Often, I
1:04:47
would meet with people and they would go look up their
1:04:50
fund. They're like, oh, this is
1:04:52
decent. And I would say, no, you don't have
1:04:54
that class fund. You have this class. Then we
1:04:56
go look up that one. And surprise, surprise,
1:04:58
management team has hidden fees
1:05:01
behind your back. So
1:05:04
maybe that's the case, maybe not. We're
1:05:07
also seeing that shell game happening in
1:05:10
fewer companies. We see it more in
1:05:12
small companies than in large companies. Small
1:05:16
companies are less likely to get pushback on
1:05:19
the 401k options and, frankly, also are
1:05:22
more strapped for cash. So
1:05:24
on both sides of the equation,
1:05:27
small companies are much more likely to pass on
1:05:29
the fee than a big company is. And
1:05:32
also, large companies have economies of scale
1:05:35
where investment companies that run 401ks are
1:05:37
much more likely to go, oh, you've
1:05:40
got a billion dollars. We'd
1:05:42
love to manage that. We'll cut our fees by a lot
1:05:44
where they won't do that for a small employer. So
1:05:46
I would, for
1:05:48
all those reasons, I
1:05:51
would not ever, ever, ever swim
1:05:53
the opposite way. I would always
1:05:55
leave my IRA money in an
1:05:58
IRA. employer,
1:06:00
I'm much more likely to not
1:06:02
pay attention to what's going on at that
1:06:04
company anymore. And I would
1:06:07
always roll that into
1:06:09
this parent IRA. So I've got this
1:06:11
IRA from all of my different jobs
1:06:13
that I've had, and I'm constantly adding
1:06:15
to it when I change jobs. So
1:06:18
this master IRA, and then I have
1:06:20
the 401k where I'm working now. And
1:06:23
that's the way I like to run it. That
1:06:26
makes sense. And frankly, simplifying
1:06:28
your structure generally, this is a tip
1:06:30
really for everyone who's listening, simplifying your
1:06:33
investment structures makes
1:06:36
you more likely to do well
1:06:39
in the long run. I think one
1:06:41
pitfall that many people in this community often
1:06:43
face is the temptation to over
1:06:46
optimize. And sometimes
1:06:48
over optimization can actually be counterproductive.
1:06:52
We've been talking about that even internally
1:06:54
here at Afford Anything, we
1:06:57
have some processes that we
1:06:59
have over optimized.
1:07:02
And it's actually in the
1:07:04
big picture, I think been to our detriment.
1:07:07
So for example, within our
1:07:09
newsletter, right, we have all
1:07:12
of these various segments, you know, we've got
1:07:14
78,000 people on
1:07:17
our newsletter who subscribe to our newsletter.
1:07:22
But we have a specific segment for
1:07:24
people who are interested in learning about side
1:07:26
hustles in small business. We have
1:07:28
a specific segment for people who are interested in learning about
1:07:31
real estate. We have a specific segment
1:07:33
for people who want the podcast show notes,
1:07:35
with all these various specific segments, then
1:07:38
we've got the overall newsletter, right. And
1:07:41
what this means is that we have to create and
1:07:43
manage separate content
1:07:46
for the people who want specifically
1:07:50
side hustle content, the people who
1:07:52
want specifically real estate content, the
1:07:54
people who want specifically just general
1:07:56
personal finance, right. So we're creating
1:07:58
more and more. War and. What
1:08:01
we're creating a seen by fewer and fewer.
1:08:03
Rights. So rather than investing our
1:08:06
time into creating just one thing
1:08:08
is. For. Everyone. Were
1:08:10
creating a for things for one
1:08:13
fourth. Of the people. And that
1:08:15
has a severe limitations on how
1:08:17
much we can actually create and
1:08:19
it it results in. Sometimes people
1:08:21
end up getting emails from our
1:08:23
archives that are older. They're. Like
1:08:25
hey I got this email but it
1:08:27
was written for years ago you know
1:08:30
and I'm like sorry that from the
1:08:32
of our many many segment you know
1:08:34
like it's soil is. The. Point
1:08:36
of all of that is that
1:08:38
sometimes over optimizing and trying to
1:08:40
over deliver and trying to over
1:08:42
perfect everything actually. Leads. To
1:08:45
a worse and results. and that happens
1:08:47
Business It happens in investing, it happens
1:08:49
in. Almost any Sas,
1:08:51
at at least any facet
1:08:54
of financial and. Professional.
1:08:56
Life. It's funny
1:08:59
because you think about delivery
1:09:01
and systems and as I
1:09:03
hear that. The ah
1:09:05
The business owner says that a
1:09:07
sounds like you're you're having a
1:09:09
right now Paula is that. If
1:09:12
we stop, a lot of that. We
1:09:15
could even offer. Fifty
1:09:18
percent more. Content City
1:09:21
percent better More often, whatever is
1:09:23
of the definition of better is.
1:09:27
And. Because you're decreasing things by
1:09:29
seventy five percent, you cannot be
1:09:31
of this one greater whole. A
1:09:33
Bigger Things It's it's easier for
1:09:35
you to deliver. People get more
1:09:37
value out of it. Everybody wins.
1:09:40
By. The segmenting. Exactly.
1:09:42
And so think of your investments like
1:09:44
that. Think of your investments. In terms
1:09:46
of this the overall portfolio that that
1:09:48
greater whole. right? The.
1:09:51
Whole mess of it. That's what you're aiming
1:09:53
to create. And
1:09:55
the more complexity. That you
1:09:57
add. into that portfolio
1:10:00
The more distraction there is from
1:10:04
nurturing the overall basket,
1:10:07
that big, big picture. Thank
1:10:10
you, Greta, for the question. And I'm
1:10:12
glad we were able to give a, we gave
1:10:14
a clear and unambiguous answer. Don't
1:10:17
do it. All right. Well,
1:10:20
Joe, we have done it. We've done it again. I
1:10:23
can't believe it. The time always goes so fast. It
1:10:26
does. It flies. It
1:10:28
really does. How many people find you if they want to hear more of
1:10:30
you? Oh, three days a
1:10:32
week at the Stacking Benjamin Show, the
1:10:34
greatest money personal financial on earth. We
1:10:38
call it that because of our segments and
1:10:40
it's a little bit of a circus. What's
1:10:43
coming to the circus, by the
1:10:45
way, Paula, is our mutual friend,
1:10:47
Shannon McClay. She's the owner
1:10:50
of the Financial Gym. Shannon
1:10:53
loves to talk about, as a
1:10:55
long time financial advisor, the dirty
1:10:57
underbelly of financial advising. What
1:11:01
truly happens on the other side
1:11:03
of those tables, and Shannon and
1:11:05
I are going to discuss hiring
1:11:07
better financial help. So for people
1:11:09
that want better financial advisors, you
1:11:12
will hear, and Paula, you know Shannon,
1:11:14
she doesn't mince words. She will tell
1:11:16
you exactly the
1:11:19
ugliness. But she
1:11:21
also believes, like a lot of people do, that
1:11:24
man, if you can find the right professional for
1:11:26
people that truly need one, that
1:11:28
could be great. It could be horrible and it can
1:11:30
be great. So Shannon joins us for what's
1:11:33
going to be a pretty wild discussion. Excellent.
1:11:35
Well, that is at the Stacking Benjamin's
1:11:37
podcast, where finer podcasts can be found.
1:11:39
Finer. Only the finest.
1:11:41
And we are going, so you guys are three
1:11:43
days a week, we here at Afford Anything are
1:11:46
going to move to twice a week after. What?
1:11:50
Yes. It's true. It's
1:11:52
true. And Joe, you're going to be joining us on a weekly basis.
1:11:55
It's true. The good news is, everybody,
1:11:58
I get time and a half now. Ah
1:12:00
nice. Actually, what is a one
1:12:02
point five times zero Mississippi? say
1:12:05
I'm it's. Ah,
1:12:08
but yes, that change is going
1:12:10
to go into a Sex Astor.
1:12:12
Episode Five Hundred And Episode five
1:12:14
hundred is good in the air.
1:12:16
On for twenty four, Twenty four.
1:12:19
April Twenty Four. Twenty Twenty Four.
1:12:21
So we're going to have a big
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party extravaganza. Four Episode Five hundred. It's
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gonna be an amazing show and then
1:12:28
after episode Five hundred, starting with episode
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Five and one, we're gonna go to
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a two day per week schedule for
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