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Come on you'll think, uh,

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I sure will. Good morning everybody.

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You're listening to the voice, Come

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on, dig me now, one and only

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Steve Harley got a radio show.

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Okay, here we go today, folks.

2:14

This is a good one because today

2:17

I want to share with you something that affects

2:21

every living soul, and

2:24

that one thing is your attitude.

2:27

This affects everyone. It

2:31

is your attitude.

2:33

You know. I

2:36

don't know if anyone's ever told

2:38

you, but I mean many of you who listen

2:40

and know this, But there are a lot

2:42

of people who don't understand a

2:45

positive attitude can

2:48

bring about a change. A

2:51

positive attitude can bring about

2:53

a change. Well, now here we go with

2:55

the nay says well, Steve, what you mean if I'm just positive

2:58

being changed? My mama, go on? What me being

3:00

positive? Got to do with that. Okay,

3:03

Now listen to me carefully. A positive

3:05

attitude can bring about

3:08

change. Well, okay, Steve,

3:10

I hear you saying that, but they done fired

3:12

me. So now what does my having

3:14

a positive attitude have to do with the fact

3:17

that they fired me? Well,

3:20

one more time, A positive

3:23

attitude can bring

3:25

about change. Well, Steve,

3:28

I set up in here and gave eight, nine,

3:31

twelve years of my life to this man

3:34

and he just he cheated on me and walked

3:36

out. Now what does me being positive

3:38

have to do with him cheating on me? How

3:41

that's going to change that? Okay,

3:44

here we go again. A positive

3:46

attitude can bring about change.

3:49

Now listen to the whole thing. Now, the

3:52

positive attitude and

3:54

the change that can happen starts.

3:59

This is the start. It starts within

4:02

you. See,

4:05

life is ten percent of what happens, is

4:07

ninety percent what you do about what happens.

4:10

Okay, you gave twelve years of your

4:12

life to this man. He cheated and

4:14

left you holding the bag, the kids and everything.

4:17

Now what does being positive have

4:19

to do with changing that? Or they came in and

4:21

they fired you. You lost your job that

4:24

you was a stellar performer at but

4:26

now, how does you having a positive

4:29

attitude, How does that change things

4:31

for you? So far, you

4:33

can use any example. Here's

4:35

what happens when you have a

4:37

positive attitude. What

4:40

it produces within you is

4:42

a positive approach to life.

4:45

And when you have a positive attitude and a positive

4:48

approach to life, it causes

4:50

you to be optimistic,

4:53

to have a positive out look,

4:56

to expect things to

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eventually turn around and turn

5:02

into a positive That's very important

5:04

because as the law of attraction comes into

5:07

play, if you think

5:09

positive thoughts, you attract

5:12

positive things. If

5:14

you think evil thoughts, you attract

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evil to you. You

5:19

know, if you want for nothing, then

5:21

nothing comes your way. If

5:23

you want for positive attitude, if you want

5:26

for positive results, if you want for a great

5:28

outcome, that's what you attract to you. The

5:31

change will begin within you. So

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let's take the man that walked out

5:35

your life and left you hold in the bag. Here's

5:38

a positive attitude. Okay,

5:41

two things have happened that's positive.

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Here.

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Number one, you've rided yourself

5:46

of someone who is obviously going

5:48

to be, if not already been, toxic

5:51

in your life, cause you many

5:53

restless nights, a lot of uncomfortable

5:56

feelings and uneasiness, not sure,

5:59

insecure. You've been going through

6:01

it with this person, whoever they are. Number

6:03

One, that person has been released from

6:05

your life. Number Two, it

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allows you now to have the

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someone who will treat you just

6:12

the way you want to be treated. That's the positive

6:15

outlook, that's the optimistic

6:17

way. That's when you're a positive person.

6:20

You see the positive in things that happen

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to you, instead of burying yourself

6:24

under the what's wrong with it? A old

6:27

woe is me now concept? See

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a positive attitude. When they

6:31

came in there and they fired you and let you go,

6:34

could this not have been just the

6:37

opening you needed to finally

6:39

start on a new career path that

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you've been talking about doing anyway? Could

6:44

it possibly be a brand

6:46

new chance for you to get the dream

6:49

job or dream career of your

6:51

choice. Could it not possibly be the

6:54

perfect opportunity now for you

6:56

to finally finally

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do some something about that gift, about

7:01

that talent that God gave you, that thing

7:04

that you love to do. Could it not be

7:06

the perfect time for you to pursue that. But if

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you don't have a positive attitude, then

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you lay there. Oh they

7:13

finish, Come get in my house. Oh

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what I'm gonna do now? Oh, this unemployment

7:18

ain't enough. Oh Lord, when this unemployment

7:21

run out, what am I gonna do? Then I won't

7:23

have nothing? And you old woe is

7:25

me until you become old.

7:27

Woe is me.

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But if you take it from the positive approach,

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some amazing things can happen in your life.

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I will tell you on a personal note that

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some of the most some of the best changes,

7:40

some of the biggest moments in my life

7:43

came after a loss. So

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I don't want to go down the list, but boy, I could tell

7:47

you. Let me tell you something. When they didn't

7:49

want me on the radio anymore in La,

7:52

well they didn't when they were it was sick of the way I

7:55

did radio out there, and they wanted me gone.

7:58

And on May twenty third, two thousand and five,

8:02

when my did when when

8:05

my deal was done with the

8:09

beat out in La. Okay,

8:12

look what happened though. Yeah,

8:14

I was gone in May. But in September

8:16

nineteenth I started to Steve Harvey Radio

8:19

Network with four cities.

8:21

You see. But I didn't go old woe

8:24

was me?

8:25

I said, Oh, okay, God

8:27

must have something else from it in because

8:30

if he didn't remove me from this, That must be

8:32

something else. Same thing can happen when

8:34

you lose and you break up

8:36

in a relationship. Same thing can happen

8:38

to you. You never know the one God God

8:40

for you. Now Here you go, Here you go

8:43

again. Now you get put into a situation

8:45

where somebody treat you just the way you want

8:47

to be treated, provide you the whole lot

8:49

of aspects of your life you knew nothing about prior

8:51

to that. But you gotta stay positive.

8:54

If you stay positive, that positive

8:56

attitude, that optimistic outlook,

8:59

that that always thinking

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God got me no matter what happened to me,

9:04

some amazing things that's going will

9:06

happen in your life.

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It's a fact. I don't know how it works

9:10

that way. I just know that's what it is.

9:12

Positive attitude is everything, y'all. So

9:15

get off the old woe is Me negativity

9:17

train because it ain't gonna take you nowhere but

9:19

down and get your outlook up.

9:22

If you change your attitude, you change

9:24

your altitude. Altitude

9:27

is determined by your attitude. How

9:29

high you go, how big you become, how

9:31

far you go. It all depends on how

9:34

you think. It all depends

9:36

on what type of attitude. You got ain't

9:39

no, ain't no very very successful, super

9:42

negative people. It just

9:44

doesn't coincide that way. If you see that something

9:46

that happened to them along the way, and don't worry.

9:48

You ain't gotta worry about it because you ain't gonna see him long

9:51

because you can't stay up there like that.

9:53

It's just too hard, all right, that's

9:56

the conversation.

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Listening Morning

9:59

show, ladies

10:02

and gentlemen, let me have you undivided attention,

10:04

just for a moment, just for a brief moment. I

10:06

don't know if you thought about it or not. But he

10:09

did it again. It's another day.

10:11

He did it again. It's another

10:14

chance. He did it again, and we

10:16

are all still here. And

10:18

I'm talking about the ones that can hear my voice.

10:21

I don't know if you realize that, but man,

10:23

that is major. That's a major

10:26

accomplishment. That it happens

10:28

over and over and over again. There's

10:31

nothing you can do about it. You cannot

10:33

make the sun come up in the morning. You

10:35

cannot wake yourself up in the morning.

10:38

You don't make the sun set, you don't make the wind.

10:40

But that's all I got to say. Steve

10:42

Harvey, Morning show, Junior, what's on your

10:44

little happy mind today?

10:46

I'm going to ask you a question. Yeah,

10:49

yeah, we just been having this debate

10:52

over the week. Yeah, I just want see how you felt. They want me to

10:54

ask you something, to ask you, not marry,

10:56

mister Harvey. I'm talking about unmarried Steve.

10:59

If you go on a trip with your ex

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on a cruise and stand in the same room, do

11:05

anything happen?

11:07

Kind of would you rather that stuff?

11:08

Is this.

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On a cruise with your ex?

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Do anything happen?

11:16

As a man, dog, I've been on a cruise

11:19

with my ex. What is your ask? No,

11:21

he's talking about You're talking about you.

11:23

Yeah, you just if you just

11:25

unmarried, you just got your ex on

11:28

a cruise.

11:29

Anything happened?

11:31

Drop overboard? Shut

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up, Tommy, just

11:37

waiting, dog, I'm gonna be down there and signing

11:39

up for all them classes I would

11:41

do with your ex seat shooting.

11:44

He's not gonna have toime, Junr.

11:46

I don't like wrong with you. Is

11:49

this a happy version of you?

11:51

No, we just had because I

11:53

don't know a man alive who's

11:55

gonna take their ex on a cruise and don't nothing

11:57

happened in the room we're in.

11:58

The same room, who debate

12:01

with who is this was just a debate?

12:03

Dog?

12:03

It's just all.

12:05

Call him question. I'm trying to get clarity on

12:08

Junior's question.

12:09

So, JR.

12:09

Are you saying today if

12:12

he were to divorce his current

12:14

wife and went on a cruise with

12:16

her, are you talking about an ex

12:18

from the just an X?

12:20

Just an X?

12:22

Just an X?

12:23

All right, because I'm got confused

12:25

because we were talking about it. Ain't nothing gonna happen

12:27

in the room.

12:28

If I'm paid for the cruise, I

12:31

paid for the crew and my ex

12:33

is in the room, something gotta happen.

12:36

You want your ex. Look

12:39

at your question. You

12:46

didn't answer it with you scared up. I

12:49

mean, if

12:52

you wanted to ask the question because you wrote

12:54

this joke you wanted to do, go

12:58

ahead and do it. But what is

13:00

you asking me for? You just

13:03

got back good with your wife. Now you're up here.

13:07

Going me shut up.

13:08

It was just a question. It was just a question.

13:12

Yet question is what it was?

13:14

Right back on that.

13:16

Because you don't like the question, it

13:19

doesn't mean he didn't have a right

13:22

to ask. I just asked

13:24

the question.

13:25

Somebody like throw pillars.

13:31

Coming up in thirty two minutes after the hour.

13:34

We have some church complaints for you right after

13:37

this.

13:37

But look at his face though now he just he

13:40

disgusted it with us. Answer question.

13:43

You're listening hard morning

13:46

show, and it's time now for church

13:48

complaints with Reverend Motown and Deacon

13:50

death jam we

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oh.

13:55

Hell, in

13:57

a most bosipherous way

14:01

as we proflocate our

14:03

diloxis well

14:06

remembers, come here knowing

14:08

full well that we are pulling

14:12

towards the inner being of

14:15

my scarity. Yeah,

14:18

oh, let us begin with

14:21

church complaints before I over

14:23

preach myself this morning, because I think

14:26

that I

14:29

say, I feel a pontinuity,

14:35

things of that nature.

14:36

Oh, come on, deacon, all

14:38

right, pastor now for some reason, today

14:41

is all sisters

14:44

church complaints.

14:45

It's all sisters church

14:48

complaints.

14:48

They are in a frenzy right now.

14:50

Let's see first here, our sister

14:53

Freda hind brother Larry got

14:55

into it this weekend and she called

14:58

the police eat in

15:00

turn called renatheta on

15:02

her. Now her man and how

15:05

furniture is gone. She's

15:08

asking can the church help her get both

15:10

of them back? But that's that's just a major

15:13

situation.

15:16

Our church have a new

15:18

policy to refrain

15:21

from intervening in

15:23

domestic qualls and

15:26

issues. Also

15:29

one other announcement that we're going to refrain

15:32

from from now on, at the beginning of

15:35

complaints, I will

15:37

not preach such a high

15:39

I q uh

15:42

wait, why anymore?

15:44

Because I'm starting to hear.

15:45

From I'm starting to hear from

15:47

constituents that they don't understand

15:50

me, so obviously I'm over

15:52

their heads. So we will go back to basic,

15:55

ordinary Southern vible

15:57

messaging.

15:58

Don't you quit being a genius that you are?

16:00

Now, don't you do that?

16:02

Don't you do that?

16:03

No, sometimes you have to back

16:05

it down. I don't want to.

16:07

Dennis Miller of the Congregation.

16:11

Jessica Heller, So yeah,

16:14

you went over a lot of people here with that one, though.

16:17

Okay, then I gonna do

16:19

that.

16:19

Well, let me put it to you this way. Oh, we're

16:22

gonna Dave Chappelle.

16:23

Them more that.

16:25

Okay, All right then, okay,

16:27

listen here, Sister Dendre,

16:30

Sister Denidris, asking if we can pay

16:33

for all nine of her kids to go see

16:35

the doctor. They ate some beans

16:38

and wienas at her mother's house.

16:40

Sister Lerlin. The expiration

16:43

date was nineteen eighty eight.

16:44

On the Beans in two thousand and nine

16:47

on the wienas Uh, the kids

16:49

keep saying their stomach hurt. Came Is it possible

16:51

that we can help the cheering pass well?

16:53

First of all them children's is not learned

16:56

about that.

16:58

The Stowa kid is hurt. But

17:02

I don't think you're gonna have to take them to the

17:04

hospital. I think we're gonna let the foster

17:06

care system pay for that, because Child

17:09

Potential Services will be there and have all

17:11

them removed before nightfall.

17:13

What's this story?

17:14

Hit?

17:16

We don't have to pay for it here at the church.

17:19

We're gonna let the system pay for it

17:21

because the foster care we'll get them into

17:23

the hospital in need. But

17:25

you don't need to be at nobody at house serving

17:27

hot dog from two thousand and

17:30

nine.

17:31

Amen, Amen,

17:34

all right.

17:35

Sick preservatives

17:37

in that cannervative.

17:46

All right, we got a situation.

17:48

Sister Scharita says she

17:50

was waiting on Bobby Jenkins to come over

17:53

Saturday night. He said he came

17:55

by, but her daddy was

17:58

on the front porch. She said,

18:00

now that was me. I took

18:02

my wig off. Now

18:04

he won't come back, and she

18:07

wanted to know what she should.

18:08

Do well,

18:13

sister, just going

18:16

off the small amount of information

18:18

I had, the one

18:21

thing clearly to me that needs

18:23

to be fun. You don't ever need

18:25

to take that wig off of getting you

18:29

getting mistaken for your daddy

18:33

because you don't have the right amount of

18:35

hell Lord

18:38

her mercy. All

18:49

right.

18:51

He has the situation that took place till sister

18:54

Raja wants to know if she's right

18:56

around. He wants to know she's right

18:58

around. Her ex husband called and said

19:01

he wanted her back. She

19:03

told him I don't date men

19:06

with kids, and he said,

19:08

but they your kids.

19:10

She said, that's not my problem.

19:12

It's see right a wrong.

19:14

I love her.

19:18

I like the fact that she has developed

19:20

a new set of standards

19:23

in her life and she

19:25

don't date me and with kids, even

19:28

though them kids is hers in the here.

19:31

I find that to be quite amazing

19:34

or the ultimate get out of

19:36

a situation if I've

19:39

ever seen one. It reminds

19:41

me of a young fella had come to

19:43

my office recently and

19:46

asked me if I was

19:48

single, would

19:50

I go on a cruise with

19:53

my ex if when anything happened,

19:56

I said, fool boy,

20:01

you sound like a church complaint. Oh,

20:04

it's just amazing. How honey,

20:06

is.

20:06

They think you like that?

20:08

You don't, yo, I'm

20:10

not gonna mention no names any

20:12

time you come to my office in privacy,

20:15

I remain uh dedicated

20:19

to the you know what they call it discrepancy.

20:23

That ain't the wood great

20:26

question. No, I prefer discrepancy.

20:31

If you don't tell

20:33

me which one of my big words

20:36

to.

20:36

Use watch

20:38

out?

20:39

All right, all

20:41

right, thank you, Reverend Motown

20:44

tacon death cham for church complaints.

20:46

I didn't I didn't mention it. Brother Junior,

20:48

you don't think they know who I'm talking about?

20:50

Dean.

20:52

Coming up next, ask the CELO or Chief

20:54

Love Officers. You're listening morning

20:58

show. Coming up at the time of the

21:00

hour, we will talk about Vice President Kamala

21:02

Harris's new initiative with black men

21:05

that kicks off today with the

21:07

Vice President in Atlanta. Steve,

21:09

you had a very special call with the

21:11

VP Harris. So you're looking forward

21:13

to hearing all about it that's coming. So

21:15

we're looking for it, I should say, to hearing all about

21:18

it that's coming up at the top of the hour. But

21:20

right now it is time to ask

21:23

the CLO. This is from

21:25

Johnny and Nasau. Johnny says,

21:27

my dad and I have a mobile bartending

21:30

truck. I bought the truck and I restocked

21:32

the liquor for each event. My dad

21:34

is a master bartender, so

21:37

he expects to get sixty percent of our

21:39

profits. He is more of an employee

21:42

than an investor. Should I get more

21:44

profit? Shouldn't

21:46

I get more profit?

21:47

He's asking, Well, here's the deal,

21:50

uh you,

21:53

He's more of an employee than an investor.

21:56

The problem you got is without

21:59

your daddy, you have no business.

22:02

Because your father is the master bartender.

22:07

All you probably know how to do is drive. We

22:09

can get anybody drive. So

22:12

I think your father has you in a precarious

22:15

position. I think you all should go fifty

22:17

to fifty if you put up

22:19

all the money. But it sounds to me like

22:24

you may have gotten some

22:26

money from your father. Now if you haven't

22:29

gotten the money from your father, and you put

22:31

up all the money, that was your.

22:35

Stake in it.

22:36

He brings brand equity,

22:39

years of know how and knowledge and

22:41

going into mixology, so

22:43

now that comes with the price. But

22:46

I think he realizes that without him,

22:48

you have nothing except a truck with

22:50

some liquor on it. So

22:55

if you have already previously

22:58

agreed to the sixty forty you

23:00

have to pay it. If y'all ain't struck

23:02

out hitting made one dollar, then it's

23:04

time to negotiate, and

23:07

y'all could meet in the middle. You think it ought to be

23:09

fifty to fifty. He thinks sixty

23:12

five forty. Maybe he should Maybe

23:14

he thinks it's sixty forty. Maybe

23:16

it could be forty five fifty five.

23:18

Meet in the middle.

23:20

But you do need your daddy, okay.

23:25

Got a way to make more money is to get

23:27

a real fine chick that can bar ten

23:30

and cut your daddy out. Ooh like

23:33

that, and then

23:35

he gonna flip that truck over the seven. You

23:38

want happy Nasau? All

23:42

right?

23:43

Uh?

23:43

Melika and Stockbridge says, I

23:46

surprised my husband by coming home early

23:48

from a bridal shower. I heard him tell

23:50

someone on the phone that his wife will be gone

23:53

till around four pm, so he'd be free

23:55

to talk until four. He said

23:57

it was his boss. Was he really working

24:00

on a Saturday.

24:04

I don't know, Lady, I don't

24:07

know. I

24:09

don't know if he said it was

24:11

his boss.

24:12

If you didn't hear no female voice and you

24:14

know all this here, I don't know, why are you calling us?

24:17

He told us, but he could talk to four.

24:20

Now here's what you need to know is when

24:22

you came in, did the conversation end?

24:26

Uh huh?

24:28

It wasn't no talking to four?

24:31

The boss could though.

24:34

Now, well, if it's boss,

24:36

didn't we it's work related?

24:42

Why no, it don't sound like no

24:44

female because she didn't say she She said

24:46

he was talking to someone, and

24:49

when I walked I heard him say he could

24:51

talk to four. But now what she

24:53

didn't say was when she came in he

24:56

hung up? Or

24:58

did he go off somewhere and take the phone

25:01

call? Which was you

25:03

know you don't. I don't talk business

25:05

in front of my wife.

25:08

Why would she be upset?

25:10

Why was she questioning him?

25:11

If she didn't always y'all?

25:14

Are y'all doing something?

25:15

Was kind of off?

25:16

No?

25:16

No, ain't some meetings off?

25:18

Y'all made it off? Y'all while

25:20

you don't. First of all, you don't have all

25:23

the information. All she said was I heard

25:25

him tell someone my wife is the

25:27

way I can talk to a phone. She

25:30

came in.

25:31

He said it was his.

25:32

Boss, which

25:35

could have been.

25:37

A lie. But

25:40

how do you but but I mean, what depends

25:43

on what she did. She overhear him saying, yeah,

25:46

like when you rub my back.

25:48

Now what.

25:51

I'm saying? Unless she heard that Shirley

25:53

is his boss and y'all

25:56

stopped wrecking y'all's marriage when it don't

25:58

have to be.

26:01

Okay, all right, moving on.

26:08

Stay down, Stay down, Stay

26:12

down.

26:13

You're talking with a lot

26:15

of emotion right now.

26:15

You're gonna say something you're gonna live to regret. Go

26:18

ahead, shire.

26:21

Fay nol and Raleigh says, my husband

26:23

and I argue a lot. And when

26:26

I tell my husband that what my mom

26:28

said to me or about me, he'll

26:31

stop talking to her for weeks. I told

26:33

him to stop doing that. He said that I need to

26:35

stop venting to him. Then who

26:37

am I supposed to vent to?

26:38

Then?

26:40

Well, I mean, look, look fight now now

26:42

listen.

26:43

You love that man, Fay

26:45

now the way you said it?

26:47

Yeah, yeah, that's a combination

26:50

of faith and nail.

26:52

Card. She

26:55

couldn't make up her name who she wanted to make

26:57

but name a baby after so it was faith

27:00

nail. That's very close

27:02

to fatal, you know, like someone's

27:05

fatal. And then but they

27:08

nailed it, so it was Faye nail. Anyway,

27:11

I can't. I don't know, you know, you people

27:14

just getting tired of here, and you complain seemed

27:16

like to me, you know, cause

27:21

well but everybody because her mama

27:23

turned on and say something crazy about it.

27:25

Then she tell her husband.

27:26

Then her husband kids speaking to the mama

27:28

because he trying to side up with the wife. And

27:31

now you want him to quit not

27:33

talking to your mama. You came in and

27:35

said that your mama

27:38

said you're stupid, and you act like

27:40

a damn fool all the time. And now

27:42

your husband goes down. Why you're letting her talk to you

27:44

like that? Now he don't talk to her, now you mad

27:46

at him. We can't get in this next question.

27:50

Last one speak, last

27:52

one, all right, Jessica.

27:55

In the DMV rights,

27:57

I got a speeding ticket and paid the fine, but

28:00

I forgot to tell my husband our insurance

28:02

increased by eighty nine dollars, and now

28:04

he wants to restrict me to driving to work

28:07

and for essential errands only for

28:09

a while. Does the punishment match the

28:12

crime?

28:13

I didn't know your husband completely?

28:15

Punishment?

28:16

What is that about?

28:17

Where that comes from? You

28:19

can't drive no more except to work and necessary

28:22

things. You're not driving no more. Does

28:25

punishment fit the crime? What

28:29

sit in the corner and the marriages

28:31

it. I can't go in there and tell my wife

28:33

you can't drive no more because you got

28:35

a ticket?

28:36

Yeah?

28:37

What?

28:37

What is too too much in

28:40

the car?

28:41

Fasten? Yeah, I'm

28:43

talking be driving around this block, so

28:45

damn fast.

28:46

In his cars.

28:51

I drive down the street and find that sign

28:53

to say speed trapping.

29:03

All right?

29:05

So yeah, does a punishment fit the crime?

29:08

This is crazy.

29:11

It shouldn't be any punishment, all right,

29:13

Thank you. Colo. Coming up at the top of the

29:15

hour, we will hear from Steve on our Vice

29:18

President's new initiative involving black

29:20

men. Right after this You're

29:22

listening Morning

29:24

show, Tyra

29:27

Banks revealed that she waited until her fiftieth

29:30

birthday to have her first alcoholic drink.

29:32

Tyra told People magazine that she tasted

29:35

alcohol prior to her fiftieth, but she chose

29:37

to have her first fruity drink to lose

29:40

her alcohol virginity. Tyra said,

29:42

quote, it wasn't worth it. I was like,

29:44

this is nasty. She

29:47

didn't like it at all, and

29:50

it was fruity. So Steve, I got

29:52

to ask you, how old were you when you had your

29:54

first drink?

29:55

How old about forty?

29:58

Wow?

29:58

Okay, heard me forty? When

30:00

I first like got you know, I had

30:02

a glass of wine, a whole glass

30:04

of wine. I tasted a Strolls

30:07

beer when I was thirteen. That's what stopped me

30:09

from.

30:14

It. Felt like Tyrene was nasty.

30:16

Me and Butch, Yeah, me and my boy

30:19

Butch. His grandfather used to drink

30:21

Strolls And he

30:24

left his Strolls and went to the house,

30:27

and me and Butch snatched it and went in the

30:29

garage and drank it. Oh man,

30:31

I threw up for three damn days. And

30:35

it was warm too. It wasn't how it

30:38

was a warm, warm ber And that was it.

30:41

And after that I never drank no

30:43

more after that. And then I

30:45

tried wine. Close to forty

30:48

years. Oh, had my first glass of wine. I

30:50

had a comedy club that never drank

30:52

nothing in it, never did. And

30:55

then Will Phoenix turned me on

30:57

the Scotch in Paris one time, the

31:00

nest for that started drinking Scotch.

31:02

But I didn't like it at first. That's

31:04

expensive, Yeah, it is.

31:08

Exactly all right.

31:09

I've never but I only drink, you know,

31:11

I've I've never had more than one drink

31:13

before.

31:15

That?

31:16

Was it all right?

31:17

You at forty tyra at fifty? Okay,

31:20

moving on now. This is the case of grown men

31:22

taking a joke or rap

31:24

beef too far. Rick Ross

31:26

has received some backlash for accusing Drake

31:29

for shooting down his plane

31:31

with some kind of fighter jet. Rick

31:34

Ross's plane reportedly had an emergency

31:37

landing in Dallas, and Ross posted

31:39

a picture of his private jet with wing damage

31:42

allegedly from the landing. The

31:44

cause of the emergency landing remains

31:47

unknown, but fans are upset, saying

31:49

that right after Ross's plane landed safely,

31:51

Rick Ross should have been praying and thanking God

31:54

for the safe landing, but instead

31:56

he did a live video to take shots

31:58

at Drake, saying that Drake shut down

32:00

his plane. This is a bit much,

32:03

you know, this is this is kind of crazy. I

32:06

don't know, y'all.

32:07

Black ass is not that

32:11

important, all powerful.

32:14

You ain't got no dog gonna

32:16

fighter jet. Ain't nobody

32:19

shooting at you. Y'all need

32:21

to stop this ignorant mess right here and now.

32:23

Look, man, if you just want to show us your plane,

32:25

go ahead and do that. Show us you're

32:28

talking about that he had you shot down boy

32:31

boy, and you're gonna go bad.

32:34

You're gonna go back up there? Why f

32:38

A? So you got to you got to

32:40

buy fighter jet. Yeah, you can't play

32:42

like that. Play yeah

32:46

too far by shooting you down. Rick.

32:50

Rick was on the plane with me. Yeah,

32:52

and then he could have been the weight on

32:54

the plane.

32:56

Boy.

32:58

But he's lost a lot of weight.

33:01

Yeah.

33:01

So there are a lot of people but are still big

33:03

though. And we talked about

33:05

the luggage.

33:07

Rick kind of slim dog. He didn't trimmed

33:09

it down.

33:09

He lost a lot of weeks. He work

33:14

kind of all right. All

33:18

right, moving on, you know the

33:20

met Galas tonight. So

33:22

Steve, I gotta ask you, do you plan to

33:25

watch the red carpet. You're gonna see about

33:27

the fashions this year. Your stylist, Ellie

33:29

Carramo, will be working behind

33:31

the scenes at this year's gala,

33:37

and he is.

33:40

Vogue selected him to

33:42

design La LA's dress, So

33:51

that will be an original design that

33:54

Ellie drew and sketched and

33:57

picked it out, and.

34:00

Then he hired the fashion house.

34:02

I can't say the name only because I don't

34:04

remember what it is, you

34:08

know, put the dress together.

34:11

But the design was by Ellie and

34:13

so he'll be there tonight.

34:16

Oh yeah, and the scenes.

34:17

He won't get inside the gala, but they don't

34:19

do that, but he'll be somewhere

34:21

around there.

34:23

Knowing Ellie, he might sneak in.

34:25

Well, you know, the stylists

34:27

and stuff don't don't go to the gala.

34:29

They don't. I didn't

34:32

know that. Yeah, he's

34:34

gonna be looking so fly though. But congratulations

34:37

to Ellie. That is major. Yeah,

34:40

really yeah, thanks

34:43

to you putting him on and all of that. Okay,

34:46

So, speaking of fashion, finally there

34:48

are two. There's some new designer genes

34:51

called p jeans available. Now have you

34:53

guys seen have you guys seen these gens?

34:56

Yeah, I've seen. They're

34:59

stayed as stonewashed denim by

35:01

Jordan Luca, and they feature a dark

35:03

stain in the groin and crotch area.

35:06

Uh, to make it look like you've pied your

35:08

pants. That's what it looks like.

35:10

I want to wear that. You ain't got people

35:13

you know, I'm gonna get there.

35:16

Some people love it.

35:17

Oh no, oh no oh,

35:19

I'm getting a pad for the shore because

35:22

you know, a lot of times, you know, if

35:25

you don't if you don't shape properly.

35:29

And you rush out of there. You

35:31

had a little dot on your pants.

35:33

Wow.

35:34

And so I'm buying them because did I

35:36

just come on out and whatever? Okay

35:39

with it?

35:40

They're just six hundred and ten dollars. I

35:42

mean, they're

35:44

selling out fast.

35:46

We can get DIF for free.

35:47

You don't need it.

35:49

They put them on and stand.

35:52

I stayed on myself.

35:54

I'll be coming up in twenty minutes after the

35:56

hour. We're gonna switch

35:58

gears here because Vice President Harris

36:01

will be in Detroit later today and this is

36:03

the second stop in her big Economic Opportunity

36:05

Tour. We'll talk about it right after this you're

36:08

listening morning

36:11

show. So today May sixth,

36:13

the Vice President will

36:15

deliver a speech in Detroit about her

36:17

vision on an for economy

36:20

that works for all Americans, with a

36:22

specific focus on Black Americans

36:25

and building intergenerational wealth

36:27

in the black community. This is

36:29

Vice President's second stop on our National Economic

36:32

Opportunity Tour. And Steve, you know all

36:34

about this because you talked with her,

36:37

and so tell us about it please.

36:39

Like Shirley said, this

36:42

is the Vice President's second stop

36:44

on her National Economic Opportunity

36:47

tool and what we're going to be

36:49

seeing everybody is that the Vice President

36:51

is leading a tool about

36:53

how to build wealth in the black community

36:56

and showing people how to find the right resources

36:59

to help them thrive. I think

37:01

this is good because she called me

37:03

personally and asked me to help

37:06

promote this, because I just think

37:08

that I'm seeing too

37:10

many things about people not really understanding

37:13

all they have done. Now is

37:15

anybody gonna do everything? No, but they

37:18

have accomplished a lot, and I think

37:20

we're not showcasing that. And

37:22

during her speech, the Vice President is gonna

37:24

highlight how the Biden administration

37:27

has taken historic steps to

37:29

advance economic opportunity by

37:32

creating jobs, investing in small

37:34

businesses, supporting the auto

37:36

sector, which is gonna be big up there

37:38

in Detroit, increasing access

37:41

to capital, improving access

37:43

to housing.

37:45

They had a.

37:45

Huge program that forgave hundreds

37:49

or millions of dollars of student loans

37:52

and medical debt, and is

37:54

also championing additional policies

37:57

that put money directly into people's pockets

38:00

bill wealth now again, just

38:02

like last week, this week, you can watch

38:04

the speech later on today at

38:06

two pm Eastern. All

38:09

you gotta do is go online to White House

38:11

dot gov. Slash Live,

38:15

White House dot gov

38:17

slash live. And then

38:20

after this the tour goes next

38:22

week into Milwaukee and

38:24

as they go, they'll be adding the cities as

38:27

they go. So all you gotta

38:29

do is go at two o'clock today,

38:31

everybody go to White House dot gov slash

38:34

live and learn more about what the

38:36

Biden Harris administration has been doing

38:39

because we gotta fight back, man, because

38:41

this election is going to be extremely close,

38:44

and we again can be the deciding

38:46

factor.

38:47

That's right, just like we were four

38:50

years ago.

38:51

Yeah.

38:51

Yes, And when people like you say, Steve,

38:54

when people ask or say Biden

38:56

administration hasn't done anything for the

38:58

black community, Well here's proof here,

39:00

and you talk to the Vice President yourself.

39:03

You know, I love it going on the roads,

39:05

Brandon, they do a lot.

39:07

I'll tell you who I ain't doing nothing for the black

39:09

communion, Donald

39:11

Trump, and show me what he'd

39:13

done. Stop all these

39:16

wearies, ignorant ass T shirts yelling

39:18

and had printed up I words

39:20

for Trump, You stupid.

39:23

All right, Thank you, Steve, Thank

39:25

you. Vice President Kamala Harris coming

39:27

up at thirty two minutes after the hour, she

39:30

is here. Sister Odell is back right,

39:32

after this you're listening Steve

39:35

Harvey Morning Show. Well,

39:37

as promised, she is here without

39:39

further ado, ladies and gentlemen, sister Odell,

39:44

No.

39:46

Wait, I

39:51

would make

39:53

it mm weird

39:57

outl er

40:01

Well, good morning is everyone.

40:04

Let's just get to it because it's you know, a

40:06

little things going on around here. What's

40:09

on your mind?

40:10

Shelly, Well, good morning, sister O'Dell.

40:12

Thanks for coming back so soon. I

40:15

just wanted to ask you about this. There

40:17

was a nail tech in

40:20

Washington State now. She announced

40:22

to all of her customers that she runs

40:24

a Christian nail salon

40:27

Christian nail salons, and there

40:29

are certain nail designs and she just won't

40:32

do. She said, she will not paint on your

40:34

nail's horoscopes. You know, people ask for different

40:36

designs, and one of them is horoscopes, the

40:39

third eye symbol.

40:40

She will not do that.

40:41

She won't do angel numbers, she won't

40:43

do definitely won't do skull and crossbone

40:46

designs. And there are a few others she won't

40:48

do. Why because she says they are all

40:50

witchcraft and she won't do them.

40:53

And so I have to ask you.

40:55

Have you been to a Christian nail salon

40:57

before and do you get your nails

40:59

done?

41:00

You know, I've been going to the same nail

41:02

salon since i was oh oh

41:06

twenty twenty four maybe,

41:10

And you know all I does

41:12

is get crosses. I get crosses

41:14

put on my nails

41:16

sometimes and then uh, when

41:19

I don't have I had a stripture

41:21

put on now and uh uh

41:24

twenty third psalms on now one

41:26

time.

41:27

Uh.

41:28

Then I put some heavenly wings on my

41:30

fingers one time. So when I did like that, it looked

41:32

like I was flying. I

41:35

got on one time at

41:38

one of my one of the times I got

41:40

married, I painted

41:42

what number husband was I was

41:45

married, So I

41:47

put nine s on all my hands, you

41:49

know, so he would know, don't

41:51

mess around, because I will go for ten. And

41:54

I did. I did, you did?

41:57

And uh.

42:00

And you know got that that was a warning, you know

42:02

there. Then when I put them on when I got mad

42:04

or to my tenth husband, I

42:07

put ten on that. But in one of

42:09

my fingers I put leven because I kind of figured

42:11

he wasn't gonna.

42:12

Make it.

42:16

Just you were right, huh. So,

42:20

So what do you think of this nail tech in Washington

42:23

State? She doing the right thing you

42:25

agree.

42:26

With her, Well, I ain't saying she doing

42:28

the right thing. I do know this work. She'd

42:30

go miss out on a lot of business. Because

42:33

I don't care what you want on your hands. I'm gonna put

42:35

it on that cause for one hundred and

42:37

fifty dollars, I don't care if you put. You can put

42:39

a pitchfork on your frank if you want to what

42:42

I call I don't

42:44

care nothing about that. You can put. You can pray

42:46

them all red with eyes.

42:47

On it fall.

42:48

I'll call him make

42:51

your money, baby.

42:55

That's funny, sister.

42:59

So you've never gotten like skull and crossbones

43:01

on your nails or anything like that.

43:04

Shirley, listen to me. Now you're pushing

43:06

too far. You heard what I said. Now you

43:08

see you're going back to what you used

43:10

to be.

43:11

Shirley.

43:11

Then you used to get along, and you know

43:14

we started getting along because I started cutting

43:16

your slack. But you're gonna stare and keep

43:18

pushing. You don't get in the hell. Well, I ain't got

43:20

no skull than in the bones with the

43:22

crosses on it.

43:23

Well, you said you started back, and then don't

43:26

get.

43:26

Sa Shirley, because I can start asking

43:28

you some no, and what

43:31

else. Well, you know, maybe you got some stuff

43:33

on your nails. We need to know about

43:35

it.

43:37

Just just

43:41

polished, that's all. Okay, that's

43:44

it. But you were you were approving

43:47

that she has a Christian salon and you like that

43:49

just you want her to make money.

43:51

So this whole break you was just gonna

43:53

spin on this Christian nail salon. Yeah,

43:56

you know.

43:56

Yeah, that is correct. That is correct. That

43:59

is correct.

44:00

This chel was over

44:02

at that time. You should have moved on to

44:04

something new. But you're not being a professional.

44:07

Course is that some of these people?

44:09

Is you just don't don't don't

44:11

don't.

44:11

You say we should? I'll tell you wow next

44:14

time.

44:14

I'm so special. You're so special. Thank

44:18

you, sister Odell. Tell me out like some frank

44:21

phone call for today with the nephew. Right

44:23

after this, you're

44:28

listening Harvey Morning

44:30

Show coming up

44:32

at about four minutes after the hour. It's

44:35

my strawberry letter for today, and

44:37

the subject is his delivery

44:39

is always so shocking. We'll

44:42

get into that, fund out what that's all about, and

44:45

just a few but right now it is time

44:47

for today's frank phone call with the nephew. What

44:49

you got for us now surly.

44:51

First and foremost, I want to say, last

44:53

night in Los Angeles at the YouTube

44:55

Theelter, what what what we did?

44:57

The dog? One thing?

44:58

Let there be ass, Let

45:00

there be laughed. That was hosted by myself

45:03

and the one and only Fred Hammond

45:05

in the building. All clean,

45:08

Ben cuss it all on Neville,

45:12

ain't cussed, JJ, ain't cused,

45:14

kid on stage, ain't cused Tony

45:16

Bacon, nobody cussed.

45:18

We had a wonderful, wonderful family

45:21

good time.

45:21

All right.

45:22

Now this coming

45:24

week, though, gonna be some cussing. Okay,

45:30

yeah, yeah, I can't do two weeks straight now.

45:32

I'm just telling you so, I'll

45:34

let y'all know about West Pond Beach right after

45:36

this prank. This prank is settlement

45:39

chick. Settlement chick.

45:42

How many of y'all have been waiting around the

45:45

settlement check. Well, I'm gonna give a young

45:47

lady call and let her know that with the number

45:49

you thought you were getting, it ain't

45:52

gonna be the number. Hello, let's go catch

45:54

up, settlement chick.

45:56

Yeah, you know, i'd be a lawyer somedays. Some

45:58

days i'd be doctors some things. I

46:00

just you know, i'd be the one that you

46:04

know your wife's work. Husband,

46:06

I'd be liviting everything right now, right now. I'm a lawyer.

46:08

This is the settlement, chick, this settlement,

46:11

chick. Let's go catch dog.

46:13

Thank you?

46:14

Hello, right, I'm trying.

46:16

To reach out this place. How

46:19

you doing? It's a tourney over to associates?

46:22

All right?

46:23

I want to give you a call. I just got your file that

46:25

hit my desk, and we got a check

46:27

going out to you on monday. You came in yesterday,

46:29

correct, yes, Okay, listen,

46:31

we got a few little glitches

46:34

here. We want to go over with I want to go over with you and make sure

46:37

we get this all ironed out before you come

46:39

in on Monday. And I'll have a check

46:41

definitely waiting on you when you get here. All

46:43

right, You're supposed to be getting six

46:46

four hundred and ten dollars, unfortunately

46:49

is being reduced to twelve hundred due

46:51

to injuries not being

46:53

as as bad as they say it was, a

46:56

lot of calculations got really mixed up on our

46:58

paperwork here. And please keep in mind on the twelve

47:00

hundred, we still haven't taken out our fee,

47:02

which is like about thirty three and the third we'll

47:05

have a check for you on Monday in the ballpark

47:07

of four to five hundred dollars.

47:09

Oh, hold on, hold on, hold up, Okay, I'm

47:11

still getting it. So what

47:13

was the total a mont that y'all got from the laws

47:16

from the.

47:17

Should Evidently the person that

47:19

did these calculations completely did them wrong.

47:22

I do apologize for this being a

47:24

mishap on our part and it's totally

47:26

screwed up, and I do apologize on the behalf

47:29

of the of the association here

47:31

that we've dropped the ball on that. But your

47:34

actual check has been reduced to twelve hundred

47:36

dollars, okay, and that's

47:38

without us taking the law fees out of it.

47:40

So I just round right, because

47:44

how was six thousand dollars cover the doctor

47:46

bill and the cop practice?

47:49

Well, from my understanding, man, what they're also stating

47:51

is that your injuries are not that bad, and

47:54

I don't want to be the bear of bad news.

47:56

They're actually wondering if you were actually hurt

47:58

at all.

47:59

So because I even had to get injections,

48:02

okay from the compractice.

48:03

Okay, And do you have any you I have

48:06

some medical documents here, and I understand

48:08

that you've been going and you probably looked like you went over

48:10

at least at least two months going to the

48:12

doctor and getting and getting therapy,

48:15

and and I was his call.

48:18

That was achi practice call. That wasn't my decision.

48:21

Okay, Well, a lot this call from from

48:23

my injuries.

48:24

Exactly, and a lot of a lot of these doctor fees

48:26

and that you've gone to as eating up eating

48:28

up a lot of these funds. And I tell

48:31

you these doctor bills they get pretty high out there. I

48:33

do want to apologize what we're gonna do here

48:36

since we've dropped the ball on this. We're

48:38

gonna give you the check for twelve hundred and not

48:40

even take the law fees out of it.

48:41

And I'll have that check waiting on you on Monday

48:44

morning.

48:45

That's still okay. I understand

48:47

what you're saying. We'll trying to figure out is

48:51

from the I need

48:53

to see some paperwork of saying stating

48:56

what was the total mount check that

48:58

was written from insurance

49:00

company, plus what was the portion that was supposed

49:02

to be taken out for the chiropractic plus that

49:05

was supposed to be taken out from a doctor's

49:07

itself. That you're telling me six

49:09

thousand. That's not gonna wouldn't have covered

49:11

that and leave me with only twelve hundred.

49:14

Okay, I'm not at liberty to let you look at this paperwork

49:17

anymore. I'm calling you basically

49:19

to let you know I have a twelve hundred dollars check for you.

49:22

If you don't want that, then you

49:24

can go ahead and take some other legal life.

49:26

I mean, that doesn't sign right, Robert.

49:29

I mean from the entire month, because I

49:31

got the paperwork from the chiropractor

49:33

stating what Mount was paid.

49:35

I understand that, ma'am. What I'm trying to let

49:37

you know an issues there there.

49:38

What's going on right now is the response

49:41

coming back is that you're not actually hurt

49:43

at all.

49:44

That's what they're saying. They're saying you're

49:46

not hate at all.

49:46

Actually, I don't want to use the words, but they're

49:49

saying that you've been faking this the whole time.

49:51

I need to see some paperweight with far time to

49:53

check it. This doesn't sound right and that doesn't make any

49:56

sense.

49:56

Well, all right, now, you know I'm the last person

49:59

that that this file is gonna come across. It's

50:01

coming across my desk. This is pretty much a take

50:03

it or leave it option, you know, and if

50:05

you.

50:05

Don't leave no, no, no, no, I

50:08

mean you don't have to get an a to me because you are my lawyer

50:11

and I am your client.

50:12

Well, you're not gonna raise your voice. You're not gonna

50:14

raise your voice. Set me.

50:16

That's not gonna happen either. So let's let's

50:18

pipe it down a bit. Okay, Now

50:21

here's what we're gonna do. Do you want the twelve

50:24

hundred dollars check or do you not want it?

50:26

Now?

50:26

I've already wavered the fees of the of

50:29

the attorneys here. Do you want the twelve

50:31

hundred or do you want me to reduce it to four hundred?

50:33

No, I don't want twelve undred Because'm gonna take you to court,

50:36

so that doesn't time off. You're

50:38

supposed to be my lawyer.

50:39

I'm being the best attorney that you probably

50:41

could afford, young lady, okay, and

50:43

I'm trying to do the best I can to help you.

50:45

Now, you if I from

50:47

what I understand is, I'm sorry to say, that's not gonna

50:50

be acceptable. I just have to get

50:52

a lawyer to you. That's not accessible.

50:54

You know, you know you people continue to want to.

50:57

Take me to offer yesterday when we came in.

50:59

How I didn't.

51:02

I wasn't there doing the meeting yesterday. Like

51:04

I said, these papers just landed on my desk today.

51:06

What I'm not going to tolerate is

51:08

you people consistently wanting to file

51:11

a lawsuit on somebody.

51:13

Now you want to file a lawsuit on me. You

51:15

know you're going way too far with this.

51:18

This is I want to talk to I've

51:22

okay, well

51:25

now.

51:25

You've heard of me. I'm and

51:27

I work here as well. And I'm not going to stand

51:29

you uh uh dismantling

51:32

me the.

51:32

Way that you're doing.

51:33

I just have to get a lawyer that's not

51:35

accessible.

51:36

I got one more thing. This is nephew Timmy

51:39

from the Steve Harvey Morning Show. You just

51:41

got pranked. You got preicked

51:43

by your husband. Oh,

51:50

your husband told me she's been

51:52

waiting on me check.

51:54

Yeah, I was

51:56

about to go buy a little office.

52:01

All right, baby, let me ask you something. Tell

52:03

Tommy, what is the baddest radio

52:05

show in the land? All

52:08

right, baby, look, get your check,

52:13

Come on, give it to me, give it to me. Give a

52:15

prank or something we

52:18

ain't done. No, Frank, prays up in here in a minute

52:21

last night. Boy here, y'all come

52:23

on like you do, man, come

52:27

on here, come on here. You

52:32

think the pranking has gone to park, Come on, come

52:34

on.

52:36

This weekend is going down.

52:37

This is an evening and evening

52:40

with Nephew Tommy and West Palm Beach.

52:42

Oh my god, you do not want to miss it. It is going

52:44

down. It is Friday and Saturday night, this Mother's

52:46

Day weekend coming up. So bring your mama,

52:48

bring your baby mama, bring all your mamas,

52:50

y'all come on out.

52:51

It is at the Rinker.

52:53

Playhouse at the Crabbit Center,

52:55

the Rinker Playhouse.

52:56

So if you never heard me sound

52:58

so elegant before, but it is an

53:01

evening with a Nephew Tommy. Well, there's two shows

53:03

on Friday and two on Saturday,

53:05

and they're almost sold out at West Palm Beach.

53:07

It's been a while since I've been there,

53:10

oh dear, so please come

53:12

on out and gather around.

53:15

It's going to be absolutely ravishing.

53:18

The show's on Friday almost sold out, the shows

53:21

on Saturday almost sold out. Odea

53:24

Tommy is coming to town.

53:27

And then and then and then and then Sunday.

53:29

I got to get on a plane because his Mother's day and I got to get

53:31

back because I can't Ooh lord, if I don't see my mom

53:33

and my wife or mother them be in trouble, Shirley,

53:36

if you would.

53:37

Thank you, Sorry, Shirley, if you would.

53:40

Coming up next, it is my Strawberry

53:43

letter for today and the subject is his

53:45

delivery is always so shocking.

53:48

We'll get back into it, or we'll get into it

53:51

right after this. You're listening Morning

53:54

show. All right, it is time

53:56

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53:59

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54:01

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54:12

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54:14

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54:16

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54:18

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54:19

Here.

54:19

It is Strawberry letter.

54:21

Thank you, nephew. Subject his delivery

54:24

is always so shocking? Is

54:27

this about Steve? I know we'll

54:29

find out. Dear Stephen, Shirley, I

54:31

met a man we clicked. He

54:33

showed me his representative for the first few

54:35

months now, I see some things that make me wonder

54:38

if I want to continue our relationship.

54:41

These are things that I think he can

54:43

control, but he didn't act like this

54:45

in the beginning of our relationship. He has

54:48

no filter in anything

54:50

he says or does, and his delivery

54:52

is always so shocking. I took

54:55

him to meet my mom and he unleashed

54:57

the madness as soon as we got in her driveway.

55:00

He asked if I grew up in that little house,

55:02

and I could not believe him. He grew

55:04

up in the project. So I told him he had no

55:07

room to judge me. He said he wasn't judging,

55:09

He just asked a question. He

55:12

continued to insult my mom and I. He

55:14

refused to sit down because he said

55:16

the dining room table was too dusty.

55:19

I kept cutting my eyes at him, but he

55:21

didn't get it. He is also very

55:24

direct in the bedroom. Our first

55:26

sexual encounter was encounter was

55:28

at his house after we watched a movie. He

55:30

said that I had teased him long enough with my

55:33

legs all across him, and I rubbed and touched

55:35

all over him, so we might as well go to

55:37

the bedroom so he could give me what I

55:39

really want. I was shocked, but a

55:42

little turned on. I had no idea

55:44

that every sexual encounter would start

55:46

off like this. Now he'll usually say

55:49

something like, let's go on ahead

55:51

and get this out of the way. He told

55:53

me that he always he's always been

55:55

like this, and it's probably why

55:57

he's still single at forty two. When

56:00

he picks me up, because

56:02

if he's asked me more than a few times,

56:04

if I'm sure I want to wear what I'm

56:06

wearing, so I put him in time

56:09

out for a few days. If he's not willing

56:11

to change, is there a way to tolerate

56:14

this bad behavior? Well, only

56:16

you can determine that. Only

56:18

you can determine that. But I will say this, here

56:21

we go again. Women always want to change

56:23

a man. You cannot change

56:25

a man. You can't do that. Only

56:27

the man in question can change himself if

56:29

he wants to. This man that

56:32

you have right here is who he is. He

56:34

is his authentic self. You don't

56:37

like it, and it's okay that you don't like

56:39

it. You don't have to put up with it if you don't

56:41

want to, and why should you. But

56:44

you have talked to him about his delivery

56:46

and how he comes across to you, haven't you You

56:48

have to tell him how this makes you feel. I

56:51

mean, especially if you think he's being rude to

56:53

you and your mom. I

56:55

must say though, him asking you if you grew up in that

56:58

little house could have meant just that at you

57:00

a question like he said, or him

57:03

saying he wouldn't sit at your mom's table

57:05

because it was too dusty, because it was

57:08

too dusty while it was blunt? Was

57:10

he lying? I mean, it sounds like you're trying

57:12

to find something anything wrong

57:14

because you don't like how he says things.

57:17

You don't like how he says what he says,

57:19

especially when it comes to sex. So you

57:22

know, maybe if he can temper how he says

57:24

what he's saying, then maybe you guys can

57:26

have a chance. But yeah, it's that how

57:29

that has you shook?

57:30

Steve Well, I

57:33

don't think it's nothing to this letter except maybe

57:35

you know, have a little you know, reenact

57:38

me to how maybe this could go. You

57:40

know, dealing with a man ain't got no coof

57:43

what you want us to do. He

57:45

ain't got no coof this dude of the damn fool,

57:48

forty two years old, single talking to people

57:50

like that, you know, look

57:53

is deal uh,

57:57

y'all clicked. He

58:00

has no filter in anything he says

58:02

or does, and his delivery

58:04

shocking. Let's just start with this

58:06

one. I took him to meet my mama. He unleashed

58:09

the madness as soon as we got in her driveway.

58:12

He asked if I grew up in that little house. What he

58:14

said was you go up in the little ragged

58:16

ass house. Oh my goodness,

58:19

what you.

58:21

Send him?

58:22

Who were finnah go in here?

58:24

That's what he really said.

58:25

Oh you it's it's wait

58:28

a minute, it's some people that live in here.

58:32

You lying, So

58:35

now you dealing with that.

58:37

Then he get in the house.

58:40

And he said he wasn't sitting

58:42

down at your mama's table because it was too damn

58:44

dusty. You cutting your eyes

58:46

at him and everything, trying to get his attention, but

58:49

he didn't get it. So

58:52

now you just have a man who just he

58:54

do like you want to do. And even when y'all got ready

58:56

to have or you know, your little little fan

58:58

of the first time, you know, after

59:01

y'all watch the movie, he said, I had teased

59:04

him long enough. With my legs

59:06

all across him, I

59:09

rubbed and touched him all over, so we might

59:11

as well gone, Ma'm gone get

59:13

on in his bedroom, gone break it off,

59:17

gone, gone.

59:17

In here and give you this here.

59:19

Let me go on in here and give you this here.

59:20

What you want? Yeah,

59:22

I know what you want. And then you were shocked, but

59:24

you was a little turned on. Well all right now,

59:28

but I can tell you what I've know. You got in there and it

59:30

wasn't what he said it was gonna be. That's probably what you're

59:33

mad about now here. Now, every time y'all

59:35

go get hall sac let go on here and

59:37

get this on out the way.

59:42

I just look, are

59:44

you rubbing your forehead right now?

59:47

Why is you tied something?

59:48

More?

59:48

I think, Yeah, I'm just rubbing

59:50

my face. I'm frustrated with this dude.

59:53

I just don't know what. When

59:55

we come back, Shirley, you'll

59:58

give me a statement or

1:00:00

ask me a question, and

1:00:03

I'm going to show you, not

1:00:06

in a clean way, of course, I'm gonna

1:00:08

show you some of the shocking things that

1:00:11

this man would be saying. So when

1:00:13

we come back, Shirley, just ask me some

1:00:15

questions, Like we're dating and we're

1:00:18

going to meet somebody, Ask

1:00:20

me the question, and

1:00:22

then I will give you the answer that

1:00:24

mister, mister

1:00:27

delivery, mister shocking delivery

1:00:29

always does. All right, that's what we'll do.

1:00:32

Okay, all right, Steve. Well, we'll

1:00:34

have part two of your response and our re enactment

1:00:37

coming up at twenty three minutes after

1:00:39

the hour. The subject is today

1:00:41

for the Strawberry letter, his delivery is always

1:00:44

so shocking. Back at it right after

1:00:46

this. You're listening Morning

1:00:49

Show. All right, Come on, Steve, let's

1:00:51

recap today's strawberry letter. The subject

1:00:53

is his delivery is always

1:00:55

so shocking.

1:00:57

She's dating this man who

1:00:59

is He doesn't have

1:01:01

any kouth. He say whatever

1:01:04

you want to say. Hi, I want to say it, which is why

1:01:06

he's single at forty two

1:01:08

and anybody putting up with this. So

1:01:10

what I'm gonna do is just for purposes.

1:01:13

Shirley will ask me a series of questions.

1:01:16

I would take a pause, and then

1:01:18

I will show you the shocking

1:01:20

reply. He's probably using just

1:01:22

anything, Shirley, I don't care what the

1:01:24

subject is, grocery, shopping, pastors,

1:01:28

church, or anything.

1:01:29

So go ahead.

1:01:30

Where I know you said you were gonna take me out tonight.

1:01:32

Where are we going?

1:01:34

Well, you know, I mean, I don't

1:01:37

know. I don't know where I could take nobody like you.

1:01:39

You know, it don't look like you've been nowhere. So I

1:01:41

pretty much anywhere I'll take you. I'll be good enough.

1:01:43

Wait, what are you gonna do?

1:01:46

Oh?

1:01:48

Anywhere? Anywhere?

1:01:53

Pretty blunt with it, isn't

1:01:55

he?

1:01:56

All right? You know what?

1:01:58

The first time we went over to my mom's house and

1:02:00

go too, well, I think we should go

1:02:02

over there, and you know, you should try and get

1:02:04

to know where again? Go back, go

1:02:06

over there for.

1:02:07

What I've already been over there? The little lord how

1:02:09

with tight as hair? You know,

1:02:12

I don't know who your mom is, but she she must

1:02:14

be that old ass lady that lived in the shoe had

1:02:16

all them kids. Because you're crowded up in there,

1:02:21

it's terrible.

1:02:24

Come on, honey, you can't talk like that. Well,

1:02:27

look, look, we're going to church

1:02:30

on Sunday, you know. And

1:02:32

I wanted to know. I bought this new dress. How do you like

1:02:34

it?

1:02:35

Well? You said we going to church?

1:02:37

Right?

1:02:37

Yeah?

1:02:38

And then that's the dress you gonna wear? So

1:02:40

what are we going to church for? If you're gonna go to hell

1:02:42

anyway?

1:02:44

What?

1:02:47

He's a trip? And wow?

1:02:51

And after church, I was thinking you know,

1:02:53

instead of going out for a change, we could come

1:02:55

home and I can cook you dinner.

1:02:58

Now, come on now, baby, what

1:03:00

you know you can't cook?

1:03:03

I can't you several

1:03:06

times?

1:03:06

No good in hell? Well, you can't

1:03:09

cook. Nobody

1:03:12

fitting to do that. I made nobody

1:03:14

fit that.

1:03:17

I made a roast. Okay, you know

1:03:19

how to rot? There, you don't

1:03:21

know how to roast. You fell out a character

1:03:24

you were Steve was talking to Shirley. We're

1:03:29

talking about I'm

1:03:31

so sorry. Get

1:03:33

back in the character. It's

1:03:36

not about me, surely.

1:03:40

He like my bad?

1:03:44

All right?

1:03:44

Did you really grow up in the projects?

1:03:47

Did I really grow up in the project?

1:03:49

Because you asked me about my Yeah, ain't

1:03:51

that way?

1:03:52

Your mama staying now? Oh wait

1:03:54

a minute, wait a minute, my.

1:03:56

Mama, dog, your

1:03:59

mom. You're

1:04:06

gonna talk about my mom like that? That's

1:04:08

not nice. Don't talk about my mother. Mm

1:04:12

hmmm.

1:04:13

Don't talk about your mama. Will hurt

1:04:15

me. I wouldn't have nothing to say about your mamaself

1:04:17

when I went over that first time. Well hold

1:04:20

up, now, you know I'm the one got to sit up

1:04:22

in the little dead ass little chairs and everything.

1:04:25

You know, maybe you need to spend some of your money, get

1:04:27

a house, keep over that and help your mama. I don't

1:04:29

know how she eating off that little dusty ass table. I

1:04:32

really don't.

1:04:35

Hey, listen, I gotta go to work early tomorrow.

1:04:37

Do you mind dropping the kids off of school for

1:04:39

me?

1:04:41

Drop the kids off? Yes?

1:04:44

That made my kids. Why don't whoever

1:04:46

made them kids drop them off?

1:04:53

You're just so wrong, so direct.

1:04:56

I know it's too much, no filter. Your

1:04:58

delivery is shocking. Your delivery

1:05:01

is just shocking. I just have to tell

1:05:03

you that.

1:05:05

Well. Shock shock shock shock shock

1:05:07

everybody shock. I was shocked when you

1:05:09

found out you had them kids, because

1:05:12

you know, you cause cause you know, cause

1:05:15

you know, you know, you know. Look you kind

1:05:17

of looked like you took care of yourself, so I

1:05:19

ain't know you had all these kids. Now, I'm

1:05:21

just trying to deal with it.

1:05:24

Wow.

1:05:25

You seeing this?

1:05:26

Wow?

1:05:26

You just say anything?

1:05:28

Huh.

1:05:29

I'm not finna start my life over at

1:05:31

forty two and start picking

1:05:34

up with somebody three kids, yes,

1:05:37

but be crazy? All right?

1:05:39

Well, listen, my girlfriend and I, what

1:05:41

do you think about us going on a girl's trip Because

1:05:44

we haven't done that in a minute, and we wanted to get

1:05:46

away.

1:05:48

Hey, baby, you go on all the trips you want, but don't

1:05:50

ask me for no money cause you know, because

1:05:52

unless I'm going down there and all them girls

1:05:54

is mine, why would I pay for the trip?

1:05:57

So what did you asking me about the girl trip?

1:05:59

For me?

1:06:01

I'm just going with Claudia, my best friend.

1:06:03

You know Claudia, right, my best friend,

1:06:06

the tall one, you know her?

1:06:08

Oh Claudia, No, I won't go down now.

1:06:10

I wouldn't go down never, Claudia, no way. How

1:06:12

much Claudia away? Now? Why

1:06:16

is that a question?

1:06:22

I think we're gonna break up? I really

1:06:25

do. I really think we're gonna

1:06:28

we're breaking up. Yeah, you're too

1:06:30

much.

1:06:32

Well, you can break up with me if you want to. You

1:06:35

you have somebody to go eat with. Just ask

1:06:37

Claudia. You take your hand down.

1:06:38

And leave your

1:06:41

comments on Today's Strawberry Letter on Instagram

1:06:43

at Steve Harvey FM, and check us out

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on the Strawberry Letter podcast on the Free

1:06:48

iHeartRadio app where free never

1:06:50

sounded so good. Coming up next to his

1:06:52

Junior and Sports Talk right after this.

1:06:55

You're listening Hardy

1:06:57

Morning Show. It is time now

1:06:59

for Junior and Sports Talk. What you got

1:07:01

for is junior.

1:07:02

Okay, tray.

1:07:03

Before I get to that, let me just tell everybody June first,

1:07:05

June first, Dallas, I'm coming back.

1:07:08

The cheers.

1:07:08

Hope five K Run and Fun Walk is

1:07:11

happening again this year, and this

1:07:13

is the first year it's all sponsored,

1:07:15

so it's absolutely free. Just go to cures Hope dot

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org. That's tears Hope dot org

1:07:20

and come on out, man and watch us shake thee

1:07:22

shake, sickle sell because this is important.

1:07:24

Man.

1:07:24

This is the first year I've ever done this, absolutely

1:07:27

free. They actually sponsored is.

1:07:30

I'm gonna be there. I want everbody come out and they're gonna

1:07:32

give me another proclamation from the state of Texas.

1:07:34

Man, I'm excited to see y'all on June

1:07:36

first.

1:07:37

So let's go ahead and do that. Here

1:07:40

we go up.

1:07:41

The Pacers close out the Bucks. The

1:07:43

Knicks close out the seventy six ers. Cleveland,

1:07:47

Come on, Cleveland, Cleveland.

1:07:50

Kevalis close outlet O Game

1:07:53

seven last night one O six ninety four

1:07:55

up. Do you believe now you still

1:07:57

ain't.

1:07:57

Have closed out the series of gifts on land

1:08:00

though, yes I do.

1:08:01

Okay, but about Boston because that's what y'are playing

1:08:03

next.

1:08:06

Yes, when you're back down

1:08:08

to reality, and you got

1:08:12

to go and deal with you know, good run,

1:08:14

you know nice.

1:08:17

We're going home.

1:08:18

We're already going home.

1:08:19

Dog, Listen to me. They're

1:08:22

gonna put Boston.

1:08:23

Boston is gonna be in the NBA Finals.

1:08:26

Not in Cleveland.

1:08:27

If Cleveland show up, y'all not, they're not gonna

1:08:29

be there. If y'all just do y'all part, they're not gonna

1:08:32

be there. Don't give them that, Boston.

1:08:33

Don't give them that.

1:08:35

Dog.

1:08:35

You gotta believe you ain't

1:08:37

even you ain't even trying though, dog.

1:08:41

Already and gave up.

1:08:42

You just suck. I'm old enough now to

1:08:44

well. When I bet my money, I bet my

1:08:46

money to win. I don't bet the

1:08:48

heart no more. I stopped doing that long.

1:08:50

You don't bet the heart.

1:08:52

The heart, no, my heart wants

1:08:54

to say Cleveland gonna destroy

1:08:56

Boston. But I've seen Boston

1:08:59

play all

1:09:04

the way.

1:09:05

There's right

1:09:07

there.

1:09:08

Yeah, it's nice that we got to Now if

1:09:10

by some crazy help that

1:09:13

Cleveland win. You know, I'm on

1:09:15

the bandwagon. I'm just hanging off the back,

1:09:17

that's all. Waitnte.

1:09:20

Donald Mitchell put up thirty nine points last

1:09:22

night and you still don't believe text

1:09:25

Donovan Mitchell.

1:09:27

I text him, Thanks, Uncle, were

1:09:29

talking. I'm encouraging you, I'm

1:09:31

congratulating him in everything. You're gonna

1:09:33

text him after the first game in Boston, You're gonna

1:09:35

text him.

1:09:36

Now, I'm gonna go out.

1:09:38

I don't think.

1:09:41

I just believe in Cleveland.

1:09:42

Man.

1:09:42

I'm I'm a root for y'all. I believe y'all can get Boston.

1:09:45

Man, y'all get him. Evan

1:09:47

Mobley, Jared Allen, Donovin Mitchell,

1:09:50

that's enough.

1:09:50

We can win this. Man.

1:09:51

It's don't Here's Cleveland. Let's

1:09:54

dot Cleveland Cleveland.

1:09:57

To be in the NBA Finals.

1:09:58

Now, yes, all

1:10:01

right, thank you guys, Thank you Junior. Coming

1:10:05

up at the top of the hour, a wife Steve

1:10:07

gave her husband a Hall pass and she's

1:10:09

shocked by who he chose to use it on. She

1:10:12

definitely needs some advice. We'll get into

1:10:14

it right after this. You're listening hard

1:10:17

Morning show. This

1:10:20

is from Mackenzie in Houston. Mackenzie

1:10:23

says, I let my husband have a Hall

1:10:25

pass after he caught me sending

1:10:28

nasty text messages to another man.

1:10:30

My husband asked if I wanted to meet the woman first,

1:10:33

and I told him I didn't want to know anything

1:10:35

about her. Recently, I was shocked to

1:10:37

find out that it was our pastor's ex wife

1:10:40

that he slept with. This woman is considerably

1:10:42

older, and she acts like she's

1:10:45

old. I'm so confused by his choice,

1:10:47

and I'm furious with her for sleeping with my

1:10:49

husband. Why did he choose her? Is

1:10:52

this something they both have been wanting to do

1:10:54

all along?

1:10:57

He's stupid. It's

1:11:00

something they done done before. First

1:11:04

of all, do you want to meet her? And

1:11:06

all this?

1:11:07

He'll mess?

1:11:08

They don't done this before. Old ass,

1:11:10

old past old wife been breaking it

1:11:12

off with him for some time.

1:11:14

Now, now you send the nasty Texas.

1:11:17

Now you didn't give your man a hall pass? Now

1:11:19

you shocked at after who he picked.

1:11:22

I tell you what, well,

1:11:25

No, let me stay out this hall pass

1:11:27

conversation. I do the hall pass

1:11:29

because you give it to me. You know it's

1:11:31

not even gonna make no sense, no

1:11:39

law, what

1:11:41

you're gonna do, How relationship will forever

1:11:44

be changed? Let

1:11:51

me just go on, stay on this little straight now, all

1:11:57

right?

1:11:59

We do have to for another one. See this is from

1:12:01

Anna in on Long

1:12:03

Island. She says, I'm in love with a

1:12:05

married man. And he told me he filed

1:12:07

for divorce, and he had me

1:12:10

tour homes with him. I thought he was

1:12:13

buying the house and moving in, But the

1:12:15

realtor called me yesterday and said she needs

1:12:17

to run my credit because the least will be

1:12:19

in my name. My man,

1:12:22

that I assumed he was buying a house for us,

1:12:24

and he said it's more like my

1:12:27

house. Why did he change the plans

1:12:30

because.

1:12:31

He got Well,

1:12:33

yeah, because he's getting a divorce.

1:12:35

That can't show up. Yeah,

1:12:39

this can't show up nowhere. He's

1:12:42

getting a divorce. He can't be out

1:12:45

filling out credit apps. What

1:12:49

you think he can't do none of this here? Man?

1:12:53

Uhh now that is

1:12:55

gone.

1:12:56

No mm hmm, he

1:13:03

can't.

1:13:03

He can't fill out no paperwork going

1:13:06

to.

1:13:10

This special your house.

1:13:14

Yeah, he's still gotta go to court.

1:13:16

He gotta go to court. Another

1:13:20

house.

1:13:21

Well, yeah, it's gonna be there.

1:13:23

Little much mortgage company

1:13:25

thedeed the time comes.

1:13:26

Wait, wait a minute, this

1:13:29

house now.

1:13:30

So him and Kendrick got a house. Huh

1:13:35

okay, all right, then put

1:13:37

that in that jug.

1:13:40

Oh man.

1:13:41

Yeah, for how he's

1:13:43

gonna find all of that? They're gonna find

1:13:45

everything.

1:13:48

We get through with this ass says, we're gonna see where

1:13:50

your ass said, we're gonna.

1:13:51

See We're

1:13:56

gonna get through these assets, your

1:13:59

assets, right.

1:14:04

No, So

1:14:07

that's it. He's married and he

1:14:09

can't do it like that. So you really think

1:14:11

he's gonna file for a divorce. He's gonna get a divorce.

1:14:14

You really think that's Steve?

1:14:15

Oh he running game? No, they filed

1:14:18

for divorce. Uh huh, but he

1:14:20

can't have no paper.

1:14:21

Trail, right right, she

1:14:24

frustrated Steve Man.

1:14:27

This house at folks three five long.

1:14:29

Notice, y'all need to get off this subject,

1:14:38

like where this is going?

1:14:39

Yeah?

1:14:40

No, all

1:14:42

right, this ranch

1:14:45

style hall ween?

1:14:46

No, nothing about.

1:14:48

What?

1:14:51

All right?

1:14:53

Coming up at twenty minutes after, we'll have more

1:14:55

of the Steve Harvey Morning Show. You don't want

1:14:57

to miss a minute of it. Right after

1:15:00

this. You're listening Morning

1:15:03

Show, all

1:15:06

right, Junior, This one's for you. Okay. We

1:15:08

all know Single to Mayo was yesterday, so

1:15:11

we wanted to make sure that you were aware that your

1:15:13

favorite restaurant is celebrating

1:15:15

single Tomayo all month. Okay,

1:15:18

you know who your favorite Okay, all

1:15:20

this month? Yeah, all the

1:15:23

during the month of May. Apple Bee's

1:15:25

your apple Bee. Okay,

1:15:28

they're gonna be serving what he

1:15:31

loved, Applebee. So

1:15:37

Applebee's are going to be is going

1:15:39

to be serving the dollar Rea, the dollar

1:15:42

dollar, Rida dollar.

1:15:43

Y'all have got to go down there and get Now, what is that?

1:15:45

What is the dollar? Rita you need?

1:15:47

It's a dollar for margarita at Applebee's.

1:15:50

Nice.

1:15:51

Yeah, let me tell you something. This month of

1:15:53

May, all my business meetings is that beat.

1:15:55

Me there, But

1:15:58

you're going to mix business with dollar?

1:16:01

Did you hear the number one?

1:16:03

One one?

1:16:06

Why are we going somewhere else when it's teen?

1:16:08

It's one over here? Same

1:16:11

day of the tailor, same one? Did

1:16:17

I celebrate single to my kind of punch a

1:16:19

wall some

1:16:22

rope black as hell?

1:16:29

So you'll you'll be at Applebee's if we need

1:16:31

to find Eujuni, we know where to look for you.

1:16:33

Okay, mat Fact Junior is Spanish.

1:16:38

We'll have.

1:16:40

The Steve Harvey Morning Show coming up in thirty three

1:16:42

minutes after the hour, we'll play

1:16:45

around the would you rather? Right after this you're

1:16:49

listening hard Morning

1:16:51

Show, It is time now for around

1:16:54

the would you rather? Here we go? Would

1:16:57

you rather? Spoon and cuddle

1:16:59

all night, or would you rather

1:17:01

sleep nose to nose all night?

1:17:03

Oh we came nose to know.

1:17:05

Oh hell, spoon and cover spoon.

1:17:08

We're gonna have to do that.

1:17:09

Spoon, spoon and cuddle.

1:17:11

Yeah, and that's eventually gonna turn

1:17:13

into two knives. We're gonna separate.

1:17:18

From the spoon. What

1:17:21

we ain't gonna do be face to face all.

1:17:23

Night, Junior,

1:17:27

spoon and cuddle, face

1:17:29

to face.

1:17:31

Chain.

1:17:31

By two thirty, we

1:17:34

got it down to a time.

1:17:36

Now yeah,

1:17:38

what No, I'm gonna yawn and

1:17:41

I'm gonna end the whole evening if he knows,

1:17:43

you know, go

1:17:46

be it all right?

1:17:49

All right? Would you rather here we go

1:17:51

see Tommy and Junior do a ten

1:17:53

city tour ten city tour?

1:17:56

Or would you rather start a podcast?

1:17:58

Which one? Oh?

1:17:59

No, ten ten city tour? You know

1:18:01

what I want to do that man, that's tour.

1:18:05

Can we do a ten city tour? We can go on

1:18:07

Thursday Sunday and be halfway through. We do

1:18:09

that real quick.

1:18:10

I like it.

1:18:12

Can you tell me the particulars of

1:18:14

the tour, Junior as you see it, how you

1:18:16

see the tour playing out? Tommy

1:18:19

go host feature you close?

1:18:21

What you mean I was gonna work out.

1:18:26

And were gonna get a check too.

1:18:29

Radio boys coming to a city.

1:18:31

Come on, come, you've got your dream

1:18:38

deferred.

1:18:39

Yeah, see what, I don't think

1:18:41

that's the tool I just and

1:18:44

then you know, Junior, you assume Tommy

1:18:46

Gold hosts and then you're gonna feature. And

1:18:49

you know if we go out like that, they can't go

1:18:51

out. You'd have to be you first, then Tommy,

1:18:55

then Tommy. Mind Tommy, think it to be

1:18:57

you then meeting him.

1:19:01

He's right, so

1:19:05

you guys are opening for him.

1:19:08

Yeah, let's let it

1:19:10

all. Let yeah, all

1:19:13

hosts, then Jr. And

1:19:15

then I'll shut it down.

1:19:17

Okay, you okay with that? Happy

1:19:22

geez every combination

1:19:25

you don't want, you all, none of it.

1:19:27

Just say you don't want to go period.

1:19:31

Okay, we're moving on, all

1:19:33

right.

1:19:33

Would you rather never clip your toenails

1:19:36

or never use wet wipes again?

1:19:39

Oh?

1:19:39

I can't lose my nasty

1:19:42

the way I can't lose

1:19:44

my quad white man, right

1:19:48

girl, But

1:19:54

we've got to cut these toe nails.

1:19:59

But you gotta keep your wife's all

1:20:01

right. Coming up next, that's today's rounding.

1:20:04

Would you rather coming up next? Last

1:20:06

break of the day and Stee we'll close

1:20:09

out the show right after this.

1:20:10

The one I know Wanda Raymond's

1:20:12

web wife.

1:20:14

You're listening morning

1:20:17

show. All right here we are, guys on

1:20:19

this Monday, our last break of the

1:20:21

day.

1:20:23

This is it. I

1:20:26

have some closing remarks today. I

1:20:30

was thinking about something and

1:20:33

I said, wow, you know what, man, I

1:20:36

want to share this with people because I

1:20:39

had to readjust my thinking and

1:20:44

once I did that, it changed

1:20:47

my success process. And

1:20:49

I often hear people making excuses

1:20:52

for why they're not successful. So

1:20:55

my closing remarks today is to help you with

1:20:57

that part of it. Right here, Listen

1:21:00

to this, y'all. It's an adjustment. It's a mental

1:21:02

adjustment that you have to make. It's

1:21:05

a slight change in the

1:21:07

way you're saying things. So

1:21:10

here's what I'm saying to you. Stop

1:21:13

making excuses why

1:21:16

not? Listen to me carefully,

1:21:19

Stop making excuses why

1:21:22

not and make those

1:21:24

excuses your why

1:21:26

too. See. I've

1:21:28

thought about this thing, man. Most

1:21:31

of the excuses that I've heard

1:21:34

from myself and from other

1:21:36

people. If you took

1:21:39

those same excuses that you're

1:21:41

using as why

1:21:43

you're not accomplishing something, why

1:21:45

you're not doing something, Why you're not successful.

1:21:48

If you took those same excuses and

1:21:51

turned them around and made those

1:21:53

excuses your why too, it

1:21:56

would be a game changer. See,

1:21:58

you need reasons why

1:22:01

you should be successful. That's

1:22:03

what you need. You don't

1:22:06

need excuses. You need

1:22:08

to find reasons why you should

1:22:10

be successful. Listen,

1:22:14

If your excuse is i'm poor,

1:22:18

well I would do this, but I ain't gotten

1:22:20

i'm poor. That's

1:22:23

a good reason that

1:22:25

you should use to make more money. See,

1:22:28

the thing that you're using as the excuse

1:22:32

should oftentimes become the reason

1:22:34

or the motivation if you think about

1:22:36

it. But it's up to you now you have to

1:22:38

make that adjustment. So if you're sick

1:22:40

and tired of being poor, that's a good

1:22:43

reason to want to be motivated to make

1:22:45

a little bit more money. Now,

1:22:48

if your excuse is I

1:22:51

don't know the right people. Ever

1:22:54

heard that before? Man, I just ain't

1:22:56

I just don't know that I ain't meant the right people. And

1:23:00

that's why you need to start associating with

1:23:02

a new group. See,

1:23:04

you not knowing the right people can't be the excuse.

1:23:07

It has to be the reason for you to do

1:23:10

something else. You need to start associating

1:23:12

with a new group. You know something,

1:23:14

It's easy to meet people. It

1:23:17

really is. It's easy to meet people. You've met

1:23:19

all the people you know. How

1:23:21

hard was it? You

1:23:24

just went to where they was doing a certain thing and

1:23:26

you was participating in that certain thing, and then

1:23:28

they became an associate of yours. You

1:23:30

have to change that. You have to use those

1:23:32

same reasons why not to

1:23:34

turn them into the reason why to Your

1:23:38

excuse is no

1:23:40

one ever taught me how? Well,

1:23:46

if nobody ever taught you how, then

1:23:48

don't you think that's a good reason that you

1:23:50

need to train and educate yourself. See

1:23:54

that excuse of nobody ever taught

1:23:56

me how? So what they

1:23:58

got the Internet? Now? You know you

1:24:00

can google anything. If

1:24:02

ain't nobody ever taught you how? This is a perfect

1:24:05

time for you to train and educate yourself.

1:24:07

Stop using these excuses for

1:24:09

why not and get

1:24:12

these reasons and use them as the why

1:24:14

too. If your excuse

1:24:17

is your family, your

1:24:20

excuse is your family? My

1:24:23

family? This my family? That excuse

1:24:26

me? Get some friends. See,

1:24:30

you actually get to pick your friends. You

1:24:33

were born into the family, and if you were

1:24:35

born into the wrong family, pick yourself

1:24:37

some friends. Association

1:24:40

brings on participation. My

1:24:43

family, I'll love them to death, but

1:24:45

I can only go so far with them. We can only

1:24:47

talk about certain things. We got to stop the conversation

1:24:50

ins because they're not going

1:24:52

where I'm going. They don't want what I want.

1:24:55

Now, I got some other friends. I can bring all these

1:24:57

subjects up to stop

1:25:00

using an excuse that, well, it's my

1:25:02

family. Skip your family, get

1:25:05

yourself some friends. You

1:25:07

get to pick those people. I

1:25:10

don't know what to do next, that's your

1:25:12

excuse. Well, that would be

1:25:14

a good time to develop a relationship with God,

1:25:16

wouldn't you say? If you

1:25:19

don't ever know what to do next, if

1:25:21

you're stuck because you don't know what to do next,

1:25:24

this excuse is a good reason to

1:25:27

develop a relationship with God, because guess

1:25:29

what, I bet he know what to do next. Trust

1:25:33

me, I've had to turn that way many times.

1:25:35

I'll be turning that way today. I

1:25:39

don't know how. I

1:25:42

don't know how I'm gonna do that. I just don't

1:25:44

know how I'm gonna do it. Then, guess what,

1:25:47

this is a good reason for you to use

1:25:50

your faith. I don't know how,

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I don't see how, I don't see

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how I'm gonna make that happen. Well, you

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need to develop your faith, faith, the

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belief in things you cannot see. I

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didn't see my life I have today, but

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I faithd it. I believe that

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I would have some type of life, and then he

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messed around and gave me exceedingly abundantly

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over all, I thought, I asked, that's

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the beautiful thing about that relationship with God?

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And let's how about this right, I don't have a

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plan. Well, if you don't have a plan,

1:26:21

guess what you need to dream. You

1:26:24

need to dream about something to

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put a plan too. Stop

1:26:30

using your excuses why not, and

1:26:33

take those same excuses and make it

1:26:35

your why too. Come on, y'all, it's

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a mental adjustment. All you have

1:26:40

to do is change the way you think from negative

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to positive, and the results immediately

1:26:44

will follow. It's automatically

1:26:47

done that way. Thank you for

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listening. And if you didn't listen,

1:26:52

it's okay too. I'll have something

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else tomorrow, maybe thatt a hit

1:26:56

home. Y'all, have a nice day, see

1:26:59

you tomorrow. Talk to God, he'd

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loved to hear from.

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