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That's t-r-y-l-i-f-e-m-d.com.
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And Lacey G. We'll
2:00
talk about what they are. What do you think? They
2:02
are so fun and so
2:05
unapologetic and so well spoken.
2:08
I'm so excited to talk to them. I'm
2:11
a little nervous because they're a really big podcast and
2:13
they have a lot of followers on social media too.
2:16
So it's kind of like we're talking to
2:18
celebrity gossip royalties. Are we gonna come off as
2:20
crazy? I mean, I
2:22
have taken a dive into their social
2:24
media. They're a fan of Taylor Swift
2:26
too. Okay, I was gonna say. So they might join us in
2:28
the crazy level. Yeah, I think this is
2:30
gonna be more a friend reuniting than it
2:32
is gonna be them thinking that we're crazy.
2:35
I think we're all crazy here. Go down
2:37
the rabbit hole together, shall we? Oh,
2:40
excellent, excellent. Well, let's talk
2:42
to Lauren and Chan from Pop Apologist. Lauren and
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Chan, good to see you. Hello.
2:47
Thank you so much for having us. We're so excited
2:49
to be here. Well, we've been
2:51
a fan of you, both of y'all for a
2:53
long time too. So you guys just live in
2:55
the world of celebrity gossip. Isn't it a fun
2:58
world to live in? It's a very fun
3:00
world. It's a crazy world, especially this week.
3:03
Oh my God, yeah. Other than
3:05
we'll talk a lot about Taylor Swift, but
3:07
who are some of your favorite celebrities to
3:09
follow, to cover, maybe any shows
3:11
that you guys are obsessed with? Anything like
3:13
that? I
3:15
mean, I think a favorite of Lauren
3:17
and I is Gwyneth Peltrow. We love
3:19
deep diving the Instagram captions that her
3:21
husband, Brad Faltruck, writes for her. She's
3:24
the first one to go to the IG captions
3:27
that are beautiful. She's a favorite.
3:29
Who else? I mean, I love
3:31
iconic stars that have been A-listers before
3:33
Instagram. So I love that Angela Jolie,
3:35
I love Brad Pitt. I
3:38
just love, I love stars that I read about
3:40
when I was a teenager and like that were
3:42
covering the magazines. So I can be a little
3:44
old school with my coverage. It takes
3:46
me a little, it takes me a little
3:48
longer to get on board with like the
3:50
Gen Z stars to really following Sydney Sweeney
3:53
closely. But
3:55
no, it's a tumultuous world, I will say, even
3:58
though we cover a lot of pop culture. we
4:01
talk about Taylor Swift all the
4:03
time to a point where our listeners are like, okay,
4:05
we got it. You love Taylor Swift. I
4:08
actually envy you guys because you're able to talk
4:10
about her all the time and we want to.
4:14
Sometimes we end up just doing that
4:16
exactly. But yeah, we have to check
4:18
ourselves. Other people exist in the
4:20
world besides Taylor Swift, right? So
4:24
this is good. We're both on the same team, right? We're
4:26
both on the Swifty side. So let
4:29
me ask the pop apologist over here.
4:32
Do your opinions change about
4:34
some of the exes? Like Jake
4:37
Gyllenhaal is now in Roadhouse. Do
4:39
you talk about him unbiased or
4:41
can you not help but take
4:44
your Swifty heart and hate him just a
4:46
little bit? I'm sorry. Our podcast is nothing
4:48
but bias. There is no
4:50
love for Jake Gyllenhaal. He's
4:54
definitely dead to us and we do
4:56
not like him whatsoever. So
4:59
no, we are Taylor's
5:01
defense attorneys in all things life and love.
5:03
And that comes to any of her exes
5:06
in the news. We come with that filter
5:08
in focus. That's really refreshing because
5:10
obviously we have a Taylor Swift podcast. So
5:12
I feel like half the time I have
5:14
to preface it by being like, obviously I'm biased.
5:16
What I'm about to say. Like, yeah,
5:18
I'm going to defend Taylor Swift until the day I die. Like
5:20
for sure. For sure. For sure. So it's really cool to hear
5:22
that you guys are the same even
5:25
though your podcast isn't just centered around Taylor Swift.
5:27
But when you're covering pop culture, it's
5:29
impossible to not somehow make things about
5:31
Taylor Swift. Especially
5:33
in this past year, you know, with
5:35
like the first four and just like
5:38
everything with her re-recordings. And it's just
5:40
so intertwined and convoluted. And it
5:42
happens a lot too, like just in regular
5:44
conversation. Like, oh my God, I'm
5:46
so tired of like talking about her. Like, but
5:48
you can't just not. Like she's just even in
5:50
the world of NFL and everything. Like it's
5:53
hard not to. Right. She's like
5:55
omnipresent. Yeah. Yeah. I
5:57
went to dinner the other night with my sister
6:00
and some. friends and we spent the entire dinner
6:02
talking about Taylor Swift and like from start to
6:04
finish at the end of the dinner we were
6:06
winking evermore and folklore going track by track. It
6:09
was truly like we had met for a meetup,
6:11
you know, but that's just what we naturally talked
6:13
about. I actually can't really relate to people who
6:15
don't want to just talk about Taylor Swift. Right.
6:18
I know. How unfun is it to not be
6:21
a fan right now? And then you do have
6:23
those people that just want to poke at you
6:25
and they're like, Oh, Taylor Swift's nothing. Let me
6:27
read you all these headlines about her. And I
6:29
would always have a rebuttal because it's obviously
6:31
not the fans who are writing those headlines.
6:33
You don't know what you're talking about to bring
6:36
it up to me. And if we want
6:38
to talk Taylor Swift, great, but
6:40
it's dangerous territory because I've been through the
6:42
long haul. I read lightly. Yeah. Yeah. Yeah.
6:44
How far we want to get into this.
6:47
So what were y'all's first take
6:50
on the new album? You were
6:52
listening live. What did you
6:54
think initially of the Tortured Poets Department?
6:57
I'm going to let Lauren speak because Lauren's
6:59
journey was very different from mine. I actually
7:02
had food poisoning that in the middle of
7:04
the night, Friday night or early, you know,
7:06
early Friday morning. And so I didn't even
7:08
get to listen to the album until like
7:11
Friday afternoon, which felt crazy to me, you
7:13
know, given everything. But Lauren's journey
7:15
was much more fraught than mine was even.
7:17
I'm scared to speak to be totally honest.
7:20
I really represent the voice of Swifties in
7:22
the community who found this album
7:24
to be not to be crass, but a grower
7:26
and not a shower. And
7:29
at first at first listened for me,
7:31
some of these songs and the lyrics were
7:33
not my favorite. And I think contrasting them
7:35
with some of the lyrical sophistication
7:38
and evermore in folklore, I
7:40
was a little put off
7:42
to be totally a little, just got a
7:44
little I actually like actively disliked this album
7:46
at the beginning. And I yeah, I a
7:49
lot of the things I thought were correct
7:51
about my life and everything around me was
7:53
suddenly thrown into question. But
7:56
I, I did come around. And A lot
7:58
of people are saying this. They're like I
8:00
don't like it either at first but now
8:03
it's becoming after repeated lessons one a my
8:05
favorite albums have. Didn't have you had a
8:07
similar experience or was it just a ton
8:09
on a ten rounds. Again, you know, I
8:11
gotta say for me personally, it definitely wasn't
8:14
what I was expecting, So I don't know
8:16
if that clouded my judgment on it, because
8:18
at first I was like, okay, that was,
8:20
I was all right. I definitely liked the
8:22
second half better when she drove out more.
8:25
those songs I was like, oh, I can
8:27
relieve. Devour the songs a lot
8:29
quicker and important negotiating for me that
8:31
second hand and the more I've thought
8:33
about it. It's it.
8:36
seems to me. Unfortunately, Tailored didn't
8:38
personally tell me this. It
8:41
seems that. You. Know it's
8:43
clear that she's not trying to write
8:46
the Radio Bop. Right? She
8:48
wasn't set out to write sacred off
8:50
part to she's done that. We know
8:52
she can do that. so she's stretching
8:54
her so she's leaning really heavily into
8:56
the the poetry side of it more.
8:58
and so we get some. Chunky.
9:00
Lyrics: some line so like does that work,
9:02
What is that? Is that riding with another
9:04
line and like it's kind of clunky and
9:06
chunky at times, but that's how poetry is
9:08
a lot of times. And I've
9:10
heard the criticism from some people
9:13
that allow the songs sound the
9:15
same thought that also. but. When.
9:17
I look at it from okay we're
9:20
leaning into the poetry side. I'd I
9:22
get the feeling that hey see wrote.
9:24
The. Lyrics and then she wanted to create
9:27
the music that just kind of helped
9:29
carry that through. Food. And I don't
9:31
think she was. I don't think she was focusing
9:33
on making one hundred percent the most perfect snacks
9:35
and have ever been created. Yes, so it is
9:37
a little clunky, is chunky, and it's almost like
9:40
a word vomit because she's gone through. To
9:42
very high profile public relationships that
9:44
of in did one a long
9:47
term one a short term. And.
9:49
There's just a lot of emotions there. And sisters,
9:52
Perjuring. Herself getting these emotions out there. So
9:54
yeah. First I was kinda like he was like
9:56
okay, Know. my favorite but i
9:58
like it but then It is a grower
10:00
on me and now I can't
10:03
stop listening to it. No
10:05
longer people-pleasing She is hanging out what
10:07
you want. She's saying what she wants
10:09
and do some of the songs sound
10:11
similar to other songs Yes, but that's
10:13
because I can do it with a
10:15
broken heart She's playing what she's hearing
10:17
at the end of a show which
10:19
is mastermind which is then hounding down
10:21
and that's why it sounds Similar there
10:23
is a rhyme and a reason when
10:25
it comes to Taylor Swift It's not
10:27
just lazy music in the
10:30
background. No, that's intentional and I
10:32
love that kind of Sematic
10:35
feel and that very dramatic
10:37
of this music the build-up
10:39
the crescendos I I
10:41
love it through first listen I was a
10:44
little taken aback at first and I did
10:46
like the second half better because that's what
10:48
I was expecting the first time And
10:51
then on my way home Listening to the first
10:53
half. I'm like, I think I just wasn't in
10:55
the correct mindset The first time
10:57
because it is brilliant writing
11:00
and I love it Yeah well I
11:02
think a lot with Taylor Swift too is and even when we
11:04
were listening to it live the first time like I knew That
11:07
it would hit me different once I read the lyrics So
11:09
when you're trying to just like listen and take it all
11:11
in like all at once It's kind of it's
11:13
hard to form an immediate opinion because I
11:16
think it makes such a difference when you read it So
11:18
we had our listening part of we listened to the whole
11:20
thing when it came out a few days later I was
11:22
on a flight actually I was flying back from New York
11:24
New York to Dallas which is a four-hour flight And
11:27
so I downloaded the lyrics on my phone and
11:29
I spent the whole flight listening to it while
11:31
simultaneously reading the lyrics and it
11:33
made such a difference because when you
11:35
actually like read it as a poetry
11:38
and also just kind of you know where
11:40
she puts quotation marks and Things like
11:42
in it like you see it as a story because sometimes it
11:44
doesn't flow like the way that the sentence is written And
11:47
I think that I think that makes a big difference and
11:49
I also feel like with a lot of Taylor Swift music
11:52
It is gonna take time for it to kind of
11:54
adapt to what it is that you need at the
11:56
time. I Felt that way with Evermore. But I Mean
11:58
it can't When it came. Now of course, are
12:00
they gonna die? This is a masterpiece. It's wonderful,
12:03
but it wasn't until a year later. All the
12:05
way I relate to happiness or I really or
12:07
whatever song it is that effect. At
12:09
the time that he gave it to me I wasn't ready
12:11
for it. but as earlier when I went I had a
12:13
whole year with it. I was like wait, this is one
12:16
of the best songs you've ever written. Anything. A lot of
12:18
her music is that way and people are just so. Quick.
12:21
To judge without taking the time to
12:23
actually. Take it and especially
12:25
an anthology of thirty tracks in
12:27
one way or why I'm so
12:30
impressed with your podcast. The pop
12:32
apologists dollar already getting into the
12:34
songs and real racing, breaking them
12:36
down and saying what they mean.
12:39
We. Are still Taken M N
12:41
N N Don't know. There's so
12:43
many different theories out there. What
12:45
are some your favorite theories involving
12:48
this album? I.
12:50
Mean, I think you know and I
12:52
don't even have you called us. As
12:54
simple as a theory event that I think
12:57
that this is in, this is a
12:59
Matty Healy situation said unpacking album versus
13:01
a gel all and closer album which
13:03
is what I anticipated it would be
13:05
that it would be. And it wasn't that.
13:07
I'm also to adhere point earlier to
13:09
all of your points earlier like. To.
13:11
Me this album is not a conversion to
13:14
Taylor Says Album and on and she released
13:16
as you know to convert new people to
13:18
Taylor Swift. This looks like she really says
13:20
because it was cathartic for her in a
13:22
my personal opinion and I atlas and a
13:24
barrage of text to Scott and Lauren saying
13:26
this yesterday like my thesis of us and
13:28
eight an hour or I'm but days later
13:30
think you know if you're not converted to
13:32
Taylor Swift this might be kind of hopeless.
13:35
In. Illnesses like own personal bias and the problem
13:37
is not for new as I don't think
13:39
it's for new fans are new people want
13:41
to discover her on and I think like
13:43
this is an alibi thing for true fans
13:46
to sit with unpack. Read the lyrics you
13:48
know to really like digest fully because there's
13:50
so much here I'm you know it's not
13:52
like a folklore and not center ice like
13:54
it was instantly appealing to so many new
13:56
people. Yeah, that's so true. And
13:59
it's also like to. your point when
14:01
you know the history of like
14:03
Mattie Healy and the decade-long like
14:06
things that go into it and you understand
14:08
it quicker and like you know what I
14:10
mean? Like I 100% agree with it. Yeah you
14:13
were saying that this was kind of an album for
14:15
her not her fans. You know a lot of her
14:17
songs we've kind of talked about this off the air
14:19
before. A lot of her songs she takes something personal
14:22
and she reworks it and presents it
14:24
in a way that's relatable to everybody.
14:26
More universal. More universal. This one it's
14:28
like so specific not many people are
14:30
going to be relating to all the
14:32
different lines in the songs because they
14:34
are specific so I think you're right
14:36
she's not writing this for universal appeal
14:38
she's writing it for herself. I
14:40
think she had said at one
14:43
point that one of the biggest overarching
14:45
themes to the album as a whole
14:47
is basically about like her
14:50
level of fame and how like
14:52
the media and people basically treat
14:54
creatives and writers like as
14:56
like almost like a spectator sport. Like you see
14:58
someone that's creative you want them to be tortured
15:00
you want them to create art but then when
15:02
they do all you do is criticize it and
15:04
judge it. So it's like she has so much
15:06
about that too and like the truth is that we're never
15:09
gonna understand that level of fame. Like we're never gonna know
15:11
what it's like Taylor Swift is the most
15:13
criticized person I think like on the planet.
15:15
She cannot take a breath without every publication
15:17
writing a think-piece about it and
15:20
no one will ever understand what that's like and
15:22
I think in this album she kind of dives
15:24
into that and so it's it's almost like especially
15:27
with the second half I feel like
15:29
it's a look into the mind of
15:31
the world's most popular person and I
15:33
think that's crazy. It's a prophecy. Oh
15:35
my goodness that was such a heartbreaking
15:37
song. The prophecy was... Yeah
15:39
that she would trade in all her fame
15:42
just to have somebody who wants to have
15:44
her own. Yeah. With her company I mean
15:47
I feel like I'm curious about what you guys think
15:49
about this but I think I was thinking about it
15:52
on the subway this morning like focal and evermore for
15:54
me. They were are
15:56
so highly wrought
15:58
and they're so... finally
16:00
and definitely created, right? And I
16:02
feel like there's somewhat of an
16:04
emotional remove across those albums
16:06
because they seem like these more higher
16:09
art creations, in my opinion. Like she
16:11
was writing stories about characters and there
16:13
was just like a little bit of
16:15
a removal, I would say emotionally. So
16:18
it took me a little bit more time to like
16:20
really sink into those songs and have them impact me.
16:23
With this album, I feel like her
16:25
emotions are right on the surface. And
16:28
this album is like much more
16:30
sad. It's a
16:32
much more devastating. It's just
16:34
so much more emotionally resonant to
16:36
me. And in so
16:39
much like honestly more engaging
16:42
to listen to once you kind
16:44
of accept the new song, the
16:46
new sounds, the new way she's going, once
16:48
you kind of get on board, I
16:51
found myself fully swept away. That's
16:54
good, Amy. She is our
16:57
Folklore and Evermore enthusiast. How
16:59
do you compare this album
17:01
to Folklore and Evermore? I
17:05
mean, I think that there are a lot of
17:07
the sounds. I hear Invisible String in
17:09
one song and I hear, so
17:11
I feel like there's a lot of inspiration
17:14
that she pulled from those albums, but I
17:16
mean, it's obviously different. Because
17:18
I also wonder how much
17:21
Folklore and Evermore are fiction.
17:24
It's supposed to be fictional albums,
17:26
but then how much reality is
17:29
in there and how much is
17:31
in Tortured Poets Department too. Because
17:33
I'm seeing theories about the whole
17:35
album is about Sylvia Platt, which
17:38
is something that I haven't looked
17:40
enough into yet, but she's some
17:43
literary goddess who was tortured and I
17:45
believe put her head in the oven
17:47
out of despair. Beljar. Yeah.
17:51
So there's a lot that you have
17:53
to wonder how much is fact and
17:55
how much is fiction whenever she's writing.
17:57
Yeah, well, because she makes a lot of references. lot
18:00
of references. There's a lot of history and
18:02
a lot of literature that goes into it, which I think is part
18:04
of what... That's why we
18:06
need time with it, to just kind of
18:08
fully understand like, okay, wait, why was she
18:10
thinking about Cassandra? Does that relate
18:12
back to Greek mythology and like Clara
18:14
Bow and everything? There's so many layers.
18:17
And so it kind of... When
18:19
people are so quick to
18:22
judge and hate it without understanding it, I'm almost
18:24
like, okay, but have you listened to it? For
18:28
sure. I think one of my hot
18:30
takes is that I don't think this
18:32
is like a breakup album. I think
18:35
Mattie Healy and Jo were
18:39
sensational like muses for her, but I think it's
18:41
more so like she's telling us what happened and
18:43
how it affected her. And she's
18:45
taking kind of all of it and talking
18:47
about her mental state, her depression, her sadness,
18:49
her anxieties and all of that because of
18:51
what happened. Like the other
18:53
day somebody called it like a diss album and
18:55
I was like, it's not a diss album, though.
18:58
Like she left
19:01
Jo and she thought
19:03
Mattie was her soulmate and they didn't work out
19:05
and that's really devastating. But I wouldn't
19:08
say it's like a diss album. I disagree
19:10
because I think there
19:12
is a lot of really specific callouts
19:14
she makes to Mattie. I don't think
19:16
it's a diss album for Jo
19:18
at all. I think it is a diss album
19:21
for Mattie or at least there are diss songs on
19:23
this. So maybe the whole thing isn't
19:25
a diss album. I mean, it's 31 songs and
19:27
a lot of them are just about her sad
19:30
mental state. But I do think that she
19:32
definitely has some scathing lyrics about
19:34
Mattie's drug addiction, who
19:37
he was to her, how he treated her.
19:39
So I don't know. I don't get
19:41
any measure of a man. Yeah. That
19:43
song alone. But yeah, I hear you. It's maybe
19:46
not a full diss album, but there's a lot
19:48
of diss songs. And there's diss songs for the
19:50
fans. Kim
19:53
Kardashian. So I think she's coming for people on
19:55
this album. I would say that's safe to say.
19:58
Are there any songs that you you two
20:00
are listening to on repeat more than others.
20:02
Any songs that you're constantly attracted to that
20:04
you're like, oh, this is my song. It's
20:07
so funny. I hated the song at the beginning.
20:09
I hated Down Bad because I just couldn't get
20:11
past the lyric. I'm Down Bad, or what is
20:13
it? Down Bad Crying at the Gym. Down Bad
20:15
Crying at the Gym. Fuck it
20:17
if I can't have him. I was just
20:19
like, no, this can't be like capital P
20:21
poetry. But then once I got past it,
20:25
I find this song to be like
20:27
so devastating and arresting. When she says
20:29
the lyric, where she says that she
20:32
can't utter the word over. Like
20:34
when she says, I loved your, it's the outro.
20:38
And it's like, I loved your hostile
20:40
takeovers, your indecent exposures growing closer and
20:42
closer. I messed it up, but
20:44
that's the gist. And then she says, how dare you
20:46
say that it's, and she can't figure herself to say
20:48
over. I'm just like, I was
20:51
crying outside YSL the other day. I'm just
20:53
like. I'm like. I'm like. Did you have a
20:55
bag full of items though? Yeah,
20:57
no, and that was another reason I
21:00
was crying. I was like, what is that? I'm
21:02
very paid expensive. Do you say it is, yeah, $10,000.
21:05
Anyway, I'm loving that
21:07
song. I was like
21:09
pop culture enthusiasts and
21:11
Maddie Healy. Do you think eventually,
21:14
I mean, he's gonna tell his side of the story. Like, is that
21:16
something that you like, that you're kind of
21:18
looking forward to, or you want to hear, like you can't
21:20
help but be curious, but like, I
21:22
don't know how do you feel about like, I guess the
21:24
rebuttal? Cause we haven't really gotten that before.
21:27
Do you want us to talk about Aunt Debbie? Oh,
21:30
yes, let's frame Aunt Debbie. I don't know
21:32
if you guys saw this, but Aunt
21:34
Debbie, I don't know if you're familiar, she is a Matt
21:36
Healy's aunt, and she spoke
21:38
out on his behalf about the relationship. What
21:41
did she say? She gave an interview to
21:43
Daily Mail, went up a couple of days
21:45
ago, full quotes, like fully
21:47
gave an interview on all of this. And she
21:49
said, you know, we know what really went down
21:51
between the two of them. What else? Like,
21:54
she was just basically like, it's, you know, she
21:56
said, Nadi is not surprised at anything
21:58
at this point. comes as no
22:00
shock to him. We know more went on here
22:02
and she's letting on like we know the full
22:04
story. Like
22:07
a Meghan Markle family. Yes. I
22:09
feel like the only difference is I feel
22:11
like Meghan Markle like excommunicated her father for
22:13
talking to the tabloids and I always feel
22:15
like Maddie Healy is so messy that he's
22:17
like, I'm gonna have to read this. I
22:19
said yes, but I
22:25
was getting confused. I saw that his
22:27
mom is on some wine talk show
22:30
or something. Oh, I didn't know that.
22:32
Yeah. And she hasn't been on since
22:34
the release of the album, but it's
22:36
like the talk or whatever. But this
22:39
is with wine and crumpets at the
22:41
same time or something. And
22:43
she hasn't been on yet to have her rebuttal.
22:45
And even Maddie said something. I think it was
22:47
yesterday. He was stopped and they said, he
22:50
said that he hadn't really listened to it, but
22:52
he sure it's good, which is a nice thing
22:54
to say. I mean, the best way to say
22:56
it. Yeah. He has to know.
22:59
We have a good task to tell him.
23:01
I mean, there's no way that he isn't
23:03
aware and doesn't know. We believe that was
23:05
a fully staged moment. Oh, yeah.
23:09
TMZ and absolutely, like
23:11
there's a world where he's just walking on
23:13
a sidewalk alone and he happens to
23:15
be there. Maddie, have you heard the album? And
23:18
he just looked up and talked to them like
23:20
completely unstartled. They fully set that
23:22
up. I
23:24
actually found his remarks to be quite dismissive
23:26
to say he hasn't really listened. Like I
23:28
don't really care, even though it's like literally
23:30
what the entire world has been talking about from the
23:33
past five days. We're actually, you have listened.
23:35
Yeah. If Ian Taylor Swift were cuddling
23:37
late at night talking about how Charlie
23:39
Poof should be a bigger artist. He's
23:41
listened to this album about himself, right?
23:44
Yeah. Would you want to, I mean,
23:48
how would you feel if you had a whole album
23:50
written about you? I got Thank You, Amy.
23:54
But if you, if you, if you did have a whole album
23:57
written about you, how would you feel? Would you want to jump
23:59
right into it? to be scared to listen to it?
24:01
You have to know you, I
24:04
would want to know. Yeah. You have to
24:06
know, especially with someone at her level and
24:08
everybody else is going to know you can't
24:10
just avoid it. And
24:14
we're talking to pop apologist, Chan and
24:16
Lauren right now. I learned a lot
24:19
listening to your podcast earlier. You were
24:21
breaking down the whole timeline of Taylor
24:23
Swift and Mattie Healy. Yeah. And that
24:25
was really interesting to me. Thank you
24:27
so much. So we did a whole
24:29
deep dive on the album. Like we
24:31
did, you know, we covered
24:33
a ton of the songs. We were heads down
24:35
listening all weekend after it was released. So we
24:37
could be prepped for that. And
24:39
then what we realized was so much of
24:41
it was about Mattie Healy. And I think
24:43
the parasocial relationship between Taylor and her fans
24:46
is so strong that some of
24:49
them were having difficulty grappling with so many songs
24:51
being about Mattie and almost like in a way
24:53
that could prevent them from enjoying the music. Because
24:55
it's like, how could this girl be so obsessed with
24:58
this guy? She was with for what looks like two
25:00
weeks. And so we felt like the
25:02
fans need to know how deep this really goes so
25:05
they can really understand what's at the core
25:07
of the suffering in these songs. And so
25:09
we released a deep dive on their 10
25:11
year situationship this morning. Yeah,
25:15
that was that was that was impressive. I
25:17
learned a lot. There was a lot that
25:19
I forgot about even her releasing antihero for
25:22
the first time and performing that at a
25:24
1975 concert. But
25:26
you're absolutely correct. This has been something
25:28
that has tortured her for a really,
25:30
really, really long time. And
25:32
some people thought that Joe Allwyn
25:35
got the Calvin Harris treatment
25:37
on this album because they thought this
25:39
whole album was going to be about
25:41
him and it's not. But you all
25:43
think or I heard y'all say that
25:45
Midnight was actually a breakup album, you
25:47
believe. Definitely. I think so many
25:50
of the songs in the nights are Joe
25:52
coded 100 percent and breakup. I mean, there
25:55
will be some people listening to things all about Carly
25:57
Kloss. I don't know that on that team. I think
25:59
that it. I think most
26:01
of those songs were about Joe like maroon.
26:03
I think was a breakup song to Joe
26:05
I think Joe got so many good breakup
26:07
bangers and so yeah, I
26:10
think that I think that Taylor has really like
26:12
Given him gorgeous sonic love Odes
26:15
and devastating breakup songs. Yeah, I
26:17
think I think you're losing me
26:19
was obviously about Joe So
26:23
good. So good. It's different. It's different I
26:25
think that you know midnight is kind of
26:28
about a relationship or the breakup and that's
26:30
you know detailed in midnight as we believe
26:32
It to be is about a relationship running
26:34
its course And this album
26:36
is about a relationship that goes up in fucking flames.
26:38
I'm sorry I don't know if I can swear but
26:40
it goes up in And
26:43
I think something we realized we were doing our deep dive
26:45
is that Maddie has been here
26:47
in her life pre Joe pre Calvin.
26:50
He has been here since 2014. So this is a
26:52
long Standing
26:55
situation ship crush, you know will they
26:57
won't beg you know, like sort of
26:59
moment? And so this relationship
27:01
really when it finally happened and they were public
27:03
and they were out and you know It was
27:06
like off to the races then when it went
27:08
up in flames Like we just got
27:10
this incredible album about you know, how terrible that
27:12
breakup was I guess Yeah,
27:14
and I think people don't realize that she even said that she
27:17
was writing this for like two years Like
27:19
I think a lot of people like see a headline
27:21
and they like I saw so much criticism of people
27:23
being like Why isn't she writing
27:25
so many happy songs about Travis Kelce? And it's like
27:27
well because that is more recent Like we'll probably hear
27:30
more. I mean, yeah We have like so high school
27:32
the alchemy like whatever but that'll probably come later on
27:34
because we're hearing what she was going through For the
27:36
last, you know, like years before that like almost
27:38
like she had to get all of this out Before
27:41
like, you know having her
27:43
relationship with Travis, right? Okay,
27:45
like um How
27:47
does Travis feel about her writing
27:50
about that and even asked his
27:52
mom Donna Kelce and she was
27:54
like It's a fantastic album and
27:56
I could learn a lot from
27:58
Taylor Swift like They're not
28:00
just putting her down. You
28:02
can't take away her feelings. I'd be gaslighting.
28:05
She's just sharing her feelings. And
28:07
yeah, there was someone before you, Travis, but thank
28:09
goodness you're here now. He's
28:12
not threatened. Yeah, he's not
28:14
threatened. I feel like of all of her
28:16
exes, Travis is the least
28:18
threatened by Taylor's success because he
28:20
himself has such massive success also.
28:22
And he gets it. They're both in their
28:24
30s. They both have had
28:26
previous relationships long term, short term. I mean,
28:28
Travis had a dating show. You know, I
28:31
said they've each had their ups and downs
28:33
and love and it would be ridiculous
28:35
to think, oh, you can't write
28:38
about that now that I'm here. It's
28:41
the craziest criticism. Someone's
28:43
asking that question and questioning how he
28:45
feels about her releasing songs. Like this
28:48
is her, hers is her career. This
28:50
is what she's known for. This is what she does. She's one
28:52
of the greatest artists of her time. You think she's not going
28:54
to do that because of a guy she's dating? People
28:57
live on Mars, so I'm concerned. I
28:59
can't really tell. Now, Chan,
29:01
I don't know if we ever got your favorite
29:03
most listened to song on this album. What do
29:05
you think? So for me, it's
29:07
the title track, the Tortured Poets Department. That
29:10
one for me hits, to
29:12
me, it's like a perfect song. I
29:15
think the lyric that strikes me the most
29:17
on there that honestly, like my stomach did
29:19
like a somersault when I heard it is,
29:21
you know, throughout the song, she says, who's going to know
29:23
you? And then she
29:25
switches the line to like, who's going to know me?
29:28
And she says it in a really like breathy voice.
29:30
And I just always find that to be very arresting.
29:33
But yeah, I love, I love the title track. I wasn't expecting
29:35
to like it as well when all the song titles
29:37
were released. I was like, who cares? But
29:40
I love that one. I also, I love So High
29:42
School. I know that that's a controversial love for a
29:44
lot of people, but I cannot stop
29:46
listening to So High School. But it's
29:48
perfect. Like, it's a perfect, it's
29:50
a perfect take on like that young
29:52
love and also just like he knows how to
29:54
ball. I know Aristotle like that's like the perfect
29:57
analogy for the two of them. Yes. Also,
29:59
I read some more of the It's kind of like a 90s rom-com
30:01
song and ever since I read that and like yes It's
30:03
exactly what it is. And that's why I like love it.
30:05
It like belongs at the end of you know 10
30:09
things I hate about you or something. Yeah and
30:12
it's such a great way to celebrate him and
30:15
It it comes as the track
30:17
six on the second album, which is
30:19
always a whiplash coming off Five
30:21
and how it all ends is definitely
30:24
that Are you
30:26
guys curious at all like with Matty
30:28
Healy being who he is? Do
30:31
you think that at some point he could
30:33
like appreciate that the art that came from
30:35
this or do you think that? He's actually
30:37
just gonna like he's waiting.
30:39
I Think
30:41
that he definitely can appreciate the art that came
30:43
from this I would I you don't think he
30:46
can know I'm thinking about it It's a good
30:48
question. Yeah, I think he can't I think you
30:50
know, his ego is probably gonna get in the
30:52
way But he's a long time admirer of Taylor.
30:54
So I I don't think he'll brush this off
30:57
I think he's in a new relationship now But I
30:59
hope that he can like appreciate the art for what
31:01
it is and you know Try to enjoy
31:04
it if he can't that's possible. It's possible to
31:06
enjoy your own diss track Yeah,
31:10
I would say that the the word the worst
31:12
thing isn't hate is obviously in a relationship Indifference
31:14
and like they always say the best revenge is
31:16
just living well or whatever living well as the
31:19
best revenge and so an
31:21
entire You know huge
31:23
album 31 songs 80%
31:26
likely about you I mean if
31:29
they're that's pretty flattering by like
31:31
the greatest artist of our time. That's
31:33
true that I love that perspective That
31:36
is such a good perspective Especially the scope
31:38
of your life like all things with time
31:40
people move on people find you, you know
31:42
things heal for the most
31:44
part and so I just think that like What
31:48
I would be it's just this would be like almost like
31:50
the greatest achievement Yeah, I'm
31:52
a Leo so I would definitely love to have
31:54
a dis album about me that's all I want
32:00
like a performative artist,
32:02
you know, like a tortured poet,
32:04
a tortured soul. And so I,
32:07
when I saw that, which now that you point out that it was probably
32:09
staged and that 100% makes sense, I
32:12
was like, yeah, like if anybody could have, if any of
32:14
her exes could appreciate something like this, I feel like it
32:16
would probably be him. Yeah. Yeah. How
32:18
do you think Maddie is going to be
32:20
reacting to this on stage? Is he going
32:22
to be getting more belligerently drunk
32:24
on stage? Is he gonna, is this a wake
32:26
up call that he needs to sober up a
32:28
little bit? Like I wonder what hit, is he
32:30
gonna go even harder just
32:33
to give a big little finger to everybody? A few
32:35
days ago, he had a performance where he
32:37
said, you know who you are and was
32:40
really aggressive. Wasn't he? Oh no, that was
32:42
back when they were dating, when they were together.
32:45
No, it was two days after Taylor announced
32:47
the tortured poets department at one of his
32:49
shows. He was like, don't come for me. I
32:53
thought it was recent. My bad. It like resurfaced. Okay.
32:55
Well, and when they were together, they
32:58
each mouthed during their concerts,
33:00
like songs about you, you know who you are or
33:02
something like that. I think everyone should
33:06
be grateful for the fact that these two are
33:08
a little bit exhibitionists, you know, both
33:11
of them, respectively. So I think we'll
33:13
hear from Maddie for sure. I cannot
33:15
wait. Yeah, for sure.
33:17
I think the most petty thing that I heard
33:20
on Swift Talk theory is that
33:23
the black dog is Joe Alwyn's favorite
33:26
pub to go to. And he's a
33:28
regular there. And so she
33:30
specifically named dropped that pub knowing
33:32
that Swifties are now going to
33:34
inundate it. That no longer be
33:36
the place that he goes to.
33:39
He's really good. Favorite pub for him.
33:41
It's like, you knew places where he
33:43
could go hide and Taylor took
33:45
her own song, her own lyrics and she outed
33:48
him. He's so private. You know, he like
33:50
relishes that, you know, bad privacy,
33:52
whatever it is. Honestly, the part of that song
33:54
that I am so worked up about is
33:57
when she says, you
33:59
know, there's a lyric where she She says like we were making
34:01
some esoteric joke making fun of me It's a
34:03
love song on some level cuz she's like saying
34:05
how much she misses him and like don't you
34:07
miss me? Like and like she's
34:09
like looking at his location It's forlorn and even
34:12
in that she can't help but bring up the
34:14
fact that he was like low-key Like
34:16
ridiculed her and was you know condescending
34:18
toward her I think all such a
34:20
common theme if you read the lyrics
34:22
there's so many songs on midnight And
34:25
if you look at what it what Jack
34:27
Antonoff said on the bleachers version of
34:29
antihero where he said, you know You're
34:32
too sad to hang out talking shit about your famous,
34:34
baby I think this guy was
34:36
low-key a dick to her and so I don't
34:38
feel bad I hope you can never have
34:40
a drink at the black dog again Do
34:43
you think you do you think he was rude
34:45
to her out of spite out of you're the
34:47
biggest thing in the world? And I'm not yet
34:49
or I'm only known as your
34:51
boyfriend kind of thing. I think we
34:53
resented her I think that they met at a
34:56
time when she wanted to make herself smaller, you
34:58
know reputation era She was hiding from the world
35:00
and that was like a perfect storm when he
35:02
could really like, you know Be her
35:04
knight in shining armor And then I think when she reemerged,
35:06
you know at the butterfly that she is
35:08
even bigger and better than before I think he
35:11
maybe couldn't take it and I think he just
35:13
yeah, he wasn't he wouldn't let her shine I
35:15
mean, this is this is sprinkled across all through
35:17
all of her song. Yeah Another
35:19
thing I want to say about the black dog the
35:21
fact that she says that he didn't even turn off
35:23
his location That to me
35:26
is the biggest like indifference Moment
35:29
and it just that lyric was very gutting for
35:31
me I guess because it's just like wow you
35:33
have a six-year relationship and you don't even care
35:36
Enough to be like, you know, you don't you don't get
35:38
to see where I'm at It's like fizzled out and the
35:40
most but not she said the most But
35:43
all of endings right? Yeah, like the look
35:45
lion or something. I don't remember the lyric
35:47
but yeah Yeah, I think that
35:50
one of the funniest Post I've
35:52
seen in the last couple of days is that
35:54
Joe Allen couldn't even land the lead role in
35:56
the portrait poetry department That's
36:00
good. I have not seen that one. Yeah, that's good. Maddie
36:09
Healy said in an interview like back in the day
36:11
that basically he couldn't handle the idea of being just
36:13
known as Taylor Swift's boyfriend. This was like when they
36:15
first were hooking up or whatever. He, I think he,
36:17
yeah, he said that was like a big thing for
36:19
him. He was trying to come up, you know, in
36:22
the world himself. Yeah, like this like 2016, yeah, not
36:24
like, not recently. And
36:27
so, and so I think that that
36:29
had, and I don't know, like there's just, I
36:31
can understand on a very human level, like Joel
36:33
also is a person and as much as I
36:35
don't want him to enjoy a drink in the
36:37
Black Dog, like, I,
36:40
there's a part of me that kind of gets it. Like,
36:43
I mean, I think as well
36:45
with, you know, with his career, not necessarily
36:47
blossoming and kind of struggling. Yeah, I had,
36:49
I had high hopes for him in conversations
36:51
with friends, but it didn't hit. But yeah,
36:53
I think that, yeah, I think maybe if
36:55
he'd had more career success, it would have
36:58
been a better road for them. I
37:00
don't know. Is he a terrible actor? So hot. And Taylor
37:02
Swift, you would just think that he
37:04
was good in work. The favorite, but he had a
37:06
very small role. To be little,
37:08
her career though, is giving me like
37:10
Simone Biles husband comment, you know, where
37:12
he's like, Oh, well, she was an
37:14
athlete, but I wasn't even aware of
37:16
her. No, she was the athlete.
37:18
She's still, yeah, you can't, yeah,
37:20
you can't diminish her, her progress
37:23
and everything that she's done, because
37:25
you're not aware of her. And
37:27
because you're not doing better than
37:29
her. That's just so narcissist
37:31
and belittling to say that. And I'm
37:33
glad she's not with a person who's
37:35
like that anymore. I'm glad she's with
37:38
a fan that loves her and
37:40
celebrates her success. Totally. Yeah. No,
37:42
I have to ask, I haven't gotten an update from
37:45
Anna. If there's another artist that Taylor or
37:48
if there's another artist that Anna loves, it's
37:50
the 1975. You've seen them
37:53
how many times have you seen them in concert? I've seen them like 10
37:55
times in concert. So how does all
37:58
of the revelations that we have about Matt, over
38:00
the last year, how does that affect you as
38:02
a fan of the 1975? You
38:04
know what? It was a struggle. I'm not gonna lie. It was
38:07
a struggle at first when they like first, I
38:09
guess was it last year when they like were
38:12
first rumored to be dating because I used
38:14
to want them to collab like artistically. So bad.
38:16
There's always been rumors about that. Yeah and
38:18
like when she showed up at the
38:20
1975 show to play anti-hero like I was so excited. I
38:22
was like, oh my god, I'm finally gonna get this collab
38:25
of Taylor Swift in the 1975 and then it's tough, but
38:29
obviously Taylor is my ride or die. But I think when
38:31
I look at the layer of like, okay,
38:33
if he's been, you know, a constant
38:35
in her life for the past decade and
38:37
if he was there to help her write some
38:39
of like midnights especially like he got
38:42
to know some of her deepest, deepest insecurities,
38:44
especially when it came to her relationship with
38:46
Jo and then for him
38:48
to just ghost her like I
38:50
mean, I'm team Taylor 100% but yeah,
38:53
at first I was like, oh man,
38:55
this is kind of a show because I really
38:57
wanted them to collab artistically, which in a way,
38:59
if they're writing music about each other, you're still
39:02
getting that, you know,
39:04
yeah. But yeah, it was, it was,
39:06
it was, yeah, that's a good question, Nick. That was a
39:08
good question. You're welcome. I've
39:11
also one rumor that people
39:13
wondered if he's actually William
39:15
Bowery, but Taylor herself has
39:17
said that it was
39:19
Jo Alwyn. So that's why I'm
39:22
not buying into that, but it would
39:24
be interesting if come to find out.
39:26
I've also heard that she just threw
39:28
William Bowery some credits to get back
39:30
at Calvin Harris. Apparently,
39:35
they'll make three million a year. This is Spencer
39:37
Pratt said this on Heather McDonald's podcast. This is
39:39
up to source. I don't know if it's true,
39:41
but apparently he makes three million a year from
39:45
the royalties from these writing credits.
39:47
So it's a pretty nice, you
39:49
know, parting gift. Lauren
39:54
and Tana, have y'all gotten to see Taylor Swift in
39:56
concert before? Oh, yes. Yeah.
39:58
I have actually been to every every single tour. Wow.
40:02
Yeah. I remember, I
40:04
think fearless, like I touched her arm. I mean,
40:06
I just like, our mom actually, she like, this
40:09
is back when she was running through the crowd,
40:11
okay? I say that, you know, I have an
40:13
OG, but our mom actually was
40:15
at one of the concerts and she got mistaken for
40:17
Andrea Swift. Really? Yeah.
40:20
Like a security guard came up to her and was like, oh,
40:22
do you want to go down to the box or whatever? And
40:24
then he, when she turned around, anyway, so. Yes, yes we
40:26
did. We've been to a lot of this shows. I
40:28
would use mom to try to get into
40:30
every show then and throw down that gauntlet.
40:33
Don't you know who I am? Just back
40:35
her up into the stadium, deliver your face.
40:37
We can have your mom walk around with Ashley.
40:39
Isn't that her name? It's just Ashley. And just
40:41
see what kind of commotion comes up. Oh
40:44
my God. That's so good. And
40:46
what do you guys, especially as pop apologists,
40:48
what do you guys think about Thank You Amy?
40:53
This is a song I'm not gonna be reaching
40:55
for, but it's fine to me. It's
40:57
not one of my favorites off the album. I
41:00
think it's odd for her to bring back
41:02
the drama and the
41:04
feud after it's been so long. I
41:07
think I'm starting to subscribe to the theory that her
41:09
and Kim are in cahoots about this. I haven't even
41:11
told you this, but I wouldn't be surprised. It was
41:14
like, this will be, you know, this will make you
41:16
relevant again or whatever. This will be good for both
41:18
of us. And that, you
41:20
know, that she maybe actually asked Kim if she could write
41:22
this song or whatever. And that it's
41:24
maybe not even necessarily about Kim, but it's about somebody
41:26
else. So she's kind of
41:28
nasting it as a song about Kim. When
41:30
she says I've changed the names in any
41:33
real defining clues, I mean, capitalizing K-I-M is
41:35
a real defining clue. So I
41:38
guess I just feel like I really
41:40
struggle with this. It's hard for me to
41:42
believe that it's about Kim Kardashian, although all
41:44
the lyrics point to that. I kind of
41:46
wonder if it's about Carly Klot. Yeah,
41:49
I've heard that. I've heard that. Yeah, I
41:51
was kind of under, I almost thought like, it's
41:54
too obvious, you know? I
41:56
am, but then you hear that lyric, but then it's also like,
41:58
okay, but is that kind of... I like the joke
42:00
about it. Like, you know, so it's, it's, it's
42:03
an interesting take, but I, I, I almost felt
42:05
like it could have just been like
42:07
in general, maybe directed at multiple people,
42:09
you know, maybe scooter,
42:12
carly, anyone that's wrong to, I've heard some people say,
42:14
you know, maybe it's actually directed at Kanye, but she
42:16
kind of took the straight with Kim, you know, like
42:18
it just kind of just depends on how you
42:20
look at it. Yeah. And I saw that right after
42:22
that song dropped, Kim posted a picture with
42:24
Carly Closs. It was a group of people. Yeah.
42:27
I think on her story with Carly Closs. So
42:29
was that Kim's response? Yeah. Or is she
42:31
just kind of rubbing Taylor's nose in it or
42:34
yes. I
42:37
think Kim during the pod, Kim loves the
42:40
attention. Are you kidding? There's
42:42
also a theory that I've heard from
42:44
Swifty's online of saying like, she's bringing
42:46
this back up because reputation is next.
42:48
And she's just bringing this drama back
42:50
to the forefront. So once reputation Taylor's
42:52
version comes out, we remember
42:55
that time period and all the drama surrounding it.
42:57
So that album hits just as hard
42:59
as it did back then. Which I think
43:01
is true because I had a lot
43:03
of people ask me as the resident Swifty,
43:05
what is their feud? And then once I
43:07
would mention it, they're like, Oh yeah, I
43:10
forgot about that. Yeah. There are so many
43:12
more Swifty's people either like you say, Lacey
43:14
forgot, or they just don't even know that
43:16
part of the celebrity world. They
43:18
don't even remember those rumors. Yeah.
43:21
And I think that we
43:23
just, we fail to comprehend how
43:25
badly this hurt her. Like we saw
43:27
Miss Americana, how she described how gutting
43:29
this experience was and how she felt
43:32
like everything she had built her in
43:34
our castle crumbled overnight. And
43:36
essentially being so young when it happened too. And
43:39
it's like you're building all these dreams as
43:42
like a teenager and then in your early
43:44
twenties and then at 25 to have what
43:46
feels like the world turn against you. And
43:48
we had our kind of mini cancellation over
43:50
some over like some Kate Middleton stuff.
43:52
And that was pretty interesting thing
43:55
to experience. I can't imagine feeling
43:57
like everyone hated you. And I
43:59
think What was especially terrible about
44:01
it is that, you know, like
44:03
Taylor, like had her own fans, people
44:05
who were true Taylor lifers
44:08
turn against her. And I think, you know, like for
44:10
us, it was like, and a much smaller scale, like
44:12
random people on the internet. But then it's like, okay,
44:14
no people who like know me who thought I was
44:16
amazing, who thought I was great and amazing, like now
44:19
actually think I'm a snake. Yeah,
44:22
yeah, makes sense to me that she is she
44:24
it's still, you know, is a setting to her
44:26
because it's dramatic to
44:28
build on that, just like y'all are saying, you know, if
44:30
I'm going to be the Taylor apologist, who
44:34
are we to say how long someone
44:36
can have feelings about a situation? She's
44:38
an artist, she's an artist. So I
44:41
mean, her literal job is to write about those
44:43
feelings. So for a lot of people,
44:45
it's trivial. But to her, it really
44:47
meant something. And yeah, it is still sticking in
44:49
her side. And she does still have emotions to
44:51
get out of it. And she's also singing about
44:54
getting over those emotions and
44:57
looking at it from far away and
45:00
saying, Hey, this actually turned out to be okay.
45:02
Because look at what's happening right
45:04
now. Yeah. You're over something and then
45:06
the wound opens up again. Yeah, and
45:09
I've seen so many people be like, Oh my god, she's
45:11
in her 30s, she should be over by now. It's like, Yeah,
45:13
well, so was Kim when she did all of this. Kim
45:16
was in her 30s. When she when this
45:18
all happened. So like, you can't tell
45:20
someone how to feel. Yeah. I
45:23
also think that there's like this recurring criticism
45:26
of Taylor that she's in her 30s
45:28
now. And she thinks like, put away
45:30
being dramatic about ex boyfriends and like
45:33
those kind of feelings that those feelings
45:35
are juvenile. And I to be
45:37
honest with you, like those criticisms, they,
45:39
I kind of understand where people are coming
45:41
from. And there's a part of me
45:43
that wonders like why as a culture, we
45:46
don't we think it's we have such a
45:48
disdain for feeling as you get older, like
45:50
why you have to just become number and
45:52
number to life, you know, and I feel
45:54
like it's this strange expectation, we put on
45:56
people and we project on to Taylor Swift
45:58
like this. taste for still
46:01
being a sensitive, lovesick person. Like,
46:03
by that experience, you don't deserve
46:05
to have that experience because you've
46:07
lived long enough. It's just a
46:09
weird cultural reaction in my opinion.
46:11
You're absolutely right because we're coming
46:13
into a time where we're finally
46:15
learning that it's okay to be
46:17
emotional, that you're allowed to. You
46:20
don't just have to sit back and shut up
46:22
and not cry because you feel a certain way.
46:24
And that was the generation that we were raised
46:26
in. And now we're trying to break the cycle.
46:30
That it's saying it's all your emotions
46:32
and it's okay to feel like that.
46:34
And then, like I said earlier,
46:36
to say something otherwise is a little bit
46:38
gaslighting. To say that you're just being dramatic
46:40
and you have no right to feel this
46:43
way. You need to be a mature adult
46:45
now and handle it like a woman. Well,
46:47
you are strong. You're putting it
46:49
all out there for other people and that takes a
46:51
lot of guts. Which I also kind of explain why
46:53
to us it feels
46:56
so therapeutic to listen to her. Because
46:58
if we've been suppressing feelings and suppressing trauma
47:00
and feel like we can't vocalize it or
47:02
be emotional about things, but then we listen
47:04
to her basically put into words what we're
47:06
feeling, maybe that's part of why we
47:08
find her music to be so cathartic. This
47:11
is one of my favorite things to talk about and I'm
47:13
going to get on a soapbox for a second. I
47:16
apologize if I start preaching because I am a Taylor Swift apologist.
47:19
There's two things about, oh, Taylor writes too much
47:21
about her relationships. It's all about love. Then,
47:25
name one artist who doesn't write about
47:28
relationships. One artist who doesn't write about
47:30
love. That's what 90% of songs
47:32
are about. It's about all the different stages of
47:34
love. The puppy dog phase, the breakup
47:36
phase. When Adele got a
47:38
divorce, everyone was looking forward to
47:40
a divorce album. Why is it okay for
47:43
Adele to sing about breakup, but not Taylor
47:45
Swift? And then also, yeah, Taylor sings about
47:47
these things. Society is telling her, telling women,
47:49
you're worthless if you're not married. She's telling
47:51
you why these things aren't working out. So
47:53
what she's supposed to do, not
47:56
sing about it, well, she's telling you why. She
47:58
can't win either way. It frustrates me.
48:00
It's like there's there's no way for
48:03
her to win when it comes to
48:05
someone criticizing her singing about relationships. Yeah
48:08
I'm done. Yeah I'm
48:10
here for it I also think Adele is almost a
48:12
little bit of an outlier in the way that she
48:14
celebrated for continual like having a lot of breakup Songs
48:17
I almost feel like when men
48:19
write breakup music or music that's
48:21
about like, you know The object
48:23
of their affection that is, you
48:25
know universally I think accepted as
48:28
like romantic and just incredible and
48:30
when I think a lot has been women
48:32
can You know there the
48:35
the idea that a woman is like gazing
48:37
upon a man And it's like
48:39
the the female gaze is something I think as
48:42
a culture. We also, you know, we
48:44
don't sit well with it And I
48:47
think that just goes back to like, you know are
48:49
across time We're not
48:51
used to the female gaze were used
48:53
to and comfortable with the male gay. Yeah
48:56
And when it comes to you know,
48:58
especially the female gaze and lust I
49:01
mean she has dress She has
49:03
a song on this album guilty of
49:05
sin. It's a teeny song. Yeah. Yeah
49:08
He's saying that yeah, I can sing
49:10
about these thoughts and imaginations also Yeah,
49:14
I love it. I love that. She's now at a
49:16
point where it's like I don't care I don't have
49:18
to be you know Pleasing the moms of the people
49:20
listening to this music like if this is just exactly
49:23
what I want to put out there Yeah,
49:26
which is one of those other situations where she can't win if
49:29
she sings shake it off It's like oh my gosh, they write
49:31
music for kids and then Why
49:33
is she not writing music for my kids? What
49:41
do you want from her like she just cannot
49:43
win and I think in this album she explores
49:45
that a lot Yeah, like you know like her
49:47
like perspective and she's like I had
49:49
said in one of our earlier episodes Like I feel
49:51
like in this album She's just using the words that
49:54
she wants to use to express the feelings that she
49:56
wants to express and like she didn't send It
49:58
to anybody to like, you know double check
50:00
like near this and send and
50:03
I and I love I just love that for her
50:05
and I think that's part of what makes this so
50:07
powerful. I just like yeah, I
50:09
also think I'm curious if any of you have had
50:11
a similar experience you know since we're in the safe
50:13
trust tree of all being swifties. I
50:16
do think we're living in a time where it's
50:18
like the pitchforks have always been out for Taylor
50:21
Swift but especially given the last year and just
50:23
kind of her media like presence being everywhere like
50:25
I just like the pitchforks have never been like
50:28
sharper or higher like waiting for her to fall
50:30
and that's kind of a theory of mine that
50:32
like why a lot of reviews are bad about
50:34
this album. I just think people want to see
50:36
her fail. They like she's too
50:38
big. She had her tour was
50:41
too big. It was too crazy. It you know
50:43
affected the GDP too much whatever and
50:45
I I do think it's been a really
50:47
interesting like moment in culture and even across
50:49
like friend groups like there was an article
50:51
that came out like I think in the
50:53
cut about like when Taylor Swift like ends
50:55
a friendship or something like that. And when
50:57
your fandom kind of gets in the way or
50:59
not gets in the way but I think that like
51:02
it can be a really polarizing thing now to be
51:04
a Swifty. I don't know if that's been your experience.
51:06
I mean obviously you have the Taylor Swift podcast but
51:08
have you have you experienced that? Yeah
51:11
I mean personally I kind of
51:13
feel like just in general the way that we
51:15
are as a society it's
51:18
extremely polarizing on all issues. You can't really
51:20
have a middle of the road opinion. You
51:22
have to have an extreme view on something
51:24
either way and whatever that
51:26
extreme view is sucks. It's awful. You're a
51:29
terrible person kind of no matter what side
51:31
it is. And
51:33
also I'm not saying this is right
51:35
but almost when you have a lot of haters
51:38
that just means you're bigger. The more
51:40
haters you have the bigger you are. So like
51:43
not that it should be a badge of honor
51:45
but it's like she's the biggest person in the
51:47
world. So yeah people do root
51:49
for her to fail just like yeah people were rooting
51:51
against Tom Brady to win all of his Super Bowls.
51:53
Yeah. He was great. What
51:55
do you want him to do? Stop playing football because he's
51:57
so good. No they're just going to keep doing
51:59
it. what they do, whether you like it or
52:02
not. Yeah. People just don't want
52:04
to believe in the success. They want to
52:06
think that she is overhyped,
52:08
oversaturated, that she hasn't done
52:11
and earned everything that
52:13
she did. Even all the haters
52:15
and the headlines on this latest
52:17
album, she's breaking records that she
52:19
started herself. She's always hopping everything,
52:22
but rather than give her the
52:24
credit that she deserved, people
52:26
want to say that she's a witch
52:28
and she's casting spells and putting narcotics
52:30
in her song. She
52:32
hears all that and then addresses it that
52:34
people are still like, but I don't like
52:37
her. I don't get that. It's like
52:39
you've never listened to an album. You don't
52:41
understand. There's a snobbery. Yeah. It's
52:45
always the people who I've only heard Shake It Off
52:47
in 22 or me. Yeah,
52:49
exactly. Real offensive country flippies. But yeah. They
52:52
haven't listened. They legitimately haven't listened. I
52:55
really, I believe this to my core. If
52:58
you've actually given her music a proper
53:00
shot and listened to the albums, you're
53:02
a Swifty. That's it.
53:04
Yeah. It's a spectrum. Maybe
53:06
as Swifty as a... Yeah, that's
53:09
true. But yeah, you see her talent. I
53:11
had someone recently bring up the fact that her
53:13
dad invested in the record company or something
53:16
like that. I don't know those details. Yeah,
53:18
he bought her success. Yeah, he bought her
53:20
success. And I'm just like, I can't even
53:22
believe that you think that... Somehow,
53:25
they're continuing to pull the wool over her eyes and just
53:27
buy her way to the top. Yeah.
53:30
She just reinvents what the top even is. Yeah. I recently
53:33
saw a lot of criticism from... I
53:36
forget what review it was, but they were saying she's
53:38
not giving anyone else a chance because she keeps putting
53:40
out all of her albums and stuff. And my reaction
53:42
is like, if other artists want to be as successful
53:44
as her, they need to work as hard as her.
53:46
You know what I mean? It's
53:50
such a baffling way to
53:52
look at it. Going
53:54
back to Tom Brady, did he just go
53:56
easy on the other teams just because he was
53:58
the best? Do people tell LeBron
54:00
James, hey, maybe go easy on this because they haven't
54:03
had a win in a while? It's
54:05
like, no, is Marvel supposed to stop making
54:07
movies? Right. It's like,
54:09
it's all it's just so frustrating. And a
54:11
true artist would never think that way. A
54:14
true artist who's really interested in their body
54:16
of work, the canon that they're creating, their
54:18
legacy, they're not thinking in terms of like,
54:20
well, am I going to be number one
54:22
on the billboard for X number of weeks?
54:25
And this person's doing that for me. Like,
54:27
that's just I think that
54:29
someone who, you know, is actually really considered
54:32
and thoughtful with the way they put our
54:34
art, they're thinking about this in
54:36
a much less grasping,
54:39
greedy commercial way. And, you know, sorry, the
54:41
Taylor is so prolific, but just because she's
54:43
putting a lot of music, that doesn't mean
54:45
that there aren't also other amazing artists. Right.
54:48
And she's still making room for people.
54:50
I mean, that's what she is. That's
54:52
the whole point of Clara Bow is
54:54
that everybody's preps at prime to be
54:56
the next Taylor Swift, not to join
54:58
her and her success. It's who's going
55:00
to replace her and become the next
55:02
one. And she's always
55:05
said she's more than happy to share the stage.
55:07
We don't have to be pitted against each other.
55:09
We all have crowns. Yeah. Yeah.
55:12
And everyone who's ever worked with her have said that how hard
55:14
of a worker she is. So where are the people
55:16
that didn't like working with her? Totally.
55:18
I like to hear from them. That's
55:20
such a great point. Yeah. Like,
55:22
I don't know that I've even heard of one story where someone was
55:24
like, I hate a working with Taylor Swift. She was terrible to work
55:27
with like that. But I've known we would
55:29
know we all would know. We
55:31
would definitely know. We
55:34
are talking to pop apologists,
55:36
stars, Chan and Lauren sisters
55:39
that have an excellent podcast
55:41
where they break everything down.
55:43
I want to know when did you all become
55:46
celebrity focused? When did you
55:48
realize as sisters that this was something
55:50
you wanted to pursue? When
55:54
I learned to read, I think that was my first
55:56
moment when I could pick up an Us Weekly. Yeah.
55:59
I have a question. I just, I don't remember a
56:01
beginning. There was no beginning. It was just from the
56:03
womb, you know? Is your
56:05
mom a big celebrity fan? Actually,
56:08
I feel like my mom is pretty anti-gossip.
56:10
I actually don't think she's that interesting for
56:12
the reason at all. No. Interesting.
56:15
Like she has her like favorites, but she's
56:17
not like an aficionado. Yeah. Yeah. Yeah.
56:21
I will say. Yeah. Right. I
56:23
was just gonna say, to look
56:25
at her music from the lens of like truly like
56:27
pop culture. Cause like on our podcast, we talk,
56:29
like we go through like the lyrics and like
56:31
the, like the language of a and her effects and
56:34
emotions and feelings, but it's, it's really cool
56:36
to also look at it through like a different lens. the
56:39
conversation has been really, it's been really interesting. Thank
56:41
you so much for having us. Yeah. So,
56:45
Well, and I want to pry more a
56:47
little bit deeper. I know that, that,
56:51
Tia and you live in New York, right? I live in
56:53
New York. Yeah. Okay. And Lauren,
56:55
they're visiting from Puerto Rico. Yeah.
56:59
What a cool place to live. Oh my God.
57:01
Delicate that. But there's a little bit of secrecy
57:03
surrounding why y'all are in New York right now.
57:05
Do you want to share what you can
57:08
about that? Is there a secrecy?
57:11
Are you referring to like, were we secretive about it on
57:13
our episode or something? I thought there
57:15
was a little bit of a new one that
57:17
you couldn't really feel everything. Yeah. I
57:19
mean, I guess we can share what hasn't come. Yeah.
57:22
I think we're now very over hyped. So
57:25
it's not that big of a secret, but we,
57:27
we just got really, we were really excited to
57:30
go on Sophia Franklin's podcast and she just had
57:32
us on her show and she obviously has a
57:34
really big show. And so it was, you know,
57:36
a big deal for us and we were really
57:39
excited about it. But I think it's one of
57:41
those things where like we hadn't actually taped it
57:43
yet. So until we had taped it and it
57:45
was going to go live, we were just not going to count
57:47
our chicken. So, Yeah. Well,
57:50
congratulations. That's really cool. Thank you. Thank you. I
57:52
think it was a great studio and set up and
57:54
everything. Yeah. It was killer.
57:56
Really seamless. Yeah. How did it
57:58
go? It was great. It was really
58:00
good. Yeah, yeah. It was fun. Did you
58:02
talk about Taylor Swift? Yeah, it was so funny. She was like,
58:04
I think I'm a Swiftie. And then she was like, when did
58:06
the album come out? I'm like, you are not a
58:09
Swiftie. We were like, please. Ha ha ha
58:11
ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha
58:13
ha ha ha. That is amazing. Love and respect.
58:15
So like, if you were asking yourself when the album came
58:17
out, like, we're just, you know,
58:20
two different types of people. Which is so funny,
58:22
cause like, that's so baffling to me. Like last week I was
58:24
talking to like one of my friends. I was like, yeah, the
58:26
new Taylor Swift album. She was like, oh yeah, I forgot she
58:28
has a new album. Like how did you
58:30
forget? Like what? No, my life revolves
58:32
around it. Like I don't know. Literally. Like
58:35
I was planning vacations around like, okay, well, like the Taylor Swift album
58:37
will be out by then. So you can enjoy it then. And like,
58:39
yeah. Ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha
58:41
ha ha ha ha ha ha. It was my like eclipse. Ha
58:44
ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha. So
58:47
on top of Sofia Franklin, what else can
58:49
people look forward to you all
58:51
releasing soon? What's on your plan?
58:54
What's on your manifesto, if you will? Do you have
58:57
a lot of Taylor Swift coming up? I
59:00
mean, thank you so much for asking. I think that
59:02
right now we have that deep dive on Tortured Poets
59:04
department. We also have the deep dive on Taylor and
59:06
Maddie. So that's probably gonna be interesting to people who
59:08
are listening. And then we just
59:11
kind of get on and chat about honestly,
59:13
Taylor and other celebrities. Ha ha ha ha
59:15
ha ha ha. Every Wednesday and then Friday
59:17
on Patreon. So it's a
59:20
continual conversation. That's really
59:22
awesome. And that deep dive with
59:24
Taylor and Maddie is such important context. So
59:26
thank you for taking the time to do
59:28
that. It's our public service. It was
59:30
our pleasure. Ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha
59:32
ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha. Well, thanks so much for
59:34
taking the time to chit chat with us. It's awesome meeting New Swifties,
59:36
or New Swifties to us, meeting more. Ha ha ha ha ha ha
59:38
ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha
59:40
ha. And it's just been a blast to pick your brains and get
59:42
your thoughts on this new album. So we wish you all continued
59:45
success. And we hope all of our
59:47
listeners go and check you guys out. We love you, Bruta.
59:49
Thank you so much. We love your podcast.
59:51
Where can everybody find you? So
59:53
we are pop apologists on
59:56
Instagram, YouTube, everywhere you listen
59:58
to podcasts, pop apologists. That's
1:00:00
right. And my personal is Lauren having fun In
1:00:04
case Apologist, thank
1:00:07
you guys so much has been such a blast. Thank
1:00:09
you guys. See you soon. See ya.
1:00:11
Bye Thank
1:00:14
you. Well that does it for this
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