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TTPD Talk and More with the Pop Apologists Podcast

Released Tuesday, 30th April 2024
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TTPD Talk and More with the Pop Apologists Podcast

Tuesday, 30th April 2024
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And Lacey G. We'll

2:00

talk about what they are. What do you think? They

2:02

are so fun and so

2:05

unapologetic and so well spoken.

2:08

I'm so excited to talk to them. I'm

2:11

a little nervous because they're a really big podcast and

2:13

they have a lot of followers on social media too.

2:16

So it's kind of like we're talking to

2:18

celebrity gossip royalties. Are we gonna come off as

2:20

crazy? I mean, I

2:22

have taken a dive into their social

2:24

media. They're a fan of Taylor Swift

2:26

too. Okay, I was gonna say. So they might join us in

2:28

the crazy level. Yeah, I think this is

2:30

gonna be more a friend reuniting than it

2:32

is gonna be them thinking that we're crazy.

2:35

I think we're all crazy here. Go down

2:37

the rabbit hole together, shall we? Oh,

2:40

excellent, excellent. Well, let's talk

2:42

to Lauren and Chan from Pop Apologist. Lauren and

2:44

Chan, good to see you. Hello.

2:47

Thank you so much for having us. We're so excited

2:49

to be here. Well, we've been

2:51

a fan of you, both of y'all for a

2:53

long time too. So you guys just live in

2:55

the world of celebrity gossip. Isn't it a fun

2:58

world to live in? It's a very fun

3:00

world. It's a crazy world, especially this week.

3:03

Oh my God, yeah. Other than

3:05

we'll talk a lot about Taylor Swift, but

3:07

who are some of your favorite celebrities to

3:09

follow, to cover, maybe any shows

3:11

that you guys are obsessed with? Anything like

3:13

that? I

3:15

mean, I think a favorite of Lauren

3:17

and I is Gwyneth Peltrow. We love

3:19

deep diving the Instagram captions that her

3:21

husband, Brad Faltruck, writes for her. She's

3:24

the first one to go to the IG captions

3:27

that are beautiful. She's a favorite.

3:29

Who else? I mean, I love

3:31

iconic stars that have been A-listers before

3:33

Instagram. So I love that Angela Jolie,

3:35

I love Brad Pitt. I

3:38

just love, I love stars that I read about

3:40

when I was a teenager and like that were

3:42

covering the magazines. So I can be a little

3:44

old school with my coverage. It takes

3:46

me a little, it takes me a little

3:48

longer to get on board with like the

3:50

Gen Z stars to really following Sydney Sweeney

3:53

closely. But

3:55

no, it's a tumultuous world, I will say, even

3:58

though we cover a lot of pop culture. we

4:01

talk about Taylor Swift all the

4:03

time to a point where our listeners are like, okay,

4:05

we got it. You love Taylor Swift. I

4:08

actually envy you guys because you're able to talk

4:10

about her all the time and we want to.

4:14

Sometimes we end up just doing that

4:16

exactly. But yeah, we have to check

4:18

ourselves. Other people exist in the

4:20

world besides Taylor Swift, right? So

4:24

this is good. We're both on the same team, right? We're

4:26

both on the Swifty side. So let

4:29

me ask the pop apologist over here.

4:32

Do your opinions change about

4:34

some of the exes? Like Jake

4:37

Gyllenhaal is now in Roadhouse. Do

4:39

you talk about him unbiased or

4:41

can you not help but take

4:44

your Swifty heart and hate him just a

4:46

little bit? I'm sorry. Our podcast is nothing

4:48

but bias. There is no

4:50

love for Jake Gyllenhaal. He's

4:54

definitely dead to us and we do

4:56

not like him whatsoever. So

4:59

no, we are Taylor's

5:01

defense attorneys in all things life and love.

5:03

And that comes to any of her exes

5:06

in the news. We come with that filter

5:08

in focus. That's really refreshing because

5:10

obviously we have a Taylor Swift podcast. So

5:12

I feel like half the time I have

5:14

to preface it by being like, obviously I'm biased.

5:16

What I'm about to say. Like, yeah,

5:18

I'm going to defend Taylor Swift until the day I die. Like

5:20

for sure. For sure. For sure. So it's really cool to hear

5:22

that you guys are the same even

5:25

though your podcast isn't just centered around Taylor Swift.

5:27

But when you're covering pop culture, it's

5:29

impossible to not somehow make things about

5:31

Taylor Swift. Especially

5:33

in this past year, you know, with

5:35

like the first four and just like

5:38

everything with her re-recordings. And it's just

5:40

so intertwined and convoluted. And it

5:42

happens a lot too, like just in regular

5:44

conversation. Like, oh my God, I'm

5:46

so tired of like talking about her. Like, but

5:48

you can't just not. Like she's just even in

5:50

the world of NFL and everything. Like it's

5:53

hard not to. Right. She's like

5:55

omnipresent. Yeah. Yeah. I

5:57

went to dinner the other night with my sister

6:00

and some. friends and we spent the entire dinner

6:02

talking about Taylor Swift and like from start to

6:04

finish at the end of the dinner we were

6:06

winking evermore and folklore going track by track. It

6:09

was truly like we had met for a meetup,

6:11

you know, but that's just what we naturally talked

6:13

about. I actually can't really relate to people who

6:15

don't want to just talk about Taylor Swift. Right.

6:18

I know. How unfun is it to not be

6:21

a fan right now? And then you do have

6:23

those people that just want to poke at you

6:25

and they're like, Oh, Taylor Swift's nothing. Let me

6:27

read you all these headlines about her. And I

6:29

would always have a rebuttal because it's obviously

6:31

not the fans who are writing those headlines.

6:33

You don't know what you're talking about to bring

6:36

it up to me. And if we want

6:38

to talk Taylor Swift, great, but

6:40

it's dangerous territory because I've been through the

6:42

long haul. I read lightly. Yeah. Yeah. Yeah.

6:44

How far we want to get into this.

6:47

So what were y'all's first take

6:50

on the new album? You were

6:52

listening live. What did you

6:54

think initially of the Tortured Poets Department?

6:57

I'm going to let Lauren speak because Lauren's

6:59

journey was very different from mine. I actually

7:02

had food poisoning that in the middle of

7:04

the night, Friday night or early, you know,

7:06

early Friday morning. And so I didn't even

7:08

get to listen to the album until like

7:11

Friday afternoon, which felt crazy to me, you

7:13

know, given everything. But Lauren's journey

7:15

was much more fraught than mine was even.

7:17

I'm scared to speak to be totally honest.

7:20

I really represent the voice of Swifties in

7:22

the community who found this album

7:24

to be not to be crass, but a grower

7:26

and not a shower. And

7:29

at first at first listened for me,

7:31

some of these songs and the lyrics were

7:33

not my favorite. And I think contrasting them

7:35

with some of the lyrical sophistication

7:38

and evermore in folklore, I

7:40

was a little put off

7:42

to be totally a little, just got a

7:44

little I actually like actively disliked this album

7:46

at the beginning. And I yeah, I a

7:49

lot of the things I thought were correct

7:51

about my life and everything around me was

7:53

suddenly thrown into question. But

7:56

I, I did come around. And A lot

7:58

of people are saying this. They're like I

8:00

don't like it either at first but now

8:03

it's becoming after repeated lessons one a my

8:05

favorite albums have. Didn't have you had a

8:07

similar experience or was it just a ton

8:09

on a ten rounds. Again, you know, I

8:11

gotta say for me personally, it definitely wasn't

8:14

what I was expecting, So I don't know

8:16

if that clouded my judgment on it, because

8:18

at first I was like, okay, that was,

8:20

I was all right. I definitely liked the

8:22

second half better when she drove out more.

8:25

those songs I was like, oh, I can

8:27

relieve. Devour the songs a lot

8:29

quicker and important negotiating for me that

8:31

second hand and the more I've thought

8:33

about it. It's it.

8:36

seems to me. Unfortunately, Tailored didn't

8:38

personally tell me this. It

8:41

seems that. You. Know it's

8:43

clear that she's not trying to write

8:46

the Radio Bop. Right? She

8:48

wasn't set out to write sacred off

8:50

part to she's done that. We know

8:52

she can do that. so she's stretching

8:54

her so she's leaning really heavily into

8:56

the the poetry side of it more.

8:58

and so we get some. Chunky.

9:00

Lyrics: some line so like does that work,

9:02

What is that? Is that riding with another

9:04

line and like it's kind of clunky and

9:06

chunky at times, but that's how poetry is

9:08

a lot of times. And I've

9:10

heard the criticism from some people

9:13

that allow the songs sound the

9:15

same thought that also. but. When.

9:17

I look at it from okay we're

9:20

leaning into the poetry side. I'd I

9:22

get the feeling that hey see wrote.

9:24

The. Lyrics and then she wanted to create

9:27

the music that just kind of helped

9:29

carry that through. Food. And I don't

9:31

think she was. I don't think she was focusing

9:33

on making one hundred percent the most perfect snacks

9:35

and have ever been created. Yes, so it is

9:37

a little clunky, is chunky, and it's almost like

9:40

a word vomit because she's gone through. To

9:42

very high profile public relationships that

9:44

of in did one a long

9:47

term one a short term. And.

9:49

There's just a lot of emotions there. And sisters,

9:52

Perjuring. Herself getting these emotions out there. So

9:54

yeah. First I was kinda like he was like

9:56

okay, Know. my favorite but i

9:58

like it but then It is a grower

10:00

on me and now I can't

10:03

stop listening to it. No

10:05

longer people-pleasing She is hanging out what

10:07

you want. She's saying what she wants

10:09

and do some of the songs sound

10:11

similar to other songs Yes, but that's

10:13

because I can do it with a

10:15

broken heart She's playing what she's hearing

10:17

at the end of a show which

10:19

is mastermind which is then hounding down

10:21

and that's why it sounds Similar there

10:23

is a rhyme and a reason when

10:25

it comes to Taylor Swift It's not

10:27

just lazy music in the

10:30

background. No, that's intentional and I

10:32

love that kind of Sematic

10:35

feel and that very dramatic

10:37

of this music the build-up

10:39

the crescendos I I

10:41

love it through first listen I was a

10:44

little taken aback at first and I did

10:46

like the second half better because that's what

10:48

I was expecting the first time And

10:51

then on my way home Listening to the first

10:53

half. I'm like, I think I just wasn't in

10:55

the correct mindset The first time

10:57

because it is brilliant writing

11:00

and I love it Yeah well I

11:02

think a lot with Taylor Swift too is and even when we

11:04

were listening to it live the first time like I knew That

11:07

it would hit me different once I read the lyrics So

11:09

when you're trying to just like listen and take it all

11:11

in like all at once It's kind of it's

11:13

hard to form an immediate opinion because I

11:16

think it makes such a difference when you read it So

11:18

we had our listening part of we listened to the whole

11:20

thing when it came out a few days later I was

11:22

on a flight actually I was flying back from New York

11:24

New York to Dallas which is a four-hour flight And

11:27

so I downloaded the lyrics on my phone and

11:29

I spent the whole flight listening to it while

11:31

simultaneously reading the lyrics and it

11:33

made such a difference because when you

11:35

actually like read it as a poetry

11:38

and also just kind of you know where

11:40

she puts quotation marks and Things like

11:42

in it like you see it as a story because sometimes it

11:44

doesn't flow like the way that the sentence is written And

11:47

I think that I think that makes a big difference and

11:49

I also feel like with a lot of Taylor Swift music

11:52

It is gonna take time for it to kind of

11:54

adapt to what it is that you need at the

11:56

time. I Felt that way with Evermore. But I Mean

11:58

it can't When it came. Now of course, are

12:00

they gonna die? This is a masterpiece. It's wonderful,

12:03

but it wasn't until a year later. All the

12:05

way I relate to happiness or I really or

12:07

whatever song it is that effect. At

12:09

the time that he gave it to me I wasn't ready

12:11

for it. but as earlier when I went I had a

12:13

whole year with it. I was like wait, this is one

12:16

of the best songs you've ever written. Anything. A lot of

12:18

her music is that way and people are just so. Quick.

12:21

To judge without taking the time to

12:23

actually. Take it and especially

12:25

an anthology of thirty tracks in

12:27

one way or why I'm so

12:30

impressed with your podcast. The pop

12:32

apologists dollar already getting into the

12:34

songs and real racing, breaking them

12:36

down and saying what they mean.

12:39

We. Are still Taken M N

12:41

N N Don't know. There's so

12:43

many different theories out there. What

12:45

are some your favorite theories involving

12:48

this album? I.

12:50

Mean, I think you know and I

12:52

don't even have you called us. As

12:54

simple as a theory event that I think

12:57

that this is in, this is a

12:59

Matty Healy situation said unpacking album versus

13:01

a gel all and closer album which

13:03

is what I anticipated it would be

13:05

that it would be. And it wasn't that.

13:07

I'm also to adhere point earlier to

13:09

all of your points earlier like. To.

13:11

Me this album is not a conversion to

13:14

Taylor Says Album and on and she released

13:16

as you know to convert new people to

13:18

Taylor Swift. This looks like she really says

13:20

because it was cathartic for her in a

13:22

my personal opinion and I atlas and a

13:24

barrage of text to Scott and Lauren saying

13:26

this yesterday like my thesis of us and

13:28

eight an hour or I'm but days later

13:30

think you know if you're not converted to

13:32

Taylor Swift this might be kind of hopeless.

13:35

In. Illnesses like own personal bias and the problem

13:37

is not for new as I don't think

13:39

it's for new fans are new people want

13:41

to discover her on and I think like

13:43

this is an alibi thing for true fans

13:46

to sit with unpack. Read the lyrics you

13:48

know to really like digest fully because there's

13:50

so much here I'm you know it's not

13:52

like a folklore and not center ice like

13:54

it was instantly appealing to so many new

13:56

people. Yeah, that's so true. And

13:59

it's also like to. your point when

14:01

you know the history of like

14:03

Mattie Healy and the decade-long like

14:06

things that go into it and you understand

14:08

it quicker and like you know what I

14:10

mean? Like I 100% agree with it. Yeah you

14:13

were saying that this was kind of an album for

14:15

her not her fans. You know a lot of her

14:17

songs we've kind of talked about this off the air

14:19

before. A lot of her songs she takes something personal

14:22

and she reworks it and presents it

14:24

in a way that's relatable to everybody.

14:26

More universal. More universal. This one it's

14:28

like so specific not many people are

14:30

going to be relating to all the

14:32

different lines in the songs because they

14:34

are specific so I think you're right

14:36

she's not writing this for universal appeal

14:38

she's writing it for herself. I

14:40

think she had said at one

14:43

point that one of the biggest overarching

14:45

themes to the album as a whole

14:47

is basically about like her

14:50

level of fame and how like

14:52

the media and people basically treat

14:54

creatives and writers like as

14:56

like almost like a spectator sport. Like you see

14:58

someone that's creative you want them to be tortured

15:00

you want them to create art but then when

15:02

they do all you do is criticize it and

15:04

judge it. So it's like she has so much

15:06

about that too and like the truth is that we're never

15:09

gonna understand that level of fame. Like we're never gonna know

15:11

what it's like Taylor Swift is the most

15:13

criticized person I think like on the planet.

15:15

She cannot take a breath without every publication

15:17

writing a think-piece about it and

15:20

no one will ever understand what that's like and

15:22

I think in this album she kind of dives

15:24

into that and so it's it's almost like especially

15:27

with the second half I feel like

15:29

it's a look into the mind of

15:31

the world's most popular person and I

15:33

think that's crazy. It's a prophecy. Oh

15:35

my goodness that was such a heartbreaking

15:37

song. The prophecy was... Yeah

15:39

that she would trade in all her fame

15:42

just to have somebody who wants to have

15:44

her own. Yeah. With her company I mean

15:47

I feel like I'm curious about what you guys think

15:49

about this but I think I was thinking about it

15:52

on the subway this morning like focal and evermore for

15:54

me. They were are

15:56

so highly wrought

15:58

and they're so... finally

16:00

and definitely created, right? And I

16:02

feel like there's somewhat of an

16:04

emotional remove across those albums

16:06

because they seem like these more higher

16:09

art creations, in my opinion. Like she

16:11

was writing stories about characters and there

16:13

was just like a little bit of

16:15

a removal, I would say emotionally. So

16:18

it took me a little bit more time to like

16:20

really sink into those songs and have them impact me.

16:23

With this album, I feel like her

16:25

emotions are right on the surface. And

16:28

this album is like much more

16:30

sad. It's a

16:32

much more devastating. It's just

16:34

so much more emotionally resonant to

16:36

me. And in so

16:39

much like honestly more engaging

16:42

to listen to once you kind

16:44

of accept the new song, the

16:46

new sounds, the new way she's going, once

16:48

you kind of get on board, I

16:51

found myself fully swept away. That's

16:54

good, Amy. She is our

16:57

Folklore and Evermore enthusiast. How

16:59

do you compare this album

17:01

to Folklore and Evermore? I

17:05

mean, I think that there are a lot of

17:07

the sounds. I hear Invisible String in

17:09

one song and I hear, so

17:11

I feel like there's a lot of inspiration

17:14

that she pulled from those albums, but I

17:16

mean, it's obviously different. Because

17:18

I also wonder how much

17:21

Folklore and Evermore are fiction.

17:24

It's supposed to be fictional albums,

17:26

but then how much reality is

17:29

in there and how much is

17:31

in Tortured Poets Department too. Because

17:33

I'm seeing theories about the whole

17:35

album is about Sylvia Platt, which

17:38

is something that I haven't looked

17:40

enough into yet, but she's some

17:43

literary goddess who was tortured and I

17:45

believe put her head in the oven

17:47

out of despair. Beljar. Yeah.

17:51

So there's a lot that you have

17:53

to wonder how much is fact and

17:55

how much is fiction whenever she's writing.

17:57

Yeah, well, because she makes a lot of references. lot

18:00

of references. There's a lot of history and

18:02

a lot of literature that goes into it, which I think is part

18:04

of what... That's why we

18:06

need time with it, to just kind of

18:08

fully understand like, okay, wait, why was she

18:10

thinking about Cassandra? Does that relate

18:12

back to Greek mythology and like Clara

18:14

Bow and everything? There's so many layers.

18:17

And so it kind of... When

18:19

people are so quick to

18:22

judge and hate it without understanding it, I'm almost

18:24

like, okay, but have you listened to it? For

18:28

sure. I think one of my hot

18:30

takes is that I don't think this

18:32

is like a breakup album. I think

18:35

Mattie Healy and Jo were

18:39

sensational like muses for her, but I think it's

18:41

more so like she's telling us what happened and

18:43

how it affected her. And she's

18:45

taking kind of all of it and talking

18:47

about her mental state, her depression, her sadness,

18:49

her anxieties and all of that because of

18:51

what happened. Like the other

18:53

day somebody called it like a diss album and

18:55

I was like, it's not a diss album, though.

18:58

Like she left

19:01

Jo and she thought

19:03

Mattie was her soulmate and they didn't work out

19:05

and that's really devastating. But I wouldn't

19:08

say it's like a diss album. I disagree

19:10

because I think there

19:12

is a lot of really specific callouts

19:14

she makes to Mattie. I don't think

19:16

it's a diss album for Jo

19:18

at all. I think it is a diss album

19:21

for Mattie or at least there are diss songs on

19:23

this. So maybe the whole thing isn't

19:25

a diss album. I mean, it's 31 songs and

19:27

a lot of them are just about her sad

19:30

mental state. But I do think that she

19:32

definitely has some scathing lyrics about

19:34

Mattie's drug addiction, who

19:37

he was to her, how he treated her.

19:39

So I don't know. I don't get

19:41

any measure of a man. Yeah. That

19:43

song alone. But yeah, I hear you. It's maybe

19:46

not a full diss album, but there's a lot

19:48

of diss songs. And there's diss songs for the

19:50

fans. Kim

19:53

Kardashian. So I think she's coming for people on

19:55

this album. I would say that's safe to say.

19:58

Are there any songs that you you two

20:00

are listening to on repeat more than others.

20:02

Any songs that you're constantly attracted to that

20:04

you're like, oh, this is my song. It's

20:07

so funny. I hated the song at the beginning.

20:09

I hated Down Bad because I just couldn't get

20:11

past the lyric. I'm Down Bad, or what is

20:13

it? Down Bad Crying at the Gym. Down Bad

20:15

Crying at the Gym. Fuck it

20:17

if I can't have him. I was just

20:19

like, no, this can't be like capital P

20:21

poetry. But then once I got past it,

20:25

I find this song to be like

20:27

so devastating and arresting. When she says

20:29

the lyric, where she says that she

20:32

can't utter the word over. Like

20:34

when she says, I loved your, it's the outro.

20:38

And it's like, I loved your hostile

20:40

takeovers, your indecent exposures growing closer and

20:42

closer. I messed it up, but

20:44

that's the gist. And then she says, how dare you

20:46

say that it's, and she can't figure herself to say

20:48

over. I'm just like, I was

20:51

crying outside YSL the other day. I'm just

20:53

like. I'm like. I'm like. Did you have a

20:55

bag full of items though? Yeah,

20:57

no, and that was another reason I

21:00

was crying. I was like, what is that? I'm

21:02

very paid expensive. Do you say it is, yeah, $10,000.

21:05

Anyway, I'm loving that

21:07

song. I was like

21:09

pop culture enthusiasts and

21:11

Maddie Healy. Do you think eventually,

21:14

I mean, he's gonna tell his side of the story. Like, is that

21:16

something that you like, that you're kind of

21:18

looking forward to, or you want to hear, like you can't

21:20

help but be curious, but like, I

21:22

don't know how do you feel about like, I guess the

21:24

rebuttal? Cause we haven't really gotten that before.

21:27

Do you want us to talk about Aunt Debbie? Oh,

21:30

yes, let's frame Aunt Debbie. I don't know

21:32

if you guys saw this, but Aunt

21:34

Debbie, I don't know if you're familiar, she is a Matt

21:36

Healy's aunt, and she spoke

21:38

out on his behalf about the relationship. What

21:41

did she say? She gave an interview to

21:43

Daily Mail, went up a couple of days

21:45

ago, full quotes, like fully

21:47

gave an interview on all of this. And she

21:49

said, you know, we know what really went down

21:51

between the two of them. What else? Like,

21:54

she was just basically like, it's, you know, she

21:56

said, Nadi is not surprised at anything

21:58

at this point. comes as no

22:00

shock to him. We know more went on here

22:02

and she's letting on like we know the full

22:04

story. Like

22:07

a Meghan Markle family. Yes. I

22:09

feel like the only difference is I feel

22:11

like Meghan Markle like excommunicated her father for

22:13

talking to the tabloids and I always feel

22:15

like Maddie Healy is so messy that he's

22:17

like, I'm gonna have to read this. I

22:19

said yes, but I

22:25

was getting confused. I saw that his

22:27

mom is on some wine talk show

22:30

or something. Oh, I didn't know that.

22:32

Yeah. And she hasn't been on since

22:34

the release of the album, but it's

22:36

like the talk or whatever. But this

22:39

is with wine and crumpets at the

22:41

same time or something. And

22:43

she hasn't been on yet to have her rebuttal.

22:45

And even Maddie said something. I think it was

22:47

yesterday. He was stopped and they said, he

22:50

said that he hadn't really listened to it, but

22:52

he sure it's good, which is a nice thing

22:54

to say. I mean, the best way to say

22:56

it. Yeah. He has to know.

22:59

We have a good task to tell him.

23:01

I mean, there's no way that he isn't

23:03

aware and doesn't know. We believe that was

23:05

a fully staged moment. Oh, yeah.

23:09

TMZ and absolutely, like

23:11

there's a world where he's just walking on

23:13

a sidewalk alone and he happens to

23:15

be there. Maddie, have you heard the album? And

23:18

he just looked up and talked to them like

23:20

completely unstartled. They fully set that

23:22

up. I

23:24

actually found his remarks to be quite dismissive

23:26

to say he hasn't really listened. Like I

23:28

don't really care, even though it's like literally

23:30

what the entire world has been talking about from the

23:33

past five days. We're actually, you have listened.

23:35

Yeah. If Ian Taylor Swift were cuddling

23:37

late at night talking about how Charlie

23:39

Poof should be a bigger artist. He's

23:41

listened to this album about himself, right?

23:44

Yeah. Would you want to, I mean,

23:48

how would you feel if you had a whole album

23:50

written about you? I got Thank You, Amy.

23:54

But if you, if you, if you did have a whole album

23:57

written about you, how would you feel? Would you want to jump

23:59

right into it? to be scared to listen to it?

24:01

You have to know you, I

24:04

would want to know. Yeah. You have to

24:06

know, especially with someone at her level and

24:08

everybody else is going to know you can't

24:10

just avoid it. And

24:14

we're talking to pop apologist, Chan and

24:16

Lauren right now. I learned a lot

24:19

listening to your podcast earlier. You were

24:21

breaking down the whole timeline of Taylor

24:23

Swift and Mattie Healy. Yeah. And that

24:25

was really interesting to me. Thank you

24:27

so much. So we did a whole

24:29

deep dive on the album. Like we

24:31

did, you know, we covered

24:33

a ton of the songs. We were heads down

24:35

listening all weekend after it was released. So we

24:37

could be prepped for that. And

24:39

then what we realized was so much of

24:41

it was about Mattie Healy. And I think

24:43

the parasocial relationship between Taylor and her fans

24:46

is so strong that some of

24:49

them were having difficulty grappling with so many songs

24:51

being about Mattie and almost like in a way

24:53

that could prevent them from enjoying the music. Because

24:55

it's like, how could this girl be so obsessed with

24:58

this guy? She was with for what looks like two

25:00

weeks. And so we felt like the

25:02

fans need to know how deep this really goes so

25:05

they can really understand what's at the core

25:07

of the suffering in these songs. And so

25:09

we released a deep dive on their 10

25:11

year situationship this morning. Yeah,

25:15

that was that was that was impressive. I

25:17

learned a lot. There was a lot that

25:19

I forgot about even her releasing antihero for

25:22

the first time and performing that at a

25:24

1975 concert. But

25:26

you're absolutely correct. This has been something

25:28

that has tortured her for a really,

25:30

really, really long time. And

25:32

some people thought that Joe Allwyn

25:35

got the Calvin Harris treatment

25:37

on this album because they thought this

25:39

whole album was going to be about

25:41

him and it's not. But you all

25:43

think or I heard y'all say that

25:45

Midnight was actually a breakup album, you

25:47

believe. Definitely. I think so many

25:50

of the songs in the nights are Joe

25:52

coded 100 percent and breakup. I mean, there

25:55

will be some people listening to things all about Carly

25:57

Kloss. I don't know that on that team. I think

25:59

that it. I think most

26:01

of those songs were about Joe like maroon.

26:03

I think was a breakup song to Joe

26:05

I think Joe got so many good breakup

26:07

bangers and so yeah, I

26:10

think that I think that Taylor has really like

26:12

Given him gorgeous sonic love Odes

26:15

and devastating breakup songs. Yeah, I

26:17

think I think you're losing me

26:19

was obviously about Joe So

26:23

good. So good. It's different. It's different I

26:25

think that you know midnight is kind of

26:28

about a relationship or the breakup and that's

26:30

you know detailed in midnight as we believe

26:32

It to be is about a relationship running

26:34

its course And this album

26:36

is about a relationship that goes up in fucking flames.

26:38

I'm sorry I don't know if I can swear but

26:40

it goes up in And

26:43

I think something we realized we were doing our deep dive

26:45

is that Maddie has been here

26:47

in her life pre Joe pre Calvin.

26:50

He has been here since 2014. So this is a

26:52

long Standing

26:55

situation ship crush, you know will they

26:57

won't beg you know, like sort of

26:59

moment? And so this relationship

27:01

really when it finally happened and they were public

27:03

and they were out and you know It was

27:06

like off to the races then when it went

27:08

up in flames Like we just got

27:10

this incredible album about you know, how terrible that

27:12

breakup was I guess Yeah,

27:14

and I think people don't realize that she even said that she

27:17

was writing this for like two years Like

27:19

I think a lot of people like see a headline

27:21

and they like I saw so much criticism of people

27:23

being like Why isn't she writing

27:25

so many happy songs about Travis Kelce? And it's like

27:27

well because that is more recent Like we'll probably hear

27:30

more. I mean, yeah We have like so high school

27:32

the alchemy like whatever but that'll probably come later on

27:34

because we're hearing what she was going through For the

27:36

last, you know, like years before that like almost

27:38

like she had to get all of this out Before

27:41

like, you know having her

27:43

relationship with Travis, right? Okay,

27:45

like um How

27:47

does Travis feel about her writing

27:50

about that and even asked his

27:52

mom Donna Kelce and she was

27:54

like It's a fantastic album and

27:56

I could learn a lot from

27:58

Taylor Swift like They're not

28:00

just putting her down. You

28:02

can't take away her feelings. I'd be gaslighting.

28:05

She's just sharing her feelings. And

28:07

yeah, there was someone before you, Travis, but thank

28:09

goodness you're here now. He's

28:12

not threatened. Yeah, he's not

28:14

threatened. I feel like of all of her

28:16

exes, Travis is the least

28:18

threatened by Taylor's success because he

28:20

himself has such massive success also.

28:22

And he gets it. They're both in their

28:24

30s. They both have had

28:26

previous relationships long term, short term. I mean,

28:28

Travis had a dating show. You know, I

28:31

said they've each had their ups and downs

28:33

and love and it would be ridiculous

28:35

to think, oh, you can't write

28:38

about that now that I'm here. It's

28:41

the craziest criticism. Someone's

28:43

asking that question and questioning how he

28:45

feels about her releasing songs. Like this

28:48

is her, hers is her career. This

28:50

is what she's known for. This is what she does. She's one

28:52

of the greatest artists of her time. You think she's not going

28:54

to do that because of a guy she's dating? People

28:57

live on Mars, so I'm concerned. I

28:59

can't really tell. Now, Chan,

29:01

I don't know if we ever got your favorite

29:03

most listened to song on this album. What do

29:05

you think? So for me, it's

29:07

the title track, the Tortured Poets Department. That

29:10

one for me hits, to

29:12

me, it's like a perfect song. I

29:15

think the lyric that strikes me the most

29:17

on there that honestly, like my stomach did

29:19

like a somersault when I heard it is,

29:21

you know, throughout the song, she says, who's going to know

29:23

you? And then she

29:25

switches the line to like, who's going to know me?

29:28

And she says it in a really like breathy voice.

29:30

And I just always find that to be very arresting.

29:33

But yeah, I love, I love the title track. I wasn't expecting

29:35

to like it as well when all the song titles

29:37

were released. I was like, who cares? But

29:40

I love that one. I also, I love So High

29:42

School. I know that that's a controversial love for a

29:44

lot of people, but I cannot stop

29:46

listening to So High School. But it's

29:48

perfect. Like, it's a perfect, it's

29:50

a perfect take on like that young

29:52

love and also just like he knows how to

29:54

ball. I know Aristotle like that's like the perfect

29:57

analogy for the two of them. Yes. Also,

29:59

I read some more of the It's kind of like a 90s rom-com

30:01

song and ever since I read that and like yes It's

30:03

exactly what it is. And that's why I like love it.

30:05

It like belongs at the end of you know 10

30:09

things I hate about you or something. Yeah and

30:12

it's such a great way to celebrate him and

30:15

It it comes as the track

30:17

six on the second album, which is

30:19

always a whiplash coming off Five

30:21

and how it all ends is definitely

30:24

that Are you

30:26

guys curious at all like with Matty

30:28

Healy being who he is? Do

30:31

you think that at some point he could

30:33

like appreciate that the art that came from

30:35

this or do you think that? He's actually

30:37

just gonna like he's waiting.

30:39

I Think

30:41

that he definitely can appreciate the art that came

30:43

from this I would I you don't think he

30:46

can know I'm thinking about it It's a good

30:48

question. Yeah, I think he can't I think you

30:50

know, his ego is probably gonna get in the

30:52

way But he's a long time admirer of Taylor.

30:54

So I I don't think he'll brush this off

30:57

I think he's in a new relationship now But I

30:59

hope that he can like appreciate the art for what

31:01

it is and you know Try to enjoy

31:04

it if he can't that's possible. It's possible to

31:06

enjoy your own diss track Yeah,

31:10

I would say that the the word the worst

31:12

thing isn't hate is obviously in a relationship Indifference

31:14

and like they always say the best revenge is

31:16

just living well or whatever living well as the

31:19

best revenge and so an

31:21

entire You know huge

31:23

album 31 songs 80%

31:26

likely about you I mean if

31:29

they're that's pretty flattering by like

31:31

the greatest artist of our time. That's

31:33

true that I love that perspective That

31:36

is such a good perspective Especially the scope

31:38

of your life like all things with time

31:40

people move on people find you, you know

31:42

things heal for the most

31:44

part and so I just think that like What

31:48

I would be it's just this would be like almost like

31:50

the greatest achievement Yeah, I'm

31:52

a Leo so I would definitely love to have

31:54

a dis album about me that's all I want

32:00

like a performative artist,

32:02

you know, like a tortured poet,

32:04

a tortured soul. And so I,

32:07

when I saw that, which now that you point out that it was probably

32:09

staged and that 100% makes sense, I

32:12

was like, yeah, like if anybody could have, if any of

32:14

her exes could appreciate something like this, I feel like it

32:16

would probably be him. Yeah. Yeah. How

32:18

do you think Maddie is going to be

32:20

reacting to this on stage? Is he going

32:22

to be getting more belligerently drunk

32:24

on stage? Is he gonna, is this a wake

32:26

up call that he needs to sober up a

32:28

little bit? Like I wonder what hit, is he

32:30

gonna go even harder just

32:33

to give a big little finger to everybody? A few

32:35

days ago, he had a performance where he

32:37

said, you know who you are and was

32:40

really aggressive. Wasn't he? Oh no, that was

32:42

back when they were dating, when they were together.

32:45

No, it was two days after Taylor announced

32:47

the tortured poets department at one of his

32:49

shows. He was like, don't come for me. I

32:53

thought it was recent. My bad. It like resurfaced. Okay.

32:55

Well, and when they were together, they

32:58

each mouthed during their concerts,

33:00

like songs about you, you know who you are or

33:02

something like that. I think everyone should

33:06

be grateful for the fact that these two are

33:08

a little bit exhibitionists, you know, both

33:11

of them, respectively. So I think we'll

33:13

hear from Maddie for sure. I cannot

33:15

wait. Yeah, for sure.

33:17

I think the most petty thing that I heard

33:20

on Swift Talk theory is that

33:23

the black dog is Joe Alwyn's favorite

33:26

pub to go to. And he's a

33:28

regular there. And so she

33:30

specifically named dropped that pub knowing

33:32

that Swifties are now going to

33:34

inundate it. That no longer be

33:36

the place that he goes to.

33:39

He's really good. Favorite pub for him.

33:41

It's like, you knew places where he

33:43

could go hide and Taylor took

33:45

her own song, her own lyrics and she outed

33:48

him. He's so private. You know, he like

33:50

relishes that, you know, bad privacy,

33:52

whatever it is. Honestly, the part of that song

33:54

that I am so worked up about is

33:57

when she says, you

33:59

know, there's a lyric where she She says like we were making

34:01

some esoteric joke making fun of me It's a

34:03

love song on some level cuz she's like saying

34:05

how much she misses him and like don't you

34:07

miss me? Like and like she's

34:09

like looking at his location It's forlorn and even

34:12

in that she can't help but bring up the

34:14

fact that he was like low-key Like

34:16

ridiculed her and was you know condescending

34:18

toward her I think all such a

34:20

common theme if you read the lyrics

34:22

there's so many songs on midnight And

34:25

if you look at what it what Jack

34:27

Antonoff said on the bleachers version of

34:29

antihero where he said, you know You're

34:32

too sad to hang out talking shit about your famous,

34:34

baby I think this guy was

34:36

low-key a dick to her and so I don't

34:38

feel bad I hope you can never have

34:40

a drink at the black dog again Do

34:43

you think you do you think he was rude

34:45

to her out of spite out of you're the

34:47

biggest thing in the world? And I'm not yet

34:49

or I'm only known as your

34:51

boyfriend kind of thing. I think we

34:53

resented her I think that they met at a

34:56

time when she wanted to make herself smaller, you

34:58

know reputation era She was hiding from the world

35:00

and that was like a perfect storm when he

35:02

could really like, you know Be her

35:04

knight in shining armor And then I think when she reemerged,

35:06

you know at the butterfly that she is

35:08

even bigger and better than before I think he

35:11

maybe couldn't take it and I think he just

35:13

yeah, he wasn't he wouldn't let her shine I

35:15

mean, this is this is sprinkled across all through

35:17

all of her song. Yeah Another

35:19

thing I want to say about the black dog the

35:21

fact that she says that he didn't even turn off

35:23

his location That to me

35:26

is the biggest like indifference Moment

35:29

and it just that lyric was very gutting for

35:31

me I guess because it's just like wow you

35:33

have a six-year relationship and you don't even care

35:36

Enough to be like, you know, you don't you don't get

35:38

to see where I'm at It's like fizzled out and the

35:40

most but not she said the most But

35:43

all of endings right? Yeah, like the look

35:45

lion or something. I don't remember the lyric

35:47

but yeah Yeah, I think that

35:50

one of the funniest Post I've

35:52

seen in the last couple of days is that

35:54

Joe Allen couldn't even land the lead role in

35:56

the portrait poetry department That's

36:00

good. I have not seen that one. Yeah, that's good. Maddie

36:09

Healy said in an interview like back in the day

36:11

that basically he couldn't handle the idea of being just

36:13

known as Taylor Swift's boyfriend. This was like when they

36:15

first were hooking up or whatever. He, I think he,

36:17

yeah, he said that was like a big thing for

36:19

him. He was trying to come up, you know, in

36:22

the world himself. Yeah, like this like 2016, yeah, not

36:24

like, not recently. And

36:27

so, and so I think that that

36:29

had, and I don't know, like there's just, I

36:31

can understand on a very human level, like Joel

36:33

also is a person and as much as I

36:35

don't want him to enjoy a drink in the

36:37

Black Dog, like, I,

36:40

there's a part of me that kind of gets it. Like,

36:43

I mean, I think as well

36:45

with, you know, with his career, not necessarily

36:47

blossoming and kind of struggling. Yeah, I had,

36:49

I had high hopes for him in conversations

36:51

with friends, but it didn't hit. But yeah,

36:53

I think that, yeah, I think maybe if

36:55

he'd had more career success, it would have

36:58

been a better road for them. I

37:00

don't know. Is he a terrible actor? So hot. And Taylor

37:02

Swift, you would just think that he

37:04

was good in work. The favorite, but he had a

37:06

very small role. To be little,

37:08

her career though, is giving me like

37:10

Simone Biles husband comment, you know, where

37:12

he's like, Oh, well, she was an

37:14

athlete, but I wasn't even aware of

37:16

her. No, she was the athlete.

37:18

She's still, yeah, you can't, yeah,

37:20

you can't diminish her, her progress

37:23

and everything that she's done, because

37:25

you're not aware of her. And

37:27

because you're not doing better than

37:29

her. That's just so narcissist

37:31

and belittling to say that. And I'm

37:33

glad she's not with a person who's

37:35

like that anymore. I'm glad she's with

37:38

a fan that loves her and

37:40

celebrates her success. Totally. Yeah. No,

37:42

I have to ask, I haven't gotten an update from

37:45

Anna. If there's another artist that Taylor or

37:48

if there's another artist that Anna loves, it's

37:50

the 1975. You've seen them

37:53

how many times have you seen them in concert? I've seen them like 10

37:55

times in concert. So how does all

37:58

of the revelations that we have about Matt, over

38:00

the last year, how does that affect you as

38:02

a fan of the 1975? You

38:04

know what? It was a struggle. I'm not gonna lie. It was

38:07

a struggle at first when they like first, I

38:09

guess was it last year when they like were

38:12

first rumored to be dating because I used

38:14

to want them to collab like artistically. So bad.

38:16

There's always been rumors about that. Yeah and

38:18

like when she showed up at the

38:20

1975 show to play anti-hero like I was so excited. I

38:22

was like, oh my god, I'm finally gonna get this collab

38:25

of Taylor Swift in the 1975 and then it's tough, but

38:29

obviously Taylor is my ride or die. But I think when

38:31

I look at the layer of like, okay,

38:33

if he's been, you know, a constant

38:35

in her life for the past decade and

38:37

if he was there to help her write some

38:39

of like midnights especially like he got

38:42

to know some of her deepest, deepest insecurities,

38:44

especially when it came to her relationship with

38:46

Jo and then for him

38:48

to just ghost her like I

38:50

mean, I'm team Taylor 100% but yeah,

38:53

at first I was like, oh man,

38:55

this is kind of a show because I really

38:57

wanted them to collab artistically, which in a way,

38:59

if they're writing music about each other, you're still

39:02

getting that, you know,

39:04

yeah. But yeah, it was, it was,

39:06

it was, yeah, that's a good question, Nick. That was a

39:08

good question. You're welcome. I've

39:11

also one rumor that people

39:13

wondered if he's actually William

39:15

Bowery, but Taylor herself has

39:17

said that it was

39:19

Jo Alwyn. So that's why I'm

39:22

not buying into that, but it would

39:24

be interesting if come to find out.

39:26

I've also heard that she just threw

39:28

William Bowery some credits to get back

39:30

at Calvin Harris. Apparently,

39:35

they'll make three million a year. This is Spencer

39:37

Pratt said this on Heather McDonald's podcast. This is

39:39

up to source. I don't know if it's true,

39:41

but apparently he makes three million a year from

39:45

the royalties from these writing credits.

39:47

So it's a pretty nice, you

39:49

know, parting gift. Lauren

39:54

and Tana, have y'all gotten to see Taylor Swift in

39:56

concert before? Oh, yes. Yeah.

39:58

I have actually been to every every single tour. Wow.

40:02

Yeah. I remember, I

40:04

think fearless, like I touched her arm. I mean,

40:06

I just like, our mom actually, she like, this

40:09

is back when she was running through the crowd,

40:11

okay? I say that, you know, I have an

40:13

OG, but our mom actually was

40:15

at one of the concerts and she got mistaken for

40:17

Andrea Swift. Really? Yeah.

40:20

Like a security guard came up to her and was like, oh,

40:22

do you want to go down to the box or whatever? And

40:24

then he, when she turned around, anyway, so. Yes, yes we

40:26

did. We've been to a lot of this shows. I

40:28

would use mom to try to get into

40:30

every show then and throw down that gauntlet.

40:33

Don't you know who I am? Just back

40:35

her up into the stadium, deliver your face.

40:37

We can have your mom walk around with Ashley.

40:39

Isn't that her name? It's just Ashley. And just

40:41

see what kind of commotion comes up. Oh

40:44

my God. That's so good. And

40:46

what do you guys, especially as pop apologists,

40:48

what do you guys think about Thank You Amy?

40:53

This is a song I'm not gonna be reaching

40:55

for, but it's fine to me. It's

40:57

not one of my favorites off the album. I

41:00

think it's odd for her to bring back

41:02

the drama and the

41:04

feud after it's been so long. I

41:07

think I'm starting to subscribe to the theory that her

41:09

and Kim are in cahoots about this. I haven't even

41:11

told you this, but I wouldn't be surprised. It was

41:14

like, this will be, you know, this will make you

41:16

relevant again or whatever. This will be good for both

41:18

of us. And that, you

41:20

know, that she maybe actually asked Kim if she could write

41:22

this song or whatever. And that it's

41:24

maybe not even necessarily about Kim, but it's about somebody

41:26

else. So she's kind of

41:28

nasting it as a song about Kim. When

41:30

she says I've changed the names in any

41:33

real defining clues, I mean, capitalizing K-I-M is

41:35

a real defining clue. So I

41:38

guess I just feel like I really

41:40

struggle with this. It's hard for me to

41:42

believe that it's about Kim Kardashian, although all

41:44

the lyrics point to that. I kind of

41:46

wonder if it's about Carly Klot. Yeah,

41:49

I've heard that. I've heard that. Yeah, I

41:51

was kind of under, I almost thought like, it's

41:54

too obvious, you know? I

41:56

am, but then you hear that lyric, but then it's also like,

41:58

okay, but is that kind of... I like the joke

42:00

about it. Like, you know, so it's, it's, it's

42:03

an interesting take, but I, I, I almost felt

42:05

like it could have just been like

42:07

in general, maybe directed at multiple people,

42:09

you know, maybe scooter,

42:12

carly, anyone that's wrong to, I've heard some people say,

42:14

you know, maybe it's actually directed at Kanye, but she

42:16

kind of took the straight with Kim, you know, like

42:18

it just kind of just depends on how you

42:20

look at it. Yeah. And I saw that right after

42:22

that song dropped, Kim posted a picture with

42:24

Carly Closs. It was a group of people. Yeah.

42:27

I think on her story with Carly Closs. So

42:29

was that Kim's response? Yeah. Or is she

42:31

just kind of rubbing Taylor's nose in it or

42:34

yes. I

42:37

think Kim during the pod, Kim loves the

42:40

attention. Are you kidding? There's

42:42

also a theory that I've heard from

42:44

Swifty's online of saying like, she's bringing

42:46

this back up because reputation is next.

42:48

And she's just bringing this drama back

42:50

to the forefront. So once reputation Taylor's

42:52

version comes out, we remember

42:55

that time period and all the drama surrounding it.

42:57

So that album hits just as hard

42:59

as it did back then. Which I think

43:01

is true because I had a lot

43:03

of people ask me as the resident Swifty,

43:05

what is their feud? And then once I

43:07

would mention it, they're like, Oh yeah, I

43:10

forgot about that. Yeah. There are so many

43:12

more Swifty's people either like you say, Lacey

43:14

forgot, or they just don't even know that

43:16

part of the celebrity world. They

43:18

don't even remember those rumors. Yeah.

43:21

And I think that we

43:23

just, we fail to comprehend how

43:25

badly this hurt her. Like we saw

43:27

Miss Americana, how she described how gutting

43:29

this experience was and how she felt

43:32

like everything she had built her in

43:34

our castle crumbled overnight. And

43:36

essentially being so young when it happened too. And

43:39

it's like you're building all these dreams as

43:42

like a teenager and then in your early

43:44

twenties and then at 25 to have what

43:46

feels like the world turn against you. And

43:48

we had our kind of mini cancellation over

43:50

some over like some Kate Middleton stuff.

43:52

And that was pretty interesting thing

43:55

to experience. I can't imagine feeling

43:57

like everyone hated you. And I

43:59

think What was especially terrible about

44:01

it is that, you know, like

44:03

Taylor, like had her own fans, people

44:05

who were true Taylor lifers

44:08

turn against her. And I think, you know, like for

44:10

us, it was like, and a much smaller scale, like

44:12

random people on the internet. But then it's like, okay,

44:14

no people who like know me who thought I was

44:16

amazing, who thought I was great and amazing, like now

44:19

actually think I'm a snake. Yeah,

44:22

yeah, makes sense to me that she is she

44:24

it's still, you know, is a setting to her

44:26

because it's dramatic to

44:28

build on that, just like y'all are saying, you know, if

44:30

I'm going to be the Taylor apologist, who

44:34

are we to say how long someone

44:36

can have feelings about a situation? She's

44:38

an artist, she's an artist. So I

44:41

mean, her literal job is to write about those

44:43

feelings. So for a lot of people,

44:45

it's trivial. But to her, it really

44:47

meant something. And yeah, it is still sticking in

44:49

her side. And she does still have emotions to

44:51

get out of it. And she's also singing about

44:54

getting over those emotions and

44:57

looking at it from far away and

45:00

saying, Hey, this actually turned out to be okay.

45:02

Because look at what's happening right

45:04

now. Yeah. You're over something and then

45:06

the wound opens up again. Yeah, and

45:09

I've seen so many people be like, Oh my god, she's

45:11

in her 30s, she should be over by now. It's like, Yeah,

45:13

well, so was Kim when she did all of this. Kim

45:16

was in her 30s. When she when this

45:18

all happened. So like, you can't tell

45:20

someone how to feel. Yeah. I

45:23

also think that there's like this recurring criticism

45:26

of Taylor that she's in her 30s

45:28

now. And she thinks like, put away

45:30

being dramatic about ex boyfriends and like

45:33

those kind of feelings that those feelings

45:35

are juvenile. And I to be

45:37

honest with you, like those criticisms, they,

45:39

I kind of understand where people are coming

45:41

from. And there's a part of me

45:43

that wonders like why as a culture, we

45:46

don't we think it's we have such a

45:48

disdain for feeling as you get older, like

45:50

why you have to just become number and

45:52

number to life, you know, and I feel

45:54

like it's this strange expectation, we put on

45:56

people and we project on to Taylor Swift

45:58

like this. taste for still

46:01

being a sensitive, lovesick person. Like,

46:03

by that experience, you don't deserve

46:05

to have that experience because you've

46:07

lived long enough. It's just a

46:09

weird cultural reaction in my opinion.

46:11

You're absolutely right because we're coming

46:13

into a time where we're finally

46:15

learning that it's okay to be

46:17

emotional, that you're allowed to. You

46:20

don't just have to sit back and shut up

46:22

and not cry because you feel a certain way.

46:24

And that was the generation that we were raised

46:26

in. And now we're trying to break the cycle.

46:30

That it's saying it's all your emotions

46:32

and it's okay to feel like that.

46:34

And then, like I said earlier,

46:36

to say something otherwise is a little bit

46:38

gaslighting. To say that you're just being dramatic

46:40

and you have no right to feel this

46:43

way. You need to be a mature adult

46:45

now and handle it like a woman. Well,

46:47

you are strong. You're putting it

46:49

all out there for other people and that takes a

46:51

lot of guts. Which I also kind of explain why

46:53

to us it feels

46:56

so therapeutic to listen to her. Because

46:58

if we've been suppressing feelings and suppressing trauma

47:00

and feel like we can't vocalize it or

47:02

be emotional about things, but then we listen

47:04

to her basically put into words what we're

47:06

feeling, maybe that's part of why we

47:08

find her music to be so cathartic. This

47:11

is one of my favorite things to talk about and I'm

47:13

going to get on a soapbox for a second. I

47:16

apologize if I start preaching because I am a Taylor Swift apologist.

47:19

There's two things about, oh, Taylor writes too much

47:21

about her relationships. It's all about love. Then,

47:25

name one artist who doesn't write about

47:28

relationships. One artist who doesn't write about

47:30

love. That's what 90% of songs

47:32

are about. It's about all the different stages of

47:34

love. The puppy dog phase, the breakup

47:36

phase. When Adele got a

47:38

divorce, everyone was looking forward to

47:40

a divorce album. Why is it okay for

47:43

Adele to sing about breakup, but not Taylor

47:45

Swift? And then also, yeah, Taylor sings about

47:47

these things. Society is telling her, telling women,

47:49

you're worthless if you're not married. She's telling

47:51

you why these things aren't working out. So

47:53

what she's supposed to do, not

47:56

sing about it, well, she's telling you why. She

47:58

can't win either way. It frustrates me.

48:00

It's like there's there's no way for

48:03

her to win when it comes to

48:05

someone criticizing her singing about relationships. Yeah

48:08

I'm done. Yeah I'm

48:10

here for it I also think Adele is almost a

48:12

little bit of an outlier in the way that she

48:14

celebrated for continual like having a lot of breakup Songs

48:17

I almost feel like when men

48:19

write breakup music or music that's

48:21

about like, you know The object

48:23

of their affection that is, you

48:25

know universally I think accepted as

48:28

like romantic and just incredible and

48:30

when I think a lot has been women

48:32

can You know there the

48:35

the idea that a woman is like gazing

48:37

upon a man And it's like

48:39

the the female gaze is something I think as

48:42

a culture. We also, you know, we

48:44

don't sit well with it And I

48:47

think that just goes back to like, you know are

48:49

across time We're not

48:51

used to the female gaze were used

48:53

to and comfortable with the male gay. Yeah

48:56

And when it comes to you know,

48:58

especially the female gaze and lust I

49:01

mean she has dress She has

49:03

a song on this album guilty of

49:05

sin. It's a teeny song. Yeah. Yeah

49:08

He's saying that yeah, I can sing

49:10

about these thoughts and imaginations also Yeah,

49:14

I love it. I love that. She's now at a

49:16

point where it's like I don't care I don't have

49:18

to be you know Pleasing the moms of the people

49:20

listening to this music like if this is just exactly

49:23

what I want to put out there Yeah,

49:26

which is one of those other situations where she can't win if

49:29

she sings shake it off It's like oh my gosh, they write

49:31

music for kids and then Why

49:33

is she not writing music for my kids? What

49:41

do you want from her like she just cannot

49:43

win and I think in this album she explores

49:45

that a lot Yeah, like you know like her

49:47

like perspective and she's like I had

49:49

said in one of our earlier episodes Like I feel

49:51

like in this album She's just using the words that

49:54

she wants to use to express the feelings that she

49:56

wants to express and like she didn't send It

49:58

to anybody to like, you know double check

50:00

like near this and send and

50:03

I and I love I just love that for her

50:05

and I think that's part of what makes this so

50:07

powerful. I just like yeah, I

50:09

also think I'm curious if any of you have had

50:11

a similar experience you know since we're in the safe

50:13

trust tree of all being swifties. I

50:16

do think we're living in a time where it's

50:18

like the pitchforks have always been out for Taylor

50:21

Swift but especially given the last year and just

50:23

kind of her media like presence being everywhere like

50:25

I just like the pitchforks have never been like

50:28

sharper or higher like waiting for her to fall

50:30

and that's kind of a theory of mine that

50:32

like why a lot of reviews are bad about

50:34

this album. I just think people want to see

50:36

her fail. They like she's too

50:38

big. She had her tour was

50:41

too big. It was too crazy. It you know

50:43

affected the GDP too much whatever and

50:45

I I do think it's been a really

50:47

interesting like moment in culture and even across

50:49

like friend groups like there was an article

50:51

that came out like I think in the

50:53

cut about like when Taylor Swift like ends

50:55

a friendship or something like that. And when

50:57

your fandom kind of gets in the way or

50:59

not gets in the way but I think that like

51:02

it can be a really polarizing thing now to be

51:04

a Swifty. I don't know if that's been your experience.

51:06

I mean obviously you have the Taylor Swift podcast but

51:08

have you have you experienced that? Yeah

51:11

I mean personally I kind of

51:13

feel like just in general the way that we

51:15

are as a society it's

51:18

extremely polarizing on all issues. You can't really

51:20

have a middle of the road opinion. You

51:22

have to have an extreme view on something

51:24

either way and whatever that

51:26

extreme view is sucks. It's awful. You're a

51:29

terrible person kind of no matter what side

51:31

it is. And

51:33

also I'm not saying this is right

51:35

but almost when you have a lot of haters

51:38

that just means you're bigger. The more

51:40

haters you have the bigger you are. So like

51:43

not that it should be a badge of honor

51:45

but it's like she's the biggest person in the

51:47

world. So yeah people do root

51:49

for her to fail just like yeah people were rooting

51:51

against Tom Brady to win all of his Super Bowls.

51:53

Yeah. He was great. What

51:55

do you want him to do? Stop playing football because he's

51:57

so good. No they're just going to keep doing

51:59

it. what they do, whether you like it or

52:02

not. Yeah. People just don't want

52:04

to believe in the success. They want to

52:06

think that she is overhyped,

52:08

oversaturated, that she hasn't done

52:11

and earned everything that

52:13

she did. Even all the haters

52:15

and the headlines on this latest

52:17

album, she's breaking records that she

52:19

started herself. She's always hopping everything,

52:22

but rather than give her the

52:24

credit that she deserved, people

52:26

want to say that she's a witch

52:28

and she's casting spells and putting narcotics

52:30

in her song. She

52:32

hears all that and then addresses it that

52:34

people are still like, but I don't like

52:37

her. I don't get that. It's like

52:39

you've never listened to an album. You don't

52:41

understand. There's a snobbery. Yeah. It's

52:45

always the people who I've only heard Shake It Off

52:47

in 22 or me. Yeah,

52:49

exactly. Real offensive country flippies. But yeah. They

52:52

haven't listened. They legitimately haven't listened. I

52:55

really, I believe this to my core. If

52:58

you've actually given her music a proper

53:00

shot and listened to the albums, you're

53:02

a Swifty. That's it.

53:04

Yeah. It's a spectrum. Maybe

53:06

as Swifty as a... Yeah, that's

53:09

true. But yeah, you see her talent. I

53:11

had someone recently bring up the fact that her

53:13

dad invested in the record company or something

53:16

like that. I don't know those details. Yeah,

53:18

he bought her success. Yeah, he bought her

53:20

success. And I'm just like, I can't even

53:22

believe that you think that... Somehow,

53:25

they're continuing to pull the wool over her eyes and just

53:27

buy her way to the top. Yeah.

53:30

She just reinvents what the top even is. Yeah. I recently

53:33

saw a lot of criticism from... I

53:36

forget what review it was, but they were saying she's

53:38

not giving anyone else a chance because she keeps putting

53:40

out all of her albums and stuff. And my reaction

53:42

is like, if other artists want to be as successful

53:44

as her, they need to work as hard as her.

53:46

You know what I mean? It's

53:50

such a baffling way to

53:52

look at it. Going

53:54

back to Tom Brady, did he just go

53:56

easy on the other teams just because he was

53:58

the best? Do people tell LeBron

54:00

James, hey, maybe go easy on this because they haven't

54:03

had a win in a while? It's

54:05

like, no, is Marvel supposed to stop making

54:07

movies? Right. It's like,

54:09

it's all it's just so frustrating. And a

54:11

true artist would never think that way. A

54:14

true artist who's really interested in their body

54:16

of work, the canon that they're creating, their

54:18

legacy, they're not thinking in terms of like,

54:20

well, am I going to be number one

54:22

on the billboard for X number of weeks?

54:25

And this person's doing that for me. Like,

54:27

that's just I think that

54:29

someone who, you know, is actually really considered

54:32

and thoughtful with the way they put our

54:34

art, they're thinking about this in

54:36

a much less grasping,

54:39

greedy commercial way. And, you know, sorry, the

54:41

Taylor is so prolific, but just because she's

54:43

putting a lot of music, that doesn't mean

54:45

that there aren't also other amazing artists. Right.

54:48

And she's still making room for people.

54:50

I mean, that's what she is. That's

54:52

the whole point of Clara Bow is

54:54

that everybody's preps at prime to be

54:56

the next Taylor Swift, not to join

54:58

her and her success. It's who's going

55:00

to replace her and become the next

55:02

one. And she's always

55:05

said she's more than happy to share the stage.

55:07

We don't have to be pitted against each other.

55:09

We all have crowns. Yeah. Yeah.

55:12

And everyone who's ever worked with her have said that how hard

55:14

of a worker she is. So where are the people

55:16

that didn't like working with her? Totally.

55:18

I like to hear from them. That's

55:20

such a great point. Yeah. Like,

55:22

I don't know that I've even heard of one story where someone was

55:24

like, I hate a working with Taylor Swift. She was terrible to work

55:27

with like that. But I've known we would

55:29

know we all would know. We

55:31

would definitely know. We

55:34

are talking to pop apologists,

55:36

stars, Chan and Lauren sisters

55:39

that have an excellent podcast

55:41

where they break everything down.

55:43

I want to know when did you all become

55:46

celebrity focused? When did you

55:48

realize as sisters that this was something

55:50

you wanted to pursue? When

55:54

I learned to read, I think that was my first

55:56

moment when I could pick up an Us Weekly. Yeah.

55:59

I have a question. I just, I don't remember a

56:01

beginning. There was no beginning. It was just from the

56:03

womb, you know? Is your

56:05

mom a big celebrity fan? Actually,

56:08

I feel like my mom is pretty anti-gossip.

56:10

I actually don't think she's that interesting for

56:12

the reason at all. No. Interesting.

56:15

Like she has her like favorites, but she's

56:17

not like an aficionado. Yeah. Yeah. Yeah.

56:21

I will say. Yeah. Right. I

56:23

was just gonna say, to look

56:25

at her music from the lens of like truly like

56:27

pop culture. Cause like on our podcast, we talk,

56:29

like we go through like the lyrics and like

56:31

the, like the language of a and her effects and

56:34

emotions and feelings, but it's, it's really cool

56:36

to also look at it through like a different lens. the

56:39

conversation has been really, it's been really interesting. Thank

56:41

you so much for having us. Yeah. So,

56:45

Well, and I want to pry more a

56:47

little bit deeper. I know that, that,

56:51

Tia and you live in New York, right? I live in

56:53

New York. Yeah. Okay. And Lauren,

56:55

they're visiting from Puerto Rico. Yeah.

56:59

What a cool place to live. Oh my God.

57:01

Delicate that. But there's a little bit of secrecy

57:03

surrounding why y'all are in New York right now.

57:05

Do you want to share what you can

57:08

about that? Is there a secrecy?

57:11

Are you referring to like, were we secretive about it on

57:13

our episode or something? I thought there

57:15

was a little bit of a new one that

57:17

you couldn't really feel everything. Yeah. I

57:19

mean, I guess we can share what hasn't come. Yeah.

57:22

I think we're now very over hyped. So

57:25

it's not that big of a secret, but we,

57:27

we just got really, we were really excited to

57:30

go on Sophia Franklin's podcast and she just had

57:32

us on her show and she obviously has a

57:34

really big show. And so it was, you know,

57:36

a big deal for us and we were really

57:39

excited about it. But I think it's one of

57:41

those things where like we hadn't actually taped it

57:43

yet. So until we had taped it and it

57:45

was going to go live, we were just not going to count

57:47

our chicken. So, Yeah. Well,

57:50

congratulations. That's really cool. Thank you. Thank you. I

57:52

think it was a great studio and set up and

57:54

everything. Yeah. It was killer.

57:56

Really seamless. Yeah. How did it

57:58

go? It was great. It was really

58:00

good. Yeah, yeah. It was fun. Did you

58:02

talk about Taylor Swift? Yeah, it was so funny. She was like,

58:04

I think I'm a Swiftie. And then she was like, when did

58:06

the album come out? I'm like, you are not a

58:09

Swiftie. We were like, please. Ha ha ha

58:11

ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha

58:13

ha ha ha. That is amazing. Love and respect.

58:15

So like, if you were asking yourself when the album came

58:17

out, like, we're just, you know,

58:20

two different types of people. Which is so funny,

58:22

cause like, that's so baffling to me. Like last week I was

58:24

talking to like one of my friends. I was like, yeah, the

58:26

new Taylor Swift album. She was like, oh yeah, I forgot she

58:28

has a new album. Like how did you

58:30

forget? Like what? No, my life revolves

58:32

around it. Like I don't know. Literally. Like

58:35

I was planning vacations around like, okay, well, like the Taylor Swift album

58:37

will be out by then. So you can enjoy it then. And like,

58:39

yeah. Ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha

58:41

ha ha ha ha ha ha. It was my like eclipse. Ha

58:44

ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha. So

58:47

on top of Sofia Franklin, what else can

58:49

people look forward to you all

58:51

releasing soon? What's on your plan?

58:54

What's on your manifesto, if you will? Do you have

58:57

a lot of Taylor Swift coming up? I

59:00

mean, thank you so much for asking. I think that

59:02

right now we have that deep dive on Tortured Poets

59:04

department. We also have the deep dive on Taylor and

59:06

Maddie. So that's probably gonna be interesting to people who

59:08

are listening. And then we just

59:11

kind of get on and chat about honestly,

59:13

Taylor and other celebrities. Ha ha ha ha

59:15

ha ha ha. Every Wednesday and then Friday

59:17

on Patreon. So it's a

59:20

continual conversation. That's really

59:22

awesome. And that deep dive with

59:24

Taylor and Maddie is such important context. So

59:26

thank you for taking the time to do

59:28

that. It's our public service. It was

59:30

our pleasure. Ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha

59:32

ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha. Well, thanks so much for

59:34

taking the time to chit chat with us. It's awesome meeting New Swifties,

59:36

or New Swifties to us, meeting more. Ha ha ha ha ha ha

59:38

ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha

59:40

ha. And it's just been a blast to pick your brains and get

59:42

your thoughts on this new album. So we wish you all continued

59:45

success. And we hope all of our

59:47

listeners go and check you guys out. We love you, Bruta.

59:49

Thank you so much. We love your podcast.

59:51

Where can everybody find you? So

59:53

we are pop apologists on

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Instagram, YouTube, everywhere you listen

59:58

to podcasts, pop apologists. That's

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case Apologist, thank

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you guys so much has been such a blast. Thank

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you guys. See you soon. See ya.

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13: A Taylor Swift Fan Podcast

13: A Taylor Swift Fan Podcast is a deep dive into everything Taylor Swift, her extensive discography, and all of her accomplishments. She is literally The Man of the music industry, after all. Join Nick Adams, Ana Castillejos, Amy Nichols and Lacey Gee every Tuesday as they break down a Taylor Swift song (TV only, of course, depending on which era we are currently in... What Era are we even in anyway?) and answer questions such as... Who was the inspiration behind that song? What connection ties this song to previous ones? Which bridge is our favorite to cross? How many Easter eggs have we yet to uncover? What does Taylor Swift put on her charcuterie boards? What does she smell like?And most importantly, what every Swiftie really wants to know…. What’s next?! But like a good Mastermind taught us, always be on the lookout! Be sure to subscribe to 13: A Taylor Swift Fan Podcast so you’ll be the first to know anytime we drop an emergency SwifTea episode. We can be a bit chaotic when the SwifTea is piping hot. Follow the show on Instagram & TikTok @the13podcast, and on X @the13TSpodcast. CONTACT THE PODCAST!Email – [email protected]: https://www.instagram.com/the13podcastTikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@the13podcastFOLLOW US!Ana - https://www.instagram.com/anaszabo13Lacey – https://www.instagram.com/laceygee13Amy – https://www.instagram.com/amysnicholsNick – https://www.instagram.com/nickadamsonairThis podcast is in no way related to or endorsed by Taylor Swift, her companies, or record labels. All opinions are our own.

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